Badflower - Don't Hate Me

Music video by Badflower performing Don't Hate Me. © 2021 Big Machine Records / John Varvatos Records
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[@grandson]

Worst shopping trip ever

[@janicescheffler7697]

I love you so much 🤣🤣🤣

[@jpete3646]

I spied you for sure!

[@grecil]

I definitely watched this for you lmao But holy hell it was worth it and this is going into my playlist! This was a treat!

[@scart3redup304]

✖️✖️ 4 life!

[@loneshewolfTNF]

Lol

[@kelzmad]

Was not expecting to see Seb, Awsten or spencer but that was definitely an added bonus! Loved it boys!

[@julzz6710]

Right? I was so happy to see seb :)

[@weirdflowerkid7220]

I’m glad someone else picked that up lol I was so confused when awstens hair popped up. Was like no fuckin way man.

[@kelzmad]

@@weirdflowerkid7220 I literally spotted him in the background and Was in the middle of saying ‘hey that persons got the same hair as Awsten’ when he poked his head forward 😂

[@kelzmad]

@@julzz6710 hahaha I adore Seb and Awsten but I couldn’t help but look for Rem, Em, Otto and Geoff. Like they’re both a 3 piece package deal! It’s sacrilege to split them up 😂

[@Th3Mn185]

I was so happy to see Spencer

[@charlenemack7040]

They play this on my local college radio station! Is over 65 y.o. to old to be a fan of Badflower??? Please say “NO!” 🦋

[@justcarlson6364]

I was 14 when Linkin Park came out. It changed my life. Chester's depth was out of this world. Today, it's Badflower. I've listened to every album within in the last year and I just can't stop. I cannot understand why they're underrated. Houston radio only plays Ghost. Ugh. Everyone's missing out!!

[@jakepark3272]

What other songs would you say are like LP’s?

[@shannonyohe6296]

Same my bf and I love Badflower

[@nathan.w05]

Ghost is good too! edit: I'm stupid and thought you were talking about the band Ghost

[@Ldiepian]

Houston radio is one of the worst for a big city. Buzz is stuck on imagine dragons and gorillaz

[@chloemcclain8900]

Right, I had to discover the rest of their catalog on my own! They have so much more good material in addition to Ghost.

[@mysideoftown5325]

I feel like this is going to be a song that makes me cry at 2 am but makes me feel so awesome driving in the afternoon

[@jordgubbe2895]

WELL LOOK WHO I FOUND

[@mysideoftown5325]

@@jordgubbe2895 oh no no noooo

[@drowninglessonswithlee9986]

you were right

[@mysideoftown5325]

@@drowninglessonswithlee9986 I know Cool name btw

[@mysideoftown5325]

@AstroFuton HEY WHATS UP I CANT FIND OUR THREAD ANYMORE

[@jamesturnbull128]

Im adoring how theatrical Josh's expression are. Fucking love it

[@inabys77]

YES SAME OH MY GOD

[@nopenever3]

Their videos never disappoint 🤷‍♀️

[@aydenkoyanagi1727]

Gerard Way type beat

[@giselle9917]

also dead poet society

[@_mediogre_]

They said endgame was the most ambitious crossover in history. They were wrong

[@Llyd214]

That’s what I’m sayinnn 😂

[@clairef.9970]

The cameos were unexpected but great, seeing awsten, spencer, joe, grandson, and sebastian was exactly what elevated this mv

[@lukewestgate8012]

This bands music just hits a spot I felt when I was alone and a teenager.

[@Harry-lh5bn]

I can confirm that as an alone teenager.

[@majaolszewska7739]

@@Harry-lh5bn same, I confirm

[@ImBiscuitHD]

no longer a teen but still confirm

[@deebee6110]

Same.

[@YungBuckTheLabrat]

I am a teenager that feels alone, so yes, it write!

[@hisokaayato8023]

Badflower+Palaye Royale + Waterparks in one room me: i can die peacefully

[@jessfrankkade]

And grandson!!

[@mysideoftown5325]

Yes finally, seems like nobody noticed Seb 😔

[@tealkitkats6252]

And Ice Nine Kills

[@madilynn_rocky2644]

ikrrr seeing all of them together in one video made my day they should collab😂

[@pureviolet2742]

@@mysideoftown5325 where is he?

[@bsgenius22]

That obvious reference to their song Heroin was everything

[@aaronschrader6491]

huh?

[@coltadammusic]

Crownmyempire489 “shes in my head again”

[@SawyerAnderson104]

Yeah I thought it sounded familiar lol

[@asiaselby3510]

this song sorta reminds me of something a person with BPD (borderline personality disorder) would say. and coming from a person with it, yes. yes yes. this puts it in words. “don’t hate me more than i hate myself” and the talking about comparing yourself to other people, especially those that your ex or favorite person dates , or picked over you. i can just deeply relate to the obsessing over changing yourself for someone else. it gets exhausting but like the song said.. “i just want you to let me in.” i could go on and on but yeah upon listening to this i wondered if they had bpd

[@TheInfantry98]

No they are normal

[@zombietron6080]

i wonder the same i used to say the same things and this song makes me feel guilty about it

[@Meerapup_M]

I COMPLETELY agree...I feel the exact same way with my FP and it is absolute hell. If you ever need someone to talk to, please know that you can reach out to me. My socials are on my channel.

[@jackalynnicole21]

If these are his feelings and he writes his own music then Absolutely. Maybe undiagnosed but by those like us- not misunderstood or unheard.

[@ginayoung130]

I have bpd and this says a lot to me too. The first time I heard it was like a revelation.

[@lola.3888]

This music video was so cool, as well as the song! seeing Badflower with Spencer, Awsten, Grandson and Sebastian really made my day :))

[@heatherwoods6292]

@Anthony AA the vocalist for Ice Nine Kills

[@lola.3888]

@Tiago Rocha Awsten is the singer of Waterparks; Sebastian is the guitarist of Palaye Royale :)

[@AmberDuffer]

Who is the emo guy that screams? I know he is from a band, just cant place him

[@lola.3888]

@@AmberDuffer on what minute?

[@AmberDuffer]

@@lola.3888 first see him at 1:47

[@MatthewBess]

That Spencer cameo 🖤

[@djhunter3756]

Ikr as soon as it showed up I was like “wait a second what the hell is Spencer Charnas doing here!?”

[@MusicDork0016]

I've struggled w/ mental illness all my life and this song perfectly captures the need to not be hated by other people so that you don't wind up hating yourself in the end. I never knew this feeling could ever be described so perfectly; this song proved me that I was actually capable of being understood.

[@beezybeez7231]

This is so good but you must hear “Whispering Wolf” or “The Wave” by SLT 🤘🐺🎶

[@amyfrink6524]

Have mental illness too, we all have something we anit alone, ❤️

[@albuquerquehotspot7835]

This isn’t mental illness. This is a tribal need for acceptance than can be overcome.

[@mrpenguinize6000]

These guys keep getting better the longer I listen to them. Started with Ghost, no we're here. Just, wow

[@BadCo1887]

That was their first of theirs i heard as well. Super hyped now for this new record!

[@thechin024]

@@BadCo1887 same dude, they’re so good

[@SupermanEst-ju4ii]

Same here. Ghost, 30, FTW, and this. Idk it makes me feel sad in a depressed state but also a little upbeat too ....

[@sissonaterproductions5540]

Welp Badflower has done the impossible with this song. They have made me even MORE excited for the new album. September 24th can’t come soon enough

[@jc1424]

Can't believe Badflower and Poppy are releasing albums on the exact same day. They really are the best shit going on in rock.

[@sissonaterproductions5540]

@@jc1424 I haven’t heard of Poppy but as I’m getting more into this side of the genre of music I’m looking for more bands. Any of their songs you would specifically recommend?

[@jc1424]

@@sissonaterproductions5540 Their latest singles "Flux" and "EAT" are great representations of their upcoming album. Their last album was industrial metal/pop so I'd also recommend "Bloodmoney" and "I Disagree"

[@sissonaterproductions5540]

@@jc1424 on my way to go check them out. Thanks!

[@kayleeholmes1356]

Y’all are so fucking talented. Every fucking song just hits so fucking close to home. I love this shit keep doing you boo 😘

[@skullcandy56100]

I can't believe y'all production . No one makes videos like y'all. Been fallowing since I saw on at Rockville and feel in love

[@robertm3849]

What’s sad to me is that true artist like this comes “a dime in a dozen”, I know corny. But these two songs off this album deserve so muchhhhh more! This is an amazing band! And deserve so, so much more recognition!!!!!!

[@sam-is-sleeping]

Was lucky enough to see this band perform live, and I had no idea who they were. A couple months later, I don't think I could live without their music. It's so beautifully crafted, the lyrics, the music, everything. I'm thankful that I bought those tickets to see them.

[@ralpheburg3199]

I saw them last weekend they opened up for Incubus and had no clue who they were they definitely gained another fan after I heard them live

[@josephhoutz1551]

Wow they just keep rolling. One after another. Thank you Badflower.

[@noddygirl]

Yesssss can't wait 🎤🌸 Fun fact - my freaking kick ass 63 year old mother got me into you guys 😂

[@nathanriggs1125]

My 58 year old Dad did the same for me. And I got him and my mom into Dirty Honey. Funny how that works.

[@nathanialwoods4037]

Forgot about Dirty Honey.....sorry nothing about this amazing group but trying to push American bands on Europe.

[@chelseaennaki4684]

My 70 yr old mother voice to text(ed) me from her truck with what she thought was the lyrics to Ghost. She was like. Find. This. Song. Now. Thankfully she botched the lyrics so bad I couldn’t track it down till I was in my hotel room…cause I def cried listening to it and I didn’t want to do that in public. 😂😂

[@pjsmyth9319]

Josh is a lyrical genius

[@beezybeez7231]

This is so good but you must hear “Whispering Wolf” or “The Wave” by SLT 🤘🐺

[@mandiantonucci13]

DEFINITELY ***NOT*** A TRIP TO THE MALL!!! LUV U ***BAD FLOWER*** 4VAAA 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

[@beezybeez4207]

this is so good but you must hear “Live Not Survive” or “Whispering Wolf” by SLT 🤘🎹

[@xeniaeastmond5576]

I am a 61 year old woman from Jersey, and I can't wait!!!😂

[@Kim-mu2zs]

Never too old to enjoy good music 😁

[@mysideoftown5325]

It's great that you're here! It's so cool to find so many different people who like Badflower. Welcome!!

[@vadanewbould8944]

Music has no age limit :)

[@Dasiuspsycho]

I cannot wait to hear this song live. This whole album is gonna be a banger

[@juliapursell7927]

Me too

[@carolsullivan5128]

I seen em in Pittsburgh. It was 🔥.

[@RafaelSerial]

Lyrics below: 🔥🔥 Don’t hate me, don’t hate me Don’t hate me more than I hate myself Don’t hate me, I’m sad enough I lost my mind today I checked up on the guys you date It’s no wonder I’m insecure She’s in my, my head again So I called her checking in No answer and now I’m on my way to say the same old shit Don’t hate me, don’t hate me Don’t hate me more than I hate myself Don’t let me destroy me Don’t hurt me more than I hurt myself Just scold me, console me Control me, oh I could use some help But don’t hate me, I’m sad enough I changed my face again I just want you to let me in Am I more than just a friend? It’s not grandeur, I’m off my meds I’m no danger, so call the feds I’m no stalker, I just ignore restraining orders all the time I heard you started dating that singer from that emo band What if my band was more like their band? Would you hate me then? I got all the tattoos and piercings, same as him, there’s nothing missing I even dyed my hair and learned to scream I sound just like him, listen This never-ending obsession to kill our own reflection Depression makes no exceptions except the rich and sexy My delusion is better than facing the truth about me I can see that you’re angry but don’t hate me Don’t hate me, don’t hate me Don’t hate me more than I hate myself Don’t let me, destroy me Don’t hurt me more than I hurt myself Just scold me, console me Control me, oh I could use some help But don’t hate me (don’t hate me)

[@trecool1831]

TYSM!!!!

[@mistyloks95]

Thanks🥰

[@jackie3515]

Thank you much! I've thought the lyrics were "just slowly console me", and "I'm more than just a friend"....nothing more awkward than knowing I've been singing it wrong this whole time 🙃

[@RafaelSerial]

@@jackie3515 there's no problem because the most important thing is sing along 😁

[@maeganbeach4814]

theres something about the insane laugh that stops the "I'm sad enough" line from being to angsty and its beautiful

[@fruityflower6655]

oh i am PUMPED

[@selenajohn3972]

The amount of in love I am with this song is almost alarming. But I am not surprised. Amazing. Thank you.

[@liv328]

I love the cameo of Sebastian from Payale Royale. Nice!

[@beezybeez7231]

This is so good but you must hear “Whispering Wolf” or “The Wave” by SLT 🤘🐺

[@Sir_I.I_William]

After listening to this awesome song I went back to re-listen to many other Badflower songs. One of the things I like about them is how many different "sounds" their songs have, not everything just sounds the same but with different words and speeds.

[@mysideoftown5325]

It's great

[@auri2969]

Was not expecting Waterparks to show up but I am glad it happened. Awesome song guys, it’s gonna be on repeat alongside with Family now🍇🤘🏻 Can’t wait for the new album to drop!!

[@mysideoftown5325]

It's not that far away now...this will be my second Badflower release, I barely missed FTW release when I began listening. You guys are amazing and you're lyrics are really inspiring. I love how blunt and upfront you are with the songs. I love you guys and you do such amazing things 💚

[@DarrellB5000]

You heard joywave yet ? music.kzbin.info/www/bejne/houtfqGCiteFoLc&feature=share

[@stephaniemason189]

It’s not often I watch a music video from start to finish and I’m obsessed with this band I just found tonight! I felt every word you sang. Three songs later and already my favorite band now!

[@beezybeez5971]

This is a jam🤘🎶but you must hear “Whispering Wolf” by SLT 🐺🔥🥁

[@aarondanforth2232]

I love This Song so much I repeated it.

[@brittshitable]

I heard this on the radio the other day. I had no idea that the sound at 0:13 was a laugh. I wish it played more throughout song, it's so satisfying to hear.

[@nataliallinasmilanes4025]

You can definitely see why Josh said this vid was the funniest ever to make 😂. Also now we know why the coke/pepsi wasn't finished yet when they posted the photo.

[@loly7475]

Is this a crying or a screaming kinda song? Either way I’m excited af!!

[@SydneyEvans]

Both and everything all at once

[@ihatechalk2982]

If Family is any indication, definitely both

[@maggie-geeee]

Yes

[@cotybrock2372]

I can confirm already, You definitely cry while you scream.

[@rubygarcia7872]

It was both

[@kristynemauricio4950]

He’s having a retail nervous breakdown and dude at 2:55 is just like yeah I can dig it.

[@vo4313]

Listen Josh you are giving hella Bert McKracken vibes with that scream.. Then theres the emo black eyeliner visual to go along im shook 😳

[@nyuchu]

soooo happy to discover this group!!

[@beezybeez6285]

This is so good but you must hear “Whispering Wolf” or “Live Not Survive” by SLT 🤘🤘🤘

[@edno2829]

READY TO CRY AND BLAST THIS ALL WEEK

[@franstruter]

this just confirms that Josh should be the new JOKER and the rest of the guys to be his henchmen!

[@17rmc]

This band deserves all the SUCCESS

[@onestepheavier]

Name all the guest appearances in the video...GO! 1. Sebastian Danzig 2. Grandson ...

[@lachiemaxwell]

Awsten (Waterparks) Spencer (Ice nine Kills)

[@marissa6612]

Jack Underkofler (Dead Poet Society)

[@alanamidgett4693]

I think Andy black? Black veil brides I can’t tell

[@sophiawaters8984]

@@alanamidgett4693 i don’t think he was, but i could definitely be wrong

[@emmas.2100]

@@alanamidgett4693 I think the emo part was a play on Black Veil Brides, I don't believe Andy is actually there

[@kaylaunderwood2874]

Don’t hate me more than I hate myself 💔

[@beezybeez5971]

This is a jam🤘🎶but you must hear “Whispering Wolf” by SLT 🐺🔥🥁🎸🎵

[@user-xv8pl1ok8z]

will never get over how my uncle put me on this shit , we were driving to something but he was playing ghost lmao i looked up the lyrics found the band n 5 yrs later im still lovin them

[@RacerXGT]

Money solves a lot of problems, but pain is a condition of the soul, so it will strike people everywhere and in every class or caste. Just leave from for love in your heart and your head, cause that can last.

[@JustennWolfe]

Family was the best song of your career so I have expectations and I know you won’t let us down

[@lethalbabygirl6959]

Agreed, Family hit different fr

[@Rebouz]

well I wouldn't say best song of their career, because I still love "Move Me", but def. top 5. Either way great one and I'm stoked.

[@stephanieert8154]

I can't wait to see and hear this song! 22 hours is a long ass time.... You guys are the best!! Thanks for making music that envokes feeling and for all you guys do! Can't wait! Tour on!

[@pizzacrust193]

First time hearing this,love it✨plus spencer from ink appearing caught me off guard 🤣❤️✨ And Sebastian from palaye royale 😂❤️✨

[@Michael_Glaeser]

Thanks for Yesterday in Berlin! Konzert a very Good!

[@beezybeez7231]

This is so good but you must hear “Whispering Wolf” or “The Wave” by SLT 🤘🐺🎶

[@candichaos2766]

This song is a BANGER Im driving my BF insane playing it on repeat.

[@monicataylor4613]

I listen to it over and over and now I just saw the video now I am going to be spamming to other Badflower lovers if not now they will, Josh has shown me a lot about myself I have anxiety as well. I started listing to Badflower the song Ghost, now this is even better! Thank You

[@seanrodman2767]

My wife is having to listen to this song on repeat as well.

[@kennedywilliams117]

can’t wait to listen to this and drink and entire bottle of wine, all while throwing up from how hard i am screaming the lyrics (as i did with Heroin) EDIT: Heroin… the song💀

[@_Epic_]

Its fairly common to be sick after heroin. Mainly why I stick to weed lol 😂

[@mysideoftown5325]

@@_Epic_ I think they meant the song...but...😅

[@_Epic_]

I knowwwwww don't worry 😂

[@mysideoftown5325]

@@_Epic_ oh 🤦I thought you were joking but I am so tired and my brain isn't working. So excited for the new song tho, this will be my 2nd Badflower release (family was the first)

[@herbert6130]

No you can drink three bottles of wine i believe you can do it

[@nattyice2329]

I feel sad when I listen to the music but when I watch the videos I laugh. 😅

[@beezybeez5971]

This is a jam🤘🎶but you must hear “Whispering Wolf” by SLT 🐺🔥🥁🎸🎵

[@offlinespider]

Got to give it up for Badflower. They're just so good at what they do and have such a grand range for whatever mood one might be in. I'm loving this new single

[@brandongiron9286]

How can you be sad when you exist at the same time as this music video???

[@SLaPSHoTzHD]

Just listened to them live last night at Pointfest. They put on an unbelievable show! Just wish they played Promise Me.

[@roadkillavenger1325]

This is my favorite Badflower song

[@beezybeez5971]

This is a jam🤘🎶but you must hear “Whispering Wolf” by SLT 🐺🔥🥁🎸🎵

[@demonicmachine4846]

The part where he talking about emo band's and Spencer turn around like you mean me? Cracks me up every time 🤣

[@theimmoralcookie6344]

I feel like this album is getting ready to tell one hell of a statement to the world.

[@JS3music]

Can’t get enough of these guys. Influences: everything. Next ERA OF ROCK AND ROLLL rt here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@kami8616]

They win a new fan! 🤍

[@mysideoftown5325]

Welcome!

[@MarkyMark577]

Is it just me, or do they look awesome AF with the Mötley Crüe/Goth look!?!

[@NowhereNoOne]

Ahh this is the first time i've actually waited on a premiere of a song and i'm so excited about this.

[@nancyleith]

Awsten 2:32 and Seb 2:34 OMG! I LOVE THESE GUYS💖 amazing collab🛐

[@BloodStaind]

Don't hate me more then I hate myself 😢

[@kolibri7272]

🤤🤤The drums 🤤🤤

[@goodmorning8674]

1:54 HIS FACE LMAO i love it

[@redrumsk8er446]

Might be the greatest music video of all time. The breakdown before the scream is spot on!!

[@beezybeez5971]

This is a jam🤘🎶but you must hear “Whispering Wolf” by SLT 🐺🔥🥁

[@coughdropsh]

HELP BEST CROSSOVER EVER GRANDSON AWSTEN AND BADFLOWER LIFE IS A HIGHWAY

[@mjcurry1187]

Josh, awsten and seb in the same video, this is a dream come true😩

[@jorgeeduardo1863]

2:31 band waterparks and 2:34 Sebastian of band Palaye royale :O great song 🤟

[@halberts82]

i have zero patience. BADFLOWER you are killing me 😣

[@12kfh]

Hahaha the smile at the beginning is great

[@paytonhilscher4606]

Those screams are hitting different

[@mikaylalynn7682]

I just found out my dad has lung cancer a few days ago. It's honestly been tripping up anxiety, depression, and bipolar. I needed this.. Fucking thank you for this great timing yall.❤❤❤. Hope everyone is well!

[@bryndows]

That was a ride. I loved every second of it

[@jimmyrojass]

Ma boy Ruby da Cherry killing it on the guitar

[@beezybeez5971]

This is a jam🤘🎶but you must hear “Whispering Wolf” by SLT 🐺🔥🥁

[@katies1652]

OMG THE CAMEOSSSS SPENCER NADIA JOE AND AWSTEN OMG AND GRANDSON LOL I LOVE THISSSS

[@emy2656]

I'm OBSESSED❤️ I love this band ❤️ And Josh OMG, his voice is beautifull ❤️

[@sazza4]

Oh yaaaay, gimme gimme. Stunning job with Family so can't wait for this next addition 😍

[@kolibri7272]

🥺❤️Thank you🥺❤️

[@keitheads4882]

This is a bad assed band

[@mariemaier3501]

I love Josh’s outfit 1:42

[@f.b.i.2366]

I’m ready to rip my heart out to this song

[@KingdomKali]

You've officially proven yourself better than C.I.A. for being a Badflower fan

[@Joeyblackblue1408]

Best Hot topic trip ever

[@rccosplay3249]

one yar later and this is still rippin mad cool tune. Thanx Badflower❤

[@beezybeez6285]

This is so good but you must hear “Whispering Wolf” or “Live Not Survive” by SLT 🤘🤘🤘

[@frozenheartsmelt15]

This music video looks like it was hella fun to make! Was not expecting the breakdown 2:36, and the lyrics "This never ending obsession to kill our own reflection". Freaking loved it! Love you guys

[@jeniferadelhardt4824]

Alex looking like David Grohl towards the end was something I didn't know I needed until now.🤣 Another amazing song boys!! I can't wait until the full album is released!💜

[@TheeSadee]

Badflower and INK are my favorite. Seeing them together makes my heart happy

[@xeniarta]

I like how these guys look awesome literally in any clothes and style

[@pegbundy1454]

This song just keeps getting better and better every time i hear it. One of go to's for sure!

[@beezybeez5971]

This is a jam🤘🎶but you must hear “Whispering Wolf” by SLT 🐺🔥🥁🎸🎵

[@ambershaw1324]

I love how seb is in a full on suit and everyone else is wearing t shirts

[@uzaydakipanda6264]

it's always like that cause seb always wears suits i wonder if he's going a sleepover with them

[@mysideoftown5325]

Seb always has to have that class, or else he wouldn't be Seb 😂

[@ambershaw1324]

@@mysideoftown5325 true

[@philbrenner7063]

The screams at 2.37 and 2.47 are so real and powerful!!

[@beezybeez5971]

This is a jam🤘🎶but you must hear “Whispering Wolf” by SLT 🐺🔥🥁

[@Yahoomediaclub]

About time we got some REAL music back in the WORLD ...AWESOME!!

[@beezybeez6285]

This is so good but you must hear “Whispering Wolf” or “Live Not Survive” by SLT 🤘🤘🤘

[@mactak6]

Bring it on. You guys are awesome. Thank you for being you and being real. Thank you for being a part of the evolution 💓

[@tyranttigress1542]

I’ve been listening to this on repeat for 3 days now 🎷🐀

[@beezybeez5971]

This is a jam🤘🎶but you must hear “Whispering Wolf” by SLT 🐺🔥🥁

[@mariagoncalves5413]

The first song i've heard from you and im sold....😅🤟🖤

[@elliottwaller6499]

Rough day, this was the only thing that gave me peace today. Thank you!