watching tiktok until I find the most toxic MIL - REACTION

[@tanyaespinozadelosmonteros8510]

The lady that punched the MIL, in the story she was recovering from a C-section, so she (the MIL) hit her stomach (hard enough that everyone heard it) where she had been opened up from it, she punched her as a reaction to the pain.

[@kelly420s]

Wow that's even more terrible..

[@lakshmir7616]

That justifies the punching

[@shanoaraine8199]

as a c-section mom as well i too would punch

[@bekkakay8573]

Thanks for this information. MIL was out of line already, but this adds an entirely different dimension to what she did. How disgusting!😮

[@erikarussell1142]

Well that makes sense!!!

[@BossladyShruti]

THIS HAIR ON YOU LOOKS GORGEOUS CHARLOTTE!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@sarahsmith7071]

Right!!! Loving the Mermaid hair 😍🤩

[@thesudzybuddha2123]

I thought the same! She's just glowing. ❤

[@watchingthewheelsgoround260]

I was just going to say that. 😂

[@DanielleAustin-kf5mv]

100% agree, so gorgeous!

[@Tayxox]

I was just about to comment this! She looking beauuutiful!

[@EllaGreenn]

"I'm not passive aggressive, I'm aggressive aggressive." "I'm marrying your son, die mad about it, we love each other, whatever" 🔥🎼🏆😂 I love this ladyyyyy!!!!

[@Blondie77128]

Yes! I told my husband he can tell his mother I’m not going anywhere. I’m gonna be right here long after she’s gone and she can’t do shit about it. He laughed good and hard with me on that one. Then later took her for coffee to have a talk about her behavior.

[@elenawilliams32]

Same.😂 But WHO gives used lingerie to anyone? Let alone you MIL...🚩

[@erikarussell1142]

That’s the best sentence I’ve ever heard. Mostly because that’s what my husband to be told his mom. Now they don’t talk because she couldn’t be nice. Lol which is sad, because I absolutely love her. She’s a petty lil mean thing and acts like a middle school mean girl. I think she’s so funny!!

[@mapatterson173]

It needs to be on a tee shirt. It’s my new favorite quip.

[@arbonneladyTN]

❤️❤️❤️yes!!!

[@middlesys9180]

I love how he refers to and talks about his wife. He's an evolved man and Candace must be a gem.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@KarmatheCorgi]

I strive to be this good.

[@kittykat8177]

@@KarmatheCorgi I strive to find this good

[@ByronBTB]

He misrepresented how fire sprinkler systems work, so I'm thinking the whole story is probably fake...

[@katherinepadron0628]

​@ByronBTB what do you mean? And don't say the sprinkles wouldn't have gone off from the smoke of a cigarette because it WOULD go off from a flame being placed close enough. He never said someone PULLED the alarm, he said it was SET OFF.

[@ByronBTB]

​@@katherinepadron0628​ you're confusing smoke detectors, heat detectors, and sprinklers... smoke and heat detectors are not very difficult to activate. They are a early warning device to occupants of the building. They do not, in turn, activate a sprinkler system. Smoke and heat detectors are sensitive early warning devices, sprinklers help protect the building' structure long after anyone in the area has expired from smoke inhalation. Sprinklers are activated by heat, individually... I doubt a lighter would suffice very easily. A hammer would be quicker. It would be kind of obvious what was happening though, seeing some crazed woman running around a party swinging at each sprinkler head. The movies that depict all the sprinklers going off at once are a Hollywood invention.

[@yarraidalg]

"there's a grand total of 0 people who can cuss out my wife" bro is a KEEPER

[@marthaarciniega8244]

I wish all the men were like that.

[@Teresia12]

Absolutely

[@DF-es6tx]

I’m sure he also knows his mom is just trash

[@analea6531]

I clapped at that!!!

[@stephenbanks5952]

She sounded awful. My Mum does not even text and would never swear like that. On top of that she would always offer to help and never ask to get paid. It always surprises me that not all mums are like that and what people have to put up with.

[@PartyGirl1510001]

The wife punching MIL story!!! The wife found the reddit post from the husband and posted HER SIDE!!!! There were MANY conversations between wife and husband about MILs behavior over the years but husband always ignored her and sided with MIL. The punch really was the last straw and she decided she didn't wanna be in a marriage where she's not only abused by mil, but also ignored by husband. It was so crazy to ready

[@Roadent1241]

I think the punch is well deserved. You can't tell a person who is actively feeding two beings to lose weight. She needs that energy and bab needs that milk. Or maybe I'm clueless because I'm not planning on having kids being disabled and all. Just seems like hard work.

[@TheDarkXn]

It's sad that there was already a baby by the time she got out but that's hindsight for you 😕

[@J4d3W0lf]

Where can I find her side? I’ve seen his side. Did she make her own post or comment on his?

[@GaiasDotter]

@@J4d3W0lfyea this, I need her side too! Can’t imagine how much worse it is, he tried making it look better and still looked like a complete assclown ETA: found it, 76 days old, on r/AITAH, title: My response to my husband’s post “AITA for kicking my wife out after she punched my mom in the face?”

[@jessk457]

I believe the MIL hit her in the belly a few days after labour and hard enough that the husband heard the hit. The MIL literally assaulted his wife and there was a history of the MIL and niece eating her food.

[@Jewels5241]

Whenever I was in the other room, my MIL would tell my kids she was ‘mom’. “Look what mom got you?,” “Come over to mom?” My kids would look confused and I was angered. One day I overheard her and yelled out, “I’m the only mom they have! Thank you!” She laughed and shrugged it off. My toddlers corrected her from then on and she gave up. I love my kids.

[@priscilalondon]

This reminded me of a story of a mother who took her daughter’s son while the daughter was recovering from serious health issues. She made the boy call her mom (she was his grandma) and her husband dad. When her daughter, the boy’s real mother, came to pick him up, he was confused and wasn’t allowed to go with her. It was messy, and sadly, the momster killed her own daughter to steal the boy because she couldn’t have kids anymore but her husband wanted to be a father. You should be really careful with your mil. Trying to teach your kids that she is their mom is really disturbing.

[@SMC1986]

@@priscilalondon FORREAL!!?

[@BethanyWilcoxBlue]

My mom is like this. She decided to be called “Nana” to my daughter because we love and adore our Nana. It has made it confusing ever since and is now has a negative connotation when heard. She is a not nice person, and we would cut her out but she holds my dad’s love hostage. In a very literal sense, if we don’t see her, we don’t see him.

[@XxGothKayxX]

My kids dad's mom used to tell my kids to call her "mama" the Spanish version of mom because she didn't like being called "grandma" and my first kid got confused so she would call her momma and call me by my first name. My kids dad would correct my daughter everytime she would call her "grandma" but not when she would call me by my first name even though I expressed that I did not want my child calling me by my first name and having her call her basically mom out in public. For reference I'm black and they are white so no one would have known I was her mother because my daughter looks just like her dad. It hurts me that he wouldn't stand up for me at all. She doesn't like us because I made my kids call her by her first name because she didn't want to find a middle ground. He blames me and I don't care. It was the first time I've ever stood up for myself in my life. It felt scary and kinda good with a splash of regret because I hate it when people are mad at me and they were. I put up with it for a whole year before I finally said something.

[@ChallengeAccepted369]

My husband overheard MY mother doing the same to our kids, and not only did it upset me but I was also so confused as to why anyone would do that??? It was so strange. Like make up a nickname if it's because you don't want to be called Grandma. But have them call YOU 'mom'??? Why?! That makes NO sense. I still to this day don't understand that interaction.

[@TruckerWife]

That husband with the pregnant wife is a gem. Reminds me of my hubby. He has had difficult conversations with his mother. Her and I actually have a decent relationship now after he told her how terrible she made me feel for like 7 years as a wife. She actually understood and felt really bad and now we talk on a regular basis.

[@kittykat8177]

she felt bad for nothing but the possible ultimatum of losing her son. 7 years of abuse? Come on, I call BS, I'd never forgive her, but good if it's working out for you

[@sashanavis7618]

“There is a grand total of 0 people who are ever gunna cuss out my wife” WHAT A MAN! Best husband of the year award goes to him

[@alexbc7360]

To quote Charlotte earlier in the video: we find that on Amazon? What a man, indeed!

[@jennymoore8509]

But he doesn't believe his mother would trash the party? He's in denial 😢

[@chlyri]

@@jennymoore8509 tbf, if she hasn't done anything of that magnitude before, then it can be really hard to believe without hard evidence. until everything lines up with no gaps, there can always be other explanations, and even when one explanation leaves no holes, there can still be others. plenty of kids don't want to believe the worst of their parents and it's not denial until they are actively ignoring hard evidence... like camera footage.

[@yetiyarnworks6578]

That man needs to teach others his ways. Men watching, take note.

[@missaniebananie6473]

That is the way it should be! He chose his wife, no choice on who his mother is. His wife has only demonstrated how kind and understanding she is and it is clear that he knows she is a wonderful person. I am glad they found each other

[@NilZed1]

You need to look up that punched mother in law story. I saw it in Reddit and there was way more to it. MIL wasn’t ‘patting’ her belly, she injured the wife’s C section wounds. Him putting her and the baby out was the last straw. No matter how upset he was, he didn’t just put mom before his wife, her put her before his newborn.

[@nyxbul]

omgggg this is so horrible :(

[@AngelJuliet]

I made a comment about stomachs being sensitive right after birth. Let alone c section wounds. The mil commenting on her weight right after birth is outrageous

[@EH23831]

Yup! His newborn should be his first priority- newborn’s mumma is a package deal. What a stellar guy 🤨😒

[@msskaggs3911]

This is disgusting. I don't care how much confusion or commotion there was surrounding this situation, the father's ("SOB") duty is to (1) his children, and (2) his wife. Nothing short of witnessing the wife commit cold-blooded murder should have compelled SOB to kick out his wife and infant child. Based on the facts and circumstances, I'm guessing there was history between the mother ("POS") and the wife, and if this is the case then SOB should have permitted POS to be anywhere near the wife during this time. My wife had a relatively rough pregnancy (nothing life-threatening, but she was sick every day of her pregnancy until the very last week), but that didn't compare to what she went through for about 3 months postpartum. It was the happiest time of our lives, but at the same time she struggled so hard just to feel/act like herself. We've been married for 20 years, and it was the only time I felt protective over her, because it was the only time I ever doubted her ability to do so. It is absolutely incomprehensible to me how SOB could fail to protect his wife from his own mother during this time. His decision to ask his wife and infant child to leave just proves that he's an absolute scumbag.

[@abvhrulz]

That story was wild. My jaw was on the floor every time I’ve heard it.

[@elsasosa177]

My MIL told my mom as soon as she arrived to my wedding venue that “any comment about my weight and she will never see me again”. I no longer talk to my mom she did comment on my weight but that was just one of many. Best MIL in the world!

[@candacestamper6769]

I can't wait to meet whoever my son eventually brings home. Of course there's a chance I don't like them, but that's still a huge milestone.

[@tinawoodruff6625]

I love this for you ❤

[@mberry4481]

the thing is ladies, you tell your nurses that you DONT want someone in there, they WILL absolutely have your back and come up with a reason to kick them out. My sister's nurse gave her a code word if she wanted to kick our mom out. 🤣🤣

[@twilight2010ful]

Report that nurse! Major major violation.

[@deborahbutcher3933]

Report her for misuse of her credentials. Do it.

[@valsptsd814]

Violating patient request. Placing herself as a caregiver for actual family. Nursing Boards want to know these things.

[@Chelloowie]

I'm a nurse and I 100% agree! None of my colleagues even the most annoying ones (lol) would do this! It's an abuse of her position, big time.

[@Rickettsia505]

Call hospital legal, it is protocol NOT to care for family. Hubby was useless.

[@twilight2010ful]

Yeah. I’m really hoping that girl reports her. That’s so crazy.

[@ellieresh5482]

The mother in law who ruined the baby shower ... ABSOLUTELY NOT. Straight to the trash and no contact. Shes so petty she's punishing her son and grankids?! Wild. She TOTALLY did it.

[@Rose_Castle]

Don't worry, this guy fakes his stories.

[@Good.Morning.Petty.Potatoes]

​@@Rose_Castleseriously?

[@CS-ux7mz]

​@@Rose_Castle I remember this exact story from reddit previously. I wondered if he stole it from there or somebody stole it from him

[@moonhunter9993]

sue her for damages

[@Rose_Castle]

@CS-ux7mz Well, when I confronted him about his fake stories he defended himself saying that lots of people do it. A very strong argument.

[@kaitlinm4896]

I’ve read both sides of the MIL punching story. When the MIL was slapping the wife’s stomach, she was hitting the wife’s cesarian wound which obviously would have hurt. It was a classic case of husband kept siding with his mother over the years and regretted everything after wife had enough of his bs

[@susiedupuy9532]

Hell...I didn't even touch my C-section incision. I would expect my husband to tell Mom to leave and not come back.

[@lilu2038]

Did it say she had a c-section?

[@ForeverLumoz]

@@lilu2038yes it did

[@kaitlinm4896]

@@lilu2038 Yes, the post the wife wrote did

[@claudiaayala9654]

Where is the full story please?

[@jennywiswell]

22:34 Awe! Ott! Sounds like a kids' book character. 🤓 My dad always went by, "Grandad" like his dad was my grandad, and my daughter couldn't pronounce the "G" sound when she was little, so she called him "Dan Dan".❤️. He traveled the world as a professor for overseas troops, so he sent her frequent letters from across the globe. From when she started talking, to the day he died, he always signed his letters to her: "Dan Dan". Even just before he passed when she was 30. Dan Dan.❤

[@autumnmoon999]

That’s so cute 🫶🏻

[@kryw10]

MIL punching story: she’s not serving divorce papers for this incident. This is a whole situation and the incident was the tippy tip top of the iceberg. There is so much more information we need.

[@jassimins4484]

In this reddit post he stated that his mother already behaved 'weird' to his wife after they announced the pregnancy. He let his mother disrespect his wife for a while

[@harleykittin5232]

And the MIL slapped the wife hard across the stomach first

[@WillFors]

There is! MIL hit the new mother in the stomach and she had just had a c-section!!

[@HardcoreLevelingBaka]

The Wife actually posted her side of the story on Reddit

[@spherecleaning3606]

If someone is punching my mom, I'm asking why..

[@furiscafynn6275]

The fact he put THE BABY OUT TOO would also have me serving divorce papers.

[@yell09999]

This!!!! Like if you want to clear your head why aren't you the one to leave why do you have to trow your wife and newborn in God knows where TF!

[@mercycunningham2813]

Rest assured the story was all over reddit. She shared all the tea and served him.

[@seahawksfan9429]

Divorce papers, and dumbass hubby's head on a platter.

[@blackdragoness21]

What bothered me is all the Mommas Boys in the comments coming to the "husband's" defense. It's not like any of those wussies will ever experience C-sections.

[@dynogamergurl]

Wouldn’t that be child indeagerment? A newborn even with the mother can’t be homeless. That sounds like some kind of abuse

[@tiffanygrove4549]

The fact that the guy said there’s a total of zero people that will disrespect my wife (even his own mother) is amazing and my soon to be husband is the same way. He will cut ANYONE and EVERYONE off if they disrespect me in anyway!

[@Pepper-v5e]

My husband too and boiii has his toxic sisters gotten a taste of that. After the sh*tshow they pulled on me a few years ago he went no contact with both of them and I really love him for that.

[@carolr7333]

I am so glad for you and for others out there whose spouses put THEM first. Although my ex-H and I are separated by many years (and 3K miles-me Long Island, New York, him in So. Cal), we are still friends, and one of the many reasons why is him standing up for me vs. my MIL. She looks like Marie Barone from Everybody Loves Raymond, and acts like Mother Soprano. I joked about when she was going to put the hit out on me, perhaps right after her weekly "Beauty Parlor" routine with a stop at the gun supply store. Why? BC I am from Blue Collar to mid White Collar Brooklyn nabe, where my Dad was 'just' an NYPD Lieut. When I got my Juris Doctorate law and passed the hardest Bar Exam in the country with little studying, I told him "NOW she can call me "DOCTOR White Trash" from now on.

[@GeoD007]

I also think the MIL totally set off the fire alarm. That "I guess I have no choice" text of hers makes it highly likely she was just bitter and FUCKED UP in the head enough to pull such a stunt. If that had been me, I would have basically cut her COMPLETELY out my life at that point.

[@suebybrenton1116]

My boys had their grandmother and great grandmother around and were always saying “not you nanny, the other nanny” so many times their great grandmother ended up being christened “other nanny” haha. She loved it.

[@livesolarge]

The nurse story just creeps me out. I am a nurse and this woman violated HIPPA and was not in the need to know. Yes you can reach out to the hospital's Compliance Department to report this.

[@8chas1]

Came here to find someone that had already said this. Nurse here too, blatant HIPPA violation, as a nurse she knows that. This would get you fired quick where I work.

[@Shaytan.666]

I hope she reported that witch This is so ridiculous imagine your sister standing up for you better than your husband and not allowing her to see the baby But it's always the case when someone confronts an abuser or stands up for themselves they are ostracized instead of the person doing the harm

[@memebrown7732]

My hubs and I didn’t want anyone there while we had our girl. So much so that we made sure our names were not in the directory when you called. We were the only ones who knew we were there and what room. MIL was retired from the hospital where I gave birth. Imagine our surprise when she waltzed in because a nurse at the hospital gave her that information. We reported her and she was fired.

[@Terahnee]

If you're a nurse you should know it's HIPAA.

[@kayteeoconnell2469]

Report her to the hospital and the state nursing board. Immediately.

[@Kh4487mydude]

My future mil wants to be called “pepper” by any grandkids so, in response to that, fil has decided to be called “salt”. Honestly I hope they stick with it. I think that’s hilarious.

[@Kt-cn2rq]

Hah I would love it. Least its fun.

[@AndrewMcSkiah]

I want to be that kind of FIL/grandpa 🤣

[@stormtellier3804]

i think that's cute especially since I grew up on blues clues as a child

[@AIvska]

That’s the best thing I’ve ever heard

[@nicolejones3686]

Aww how cute 🥰🤣

[@HalfLatinaJoy86]

The guy with the fire alarm story at the $9000 baby shower should file a police report. They might not be able to prove it, but maybe they can with video cameras, etc. It costs money for the fire department to have to show up to things. If they CAN prove it, file a restraining order on the MIL. He is really awesome for standing up for his wife.

[@jhousing1]

It's gotta be a fake story. Fire sprinkler systems don't work that way.

[@heatherboz]

They can easily prove it because when you pull any fire alarm it leaves a dye on your hands

[@schrdngrskat3847]

​@@heatherbozI think she set it off with the cigarette

[@heather8307]

The hotel should sue her as well She definitely needs to be arrested

[@vanbiohazard]

His story is fake, which is why he doesn't report it. He has posted previous stories that always makes him out to be the good guy/hero.

[@nancypierce8500]

Just wow! I was so blessed to have an absolute angel of a MIL. I'm so grateful, RIP Judy ❤

[@ColorfulCollector]

I'm sorry for your loss

[@lilu2038]

MIL that took her son's nursing wife's food and then called her fat was literally asking to get punched in the face.

[@dusk194]

She was also slapping her 7 week post partum stomach

[@skylordjojo8454]

And it wasn't a normal birth. It was a c section she hit the scar.

[@WhimsicalWorm]

​@@skylordjojo8454and opened the wound!!! 😮

[@samanthapaige7395]

@@skylordjojo8454I heard the story, I don’t think it was even 7 weeks, I’m pretty sure she had only been home for a few days at that point. The woman is lucky her incision didn’t reopen 😢

[@Kt-cn2rq]

​@@samanthapaige7395ahh it was so painful first week even with the meds to lift my leg over the tub take a shower. My husband had to pick up and over it. 😅

[@Reigns_mama]

The husband gender reveal guy is amazing! He set that boundary and kept it. He is 110% there for his wifey. We need more guys like this!

[@TheBaumcm]

Let’s be honest. There are a lot of them but it’s more fun to hear about the stinkers.

[@Da_bear-ij9gm]

@@TheBaumcmyou certainly have a funny definition of “honest” 😂 perhaps the word you’re looking for is “wishful thinking”

[@Reigns_mama]

@Da_bear-ij9gm my delusional ass thinking that most guys are good, got me into a lot of trouble

[@devinfriedman7578]

I love the way that husband spoke about his wife... she sounds amazing and he is a great hubby for having her back and demanding the respect that his wife deserves..❤ that MIL is sus AF....

[@juliannaschober8457]

As a breastfeeding mom…. YOU DO NOT TAKE FOOD AWAY FROM ME…. Period. The breastfeeding hunger is WILD!!!!

[@HardcoreLevelingBaka]

Another aspect to the story was that it wasn’t just a smack to the it was basically a punch as it was so loud that it caught the attention of everyone in the room (Husband conveniently left that part out, Op’s wife posted her side, and he admitted it in an update) but his wife was also recovering from an abdominal split from the pregnancy and MIL knew it when she hit her. (Yet another thing that the husband left out)

[@erikarussell1142]

It is even more insatiable than the pregnancy hunger. Fr. Leave people’s food alone, let people eat what they want when they want, and do not ever come for a breastfeeding mom. Period. And if any of my breastfeeding babes need help, just lmk. Because I too am aggressive aggressive.

[@diamcole]

@@HardcoreLevelingBaka I came here to say this! She legit hurt her doing that. Who in their right mind would even touch, let alone smack, a woman's stomach knowing she was recovering from an abdominal split caused during the pregnancy?!

[@ashleenicole71]

Yes. After my daughter I always felt hungry. It was somewhat annoying 😂

[@Kamechan98]

And also, isn’t it dangerous for a woman who’s breastfeeding to not eat? I’m not an expert but I’ve heard that if you don’t eat enough while breastfeeding your teeth can fall out of your mouth because your body is taking the calcium from the teeth to give it to your child through the milk. So if you are breastfeeding and it being allowed to eat, isn’t that really dangerous for a woman’s health? Please educate me if I’m wrong but if it is, it’s awful to withhold food from someone who’s breastfeeding.

[@samwalkerlondon87]

Fun fact from here in UK: Queen Elizabeth II was called "Gary" by Princes William and Harry as they struggled saying "Granny". She liked the nickname and allowed them to call her "Gary" even into adulthood. That's a secure grandmother 😁

[@meadowsong8560]

That is so sweet. Thanks for sharing.

[@phaedrapage4217]

Well, she was a mechanic. And a total bad-ass.

[@jenniebeann]

Came to the comments to tell the same fact. It's such a good story.

[@Roadent1241]

N'awwww!!

[@hannahwilson4184]

MIL who was a nurse and showed up to the birth should be reported and fired and/or suspended for violating HIPAA. That’s not okay

[@spicypizza6116]

In my hospital system, you get fired for that. I would not be surprised if it is already in the works.

[@gaudior13]

And MIL being a charge nurse might have made her intimidated the other nurses. I know nurses are so busy, but it would be nice if all patients could decide who visits, and the staff would take care of that. And women in labor have already conveyed who they want with them.

[@loosilu]

Apparently it's a fake story.

[@Nana_Lala_]

Exactly

[@Nana_Lala_]

​@@loosiluwhere is the story that says that?

[@MelodysHangout]

“GET THE F***K OUTTTTTTTTT“ had me dying😂

[@deniseharris9320]

Your oldest kid usually picks their name. My mother-in-law wanted her and her husband to be called Papa John and Grandma Lynn. My oldest son couldn't say grandma when he was learning to talk, but he could say papa, so they became papa John and papa Lynn. It's been 28 years, and she's still papa Lynn, and she's proud of it because he chose it.

[@givepeasachance7]

That is absolutely adorable. I love a wholesome anecdote.

[@danachristie7106]

My cousins called my mom and dad aunty Chan and Uncle Bull until they realized that their pronunciation was a little too close to an animal and a different name... when the oldest realized

[@danachristie7106]

Jan and Bill

[@empath9814]

Yep I call my step grandma Honey because I was just copying what grandpa was calling her. Her adult kids hated it because they don't like my family. They tried to get their kids to call her something else but she's sticking with the nickname I picked.

[@commanderjoj6426]

I’ve let it be known to wife that when our sons have children, I hope (and would be pumped) if the grandkids call me Pops.

[@eunwoo23]

"There is a grand total of 0 people that are ever getting to cuss out my wife" Dangg. The wife's definitely Lord's favorite! She's blessed with a great guy. 😭❣

[@erikarussell1142]

Honestly, that’s my husband to be. I love a strong, strong willed, loyal man. Such a king!!!

[@Nanci-AnnBiviano]

I love this guy!! So in love with his wife like it should be!

[@lindah3803]

My hubby always had my back. When ever I would tell him of a situation,he would ask: You want me to handle it.

[@jessicahainsworth7994]

He's a 🚩🚩🚩🚩 he is toxic, his mum is toxic too- if you ghost your mum with no communication for two months then you 10000%% deserve this

[@cynthiayarger9757]

I am a nurse working in a pediatric cardiac ICU. On the (rare) occasions that our unit is slow - we float to the intensive care nursery to help out. Let me tell you - the L&D and nursery units are THE MOST SECURE in the whole hospital. No one’s badges open the security doors unless they routinely work on n those units - you have to be let in. All that was needed was for Mom/Dad to specify no visitors when they were admitted. In addition, our electronic charting system keeps track of the charts you open. So if MIL opened her DIL’s chart there is NO NEED to report the incident. The system will flag that MIL opened a chart without being directly involved in the patient’s care - and it will be investigated with SERIOUS consequences- including job/license loss, fines in the thousands of dollars and jail time. At my institution- this could even happen to me if I opened my OWN chart and didn’t use the standard patient portal.

[@dinaboop]

Wow, interesting. Good to know.

[@generalvictoriouskilljoy8146]

as a health care worker; this reeks of hippa violation

[@sharim]

That’s why I think that story was made up, or at the very least exaggerated. Plus, either the laboring mother or the father-to-be could have easily kicked the offending party out of the delivery room.

[@sharim]

The worst one was yard-sale mommy. But what’s worse is that the gal stayed with the dude. Some guy did that to me, he’d be missing either a tooth or a ball….wait, he didn’t have any, so tooth it is!

[@jl5442]

Not all hospitals are that high tech or secure. Speaking from experience.

[@Deebnoff]

I love Charlotte talking about having kids when this whole time she always said she would never. I really can't wait to see baby Charlotte in the next few years 🥰🥰🥰

[@mrsnoopy2uable]

That last one hurt my heart😢. It shows that they don’t care. She can never replace those things. Run girl.

[@Liz-nu5dr]

Yeah, that was brutal and unforgivable. My husband is the most tolerant man I have ever known but, if I had done that to him, we would never recover from it. He was very close to his father, I think he would just move out and we'd be done.

[@silveritea]

Also, outright theft. She was the boyfriend’s mama, not a MIL yet!

[@beatriceaba8851]

I'm sure the mil didn't even give her a penny of what she made….which means nothing because of the sentimental value. So sad.

[@DearNana707]

Wait that last one was TOTAL BS! WHY did the bf GAVE HIS mom the keys to HER storage unit? HER stuff, HER storage unit, SHE'S paying for! She's paying for the apartment she AND the bf are living together. The mother & son made money out of HER stuff, precious items without HER permission/acknowledgement. Then he had the gill to gaslight her? They're clearly treating her as free labor and an ATM. Girl run! Post on social media of time/date/location of that storage yard sale along with storage unit # to let those buyers know of your situation and see if any kind souls would return the items back to you. Plus, it'll expose that mother & son 😏

[@lynnalu]

Kick the bf out, sue the mil. Abso-fucking-lutely NOT!!!!! 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

[@hezfez6173]

I’ve seen the post and the update to the MIL punching post and there is so much more to it, and the husband SAW and HEARD what MIL did to the freshly postpartum moms belly (because she slapped it hard enough for him to hear it across the room). Trust me if you find it and read the whole thing you’ll be team postpartum mom all the way.

[@emilyi771]

Did they divorce?

[@myconfusedmerriment]

I’ll be honest, when I heard that she was fat shaming and keeping food from a new mom, that was enough for me. I don’t even need to hear the rest. Yeah, I would be pissed if someone punched my mom…but my mama would never say or do anything that vile!!! So maybe just don’t be a terrible person and you won’t catch hands, MIL!!!

[@hezfez6173]

As I recall the wife found his post and then posted her own update, and yes. She was so done and divorcing him.

[@hezfez6173]

💯

[@kallista5194]

GOOD FOR HER!! 🎉🎉🎉

[@marcrlaplante]

For all of you French Canadians out there. When my sons were preschool, I couldn’t convince them to speak French. But my mother insisted that she be called mémère (French for granny). My older son, who was three at the time and couldn’t (wouldn’t) speak French, called her “Maynard”. It gets better. My younger son who was 18 months old, also couldn’t speak French, called her “merde”.

[@turtlebirdrox]

For the non French speakers, it's French for 💩 lol 😂

[@comenerdwithme3346]

That is amazing your kids a legend

[@ashleychamp1544]

😂

[@kisulya2999]

😂😂😂 merde sounds perfect… 😊

[@christined9410]

Hahahahahha!!! I'm in QC , my mom wanted to be called Meimeille... is that kind of like memere?

[@rachelshaw____]

I noticed some people commenting about how the head nurse story is fake and cannot happen the way it was told. You’d be surprised. My MIL was a family practice physician at the time I had both of my daughters. During my first pregnancy, my MIL insisted on being in the room for the birth. I allowed it in hopes of keeping the peace and still being a rather new newlywed, I wanted everything to go smoothly. It’s a long story. My MIL didn’t just check my chart, she interfered with the delivery. She ordered the nurses around when she wasn’t pushing them out of the way. The birth was difficult, with my daughter being a blue baby. Her shoulder got stuck. It was almost a life threatening situation for me and possibly my baby. After Baby’s shoulder released, MIL began using an older camera with a really bright light to photo Baby’s entrance into the world, despite my husband and I telling her ahead of time, there will be no pictures taken. Then MIL walked around holding Baby instead of allowing me to hold her. She was rambling on with utter nonsense that she could predict what eye and hair color Baby would eventually have. How tall she would be as an adult. I finally began to sit up while my doctor was in the middle of stitching me up to yell at MIL to get out! My doctor kicked her out of the room. Two years and 3 days later, I’d be back at the hospital, doing the same thing with my second daughter. Only this time, I had a discussion beforehand with my doctor. I let her know MIL would be demanding to be in the room during the birth, and she felt entitled because she was on staff with the hospital. I said MIL is not welcome in the room. My doctor said she would tell my MIL to leave because only two people were going to be allowed in the room. She didn’t think there was going to be an issue. I told the doctor she had my blessing to call security because I was sure MIL was not going to willingly leave the room. My husband just couldn’t stop himself from calling his relatives as soon as I went into labor, even though he knew there was going to be an issue. As preparation for the birth began, my doctor told my MIL multiple times to leave the room and she outright refused. My doctor picked up the phone to call security. My husband finally went over to her and nudged her out. My MIL didn’t just look at my chart, she handled instruments, interfered with the doctor and nurses. After Baby 2 was born, MIL pushed her way into the room and insisted a friend of hers, whom I’d never met, be allowed to see Baby 2. MIL got away with a lot of things and she used her credentials with the hospital to do it. With Baby 2, yes my husband did invite his mother (and other relatives) to the hospital. However, she would’ve had to use her hospital credentials under the guise of seeing a patient of hers, not relatives, to get up to the hospital floor. I don’t know how many rules, regulations, policies, standard procedures and LAWS my MIL broke. I do know they are multiple. My MIL is not normal. She got fired like, 4 times in the time I’ve known her to her retirement, had many complaints against her, and at least one malpractice lawsuit.

[@Genesis_361]

My husband’s mom also doesn’t respect boundaries

[@rachelshaw____]

@@Genesis_361 I wish you the best when dealing with her.

[@TonyaThompson2]

I worked as a nurses aid for 14 years and with my badge I could swipe and walk onto any floor I wanted, even surgical and there's no reason for a nurse aid to be on that floor except to transfer a patient from or to different floors. If staff knows the codes or has a badge, you can live in a hospital rent-free for a lifetime, and no one would ever know, lol. Kidding but no, seriously, it's not hard to floor hop when you are staff. I floated, so I worked all 12 floors plus Labor and Emergency. It just depended which floor needed me each shift on which night . I truly miss working in a medical setting. So fast-paced, no time to think and its time to clock out of a 12 hour shift before you realize it but the switch back 12 days /12 nights were killer on sleep schedules. Even the morgue was cool once you got over the smell of the bodies,blood,and the vicks vapo rub in your nose.

[@buttercuppowerpuff-q3v]

It’s sad that your husband doesn’t respect your boundaries, maybe you guys need counselling to communicate your pain to him, coz I am betting this is not the only thing he is sweeping under the rug at your expense.

[@AliceNsWonderland]

Every nice girl deserves a husband like him! At least so far… the guy who told his mom to never speak to his wife like that... *WE LOVE HIM!*

[@tedthurgate]

Not sure I believe the story. Fire sprinklers aren't connected to each other and don't go off because the alarm goes off. They are triggered by heat and triggered individually. What he describes is the way movies show things, but it isn't reality.

[@Doesntmatter20]

Blessed with such a husband! If he wouldn’t have put his foot down or made boundaries with his very narc controlling mother; she would have ruined our lives 😅 I was under her control for 10 years and now I see clear. So thankful 🙏🏼

[@AliceNsWonderland]

@@Doesntmatter20 you're very lucky! My ex NEVER put me before anyone in his family. He actually said this about & in front of his whole family, mom, dad, 3 bro, 1 sis "We were all sitting around making fun of you when my dad of all people said 'No... we're not going to do that *ANYMORE.* She's really a nice girl who doesn't deserve this.' CAN YOU BELIEVE *MY DAD* SAID THAT?!?" My ex was truly SO PROUD of his father and he thought I should be too! Not ONE of them thought ANY of it was problematic! They were all looking at me w big, doofy smiles on their faces like he'd just given me 50K! They ALL thought I would be delighted to hear that bc my F-I-L was AWFUL to me for what I thought was no reason. CHERISH THAT MAN WHO CHERISHES *YOU!* I'm jealous but I'm loving this for YOU!!!

[@m0n0chr0maticRainb0w]

The mil punching story. The missing context is the wife had a C section and the MIL slapped the wife's belly so hard she literally had to lean on the counter in pain after punching her. The punch was an automatic response to her freshly stitched up c-section belly being slapped hard. And also the MIL smirked at the wife when she did it but the husband couldn't see it. She also included alot of horrible things the MIL had said and done before that.

[@The_Crucible714]

So… the punch wasn’t just a “Rudi Giuliani-in-a-Staten-Island-ShopRite-punch?”

[@KimberlyArrington-dd3wm]

Oh well way to go to go mama

[@karacrawford6472]

@@The_Crucible714 🤣tf? 🤣 That was great

[@The_Nightsong]

I was going to comment about this, but you beat me to it 👍👍 Team Wife!

[@tabathaalshalhoub1653]

For that last story, that’s when you sue. If you cannot sue, that’s when you take out an ad in the paper informing EVERYONE that your evil mil had STOLEN your deceased father’s things and to return them to you (with a reminder that receiving stolen property is a crime) and if they want a refund get it from mil. After the ad, threaten mil to repay for the items. And if she doesn’t, press charges (and then press charges anyway lol).

[@fluffy_mcflooferson4635]

That's what you and I would do, but it sounds like this young woman is deep in narcissistic abuse - she stayed with the guy and everything. It's really heartbreaking, isn't it?

[@MP-pp9nd]

I think the boyfriend and his mom did this together. They split the money because HE KNEW NONE of the items were his. They were having conversations about it without the girlfriend and making plans!

[@gaudior13]

I hope she has some documentation, such as her parents’ old insurance policies, which may mention the furniture. Or perhaps her mother wrote her a note gifting her the furniture (for tax purposes). The whole thing is so painful.

[@meganjones3427]

Surprised this one didn't get more attention. That's completely wild. But yeah, ad in the paper, post it on EVERY social media platform, hell take out a billboard. With photos. I'd make sure anyone who knows her or meets her knows who she really is.

[@martibee8984]

​@@MP-pp9ndhe was definitely in on it. What possible other reason would he have to give his mother a copy of a key he never should have had.

[@itsashiiYT]

The girl in the yellow shirt at 5:00, usually makes up stories for content, one week she talked about being proposed to at the Eras tour and rejecting the proposal the next week she was talking about a fight over her prom she was having. I struggle to tell which content she posts is a real storytime or not but her stories are interesting to say the least.

Oy! I knew some people made up stories. People are crazy so it’s hard to know which stories are fiction!

[@bringmethatcoffee5235]

I love the Dad of the gender-reveal story. He's such a good husband. Sticks to his wife. Wants to do something for her/them. And most importantly: doesn't back down from the boundary he gave. As a doormat, I aspire to be this consequent.

[@summernguyen154]

That nurse should be reported. COMPLETE violation. I'm a nurse. This should never happen.

[@drsummer512]

Luckily, it didn't. It's from a tiktok channel consisting of fake drama.

[@bkk1996]

​@drsummer512 I knew I'd seen that girl before - she was in a different Charlotte tiktok compilation Iwatched rather recently. For the life of me I can't remember when though.

[@GigiCathyto6]

When I was in Labor and Delivery at the hospital I worked at, I asked the staff not to let anyone know that I was there. A few hours later, the Director of Nursing and Head Nurse walked in and said, we didn’t know you were here. My response, I didn’t want anyone to know and the staff here is awesome!! Totally respected my wishes and kept my experience the way I wanted it

[@ariannawhite2844]

@loulouorange makes satire videos that she refuses to advertise as satire because she gets more attention, interactions and views when shit like this happens and people take her seriously. I don’t like it. The other video Charlotte got tricked by her in was her fake story about getting fired I think

[@endless_song]

It couldn't have happened the way it was described - which you know as an RN. Random nurse from another unit shows up and takes over specialized L&D care? I'm just seeing the other comments now that it's from a fake stories channel, which makes so much sense.

[@cindycurry246]

As an RN, you are not allowed to care for family members. Conflict of interest, HIPPA violations, liability issues. Also, nurses asking for tips is illegal.

[@Roadent1241]

A nurse... Asking for tips? It's a hospital not a food place. Is this America?

[@cindycurry246]

@@Roadent1241 I recently talked with a friend who was in the hospital. After he got home. He received a survey from the nursing staff. They asked if he was happy with his care, would he like to give a tip to a nurse. Nurses make an excellent wage. This is because the job is very stressful. It is completely unethical. You give your best to every patient every time. I was mortified this was even suggested.

[@dawnrachelle964]

In any department of healthcare, really. All the way down to pharmacy technicians as well (which is what I am)

[@nixxyhasthoughts]

Others have said that account is satire. That seems more logical cos delivery teams are often very protective of their patients. Even if she could have buzzed in and the mum didn’t yell at her to get out, the birthing team would have thrown her out!

[@SarahLees-lp3st]

My dear mum was bc a gynaecologist at the hospital where I had my first son She was with me during first stages of labour rubbing my back tilll my husband arrived then she left I wanted her in at the birth of my 4th children but unfortunately I had my daughter a few hours too soon so she missed it 😢

[@lisa070502]

It is a HIPAA violation because even as a nurse you are not privileged to patients information that are not under your care. Also, she was a charge nurse in another unit on another floor. Also, she abandoned her duties during her shift for who knows how long to be in a different unit ordering around nurses that she not in charge of.

[@clytemnestracloset3124]

My MIL, Meg, didn’t want to be called grandma because it sounds old. She made up the name Meggo for herself, all the grandkids ended up calling her Grandma Meggo, so it totally backfired on her.

[@seitanbeatsyourmeat666]

Meggo. Oh man, that sounds …hefty 😅

[@TheLastHylianTitan]

Leggo my meggo

[@cellycrystal]

lol my late MIL wanted to be called grandma-ma… my kids were like no grandma.

[@lisacartwright2402]

My mom hated the name me-ma.

[@flowerpower3618]

I don’t understand that . I was so happy to be a grandma! I was 46 and looked about 40 at the time. I jumped up and down when my daughter told me.

[@Karli4Sure]

I love how the husband loves his “beautiful wife”…. That’s so sweet. CC cameras will show who set off the alarms.

[@Imsleepybruh]

The MIL who absolutely set off the fire alarm: Honestly, when I heard the dude spent 9k on the gender reveal (even though they’re personally not my thing) my immediate thought was “he’s such a good, sweet, thoughtful person” and then the “grand total of zero people” thing just solidified that for me. He seems like an amazing person and husband and I can’t believe he has that woman as a mother. Yikes…

[@kaykay79]

I’d sue the mom for the baby shower.

[@ncblee]

@@kaykay79 - I'd tell the Fire Marshal's office that you have reason to believe that the fire alarm was deliberately set off falsely. That's a VERY big criminal offense. But I'm betting that the FM's office is going through the security tapes from the hotel, and the "board" will have logged which station triggered the alarm. I think mom has some trouble coming her way.

[@tlwf.system]

6:28 this scream scares me 😧 😂 I couldn’t dare even scream half that decibel! I was just in my sister’s delivery room and i tell you I had to advocate a lot!!! A lot a lot!!

[@YungWha23]

That last one broke my heart. 😢 A cruel mother raised a cruel and gaslighting son.

[@shadelings]

Yeah but WOW, what an incredible doormat.

[@BrianAndresScott]

She could probably have her arrest for stealing and get money back but all that stuff sentimental value can never get that back Very sad hope that lady gets out of that relationship he gaslight her is almost as bad

[@juliecovone8084]

Thats what I was thinking. Chances are alot of her fathers things were antiques. The value was priceless to her but possibly been antique roadshow value to the public. Im thinking GRAND THEFT. Take her to court, and hom too... Who got the proceeds from the sale. Thats beyond cruel!

[@martibee8984]

He didn't just gaslight her, he plotted with his mother to steal her stuff. That's the only reason to give his mother a key.

[@hottubtimemachine1200]

MIL Story: Gave her my butter cake recipe, she passed it off as her own, gave it to her daughter and granddaughter. It was actually hand written in my penmanship, listened to her tell everyone at a family dinner (the very last time everyone (4 sons including wives and ALL children& 1 daughter with husband her children,so almost 30 people) about her wonderful recipe, another daughter in law asked for the recipe and she said No! Only family get the recipe. We lived 2 blocks away I left to go get something for my children “I forgot“ I got the same recipe paper I had given her, and my recipe book of my great grandmothers. And I came back and gave all the other daughter in laws a hand written copy.. just like I gave her. We went around the room at the end and were to say what we are thankful for and 2 of the other sister in laws said that I gave them that wonderful cake recipe, MIL turned red,grit her teeth and actually broke a tooth she was so mad, I was later told since I made her break a tooth I should pay to fix it. 🤣🤣🤣

[@arbonneladyTN]

😂❤️❤️❤️

[@kallista5194]

She earned that tooth all on her own. She can deal with the consequences of her actions herself.

[@TheBaumcm]

Instant karma!

[@roopthongbluniverse3116]

Lmao.. I'm dying. She can forget her about her stupid teeth

[@juliannmorris6478]

You are a queen of expert-level petty. I salute your sweet delivery of Karma

[@doorattachment6926]

I'm gonna use that line I'M NOT PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE I'M JUST AGGRESSIVE 😂😂

[@CanadianCommando]

😂❤

[@dancingwiththelilys]

Yes!

[@BoudicasGhost]

I've seen a T-shirt with that saying. 😂

[@boogermaiden]

We need this on a shirt 😂

[@doorattachment6926]

@@BoudicasGhost I would wear that for sure

[@mermaidstears4897]

Once upon a time, both grandmothers used “Grandma First Name,” though just “Grandma” wasn’t usually an issue since they lived 1,000 miles apart and rarely saw each other. One Christmas, my in-laws braved the Sierras in winter (Donner Party!), so both Grandmas were together. Our then two year old (potty training) came to give me a message from”Grandma”. “Which Grandma?” sez I. Completely flustered, he finally blurted, “Grandma Three Bathrooms!” For many years, my mother was known as Grandma Three Bathrooms.😅

[@ChelseaAnderson]

As someone who also lost their father growing up, I would lose my shit if my MIL stole things out of MY storage unit and sold them, knowing they were irreplaceable.

[@Roadent1241]

Mind taking my rage? We've been burgled twice and my dead parents' things have been nicked. That was 4 months ago and they've just arrested a guy and found some of it but the rest stolen is probably gone. Ugh.

[@ChelseaAnderson]

@@Roadent1241 UGH that's awful. I know you would want everything back but at least you have some of it

[@Roadent1241]

@@ChelseaAnderson Yeah. Some is better than none once we've confirmed it I guess.

[@Mewse1203]

Punching MIL: It's WAY worse than she described. The mother in law wasn't just "smacking" her on the belly like a pat. She was smacking her HARD...in front of the husband...who did nothing. There is also a whole iceberg underneath as well. Her hitting MIL was fully justified and so was the divorce. I'm a dude. This is not a black & white, "You must always have the back of x or y" situation." I have the back of the person who's being the most reasonable. Here, it was the WIFE.

[@draegful]

and also, she was recovering from a c section

[@hsihdbssbcjtzksk7426]

​@@draegful Exactly! Her side of the story was genuinely horrifying.

[@BasedSockHead007]

​@draegful WTF????? SO SHE LITERALLY COULD HAVE HURT HER?? THATS ASSULT IN ITSELF!!!!! The rage I feel for that poor woman

[@raenoway]

@@draegfulholy god if my toxic MIL smacked my belly while I was healing from one of c-sections…rage!!! Mega death-metal rage. WTF!!!!

[@KOKO-uu7yd]

I respect that. Unquestioning, unilateral support is often toxic. Thank you!

[@KeikilaniKai86]

“There is a grand total of ZERO people that are ever going to cuss out my wife!!!” You sir, are an incredibly amazing husband/man that MANY people need to learn a few lessons from! He must be protected at all costs and if his mom tries to ruin another event, we will ride at dawn to have his back!!!

[@Zombiestromboli]

Right I wish my partner had this same kind of energy

[@dinkledorfette]

I'm so thankful for my MIL. She's absolutely the sweetest. I can say, without a skip, that she is one of my closest friends. She said she didn't want me to endure what she did with her MIL. She firmly believed that having a healthy relationship was the best thing for everyone. I love her for that.

[@TimeToBreathe-ntmf]

Second story is infuriating! Not only is that a fireable offense but criminal behaivor. She faces jail time, paying a fine, and permanent loss of her nursing license. She wouldn't be able to obtain it in another state.

[@elenawilliams32]

Absolutely beyond unprofessional. Although , I can't understand why the husband and or his wife didn't tell her to get the hell out! There's no way on earth I would've let her stay.

[@TimeToBreathe-ntmf]

​@@elenawilliams32 TBH as a three-time mom, her mind was on too much during that labor to deal with her mother-in-law. Hopefully It was the same for the husband. With my second, I was in labor for 43 hours. I was getting septic and I'm an ICU nurse. Yet I still didn't clock it because of everything that my body and mind was going through during labor. And the husband might have been too focused on his wife to deal with his mother as well. Plus as a head nurse on a different unit, His mother had unusual power and sway in that room that another monster-in-law wouldn't have had. So her son may have felt like he couldn't have spoken up in that moment. All of that just compounds the reasons that this was such a violation of trust boundaries and professional boundaries. Literally criminal

[@elenawilliams32]

@@TimeToBreathe-ntmf Jeez, I'm glad you got through such a tough birth! I'm a one time Mum, when I wasn't having contractions... She would've been told! I understand that it was extra tricky if she was a unit manager for the staff there but like you mentioned... It's so wrong on multiple different levels.

[@harlequinade5136]

I've seen that girl ALOT on tiktok her entire account is satire

[@mariellarodriguez7421]

Exactly… this girl just makes up the craziest stories and people that don’t know give her TON of engagement getting mad or giving opinions

[@raenoway]

The man standing up for his wife and setting clear boundaries…love to see it. I have a super toxic MIL and my husband has never really stood up for me or set boundaries. Thank the gods we live several states away from them. 😅😢

[@arbonneladyTN]

Same problem with my Monster -in-law…. Now she is dead and I say rest in hell women.

[@alltoohalliwell]

I've worked in 3 different hospitals, and nurse or not, if you don't specifically work in labor&delivery, you cannot badge in. She definitely broke some laws and definitely needs to get fired

[@katrinascarlet5637]

Right? Where I work L&D will 100% call security on you if they notice you're not one of them. That unit specifically is the most secure in the whole hospital. Other commenters mentioned that account is satire, I'm inclined to believe that considering one cannot just walk into L&D without being let in and that would require others to risk their own licenses. One crazy person maybe, but someone letting her in and everyone else not noticing or caring that she wasn't from that unit is a huge stretch.

[@alltoohalliwell]

@@katrinascarlet5637 L&D and the NICU are more secure than Area 51 and Fort Knox! Also, aside from that, HOW TF does she start telling L&D what to do without being eaten alive?! Lol definitely has to be satire

[@m.c.3640]

I interned at a couple hospitals, and L&D, Post partum, NICU, PICU, Peds etc- all of that was in a locked wing- all of those nurses had different badges from the rest of the hospital. They even had their own CNA staff, cleaning crew. Once you were in there, you didn't leave. And for L&D visitors, even other staff, the visitor had to be confirmed by the patient . That being said, it is entirely possible that grandma was allowed to be there.

[@alltoohalliwell]

@m.c.3640 I was a float pool tech, I was sent to the NICU as a secretary, and I couldn't even badge into the farkin breakroom!! I couldn't use ANY of their computers or systems either. And if she went in, it had to be as a visitor not a nurse

[@m.c.3640]

@@alltoohalliwell See? This type of security is why I believe MiL was allowed be present during the birth. It's just too secure for just anyone to key in with their random badge from ER, or Med Surge, etc. Different hospitals, but all are like trying to break into Fort Knox, and many are so secure, going home is like leaving a high security prison.

[@shinew7185]

That last story was just heart wrenching! Something that would have literally made my heart sink if I had lost all of my father’s remaining thing’s at the hands of someone being hateful. 😢😔😢😔😢

[@lynnyhen]

I had an amazing MIL for over 40 years. Her son and I were only married for 10 of those years. She recently passed, and I miss her every day. Blessed ex-daughter-in-law.

[@Zaft_K]

My MIL passed while we were married, but my FIL was there for me every day after my husband suddenly died in an accident. I love my FIL with every fiber of my being.

[@clarissaangel1845]

Same! I had 7 wonderful years with my MIL before she passed, she was the best! I miss her every day. 😢 she would have been the best grandma to my son

[@carolr7333]

@@Zaft_K I am so sorry for your loss of your H but glad you have your wonderful FIL. My Dad passed at only 58 (Heart) 6 months after he walked me down the aisle. Have goodness I had my wonderful FIL to help me fixing up around the house H and I bought (H worked long hours 100 miles away r/t in Manhattan), something my wonderful Dad would have been there every day doing if he was here, and he HAPPILY would have enjoyed working with my FIL...my MIL is a difft story. Alas, we lost my blessed FIL about 5 years later, but we had lots of good memories.

[@notYouraverageYiayia]

That monster in-law, that destroyed the party: 1. Police comes when there’s a fire. That’s the moment to tell Them what You suspected. With a little CSI on Her wet clothes and shoes They might find out if She was inside. + the threatening text… and if the police cranks the heat… 2. with those results I’ll sue Her for the the cost of the party, damages, everybody’s dry cleaning and emotional stress. (She wanted to get paid? Now pay up. Take Her to the cleaners).

[@jl5442]

Plus criminal charges when you falsely trigger a fire alarm

[@PinkieJoJo]

Seems if there was a sprinkler system there would have also been a camera system to review.

[@marie-pierplourde2289]

also depending on the country but the false fire alarm fines are HUGE. and the hotel insurance will sue too.... the MIL will have to mortgage her house XD was it worth it?

[@raiortiz9810]

exactly what i said to daughter watching with me

[@CoolEnginesChristytrekkie]

yep. consequences for stupid actions needs to be had.

[@Nelley_Nell_507]

I lost my first child after birth at 23 weeks along. My MIL AND SIL were both in the room when I had to birth her. Knowing the situation they did not leave and I know I asked them to in between the pain. I saw them over to the side looking and it was nothing I can do but give birth. Another time when I finally had my Rainbow baby, I had to be on a machine for 24 hours and had not held my child yet. She was born 6 weeks early and was in the incubator. The MIL and SIL came into my room mad that they were not allowed to hold my daughter when no one has, me or dad. The nurse came later and told me she refused them to hold her because I the Mother had not held her yet. The nurse was the savior in this story. The in-laws were just overbearing!

[@bekkakay8573]

😮Wow! So sorry you had to go through that. But so glad the nurse had a head on her shoulders. Hope you’re enjoying motherhood ❤

[@moonhunter9993]

so sorry

[@Nelley_Nell_507]

@@bekkakay8573 thank you.

[@blancadoperoy488]

For anyone that heard the whole story about the mother in law hitting the wife you have to remember she is still recovering from surgery and was assaulted by the mother in law. She was protecting herself from being attacked. Mother in law was 100% in the wrong.

[@HorseLady1109]

Breast feeding wife was fed up past her eyebrows with MIL and husband…this was the last straw. Husband doesn’t have a clue how difficult breast feeding is and how many calories it takes.

[@elizabethdarroch3000]

Also she'd had a c section and I'm pretty sure the baby is only a few weeks old the MIL slapping the stomach could have really hurt and possibly ripped her stitches open. I had emergency c sections with my sons and took 3 months each time to heal and even then I was being careful til 6 months after she literally had major surgery on her stomach/uterus and a few weeks later mil slaps her belly????? And you are so right about BF I did with my youngest and had to have snacks next to me I would get hungry while feeding lol

[@michellechee7890]

For real i was so hungry alot of the time and sometimes dont have much time to eat.

[@juliannmorris6478]

@@michellechee7890. That is exactly what I thought. One of the hardest memories was being so exhausted but starving trying to do everything. That MIL deserved far worse - she WORKEd at finding a way to be cruel to a new mom.

[@amberlightrunner4696]

I really love the husband that supported his wife against his mom immediately.

[@judywright4241]

So true. My MIL said to me right after giving birth to her first grandchild “Now you can start losing your baby weight. I don’t want my son to have a fat wife.’ I was breastfeeding too, but like a nitwit, I DID start dieting, which caused our baby to lose weight too! Our son’s pediatrician put him on formula, plus put ‘Child At Risk’ on the medical folder! I had to bring him in every day for TWO WEEKS, meanwhile hubby stays SILENT at ME being suspected of starving our son! I may have been humiliated enough to do something stupid but he was a total creep letting me be on the hook alone.

[@amberlightrunner4696]

@@judywright4241 oh that is foul! I am so sorry! I understand the pressures from mothers to be thin, but that is a while new low of pressure.

[@daftoptimist]

My family generally believes we should let the kids ultimately decide on the grandparent pet names, to an extent. My oldest niece called my mother “Nonnie,” so all the kids that came after her do, too. My own grandmother was called “Grandma Darling,” and I’m told the reason is that, when I was a baby and she’d look after me while my mother was working, she would call me “darling” constantly, like, “Hey, Darling!” Soon enough I started saying it back to her, “Hey, Darling!” and seemed to be under the impression that her name was Darling. She was Grandma Darling to me for the rest of her life ❤

[@jazminehollister3967]

my sister's grandkids said "pop pop" first so she was like what does that make me "mop mop?" and now she's Mop Mop

[@ChaoticBad]

I called my grandma “Mama”. I was the 2nd grandchild by just 6 months. My mom didn’t think it was a slight to her or a competition for my affection. Every cousin after me called her “Mama” too.

[@abbienicholson6022]

This is literally so sweet! ❤ My grandma was grandma until my cousin was born, he ended up calling her Gaga because he couldn’t pronounce grandma, after that everyone started saying Gaga. It was so sad when she passed because my cousin would sleep in her room every night with her and he was too young to understand where she’d gone. Him and my sister both thought of her as their second mom, it really took a toll on them.

[@BLAHblahBlah1245]

I cannot believe that in the last story, the girlfriend not only didn't break up with the guy but also didn't sue or file charges for selling her belongings without permission

[@robinhoward4204]

I would have been ropeable - if the storage unit was in her name she had every right to get the police involved or get legal advice.

[@youcallmehero]

This! I would’ve def taken legal action, maybe try to get some of the stuff back.

[@rhonafox3805]

Exactly! Not only is it theft of the stuff in the unit, but then selling stolen property! Two separate charges! Then the mil didn't have permission to go onto the unit - breaking and entering added to the charges!

[@trustingGuard]

I can't believe it either - that girl needs to realize she needs to get out because if her dad's stuff was that important, it would have snapped her to realizing what was going on. I lost my dad nearly nine years ago, and when my uncle (my dad's brother) had came out to "pay his respects" when i was alone in the house with him i made him swear that i didn't say anything to him, but told him, if he even so much as took *anything* of my father's, i would physically drive out to his place, get the PD and take my dad's things back (or gotten my Grandmother, my dad's mom, to also get the PD involved while getting my dad's stuff back). Scared my uncle from even considering taking anything that belonged to his brother (he had no claim over anything after he and my dad became estranged when they were younger bc my dad took over being a 'dad' to his brother when they were kids from when their dad passed away sometime in the 60's/70's, so my uncle never asked for forgiveness from him, and tried to get it from my mom, and she knew better and said, no, you had *plenty* of chances before he died. You're not getting it now.) So anything of my dad's will NEVER be taken by anyone besides those who own it (aka, my mom, two sisters and myself)

[@sandrapendle2129]

Being someone that lost her dad the other year and had to go through his things being the only family left. I would be in jail if someone sold his things from under my nose.

[@christiekilley8051]

On the nurse who used her credentials to get into the delivery room- why did the care team not throw her out?!?!?! How was she not fired over this?!?!?! They would have known at once that she didn’t belong.

[@hazeltulip]

The sister doesn’t know the whole story.

[@carrieyaj]

My sisters a charge nurse and she said the same thing!!!

[@lizajane2971]

​@@hazeltulipMaybe... Maybe the sister really wanted to be there, but they didn't want her there. Maybe they changed their minds about the MIL being there last minute but didn't want the sister to know, lots of possibilities

[@dawnchesbro4189]

​@@hazeltulipdoesn't matter, the MIL nurse violated the code of ethics and she needs to be reported.

[@lindah3803]

Simple. Neither one of them Told her to get out. Never told the staff to get rid of her.

[@bettinahooper5344]

My daughter found ‘grandma Mary’ to be a mouthful for my mom. She called her Grammary and the other grandchildren followed suit. My mom absolutely adored her special name.

[@elizabethdarroch3000]

Omg that reminds me of my mum my son could say nan but not nana so he would say 2x nan together nannan and I tried correcting him but my mum said don't I like it lol now he can say wanna he's almost 7 now haha

[@kimberlyavila1109]

Love this ❤. My Mom's Mother we called "Mom Helen", because we heard our Mom always calling her Mom 😊. My Dad was called Papal. His Dad we called Grandpa. But when my siblings and I had our kids they started to call my Grandpa , ( Their Great Grandpa) " Two Papal" and even Papal 2.0 when got older. I love when the kids go rogue with names or it just changes to what they say 🥰💙💜💜.

[@AlTheAndro]

NGL THE STRAIGHT UP ROBBERY OF THAT POOR GIRL AT THE END I DID NOT FORESEE

[@sheaburke5438]

My dad is Granddaddio. It's really cute to hear a child yell "GRANDDADDIO!" and run to give him a big hug.

[@BreeS-zd5rx]

That is seriously adorable. ❤️

[@Claireannette77]

This made my day!

[@Nana_Lala_]

❤❤❤

[@lissieloveskitties]

That's adorable ❤

[@michelleikoma2953]

My ex mother in law was absolutely lovely. I missed her terribly when I divorced my ex. She barely spoke English, and I barely spoke Japanese, but we had many wonderful conversations, and we laughed and cried together many times. She did not get the respect she deserved from her own children and husband.

[@yelhsasokolova8561]

Aww :( do you still keep in contact with her at all?

[@Manibular]

As soon as she said it was used I would've dry heaved and dropped it on the floor. Natural reaction. Lol

[@ZebraWarriorPrincess]

My MIL has driven me to Dr appointments, was there when I got my tonsils out, and took me grocery shopping for food I could eat after. She helped fix my favorite blanket, and drove me to treatments for my immune deficiency when I couldn't get them at home. She isn't perfect, but I got wonderful in laws and I love her to pieces ♥️

[@MelAtlNP]

I’m a mother-in-law and I’m a nurse. I would NEVER do that to my DIL….and if I did, my son would have immediately escorted me out the door….and it is a fire-able offense and the HIPPA offenses is worthy of federal charges.

[@isabellagaston6127]

My mom had my brother during COVID and her MIL was a nurse at the hospital. Thankfully she and my mother are on really good terms and she was the first person besides my mom and stepdad that got to see my baby brother when he was born bc she used the excuse of giving her meds 🤣 she was also able to sneak in decent food for her. Love my grandma ngl

[@SweetTea-Stephens]

That’s what I’m saying. She should have reported that to the nursing board of her state promptly!!!!!!

[@drsummer512]

You're absolutely right, but that tiktok channel is all fake. It would make my blood boil to hear something like this for real, and it really helps me to know it wasn't.

[@ariannawhite2844]

@loulouorange makes satire videos that she refuses to advertise as satire because she gets more attention, interactions and views when shit like this happens and people take her seriously. I don’t like it.

[@missaniebananie6473]

Thank you for confirming all of that from a professional standpoint, someone needs to know this info! What confuses me in situations like that, even when the MIL or whomever is forcing their way into the delivery room is why they would fight so hard, and be this disrespectful just so that they can go somewhere where they are not welcome, needed, or wanted. Why would you want to go somewhere you are not wanted *at all, PERIOD* ?! I would not even attend a house party where I did not feel welcome/the vibes are off, and that goes double if the host told me that they did not want me there. No reason beyond a “no” needed

[@caskillet]

First - Ott's hair is amazing in this video. Second - I (a man) also would not tolerate anybody, even my mom, talking to my wife that way. Out of 8.8 BILLION people on earth, I chose my wife. I didn't choose my birther. Wife gets priority, always.

[@reggiereggiesauce5755]

Idk if it’s the same over there, but as someone who works in data entry at a hospital, we’re not even allowed to look at our own records because of breaching confidentiality. Even looking at our own records is grounds for instant dismissal.

[@elenaheinrich8485]

I was gonna say! Sounded like a massive HIPAA violation.

[@autumnmoon999]

I don’t understand these toxic boy mothers WHATSOEVER. I am a mother to a son. He’s 21. We joke about me being a stereotypical “Italian mother” (which I am to certain extents like trying to over feed him and very over protective of him) but I would never treat his girlfriend in such horrific ways. I am respectful of those boundaries because guess what? I AM NOT THE GF/WIFE!! That stuff is so gross. Stop trying to “marry” your sons. It’s predatory behavior.

[@nica8791]

The MIL sitting there smoking while everybody else rushing out thinking there is an actual fire, shows that MIL knew there ain't know fire ....

[@AmarisFrede]

Yeah, just calmly chilling there when there's an alarm is a give-away. But also, her sitting outside where she can def get caught? Seems like she wants to gloat without admitting anything criminal. Like "look at me. You know I did it, and I want you to know I did it, but I'm never gonna admit it to anyone's face".

[@oonachestnut509]

Exactly! I would've checked to see if there were cameras recording and got her arrested. All of that water damage to the facility she would've paid for.

[@Zxcvhnm]

Nurse needs to get reported. It's a massive HIPAA violation. Frankly I'm shocked that the L&D nurses didn't put her ass out, no matter what unit she headed up.

[@Sorchia56]

For our first Christmas married, my husband’s mum gave me a scale! I weigh 90lbs usually but I was 5 months pregnant at Christmas. She felt I was putting on too much weight. 😮😂😂 I was laughing so hard while handing it back to her and said, through my laughter, ‘you need it more!’! My hubby busted out laughing and we left. That was 27 years ago. I haven’t seen or spoken to that woman in years. My mum wanted to go beat her up after I told her the story. My dad was grabbing their coats! 🤣🤣🤣

[@moonhunter9993]

nice one

[@moonhunter9993]

I would have asked: So how much do you weigh? Like 150lbs?... wait for her answer... Guess what I know a quick way to shed (said amount of weight). Goodbye!

[@Blondie77128]

That’s the best response ever! 👏🏻

[@myconfusedmerriment]

I love you for that. There’s so many of these MIL stories where they make comments about the DIL’s weight, it makes me so mad. Especially when the girl is thin to begin with. I love that you laughed in her face and gave that same energy right back to her!

[@Sorchia56]

Aw, cheers! We still laugh about it to this day. 💚🍀

[@Volvican]

That sister needs to stay out of her sister's business. She's WAY too involved. And the last one - that gf is being mentally abused if he somehow convinced her that was something ok to do. The gaslighting must have been off the charts. And why do I have a suspicion that the bf is the one that told his mom to do that?

[@whimsey01]

Kudos to the new mother that not only smacked that woman but served divorce papers to her husband. He didn’t care about her needs, so why should you stay?

[@Santana1987mo]

The way I screamed laughed when charlotte screamed "get the fuck out 😅" dead

[@jessicacurrier9576]

I replayed that 3 times #dead 😂

[@Santana1987mo]

@@jessicacurrier9576 lmao same dude

[@ally93796]

Im so impressed with her scream range 😂 the highest scream ever screamt

[@AnUninfluentialLife]

That was me until the love of my life called Epidural made me human again 🤣

[@Santana1987mo]

@ally93796 Right, that's some horror movie actress level screm she scrumpt, lol

[@msees27]

Nurse here. What that nurse mother in law is 100% illegal and she should lose her license. Especially on a mom/baby unit that is a serious security violation. Especially if she wasn’t even on duty. Using her badge off shift to see someone personally is fireable!

[@arlenesmith7883]

What mom wants at delivery time is in stone!! No one but who mom says! The hitting story is crazy - MIL got what she asked for- wife leaving DA husband is what he asked for!! My husband would have shoved everyone out if I mentioned I wanted it to happen!!

[@therockbottom5256]

As a member of the dead dad club, the last story is beyond distressing. That’s a karmic sin in the most unforgivable sense

[@moniekafortner6921]

Same!! I'm so pissed n it's not me!! I would find out what she treasures most and torch it!

[@givepeasachance7]

Absolutely and that poor girl is still with him. I would have gone scorched earth on both of them.

[@sabrinar.purnell3869]

🙏🏾

[@chrisjeffery9582]

MIL punching story: where the husband messed up is who he decided needed to leave the house. Kick guests out yes, but if you also need space from your wife who as just had a kid, YOU LEAVE YOURSELF, YOU DO NOT KICK HER OUT! The MIL totally did the alarm TBF my great grandma was Queenie to her grandkids and great grandkids, but that's partly cos her name was Elizabeth and we are Brits (name shared with the Queen)...

[@furygeist]

According to other comments, in the punching story, the wife was recovering from a c-section and the MIL hit her IN THE GUT, which led to the wife punching MIL in the face. Like, dude, only way I'd tell my nursing wife to leave the house is so she and the kids don't gotta see me smack down my own mom. Like, holy frick, he sent her out after she got hit in the incision used to bring their child into the world. I cannot fathom it. Jfc.

[@jandavis1523]

Have the hotel pull their video cameras from the false fire alarm incident! She can be charged criminally!!! 🔥🔥🔥

[@shaybay8]

That was the first thing I said too! I'm glad to see this response from someone else as well

[@angelidia]

That's my first thought!

[@moonhunter9993]

yup ans sued for damages

[@dearyvettetn4489]

💯

[@thedreamer215]

That was my first thought as well. The hotel should automatically check for the source of the alarm. I'm sure hotel guests and staff were also affected by this incident.

[@crystalkatsuka]

23:55 no bc i fr used to call my mother your honor when i was in trouble "your honor i swear i didn't break that vase" "your honor i have evidence" we laugh about it every frikin day 😂

[@bonniefoley387]

My parents popped their heads into my room while I was in the middle of pushing... I screamed at them "GET OUT!" My own parents. They were told that no one but my man and hospital staff were allowed in the room. 😂 They totally understood. My doctor literally gave me a look that screamed "what the F were they thinking?" I love that woman.

[@OZARKMOON1960]

The victim in that last story needed to call the police and report felony theft! WTH? I just cannot with people like that. And they didn't break up? Oh, that poor girl is so gaslit she cannot even see the true.

[@martibee8984]

He was definitely in on the theft. There was no other reason for him to give his mother a key that he shouldn't have had in the first place.

[@sharonklug100]

OZARKMOON1960 You cannot what?

[@fairygoth-mother7341]

That last one has me in tears. As someone who has lost a parent, losing those sentimental items is crushing. I honestly don't know what I would do, except for one thing. I would break up with the loser boyfriend immediately and kick his sad ass to the curb without any of his stuff.

[@soumya5832]

Yeah that was too much ...like how dare she??

[@diadislopezguzman633]

I think she should sue him and his mom, because that's unforgivable. He knew what all that meant to her and still gave his mom the keys.

[@fairygoth-mother7341]

@@diadislopezguzman633 Maybe, but how do you put a price on irreplaceable, sentimental items?

[@diadislopezguzman633]

You can't, but at least she's going to demonstrate to them, that they cannot do what they want without having consequence things.

[@IAmStasianna]

The last one was so DIABOLICAL. She absolutely proved why she was uninvited in the first place. The wife probably saw everyone having a good time and felt the family vibe, so she put their differences aside and invited her, just for her to go and ruin everything. If this is how she is as a Mil / grandparent I wonder what she was like when she was raising a child. Smh 😢

[@jomc6734]

Re Grandma being called 'Gary': there is a well-known story that when Prince William was a toddler, he took a tumble and started calling for 'Gary'. People started to look around asking who Gary was and the Queen walked over and said 'that's me'. The worst MIL was the yard sale one. She sold that the girl's memories.

[@kmbaldwin5325]

Love this! On a side note, the moment “Queen Mother” was suggested I would have just said “right, grandma it is then” and walked away.

[@oonachestnut509]

I think the worst one was the mil that got punched. She was actually hitting the wife in the stomach where he c section was. That had to hurt like hell. She could've popped her staples, or the wife could've dropped the baby doubling over in pain.

[@Racingirl911]

I agree. That girl cannot get her memories back! I wonder how much the guy knew about what his momma was going to, and did do?? And WHY in the hell did he give his mom that key??!!! 😡😡

[@bossmommamoves4498]

​@oonachestnut509 ooo girl! I've had 2 c sections. I almost punched the nurse that was trying to push my placenta after let alone a MIL HITTING my scar. Ya I'd have punched too lol

[@donnac2851]

My grandson couldn't say Grandma and called me Carmen 😂

[@joshlaclair2569]

MIL wanted everyone to see she was a double zero.

[@erinclark5681]

That's exactly what I thought!

[@boogermaiden]

Exactly. But what the crap.

[@InspirationalSmiles]

🤢🤢🤢

[@jengsci8268]

MIL's husband would have had to shake the sheets to find her! 😆

[@erikarussell1142]

That’s what I thought. Wanted to brag that she was hotter than the son’s wife to be. Which is creepy and gross. Your children are not your spouse nor your bf/gf. That’s your child, and your child is getting married to the person THEY love. It’s no longer about you. Deal with it. In fact, it shouldn’t have been, the second you decided to be a parent, you no longer are the star of the show. It’s all about the kids, their schedules, and what you can sacrifice to provide a better life than you ever had.