Wedding Invitation Drama | Storytime

Spilling some tea about our wedding and some crazy stuff that happened only 2 days ago!
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[@maryblackberry8022]

You offered to pay for the materials at the beginning, she refused, now she is whining about 50 pounds? Ridiculous!

[@paradise9970]

When she says "because your're my best friends" OH MY HEART GIRLLL😭😭😭💕💕 Now Im so jealous i wasn't invited :"(

[@krystleducky18]

I no what u mean I would of loved to have been invited but it would of been to far for me, maybe she could have someone with a phone or something to do a live recording so us that would of loved to be thee can feel like we are apart of it :)

[@paradise9970]

@@krystleducky18 she said she's gonna vlog everything but she gonna let it to someone else film it

[@krystleducky18]

@@paradise9970 o ok cool

[@lettersfromkinraddie]

Julia's priorities though! The fact that shes bothered more about losing a friend than a month of time that could be spent on wedding invitations shows what kind of person she is! You are wonderful and i hope it all goes well

[@amandaoroberts]

For real.

[@Grimella92spice]

So true I thought of this also. She is such a sweetheart.

[@jaffacakejr7829]

I know this said subscriber "miley". Whats failed to mention in this video is that "miley" was genuinely making the invites and was doing well at first. Then about a week ago the demands got more and more and she couldn't keep up, the advice she would give back would be met with sarcasm or guilt tripping. Funny how all the negative messages from herself aren't in this video so that she looks like a victim and gets more support. "miley" is probably the nicest person I've ever had the pleasure of knowing, she always goes out of her way to help others including volunteering and supporting others in their darkest times. "miley" was a genuine fan of this channel and this has probably alienated her from ever helping people again. So I hope you all have fun judging "miley" but there is alot of information missing in this video.

[@lettersfromkinraddie]

@@jaffacakejr7829 did u watch the full video??

[@NyxDaggerJay]

@@jaffacakejr7829 Everyone go through alot of shit as Miley is. So stop acting like she's so "special" , plus if she your supposedly friend or whatever , then tell her to get some help, she doesn't need go down on road ruining someone else life. Lmfao ffs. Weirdo.

[@AshleyHasADHD]

That fact that you felt bad for something she offered to do and that she didn't hold herself accountable just shows how nice you are. Yes, it was nice of her to offer to make invitations as a gift but she should've made sure she had them done in a reasonable time instead of dragging things on and if she couldn't complete the job, she should've been honest with you and Eileen as soon as she realised she couldn't make them so you guys could have time to make other arrangements. Maybe she dragged it on because she still wanted to go to the wedding and knew she couldn't get the invitations made? Either way, SHE IS THE ONE WHO OFFERED and if she knew how to make invitations like she said, she would've been able to make them as requested and have it done. You even taking the time to invite a subscriber is beyond nice. Dont let any of this upset you, you guys have done nothing wrong!! Im sorry this happened:(

[@tonyaboggs5367]

Perfectly said!!!

[@Drkbeauty-sq8yz]

Love, it's YOUR wedding! All that matters at the end of the day is that you will be married to the love of your life! It's going to go by so fast! All the stress and aggravation pay off the minute you see your love standing at the end of the isle. And from that moment on everyone else just melts away and it's just the two of you celebrating each other! Just remember to take a breath and sit back and soak it all in while you can! Speed bumps are always going to happen. But years from now you guys will be laughing about the stories and stress. I love you and Eileen and I wish you both nothing but love and happiness!!❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@dinosaurfun5965]

I couldn't have put it any better than you have☺

[@Drkbeauty-sq8yz]

@@EileenDeFreest Aww thank you!!🤗 honestly just speaking from experience. I had a nightmare before Christmas themed wedding and it wasn't easy but I would do it all over again! I can't wait to see the pictures and videos of you both! It will be nothing short of magic!🤗🌈👑

[@Syotunes]

“Oh I use to do this professionally” ........ “Oh my mom is going through a health issue” Me: ........ Was any of that real? I think not

[@chantalwalton4886]

I think the person took on too much and messed up then felt either guilty or ashamed and turned the blame on them as a way out. IF this person wasn't fake as hell, which is also a distinct possibility.

[@artstarbby4760]

Exactly! I don’t believe that girl at all.

[@NyxDaggerJay]

I don't believe her. Miley seems to be narcisst.

[@artstarbby4760]

Right Miley’s full of 💩💩💩💩

[@Athena_420]

I was thinking the same thing! Miley reminds me of a former friend of mine who would do bad things to me then make up lies to play on my emotions and gain sympathy as a form of manipulation. Also it is a good tactic when attempting to shift the blame/focus of the issue. I really sense that this Miley chick is doing the same thing... I hope Julia is being cautious now especially since this girl knows where she lives. A manipulative person is dangerous because they are willing to push boundaries to get what they want. All while having a low moral character and incessant need for control. Plus now that I’m thinking more about it “Miley” offered to do the invitations which means she knows the wedding date and address of the venue. And as I’ve stated before she knows Julia’s home address along with other personal information such as her phone number and Eileen’s phone number as well.. This is a recipe for disaster. I hope Julia remains vigilant and cautious.

[@chelsea6209]

givin me jeffree star stolen concealer vibes

[@ambri.a]

Omg, why did I think the SAME THING?? So crazy.

[@MsJoeyJody]

ahaha I just thought the same!

[@phantomvipgaming]

Same

[@vinylguru3306]

What does this mean? Anyone willing to explain? Love jeffree but dont know about this

[@badghoul]

@@vinylguru3306 yeah Im curious about this stolen concealer story too.

[@TheOfficialSoulieLass]

SHES MANIPULATING YOU, TRYING TO MAKE YOU FEEL BAD

[@user-kys673]

Exactly! And she was clearly mentally unstable. Really sad that Julia and Eileen had to go through this. They were so polite about the whole situation, I would've lost my shit.

[@SaReTTa1212]

Julia, she doesnt deserve the opportunity to be your friend and also go to your wedding. Im so sorry. You are so sweet and a good person. Wish you the best. Your a beautiful couple 💖

[@ALumina21]

"I didn't know there was a deadline" what?! Girl! 😐 It's a wedding. I'm sorry this happened to you and Eileen. I'm still confused why she was hurt 😕 hurt about what? Smh Love you both and good luck with the rest of the planning, hoping it goes smoothly. 💕

[@India.R120]

Right? Like if they’re having invitations made they obviously need to send them out fairly soon, why wouldn’t there be a deadline in any sort of wedding planning?

[@deathling533]

Omg do not refund her.

[@bellajfk1157]

Julia, you handled it in a classy way. Subscribed.

[@sabrinaquesnel2195]

That is such a heartbreaking story. Especially considering it happened to such pure and kind souls. 💗 I feel that she somehow projected the pain she was dealing with in her personal life onto you guys, and that’s really not an ok or fair thing to do. It’s really sad that she had made this about her, when not only did you guys offered her nothing but kindness, but that it’s her mistake and she didn’t even take responsibility for it. I’m so sorry this happened to you.💗 You were already so sweet to invite her, and it ended up backfiring which is truly not fair. Hurt people often hurt people. Wishing you the best of luck💗 and sending so much love your way xxxx The universe has your back, never forget it❤️💫

[@dreadedmermaid5406]

If you do film the invitations, be extra careful to blur out any sensitive information regarding location, time, phone numbers, etc. If that information gets out, people may just show up. Another idea maybe you could post that video after the wedding? These are just ideas I am suggesting to you because I want you to stay safe!

[@cindy846]

Absolutely ! ! Everybody online is not your friend!!!!

[@InTa2]

I'm so sorry you had that experience, planning your wedding should be exciting an enjoyable not something you have to worry about! If she offered to make the invitations she should have taken that job seriously and she had no right to complain about the money she spent, or that you "expected too much" obviously you expected good quality on your freaking wedding invitations! Anyways we love your videos!

[@emilylarge71]

Low key jealous I wasn’t invited. Butttt I’m so happy for the both of y’all. Such a beautiful couple. My gf is 49 and I’m 24! Pray we can plan a wedding one day ❤️❤️❤️

[@Zarzarrb]

My partner and me are not far off your age gap we're 22 years. 🧡

[@emilylarge71]

ZarZar Robinson love is love. I love seeing others like me and even watching. So many people tried to tear us apart. But NOPE. Congrats ❤️

[@Zarzarrb]

I feel you, we've had the world against us well that's what it felt like lol. 16 years strong and 3 babies 🧡🧡

[@emilylarge71]

Alexus Keefer yes! Love all of it!!

[@Zarzarrb]

@@alexusk97 perfect🧡

[@AmeLilith]

"I didn't know there was a deadline" ...they're wedding invitations The moral is, don't offer to do something that takes such a huge amount of responsibility and you're not absolutely sure you'll be able to do so It not only effects you but it effects others as well

[@lafidala.1726]

Is she quite young? Sounds like it. Also, uninviting herselff from the wedding was probably because she was so embarrassed about the whole thing... I know you shouldn't propose to do something if you can't do it, but it seems like she didn't know much about it. She just seems young... i think it would have been better from the beginning to pay someone. Favors shouldn't be done it that way.

[@peoplemoney1208]

Just make a Facebook invite if you want to cut costs and just have finger food instead of a sit down meal. You won't need to hire chairs because you won't have a sit down meal. Donuts instead of a wedding cake. Ask your guests to bring a bunch of flowers instead of gifts so you don't need to buy flowers for the reception. Or book your favourite restaurant and have the reception there...you can ask your guests to purchase meals them self. So many different ways to save money for your big day. My wife and I did all of this and we saved so much money. All the best. Kisses xx

[@katiemee2741]

“Miley” If your watching this... U just got burned!!

[@NyxDaggerJay]

She deserved it.

[@lumachinomenolattola]

*you're

[@Spectacularious]

@@NyxDaggerJay point proven. Cancel culture. Google it

[@NyxDaggerJay]

@@Spectacularious Oof someone is taking L. Stay mad weirdo. 😂

[@haliemeyer4387]

This is crazy. It takes so long for mail to get to different countries. Hopefully everything goes okay, wishing you the best.

[@taraxo6851]

You are too kind Julia! You bend over backwards not to hurt this girls feelings and she still walks all over you. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Seems like she bit off more than she could chew and fell short. This is just a small road block, your wedding will still be beautiful and memorable! ❤❤

[@carlymarina8650]

You two are WAAAAY nicer and more patient than I would've been. Kudos to you two. So sorry this happened to you guys :(

[@rosarivera-baez3158]

She seems lazy af not to follow through and wow rude to ask for something from you especially money.. what a scam!!! 🙄😠, also ruining an opportunity to befriend you and your fiancé. You both deserve better then that, if I had that chance I would have made you the most amazing invitation!!! 🌸💕✨

[@barbieguide8256]

this is unbelievable! id happily take her spot at the wedding 😅💖

[@kathyhammond6067]

Honestly, you were alot calmer & nicer then I would have been. Lol Glad it all worked out for y'all.

[@venomsucca]

You're a shitty person if you don't know how to empathize with people going through rough situations. It may or may not be true, but like girl, be gone.

[@alexandramoyer8785]

@@venomsucca rude

[@candidavis1061]

Sadly nothings free in life and honestly you can't give strangers the benefit of the doubt because there's a large variety of issues people are dealing with and you never know what ur inviting into your space. They can have mental, health, or financial issues and things can quickly go disastrous. I am glad she gave back the money though.

[@artsydream2737]

Awww i hope everything gets better and you and Eileen's love can grow even stronger in a happy marraige.

[@calleigh4287]

Who cares if she sees this or is upset! She shouldn’t have done what she did. You’re too good of a person and so is Eileen for u guys to have to deal with stuff like this during a time that should be so happy. You have been MORE than flexible and understanding with “Miley” I hope this is the last bump in the road you have to deal with in regards to the wedding. Love you & Eileen so much! 💕💕💕💕

[@theladyj2135]

You were both so sweet to her and you cared more about her problems than yours. I literally can't believe how somebody could waste a chance to gain friends like you! Wish I had more people like you and Eileen in my life 💙 I'm really sorry you had to go through so much stress before your wedding.

[@taylorgordon4632]

The minute she offered to cover the cost of the invites was a red flag that she was scamming you for money. There werent any invites or materials. She pulled a scam. Protect yourselves Julia & Eileen 💜💙 you guys are wonderful people with big hearts!! Happy wedding!!!

[@DippedInDarkCrimson]

I think it really shows how nice/genuine of a person you are to invite subscribers. Its terrible this is how it went beacuse it ruined any possibility of you wanting to do something with your subs without hesitation. Anyway you handled it well. I want to say so much more but ill leave it there! Your Amazing!❤

[@GeeAshlee]

Seriously it would be like a dream to be friends with such lovely, cool people! Ugh she really ruined it for herself. I’m glad y’all have invitations now regardless!

[@lindyolivier9097]

I know how important the wedding invitations are and I’m so happy In was one speed bump to get over, my wife and recently got married, and organized a whole wedding in another country, we flew back to South Africa to get married and OH BOY how many wrong things happened, so much! But we smiled and breathed and went on with it, it turned out amazing, and just knowing we were marrying the love of our lives, nothing else mattered, we also had about 35 guest. And it’s all we needed, simple and beautiful ❤️ best of luck ladies xxx

[@melancholiadetached5522]

But it would have been even more entitled and weird to say “hey im leaving you high & dry but im still expecting to be invited to your wedding” 😂😂 at least she has the decency to understand she wouldn’t be able to face you at your own wedding after that

[@sapphireash323]

I feel like calling someone out by making a video is too much. Yes, she offered to do something and this then hasn't happened, so understandably you are upset. But this girl was not doing this as a career, she will probably have a full-time job and obviously when working you have to work around your job and can't just drop your job to do something for free. Also, when her mum is ill, understandably she will be worrying about and caring for her mum - when I've had family crises recently I've had to let people down who I was working for free for, not because I don't want to do the work or because I'm a shitty person, but because I mentally could not cope with everything that was going on and I had to prioritise my family. Having someone you care about be ill is not "no apparent reason". You offered to pay her money for the materials, she hasn't demanded any money, you have offered to pay her this. You're saying "why is she crying?" - her mum is ill, she will feel bad about letting you down, she will also have a job. I understand you being upset because this is your wedding, but I feel like there is very little understanding towards her. "How petty is this person for unfollowing me on Instagram?" - sorry, but I feel that making a youtube video about this is petty, especially considering the circumstances that this poor girl is in right now.

[@Littlemochicakes]

"Experience: that most brutal of teachers. But you learn, my God do you learn." - C.S. Lewis Keep moving forward as you are. I hope this girl learns and grows from this as well.

[@MandaSanto]

I planned my entire wedding from scratch because we were on a very small budget so I completely understand the wedding pressure. There always a few small things like this that go wrong but just try to take a deep breath and remember at the end if the day the details don't really matter it's about you and Eileen and your love for eachother. I hope this was your last hiccup before the big day I am so happy for you two! Sending all my love ❤❤❤

[@mariamarceleno5566]

Two words: Pathetic and Karma. You should of just blocked her number after your last text.

[@sarahedwards2130]

She complains you didn’t contribute to helping her with the wedding invitations aka money WHEN YOU OFFERED to help....than offers to send the materials anyways ok? Super annoying no accountability for her actions at all. Its unfortunate with her mom, I wish her the best of health. Than you PAY for them (her and boyfriend) to attend the wedding which comes out of YOUR pocket. Patiently waiting on her time for your invitations when your the one with a deadline. Honestly, your being very respectful about this situation because over here I’m holding my tongue. Just shows the respect you have for others even though your the one that got screwed over, respectfully confronted her about the situation. I’m sorry you experienced something this crazy.

[@AnaHdz05]

That’s so messed up. And to make things worse she wants to play herself out as the victim.. smh 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@ivyedan7183]

Sweetheart, please don't get discoreged over this..most subscribers mean very well and really wish you well.

[@zer0jess]

girlllllllllll, this story stressed me out so much! I could have made your invitations in like a week, it truly isn't hard if you know what you're doing and care about who you're making them for! omg, good luck to you both tho, I'm so happy for you two getting married

[@bbygrlxx]

I absolutely commend you and Eileen both for handling this situation with such Grace and so much maturity. When i was planning my wedding I even did our invitations myself. I went through a website that the bridal company I got my dress from had advertise. I didn't really trust anyone to help me because of situations like this. I really hope you and Eileen figure something out. I really hate this has happened to you!

[@graym00n]

I'd literally fly in to come to your wedding, no joke. I've been subscribed for a long time and it hurts me that you had to go through this negative experience. This whole scenario sounds terrible, I'm so sorry you two had to experience that. I wish you the best wedding ever!

[@lovablc6059]

You are so lovely to not make arguments and well done for sending that message it must of took a lot Hope u have a lovely wedding when the time comes

[@zenwolf6128]

Wow. You are truly a rare person. You showed such class and compassion. It takes a lot of strength to hold back words towards ppl like her. You walked away leaving a good vibe, & to top that you took the time to educate her in a life lesson. I hope your positive light changes her life one day...And maybe she will spread that kindness back into the universe. Wish you a beautiful happy wedding!!! Xoxo

[@Alex-mc3fv]

I’m sorry that happened Julia. You and Eileen don’t deserve to have that happen. I hope you two have an amazing wedding

[@WhitewomenTutorials]

when you said 'you're my best friends' i felt that in my soul. Love you Julia xxxxxx

[@khaleesisnow7976]

That is so cool! I never heard of a KZbinr doing this. Keep your head up beautiful you are wonderful!

[@aubs6355]

I think she scammed you..

[@lagueraitiswhatitis142]

Sounds like she lost confidence in her own ability to make those invitations. And then maybe didn't want to go to your wedding because she felt bad for what she did. I was so amazed how you and Eileen handled yourselves in that kind of situation. You were beyond patient and understanding. Most women would have been screaming and cussing. I wish you the best on your wedding day 💕

[@inaramat]

Its smells fishy, when she mentions, she was used to do it professional,,if she do business like that,I'm not surprised she is out of the business 🤭🤭🤭

[@Makemeegiggle]

Glad everything turned out, everything will be MAGICAL ❤️

[@Belinda80440]

You handled this sensitive manner in a Classy and respectful way. True friendships are built on and proven over time especially when things get tough or when you just need that someone to rely .

[@EmAmortentia]

GIRL- you’re making me wedding broody 😂 my fiancé and I have been engaged for 4 years this year, and I know at the end of the day it’s the love you share that’s important, but damn 😂 I can’t wait to see more wedding videos from you, and I’m even more excited to see your wedding photos 😭😍 I love you both so much; you’ll both be beautiful brides 💖💖💖

[@jgirl345]

Its so heart breaking that they're aren't genuine people in this world that can actually be trusted and loyal, it's seems it just doesn't exist anymore, I'm sorry this happened to u Julia, ur such a kind soul and deserve the best

[@pattytaboada6576]

Omg!! I fell so bad for you girls. You both are so sweet and just trust the wrong person

[@JasperCatProductions]

When it comes to weddings and other important dates you can’t count on friends or family much less a subscriber to do something as vital as invitations . A professional gets the job done. People are quick to say they will do this and that but 95% of time flake out.

[@britney5656]

She took advantage of you and was trying to gaslight you. So sorry she caused you so much stress and emotional violence over her OWN mistakes and irresponsibility.

[@GeminiEmpress]

And then genuine subscribers like me, aren't invited 😭😭💔 I live in London too! still love you tho, Julie ❤

[@GeminiEmpress]

@@mstubeornottube true😭

[@999Dita999]

I can only imagine what a big shock and surprise this must have been. 😯 I wouldn't refund her because you did offer to pay in the beginning but she said no because of it being a gift. I am sorry this happened to you guys. Sending a big hug xxx

[@Lady_McSassy]

You are a class act, Julia. You’re about thirty years younger than me but you honestly remind me to try to be a better person. You and Eileen handled everything beautifully. I hope “Miley’s” situation improves and that she finds happiness, because it doesn’t seem like she’s in a good place right now.

[@chloewakeham1529]

I'm so sorry you had to go through all of that! But I'm glad you have such a loving audience that you are able to vent to. I hope the rest of your wedding plans work out & are drama free!

[@Littlefaewitch]

I am so sorry you had to experience this. People can be very deceiving, that said I hope you have a wonderful wedding and don't let this person ruin your beautiful day for you. Much love.

[@amandaoroberts]

I feel like this person was just trying to use you. You don’t owe anything. It was a gift. You are a precious cinnamon roll babe. I hope that even after all of this you will still have a great wedding 👩‍❤️‍👩👰🏼👰🏻 and please do show the video when you get the invitations and just think even though we won’t all be there if you decide to vlog the wedding (you don’t have to if you don’t want to) TECHNICALLY we are there❤️❤️ wish you and Eileen all the luck

[@melisacaceres8740]

I'm sorry that this happened to you Julia. But i have to say that i love how you're including us in a certain way in the process of planning your wedding, the good stuff and the bad stuff. It just makes me feel like we're friends, having some drinks and you spilling the tea 😂

[@souleo1417]

After she decided not to do the invitations I think you were so sweet for still wanting her to come to the wedding. I would have been too pissed after being so patient and appreciative to her. I'm so sorry this happened, but honestly you're the sweetest person I know and I love that you invited 3 subscribers to the wedding too. If I lived in London I would have gladly taken her place lol. Can't wait to see a wedding video/footage. I'm glad the invitations are on their way too ❤️

[@fionamcdonald8785]

You deserve the smoothest wedding plans and not bullshit ❤️

[@novamusicfam9260]

Don't you even worry about her girl. Your day, your wedding, all about you and that gorgeous wife!

[@kaptinkittah2529]

I love you so much Julia! I'm so sorry this happened to you guys :( but don't worry just look forward to the future, it's a bump in the road but it'll be okay! I hope you feel better! 💜💜💜

[@luisaherrera60]

You’re such a kind soul. I know EXACTLY how these people are... tbh she just wants attention!! You are completely in the right and she is just idk a weirdo...

[@milkymyerss]

omg that subscriber is so lucky she got ur trust and an opportunity to be ur friend and go to your wedding. Like you have so many other subscribers that would love to go. and i’m sorry you had to have such a bad experience with a subscriber, sometimes it just sucks to become close to people but you did nothing wrong you were being super friendly and i hope your wedding goes good :) and everything goes good for the girl. I love you !!! Julia and Eileen 😊❤️

[@NyxDaggerJay]

She isn't lucky anymore.

[@vegsovivien2301]

Awh sweetie. I can clearly hear your voice shaking. Don't be that stressed up, please. I'm sure your wedding will be very beautiful with your fiancé!!! No matter what.

[@kimmy50410]

Make them yourself

[@opinionatedlibra1934]

People need to remember that there is two sides to every story. And everyone in the situation is going to view it differently. I'm not calling her a liar obviously, but until there is both sides heard then we shouldn't fully judge someone we don't know.

[@hhlentz]

This whole situation makes me frustrated for y’all! Years ago, I was asked to a bridesmaid in a college friend’s wedding. She was from a town several hours away from where I lived, and every one of her bridesmaids (except me) lived in her town and were friends since childhood. When I was first asked to be in the wedding, I sent an email to all the other bridesmaids letting them know that, even though I was in grad school several hours away, I’d still like to be involved in planning and hosting some kind of party or shower for the bride. They all responded kindly, and said we’d all plan something together. About two months later, I got an invitation to the bride’s wedding shower and it was planned and hosted by (and even listed the hostesses on the invitation) by ALL the bridesmaids except me. Then, later on the day I received the invitation, I got an email from the maid of honor saying I owed her SEVERAL HUNDRED DOLLARS for my portion of the wedding shower!!!!!! Um....WHAT?!? I was never asked to be a part of planning, my name wasn’t on the invitation as a hostess, and I had no idea it was even going to happen!!!! I was so mad, but I was also deeply hurt because I felt like I had been intentionally left out of things since I was the only “outsider” in the wedding. The whole thing ruined my friendship with the bride, and it was so upsetting that she didn’t see my point of view. I was left out of everything yet expected, without even being asked, to essentially serve as an ATM. Sometimes, people and their actions just blow me away. Clearly, it’s the same for you-it seems like you’re struggling to understand how on earth this girl who offered you a gift now wants you to pay!

[@edieblisssunflower3431]

Awww i saw the picture of eileen in her phone wallet! So cute!

[@catbus28]

You seem like the sweetest person ever! I was so happy when you called your subscribers your best friends! I would feel so honoured to be invited to your wedding, I can’t believe that she did this after you being so kind to her! Xxx P.S. I am a hairstylist and I would absolutely love to do yours and Eileen’s wedding hair (for free of course) if you need anyone! Xx

[@decemberqueen4764]

Julia you are too sweet and I can tell you carry your heart on your sleeve. Just please be careful corresponding with your fans. Even though 90% of us love you and Eileen and want the best for you, not everyone feels that way. And I'm glad you got your money back. You had no obligation to send it to her anyway. Lesson learned ❤️ Love you guys and I hope you have an amazing wedding day!

[@jennsaldana6607]

Ooh 30 minute video , this is the whole teapot 😂 I love all your videos btw ❤️

[@bonnieletson3043]

It takes all kinds of people, you shouldn't feel bad. That's probably just that type of person she is, you probably aren't they first person she has had drama with. Good luck at your invatations, these others will be BEAUTIFUL ! You know sometimes, fate may be on your side. Yes please show us💞

[@ellpeach9451]

"unfortunately I'm not an artist" How can you go into business "creating" wedding invitations if you do not come from a creative background! I've known people who have studied at art college to do that kind of career! That girl is not a friend, she seems manipulative.

[@mjfledermaus9425]

Do notttt refund her what the heck, she's tryna scam you, Julia!!! That's so awful, and she's trying to guilt trip you :// she seems pretty toxic. Hope you figure things out with the invitations.

[@catladyz3460]

Honestly I think you and Eileen were incredibly calm in your contact with this girl. She defiantly strung you guys along which is really sad because it’s in regards to your wedding. At least you can learn from this experience, you can’t take people at face value. It is a shame but not everyone is as kind as you, I myself have found that out the hard way. It would be great to see the design for your invitations 🌈☺️ xx

[@midgetmillie7292]

Please don't let it get to you. You & Eileen deserve to be happy no matter what. Im very happy for the both of you 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@nanijane4275]

Julia you are such a sweet person! I hope your wedding is lovely! Be careful girl people are iffy. I hate confrontation too girl I feel you!

[@lauraflaherty5813]

Hang in there.....keep your eyes and heart on your love, life and happiness with Elieen.

[@michellethompson8515]

Just watched this- you guys are so sweet. You tried so hard to make people feel comfortable and to make friends, You guys are good people.

[@DinGrogu16]

I love how you interact with your subscribers, it shows that you truly care. I hope this one subscriber hasn't ruined it for the rest of us! 😕

[@orianadiaz9360]

I can hear the disappointment in your voice, it’ll get better ❤️

[@nicolecloutier9260]

Everything works out in the end. You both did ur best. Hope things go smoothly from now on. So excited 4 you sweetys 💙

[@sarahhostkoetter960]

I want to see the new no drama invitations, yes!

[@Ikine557]

It sounds like she had a panic attack or some kind of breakdown when she was sending all those messages. Hopefully she's getting some help now. Family issues can wreak havoc on a person, my mom developed depression and anxiety when my grandpa died.

[@dawntorres9462]

Honestly you were in the right. I HATE confrontation, but it needed to be said. Glad everything turned out great in the end😘😘😘

[@milenaoreilly7776]

Your such a lovely friend, it’s so nice to see you and Eileen caring about other people you don’t even know. I hope your wedding was as amazing as it looked though and congratulations to you both.

[@flippinSG]

She's definitely manipulating you. I'm glad you're out of that situation. It's hard to trust people on the internet, let alone someone who is supposed to support you. I wish you and Eileen the best on your invitations!

[@calamistify]

Julia, you have class. Great on you and Eileen for taking the high road. I hope things go smoothly with your wedding plans from now on, and that your wedding day will be beautiful and memorable.

[@chuuck.jaay.]

damn i'm so sorry this happened to you. you and eileen seem like such lovely and genuine people

[@raemondvigil7246]

I’m so sorry you both had to go through that terrible mess 😔 what she did was so not right to you and Eileen. But I’m happy to hear everything worked out in the end. Eileen and you deserve nothing but the best!😊 much love ❤️