WEDDING BAND REVEAL! Deep Life Talk about Anxiety & Parenting, Designer Unboxing | Julia & Hunter

[@Meliza.Hernandez]

The new wedding bands ARE JUST EVERYTHING!!! I LOVE SEEING BABY SMOKE WALKING AROUND. and with his brother brings allll the feels of ❤️. I LOVE YOU GUYS. I DONT EVEN KNOW HOW..IT'S CRAZY TO LOVE HUMANS YOU NEVER MET IN LIFE!!! But thank you forever and for letting us people in your world. Ty for everything.

[@stephaniehetzer]

The approach on parenting you were talking about is how I was raised. That’s gen x stuff. We weren’t entertained all day. We played using our imaginations and built forts and created our own games and were a part of the family doing chores and part of the conversations. It absolutely made me more independent and able to figure things out myself and be a more well rounded person. I personally think it’s a great way to be raised. And even though I didn’t need my parents to help me with everything they were always there when I needed them and as an adult became my best friends.

[@JulesMathis83]

Hi Julia! When you were speaking about the book you are currently reading it reminded me to shine more light on Montessori philosophy. I won’t say too much about it, there is a ton of information out there. But I have practiced Montessori lifestyle with my girls since birth and they went to a Montessori pre school and now go to a Montessori 1st-8th school. All I can say is that I never played with my toddlers (unless I wanted to). They were extremely independent from birth basically. Now they are 10y and 8y, extremely independent and always have been. It’s just an amazing way to raise children. They are beyond mature in their age and way more ahead in school than kids around. They have a huge respect for all humans, they take care of pets in their classroom, grow fruits and veggies at school, they vacuum and water plants. I have been doing these things with them since they were 1yo, and they continue doing these things at school. It’s amazing to see them grow up to be so respectful and independent.

[@hhheathermichelle]

booker and smoke look like Scooby and shaggy🥰

[@KelliDW]

That would be the best Halloween costume! 😂

[@jennyweibel3211]

Literally the longing to read and expand the mind with something other than social media is soo relatable. And with a toddler at home too I think the mom in us really does need depth like you mentioned. I want my time to serve me. Love this video

[@SurfingforDaisy]

Thanks so much for featuring our song “I Like Drinking” at 38:09

[@JuliaHunterHavens]

Absolutely! Great music 🫶

[@JoePotter-wd5zh]

@@JuliaHunterHavens I love your beautiful videos

[@Charlotte11111]

​@@JuliaHunterHavens Hi Julia! From where you buy your jewelry?

[@karenkircher8344]

Love your style! You are so creative and confident in your clothing! Never stop please! Just in love with the jean shirt you are wearing in the opening clips!

[@wynstonarcher3963]

Your honesty and realness is awesome and rare with so many other creators in this industry!!! Absolutely adore yall

[@beckywrught8767]

AGREE! Up front and real

[@rachelfiggins6981]

Tracking your cycle can be so beneficial for your mental health and knowing when to supplement and do lower impact workouts! My anxiety/depression intensifies 1-2 before period! Sending you the prayers 🙏🏻

[@willaa_torres]

The anxiety after becoming a mom is a whole other level that I wasn’t prepared for. Had my 3rd baby 6 months ago and what’s helped me calm my nerves is finding scripture that counteracts the negative thoughts. And when those thoughts come, use the scripture as your weapon! Jesus loves you❤ Thank you for sharing about the parenting in different countries. Definitely going to implement some of that

[@Lovemyjohnson]

Just had my third well she’s 6 months old now as well but same! Started trusting more in Jesus and it’s helped so much! Jesus is real and we have to surrender to him!

[@melissa-wz6uj]

Amen ❤ scripture is so powerful. Thank you Jesus 🙏🙌

[@madisoneliot5285]

Julia saying I know this isn’t everyone’s style about her wedding bands as I’m just over here jaw on the floor! So stunning and different is always cool ❤

[@jadineann]

I’m so excited to see the vlogs when the cabin is done and go back and watch these and see how far the house has come omg

[@amandipa8368]

Really loved your genuine car talk in the beginning. I came back and watched it a 2nd time 🤎 been watching you for years & my favorite quality of yours is your authentic talks, about where you're at in life, how you've been feeling, and what's interesting you. I'm a mom too and that perspective on how other cultures raise their children struck a chord with me and ill be trying to include my son in chores more. I admire you wanting to read more and scroll less. Awesome too to be speaking about the ways social media can be detrimental when you work in that world, I think that is an important perspective for others to hear. Hope your anxiety lessens as you take care of yourself more 🤎

[@backroadmomma4376]

I swear as we get older our anxiety gets worse and stronger 😣😑 thinking of you girl ❤

[@morielmcpherson8558]

Smoke is the best! He has the sweetest aura. ❤ Hope he’s liking his Little Spoon. My daughter loves her’s, it has definitely helped exposing her to new foods.

[@gabriellamartinez8149]

Love the new antique find !!! I think adding the canvas nailed on the back and over spilling to the left of the picture would be so amazing , the canvas texture would really tie it with the wooden credenza and vintage nails would look amazing , especially if the canvas edges are frayed !

[@patriciagurwitz509]

I get so excited each time I see another new video on KZbin👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼It’s my 𝘏𝘈𝘗𝘗𝘠 𝘛𝘐𝘔𝘌💕The new wall art is PERFECT… size color, everything 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼I’m so genuinely excited for all of you.

[@christinemauro3466]

Omg the anxiety convo was so relatable!! Love that you both take the time to talk about real genuine things:) xoxo

[@kimdavison9223]

Congratulations on your wedding 💍💍💍💍💍❤. You guys hit everything I love about your channel with this one! Recipe, cabin, decor, personal, Booker, Smokie just walking around like a sweet heart! ❤❤❤. I appreciate you both soooo much!❤❤❤❤

[@Lyniee123]

Loving the vlog, I totally agree the parenting style in other countries make it a lot easier for children to navigate into adulthood because they already are integrated into everyday life and are a lot more independent in the way they think. Its all about balance, also giving too much of anything to children sometimes makes them not have much gratitude or understand the principals of working to get what you want as adults ♥

[@di4085]

Loving the progress of the log house. You're putting in some really cool features. Liking the idea of the planter which will be above the den in a sunny room. It's going to be a very unique and fantastic looking house. I wish I could afford to purchase it. ❤

[@mimigarcia4892]

It’s also cuz your still healing after having a baby, it usually takes 2 years to get your nervous system regulated as well. Praying for the anxiety to get better ❤

[@WhatAreWeWearingtoWork]

Love you sharing this transparent parenting convo - so true!! ❤

[@Meganc3090]

I really admire yalls authenticity and uniqueness. ❤😊 It feels so good to just be yourself and not worry about other people's opinions. Love that about you guys.

[@chelsncass4637]

I’ve been a supporter of their KZbin for so many years… and their evolution and journey has been incredible to be able to witness firsthand! I get so much inspiration from jujubean and Delaney… like them two mixed together would be my exact style or vibe! & I am always getting new ideas of home decor and building our dream home from these two love birds! I love that they have remained resilient and also humble and true to themselves throughout their KZbin career.. that’s probably why I have been such a dedicated fan and supporter of their content! I have watched countless of different people over the years I’ve been on KZbin and I can without a doubt say that these two are BY FAR the most amazing and inspiring creators I’ve been behind! They only share things they truly believe in and that says a lot about their character and how they are probably are in real life. Genuine, rare and solid as it gets! Always gonna be yalls hype man! Keep doing what you do! 🌱🌷

[@nseyatenija]

Your ring is gorgeous and stunning! I know how sentimental it is to you guys and I love that you love your new ring 💍❤

[@nairobifernandez96]

I’ve never seen you make a video like this but that being said you do like to go vintage furniture/ home decor shopping- so I was hoping you’d consider doing a thrifting vlog where you find cool unique clothing pieces at a thrift store & style them. I just love your aesthetic and I feel like you’d come up with some really cool looks! Also would be so cool if Hunter did it with you as well!

[@teodorasokolovic2993]

❤You are a wonderful family that positively influences young people with your examples. Take care and cherish your relationship, such harmonious couples are rare. Smokey is the most beautiful boy in the world.

[@martyward8997]

I loved your white lamps in living room so much...love you guys...😊

[@MsCokki]

i love the errands runs with julia!😌😍

[@jessdurkee3176]

I love all of the new rings!! Together or separate! Can’t wait to see how the cabin turns out as well! I’ve been following you guys since Texas, you’re one of my fave channels! 💜

[@cmconcon]

After watching u talk about the book I invited my toddlers to join me in placing fresh florals in a vase This in NOT something I would usually do with them-but it was awesome, we talked about colors and aromas. It was a real life sensory activity! My 22 mo picked up all the tiny leaves and cuttings which was activating his fine motor skills! Ive been wanting to read the book, thanks for the endorsement!

[@AlyssaHeaster]

Dark wash jeans 👖 SO CUTE! - Q: Do you ever get overwhelmed by receiving so many new clothes? I keep my wardrobe so small when I buy new stuff I need to get rid of pieces. So I can’t imagine receiving so much

[@kristinpuckett4446]

Forever grateful that you guys post so often 😂

[@magdaleneblair8032]

That huge piece is EXACTLY what y’all needed wowwwww

[@terraspickerman1807]

What a great vlog! I always enjoy your guys vid's but this one was extra. Love the new bedding- great base for other textures and patterns. The new art is INCREDIBLE! It really is so perfect for that space and what you all were looking for- it's stunning! Your meal prep inspired me- gonna copy that this weekend. The Isabel boots were also soooo good- that mid height is so popular this season and I'd say get the suede too- they're both essential, suede is more feminine so it'd be perfect when you want a softer vibe, smooth leather for an edgier vibe. I'm going to check those out myself. And the rings are so you! Seriously- so much good content!

[@please-wake-up-now]

I totally get what you mean about anxiety getting real as we grow older. It's like a sneaky shadow 🕵️‍♀️! I think sharing these talks makes such a difference. Also, those sheets look super comfy-def definitely need to try those!! 🛏️✨

[@bernadetteandrews8892]

I felt it too when you guys put that art work up whew SO GOOD😅

[@Pickleweasel222]

I love the painting! Adds a super nice touch of Nashville!

[@mackenzieesselman8566]

I’ve felt the same way the past couple of weeks! Emotional, irritable. And I can’t pinpoint where it’s coming from. Glad to know I’m not the only one ❤

[@katatude]

Such an enjoyable vlog... Retired 27-year Interior Designer here and just thinking: The artwork is absolutely, perfectly fabulous! Definitely LARGER lamp on left and perhaps no lamp on other side. Maybe a collection of varying height and size vases instead and one of the vases could be squatty and elongated with a low height plant on a book stack. Maybe reading-style floor lamps on either side of the sofa or at least on the opposite side of the sofa from the credenza lamp with the second one by the chair. Love the scale of the plant on the left. Btw, been using this method of cooking rice for 30+ years! It makes the best... Happy Life, Loves!!!!

[@AmandaLewis]

The art is perfect I can see a pop of rich colors like burgundy dark purple or even a rich blue. Wow it’s so good guys 🪄✨

[@foundbutstilllost]

Log Cabins are no joke! My husband and I are doing renos on a log cabin that we just moved to! It's been a journey for sure!!!

[@kaykay9600]

Booker and Smoky playing 🥹 so cute 😍

[@reallycuteco]

omg the rings are too fun !!!

[@lrogers1286]

Reintroducing coffee always makes my anxiety pop up

[@annlatham]

I love the pillow cases 😍 the art is EXACTLY what that space needed! Wow 👏🏼

[@jerrihanson3823]

Your rings are beautiful, even Hunters. I took a picture of your engagement ring I love it so much. And I really like those glasses you wore showing the rings, they looked so good on you Julia. I like the book your reading, I know Smoke is a big part of your life and you want to fill his time with fun stuff to keep him entertained, but I liked how you were describing what the author was saying people had the babies adjusting into the adults life, and that’s how I remember growing up. Then when you have more kids, you can’t expect to be all about playing with them all all day, taking them places, it swallows you up. You guys are great parents and it’s been fun watching you guys from your wedding, all the travelling you did and now parenthood. How fun you’ll be able to watch your videos when your grandparents. Seems a long way off but here before you know it.

[@jennycrites6875]

I loved this vlog! It was so fun and funny. As if yall need another business venture but I swear you could write a cookbook or open a food truck. You guys always have awesome recipes! The wedding bands are really pretty and unique but I like them! ❤

[@deemo3827]

Omg seriously ME…. I constantly feel like I need to be entertaining my son or trying to teach my him lessons all day every day and i feel like I have to be the one to (this might sound weird) but LIVE for him… as in feeling like I should be sitting by his side nonstop and guiding him through every second of every day. It gives me complete and utter anxiety as soon as I wake up each morning. Every time I do something for myself or for my career or even just working makes me mom guilt trip to the point where I feel physically paralyzed and can’t do anything at all. Then I feel even more guilty because I didn’t do ANYTHING for the day..(as in play with my son, or spend quality time with him, or do my work or even chores around the house). Please someone out there say I’m not the only one that feels like this… because I literally feel like a crazy person that just overthinks everything and worries ever since I had my son. My whole identity feels like it’s been snatched from me and shoved back in me as something else… and I don’t know how to connect with it and trust that letting go of control is what is going to fix it. I’ve been working on reframing my mindset and having a routine and it’s helping but damn… I see other moms just not care and go with the flow and not have any mom guilt and yell at their kids and show them their emotions without holding back… and it works… their kids are well behaved but also not lacking love..and I’m over here puking inside because I feel like I’m not doing enough. That may have made absolutely no sense… and I went on a crazy tangent … but I guess I want to just THANK YOU for sharing your feelings in this video about your current motherhood mindset. I totally relate. You are beautiful girl, keep being your genuine self… you have shown me through the years that it’s okay to have problems and show it… and still keep your fabulousness in tact the whole time ❤

[@Meliza.Hernandez]

Omg the livingroom art IS EVERYTHING 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@Itssalinaking]

That last look Juj!!!! Stunning 💚

[@kristenkawamura-jf9sp]

Loving your vlogs girl please keep it up and please keep up the driving with me’s their my favorite to watch!🙏🏽

[@ninadiesel]

Stardust is an awesome woman created and owned app to track your cycle! I love it! Also, it’d be soooo fun to add in some vintage or custom stained glass pieces in your home!

[@iadorenailsxfashion]

Love the way you two care for one another ❤ Smokey is so blessed to grow up in that environment!

[@mariahlimpinho3155]

Okkkk hanging antique light from cieling where hunter is saying tall lamp!!! Mix it up ! Love love

[@breikeren]

The varying vintage items is giving vintage farmhouse, took a moment to get it. I feel like what’s missing is farmhouse lighting fixtures, I think that would give the cabin feel in your modern townhome!

[@victoriachristiansen5013]

spoiling us this week with so many videos!!!!!

[@Ohagillover]

Go touch grass

[@AlyssaHeaster]

The brown overalls!!! Amazing

[@06Camboi]

I always feel anxious and on edge a week or so before my period every month without fail I’m like what’s wrong with me then I start my cycle ❤

[@anitaboyer8311]

Suggestion for your wall......I would wallpaper it in colors that you like and then hang a huge square mirror or 2 vertical mirrors with some height to them on top of the wallpaper. It will make that room look so much bigger and probably show off a reflection of your fireplace!

[@holly_kalae]

Absolutely loveeee your guys' rings, Juj your stack is gorgeous I would buy each and every one and that thick cigar style *chefs kiss* 💚

[@TinyMamaTracy]

Love you hair long again. I get so happy when you guys are on . Love watching

[@j.s8939]

Hey Jules! I was listening to the first part of the vlog when you were taking about anxiety, and I just felt like the Lord wanted me to just share a few reminder scriptures for you (and anyone who is feeling anxious). He loves you so much, He wants you to know that you can lay every care and every anxiety at His feet. He is in total control and He wants to give you rest! ❤ Matthew 11:28-30 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” 1 Peter 5:6-8 Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you. Isaiah 40:31 - But those who wait on the Lord Shall renew their strength; They shall mount up with wings like eagles, They shall run and not be weary, They shall walk and not faint. God bless you and your beautiful family!

[@daughterofthemosthigh3366]

Amen! God is good! More of Him and less of this world!

[@ppac876]

I grew up in the Philippines and I agree how my parents and grandparents raised me the same way you described. I can cook rice and cut veggies and fruits on my own at 8 yrs old. I mostly played with my neighbor friends and we played outdoors a lot too. This was 32 years ago! And I do try to raise my kids same way but of course it’s a bit different living in the US versus in the Philippines. I’m very interested in that book now! Would love to read more about it!

[@Alamocityteam]

I also read Hunt,Gather ,parent! Loved it! I just picked up the book “ French Kids Eat Everything” by Karen Le Billon because my son is very picky too and I hope to get him eating more vegetables!

[@emmac5350]

OMG love the art piece you all found, in my humble opinion don't put to much to cover that beautiful piece it's amazing!!

[@katrinalainsbury8320]

WOW! This colour book is my holly grail!!

[@alikaisha2000]

Honestly I have fell off watching the vlogs but I’m so happy to be back watching them again!😄💕

[@paulapeeler3157]

You guys... I love that art for that wall...love it!!!

[@DaniGreyHare]

Ahhh Juj, as long as you're happy with you're hair thats all that matters!!! but also I miss your short hair so much 😢

[@bernadetteandrews8892]

Me too! Exactly what you're explaining in the beginning is how I am right now too! Must be something

[@oum3351]

A moody tapestry on that wall, one with beautiful scenery would look great and dramatic 😍

[@sharonsutherland5520]

Love watching your Video's 🥰 you're such real genuine people.. and little Smokey is just Sooooo Precious🩵The cabin is coming along nicely..it will be amazing when it finished. I just LOVE all of your wedding band rings 💍 so so pretty..Until next Video Sending much Love and Prayers..take Care 🥰🐕🙏✨️

[@wynstonarcher3963]

The ring is SICK. SO JUJ

[@kyleeryan4993]

The food pickiness is suchhh a phase! My 2.5 year old still goes through them. I found the most important thing is to still give their faves while containing to give all foods and they’ll try whenever but if they’re not offered then they’ll never have the chance to eat them. It’s so funny my little one will love one food one week then hate it the next 🤣

[@LisaOBrien-i7b]

Love the art you got! The wall looks great

[@AvenFarag]

Omg, I just love Smokey so much he’s got so big and so adorable 🥰

[@wynstonarcher3963]

Perfect timing ❤love watching yall before bed. Thank you for your light and kindness. What you share has uplifted so many people. Many many blessings. This is such a dope job

[@kellyhartigan2518]

Oh that art is perfection for that wall. ❤

[@janicemccall727]

Rings are beautiful and so Juj!!!

[@SerendipityNJ]

Thoughts On: Anxiety - I truly think that with females, hormones play much more a part of our moods than we realize & I think that there isn't enough research done on it. One day you wake up and you feel like you can take on the world, get so much accomplished - the next day your irritable and depressed - you think to yourself, did I do something different, did I eat too much sugar, etc. etc. - you say to yourself no, nothing different. Hormones seriously. Sometimes, just a little thing like the seasons changing can affect how you feel - the relaxing pace of summer ending, and gearing back up for all of the responsibilities you have on your plate - and you and Hunter really do have a lot going on. Parenting: A book I recommend is called "Simplicity Parenting" - (author: Kim John Payne) as I read it, lightbulbs go off, and I'm like, Yes, that is so true. P.S. Love your wedding band stack and love the black leather cowboy boots!

[@swptacnik21]

Little spoon is literalllyyyy life!

[@lindsaydaniels7020]

It makes me feel so much better to know that smoke is a picky eater too, because my twins are the same way!!!! And they are super close in age to smokey. Something about that age and the cheese, yogurt and bananas because that's all they prefer also. I love the idea for the smoothie pouches to get some veggies in because im with you at this point I'll try anything. I always offer a lot but they just don't want it. Also the rings are gorgeous!!

[@marshmallowk]

25:59 bedroom looks so cozy omg

[@mrwii5741]

Wow you look so beautiful and tomboyish in those Overalls :) Awesome Job on this Video

[@karlysalad5280]

The rings are AMAZING!!!!!

[@AlyssaHeaster]

Balanced and barefoot is a really great parenting book too! 📚❤️

[@carlyhampton]

Julia is looking so fire 🔥 😊 seeing her at the gym gives me so much motivation 💪 🙌

[@Dhernandez30]

I think a medium sized bonsai tree would look beautiful with that art piece. Possibly on top of a stack of books?

[@athinama312]

I’m confused, all 7 of them are the “wedding band”? Or are they just random rings on the wedding finger?

[@lhurt9792]

I believe the chunky band is her actual wedding band and the others are for stacking on other fingers. But, she might use those for her wedding bands occasionally.

[@athinama312]

Oooo I see. I was so confused! I thought the wedding band is usually 1 ring and 1 engagement ring. Sometimes it is nice to just wear a band only for a simpler look!

[@taeloretherton9287]

Need to grab that book! Raising Lions is also a great read for parenting! ❤

[@maddie6775]

you guys are so moving into that cabin

[@IrazuGarcia]

You look so cute with those green glasses juj 💕 that color is 🔥 on you

[@tidateixeira4703]

Moro no sul do Brasil 🇧🇷 ,assisto todos seus videos , nao acreditoooooo que o baby já caminha 🎉 amei amei ❤

[@analysanchez3706]

Julia, I love your accessories I need a video just on jewelry 😊

[@jackandlill]

I think on top of all you've got going on regular everyday life wise...You could be feeling an underlying anxiety about all you've got going on house wise? It's a Lot! It seems like you are truly sad that apparently you guys aren't going to ultimately be moving into the cabin as you had planned? I think that's a big switch to your expectations & may take a moment for your mind, body & spirit to process!? Certainly sharing about it here & using all of the tools you have in your toolbox i.e. working out & taking care of your body is great! Maybe talking to a therapist might help? It's really amazing what a difference that can make! I also find some simple meditation can really calm the mind! Just some thoughts!! Be Well Julia! 🧡❤💛💫 Edited to add - My take away from parenting ( & my daughter is 30) has always been that being a parent is as difficult as it is rewarding!! Always remember the airplane oxygen analogy - ya know - how they tell you to put your oxygen mask on first before your child's - bcse if you can't breathe how can you possibly help them?? And finally - our kids just want to spend time with us. Nothing fancy or incredibly complicated. They want our attention & time they don't care in what form it comes...we tend to put that pressure on ourselves. Children, well humans in general, but especially children are quite adaptable & very resilient!!

[@lenabalina]

Smoke looks so much like Hunter in this vlog - and in other he’s all Jules ❤ 21:35

[@teresamarie710]

My 1 and a half year old daughter pretty much lives on cheese hashbrowns and she loves these broccoli cheddar tots we buy in the frozen section at the store.

[@michaeladangelantonio4900]

The only youtubers I watch now ❤