We Took the Sexual Temperament Quiz with Dr. Emily Nagoski

[@laralouttit-turner2459]

These glasses are now the Sextember glasses and need to be worn for the rest of the month.

[@CherrrrBear]

100% lol

[@aureliamonap]

Emily mocking Link about his "It's free!" comment brought me to tears laughing. Such a great guest!

[@kmjc1213]

Yeah I'm not sure Link will ever be able to live that one down!

[@marmotarchivist]

It was the most Link thing Link ever said.

[@TLBainter]

"There's a little exhibitionist in me." "We're entertainers!" 💀

[@zozeeb]

Emily was THE GREATEST guest y'all have ever had!! I felt like she was down to clown, and get in on the sillyness- while also being incredibly insightful in the most amazingly relatable, and understandable way, using her doctorate mastery to provide insight. I will DEFINITELY be checking out her books now!

[@julianmccord1175]

Link said babies are uglier then we all care to admit 🤣🤣😭😭

[@Sarahlove811]

But where is the lie?

[@julianmccord1175]

@@Sarahlove811 no lies lol 😂

[@tesstaylor5632]

He’s just being honest

[@chewyjello1]

It's so true lol

[@AnarquiaCookbook]

He ain't lyin lmao

[@AlienZizi]

Rhett bring so attracted to his wife's intensity and passion is so so sweet

[@bonita1228]

Sextember. My favorite month of Biscuits. I learned a lot last week.

[@Vojife]

SexTIMBEEEER

[@louisalewis4631]

Rhett now look like a leader of a yoga occult in his shades.

[@CherrrrBear]

YESS!

[@Vanbooskie]

He looks like a character from the Far Cry series video games 😆

[@Jen-qi6sr]

😂

[@GuiltyMalice]

Kenneth Kenneth

[@JadziaCee1977]

@@Vanbooskie Yes! Joseph Seed. I've always thought that about Rhett and these glasses sealed the deal. Rhett just needs to have his hair pulled back.

[@StaceWah]

I'm impressed, in a surprised and delighted kinda way, at how open and honest and bold Sextember is. Kudos!! 👏🏻 👏🏻

[@shimmyshazmart1130]

ohh I was wondering why these past few Ear Biscuits have been focused on these types of topics. Interesting theme.

[@joakuz]

@@shimmyshazmart1130 There was also Sextember last year if you didn't listen to those EB

[@SevenHunnid]

It’s hispanic heritage month, im a young mexican from the hood that gets high on my KZbin channel & i do food vlogs💯

[@chrissyb6647]

I appreciate that y'all brought up asexuality, as an asexual I was not even expecting that to be a part of this conversation, so I'm always pleasantly surprised when asexuality is brought up/included without us asexuals begging to be recognized

[@libbibunni]

Sextember has GOT to be my fav month of the year. some of the funniest and most interesting content

[@nicolassycamore]

“oh i was talking about candles” never change, link

[@platoschauvet]

The discussion about asexuality was so unexpected and lovely, thanks for that, and this whole episode was great, what a great guest. I'm an asexual person fascinated by stuff like this in the same way i'm an atheist fascinated by religion, so these episodes are really great listens, and so hilarious too

[@BipolarB]

Im super glad yall talked about asexuality, and think it would be cool to see you talk to an asexual educator or something.

[@SliverOfSilverStars]

yeah I agree!! I think there is so much that people can learn from the a-spec community, even if they are not asexual. Like one example is the split attraction model which is so interesting, yet mostly only ace people talk about it. But I think allosexual people could really learn something about themselves if they stop to think about all these different types of attraction, and even just stop to ask what "attraction" is or means to them.

[@daniellenatasha8433]

As a September baby I have always been a little sad that it’s a pretty boring month with no major holidays or anything fun going on. But now that Sextember is officially a yearly occurrence that’s no longer the case! Definitely one of my favorite things you guys have contributed to the internet thus far :)

[@drelle504]

There's Labor Day. School is back in session. The NFL season kicks off in September. It's a good month.

[@bnhalemon7098]

If you guys were looking for a term for non asexual people, it exists: allosexual I’m ace, (or somewhere on the spectrum) and it’s great to hear you guys talk about asexuality

[@patchoulikate]

I LOVE that you guys do Sextempter! It's so refreshing to hear about "taboo" 🙄 topics discussed by people we love and trust. Emily is amazing and this made me feel affirmed in my couple.

[@sezztooley]

I remember listening to this series last year and being extremely uncomfortable because of also being raised in a culture saturated with christian purity culture. but hearing it still helped me overcome a lot of that trauma. this year, it's so much easier to hear about and I love that experts are here to teach us more!

[@the_powersl0th]

The part about asexuality was great!! Emily cleared up so many common misconceptions and as someone in the lgbtqia+ community, I really appreciated that

[@jessicalinde8558]

Honestly, that my numbers are 18 and 4 explains SOOOOO much. Thank you for enlightening me, Emily!

[@bigbeefscorcho]

I can’t say enough how much I appreciate their usage of gender-inclusive language, like saying “people with a penis” or “people with a vulva”. It may seem like a little thing to most cis people but it not only is more correct in describing who is being referred to, but also just shows me that Rhett and Link care enough to take the time to speak in an inclusive way.

[@imarowbot11]

I really love they both open up 100% can be a little funny at times... But mostly feels like opening up with best friends

[@linasketch9625]

Rhett, I cannot express how happy i got about you asking Dr. Emily to explain how this conversation applied to asexual people, I am demisexual and was seriously trying to extrapolate things that somehow could apply for me, and during the conversation I was really thinking about how much I'd love to talk with the doctor about her understanding about the ace community. So the fact that you brought this to the conversation is greatly appreciated

[@spectral__]

This is the only month I listen to Ear Biscuits. Don't usually have time, but I make time for this.

[@beitermf]

LOVE Emily! So knowledgeable, so fun, and really good at getting her input/words in with Rhett and Link, which can be tough for guests sometimes.

[@beitermf]

also I just bought her book. I have to read it.

[@akrkwood]

As a marriage and family therapist who specializes in working with couples I really appreciate this episode. It also reminds me that I need to get around to reading the book! And quit putting the "pro" in procrastination.

[@AJroyer2]

Said it before, I will say it again. Thank you for being so loving. I respect you both so much for empowering every individual. You present your perspective without discounting any others' experiences.

[@aquamarinerose5405]

What's interesting about the blue-balls discussion at the start is that I had looked this up a while ago, and learned a fair bit. The Physical Discomfort is an actual 'condition' called Epididymal Hypertension, and it has to do with bloodflow to the area. As mentioned by Emily it's not dangerous in the slightest. I find it interesting because of the weird space it lives in that the symptoms are totally real, but the issue of people using it as an excuse to be a creep is also real.

[@laurahead3771]

What a fabulous, open conversation! Super grateful to hear from such an expert

[@insightbytes2136]

I'm same age as u guys and also in a very happy 23yr marriage... And it's only getting better! We are amazed... With the kids getting more and more out on their own... Having your house alone....is amazing!!!! We call it our exercise. U young ones.... explore your bodies girls!

[@Mindy14]

Thank you for covering asexuality! I am asexual, have been married for 21 years and have 2 children.

[@Shelbsalexis]

Can I ask how your spouse copes with that? Are they supportive or sexually frustrated? I’m in a group where I see A LOT of spouses saying they can’t handle their frustrations regarding their asexual partner. I hope that’s not the case for you! With me being a HL woman, I’m genuinely just curious.

[@Mythicalbeast_KatieWilson]

I will definitely be checking out her podcast & I'm also excited for her book for people in long term relationships! Thanks for sharing and being so open during the conversation! I'm proud roud to be a mythical beast! Love u guys!

[@suomynonaanonymous]

I am asexual and it was great to hear her talk about it briefly.

[@MarieDomander]

I've watched this 4 times but fell asleep 5-7 minutes in as usual. Thank you for helping me fall asleep. Love the videos and the topics, they are interesting. They are great! But also amazing to get you relaxed before bed. Love you guys voices, so soothing.

[@kaymakesthings]

LOVE the voting push, perfect tie in with the program and it's really not that hard. Thanks for taking the initiative on it and helping folks get there. :)

[@somethinggeneric9650]

EMILY NAGOSKI IS ONE OF MY FAVORITE AUTHORS LETS GOOOO

[@moggieo7313]

Great episode...is it just me or is Rhett's mic always about 3 decibels lower than Links and their guests lately? Drives me nuts 🤪 I can't hear you Rhett!!!

[@kate-gw1nl]

As an ace person, thank you for talking about what being ace actually means 🙌

[@AllAboutTheFoo]

Bought the book and workbook immediately upon finishing this pod. Also watched this again with my partner. I love the scientific approach to body positivity etc. Thanks Emily

[@MoeH3]

1:46 - you forgot the "a" in beast for your URL

[@dammitpatrice9364]

Rhett’s hair looks so good this way. Love a man with a full thick mane! Haha. Thanks for the fun episode yall

[@KaylaMarieYT]

i have chronic migraines and have since i was a child, and i had no idea there were glasses i could wear to reduce them.

[@codyallen2838]

The glasses are only going to make a difference IF your migraines are caused by the blue light coming from screens, like your phone. Otherwise they won't do anything.

[@alizagna6254]

I am on amazon getting this book rn. this never happens. i never watch something and immediately go to buying something being discussed or promoted.

[@LizzyDidntDoIt]

Link said You Can’t Sit With Us, RHETT 😅😅😅

[@trevisus3228]

Great episode! So much great information.

[@ledgardoA7X]

She knew the “ITS FREE” stuff 😂❤

[@SaskiaBeats]

39:18 LINK DONT FEEL BAD i usually say bed bath and bodyworks also

[@corazondemelon7308]

In that interaction of them arguing about the glasses, Link's argument was ; She has migraines, and I was diagnosed with Coolguy syndrome.

[@lacyrivers4338]

Thank you for providing opportunities for educational information through conversation ❤

[@cultoflaura]

Help I'm high in both "brakes" and "accelerators" lmaoooo

[@somethinggeneric9650]

That’s not uncommon!!

[@lauralanthalasa7]

Even as an ace this is very interesting 🧐

[@mollyricee]

Agreed!

[@DemonFox369]

What’s an ace?

[@lauralanthalasa7]

@@DemonFox369 people on asexual spectrum

[@alexandriahoward2864]

Thank you so much for mentioning Asexuality !

[@janessadavies1437]

Really enjoying the sextember series. Thanks for the great content!

[@KGchannel01]

Loved her book and she is a great conversation partner! Definitely a guest worth having on! More expert guests could be fun guys!

[@jabee108]

LOVED this episode!! Thank you so much

[@CherrrrBear]

This was such an amazing Ear Buisciits!

[@kendraleigh257]

I remember reading something as well about the smell and being attracted to people with opposite immunities to cut down on offspring inheritin severe allergies/allergic reactions to things if only 1 parent is allergic to them vs both. I would think this would be related to cutting down on chances of immune disorders as well…

[@brinoreeno]

I'm literally right in the middle of both. Scored 10-10 😂

[@0speckles0]

Loved this so much my partner and I watched it together and bought the book. Thank you.

[@NobelNighthawk274]

Jenna is so cool I love her

[@robo7643]

I think the blur for Jack off was supposed to be on Rhett's mouth but it wasn't 😂

[@nialee5310]

perfect video , great explanation to understand the way i feel

[@jasminkelley934]

Yes we want you to wear the glasses Link!

[@MadameVeg]

Great RHCP reference Link 13:44

[@batguy39]

*The skill and the skill issue.*

[@cgygflkj]

Link looks like he's a radio host in the 70s 😂

[@leowidows]

hey guys, i really appreciate how you interacted with Emily in this episode! whether you read and took the feedback from the last episode into consideration or it was just an off week for you, i really appreciate the fact that everyone was included and given equal grace to speak!

[@KyleBoise]

Being that these were recorded over a month ago, reactions from the last episode couldn't have much to do with this ep.

[@kimberlyhenggeler3720]

Loving this episode. Emily is fantastic.

[@radicledgrl]

Thank you. This was a great episode.

[@jw-j8104]

Love this episode

[@sterling8298]

I've now watched this episode twice. 😁👂

[@missrainbow18]

A really interesting episode thank you :) xxx

[@Tootoosmom]

LOVED THIS ONE

[@mckennagraymusic]

as an ace person I'm so happy you guys talked about asexuality in here too!! thank you🥲🥲🥲

[@eneal]

Such a great podcast!

[@kmb1023x]

Thank you for providing information about how to register to vote!!

[@cylonred8902]

I had some anticipation pain when my girlfriend was coming back from vacation and it was sooooooo painful. I VIVIDLY remember my dad at the kitchen table with 3 teen boys approx 13, 15, and 16 and he said - "I think we have a masterbater in the house" Now, he and my mom were taking out my oldest brothers magazines from our room, and I was like - "no duh..."

[@daisyduke717]

Wow, Emily is wonderful!

[@CapitalCCapitalC]

🤯 when Emily started talking about MHC.

[@svenson7777]

The vote graphic is wrong

[@7bladesky890]

17:53 when the start the quiz

[@bigbird0780]

Great episode!! 😎🥳🏵💜

[@BigStinker_14]

This was wicked deadly

[@alizagna6254]

Holy shit. the MHC information blew my mind.

[@rob-dq7sv]

Women can get the "blue ball" pain as well

[@Bigbodipapi]

For a second I thought link and that woman in the thumbnail were the same person😭😂 the hair is so close

[@cassiearmstrong1007]

I love this podcast episode and this guest, need to buy this book asap!!

[@princesssunshine7559]

I would really love for them to talk to an asexual person (preferably me cuz I'm asexual and I have stuff to add)

[@hamiryan9010]

Heck yeah!

[@ItsFreshItsAnne]

"She has migraines! ....And I have...I'm cool!"

[@r.kiarni]

Just letting the team know that the link was spelt best instead of beast

[@MonsterBurn74]

If I'm bored I get hungry most of all!

[@michaelperona811]

When do we get to watch you guys smoke weed? I mean we're all about breaking stigmas right? 😂🤷‍♂️

[@seifildin5043]

Yes.

[@robo7643]

Will it cannabis 😎

[@michaelperona811]

@@robo7643 ayoo 😂

[@winniebae4alwayyz963]

*Gotta have the sticky icky!* 😉

[@larakreuch]

if they ever did that I really hope they go light at first lmao it can be anxiety inducing. maybe a podcast about drugs? idk

[@capriceg7042]

(#22) September is my favorite!!!

[@beccyor]

Vote like a best

[@alizagna6254]

Does someone have the job of cleaning rhett's headset after each recording? how greasy is it? xD love you guys

[@downloadingdvm9860]

Talking about asexuality was amazing, and agrees with my scores on the test (1 for accelerator XD ). Love the inclusion

[@nicolassycamore]

6-15 for me on the test 🤔 idk what to do w this information but it was fun

[@Lylasnanna40]

Rhett your are definitely a Libra! Lol

[@BattleWolfGames]

and then adhd shows up to the party and all the rules change