Shawn Mendes: Shifting From Self to Service | The Man Enough Podcast

[@juliadiego7061]

People being problematic about the podcast and im actually proud of how Camila is able to verbalize her frustrations and how Shawn listen to her and understand it! Communication is the key to any relationship and the podcast is not about that at all, is about him dealing with it.

[@bi.fruitsalad]

Exactly this. They’re incredibly mature and you can tell their souls are old. The things they talked about impact my life so greatly also cause in my surroundings we communicate a lot and it’s probably on of the only things that helped me stay alive and especially with my mental illness now with grief and trauma. Communication helps so much for many. I could acknowledge my feelings and cry to remove pain and also to reduce suffering in the long run from bottling up. They really get it. Been a fan since 2015 and I’m so proud of their growth and maturity. We all need more people like them

[@aurorapadilla3897]

Exactly but just bc he’s famous people it’s so quick to judge

[@karlacortes9201]

I agree with you! The most interesting is watching the people who are criticizing something that has already happened, is incredible to see how in the video he is talking about really shocking topics and we only look at something that they as mature people and couples have already solved, it distresses me to see how we are beings unable to empathize.

[@rg9991]

@@karlacortes9201 ikr especially that part about men being sexual subjects and women being sexual objects...as someone who was introduced to porn at too early an age like Justin, and who has had similar experiences with the "male gaze" like Liz, that is such an important topic in today's society and the fact that ALL of that got glossed over what the kids on the internet PERCEIVED as abusive (I cant even believe I'm typing this out) is truly terrifying, if you think about it in the context of what the world is headed towards in terms of empathy and sympathy.

[@samaliia5531]

Yes communication is key .

[@nik.kinetikentertainment2298]

“I’m a better person today because of the uncomfortable conversations i had yesterday”

[@jashley777]

Sooo true and I'm a better person today because of the uncomfortable situations life has brought me to cope with. Life is a journey ❤️

[@serenawillams5876]

This is EVERYTHING we needed- Shawn's SUCH an honest person, so much respect so much love for him!!!!

[@bi.fruitsalad]

Yesss! Hes an amazing example for everyone it even helped me with depression somehow. It made me realize more things. So grateful to have people like this on earth that actually care and are authentic, loving and positive. He’s a very pure and old soul.

[@julietaperdomo1424]

Well, whit Camila is a shit

[@bi.fruitsalad]

@@julietaperdomo1424 that’s not true cause camila is a good soul and mature as well and really down to earth considering the actions she’s taken for years already. She isn’t her past. The way everyone who worked with her said how amazing she and her family is isn’t surprising. Both are mature and amazing that’s why they’re together.

[@JuliaJiggs]

@@julietaperdomo1424 I don't understand how such hateful people like you can be listening to such wholesome, self-actualizing stuff like this podcast

[@serenawillams5876]

@@JuliaJiggs ikr.

[@timmygreene155]

As a 17 year old white straight man, I am so lucky to be able to listen to such relatable humans. Much love to you 4

[@WeAreManEnough]

Thank you. We're honored to have you in our audience. Please share this with other peers and men/boys in your life that will benefit from this as well.

[@nidredful]

@badgalpal are you sick, or what the hell is going on with you? Respect please!

[@timmygreene155]

@@WeAreManEnough it’s no easy task, however it’s something I do. Sharing topics like these to my peers can leave me feeling insecure as sometimes I feel there judgment by the way they respond. However that very thing is apart of my mission of embracing who I am and what I want to become.

[@WeAreManEnough]

@@timmygreene155 We hear you loud and clear on that. There's a really powerful part of this week's episode where they talk about how hard it is for men to share and confront each other about things like this. Just the fact that you are thinking about it and have the desire is wonderful. You are enough, Timmy.

[@timmygreene155]

@@WeAreManEnough much love to you. Feeling enough takes others to tell you that you are. Being able to have outside validation from others allows the brain to connect its self doubt thoughts to its real encounters of positivity. This is asking a lot, however I’d love to come on even if it’s just a short private conversation with just one of you about my experience. Much love

[@aymeecharlotte714]

Let’s pray for Shawn Mendes, I feel that God is really tugging at his heart. “I tell you that in the same way there will be more rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who do not need to repent.” ‭‭Luke‬ ‭15:7‬ ‭NIV‬‬

[@beka6275]

I agree, like when he was saying how he started crying when he saw people worshipping really showed that.

[@christinawatkinsyoutube]

Totally agree!

[@graceoconnor2083]

36:46 is where he talks about Maverick City

[@Butterfly_inthesky]

Thank you!

[@haset169]

Thanks!!

[@MedinaStudiosOfficial]

Thanks!

[@AugustinReborn]

Thank you😁

[@Sika-sj2if]

Thank youuuu!!!!!!!!!!

[@megy-u4t]

Shawn's not just a talented singer, he's a good human❤️

[@allgoodnamesaregone7105]

Shawn was mocking Britney's mental health

[@ezequielavanti809]

@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 No

[@allgoodnamesaregone7105]

@@ezequielavanti809 Yes there's literally a video of him mocking Britney

[@yolanfernandes884]

@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 ffs he was 15!! We all joke around when we're that young and he's grown up now and knows better! So please stop with all this hate

[@bi.fruitsalad]

@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 stop pls. This is so irrelevant to who he is now. People mature and change and he’s clearly better now.

[@adriennefaith6172]

Shawn, that feeling is the Holy Spirit. Jesus is calling you home.

[@pd-nv6jv]

amen, let’s pray for him! 🤍

[@camila_labra1424]

Amén.

[@elianasiordia7344]

yesss👏🏼👏🏼💛

[@lawrencedistefano145]

What makes you assume he’s not home? We’re all home as far as Jesus says. 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

[@lolashay219]

Amen!!!!

[@saragiulia4022]

I cried when he talked about God and maverick city 😭🥺, let’s pray for him

[@ebonymiller4449]

this is WHY ive been such a big fan of shawn for over 4 years, he never fails to amaze me and wow me with his words and compassion, just everything he does makes me so proud

[@Mythicalityyy]

Well said!!,this truly shows that #mendesarmy is so much more than just a group of fans.Every person in this army who has experienced his journey from "handwritten" to "wonder" has got the extreme blessing of watching him grow into the person he has become today n his feelings for Camila and how they both had feelings for each other but always respected each other's decision n yes,as you said i couldn't be more prouder of both of 'em! N i'll always be thankful to this army for being so supportive and so damn loving!!!!

[@angelad3612]

I'm literally speechless rn, the honesty and vulnerability in this room is astonishing! all four of them are so amazingly beautiful and kind! i'm so glad I've seen this podcast! It literally resonated with me and i loved every minute of it.

[@tamarakukic7679]

Omg he almost didnt WANNA do it but im glad he did

[@yyg4632]

yes its lovely and that attitude from everyone will improve the world

[@angelad3612]

@@yyg4632 That's so true

[@JzmnDouglas]

Yep!!

[@aprilkingsley600]

Yes

[@juliadiego7061]

Its not about raising your voice, everyone has their days, its about being open for a conversation, is about him giving her space to say “ hey don’t need to get angry, tell me whats going on” . Its about respect, you can raise your voice but the respect has always to be there!

[@serenawillams5876]

Periodt

[@duda-ie7qo]

time stamp pls?

[@lightsmutual9129]

@@duda-ie7qo the first time he says he yelled at her was around the 24-25 minutes, and the second one about the yogurt about 1:00:00 or 1:07:00 idr

[@duda-ie7qo]

@@lightsmutual9129 tks bestie

[@lovelynpano5082]

Shawn's innocence, vulnerability, and kindness really resonates in this conversation. And he gains another level of my respect for that. Also, the general idea of the podcast is so good because it evolves around topics not limited to men alone. Thank you so much for this.

[@WeAreManEnough]

Thank you! So glad this is resonating with you.

[@beatriceonyoutube1037]

Yeah

[@Julie-hu5kb]

@@WeAreManEnough I want shawn mendes I’m in love with him if you can give his contact information I would really appreciate it thank you so much

[@Julie-hu5kb]

@@WeAreManEnough love you 😘 Shawnie

[@Julie-hu5kb]

Shawnie is single now and I want him

[@MedinaStudiosOfficial]

This is truly amazing. 29:20 Shawn is literally expressing Matthew chapter 16 verse 25, "For whoever wills to save his life will lose it and whoever will lose his life for me will find it.” Focusing on something bigger than yourself seems to be the answer to finding life and being okay. 30:04 Shawn sees that self-righteousness (being good at being the good guy) can and usually leads to manipulative behavior. So it's not just about "being good." Proverbs chapter 30 verse 12 "There are those who are clean in their own eyes but are not washed of their filth." (The filth being sinful nature or that "inner darkness" that everyone has.) 30:12 the lady says the solution is to get rid of the ideas of "good guy" and "bad guy" and everyone should just be themselves. But Shawn knows the truth deep down (30:20), that there is a big piece of darkness in us, which the bible calls "sin" or "sinful nature" 30:33 the solution is not to ignore the darkness in us (even by prayer or meditation or religion) Because it will only get stronger. The solution, as Justin baldoni puts it, is to live in the "higher nature" or "in the spirit". Galatians 5:16 "But I say, walk by the Spirit , and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh." But this is the crucial piece that they are missing... We can't do it on our own. I think Shawn realizes this. No one has been able to live as the good guy all the time and it's exhausting to try to find the balance. There is good news though. Someone came to kill that inner darkness, that sinful nature, that lower nature. He lived his entire life in the spirit. He never surrendered to the darkness. He gives us the power to do the same if we put our trust in Him. He literally gives us His Spirit and a promise to never leave us. He took all of our darkness, all of our sin, all of our evil and destroyed it. He can take yours too. His name is Jesus. Shawn, you are soooo close to the truth. It's crazy how God is revealing truth to your heart. I'll be praying for you 🙏🏼

[@jonesasher9240]

Just a Huge Thxx for This info///

[@gurmeet7992]

🥰🥰

[@Adeoluwajoju]

GOD BLESS YOU FOR THIS NATALIE🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@jessicasuzanne___]

Mmm yes amen!!

[@SM-gj2zp]

This 🙌

[@mystforever9820]

That last part from Jamey hit. As a Black girl who has been a fan of Shawn’s for years, that part really hit.

[@aldreonsmith4268]

YES! the whole interview has so many powerful moments, but that one had me sobbing. That, was huge. I came to the comments specifically to mention what Jamey did there. Thank you for commenting on that.

[@bennybliss7355]

Same that part just blew my mind I was like maybe I could be the black girl that happens to Its so surreal

[@BratzFanz123]

Time stamp?

[@gaila.9852]

Timestamp?

[@alexaofelia2750]

Ok but Jamey Heath is an AMAZING host. he is always calm and respectful to Shawn but he also doesn't let him get away without addressing a hard question AND calls him out. Ex: "ok but did you say sorry for yelling at her or did you make that moment about your own fear" and THAT is what led Shawn to being even MORE vulnerable and honest in his answer. Just wow. I wish all interviewers/hosts were like him

[@aldreonsmith4268]

Jamey is my new favorite person. The closing with Shawn, the way he did that was so beautiful, showed wisdom.

[@serenawillams5876]

I thought Shawn was already vulnerable, specially in the armchair podcast but NO! He's going so deep and honest and im so so SO proud of him! Such a nice guy, he's big but never let the fame and gold get to him, i have so much respect for him and will always do! About the materialistic things, he's SO true about it! Every word he utters is so honest and true!!!!!! ❤❤❤

[@serenawillams5876]

@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 he was 17 when he did that. Humans make mistakes

[@bella_anahii]

@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 his past does not define himself

[@littleblueangel1545]

@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 he literally say that if "he was gay it's okay" this seems homophobic?? Omg, you're so crazy

[@serenawillams5876]

@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 no

[@littleblueangel1545]

@badgalpal And he on the podcast with Dax Shepard clarified the rumors of his sexuality, saying that he is not gay, and that if he were, it would be fine, he has nothing against gays, and also said that he felt angry that he They called him "gay" because there were people close to him who were from the LGBT community and still did not come out of the closet, in short, he is not homophobic, and his past does not define him as a person.

[@stnfny]

i really love him, shawn is literally the person more honest, human and kind in the planet. my babe we love you😭

[@adanpastrana5658]

But he was mocking Britney's spears mental health now karma he is suffering the same

[@adanpastrana5658]

But he was mocking Britney's spears mental health now karma he is suffering the same

[@adanpastrana5658]

Shawn was mocking Britney's spears mental health now karma he is suffering the same

[@rg9991]

@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 I would like receipts

[@allgoodnamesaregone7105]

@@rg9991 There's a video of him mocking Britney

[@dafneduranchavez54]

Shawn is super Honest and kind, his voice even when he talk is the most beautiful that i hear ♡

[@bi.fruitsalad]

Well said!!

[@adanpastrana5658]

But he was mocking Britney's spears mental health now karma he is suffering the same

[@adanpastrana5658]

@Clara But he was mocking Britney's spears mental health now karma he is suffering the same

[@adanpastrana5658]

But he was mocking Britney's spears mental health now karma he is suffering the same

[@adanpastrana5658]

@Clara But he was mocking Britney's spears mental health now karma he is suffering the same

[@BktList]

The wisest 22 year old...just glad he exists to show the world a fresh perspective. A new "new."

[@juliadiego7061]

Couples are always going to have conflicts. S raising his voice isn’t abusive or toxic and is quite normal, but it’s also perfectly appropriate for Camila to call out the aggressive tone and ask him to talk to her in a more constructive way. Communication is important! -

[@juliadiego7061]

That doesn’t make C controlling or manipulative or mean she’s making him feel evil. People are already manipulating his words to pass judgment on both S and C. Normalize discussing needs and conflicts in a calm way so that both partners can learn and grow.

[@annaarredondo9426]

THIS!

[@sylviaregino1140]

People need to quit acting like they don’t know how it is to be in a serious relationship and how communication is important so Camila telling him not to yell at her is exactly what to do then he knows what she doesn’t like and corrects it.

[@bi.fruitsalad]

@@sylviaregino1140 exactly this. Lack of communication leads to misunderstandings and conflict. Just communicating and telling the truth can avoid so much negativity. It really has helped me all my life to communicate and I’m glad more people get it and can communicate as well :)❤️

[@sylviaregino1140]

@@bi.fruitsalad exactly glad it’s helped you❤️

[@alo5868]

Where do I find a man with Shawn’s and Justin’s mentality and maturity

[@cosi2818]

so friggin true

[@rawrrrr3466]

Why is no one talking about how much eloquent Shawn is? You can tell he writes his own songs, he is great with words

[@blindaparty9679]

He's so wise for his age. so inspiring

[@bi.fruitsalad]

Ikr! An old soul ❤️

[@eheheno]

I just can't believe how wise he is and that's not because he's always right it's because he knows he can't be always right and is ready to accept that. He has attained more wisdom and enlightenment that I ever will.

[@serenawillams5876]

Literally

[@nativaldes7755]

i could hear shawn talking for HOURS i love this man so much

[@danielaortiz9178]

his voice is so calming. for sure

[@melissaloureiro7589]

And this is why Shawn is my inspiration. Even if he has all that privilege and success he knows what to stand for and he's always so truthful and showing his vulnerability with us, which makes me feel so much better, because sometimes I feel like show our vulnerability is bad. So the way Shawn show us that it's ok to be vulnerable, to have anxiety, to be wrong and that than someone will correct us, is so important and he really has helped me with growing up and my insecurities.

[@allgoodnamesaregone7105]

Shawn was mocking Britney's mental health

[@bi.fruitsalad]

@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 just stop. You know that’s not the type of person he actually is. You’re legit not helping anyone rn. The podcast is tho.

[@aurorapadilla3897]

@@bi.fruitsalad this person it’s commenting this everywhere, it’s shows how they doesn’t have anything to do

[@melissawalker9467]

Remember this transparency heals and that we serve a mighty God.

[@mariainesstraubecavada9374]

I wish more interviews to famous people would be like this one right here, about values and motivations, who they really are, they have so much experience to share with us as they are living life in an accelerated rhythm. I love watching this better than what designer made their clothes, details on their personal relationships or sexual comments. Btw I'm not a religious person, but great job people!

[@lagunabxo]

Agreed! This was such a beautiful and refreshing conversation to listen to.

[@beatriceonyoutube1037]

Good answer

[@marsilas12]

amazing podcast. sometimes i can't believe shawn is 22. the man is so wise

[@adanpastrana5658]

But he was mocking Britney's spears mental health now karma he is suffering the same

[@easy_betty]

@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 6th time. You have a sorry life bro

[@marsilas12]

@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 beatch try to leave your house sometimes

[@miateresa8041]

It’s amazing to see a person especially a celebrity whose childhood he was raised to have the beliefs of an atheist, independently allow the idea of god into his life! There is just so much good that comes from god it almost makes me emotional! I hope he continues to peruse this way of thinking🙏❤️(I’m a Christian)

[@honestytube2944]

❣such a blessing eh.

[@mmu_8]

i’m in awe of his absolute honesty and vulnerability and how he’s using his voice to push for change. love this.

[@allgoodnamesaregone7105]

Shawn was mocking Britney's mental health

[@usisiphoqamata]

I have never cried from listening to a podcast... Every single being here is just beautiful, so much kindness and genuine love. I'm so grateful that God guided me here... I often wonder where can I find genuine people with genuine interest in the world and empowering others, this is it... Loved Loved this episode.

[@cesiahgonzalez1909]

The vulnerability, the acceptance, the honesty, the bravery in the room is astonishing and holds so much power and gives men and boys so much power. The kindness in Shawn’s voice and gentleness in the way he talks about his struggles channels so much power and bravery. I love that they are doing this and “liberating” men.

[@curtishand6180]

🤣

[@beatriceonyoutube1037]

Yes

[@gdm9630]

"how does something that i've felt my hole life feel like fanatic and not science and not the truth feel like home?". Shawn this really is Jesus calling you!

[@BeautyWithCheri]

I was sorta confused when he said this, can you paraphrase or explain what he meant in that sentence, please?

[@gdm9630]

@@BeautyWithCheri he was talking about a song from a church choir (I guess?) anyways a song about the scriptures and Jesus' message. and he said this, so he felt ""home"".

[@tamerab3124]

@@BeautyWithCheri what he meant is that while listening to Maverick City there is this peace that comes while crying and realizing how much God has done for you. It's the peace that you can't find anywhere else so that's why he said it's like he's "home". I can relate to what he's talking about. Just repent and ask for forgiveness my sister, you're in my prayers❤

[@BeautyWithCheri]

@@tamerab3124 thank you so much for that.. im a believer in Christ myself && I was in awe when he mentioned Maverick City. ❤

[@tamerab3124]

@@BeautyWithCheri me too dear I love them so much they have helped me a lot

[@tatianalucy]

it's truly incredible to see a group of men to set themselves apart and recognize their privilege. thank you for starting the change that i as a woman have been wanting to see my entire life.

[@adanpastrana5658]

But he was mocking Britney's spears mental health now karma he is suffering the same

[@adanpastrana5658]

But he was mocking Britney's spears mental health now karma he is suffering the same

[@easy_betty]

@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 You again. This the 4th time you saying the same thing dude.

[@allgoodnamesaregone7105]

@@easy_betty They want to f him they are obsessed about him they are psychopaths

[@allgoodnamesaregone7105]

@@easy_betty it's not normal to be delusional in love with a celebrity

[@pallomadarling465]

1:01:03 When he is talking about the detachment from the material things he says that not everybody can stop working. Man. That was straight to the point. Detachment doesn’t mean stop working but having a stronger reason to do so. It means that you’re working not because you want to have things from people but change people’s lives in a way. It means service. The point is where you put your heart on.

[@G0odMo0d]

I am an only 20 year old man and could listen to your talk with Shawn for ages. At that time you were doing this podcast he was only two years older than me but there were so many things I was able to identify with and to learn from you guys, and also especially from Shawn. It’s so great to see that the spirit of men is shifting a little bit towards love, also self-love and honesty in our society. I think that is absolutely fantastic for everyone and I am so eager to see how the world will look like in 50 years or so, if we can let ourselves be vulnerable and honest now ❤️

[@MaxaMillion4th]

What I love about shawn is that he speaks from the perspective of a soul inside an American stereotypical male, but once, you understand his mind and how he thinks (through his responses to the interview questions) you start to recognize his divinity and openness to learn from others experiences ✨️

[@WeAreManEnough]

Thank you so much for sharing

[@cristianna_jasmyn]

The Holy Spirit is tugging at your heart! Christ is LOVE. Christ is HOME. He wants you. Seek Him! He isn't far.

[@AndromedaMoon888]

I love the contrast between your profile pic and comment haha

[@Isabel10110]

The way he stripped himself and let other scrutinise his feelings and actions was of a humbleness that is out of this world.

[@heleneduensch9131]

When did he say that?🙈

[@mischkahermans1275]

He's so incredibly wise for his age , this was so inspiring and educational , thank you.

[@catarinarodrigues2099]

Wow . Wow . Wow . This IS THE most vulnerable i've seen Shawn. My admiration and love for him only is getting stronger. I ABSOLUTLY loved The whole podcast. He is só Brave for being on that position. Thank you to you ALL and specially Shawn. It is a wide-opener podcast.

[@allgoodnamesaregone7105]

Shawn was mocking Britney's mental health

[@tanialorini7687]

Arlex Dj Yes he WAS, people change

[@bi.fruitsalad]

@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 you keep commenting that. he isn’t those terms. Those are clearly not true. And everyone in their right mind would know that he isn’t that type of bad person. Yes he was acting like a ignorant 15 year old obviously but she isn’t like that anymore. I’m sure he understood how offensive it was. how about you cancel real celebs who are actually problematic and actually racist, homophobic etc. and peoeole who spread hate Instead of people who changed long ago and have shown growth and maturity??? Leave him alone and focus on your life. This is sad

[@rg9991]

@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 the conversation around britney was VERY different a couple of years back...the entire industry had conspired against her to make her seem deranged and keep the conservatorship. As someone who is the same age as Shawn, MOST people at one point thought that nothing was wrong because there were no indications of it. Look at what happened with Taylor and kanye, can you truthfully say that you never for a moment considered that Taylor was being set up by the media? Same thing with Britney, I have been guilty of writing her off as well, does this mean I'm the devil incarnate? Please grow up and understand the difference between an action and a mindset. Thank you.

[@allgoodnamesaregone7105]

@@rg9991 Shawn was mocking Britney's downbreak and was ableist calling ret***** his friends

[@coachwithjenna4820]

when it comes to artists, i really pay attention to who they are, not just their music, shawn mendes is someone i admire & respect because hes so real & honest and authentic and true to himself, so many people that become famous, dont always know how to be themselves anymore, some of them just change who they are to be famous, shawn is just his true self, and that to me is a true healthy role model

[@WeAreManEnough]

He truly brings himself as he is, authentically. Thank you for sharing these loving words.

[@coachwithjenna4820]

@@WeAreManEnough thank you for all that you do :) your podcast is amazing

[@Julie-hu5kb]

@@WeAreManEnough he’s the sweetest person ever and the most affectionate

[@luisaburciaga4279]

This is absolutely beautiful. Every single man on this earth should listen to this.

[@WeAreManEnough]

Thank you! We agree. Please share it with the men in your life.

[@samanthamartinez490]

I love that he’s so vulnerable and honest, he makes mistakes like everyone but he accepts them and not everyone does. I just love him and respect him so much

[@isabnk]

All these personalities in this room are just amazing, here has a such important conversation, the history’s, the truth, the honest, so much things. I’m sure this can teach a lot the people!

[@adanpastrana5658]

But he was mocking Britney's spears mental health now karma he is suffering the same

[@adanpastrana5658]

Shawn was mocking Britney's spears mental health now karma he is suffering the same

[@carolinejacob9226]

@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 is was in 2015 and a lot of celebreties mocked her. Since he apologies

[@user-pu5ce4ig5e]

@Luke's Guitar she didn't, but ok...and why are you bringing Camila up anyway?

[@talatala8172]

@Luke's Guitar worry abt shawn past lmoa , he raisct too 🤣🤣

[@gildedjaymina8802]

sometimes guys who try hard to hang on to the motif of the "good guy" end up being the biggest gaslighters out there to take any blame away from themselves. Great job identifying this issue

[@anushkachaudhuri7361]

I mean I cannot believe how wise he is at the mere age of 22. I love him. 😭❤️

[@serenawillams5876]

Ikr! 🤧🤧✋🏼

[@beautyroses8771]

50:32 You hit the nail on the head. Shame silences us, tells us we're not enough, that our voice is not good enough to be heard, that our points aren't valid; but Shame cannot thrive where there's acceptance.

[@thugempress4271]

As woman the line in wonder where Shawns says 'I wonder why when I cry into my hands I'm conditioned to feel it make me less than a man." Hit me hard! I was raised by a father that did not want a girl. I wasn't allowed to cry and it has been a very hard, long road letting myself be alright with allowing myself to feel okay with crying. This was a beautiful podcast and definitely gives me hope for the future. These are the types of conversations that need to be had. No judgement, just truth and love and acceptance. Namaste❤

[@WeAreManEnough]

Thank you so much for sharing, we are so happy you're apart of this community

[@Julie-hu5kb]

Me too I am not allowed to cry either and also Shawn is single now

[@brennathompson907]

I never leave comments on anything, this is my first one actually. But when Jamey Heath says, "How many women say that they've been raped, and we don't call them brave" I was crying and deeply touched. Thank you for saying that Jamey.

[@marcellaraponi9841]

Hands down the most Honest, Exhilarating, Introspective, and Refreshing interview and podcast! Thank you @Shawnmendes for your Bravery, and thank you to the Man Enough Podcast for allowing us to witness such greatness in such a young Man. Hears hoping people start listening to @Shawnmendes and hopefully learning something. He is truly a remarkable man faults and all!

[@marcellaraponi9841]

@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 RIGHT!!! And you’re just spreading all kinds of love and positivity!! NOT!!!!!!!!

[@corbywho1304]

I appreciate your honest, insightful inquiry.

[@yeniferesparragoza9128]

i had came to the conclusion that i am fan of shawn mendes not only because of his music (which is art) but also, because of his mindset, the kind of person he is. i'm so proud of him.

[@andrewgomez3001]

As a man This is everything I needed to hear and I believe this is an important topic that men must discuss or listen to, to fully comprehend the significance

[@WeAreManEnough]

Thank you, Andrew. So happy to hear that. Please keep coming back. So many more amazing conversations and guests coming.

[@mariadelosangelesdelosojos]

Shawn is a sensitive, humble, and wise human being who, like the teacher despite his age, shows us the facets of life and his willingness to learn from other men and women to become better and better!

[@tmalloy9]

I want to say it goes all ways. Our men are philosophers and gentle fathers, and our women are warriors and sharp-minded educators. We all wield hammers and whisks with equal determined joy.

[@tmalloy9]

@Shawn Mendes I live now in the northernmost Los Angeles county desert known as the Antelope Valley, famous for its movie cows and cottage once inhabited by Judy Garland. I’ve been a fan only very recently, though I’ve enjoyed your music without being aware it was you. I listened to your interview on the “Man Enough” podcast and checked out your music in a targeted way. I’ve been vigorously vocal ever since. You are changing our world, taking us along with you as you grow. Thank you for sharing your voice, both spiritual and melodic.

[@Heytheredelisandwich]

I admit I only came here bc of pop news and to see for myself what Shawn had to say about Camila but before watching I looked at the comments and saw that a lot of people were saying how proud they were of Shawn. I’m no podcast watcher but the comments made me want to see for myself what this podcast really had to say. So I tuned in and now I understand why the comments had nothing but nice things to say. Shawn spoke very well in this. I loved listening to what he had to say about being a man and the things he struggles with. There were some things I had no clue about when it came to men and things that I related to when talking about women. Everyone spoke really well and I’m glad I listened. Definitely subbing.

[@yyg4632]

he called himself out on his wrongs and that is so healthy and hard to do

[@alysunflower8153]

Shawn is my therapist ✨🌻 He is so mature and I’m proud of who he is

[@1marifabi]

This conversation was extremely powerful. Glad this type of conversations are being put out there!!!

[@popassociationgames]

What I love about Shawn, aside from his music, is his personality. I really appreciate his honesty and how he lets himself be vulnerable.

[@lillycostello7436]

why am i getting so emotional???? Shawn is so open and honest and isnt afraid to be himself...i love that.

[@MicaMane-123]

He always blows me away. Such a wise and kind young man.

[@MasterSophiaChrist]

"the thing that makes me happy is being there for myself" - there u go peeps. The essence of the universe. Because you are it. U R the one consciousness expanding and collapsing to infinity. U R everyone and everyone is u. We are 1

[@isasouza7652]

This man saved my life. I will never stop saying that shawn is one of the most amazing artist in the industry. He is so down to earth and kind.

[@serenawillams5876]

Shawn raising his voice at Camila isnt toxic or bad or anything. Everyone has their moments, he's a human, he can be angry sometimes, i really love the fact that he accepts his ego, mistakes and learns from them, corrects them and moves on! Proud of camila for telling him and letting him know she's hurting cause that's exactly what she should be doing and it makes their relationship so much healthier. So much respect for this little guy ❤

[@sylviaregino1140]

Agree totally

[@thomasm.3283]

Great conversation. I would love to see Camila Cabello on your podcast since she initially introduced Shawn to your book and she is so insightful. I think Liz and Camila are both incredibly strong women who can bring their own perspective to this discussion.

[@fizamification]

Something I noticed is at 34:52 , Liz - you just made an amazing commentary about society's "setting up each person to fail" within the masculine/feminine ideals and then ended it with "a little bit". Thank you for being my mirror as I recognize many situations where I do this in conversation to not seem TOO assertive as a woman (even though I just made a completely valid point). Amazing conversation. Thank you guys.

[@Vrushtidiora22]

I don't know where to start but after seeing this podcast i felt chills on spine...i have this fear people judging me i felt like whenever people see me or acknowledge my presence they are talking about me they are judging me for my type how fat i am or how i am looking or what wearing or how even i walk. And this gave me a social anxiety and fear of people judging me. And stop me out even go out with my family and friends be alone myself and stay in my room. Even i had fear to with my family cause i was that afraid of people judging and telling what to do or not and what should look like and how behave. cause i felt shamed of my self at that point and that what am i doing is wrong and i am not getting their expectations.i am still now afraid of people judging me and metting new people. But i felt something different. Today after listening this i felt myself after so long time. I felt vulnerable and being honest to myself to let my emotions to get me. I felt like crying for hours but not single tear drop off my eyes cause somewhere inside i know this happened to me because I let it happen it happened to me because I let people judgment get me but now i feel shaken up inside and i want be honest and vulnerable person who can show her true self and do whatever she wants to and be a good person a good woman not girl who felt insecure about herself. Now i will out and tell the world who i am and be the person i am. And show the world that i can be anything i want and can do anything. And be a brave enough to be right for myself. Thank you so much for this. i just came to see shawn and got truth of my life and get know what kind of person i should be. Thank you so much for making me realise my vulnerable side and show me side i am most afraid of. I can't say enough Thank you to you guys. After long time i feel like feeling being me and my true self. Thank you Thank you Thank you. I love you for showing my true self. Thank you.

[@serenawillams5876]

Hey! We're all proud of u ❤

[@Vrushtidiora22]

@@serenawillams5876 Thank you so much . It's means lot

[@serenawillams5876]

@@Vrushtidiora22 it was the same w me! I used to feel SO idek its a weird feeling. Then i realized i had this "ego" or what shawn calls it, its about being judged! You just gotta let everything go, let go off things, dont have control over them! Mess up, fall, cry and BE PROUD of it cause its a part of life, the moment you feel that you're free and kind to yourself, you feel the freedom in your body. Whatever happens, dont judge yourself for it, just let go of that! Sending love xx

[@Bella-nr1bb]

i’m so proud of you 💕 you are beautiful, you are enough, you are you. it takes so much for any human to admit their fears and insecurities and we all have it. you are so brave for that

[@sam_9329]

Proud of you

[@Sinoidotschka]

I’m having the day off and all I do is listening to Shawn Mendes interviews, wow thank you guys for this fantastic podcast at the end of your conversation I’ve felt as I was there with you and have the aftertaste as if I would talk to an amazing people or closest friends!💛 thank you so much!💙 This was healing for me!

[@user-wp2iu5ef3o]

I love the way every single one of them speak and carry themselves

[@andrewarmstrong515]

These podcasts are becoming an amazing way to start the week. These self-reflective conversations are hard to hear sometimes, but I’m grateful for this opportunity to learn, grow and to feel, “Man Enough.”

[@spiritsandsparkles2205]

As a sociology student, it is so important for me to understand societal and individual vulnerability. This podcast just made my day! I have honestly not heard a more vulnerable, deep, resonating conversation ever in my entire life....This is such a good thing to get on to, and just because of liking a pop star, it was possible. I love the social issues highlighted here, and would say that it's universal and waiting hearing.....

[@naomiferreira8255]

Being man enough is to say “I’m sorry”. Great convo. Shawn is wiser than his years

[@bbkivines3244]

Shawn Mendes is one of the top 5 biggest Popstars in the world

[@anjaliselvanayagam1420]

shawn is so vulnerable in this episode of this podcast. love him truly. he's so truthful.

[@allgoodnamesaregone7105]

Shawn was mocking Britney's mental health when he was talking about anxiety make it make sense

[@serenawillams5876]

Literally

[@joeybeach4142]

I’m happy to see you coming to faith Shawn! It’s seems as though you are knocking on the door of the father and I hope this verse finds you well: Ephesians 4:13-15 Until we all reach the unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ. Then we will no longer be infants tossed back and forth by the waves and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of people in their deceitful scheming. Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ. God bless you Shawn!!

[@castelomontoyaximena1876]

in love with the way he says things, the most sincere words definitely, is the best

[@allgoodnamesaregone7105]

Shawn was mocking Britney's mental health

[@aurorapadilla3897]

@@allgoodnamesaregone7105 dudee, go get a life omg, so obsessive

[@mirthacruz3329]

It's amazing how an artist as great as shawn is so sincere in this podcast and teaches us that no relationship even if it's of famous people is rosy, all relationships have ups and downs, shawn and camila I admire them a lot, their relationship is beautiful, and the communication they have with each other is wow.

[@wndlpr]

I can't believe I'm seeing this a year later. Wow the way Shawn talks about he's and Camila's relationship makes me so sad that they have broken up. This is a beautiful podcast that all men and women should listen to. I wish all humans had the same mentality and conviction.

[@WeAreManEnough]

Thank you! We're so glad you're here with us.

[@Julie-hu5kb]

As someone who grew up without a father and grew up with Anxiety myself I also suffer from depression too but the anxiety I have struggled with so much, I was bullied in school Shawn in elementary school I always felt different and watching Shawn I related to Shawn in so many ways. he is so sweet kind loving caring and gentle.

[@prandjanikamilla7739]

this is actually so amazing, people who leave mean comment about this podcast dont get what this podcast means which this means so much for us. i've never seen shawn being this open and vulnerable and im really proud of him. love this podcast so much!!!!

[@adrianamanta291]

Your mission on this planet it’s to write songs that inspire people and being the light to this planet. It doesn’t matter our society and how we wish that to change because we have no control over it. The only control we have it’s creating something that inspire people and maybe one day the new generation will have a different perspective and things will change slowly. The old mind sets and beliefs will change.

[@hannahhh1424]

At 26:28 I cry. Shawn you aren't bad. It's a normal thing. Sometimes I also raise my voice. I cry a full hour and a few minutes. This interview is so good, it's a therapy and a mediation for me. Thank you God, thank you to you 3 and thank you Shawn so much. I'm glad I'm able to watch this

[@pearlgretchen9308]

I have never been so entranced into anything! I have been a Shawn Mendes fan for some time now, and I came to watch this as just another Shawn Mendes interview. No. This is more then that. This is real and honest words, and that is so incredible! I am still a teen and to hear that in a couple years I can be this mature and honest that is just awesome!

[@martaardesi2056]

Dear Justin, I discovered this podcast right now. All this is not in vain. One man at the time, one life at the time. You are making a massive difference. Keep going dear brother, just keep going. You got this. Bless your heart. ❤️🫂

[@WeAreManEnough]

Thank you. That means so much to us.

[@karenmateezer8299]

i love him so much, he’s taught me more than he will ever know. truly so so so grateful for a man like shawn to be as popular as he is. love how transparent, and honest, and just how great of a person he is. truly, it means more than he knows.

[@callistaoh]

im so incredibly proud of Shawn! the fact that he called himself out and is willing to learn! 👏🏻 love you Shawn ❤️

[@nissivlogs9828]

A Quick Verse for those who are struggling in any way, “ So do not fear for I am with you do not be dismayed for I am your God I will strengthen you and help you I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” ( Isaiah 41:10) Turn to God and Jesus now and accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior believe in your heart and confess with your mouth that he died then was resurrected three days later by God they want to be close to you, please ask for repentance and read your bible daily! Much love! 💓 ( Clarification that I’m not trying to force anything upon you )

[@Jo.3yy]

Amen 🙏🏼

[@sana-kb1lh]

I’m already a Christian but this really touched me! Thank you ❤️ God is so good

[@rachaeleldermusic]

My respect and love for Shawn just grows deeper and deeper. I’m so proud of him. Thank you Justin and the rest of the team for organising this and encouraging these important conversations xx

[@beautyroses8771]

1:14:27 "I want him to win, I want him to win because he'll allow other people to win." Epic.

[@anoukemrt]

Shawn is the most talented, kindest person I’ve ever seen. I love him with all my heath

[@allgoodnamesaregone7105]

He was mocking Britney's mental health

[@Orchid_1026]

Amazing how mature Shawn is at his age! It's beautiful to see.

[@kieramaher8819]

everything about shawn is so pure and perfect

[@Hellothere23344]

I would love to hear more celebrities being this vulnerable and honest. We’re all human, and we’re not perfect ♥️

[@beaudenefinger3312]

I am honestly speechless. Thank you Justin, Liz and Jamey for having these conversations. It's really so powerful.

[@stellaclermont9228]

Shawn is so mesmerizing, in every possible way. Everything he says is just so true, I love him so much🥺

[@karlacortes9201]

We love him so much, we are with him

[@enyatrinidad6897]

I love this podcast. Shawn is so transparent that you know what he is saying is the truth. Thanks for talking to us about topics not a lot of people wants to talk about. Shawn, you inspire me everyday.