wedding ceremony

[@dianalee3059]

Her dress is stunning. Elsa Zamparelli did an amazing job with the costumes.

[@stephenfermoyle4578]

yes

[@poyado3463]

The best mariage scene I saw up to now. The man and the woman look each other is priceless. Mariage must be like this.

[@josgor9061]

This is the best marriage scene in film history. Nothing comes close

[@htmlwerty]

How about 12 genders now and 43 sexual orientation 🤔? My guess it should double in couple years

[@poyado3463]

I am sorry but I couldn't understand you. I know 2 gender; man and women and I know 3 sexual orientation ; man - woman, man - man or woman - woman and both means bisexual. What do you mean I really wonder.

[@susanlee2835]

Sadly not always ...

[@richardgrier8968]

@@poyado3463 he doesn’t know what he means. He thinks he’s funny.

[@TRGFBC]

The way wind in his hair reasons out why his best friend died always hits the heart. As life goes on. That's how I see it. When people leave our lives it so someone else can take thier place

[@judyfayegilmore8061]

Gorgeous and Handsome Native American Indian People. God bless you all. Much Love.

[@edwardbraverock7649]

Same to you

[@meggrotte4760]

@@edwardbraverock7649 may Jesus bless you and wherever you are. I hope one day when I'm in heaven I can talk to my great grandmother who was a Lakota. Her father was on Lakota chief. My grandmother married a Norwegian. I remember her meeting her when I was 5 years old and she told me about being native American and about dream catchers and she also told me that she a Jesus. This was even before I'd find Christ at the age of 13. I remember exactly what she looked like and wished I had more time with her. There was such a deep love in her I couldn't describe it. I remember sitting on her lap feeling so loved. I remember asking if white people were bad. I don't know why I asked this question to be honest she said no honey. She said a person's heart is judged by God on the inside not the outside. I didn't know who God was but I assumed he was very powerful. Although I don't know much about this part of my heritage I have pride. And I'm thankful that she knew Christ along with her daughter and all her other children. I have no doubt that her father is in heaven. Whichever Christian missionary reached them thank you. Maybe it's why I became a Christian missionary

[@Vixen743]

My cousin is in love with an American Indian man he is the most generous loving caring person I have ever met I hope she marries him His Indian name is rising thunder pretty cool name man he is everything she should have in her life she has suffered greatly in a previous marriage I know that he would give her a good life and he is a sweetheart

[@karendeppe7891]

I feel so sad at what has happened to these beautiful people historically. The loss of their culture and lands and being imprisoned on reservations. It is such a loss. So heartbreaking that the Native American Nations were not just allowed to keep going with their lifestyle as they had for hundreds of years living in tune with their environment.

[@karendeppe7891]

@@Vixen743They are beautiful people.

[@Rotarrin]

You know what I actually like most about this scene? The part between Dunbar and Wind In His Hair; it was a nice friendship moment.

[@dmmchugh3714]

Rotarrin: I completely agree. Their exchange is a true declaration of loyalty and friendship.

[@viixy364]

Character development like this is a rare thing in movies. Like Adrian in the Rocky movies, her arc was tremendous too.

[@eppfra]

So werden aus feinden Freunde, zu schön um wahr zu sein. Viele Grüße aus Stadtroda Deutschland

[@blockmasterscott]

"I am not the thinker that Kicking Bird is. I always feel anger first". For some reason I always loved that line.

[@MrKrumpetz]

That is because he is both giving respect where respect is due and admitting his own flaws. Something very humble about that.

[@shayneb3540]

@@MrKrumpetz I'm not Sioux, but I'm Ojibwe, and our cultures are very similar... So I have to say, you pretty much nailed it. Respect: Respect others and respect yourself by honouring all of creation and the teachings. Truth: Speak your truth, be true to yourself and all things (including people). Show honour and sincerity in your words and actions. Humility: To be humble is to know you are only a very small part of creation. You understand you need your family as they need you. Live life selflessly and not selfishly. Never be arrogant or self-important, and always strive to find balance in yourself and all things. Those are only a few of the traditional teachings we were all once taught to live by.

[@mckinleymac3452]

@@MrKrumpetz Very good Krump. Beautiful actually. I wish that Costner had somehow worked that into the film.

[@hillena]

that was because she was white...she will never have that beautiful straight hair

[@mckinleymac3452]

@@hillena Huh...now wtf does being white or having a white person's hair have to do with anything in this thread? Seems like you're a racist. I could be wrong, in fact I hope I'm wrong, but there's no other reason for your comment.

[@aeromedical6750]

Mary McDonnell was absolutely stunning in this film. Redheads are my weakness LOL.

[@MaryHartman-ei9pv]

I went to high school with a young lady who looked just like her and oh my God was she stunning she had freckles from head to toe the most beautiful girl I've ever seen in my life she had natural red hair and the darkest brown eyes ever natural red hair I go home and continue to dye my hair red for the entire 4 years of high school I still look like s***😂😂😂😂😂 LOL

[@Beltfedshooters]

"He went away because you were coming." That's powerful

[@PeppyHair]

Now he's in the tent coming

[@pianorelaxingmusics]

nonsense

[@ronaldshank7589]

I look at the development of the relationship between Lieutenant John Dunbar (Later Dances With Wolves), and Wind In His Hair. When he first even laid eyes on Lt. Dunbar, he wanted to kill him, simply because Lt. Dunbar was white, and was seen as a "Meddling White Trespasser". Then...he kind of began to "Warm up" to Lt. Dunbar, and, before long, they had become great friends...kind of like brothers! Wind In His Hair found out that, just because somebody is "different", that doesn't mean that they're no good. Wind In His Hair did, at times, though, have a little bit of fun at Lt. Dunbar's expense. but it was a good-natured kind of fun. He knew that Lt. Dunbar was a good man, and that he was worth fighting for! That's why Wind In His Hair went on the Rescue Party, to rescue this man, who had become, by now, Dances With Wolves!

[@stephenfermoyle4578]

yes..i never knew that line before

[@McShaganpronouncedShaegen]

"He went away because you were coming." was my favorite line in this movie.

[@dtownblastinsalvi62]

For me hearing and seeing Wind in His Hair talk about his best friend and him leaving because Dances with Wolves was coming was him calling Dances with Wolves his best friend now.

[@paulseale8409]

That buckskin dress was beautiful!!!!!

[@teresapappas9773]

Perfect dress!

[@julieenslow5915]

In all my years of watching movies - I am 67 - this movie is the most beautiful I can remember. Yes it does go from the pit to the pinnacle - but it is points like the one shown in this video that rise to the top and leave me with a feeling of having witnessed a lifestyle and a people of such beauty in all they do I could only hope all people had it.

[@tomevans4402]

Yes

[@funshine817]

Romanticized. The Lakota could be ruthless. It is not beautiful to kidnap, rape and murder. They treated women as second class citizens...as did every male dominated society, on earth, sad to say. Yes, I am sure there was good, as well, but lets not put rose colored glasses on, as is so easily done with this movie.

[@barockhill]

my absolute favorite scene of any movie.. the wedding scene is breathtaking how he loves her so.

[@mauriziofolicaldi1479]

Dance with wolves its a most Wonderful movie who i have see on the life of my people. The wonderful LAKOTA and your life... And i' m proud of to be a Lakota

[@N3RDYG0GGLES]

When he’s told they’re now married and he just goes “Oh, good.” 😂 that was kind of adorable

[@stevenspenneberg7407]

“If you want this man, take his hand. “ Beautiful

[@margaretthai588]

Friendship between Wind in the Hair and Dunbar. Nice. 😃

[@richbutler718]

The background music may be overlooked , because the film, actors, scenes , are so good, great film ,great music , BRILLIANT !!!!!

[@mikeleo5990]

The soundtrack for this movie is incredible 🖖

[@tek5692]

Each time I watch this movie--as excellent as it is--I can't stop thinking about why they did that to Mary Mccormack's hair. All the Native Americans have neat, brushed hair. Meanwhile she looks like she should be in a Van Halen video.

[@jdellep5371]

Mary Mcdonnell

[@BillHosko]

They did not think the actual straight hair of Indian women was attractive. Hypocrisy. They elevated her above the actual Indian women. Hypocrisy.

[@mckinleymac3452]

@@BillHosko Absolute crap. Where do you get such drivel...from your own racist mind probably.

[@DoubleDogDare54]

@@mckinleymac3452 TEK and Bill Hosko have a point. They did her hair to look fashionable for the time in which the movie was made, not when the story was set. Sort of reminds me of how they did Natalie Wood's hair in "The Searchers" or Charlton Heston's hair as prince of Egypt in "The Ten Commandments". Done for the 1950s but not historically accurate. 🤔

[@mckinleymac3452]

@@DoubleDogDare54 I fully agree with you, it's just that I don't believe the reasons he was whining about in his post. No matter what there will be someone twisting a film, song, book, play, etc etc into some reason to call someone a racist or a hypocrite. Even without a shred of truth.

[@marioparedes4936]

Awesome scene, shows that wind in his hair opening up his heart to John, talking about his old friend, and at the same time explaining his feelings for John as his friend

[@typetersen8809]

Yes, you are right. That was some great dialogue! "He had to go away, because you were coming". Outstanding! And spiritually significant!

[@peterp2153]

Shows that while he was “quick to anger” and not the thinker Kicking Bird was, he had his own wisdom.

[@kcktodd303]

This was my favorite scene because Wind in His hair tells John he's not the thinking man like Kicking Bird is... Then he turns around and says one of the most wise things you'll ever hear... The very thing Wind in his hair is speaking about happens to all of us in life, we lose a pet, a relative, a best friend, then we grieve for awhile, then another comes along.. They aren't there to replace who you've lost, but they're there to help you continue your journey, until eventually it's your time..

[@Deadman3913]

The little subtle gesture I love so much in this scene is when DWW responds to WIHH telling him about his best friend and DWW says “I didn’t know.” WIHH ever so slightly shakes his head. In that tiny gesture he conveys “Don’t worry. It’s not important. And you are a good person.” I rewatch this scene just to see that.

[@carolynirick3372]

Rodney A. Grant was my favorite. He is definitely BEAUTIFUL and very HANDSOME.

[@catarinafalcon7189]

Carolyn Irick mom Indian qween

[@babubabu-zo2nm]

Movie name pls

[@classixdrummer]

Wind in His Hair.

[@saucerfull1]

@@classixdrummer ...Wind in den Haaren...LOL

[@baerhomburg6447]

yeah he sure is a handsome son of a gun. No, I'm not gay!

[@veronicajacobina303]

belo casamento, quanta paixão no olhar!!! a primeira vez que assisti a atuação de Kevin Costner😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@alexandrecloutier8330]

I was in a film with Graham and Tantoo back in the 90’s called Little Tree, they are beautiful people.

[@AnnaLVajda]

I was in Divided Loyalties. They are lovely my neighbor was a casting director.

[@dj3114]

I remember "Little Tree" - liked it. "She's coming alive"

[@EzraB123]

I always stop the movie shortly after this scene and just pretend everyone lived happily ever after.

[@newlife.vanessacalfan]

I was wondering where to stop watching for another viewing

[@IlonaKozubova]

Mr. Costner is definitely “King of westerns”🎩🌹

[@timothywade9982]

No matter the culture or the century, marriage is sacred ,holy, & beautiful. Never merely a sexual encounter, but the weaving together of 2 people into 1 soul, and building up of the community in which you live . just my own personal opinion !

[@SalvationinCHRISTalone888]

Timothy Wade also, Timothy, it is ordained and blessed by GOD...if GOD is the ONE to bring the two ppl together. What GOD has brought together, let no man tear asunder. GOD is so awesome in HIS way of thinking and all HE does. I love HIS plan of salvation too. Through JESUS I am forgiven, cleansed and accepted.

[@mclyte20]

You're delusional and stupid to think that marriage is all that non sense that you spouted in today's culture and century.

[@thestablishmentblues]

i wonder if sioux women were hypergamous like todays women..

[@GosokuRyuYodan]

Very well said, Tim!

[@baerhomburg6447]

and a damn good one indeed! this scene chokes me up. i am a man with a soft heart who loves football and hates sloppy tackling and poor play..lol.

[@sgtjarhead99]

"He went away because you were coming.". It was this scene that it occurred to me that Wind in his Hair was A LOT smarter than the impulsive hothead he appeared to be.

[@nonsacrvm611]

I love and respect all the Native American. I was born in the Baja California land so We're relatives. I'm very proud for that

[@GosokuRyuYodan]

The most spiritually moving film I have ever seen!

[@robertkabatoff817]

I live and breathe this movie....its awesome....

[@martythetickler]

I wish they could have found a role for Russell Means in this movie. He'd have been great too.

[@cf6965]

I saw this movie last week for the first time. What a masterpiece !

[@abominablebumble7180]

What a beautiful movie. This makes me want to watch it again. 💕💕♥♥💖💖

[@wendykelly8551]

You ever watch Kevin Costner tell the story on Graham Norton show how the script came about for dancing with wolves...... That is an amazing story in itself.... Xx beautiful film x

[@launilarson692]

My best dream I ever have from time to time when I finally am able to sleep . Getting to marry the First Nations Man of my dreams , and being truly loved /cared for forever . There is no comparison to men such as these .

[@mckinleymac3452]

All races and cultures produce extremely good people and extremely bad people.

[@lilianevanhauw6213]

Her hair is BEAUTIFUL. 😻 NATURAL. HEALTHY... I had hair like that. Than cancer with chemo, radio and a head like a boiled egg 🥚. I could accept the cancer but losing my hair made me scream like a wounded animal. 15 years passed by and I still mourn the one natural treasure a woman has 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😭

[@paulsteel9127]

Hairspray and hair teasing combs didn't exist back then.

[@susanadiasjohnson457]

HER HAIR IS SO PERFECT, AS IS HER CLOTHING AND ACTING. PHENOMENAL.

[@thetaekwondoe3887]

Really? The whole movie I think, "Why couldn't they comb her hair?"

[@paulsteel9127]

Her hair is off and historically inaccurate. Also KC looks like a member of the Alternative rock band The Church.

[@MFM230]

That is such beautiful music! How touching!

[@vikinghorsechick]

I like how the narration sounds quite like a man of that time period would write.

[@martinaskowronski3541]

Beste Film aller zeiten !!!!

[@maxkilluminati8278]

That's exactly how it was for me when I found the woman of my life and gave her my promise. And I kept thinking about this movie.

[@CrazyHorseTheSiouxW4rrior]

3:16 I love the classic native American mess call they did lalalalalallalala

[@lisanidog8178]

She has beautiful eyes!

[@nathanruben3372]

I really like the wedding. How modest easy.

[@nofirstorlast8405]

Wind in His Hair's hair is beautifully combed, and there's Stands With Fist sporting a rat's nest.

[@emaarredondo-librarian]

The first time she appears, she was cutting her hair, which is a Lakota mourning tradition. Then she was in mourning until the Holy Man decided she was not anymore. Also, that was a 1990 movie. The big hair was still in vogue, so at the time she looked sort of a natural wild beauty. Or, I hope, that was the idea 🤣

[@AirDaniel]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@andres.alegre]

I guess they tought she would look more white with her hair combed and didn’t want that

[@cloudstreets1396]

Stands with a Fist used up the whole tribe’s hairspray.

[@lorensethsiow]

All Native women like Stands With a Fist are most beautiful when they have Choosh-Boosh (bushy) hair 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@helenerodriguez8005]

Un des plus beaux moments de ce film magnifique ❤❤😂

[@Tektalks1214]

Well that's 1000000 x better then my 30 k wedding......

[@teresapappas9773]

So beautiful! Loved the wedding!

[@ritialydia]

Come on you guys going on about her hair! Van Halen, Rats nest? I am done 😂😂😂 now I giggle like a lunatic through the deep bits. Dang it

[@paulsteel9127]

KC looks like a rock star with his mullet and Mary looks like a hair metal groupie.

[@Vikingr4Jesus5919]

A marriage where people around you actually dance and sing!

[@catarinafalcon7189]

W. L. Orodor Calaerchon released

[@AnnaLVajda]

That's all I want.

[@micheladerry5681]

it was really felt by the community

[@kamalpreetlikhari153]

Come to Punjab, India. You can’t have a wedding without singing and dancing! 😀

[@Vikingr4Jesus5919]

@@kamalpreetlikhari153 Sounds wonderful! I just might.

[@Frenzy2409]

Given time this movie will become a classic, it is brilliant

[@mckinleymac3452]

It was long long ago deemed a classic

[@johnherring4394]

This was the first movie that my wife and I sat down and watched together......we are no longer together and I see clips of Dances with Wolves a great movie but makes me sad a little bit

[@joemmams5785]

jeez,the boy in this film played a superb part...

[@suzycreamcheesez4371]

Nathan Chasing His Horse

[@ishenicole9987]

That simple...if I meet a native 💓 who knows 💗 I d marry Eterno Uncas 💖 but he's in another movie

[@luabrandlu9226]

Filme lindo ❤❤❤assisti a primeira vez devia ter 11 anos😘😘😘eu amo

[@radnanaroid7378]

I wonder if there are other movies that shows native american wedding ceremonies. I actually find it hard to find any pictures of their attires to such ceremonies.

[@jamlym4974]

I love how long this movie is.

[@thegreyavenger2]

Believe it or not there’s a 4 hour directors cut that’s even better.

[@annekenauta3383]

We have never seen such a special wedding. We like this movie very much. We saw it for the 3th time. JJN - AN

[@billypate667]

Love this movie beautiful indian princess

[@fabiano6793]

02:06 ...🤔 Essa é uma das partes que considero mais signicativas do filme,e explico. Observem as posições das mãos. Veja que a mulher é receptiva,e o homem é a ativa. Vou ensinar um exercício para todos,se quiserem. Façam um círculo com sete pessoas.Pode ser outras quantidades,mas o sete tem um significado de neutralidade.Façam uma corrente de mãos dadas da seguinte forma: O da direita oferece a mão direita a aquele que está à esquerda, o qual,o da esquerda,segura a mão direita ofertada com a mão esquerda. Procurem meditar,e verificar quais impressões tiram desse exercício.Um caderno de anotações ajuda muito a organizar as ideias. Porem,é necessário um estudo técnico,que recomendo no audiobook a seguir. Paz e Bem! 😺😉👍🏻🙏🏻✝️📖✨ kzbin.info/www/bejne/m2fFqHxpfLh2gqc

[@lobosolitario-j4c]

Love that dress!

[@CoryAnn666]

Classic, won't ever have another like it

[@DoubleDogDare54]

Paints His Shirt Red really got around. He should have invited Jeremiah to the ceremony!

[@kharilane1340]

I do love me some Native American chants and drums.

[@AprilFreeman-s8p]

I love this movie ❤❤

[@MrKleberpototski]

beautiful!!

[@davidabbett7011]

A top 3 movie in my life.

[@muslimwoolfy-winterequestr4344]

For me too I would say

[@Ktonrider]

3:20 Smiles a lot must of had a crush on Stands with a fist

[@ProfessorAlekos]

lmao

[@pillow919]

I thought they made it look that way throughout the movie. He was such a cutie

[@Whocares158]

Ouch this did not age well.

[@db5401rb]

Rodney A Grant is beautiful

[@siblingworld3878]

beautiful ❤

[@williamkirkland7002]

The wedding dress was very beautiful too.

[@moniquelefevre]

thats some gorgeous wedding regalia

[@jgn2112]

3:32 - Ten Bears: "Give 'er a nut fer me ol' buddy!"

[@scottwiseman8015]

Same on you.

[@lollipopsnsugarsmiles4176]

If he had lived I would have married Stone Calf. He seemed like a sweet wise kind hearted man ♥

[@LovelyLonewolf-mc3ld]

How do you know if he wanted a white women?I hope he wouldn't

[@lollipopsnsugarsmiles4176]

@@LovelyLonewolf-mc3ld That is so racist! By the way I have both Cherokee and Blackfoot in my family. So get off your high horse

[@ladylyndawn]

Such a weird comment to see of my late great grandfather, Jimmy Herman. 🫤 As he was still passed on long after this was posted.

[@lollipopsnsugarsmiles4176]

@@ladylyndawn I didn't mean any harm in my comment. I was talking about his character in the movie.

[@556tavor]

This makes me cry because I married my wife in such a way. North Dakota.

[@MsJozo1]

Nadherny film, na ktery lze koukat kazdy den. Hudba krasna, nezna. Miluji tu co "Stoji s pěstí!!! "

[@user-uj9zj4uv5r]

This is my favorite movie and it is so beautiful and cool

[@mariamedveczky3719]

KOMOLY, VALÓS SEGÍTSÉGET KÉREK A KABULBAN SZOLGÁLÓ AMERIKAI KATONÁKNAK ! KÖSZÖNÖM.

[@williamkirkland7002]

What did you say in English language please ; )

[@Reiner-MariaEichEisenherz]

When my son was baptized the Pastor come to me and said, its a beautyfull day today,and i said, yes it is.-😍

[@melaniecravens7240]

Rodney grants hair is beautifull like him.

[@TheColinChapman]

have you heard all I have said? .....have you HEARD all I have said?? : )

[@Abby-walkers-Version]

😭 So beautiful

[@MotherEmbracingWomanhood]

Was white dye on the leather realistic?

[@lemurlover7975]

I am glad she got to choose. I thought he just paid for her and that is it. No choice.

[@RealChevalier]

Истинная Красота!

[@BrandeeBell-gc1kt]

This scene was really supposed to be a wedding ceremony between me and Wind In His Hair. Shame it didn't make it to the final film.

[@Maria-rg5ov]

Que índio lindo aquele amigo dele😍

[@johnnygutierrez4408]

Bad ass love im here u are too always..🌞🌞🌞😜

[@SalvationinCHRISTalone888]

9/29/2020: ALL LIVES MATTER!!! BEAUTIFUL AMERICAN INDIANS.

[@amandaoutlaw1349]

Is that Floyd Red Crow Westerman @ 3:31?

[@gill8779]

Amanda Outlaw, Yes it is him

[@scottwiseman8015]

And so it is, that you Amanda, are correct.

[@faerieSAALE]

My Indian name would be Na-Sorcha-Kan or "She Can't Cook!"!

[@blockmasterscott]

I would be "Always at KZbin"

[@RealD8]

Mine would be "Plays with fire"

[@edwardbraverock7649]

Lmao

[@danielroman7699]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@lostinlife8033]

Dances with Tequila

[@Ojeramup12]

Anyone know what was said to the new bride and groom at the ceremony? Or has this part of culture been lost?

[@GallowsPole805]

Forget the wedding...that Mullet...WOW!

[@tomevans4402]

Beautiful

[@carolinaserra6837]

Q bella escena...

[@catarinafalcon7189]

Carolina Serra amen

[@catarinafalcon7189]

Carolina Serra grant is mom free

[@ajrwilde14]

No wedding feast or party?

[@paddypenman2682]

The directors cut should have shown the stag night too

[@muslimwoolfy-winterequestr4344]

What stag night? Can you explain?

[@tonycanale9559]

Kevin Costner could narrate the phone book and it would be awesome

[@dannyanderson9923]

whats the name of the song?????

[@jeffjeffries3469]

I always feel anger first .....I get that.

[@Conejo_019]

112/5000 I watch this movie and I think there are 2 kinds of people who love life and those who love gold and power

[@drissofi2500]

ابحث عن الفيلم كاملا ولم اجده