Lool he buys a TV, computer, video games and shes asking if she can buy hairspray. A man does not have to put his hands on you for it to be abuse
@jessicaprentice94685 жыл бұрын
IKR. Asking to buy hairspray?!? Absolutely no way
@JennSGibbs5 жыл бұрын
No shit! I’m sic!
@dfwnelly5 жыл бұрын
I’d be surprised if she didn’t have to ask for money for tampons
@gorillatagfun53365 жыл бұрын
Financial abuse it’s a thing
@lisamartin37345 жыл бұрын
Domestic abuse comes in many forms and financial abuse is one of them. He is definitely controlling her and making her beg for small things is pretty sad.
@cocofluff6 жыл бұрын
He wasn't trying to protect her, he just didn't want her to know how much of her money he was wasting on his toys. If you work why are you asking your husband if you can buy shampoo with your own money. Why do women allow men to treat them this way? This isn't love its selfishness and abuse.
@QueenBeeBeautyXO5 жыл бұрын
IKR? It should just be part of the household stuff! He just doesn't want her to know about the money!
@KPlyf5 жыл бұрын
Atleast that man is spending lots of time with son. he seems to be good just that he should move from inside of the house to some playground or cycle with son. Love shouldn't spoil a child rather help in good personality development of child. Trio needs family time minus doling out money......
@KPlyf5 жыл бұрын
Also some men love making homes their haven... He needs nudge in the right direction to understand wasting money on too much luxury will eventually harm them and son. They have a huge backyard, do some activity there.
@KPlyf5 жыл бұрын
Also adults are too obese, could be thyroid issue. That fogs thinking process and makes one sluggish not wanting to do any physical activity... Too much fast-food, watching tv, playing games is a deadly combi!
@Beauty.For.Ashes.5 жыл бұрын
cocofluff you hit the nail on the head!
@buzzweebee86852 жыл бұрын
At the end she sends the wife to the spa and doesn't even look at the husband... Gail is awesome...
@myyt38242 жыл бұрын
Just because a man doesn’t hit you, doesn’t mean he’s not abusing you. This is grade A abuse.
@mariettedemarest51732 жыл бұрын
He's miffed about his misdeeds being exposed on camera, also about working more hours to help pay for his mismanagement of the incomes. He said the meals were good but short of "munchies"....
@teresahegerich88352 жыл бұрын
When I was growing up, munchies were for holidays and birthdays. But we ALWAYS had apples and oranges. My grandma said that if an apple or peanut butter sandwich wasn't good enough, I was hungry, I was doing emotional eating. She was an early Weight Watchers member, hit goal, and stayed there for the rest of her life.
@softsix2 жыл бұрын
Yeah he's a total creep!! Imagine going to your husband's musty videogame room to ask permission to buy a bottle of hairspray. Barf
@manichairdo9265 Жыл бұрын
@@mariettedemarest5173 In the UK financial abuse of a spouse *DV* is now a criminal offence.
@javaskull88 Жыл бұрын
And his wants are more important than her needs? In his eyes, yes.
@ununhexium5 жыл бұрын
The fact that the wife was so elated when she was brought into the finances shows how oppressive that marriage really is.
@suzieq3904 жыл бұрын
Gail said he was hiding his purchases by not telling, so easy to do, I do it too. Also he could genuinely not want her to worry because she doesn’t handle it well.
@chubbybunny69753 жыл бұрын
@@suzieq390 Hiding your finances from who is supposed to be your equal partner is manipulation, whether you have good intentions or not. If you know your partner doesn't handle finances well, you don't baby them and say "you don't ever have to face the Big Scary Thing", you help them work through those anxieties and try to manage them and be an adult, especially when it comes to money. Your relationship is filled with lies at that point. And when financial disputes and discrepancies are the number 1 reason people get divorced, and the divorce rate is over 50%, you need to re-think hiding purchases and lying about where money goes.
@MrsEJV2 жыл бұрын
@@suzieq390 He was “protecting” her from his poor judgment managing money. This wasn’t a family not bringing in enough income- there was enough if it was budgeted sanely. Christiana would have fit in well with the Duggers. The man knows best….
@davisholman81492 жыл бұрын
@@MrsEJV He was awful, couldn’t even teach his child how to ride a bike instead of wasting all their time on video games! GAG.🤢
@ruthirwin82222 жыл бұрын
@@suzieq390 but she did great
@margyrowland5 жыл бұрын
He’s abusive, financially and verbally....he’s denying her money when he wants to and he’s basically saying she’s stupid. Love from Australia 🇦🇺
@slyfoxie555 жыл бұрын
My hubby and I share the bills and the rest is our own. I have no idea if he has loans or his own debt. But all the bills are paid on time. Hi from Melbourne 🇦🇺🇦🇺
@constancelequesne6015 жыл бұрын
Any good Australian shows like this??
@sarah37964 жыл бұрын
I agree!!, ! Hi from Melbourne 👋✨🥰
@bluebellrose82 жыл бұрын
@@slyfoxie55 If it's a marriage and despite sharing the bills, if you don't know if he has loans or you're keeping things secret from each other it's not a good sign at all! How do you know if he hasn't opened up accounts in your name? What if he dies and you're held responsible for all his debts? These days you can't trust anyone. Too many stories of women being scammed by their men. I would demand to see what he has or at least order a credit report for yourself to ensure there are no surprises and construct a post-nup agreement to protect yourself financially.
@salemthorup95362 жыл бұрын
She's about to learn how deeply immature her husband is. He does not like being unmasked.
@cherylT3212 ай бұрын
Not immature, controlling!
@paulinecraft244Ай бұрын
No he did not acting like he was protecting her such bs he was getting away w buying whatever he wanted whenever he wanted he's a douche
@hannahmarieartistry46034 жыл бұрын
It’s beautiful watching the wife become more and more empowered the more she gets educated. I got the impression that the husband is scared she’ll realize she’s too good for him when she reaches her full potential.
@jennyjenny35312 жыл бұрын
Amen. Fly, girl! You don't need that oppression and abuse.
@davisholman81492 жыл бұрын
@@jennyjenny3531 Husband is a weak beta man who is teased & laughed at in the real world! He can’t compete with more masculine men out in the business world - so he demands to be ‘in power’ at home. The only place where he feels like he had any power!🤦🏽
@peggypeggy41375 ай бұрын
I thought that he was a total jerk who was basically worried about his wife finding out how selfish he was but I think he improved drastically as the show went on. I have to give both of them credit. I wonder if they are still together? This was back at least 15 years ago.
@JPKnapp-ro6xm5 жыл бұрын
This couple has much bigger problems than money. I think she lives in fear of him.
@crazywomanpress8 ай бұрын
Maybe this was how her mother was when she was growing up it looks like a habit
@debbielockhart7762Ай бұрын
He is an asshole.
@mentalhealthmatters83865 жыл бұрын
Mushroom Princess. In the dark and feeding off crap. Oh that was the best thing I have heard all morning.
@lisamartin37345 жыл бұрын
I really had to laugh at that comment.
@KC-qr3wk3 жыл бұрын
Me too. Lol
@nikkineal64316 жыл бұрын
I hope she continues to blossom and stay independent. She was really sweet.
@MMPutnam775 жыл бұрын
@Lesbian Amazon Sister I think these aired in 2006 or 2007. Season 1 aired in 2005. So, their kids might have kids of their own by now. Unfortunately, there aren't any updates on these couples.
@stereomaster42315 жыл бұрын
@Lesbian Amazon Sister Then you can swoop in, right??!
@Lionforaday5 жыл бұрын
@@stereomaster4231 Ha ha, good one - well-played, Blue!
@m.m.schill45796 жыл бұрын
he's a child, treating his wife like she's the child. he obviously isn't a functioning adult.
@chineseslaves19715 жыл бұрын
M.M. Schill exactly
@EvilLoynis5 жыл бұрын
To be fair neither is she though. Remember you can only be a carpet if you lay down and let others walk all over you. He tries to say it isn't fair how Gail puts the blame squarely on him, even though he's the one who decided he should be handling the finances. So yes I would say it's 60% on him and 40% on her for letting him. She is setting a really bad example for their son, as is he.
@mildsriracha96305 жыл бұрын
I don't appreciate her calling me out for my BS 😂
@Terri_MacKay5 жыл бұрын
He didn't think it was fair that Gail put the debt on him...he insists on controlling all the finances, which includes making all the mistakes, then doesn't want to take responsibility for those mistakes.
@javannakimberly5 жыл бұрын
😭
@Lionforaday5 жыл бұрын
@@Terri_MacKay Yeah, really well-said.
@JennSGibbs5 жыл бұрын
🤣
@nmmarquesm5 жыл бұрын
So why did you sigh to participate in the show?
@jennyjenny35312 жыл бұрын
She reminds me of when I was in an abusive relationship (soft spoken, lacking confidence, taking a submissive posture to her husband including with the finances). It's SO IMPORTANT to empower our daughters to speak up, carry themselves with confidence, and expect to be treated with dignity and respect as equals in relationships.
@bluebellrose82 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! I couldn't have said that better myself!
@robertwhelan91322 жыл бұрын
AMEN TO THAT, GIRL!
@christinebutler76302 жыл бұрын
And never ever to be so financially dependent on a partner. Earn your own money, own your own soul.
@mymail19382 ай бұрын
Same here. Was married to a narcissist and I was a lot like her. I left and I hope she did too.
@MsRiceTravels5 жыл бұрын
You could tell the husband was pissed. I'm sure after the tapping, he was like, 'ok, back to normal...'
@debbielockhart7762Ай бұрын
I agree. I'm sure he wasn't willing to follow the plan.
@sarahsnowe5 жыл бұрын
This man has terrible values, and he's passing them on to his son.
@janebaker49126 жыл бұрын
Watching the arrogant nerd waddle around delivering papers was gratifieing
@vanessar.3095 жыл бұрын
Little guy complaining that he had to work 3 more hours after a 9 hour shift🙄 Try working 12's full time then running a household & raising children! What a lazy pile!
@texastea56865 жыл бұрын
@@vanessar.309 Yup!!!
@nikkilouise78995 жыл бұрын
He hit the cat!!
@lynncaldwell83452 жыл бұрын
Spot on.
@sarah37962 жыл бұрын
@@vanessar.309 totally. And I bet he has never done any chores.
@Ms.MD75 жыл бұрын
As a woman, I'd never give up my right to make decisions in a relationship esp regarding finances! Stop leaving it up to your husbands!!! You both need to be in it.
@ravenzyblack5 жыл бұрын
Eva Flowers- I always found that so strange. My mom was a SAHM and even she did the finances with my dad. They did it together. My mom did all the grocery shopping but they had a budget. As kids we were given chores and we were given the opportunity to earn money, to earn our allowance.
@chrisfry4365 жыл бұрын
He obviously does not want her to know their finances because IF there is extra then he can spend it himself!!!
@cherylT3212 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@CathKitchen2 жыл бұрын
Hahaha!!! His reaction when she said to the son that the husband would need to ask her! I swear I appreciated that sooo much!!!! A taste of his own medicine
@Carol-vv5cm2 жыл бұрын
What an abusive jerk this man is. When he had his hands on his wife it wasn't in a loving way, it was holding onto her in a controlling manner. Did anyone notice??
@dawndomasig3232 жыл бұрын
Definitely a jerk
@trishmackay83642 жыл бұрын
Yup
@KRoseB2 жыл бұрын
Totally!!!
@cherylT3212 ай бұрын
I did!
@manichairdo9265 Жыл бұрын
In the UK, financial abuse of a spouse is now a criminal offence.
@MaterLacrymarum4 жыл бұрын
Man, you know this guy is going to revert as soon as the cameras are gone.
@AahhASMR5 жыл бұрын
‘she can’t buy things she needs cause I bought something I don’t need’, wow! Maybe if you stopped being a kid and started growing up and being a man then you wouldn’t be in such debt! Spending on things you don’t need but you don’t have necessities is a recipe for disaster. You don’t need 2 tvs, you don’t need to keep buying games. There are ways to have fun gaming without constantly buying them when you don’t have the money. Buying on credit when you have ‘months free no interest and no payments’ ...... people end up forgetting about it and then they find out you have ALL of the interest added on unless you paid for it before the ‘free’ time ended. Just imagine buying a living room for $6000 only to forget the time limit and now it’s $9000. Don’t spend money you don’t have. The numbers don’t lie, when he said, “inaccurate, you can’t refute when cameras are rolling”? Geez bud, you just got dropped in it, now your wife knows just how much you spend every month. The numbers come from your bank account over a month and they are real. Get with it bud, she outed you!
@leefrancis0075 жыл бұрын
He's a mouth breather
@Rooneytunes015 жыл бұрын
Ew
@ksf97295 жыл бұрын
🤮
@sct40404 жыл бұрын
Obesity
@katemiller78744 жыл бұрын
And...
@Maya-ln1os3 жыл бұрын
WTH? He's playing all those video games with their child...but has not shown him how to ride a bike?!!!!!!! What a shame
@janebaker49126 жыл бұрын
Oh boy. He married a submissive wife. Bit of an arrogant jerk. "I don't think she could handle it" like she's not an adult. And him managing the money evidently isn't working, fool!
@texastea56865 жыл бұрын
I don't think there's anything wrong with a submissive wife, what is wrong is keeping her in the dark and taking control of EVERYTHING! and she is too scared to ask questions. Hope they've changed and are doing well now (2019)
@Lionforaday5 жыл бұрын
@@texastea5686 Have you looked-up the definition of "submissive"? It means, "meekly obedient and passive." If you're talking about sex, fine - who cares what dynamic people enjoy in the bedroom, but being "submissive" in a relationship when it comes to everyday matters is another thing. Perhaps you mean a conservative or conventional wife, as in a wife that stays home and works as a homemaker?
@texastea56865 жыл бұрын
@@Lionforaday yes I think that's more what i meant.
@Lionforaday5 жыл бұрын
@@texastea5686 fair enough - I actually agree with you. Feminism has done women a grave disservice in my opinion; I'm a woman and a physician who worked at a major university and it was tragic how many women studying law.or medicine confessed that they really dreamt of a country house, with children and chickens. But that simple life is far from simple to make happen once you're mired in $200K of student debt!
@texastea56865 жыл бұрын
@@Lionforaday i was able to stay home when my kids were little and I was like the June Cleaver of the 21st century. It was the best time of my life. I envied the moms who DID work tho, with their nice cars and purses and vacations. But I guess the grass I always greener on the other side? Now i work at a med clinic at the front desk but only as needed so I'm always available if the kids need me, they're 13 and 17 now. (But I do go back and think: I should've gone to nursing school to make good money and have a decent retirement)
@nutria19895 жыл бұрын
How can anybody be satisfied with a relationship where you have to ask your spouse if you're "allowed" to buy every small thing. No self-respect.
@reenie60794 жыл бұрын
Feel so bad for the wife, everything about her says she is covering up abuse.
@vt-yp7yq2 жыл бұрын
She very well could be following her mother's playbook.
@angiep78365 жыл бұрын
Overspending by $4,100 a month!! WOW
@Mtwoody9575 жыл бұрын
U should watch the one where they were over spending by over 9,000 a month.
@christinebutler76304 ай бұрын
Ikr? I only make 2100 a month. Total. Believe it or not, I make it work.
@sct40402 жыл бұрын
Asking permission to buy shampoo and hairspray is a giant NO.
@cherylT3212 ай бұрын
That’s a giant red flag!
@stephanieledogar65115 жыл бұрын
She is not his equal. She is the submissive wife, and she has been playing that role very well for their entire marriage. I'm pretty sure once Gail leaves they will go right back to it.
@anniespencer78794 жыл бұрын
I could only stay at home for a partner if I were in a lesbian relationship. And that's not likely to happen because I'm fine with the theory but I'd fail the practical!😀
@bovnycccoperalover35798 ай бұрын
Possibly but I think when she found her voice and independence, she won't give it up so quickly.
@ChristopherJohnsonArtist4 жыл бұрын
wow, I'm shocked that they agreed to keep her in the dark about finances. It is also obvious that he doesn't respect her.
@laurenh94015 жыл бұрын
That man gives me such weird vibes. He’s a control freak, _period_ If she has to ASK for toiletries and he’s splashing money on video games, there’s a massive issue there. Run for the hills girl!
@christinebutler76302 жыл бұрын
"You can't really refute it..." when it's absolutely true, the numbers do not lie.
@vannisworld2 жыл бұрын
This guy was pissed that he got called out. He doesnt think its all his fault? he kept her out of it on purpose.
@sarah37964 жыл бұрын
Relationship abuse is not about punching and hiding bruises. It’s about control. And asking to buy hairspray while his doing what ever he likes is not cool
@poodlegirl555 жыл бұрын
Dad you aren't doing that by any favors by teaching him it's OK to spend his life in front of a video game. He will be a poor excuse for a husband.
@katemiller78744 жыл бұрын
So not true. My son played an hour a day. More when he was older. He graduated college, full time job in the medical field, fiancé and a life. Don’t believe everything you read. All children are not the same.
@annkirshner44682 жыл бұрын
Believe me Jared, we all were terrified of you wearing tights
@louisaisthankful64554 жыл бұрын
"Can I buy hair spray?" OMG. I wonder if she joyfully moved on after the debt was paid in full. Maybe he changed. Hahahahahahahahahahahaha
@janelem34483 жыл бұрын
This was filmed many years ago and my hope is that she did continue to be very involved with the finances as sadly her husband did come across as incredibly controlling and quite demeaning .
@vt-yp7yq2 жыл бұрын
My hope is that she has divorced and is now living her best life. 🙂
@debramiller8950 Жыл бұрын
By end of episode he was ready to blow a gasket. 😤
@710LENNY2 жыл бұрын
He's asked to make extra money to pay down the debt he created, and says the extra work is keeping him away from his family. He doesn't have a family. He has a cook/housekeeper upstairs and his son serves as an opponent downstairs while they play video games. That's life?
@justinewhite-hadley31385 жыл бұрын
Wow....then he complains in Front of his son about work?! Hideous example!! He doesn't deserve this help.
@doulos2145 жыл бұрын
The wife is very receptive to learning and changing; she “gets it”! She feels the excitement and energy that positive change can bring. I hope she keeps growing and learning in new ways.
@deepamurthy71055 жыл бұрын
They can clear entire debt in one go by selling extra computer n games dvd n TV !!
@bitTorrenter5 жыл бұрын
As a guy I know none of that stuff will be sold. I certainly wouldn't, ha.
@EvilLoynis5 жыл бұрын
Honestly it would not really bring in that much as it's all used. You would be lucky to get 25-50% of it's value back.
@ellen55393 жыл бұрын
You wouldn’t get $26k from selling that stuff !
@peggypeggy41373 ай бұрын
Putting away the video games, walking while delivering newspapers. no "munchies", never eating out-- just home cooked meals. If he sticks with this he's going to cut from the waist band as well just by making these changes.
@laboheme1255 жыл бұрын
I'm curious to know if these guys are still married.
@JennSGibbs5 жыл бұрын
Hope not
@Ndstars13 жыл бұрын
Yeah. She won't have the courage to leave him.
@therobinmasterstheory16365 жыл бұрын
The wife is glad to know what is going on....she has a radiant smile that is now geniune.
@chelseasmile20865 жыл бұрын
OMG the furniture... lol it's so funny watching this in 2019 and thinking how expensive those tv's were at the time
@vivianblack29512 жыл бұрын
It was on the news at the time that the price of flat screen TV's would come down drastically within 2 years. I waited and got one for $350 instead of $3,500.
@jeanp13234 жыл бұрын
Gail empowered her ! Good for her ! 💪🏾
@smartmovestephen53903 жыл бұрын
I love how all the comments are about how bad the guy was
@christinebutler76302 жыл бұрын
I've had people tell me that remaining single equals financial failure since two incomes go farther than one. But I have independence and peace of mind, which is invaluable.
@Mtwoody9575 жыл бұрын
I'm a stay at home. My husband and I create a budget together, that way we're both accountable for any mistakes.
@familybroich30735 жыл бұрын
$100 dollars says they are divorced now.. He’s such a child and has no respect for his wife, only cares about himself!
@Justthollyy5 жыл бұрын
I'm curious if this relationship lasted ? Considering it was filmed over 10 years ago. She's a sweetheart and he's a prick.
@kiakai5 жыл бұрын
What a selfish guy. Clear example of abuser and codependant relationships. That thing he keeps doing with his lips to contain anger is terrifying.
@lisalister80028 ай бұрын
Gail is quick to sniff out the rat in this marriage.
@rhsb5535 жыл бұрын
I'm not very far in, but I'm already hoping that Gail put a "backbone" for the wife in the budget. She seems to desperately need one!
@JehanineMelmoth4 ай бұрын
Ongoing abuse can really wear away one’s backbone.
@lizzie18975 жыл бұрын
Whiny dad, you are not away from your family. Your boy is helping you and you are modeling (well resentment and childishness) but modeling for your boy on the job
@annwilliams64385 жыл бұрын
How can this man be SO oblivious of his WIFE'S feelings and concerns. Women are NOT stupid!! Man up. You are no longer a teenager!!
@katemiller78744 жыл бұрын
In all fairness she doesn’t speak up. She even said that. Is he supposed to read her mind. She needs to get some balls.
@cherylT3212 ай бұрын
He doesn’t care about her feelings; he’s a classic narcissist, it’s all about him!
@dudanunesbleff5 жыл бұрын
That man wastes money like crazy, and she has to shake that 'submissive wife' s***. "What's a budget?", asks their son. That alone says everything about this family's relation with money.
@katemiller78744 жыл бұрын
Lol. Her son is like 8. Who knew what a budget was at 8. Are you being serious.
@katrinaquezada425 жыл бұрын
Meal prepping would be a good idea for this lady. Also this whine baby complaining because he has to work 12 hours. Pendejo. I work 12 hour shifts six days a week. You're selfishness got your family into this now own it.
@janebaker49126 жыл бұрын
Debt free in two years. Hope they take this and run with it!
@JaneAustenAteMyCat5 жыл бұрын
'Protecting' his wife?! No, this is abusive. Hope things change for them or she gets out.
@brendasuelong-bryant76132 жыл бұрын
Gerard, you did not share so you can spend what you want. You are SELFISH!!!
@stereomaster42315 жыл бұрын
Dude's a total man-child. He just wants to play video games all day
@Terri_MacKay5 жыл бұрын
He wasn't pissed about delivering papers because it took him away from his family...he was pissed because it was cutting into his video game playing time.
@davisholman81492 жыл бұрын
@@Terri_MacKay BINGO!🤡
@M-hc9xm2 жыл бұрын
Even had the nerve to point out she didn't buy all the junk munchies he wanted
@ivanovskameow999 Жыл бұрын
@@M-hc9xm I caught that too! Un-bloody-believable on so many levels!!
@mk_wizard5 жыл бұрын
Eesh. You NEVER give a kid everything they want all the time. It's not just a bad lesson plan about money. It's a bad lesson plan about life. You need to learn to be happy with what you have and learn the art of satisfaction in life.
@DD-d6d35 жыл бұрын
That man is a colossal tool
@morganalyssa99435 жыл бұрын
An 8 year old kid that doesn't know how to ride a bike?? Wtf 🤦♀️
@cute2boot095 жыл бұрын
Today's kids have their butts glued to couches! Attempting to ride a bike would be too tanking 🙄🤷♀️
@cute2boot095 жыл бұрын
**tasking
@mikasaackerman62245 жыл бұрын
drea brown this series is like ten years old so actually they have a point
@trexxy96285 жыл бұрын
The video gaming is more all consuming now than it was then, but it was obviously an issue for these boys. The bigger issue is lazy parenting
@annemarie5515 жыл бұрын
@@cute2boot09I think "taxing" was the word you were looking for.
@70sfan645 жыл бұрын
I cannot believe the addiction to video games.
@texastea56865 жыл бұрын
So stupid and juvenile
@NaturallyKristen865 жыл бұрын
My husband was raised like that and I do not let me kids watt tv during the week and limit time on weekend because they are out doing activities or swimming with friends, it’s a toxic way to raise a child that kid will be struggling his whole life my husband is!
@laurag.75215 жыл бұрын
I can. He’s obese and arrogant.
@trexxy96285 жыл бұрын
And this was ten years ago. The epidemic is worse now. But the laziness (bare minimum) to the addiction is apparent even here. Moderation is a wonderful thing.
@beccacoleman4984 жыл бұрын
@@trexxy9628 yes! moderation is key to EVERYTHING, i say this all the time to my kids. Its ok to enjoy video games, just not at the expense of other more important things.
@wendywoo21804 жыл бұрын
I don’t know if this couple ever got their act together, but I was the kind of wife who never know where we stood financially and had no interest in money beyond spending it. Big mistake! After 26 years of marriage hubby decided he wanted out to run off with a young girl. He’d been calling her with confidence for months because he knew I never looked at the phone bill (she had a different area code and this was 15 years ago when some homes still had landlines, including ours). Then I was blindsided by financial reality. We ended up divorced, I moved out of state to start a new life. Now I have no one’s financiers to worry about except my own-very liberating! I’ve learned to manage my money even with a low income and I’m surviving. I have a girlfriend who’s marriage broke up after 35 years because her husband was addicted to video games; it was like he was committing adultery except it was with a computer, he’d stay up all night playing games, drove her crazy. Poor financial management can ruin a marriage, both hubby and wife need to know what’s going on, even if one of them-Christina, for example-doesn’t want to know. An expensive lesson to learn.
@bettysha31542 жыл бұрын
The husband is really a KEEPER. I can’t believe she married him. His poor wife.
@cherylT3212 ай бұрын
She has low self esteem; that’s the only way women end up with someone like that!
@iaJENKA5 жыл бұрын
what i've noticed from all these shows is that the monetary dysfunction is usually a symptom and not a cause of a very dysfunctional marriage which often will end in divorce. Financial problems are happening because your marriage already sucks and you don't communicate, don't have similar goals, and don't respect each other, don't care about your family unit prospering in the long run.
@womanonabicycle5 жыл бұрын
When wifey heard that patronising dough boy was overspending by $4100 a month she should have socked him in the chops. I loved Gail's response to his comment, 'I didn't tell her because it would have been overwhelming for her' 'WHAT?'
@ginnyberg92712 жыл бұрын
He wasn’t protecting her he was spending money on himself
@4862cjc2 жыл бұрын
13:40. “To keep those two away from their video games is going to be a real challenge.” She sounds more like a mother of two children than a spouse.
@KRoseB2 жыл бұрын
Yes! And their sons reaction was exactly what Dad taught him. The Dad looks like he is just barely refraining from boiling over!
@peanutsassyathena3 жыл бұрын
She gets it. He doesn't. He has already created a mini-me in his son.
@susangowin8763 Жыл бұрын
Did he just say, "That's what I spend my money on"? Oh no, sweetie! That money is combined it's both your $$
@auntyasil5 жыл бұрын
This guy is a joke. he needs to stop thinking he can run everything because he's the man, and she needs to grow a pair
@Kim_gs12065 жыл бұрын
I never understand women who let the husband do the complete finances and have to ask him for money. Especially when they actually work and have a FULLTIME JOB, are you insane? Seriously
@Me-mb1ex5 жыл бұрын
Weeponybjorn It’s like a 1950’s housewife asking for allowance...except she still has to work full time.😂🔫
@Kim_gs12065 жыл бұрын
@@Me-mb1ex exactly, totally insane😁
@cherylT3212 ай бұрын
Low self esteem!
@katiethomas58894 жыл бұрын
It is irresponsible to have one partner in charge of the money so much that the other partner has no clue about the finances.
@lizadivine3785 Жыл бұрын
I have a niece who says her husband takes care of everything. That worries me.
@beckygroff86986 жыл бұрын
Yay! So happy you are posting Season 3!!! Thank you!
@janebaker49126 жыл бұрын
Yeessssss
@robinh72675 жыл бұрын
Me too! I love Gail!!
@VirgoAsphyxia2 жыл бұрын
WOW!! She made his behind get out of the house and work. Look at his tude!tube! Love from New Jersey ~❤❤❤❤
@lizzabbott Жыл бұрын
Wow ! These challenges were spot on. Created sooo many beneficial shifts fir this Family. Christina is a GEM and such a sweetheart ! I am sure they got out of debt in 2 years, and are doing great . I cried at the end ! Happy tears!
@ayela5623 жыл бұрын
I feel better about my $600/month grocery budget in 2020 now. Gail put them on a $500 month budget and this show is from 2006 😆
@melissalang82782 жыл бұрын
"He's the husband ..." And YOU make as much money as he does!
@M-hc9xm2 жыл бұрын
Just when I thought the days of wives not knowing how much basic things cost, this couple shows up. What a toxic relationship.
@fayezentner6195 жыл бұрын
Being away from your family I think he means being away from his video games because the only person around him is his kid his wife's not playing them
@anetteclarke36825 жыл бұрын
Jared just hates that his wife is in charge of the money. Yes Jared you made this mess, up to you to earn extra money. Did she really have to ask to buy shampoo and hair spray? Should have been a red flag to her. She knew what was going on, but did not wan to face it. Reason she has to shop every night for groceries is because he spending all the money. He makes me nauseous.
@heatherheape41653 жыл бұрын
Duche it’s not going to be overwhelming for her, you just don’t want her to know what you spend freely when she has to ask you to spend money on necessities.
@Ron719975 жыл бұрын
She is way too good for Jared, I agree with a lot of the comments. I believe this is an old show ...but this guy is living like he is back in the 50's...come on mate, grow up.
@LisaCupcake5 жыл бұрын
So untrue. My mom never had to ask my dad for permission to buy stuff in the 50s. This guy is just a jerk, period, no matter what era you put him in.
@cjhoward4092 жыл бұрын
I pay all the bills in our household, but my husband knows what all the bills are and we discuss our budget together. It’s not rocket science. No spouse should be left in the dark about the household finances. 🤦🏼♀️
@jet44155 жыл бұрын
What I could say about this husband........
@elainedeardorff92425 жыл бұрын
“It would be overwhelming for her”...ooh for craps sake.
@Beauty.For.Ashes.5 жыл бұрын
This episode felt rushed and I'm glad. I didn't like him.
@vt-yp7yq2 жыл бұрын
After watching this, I believe the husband is jealous of the wife. He has managed to keep her out of interaction with him and his son. When she became involved in family activities, the entire family dynamic changed. Very interesting.
@KRoseB2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. Very.
@biancamontalvo1104 Жыл бұрын
Mushroom princess 💀 I love Gail.
@ddchomeschool Жыл бұрын
I wish $200 could buy that much out food nowadays 😂