"We Are Both Trans And DATING!" Reacting To T4T Couples

[@marcusdib]

Have you ever been in a relationship with a trans person?

[@JUMOVAS]

i used to be a fake transsexual in a t4t couple. we broke it off though, thank god. my partner at the time was very controlling of my speech and beliefs. saying i needed to have my pronouns listed, that we're the same as biological men (we're biologically female) and she'd even try to get a gay man in our relationship.

[@danamania150]

@@JUMOVASI’m so glad you escaped that life 🙏

[@testpattern23]

I have not. As a matter of fact there were very few, if any trans people in my community growing up (I'm gen X). What used to be rare has ballooned into a social statement. I have no problem with what people do with themselves, I come from a very long tryst with the goth/industrial subculture, so have seen quite a bit of the fringe and am more accepting than a lot. But my preference is biological women...well now that I'm almost 50, more like my preference is the TV (my dating pool has shrunk a wee bit).

[@missvioletblue]

I have a struggling supposedly ftm partner. It's a biological female identifying as a man since he was a child and using he/him pronounce. The thing is - he's not sure. He's not sure if he wants to get testosteron, he doubts he wants to remove his breasts, though, he says he's gender-dysphoric with the way his voice sounds or because he has breasts. He seems confused, because when someone asks him what gender is he, he actually says he has no idea. He struggles with low self-esteem and other mental health issues. The problem is that we live in Russia. Not only It's homophobic, it's as well is transphobic, so he can't reach for a gender dysphoria treatment and he also can't reach therapy. I feel stuck. I wish I could help him somehow.

[@shirleyshirley4188]

Yes, two people and it consumed their lives. They were nonfunctional outside of that head space. Every conversation revolved around their ideology. Finding work was impossible because it was hard to find a place that was ok with them for some reason that was never clear. They needed constant validation and always had a victim mentality. Their bodies were a constant worry. Their treatment was a constant worry. The world looking down on them was a constant threat. They were both trying to get on disability for depression and claimed to be depressed because they were trans. As a mutual friend said about one of them, "Nothing is normal". Literally nothing was normal. Getting a glass of water was somehow a related to being trans.

[@justachickwholovesmash]

Marcus spacing out when he mentions his boyfriend may just be the most adorable thing ever.

[@deanad2960]

And he blushed a little 😊

[@TedEhioghae]

Heterosexual relationship too.

[@Jenwinter85]

I don't understand so Marcus transition to be a man is in a relationship with another man. So thus living a gay life style. Thus, in reality he's in a straight relationship because biologically he was born female. I thought most transgender males are attracted to other females?

[@rattgod]

Marcus is just straight with extra steps lmao

[@dammar117]

I replayed the video and didn't see his face becoming red...

[@dhaa1973]

"you see me" translates to: "you tell me what i want to hear and therefore i appreciate you"

[@Paku456]

Or they just actually respect them…

[@chris23tg]

@@Paku456your ideology is incorrect

[@Paku456]

@@chris23tg I don’t subscribe to any ideology.. I’m a free thinker.

[@Paku456]

@@chris23tg I’m not on the right and I’m not on the left I think both sides are insane.

[@darahrouge]

But that is often why people get together.

[@cherie5133]

Can someone explain to me why a person who is non-binary is going through transition from one binary to another?

[@Eragarev]

They think of nonbinary as trans by virtue of identifying differently. That's it. Whatever they are dealing with internally is considered irrelevant because their only rule is that self-id is valid no matter what. That's why they have a problem with people who say that self-id means nothing because they can't deal with the fact that some people have different standards.

[@tassiodrigues]

Cuz one "cool" label isn't enough, you have to have more labels to be cooler and unique, that means more woke points. Even if they makes 0 sense 🥴

[@pippy21]

The whole idea of being non binary in and of itself doesn't make any sense. I went on Google to look for a clear definition. Basically it's complicated. Like wtf. 🤨

[@emilydrake3431]

By their definition of both, it’s impossible

[@welsh.truth.dragon3914]

Exactly. Make it mske sense. It doesn't.

[@jamielynnwallace1125]

I’m a transsexual woman and my wife is also…. I’m very happy, but not because we’re “trans”. And I agree with you…I’m not posting about or glamorizing our lives because being transsexual isn’t something we want to advertise….it’s not something we find important to who we are.

[@scottpendleton2798]

I have learned a lot about trans issues from this channel shout out to the offensive tyranny for calling out the bullshit

[@Nylon_riot]

You sound like bona fide trans people instead of narcissists taking advantage of the movement. Secure people don't need external validation.

[@alabama.worley]

​@@scottpendleton2798Yes, love me some offensive Tyranny!

[@jennyrabbit4643]

That's what I was just posting about. There's a difference between transgender woke queer culture people and actual transsexual people.The queer culture people spend a lot of time thinking about the rest of the world and how it perceives them, making this massive spectacle out of themselves and sharing too much information. Meanwhile, the rest of the world only thinks about them most of the time because they're making this massive spectacle out of themselves and trying to colonize everything, etc.

[@Azenio]

I’m a transsexual woman everything you said here was so true 😌

[@shiina29]

They’re not actually scared. If they were, they’d be giving each other practical tips like “Before you disclose that you’re trans, talk about a famous trans person and see how they react.”

[@Kelsea-im8ob]

They're probably scared of being judged

[@papismacker]

@@Kelsea-im8ob being judged for being a heterosexual couple

[@tassiodrigues]

It's a staged "scary"

[@daniella8400]

Let’s be honest, most people can easily identify 90% of trans people.

[@CordeliaWagner1999]

Like Elliot Page and how healthy and happy he looks?

[@alittlewheiser521]

Remember when people didn’t want to be labeled?

[@daTribbleMaker]

That waas sooooooo 2019.

[@V1LL1N]

Yeh, talk about too far... now it's "I'm unlabelable! Gender is beneath me!" What do I call myself?

[@GadsdenHomie1776]

Those were good times.

[@Risingboiting]

@@daTribbleMakermore like 2009

[@eerielamp]

​@@V1LL1N God 😌 (I jest)

[@animekid2979]

Remember: These people believe you're transphobic for not dating them. The hypocrisy.

[@HebiHouse]

And the entitlement

[@elijahsesi4755]

Do YOU wanna date them? Let them date each other, that'd a win win

[@maikawaiip-chan2660]

... Aren't they the same people who call people transphobic beacuse someone doesnt want to date them... Make it make sense.

[@pippy21]

It's that male entitlement. 😒

[@maikawaiip-chan2660]

@@pippy21 are you talking about my statement or calling me male as... Sorry to say I'm female lol.

[@pippy21]

@maikawaiip-chan2660 Sorry friend. I meant the female to male folks who never outgrow their anger and entitlement despite claiming to have a female brain. I should have explained that. ☺️

[@pippy21]

Omg, male to female I mean. I always get those confused. 😔

[@AA-ed6ek]

@@pippy21 What a pathetic misandrist witch you are. I'm going to take a page from your book. You're a Western female so of course you're a misandrist. And it's hypocritical of you to talk about entitlement you first world brat. Let's agree to you all being horrible human beings, American. Do I sound enough like you? Oh, maybe you criticizing them for just existing led to this. You are you though and self reflecting is taboo to you. Just like taking responsibility and being an adult.

[@christopherflux6254]

It makes sense that someone wants to date someone who understands them. So I don’t have an issue with trans people preferring to date other trans people. As a Christian I only date Christians, because a non-Christian won’t be able to get me.

[@johnnyh3450]

That "Am Yisrael Hai" comment just made my day. Thank you ❤

[@lizzeltired2155]

I support T for T, especially in cases where the person says they are trans and still attached to opposite sex. But it seems that most trans “lesbians” do not want to date another trans woman.

[@Scar-jg4bn]

Because they're just autogynophelic straight guys that are preying on women.

[@pippy21]

I never understood why the T women won't date other T women or T men. It almost seems like they are admitting that the T isn't authentic. 🤔

[@eerielamp]

I remember the video or post where people set up blind dates for T women (who identified as lesbian), telling them they were paired with another woman- and when they showed up and found out they were paired with another T woman, they apparently got aggressive 😂 . Like, why you mad, hon? Are they NOT a woman? Hm? Hahah

[@Ursulas_Odds_and_Sods]

@@pippy21I'll never forget someone answering that question, "No, that's gross," and then elaborating, "No, WE'RE not gross, but the thought of being with another transsexual IS gross!"

[@AA-ed6ek]

@@pippy21 Lol.

[@renegadetherapist5664]

As a therapist I am seeing a lot of damage being done to our young people. They are heavily influenced by peers and the internet, and they are confused, depressed and anxious. They wouldn't be in my office if they were happy. I could give tons of examples of the damage this is doing, not enough space here. When you are an adult, do what you want, but as Pink Floyd said, Leave us Kids alone!! It is so sad.

[@eerielamp]

Make Pink Floyd Great Again 💪

[@tondalayakapoofnick2681]

You can't be transgender AND nonbinary.😊

[@robotmerger]

literally

[@pippy21]

What the hell is non-binary friend?? 😬

[@1shoukiii]

​@@pippy21it means that you don't identify with either male or female 😬

[@pippy21]

@@1shoukiii How is that even possible.

[@Eragarev]

​@pippy21 They are people who put gender identity before everything else. To identify with their sexes would mean that they are letting gender take a back seat, but instead, they bring it forward and attempt to live that way.

[@LWillowbrook]

Its immensely annoying how they act like their lives are in danger around conservatives. Like wth. Most of us really don't care, unless you go for our kids. Or harass us over pronouns.

[@AmazingRebel23]

A "nonbinary" person today tried to convince me we are living in a conservative area... It's literally the west coast of Canada, she can move to Victoria that has the highest amount of trans people in the country lmao

[@pippy21]

I agree!! Then they become so angry and hateful towards us when we tell them to leave us alone. It makes no sense. This is literally their whole personality and nothing else matters to them. How incredibly sad.

[@hannahsarthub]

They think that misgendering is the same thing as physical harm.

[@pippy21]

@hannahreimer1362 I met some trans folks before. The mtf were all about wearing so much makeup, wigs, huge fake boobs, and I always felt like they were jealous of me... I'm a bio woman btw. They're very passive aggressive. One threatened to harm me before. It was scary. 😟 The female to male kept talking and joking about his top surgery. It made me uncomfortable. I tried to be kind though. One time I asked him how he's doing and he said he identifies as he, they, and she. Last picture I saw of him was one of him posing in a pretty dress. I honestly do not understand it. He can't undo the effects of the testosterone or get his healthy breasts back. I wonder if he regrets it. 😮‍💨

[@wiffleswithsyrup8256]

​​@@pippy21I'm calling BS.

[@pembrokelove]

6:44 that’s super weird to me - not as a trans person, but as a person with injectable medication. My bestie also has MS and is also on copaxone, and like… there’s a lot that goes into how coapaxone is is injected, getting the depth right, rotating sites, loading the autoinjector for setting depth, etc. So when she first started, of course I helped her figure it all out; beyond that, we don’t get together in a shooting range and take Power Pictures of us injecting our medications. 😂😂😂 That’s just super weird. Like… what?!! If we’re supposed to be treating gender dysphoria and its treatment like any other medical condition / treatment… then isn’t it a little bit weirdo to be making such a big thing about it? Just take your damn medicine. We don’t need a production.

[@MsFlamingFlamer]

Right, I have to take daily injectable medication due to a medical issue. I know other people who have the same medical condition and we have helped each other giving tips as to how to take the medication. We appreciated the help but that’s it. We are not filming ourselves taking it with each other and acting like it’s glamorous. That’s beyond bizarre.

[@norskawood]

Aww, you mean no one wants to see me inject my insulin? Well, pits. /s

[@eerielamp]

That rough, I'm so sorry you have to deal with that 😢 Like Exulansic says: it's a ritual for their religion; and the more people they can convert by informing, normalizing, and glamorizing the act, the better.

[@Youre-Welcome]

I take an injectable medication, and I would NEVER tell anyone, let alone glamorize it! That's mostly a me thing...but it's just gross how social contagion is real

[@eseruwu]

I am a trans man in a relationship with a trans woman. I am not in a relationship with her because she is trans, I am in a relationship with her because she is an amazing person and I want to spend the rest of my life with her.

[@ErinDeBuitleir]

🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@xx.aether.xx3647]

wish u two the best ^^ im in a couple too and we re both trans, but didnt even know at the start when getting to know them, just fell completely in love w the person ^^ Sad that they re going through those troubles too. Though it is cool that we can help each other feel safe/understood bc we both know how it feels. But, just being w someone bc they re trans is shit, i hope thats rare.

[@jasminecruz2826]

Well she’s a he then according to Marcus but still trans

[@joeyk5]

It’s getting too much for my brain to comprehend. Thanks to you Marcus explaining what a lot of it means and debunking the hypocrisy

[@JemJam2976]

You aren't the only one, because, what? 🤔🫨 I am scratching my head on this one

[@emilye.8779]

Maybe they should all just date each other instead of complaining about “cis” people not wanting to date them. I’d honestly rather this than anything else

[@welsh.truth.dragon3914]

Being called a "cis" woman is so offensive. IM A WOMAN.

[@Kerina77]

​@@welsh.truth.dragon3914Ok cis woman.

[@hiddenvalleyranch775]

​@@welsh.truth.dragon3914It's MA'AM!!!

[@omgfreddy698]

@@welsh.truth.dragon3914 guess ill starting saying biological female instead of cis women….u still offended?

[@welsh.truth.dragon3914]

@@omgfreddy698 no I wouldn't be offended being called a biological woman because I am a biological female. The term "cis" is a slur and I don't know if you have noticed its mainly men wearing dresses claiming to be women who's causing most of the embarrassment to the trash community. A vast majority of these men are not trans, they are unhinged.

[@binbats8626]

I like how as a gay man a lot of trans people feel entitled to my sexual attraction, but T4T is considered okay by the same people who condemn my sexuality... What a sick, twisted timeline

[@tassiodrigues]

They're doing the same thing as the straight toxic males who judged our sexuality a LOT, before. But they think they can be toxic because they're trans or something 😐

[@dregavero]

this is true and so sad 😢this modern trans movement not only re-ignites the hate from the conservatives, but also propagates hate itself towards the actual original l g b t people 😢 I wish more men would also speak up about the issues gay men face

[@binbats8626]

@@tassiodrigues I agree; and honestly it's predatory. Someone feeling entitled to your body is disgusting

[@grenade8572]

WUT ? What do these people tell you? 😮

[@chris23tg]

I as a gay man 20 years ‘out’ I find it incredibly difficult to understand what I see now as a sea of young trans and non binary within the gay scene and on dating apps. If you miss gender them they are incredibly upset, to the point of aggression at times. This attitude makes me feel uncomfortable and ‘they’ as unapproachable sadly. If gay men are struggling to identify their chosen pronouns what hope does society have? The video is interesting as it states the movement is driven by social media. My Grindr is full of young trans these days.

[@trismaccarran9950]

You're not "offensive" to anyone but the decidedly delusional

[@scottpendleton2798]

I don't care what other people do, as long as no one is getting hurt and both parties consent I don't care what you do. Not my business

[@mmc1086]

Same. If only they’d leave the damn kids and women’s spaces alone

[@Kelsea-im8ob]

Same and same

[@11sonicspeed]

This is a pretty common stance on trans people. Most people don't care, but then they started coming for the kids.

[@baconsarny-geddon8298]

I don't care who you want to have a relationship with, go wild... I care when biological males (the evidence-based SEX, not the fairy-dust based, self-declared """gender""") want to invite themselves into the bathroom where my 7yo daughter is most vulnerable... I care when they want to control MY language, and force me to PRETEND to share their 100% evidence-free, pseudo-religious belief in sex-independent "gender", with wrong-sex pronouns. I respect that THEY have a right to say/believe whatever evidence-free nonsense they choose... The problem is that these intolerant authoritarians won't respect MY right to be honest about MY belief in evidence-based biological reality... Fun fact- While biological males commit over 98% of sex offences, those men who self-ID as "trans women" commit sex offences at an EVEN HIGHER rate (around 4x higher) than the overall male average. Statistically, women and girls would be safer, letting any man who DOESN'T self-ID as a "trans women" use female bathrooms... (but obviously the MOST safe option, is to only allow real-world, evidence-based females into female bathrooms; Crazy idea, I know...)

[@kymo6343]

I mean it's annoying that they think "Straight with Extra Steps" is more special than regular straight but at least they ain't bugging gay ppl to date them...

[@mishiou7244]

I'm a transsexual who is dating another transsexual. It's not a big deal I dated men and women before. I fell in love with the person period. Pronouns, gender identity had nothing to do with my choice. We're just happy. It's that simple.

[@skylineXpert]

Its not like that anymore. Life isnt so simple as it used to be. The ingrown narcisistic trades & individualism has taken root for too long...

[@mishiou7244]

@skylineXpert life is as simple as you make it. There either into you or there not from my perspective. You know the baggage that comes along with the relationship you are in. I say screw what people think and be happy. It your life not what social media says it should be. I like to think that people are still able to think independently.

[@Levijatan1389]

In the words of Dr.Lecter:"Billy hates his own identity and he thinks that makes him trans"... People,doctors used to see and make a difference.

[@heavenlycrow3961]

I’ve often thought about this line during these last several years.

[@Kaczyfunny]

You mean Hannibal Lecter? It was in the series?

[@Rat_Queen86]

@@heavenlycrow3961same. It’s very sad. Genuinely trans people don’t hate themselves but many of these ‘trans’ people do

[@Levijatan1389]

@@Kaczyfunny The original movie with Anthony Hopkins and Jodie Foster ,"The Silence of The Lambs" from 1991.

[@Kaczyfunny]

@@Levijatan1389 I did not watched the series. Also i watched the film several times, but it was a while. Thanks :-)

[@Chick4choice]

How about we all just let people love whoever they want and stay outta everybody’s business…..and with that, we stop posting every personal and intimate detail about ourselves and our relationships on the friggin internet?

[@keashanice2526]

Maybe if they’d stop shoving it in our faces, forcing themselves into spaces that aren’t theirs, forcing us to change our vocabulary, getting mad and wanting to beat us up for misgendering them, taking women’s stuff and wanting to change it so that it meets their delusional needs, then maybe we’ll leave them alone✌🏾oh and also stop involving kids in this ideology. And making everything about them and their needs and ignoring everyone else’s needs

[@jadefire2817]

So ...........straight ,with extra steps??

[@Cosmic_Kitten2]

When someone makes their life all about WHAT they are instead of WHO they are it screams insecurity, to me. It seems a very sad way to live.

[@tandysaysyoucandoanything6758]

I’m glad they’re dating themselves and not pressuring str8 people to date them

[@tkps]

Yeah I'm thinking it's a win win for us.

[@AmorinhaXD]

i mean, at least they are not trying to convince me that i have to be attracted to them

[@justmehere6094]

What exactly does a nonBinary Trans person TRANSition to?

[@trismaccarran9950]

........🤔 good question

[@weswolever7477]

My head hurts

[@loisen]

That was also my problem. Which gender is non binary?

[@tassiodrigues]

It's like they admitted non binary isn't a real thing by transitioning, but they will scream and curse if you say it's not a real thing 😆

[@boxergirl84]

If violence against trans people wasn'tt a thing, we wouldn't have spent all these years campaigning and protesting for trans rights. My friend, learn your own history. Its safe for you as long as you can blend in

[@seagreenmoon13]

Or you protested and campaigned about a cause you invented inside your own delulu community, that's just as possible. What kind of argument is that? "We danced that means the music was on".

[@123456qwerty939]

these stunning and brave individuals are finally queering heterosexuality

[@Wallflowerzizme]

Why is the most based and hilarious comment I’ve ever read … I mean, honestly… that’s exactly what the fuck they’re doing. 😂😂

[@ImogenShade]

You nailed it! If homosexuality was queer!

[@wiffleswithsyrup8256]

​@@WallflowerzizmeA South Park quote?

[@ErinRogoff]

I don't understand the desire to be seen as male if you're a masculine female, or seen as female if you're a feminine man. Not everyone has gender dysphoria, and it's a shame that some people see this as contemporary body modification. Women need their breasts for a reason, and men need their unit for a reason. I don't speak for anyone but myself, but I couldn't date someone who was trans; I'd love to date and eventually marry a biological man who is loyal, intelligent, supportive, protective, established in himself and confident about who he is as a man, and who's ready for the apocalypse at a moment's notice. Being a survivalist, this is extremely important to me.

[@nathans.5911]

You are 90% forehead. He's gonna need help surviving the apocalypse w u as soon as the food supply runs out cause I know your gonna eat him.

[@JamieMarzy]

This is a heterosexual relationship.

[@aeh3253]

Marcus is technically straight; being female and dating a male.

[@yerrterrb8435]

He has addressed this before. He essentially said it would be silly to say that its a hetero relationship, only because any onlooker would see two *men* together, so it makes more sense and is easier to just say they're a gay couple, rather than go into the explanation and nuance of how he's biologically female.

[@JamieMarzy]

​@@yerrterrb8435I'm not talking about Marcus I meant the male and female couple in the beginning of the video

[@eerielamp]

I'm actually cool if they're in love- yes, het couple for all intents and purposes, but my hesitation (probablly similar to Marcus but ill summarize it with my words) is the way they talk about their relationship. The two of them- at least in the clips Marcus shared- describe finding their love because no one else saw their unique genders, which apparently no cis person is capable of. That alone cannot sustain a relationship, since focusing on life through the lens of gender is limiting, and dare I say exhausting. "Go touch grass" is quite a dismissive and harsh comment to give them, but it's laced with a bit of truth in that there's more to life than which sex class does what and why. I feel like this is why conservative areas, while they might feel harsh and unwelcoming from the outside, do accept trans people, because if they're down-to-earth and honest about their situation and get on with their life, they'll come around. (Edit: missed a word)

[@aeh3253]

@@yerrterrb8435 well "he" can say that, but considering he's not woke it seems contradictory to say that, given that "he" is biologically female.

[@GeoffInfield]

People with a pathological need to be different to anyone else are oddly passionate about labelling themselves aren't they?

[@kellysouter4381]

And everyone else

[@robertf.8463]

Jerry Springer is gone. Someone has to come in and fill the void.

[@Kelsea-im8ob]

Jordan Peterson

[@wiffleswithsyrup8256]

​@@Kelsea-im8obFrankly, I'm waiting for him to be outed in a scandal.

[@gilliandey2490]

Super true sir

[@Rockinroomsrob]

Just a straight couple then...??

[@nickname2935]

To be fair, I enjoy being best friends with another transman. It's a special kind of comradery. And it's cool to have someone to share my experience with. But it's not THAT big of a deal.

[@baronghede2365]

They need to stay together, Blessed Be.

[@brigidosullivan5704]

In my past I was in a very nasty cult. The more I watch this group the more it reminds me of the cult. The way they recruit, the way they keep you in, the way they react to people who get out. This is a cult and that is a really dangerous thing.

[@tkps]

The saving grace is cults tend to end up coming and going. More wake up to what it is than don't. This too will end.

[@brigidosullivan5704]

@@tkps good point.

[@gingercantaffordparada855]

you stoping and saying "i am yisrael chai" warmed my heart❤Thank you Marcus!

[@Hexx_Iztenze]

So they only date other trans for comfort, but if someone doesn't want to date a trans person, it's transphobia... Nothing to with comfort. Seems quite hypocritical.

[@Green_Leaf]

lol 😂😂😂😂 My Christian lady friends are way kinder to me than most apparent lefty people I meet. Maybe my bias, but it’s hard to change my mind when the trans insanity seemingly never ends… Yes, 100% of my friends and acquaintances are “regular” people, aka non transgender. This is because I am real and do not expect special treatment or anything from anyone.

[@Marie-md5yj]

I love how casually Marcus talks about people loving being lied to. 😂Which is true. This whole positive affirmation gender movement is based on being required to tell lies to people in their face.

[@snows12152]

“ back to dating a man…apparently…”

[@Tati_doodle]

AHHH THE KING HAS POSTED

[@evagilkerson2288]

Yesss

[@jelly4frog498]

i mean he posts a lot..

[@weswolever7477]

Long live the king

[@beckicave7611]

So they feel unsafe......what about the women/young ladies/girls who feel threatened & uncomfortable when a man enters our washrooms/changing rooms. What about lesbians who feel harassed & intimidated when transwomen are trying to force us into dating them.

[@ArminSteiner]

I never thought I would ever see a sane trans person again in my live. So thank you for the work you do.

[@berik101]

0:46 Thank you Marcus :) Greetings from a religious jewish trans man.

[@totallyrealnotfakelifeadvi7547]

💕 it’s delightful to see a KZbinr who doesn’t fall for the propaganda

[@hanjxoe]

to be fair there's some places (cough cough Italy) where being gay, trans etc. among conservative people can literally be a physical threat to you

[@user-zl9sh9mz6h]

Young man, I'm from the South, and I can tell you for a fact that Southerners are extremely intolerant, sometimes to the point of violence.

[@oryan1640]

thank you for your support🇮🇱❤️

[@camille5073]

Am I the only one watching the mouse move in the background 1:27? 😂

[@iditgreenberg]

Hi Marcus! I’m a huge fan! I’d love to hear from you about the “Twin Flame” documentary, and how the convinced some Of the women there they are actually “masculine energy”, and should be the “man” in a relationship.

[@FannyDiazIsrael]

Thank you for your reference to Israel, Marcus 🙏🏽 Am Israel Hai. עם ישראל חי 🩵

[@kaithegreat.]

Bro has NOT heard of positivity

[@sevenalexand]

If you ever hear someone say cishet and a derogatory way which is pretty much the only way you can use that word; that person is probably in a cult. For real I've only ever heard people use that word in insane situations. Like I walked into my local GSA sat down and they were like four they/thems(who were literally just yowie obsessed straight girls who infantilized gay relationships) in the room and they were having a discussion on how they could commit violent act against cishets in retaliation for imaginary discrimination.

[@thecatgotfatfromtheratinthehat]

Am Israel Chai 🇮🇱 and your pronunciation was awesome ❤

[@ophilianecr]

I remember when the LGBT community had one message: *LOVE IS LOVE* 💜 We didn't need to shame and force others to date us because we were LGBT, we just wanted to be able to live our life and love our partners openly the way the rest of the world did. 😢

[@shiina29]

@3:26 Boyfriend dumped her days after she got top surgery, if I remember right.

[@GhastlyRune]

I began my ftm transition about 5 years ago and the experience I've had through my whole transition has made me so anxious when I hear about or see T4T couples. When I first voiced wanting to seek therapy for my issues, my friend went from doing things like going off on me about how I was wrong and shouldn't seek therapy to stalking and harassing me with death threats for years while also copying my identity all the way to dong HRT. T4T couples remind me of this person because, after they had met a "genderfluid" homeless man at a convention where my ex friend was cross dressing as a man to act like me, they started dating then super quickly after jumped to doing HRT through a consent clinic like it was a romantic gesture to do it at the same time, within the month they met for the first time and after 4 months after my ex friend began the abusive behaviors. It haunts me to this day because being the target of my ex friend's obsession gives me a sense of guilt despite how all I wanted was therapy and a solution. I know there is probably some authentic trans couples out there, but any time I see them I can't help but question what's going on there because of the bizarre trauma my ex friend caused.

[@marytermini1381]

What's with the string cheese? LOL!

[@dylwoman806]

love from Israel

[@evagilkerson2288]

Okay they wanna look like the opposite sex then their own but aren't they having straight male and female sex?i am confused..you can't call it gay sex

[@Emilaria]

Idk, Marcus, I'd categorize your trifecta of humor, sarcasm, and wit as a superpower.

[@joyseegers5783]

Ahhhh, I live in South Dakota and am very conservative. We really aren’t evil and trans sexuals as yourself who NEEDED to transition to live as a man or a women for your mental illness is NOT judged. I feel bad for you that you’ve had to suffer with this mental affliction ( and will gladly admit that you very much pas for a attractive male ).. for me personally I empathize because I suffer from Severe drug resistant bipolar . I know first hand that we do what we need to do to feel better and navigate this world and live our best lives as healthy and happy.. as we can ! I also have 7 kiddos - one of them being gay …and oh so shocking !; we as conservatives love him for who he is as a person . Thank you Marcus for always speaking out with truth . Love you and will always support you 💙🩵

[@WizardToby]

I don't have a problem with T4T, it's just a dating preference. And I'm not sure how familiar you are with the US, Marcus, but in some areas of our country, you will still get judged or attacked for being trans or gay. Maybe not by the government but by individual people, particularly conservative religious people who hate anyone who isn't straight.

[@thebeastfromwithin3024]

Maybe this might sound close-minded. But I totally approve of this. In that way, they won't feel the need to be obsessed with dating a "cis" person.

[@toscatattertail9813]

I now a couple, one is non-binary (f) the other is M2F trans. They married 12 years ago as a "normal " couple but the relationship was rocky. 3 years ago and tons of therapy, the acceptance of who and what they are began and both are much happier they way they are now. ..Personally I don't care who is which and for why ...as long as they are content and feel safe the way they are.

[@EgbertWilliams]

They're extra special and super interesting.

[@joeroganreviewexperience9964]

Its just people doing role play, its not real , they make sexulalty their identity, they are play acting.

[@veronikanikitina5852]

Sending love from Israel❤️🇮🇱

[@TaliEpshtein]

The Am Israel Hai caught me so off guard as an Israeli fan, thank you so much 🥹💜

[@daTribbleMaker]

I could be wrong but I think Marcus was being sarcastic.

[@hankro1]

​@@daTribbleMakerhe wasn’t

[@TaliEpshtein]

​@@daTribbleMaker He was clearly referring to Israel as the only state closest to the west when it comes to lgbt acceptance in the middle east.

[@glykera]

​@@daTribbleMakerHe wasn't.

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

Sounds like they are living with a euphoric delusion. The irony is they think it’s so unique and special..which is SO close-minded. As if people can’t connect and have deep relationships who aren’t delusional and brainwashed 😬

[@ferndoggiedogg181]

This sounds like an episode of the Jerry Springer show

[@Okojscreech]

The thumbnail has me crying 😭 love u Marcus

[@moralorel978]

Imagine thinking that someone's preference is an issue...

[@adrianaherrera7202]

Well trans with trans… if they are happy and think what they have is the Most amazing thing- good!

[@madelinewise8692]

Your videos are practically PSA's. Thank you for making them.

[@unbridledash5593]

Not gonna lie Marcus, when I first started watching your channel, before i knew more about you, i thought you were a handsome gay man. Love the content bro

[@daniellelyubomirsky9470]

Thanks for the am yisrael chai!! Love your content

[@shifterofshape]

Damn you are working overtime. ❤

[@daisy_rh]

Hey Marcus, I appreciate your support of Israel! Have you ever been there? It's so beautiful and the energy there is unmatched! I think you'd enjoy it!

[@glykera]

I agree, he would adore it ❤

[@annisa_amethyst]

The visuals that Marcus did when he said "i think you're a they/he (while eyes closed)" cracked me up so much 🤣

[@darahrouge]

Oh no...i actually disagree...people like to be with people they feel comfortable with and i imagine that some trans people would feel more comfortable with someone who has had similar experiences.

[@Tif_art_]

0:46 i love you sm for that (and for other things too ofc)

[@retrovinyl5392]

I like how people claim that’s it’s not a social contagion yet it the same breath say the Kardashians are too influential on the youth.

[@iralol3771]

Im from Israel and hearing you say "Am Israel Chai" warmed up my heart a bit lol

[@LKCLifer]

Let's be clear, transactivists can only date and withstand being around another transactivist. I couldn't even being to imagine having to be around someone that you have to continuously talk about your sex and sexuality. How boring and if thats all the substance that you have to offer other people that's sad.

[@chtozaepta]

עם ישראל חי! Thank you so much for what you do, you are amazing!❤

[@VocaloidStar]

You are fun to watch and i learn something new with every video, thanks to your good communication skills!

[@alx444x]

Im a trans man, dating a trans woman. Not because we "dont feel safe" or any of that nonsense but simply just because we love each other and both just so happen to be trans. But the basis of our love is not determined by the fact that we are both transitioning.

[@alx444x]

Also I wanna add that I don't get the T4T thing. Like it's actually really weird to me. I've been out for 8+ years and everyone else I've dated were just normal men and women (I'm bi.) Even after being out for a while. Never felt the need to seaking out other trans people in my life, I just do me and attract who I attract regardless.

[@liatmarmur4368]

I have no problem with that. As long as they re both consenting adults and don't involve children in any way shape or form.

[@theresearcher253]

I'm not a huge fan of Matt Walsh, but when he told a trans woman that nobody had ever affirmed him as a man; nobody had ever come up to him and said, 'Matt, I completely accept you as a man', it was a bit of a mic drop moment.

[@esthelaheredia9664]

You are so brave for speaking out

[@Blueyedgurl341]

What a cute heterosexual couple

[@Celethio]

I typically enjoy your content but this video was kind of a miss for me. I don't really see an issue with tft couples and it's better that trans people date each other instead of pressuring non-trans people into doing it, which is a pretty big issue the trans community has. I also think saying trans people have nothing to fear in highly conservative areas is very ignorant.

[@Truscum_Tranny]

I live in a VERY conservative area. So conservative that I've only ever seen one black person here. I'm a transsexual man, and I have NEVER felt unsafe being trans here. Sure, I've had some coworkers say I'm "girly" or "feminine" in a demeaning way, but I don't feel like my life is in danger. They're just words

[@shaundraevans7559]

Atleast they aren't manipulating a person who isn't Trans into a relationship with them I guess