you've been my fav youtuber since the signs vid to the point that i open youtube and check on your channel, please never stop uploading love you bro
@ybctoocold19 күн бұрын
This comment means a lot man, really appreciate the love. I won’t let you down
@ProteusX-S20 күн бұрын
Remembering there are more fish in the ocean
@justsomeguywithatoupee824417 күн бұрын
So few that one would actually desire, though
@blueace-kun412612 күн бұрын
Whales,fish in midnight zone,fish with kids, KRAKENS
@Guerillaking2211 күн бұрын
Literally this and just being comfortable with yourself and being able to walk away. After you go through a few break ups you understand it's not the end of the world and having gone through worse times in my life.
@nobetterplace8709 күн бұрын
Yea but for men that want genuine love we gotta find them in a pond.
@madaraindra98158 күн бұрын
@@nobetterplace870yup it’s rare buts it still a possibility
@GarlicPops19 күн бұрын
I appreciate how brutally honest and accurate this video is. No pat in the back, no bs, just plain useful information
@ybctoocold19 күн бұрын
@@GarlicPops thanks man, truly means a lot
@Bert_o_destruidor11 күн бұрын
I have done almost everything in this list and wishing her the best, if you truly like her, is one of the best. I started forcing it until I was not faking and was the only way out my obsession
@slide631418 күн бұрын
Never be sad or angry bout no girl. Even if shi didn't end well, u gotta look for the good in life. Appreciate the time, the experience and the memories u made w her but also accept life for what it is n just move on.
@kermit_neck_rope549419 күн бұрын
Women who don't appreciate your presence the first time earn your absence the second. I'm not religious, but the saying goes. "God has a way of removing people (women in this case) from your life because he hears conversations you don't." Powerful stuff. Improve for yourself and NOBODY else. This video couldn't have come at a better time to remind me of the basic nature of women. (Got got lacking) It's easy to get lost in the fantasy that "this one's different" Bro no she's not, they are ALL the same, some are just better at hiding it because they're master manipulators. Ghost, detach and move on. You're valuable 💯 ✌️
@ybctoocold19 күн бұрын
Powerful comment 💯
@TonyTheRodentLover20 күн бұрын
I genuinely needed this, I've been obsessively thinking about her for over 2 years but I know she's not into me but deep down I still have some false hope that I still gaslight myself into thinking it's genuine hope, plus it makes my addiction to pmo even worse, so stay strong kings and keep up the great work, you fr need more subscribers❤
@ybctoocold19 күн бұрын
Thank you brother. You’ll get through it
@marcoslightspeed551715 күн бұрын
Limerance
@LuminancePlayz13 күн бұрын
Same bro
@pixelslogan413617 күн бұрын
I love you. that "men are tempted by woman, and women is tempted by the serpant" HITS SO DAMN HARDD BRUHH the bible really be clutching tho but... I love you.
@ybctoocold17 күн бұрын
Love you too ❤️
@pixelslogan413611 күн бұрын
@@ybctoocold luv u more
@butterpecanisfire14 күн бұрын
I didn't realize how mentally strong I am until recently. I realize now that being able to process my emotions and not supress them has helped tremendously (thanks mom). I've never wanted anyone I've dated to come back after breaking/getting broken up with. I started hitting the gym about 10 months after she broke up with me for my own health; it's been about 14 months at this point and I could not imagine letting that yo-yo back into my life. I've met a couple sweet girls since her, and quite frankly I had ZERO clue how shitty she was treating me until I got treated properly. I made myself better for me and to my suprise now I could care less about women. IMO when someone comes along they should be a compliment to my life, not my entire existence. It seems that losing 50lbs and having the confidence of an unchecked state trooper gets me quite a few stares and I have even been blatantly asked out twice recently with zero required effort on my part, which has never happened. Life is okay.
@oscarthebarbarian967317 күн бұрын
Actually pretty decent tier list, except whats wrong with being an attached king lol, I dunno being attached is good. Problem is we get attached to the wrong people, who will use that power over you too fuck you up.
@robotmechanicalwhizkid252117 күн бұрын
well you just explained it yourself really
@keroene514915 күн бұрын
wishing someone the best isn't *always* necessary though, it depends on how things went down. if said person was disrespectful on their way out, i will ghost them completely and never talk to them ever again. no ifs ands or buts. that goes both ways too, men and women. disrespect should never be tolerated and wishing them the best after that is weird and you should use that as motivation to better yourself as well as cutting contact with them completely forever. also going to the gym isn't a bad thing either, it's men that go to the gym in hopes their ex would come back and make corny instagram/tik tok content projecting their situation that's the problem.
@sofarsogod11 күн бұрын
You should wish everyone the best even your enemies thats stoicism, thats true love, thats what true detachment from your ego is, someone did wrong to you, wish them well, be higher, always be higher and better, never allow resentment to control you.
@ConvexFX5 күн бұрын
"It is Biblical that man is tempted by woman, and woman is tempted by the serpent." I never thought of it that way. Wow.
@opita_opica3 күн бұрын
becouse bible tells you everything about the world, you just need to think about it and understand. the world is going forward but people are the same, also i much recomend Marcus Aurelius Meditations
@JanWaibel_Official5 күн бұрын
This is hats off one of the best Videos on This Topic Ive ever Seen. Straight to the Point, giving Perfect advice on how and what to do while keeping it simple Truly stunning stuff man, You’ve outdone anyone Ive Seen discuss this before
@ybctoocold5 күн бұрын
This comment means a lot, I’m glad you resonated with the video man.
@HMNCLunar3 күн бұрын
Great advice throughout all of the video.
@danielaraujo123819 күн бұрын
Needed this. Recently broke up with my ex bc she emotionally cheated on me. Thanks homie
@ybctoocold19 күн бұрын
You got better things than her coming 💯
@irachmaditya10 сағат бұрын
Awesome content, man, this is the content of healthy masculinity and being decisive. At first, I thought you are just some 'macho-alpha' guy but you prove me wrong, your content shows you are better than that.
@s_a_m20072 күн бұрын
The points you made in this video actually resonate so hard and makes sense, keep up the videos your helping us all out 🤝💪
@ybctoocold2 күн бұрын
Thank you man I’m really glad it resonated 🤝
@sam475113 күн бұрын
I remember watching a video where Tristan Tate was talking about how to get over a break up and in the video he said “say goodbye politely keep working on yourself wait 10 years and then if you see her again you can reject her or break her heart again and when you do break up with her leave the phone hanging off the hook
@FabianVirgen-gz9ylКүн бұрын
Bro cooked lowkey needed to hear this keep up the good work bro
@퓨퓨-f1d13 күн бұрын
That's why i dont choose any girls first on dating apps
@emreuyank999819 күн бұрын
Man loved this video so much it's been exactly 1 year since i broke up with that girl and i went through everything you talked in this video😂 But now after a year it feels good to be a detached king and doing things for myself.
@ybctoocold18 күн бұрын
That’s what I like to hear, good stuff man 👑
@Hon_cb1kr20 күн бұрын
Nothing matters. Do what you need to do
@ashishkalra96616 күн бұрын
This is top tier content g
@Ddot67219 күн бұрын
After watching this video, I realized a trick you can use is that you should treat your emotions as a currency and withhold yourself from any random girl you meet. That way if you feel like she's hot, and you feel attracted to her. You won't emotionally invest her because you realize it'll cause unnecessary pain and distress And you'll invest your emotion into something that'll actually pay you back better Just by understanding this, i feel like ive learned a new technique and I can use this in all areas of life
@ybctoocold19 күн бұрын
Yeah, it’s not a good idea to emotionally invest in someone who won’t also do it back. Emotional investment should be a gradual thing.
@marcmeier214819 күн бұрын
This tierlist was top tier definitely one of my favorites!
@ybctoocold19 күн бұрын
Thank you bro
@luker163018 күн бұрын
This is one of the most useful videos I have ever come across and is very helpful for my situation very informative and a real eye opener, thank you bro 👍👍
@ybctoocold18 күн бұрын
👑👑
@azande2320 күн бұрын
YBC is REALLY too cold 😭🙏🔥💯
@MonkeyLiggaScrumptiousNan16 күн бұрын
Jesus Christ, I like your views and even agree with them, but the “wish her the best in life” part as much as I agree with your overall point, good lord is that going to be hard as all hell to achieve ngl. Long story short was together for years she abruptly didn’t talk to me for a month straight In person or online, I go on Facebook randomly one day and see she’s engaged to her “friend” who she’s still engaged to years later as I type this, i definitely still hold a lot of resentment and anger towards the both of them that I don’t really know how to process because it genuinely boils my blood thinking about him specifically with her and all the lies over the years. I can’t bring myself to want the best for him because I want to hurt him permanently or atleast enough to make him afraid for the rest of his life, idk maybe I’m a pos but I hate his guts and can’t bring myself to want anything but misery for him and the rest of his life.
@vishalcvictor173719 күн бұрын
Thankssss broo... lottss of love from India!!! Your tier lists are just so relatable. Best onee i had seen on this platform.. keep goingg
@ybctoocold19 күн бұрын
Thank you bro, appreciate the support fr 💯
@findlayhatfield653610 күн бұрын
I love you bro. This video hit me on the deepest level.
@ybctoocold10 күн бұрын
Love you too man, glad I could help you.
@lukethekuya2 күн бұрын
Realest video yet.
@zachschafer62295 күн бұрын
what's better telling her you don't care about her or wishing her the best?
@samueljohnston487119 күн бұрын
I like to see it from a religious/spiritual prospective. God loves me and I love God and myself I could die alone and it's fine
@Elmo91419 күн бұрын
Its mostly has to do with time, it takes time to get over someone. I don't really agree with the hatred point of view, I think channeling that anger to better yourself is useful, the forgiveness part comes later. It took me awhile to even forgive, but most men and women need time alone to process those emotions but if they use those negative emotions to push themselves in something rather than contacting that individual, I think its a good thing. Forgiveness takes alot of strength, you can't expect someone to forgive easily and wish someone "well". That comes with time. I personally did it, because of my faith. I still have alot disdain for that person, I know its wrong, but the your instincts don't forget. Doesn't matter how much you lie to yourself thinking its okay.
@ybctoocold19 күн бұрын
For sure, channeling it properly is great but clinging onto it can ruin your inner peace. Forgiveness isn’t easy at all but it’s necessary, just comes with time. Thanks for the insight
@Anonymous-rj2lk19 күн бұрын
Love but dont get attached, for example: I love to play some specific video game, but it wont bother me if I wont play.
@Anonymous-rj2lk19 күн бұрын
And I think the best way to this is to develop self worth and independance, it prevents relying on her for your own self validation
@car85518 күн бұрын
Ive only just found ur channel and watched ur tier list vids but ur killin it! For a video idea, it would be great if u did a video on humor whether that means how to be funny for women or just in general. Love ur jokes btw!
@ybctoocold18 күн бұрын
Thank you for the love bro! Humor is a good idea, it falls into ways of talking to women which I’ll do a tier list on for sure.
@LanPodder14 күн бұрын
I wish her the best and i am the best
@PzngV220 күн бұрын
tbh im not that hurt because i focus on myself and I didnt get to know her much mostly but i was acting kind of weird bc I was overthinking shit way too much so I just moved on but she looks at me so much when im at training its pretty confusing lol, I dont rly chase girls and im only 15 so gotta stay on the grind your vids are really interesting to watch and unique waiting till you get big.
@ybctoocold19 күн бұрын
Thank you so much bro, at 15 you’re ahead of the curve. I wish I had this knowledge back then. Keep killing it 👑
@-miromax-534919 күн бұрын
liked this a lot, especially part about archetypes of seduction at the beginning
@Catorales19 күн бұрын
i love how as soon as i click this video , this b text me ...
@JobeeTabs19 күн бұрын
Thanks for this bro. Been here before you achieve 100k subs
@ybctoocold19 күн бұрын
👑
@XirevWoW13 күн бұрын
I'm in the situation where she's the one always messaging me first. Since we started talking over 2 months ago I have only messaged her first a single time. She gets annoyed if I don't answer quickly. She wants to play games with me and watch movies and shows together. I'm feeling like she only wants to be friends though. It's fucking with my brain.
@ybctoocold13 күн бұрын
Sounds like she likes you bro, make a move
@XirevWoW13 күн бұрын
Based on things she has said it feels like she needs a lot of time to decide on someone, she doesn't want to get hurt so she pushes guys away that try to get close to her. I have made sexual remarks to show that I'm interested in more but she just tells me to behave, but she doesn't stop talking to me even after me insinuating that I want to be sexual with her in different ways. She has mentioned she doesn't like hookup culture and doesn't want to have sex before a relationship so I'm not sure if I've kind of ruined my chances by showing interest in that way. She is already kind of giving me the girlfriend experience (minus the sex) so I'm not sure if I should just be fine with the situation as it is and hope she will come around to being more affectionate in the future
@StayFocusedQuentin19 күн бұрын
More Tierlists plz 😅
@Mystical_200519 күн бұрын
Great video man this hella helps!
@IMM0Rtal31810 күн бұрын
"Error 101 memories not found"
@coltson32719 күн бұрын
Subbed.
@jannah-g6d10 күн бұрын
You said “getting her never feels as good as wanting her but not having her” this means you have a fantasy about what being in a relationship is supposed to be like rather than just accepting the reality. That’s why you devalued her or the relationship. I notice in a lot of videos you describe being “obsessed” with a woman a lot this isn’t healthy. Look into attachment styles. If you keep going like this than you probably will never appreciate the real person you’re with or the relationship as a whole. Also this is not always the experience for everybody so you telling guys that your experience is the norm is basically coping. There’s plenty of couples out there that will tell you they are each others favorite person to hang out with over their friends and even family and they don’t see their relationship as boring or passion-less like you did. I think it’s just hard for most teenagers to have that type of mature relationship because usually you’re not adding that much value to each other’s lives since you’re so underdeveloped. It’s not as deep of a connection as older love. Especially when it comes to most modern day relationships.
@niepboss337419 күн бұрын
Do ways to turn on a girl tier list
@attroenergizer811518 күн бұрын
mfker i loved this video it is really one of a kind instant subscriber
@ybctoocold18 күн бұрын
@@attroenergizer8115 thank you bro, more to come 💯
@dogamongstmen19 күн бұрын
Wishing her the best is cope. Making her regret it should be at the top.
@ybctoocold19 күн бұрын
How is wishing her the best and moving on more cope than being butthurt and trying to make her regret it 💀
@dogamongstmen19 күн бұрын
Revenge.
@ybctoocold19 күн бұрын
@@dogamongstmenbro watched anime before this video
@dogamongstmen19 күн бұрын
@@ybctoocold Wishing the best for someone who hates you is cucked.
@dogamongstmen19 күн бұрын
@@ybctoocold It is unwise to wish the best for someone who hates you.
@puggy000019 күн бұрын
where is getting with their best friend on the list
@ybctoocold19 күн бұрын
@@puggy0000 ahh yes the ultimate power move. Too high of a tier to be on the list
@tominovrana18 күн бұрын
Bro fr Cersei after season 5 is just not it
@a.k.axurai567819 күн бұрын
How do you make these tier list with the text? I wanna make my own for personal use.
@ybctoocold19 күн бұрын
@@a.k.axurai5678 I use the tier maker website and use their text to image generator to put in my categories.
@Aurosis19 күн бұрын
You forgot the sour grapes strategy
@mikokun771419 күн бұрын
You have to be EXTREMELY careful when you decide to take a girl Serious that Chooses you. There’s a Reason Why Gigachad Walks Past the 304’s that Eye Him Down or Floods his DM’s. if she is a Saint of God she is reading the Bible Waiting Not Lusting Herself. This is definition of the Devil in Disguise 🔱
@homiesenatep18 күн бұрын
I would hate both versions of women
@Alcoholic_Driver18 күн бұрын
Autism = over why should I even continue to try dating
@Mohammadreza-b4v16 күн бұрын
do a face reveal
@ybctoocold15 күн бұрын
Already revealed it a while ago. Older videos and profile pic
@abdulazizhawsah98843 күн бұрын
women tempted by the serpent ???
@steven167117 күн бұрын
You put going to the gym in the lowest tier, and called it “gymcel”? Weight lifting is a great hobby, it makes you healthier, stronger, makes you feel better and will distract you long enough to forget about your ex completely. There’s nothing wrong with going to the gym to improve your health - both physical and mental. Health reasons. People don’t go to the gym to look better for their ex… that’s incorrect. They go to make themselves feel better. They do it for themselves. Simple as.