Weirdest Episode Ever | Financial Audit

[@CalebHammer]

Special video y’all have been request for months going live on Sunday :) 🎉

[@amoose8439]

Dog videos!

[@YhadiraKunkle]

Amazing!

[@CornerNookPottery]

Are we getting a Caleb on a date video?

[@barbienostrant11]

Grocery shopping????

[@envisionelectronics]

Gonna go with someone that is KILLING IT.

[@danniixxp]

Caleb, please, ask your editors for a total debt counter on screen - add it up every time the guest reveals another loan/credit card/debt. It would be super useful to see. Much love from the UK

[@danniixxp]

@@MichaelCarrPilot I've seen total monthly payment but not total debt...

[@kylebanks13]

​@@danniixxpsometimes he does monthly payment and sometimes he does total debt.

[@danniixxp]

@@kylebanks13 I like seeing the total monthly payment for debt at the end against the budget, but also get an idea while progressing through the video about what the total debt for the guest is too.

[@kayleighlittrell6018]

Yes please

[@youngroosevelt38]

Yeah he was doing that for a while, but haven't seen it in a while

[@looopo]

"my dad said im a whore" "how much of a whore?" - Caleb 😂

[@notbadsince97]

He’s trying to gauge her mileage or maybe his odds

[@T8rB]

Dudes ears totally perked up when she said that lmfaoooo

[@woohoomaniac]

Not just his ears

[@KenGud]

@@woohoomaniac 💀

[@NewAdventuresOfUs]

​@@notbadsince97I think he was trying to figure out if this was a paying gig or a hobby.

[@stalinov91]

My dentist was sending me a bill, and I said, "My daddy taught me nothing about personal finances". She was like, "Oh, I got it, have a nice day!" and never asked again. True story.

[@infernoh4362]

Caleb should make a credit card guillotine on the show lol

[@m87.photovideo]

this would be entertaining

[@easeyour5376]

Okay this is the most underrated comment ever, PLEASE MAKE THAT A THING. So people will walk in knowing to bring cards that need to be CONTROLLED!!

[@_koraki]

@@zayneytemthis could be remedied by having the guest use it

[@samidan91]

That's an awesome idea. I was thinking something along the same idea with having a little bucket where he could collect all the cards in. But your idea of the guillotine would be awesome to incorporate into the wall mount guillotine.

[@elagamingrayz4685]

Lit

[@itsmechloe]

Found Caleb 11 months ago and me and my man are 2 checks from being outta debt 👏🏽🥳

[@CalebHammer]

Woo!

[@Joce123]

Amazing...inspiring

[@CarolinaMama20]

​@CalebHammer this is my experience as well!!! I can't thank you enough for all your positive advice, and for highlighting how important it is for people to be accountable to their spending!! Since watching your videos about six months ago, my husband and I have cut down our excessive spending tremendously, we have a thriving emergency fund, AND we are ahead with all our bills by a full month with no cc debt. I'm so proud of us, couldn't have done it without Caleb yellin out those hard truths.

[@lilianacosta4980]

I would love to see a video about this!

[@palomaquerida]

Caleb should also start having guests that have found success with his advice

[@The_Conservative_Latino]

For Latinos it doesn’t matter how old you are if you live at home you follow their rules

[@seanparkinson8753]

Yeah I’m not on board with what she says her dad’s behavior was, but as someone with a Hispanic mom it was super foreign to me that Caleb feels parents have the right to opinions but not to set their home’s rules lol

[@briana5535]

The reason she says her dad has territory in Mexico is because the word in spanish is "terreno" which sounds like territory but the actual translation is land. I always made the same mistake and just recently learned this. 😅

[@Swiftceo]

I knew what she meant but it still cracked me up, especially with Caleb’s puzzled look 😂

[@JohnHewittMaddox]

territory in spanish is "territorio" not "terreno"

[@Matt-du7xu]

@@JohnHewittMaddox Terreno translates to land

[@James-ok7ii]

That makes no difference, even if she said land they both translate to the same thing. He was questioning if he grew pot on his land.

[@James-ok7ii]

That makes no difference, even if she said land they both translate to the same thing. He was questioning if he grew pot on his land.

[@CobaltLobster]

The most awkward I’ve ever seen Caleb is when she said she was being a whore. I can’t say I expected that even with the teaser he posted.

[@jloutz]

@@Ryan-wx1bi Only Fans type? I don't believe she would do well on that platform.

[@kiwimansalgado]

@@jloutzyou,d be surprised

[@SneakyCatAgent]

It made me sad, she wasnt getting paid for sex so she wasnt a whore. I was waiting for caleb to tell her you are/were not a whore. Dudes can f whoever and are never called a whore or even a slut

[@juanbermudez1321]

@@SneakyCatAgentI think that’s because men have a harder time getting laid compared to women.

[@danw1089]

@@SneakyCatAgentwhaaa

[@janedeaux5900]

She broke free of her father? He is all she talks about. Strange relationship.

[@mariamabah4380]

It’s a very unfortunate relationship with abusive parents, very hard to break from

[@goosewithagibus]

What's how it usually goes with abusive parents

[@Lextriplef]

There’s a lot of things neither of my parents taught me. Sometimes you just have to teach yourself things and become competent on your own.

[@CalebHammer]

Absolutely

[@beckypetersen2680]

Her dad didn't teach her how to find men, either...

[@nineteenfortyeight6762]

My parents taught me nothing since I was 5 and they taught me to read. Then I read how to do everything.

[@Electricdreams21]

My parents taught me nothing so 100% this is the case

[@SD-fj2mu]

Husband and I bought our first home at 25, got +$250k in equity, sold that house, moved into our second house that is 1100 sq ft larger two years later. We have 2 kids and we're 28 and 29 now. Both college educated with no student loans, and both of our cars are paid off. My parents didn't teach me anything about money, how to buy a house, car care, cooking, or anything about adulting in general. It's all been learning from Google, KZbin, and asking friends for advice. It sucks not having involved parents, but with today's technology there's less excuse than ever to blame your parents on learning how to adult.

[@haileycharlton933]

I know her!! I was a project manager in Houston and saw her frequently at the lighting store I went to for bulbs and outlets. She is very professional and always smiling!

[@Because-rt8qs]

Yes it's very important that women smile at work. 😂

[@AnonymousShoes]

@@Because-rt8qsit’s just professional in general to smile at customers, gender doesn’t really matter.😊

[@Because-rt8qs]

@@AnonymousShoes no, no body thinks men should smile more. Literally no one describes businessmen as "He's always smiling!" Because no one expects men to be always smiling. Nobody cares if they do because it's so irrelevant.

[@AnonymousShoes]

@@Because-rt8qs wtf are you talking about. you might need to log off and walk outside anywhere, there are so many men in my life i would describe as “cheerful, smiley” and same for women. if i walk in a store and the male greeter smiles at me im gunna feel a lot more at ease/happier than if he stood there staring like a freak. same goes for women. anyone working a public facing job should act pleasant towards customers period

[@Because-rt8qs]

@@AnonymousShoes I'm not talking about men in your life. I'm talking about describing someone you conduct business with as "it was great to work with him because he smiles all the time." That's not a thing anyone cares about in business. If you can't read what I wrote, I'm sorry for you.

[@harmonymelodypress]

First time watching an older episode and it's so weird how Caleb goes from 0 to 100 so fast! *calm talk. calm talk. calm talk.* ***NOW WE ARE YELLING!!!***

[@skoolieinspo487]

Sometimes I feel childish in terms of finances…but then I watch these videos and I feel so much better about myself.

[@Rawxpphey]

thats the point of the vids

[@claudemurphy9731]

It's like watching those wilderness survival shows

[@Jewgotclout]

used to learn from these but now I just learn to not fall into these lifestyles

[@CSpottsGaming]

Lol I think that's true for a lot of people watching these videos. I think they're helpful, but I also think sometimes people just want to feel a little better about their situation. "Well yeah, I spend a little too much but at least I'm not like *that* person"

[@Sar-ahG]

Go on to the show!

[@sortacasual]

Caleb youve grown so much since i subbed. Its crazy to think you're less than 200k away from 1 million! You've earned the recognition, thanks for everything you do!

[@CalebHammer]

It’s all thanks to you!

[@OUTTHEMUDVISUAL]

Crazy it feels like he was just at 400k just a day ago so proud of him and his content growing ! It’s so good

[@onyiturner5345]

She look like an El Chavo character

[@sosalovesmylfs69]

bro 😭😭😭😭 fr though

[@susybaumgart3156]

La chilindrina

[@CSpottsGaming]

It's kind of wild to me that she's still blaming dad for not knowing how to drive. Surely there's a business near her home that gives lessons and includes a vehicle in the price.

[@JJ-zr6fu]

It sounds like the dad is the stereotypical machismo Mexican who lords over the women in his life.

[@emilyfalcone1858]

Right? My mom was the same way. I got my learner's permit online and luckily had friends who let me practice in their cars. Went and took the license test the week I turned 18.

[@trenaedavis5221]

Victim hood is a disease

[@clayreacts]

Or anyone else in the World to help. Other family, friends, community members, etc

[@cassiea13245678]

I will say that I don’t know how to drive yet and I’ve looked into driving lessons and the ones near me are super expensive. About $50 an hour and they recommend about 20 hours of lessons (more if you’re a teen). I’ve put it off for a long time since I don’t want to pay that 😂

[@deuceandguns]

As an actual responsible adult I find it hard to relate to any of these people. Could you do a few, "hey, you're doing ok but here's how to maximize your finances" type shows? That's what I'd actually watch.

[@TooSquareProductions]

100% -I equate watching these extreme cases to watching Hoarders when your house is still fairly messy, but at least it’s not *that* kind of messy. It would be nice to see what someone who is walking the line between disaster and smooth sailing should do.

[@annythien]

I’d like to have some episodes like this too. Maybe some 5 score peeps that just need a bit of a nudge to get over the plateau.

[@traegray4424]

Yes!!! I don’t have any other debt besides student loans and I need some guidance in where to invest for retirement and what not since im still in my early 20s, would love for thoes kinds of episodes

[@ryananderson8817]

wont get clicks

[@deuceandguns]

​@@ryananderson8817He may not be interested yet but channels that grow this quickly often die quickly as well.

[@aomumoo]

My parents refused to teach me to drive as well because they didn’t want me to possess that skill. So I asked a friend to help me learn, got a copy of one of their handbooks to study for my test, and got my license. Then I worked 3 jobs to get an apartment and a car. Sometimes our parents struggle to let go or purposely try to hold us back. But if we are truly dedicated to pressing on then it won’t work. At 22 your dad isn’t why you don’t know how to drive. I also live in Houston and we have driving schools, the Texas woekforce commission offers a slew of services, friends and family are great resources for helping with basics. There are online courses for the laws and such that you have to learn. Where there’s a will….there is definitely a way.

[@erinlikesacornishpasty4703]

My parents didn't teach me to drive, but they did offer to pay for a driving school. My father DID try to teach me, but realized after one lesson he didn't have the patience or the guts to be in a car with a hysterical and inexperienced teenaged girl driving. When I asked my mom if she would teach me, she said "sure", handed me the keys and her grocery list and said "good luck". I was shocked. Apparently she thought I should learn the way she did; just figure it out as I go. I explained I would get pulled over and ticketed, she shrugged again and said, "well, you can always cry" 😮. Sometimes our parents have VERY different ideas about what we should learn and how we should learn. Sometimes they're terrible. It's cool when we're old enough to discern when those ideas are awful or good, and can make good decisions.

[@raymundo5631]

A common thread throughout most of these vids is No personal accountability, everything that goes wrong is always someone else’s fault.

[@robertgriffith3670]

I was getting that about 6 minutes into the episode. "My dad sucks" -> "My older sister is his personal assistant and his favorite" -> "It's so bad my dad made me wanna unalive myself"... sure. Everyone should remember we only get 1 perspective from these videos. From this episode I can almost guarantee this woman is her own worst enemy.

[@10xoxolove]

This used to be a good show but lately it's turned into "who has the best/ most dramatic sob story"

[@guppy719]

@@robertgriffith3670 I don't necessarily think her dad doesn't suck. But its important to remember you are getting a biased interpretation and caleb tends to take people at there word. The other thing is the driving thing, both her dad and her boyfriend won't teach her? There might be something more. to that.

[@jerrystauffer2351]

​@@guppy719some people are unteachable.

[@mmmd3429]

​@@10xoxoloveIt has fallen into the reality TV rut. Broken record. This show will plateau out in the near future. It would be nice if he showed successful stories instead of these constant train wrecks.

[@talyahr3302]

It's like she's still stuck in a rebellious teen mindset. I think therapy would help her grow past all that parental control she was trying to break free from.

[@antgarcia45]

She's just making excuses

[@tylerkinley268]

It's crazy that she blames her mental health on her dad. It's not sleeping around that makes her feel crappy, it's him not being supportive of it? I don't doubt that the father could be very harsh, but I'm sure alot of the issues result from choices she is making directly.

[@kitkatpaddywhack2073]

You would all be surprised how much that can change how a person develops. Not negating her responsibility, she is an adult. But the intricacies of mental health shouldn't be brushed off completely.

[@Communitychannel2001]

@@tylerkinley268i mean being told you will burn and watching your mother pass away will fuck anyone up lol

[@coolstuffinc5412]

Size 11 boot in ass therapy maybe

[@TKviews14]

So on the sex thing Caleb. Her father is not a horrible person or father for being religious and telling his young daughter to not have sex with men 7+ in one year by her own account. Which is substantial amount of sexual partners in one year. It’s his house with his rules if she didn’t like it then move out like she did. Maybe if we had more fathers that had rules and guidance for children then we would have better western world. It’s interesting that it never even crossed your mind that the conservative father wanted to protect her from physical harm when she’s meeting all these men anything can happen. Btw I like your channel this isn’t personal. Just thought you went way too far on this one without really thinking.

[@bradzeigler]

I was thinking the same thing. She's got issues and her father put his foot down.

[@TKviews14]

@@bradzeigler Exactly. She wanted to live by her own rules which isn’t a bad thing but her Father doesn’t have to be the bad guy because he has rules. He simply being a father.

[@jacobm7788]

Caleb is here for the chisme and I’m all for it

[@CalebDavidWilliams]

Yep Caleb is all about the tea ☕️ 😂It’s awesome

[@Deel0v3]

😅yes asks all the right questions

[@daisybaby722]

speaking of tea like i NEED to know what might be taking place in the guest only discord with the amount of insanity i’ve seen on these shows i just know there’s gotta be at least one thing in there that is so criminally sinfully juicy

[@davewhite756]

Saying your going no contact with your only ride while also not willing to wake up early enough to take the bus is a wild concept

[@barnabusdoyle4930]

That’s true, but with the Houston metro system, you will be waking up at 4am to be able to get to work by 10am. It’s a mess down there especially depending on where you are. She should be doing what she needs to to get a license and car.

[@isabelladeloucas6063]

I mean she could get an Uber, similar relationship with my parents here. If I don’t drive I will find my way.

[@turtleanton6539]

😅😅😅

[@johanjimenez1249]

@@barnabusdoyle4930 I used to take the bus and you're overreacting about the time. Unless you're not a very smart person and don't know how to take the bus it doesn't take long.

[@barnabusdoyle4930]

@@johanjimenez1249 What city do you live in? Houston is one of the most spread out cities in the country. Most people live in, for example, Spring but work in Tomball and the bus trip between those areas is a nightmare especially during working hours. I currently live in Oklahoma City, which is also very spread out but the commercial areas are much more centralized so most buses pass through where most people work. It really depends on the city. Houston is not bus friendly, and to get from one part of the city to another usually takes 7-8 transfers depending on where you live and are going. Even Caleb admits buses in Houston are a mess.

[@rossedwardmiller]

Imagine living in a car-dependent hellscape like Houston and not driving 🙃

[@maryuhh89]

My car got repoed for a couple months in houston.... got it back... I cried. It was hard

[@feartheghus]

imagine living in a shithole city that isn't "Car dependent" they're worse by far.

[@normagarcia3570]

She is grown enough to go to a business that teaches you how to drive.

[@choreomaniac]

Or to pay for a couple of driving lessons. She could just study for the written test by herself.

[@cantgetright742]

@@choreomaniacthe written test here is mostly about alcohol. It’s so weird. There was no way to study for that thing. I don’t even drink lol.

[@vidyavisions]

why do all that when she can just blame her dad for everything?

[@laurendilaurentis6467]

They have that? Do they provide a car to use too?

[@RxvenAlexis]

@@laurendilaurentis6467 They do. I paid for private lessons at 19. I went with this sweet old man who ran his own business. I paid I think $50 per session. And you just do as many sessions as you need. Then pay to take your road test elsewhere.

[@envisionelectronics]

This content IS WHY this channel is so successful and I am HERE FOR IT. It's not just money, but the situation.

[@CalebHammer]

Thanks!

[@REXae86]

@@CalebHammer you should put a total Debt on screen

[@M2161]

Usually it’s 80% situation 20% finances. People are unwilling to change their situation to better their finances

[@user-ey4ut9uc8w]

Exactly, people as of late have been complaining about wanting less drama and more “realistic” situations. This is YT, I’m here for some education but primarily entertainment. If I wanted nothing but education I’d go read another book on finance 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@mmmd3429]

It's becoming the same dead horse. I hope he can switch it up so that the channel stays successful.

[@mandyantg]

Started watching Caleb back in March, husband and I are now debt free and building our E fund as well as our retirements. Was even prepared for a layoff due to watching these videos. Thank you so much Caleb and team as well as every guest. You are helping people!

[@s.daniel2259]

Congrats!

[@kendradawnS]

This is one of the most confusing audits in a while 😅 talking about going no contact but annoyed that he wouldn’t drive her down to Austin?

[@KaylaMarie_]

Ehh shes a young woman with daddy issues. Its not gonna make sense lol edit: after watching more it looks like she gives him a lot of money. She probably expects him to help her out since she helps him.

[@Erikoxendine]

​@@KaylaMarie_she says she is giving him that money....every time she doesn't know what the debt was, she says it was for her dad...she don't even know tho

[@amoose8439]

And then her final message is don't do drugs. Which I didn't hear her talk about the rest of the video. Maybe I'm wrong but I think the drug addict bit might be more important that seven dudes in a year?

[@KaylaMarie_]

@@amoose8439 she talked a lot about how she was dependent on weed and didn’t want to be.

[@Erikoxendine]

@@amoose8439 definitely....She's blaming her dad for almost everything......what dad wouldn't worry about their kid going out doing drugs and sleeping with anyone.

[@LindsayViguePhotographyBristol]

This is a bit confusing. She has a broken chain tattoo that symbolizes breaking away from her Dad. She wants to have no contact, but she eats out with him all the time, is enraged that no one will hire him and is upset he didn’t drive her to Austin. If you see this, I really hope you do the work in therapy and find your own worth and solid ground. Best of luck to you!

[@antoniocampos5853]

Yea sounds like she wants to break awau but always goes back, like people with addictions

[@aguilera1728]

Sounds like a kid that has been put down by her dad a lot and everything she does is an attempt to please him. Unfortunately for her, misogynistic, narcissistic men like him don’t give a shit. Not saying she doesn’t sound a bit off, but I bet her dad is a Mexican man with closed minded with very old school machismo ways.

[@Firedragon0202]

This is how family trauma works, way easier said than done to cut off family members, ESPECIALLY parents. The vast majority of adults in situations like this basically experience Stockholm syndrome until the parent(s) just straight up dies. What you want and what your brain does to “protect” itself can be very contradictory. Also, good chance that I don’t know what I’m talking about, but this is just what I’ve observed

[@axzel575]

Second generation Latinos are so weird tbh

[@debrisremoval3151]

Prove that her specific chain is for that reason, We will wait. Her dad owns tons of land, im sure she is getting chains and trying to get away from him. Just because someone hurt you Lindsay doesnt mean everyone is the same, you may want to seek help from your past trauma that youre projecting. Good luck with it.

[@morebrainmoregains3234]

Caleb was really biased towards the dad imo. He keeps saying "Who cares you're an adult now, it doesn't matter what you do". But he keeps forgetting that yeah you're an adult now, be prepared to have consequences for your actions. Once you're an adult, the parent has no obligation to support your endeavors that they disagree with. Especially as a young adult, if you want the privilege of support from your parents you'll have to come to compromise to things that your parents are not okay with. If you want to exercise your right to freedom no matter what, be prepared to lose that privilege. People always have this biased perspective towards parents that the parents have to support their adult children no matter what. While for the kids they can block their whole family for any small reason after turning 18 and they'd be applauded. (I KID YOU NOT, there's an AITA where a father refused to pay for college tuition because the daughter became a stripper for easy cash. And the whole subreddit was against the father its crazy.)

[@sambulthuis287]

Yeah that’s Reddit for you

[@morebrainmoregains3234]

absolutely not. We are talking about young adults here, not children. Would you support your adult kid doing drugs overdosing on everything just because he didn't choose to be born and people live differently than others? What about them getting into gangs? Or becoming robbers? Because there's always that chance that might happen, so if you can't handle supporting that you shouldn't have a kid? That's absurd This is on the extreme but it applies to everything. You want support from your parents after you're an adult, you adhere to their values. If you don't want to be aligned with their values, that's totally okay. But don't expect them to bend to your needs and blame everything on them. That's called entitlement. @@griddlegrease

[@zad0k91]

​@@morebrainmoregains3234☝️👏👏

[@thomascarlton82]

​@griddlegrease didnt choose to be born lmao You really thought you said something there. How bout i didnt choose to be born a black man in america, do i get a free pass as well. Dont become a lawyer, that will require you to think for once

[@Mew__]

I have a sense that Caleb has this opinion of "you're an adult you can do whatever you want and shouldn't be judged" because he himself has admitted to being very loose with his sex life (no girlfriend, but keeps having one-night stands with strangers he meets on dating apps). As usual, the people most in favour of judgement-free sexual liberation are guys with opportunities.

[@jaredwii123]

"Alright, but let's do it because you're an adult" honestly really wise words

[@sufiheart]

These videos make me realize how little i get paid...so no wonder im struggling, even with 2 jobs. But also, there are people who make much less than me and Im baffeled how people and families are making ends meet

[@animegeek3109]

it's because of where you live, over here there are rents that are $800 a month, I make $25 a month as a custodian and living really comfortablely lol

[@nomoregunsinthevalley]

@@animegeek3109$25 an hour ym?? What?

[@WilC379]

What I've learned is no matter how much you make, if you're not disciplined you will still be struggling. When I was single I was making $2200/month and living paycheck to paycheck. Now our household income is $12,000/month and we're still living paycheck to paycheck.

[@kristelbrok998]

If you arent disciplined, no amount of money in the world will help you stay above water 😅 I use an app to track every purchase and expense, and it's been a massive help/improvement 🥰 i have roughly 2k in my savings/emergency fund now after two months

[@jloutz]

@@animegeek3109 $25 a month and living really comfortable is fantastic. Living under a bridge?

[@y2ksurvivor]

Caleb talking about the dad so negatively with such little detail is about as modern leftie as it gets. Yikes.

[@JKumar100]

Watch the video over again. Caleb wants to hear the dad side. You’re the biased one here

[@beckyshell4649]

She needs to study for her driver’s license and get someone to give her driving lessons .It is hard to believe her boyfriend,Dad,her two siblings or friends aren’t willing to help her.

[@hannujabella]

Right. She cant find anyone else. She can offer to compensate for their time and use of car.

[@bobbyrivera2951]

Can’t the bf help?

[@LibLibertyLibertarian]

@@bobbyrivera2951 guaranteed the guys she was whoring herself out to could teach her to drive IF she really wanted to learn. Seems like the only part of the car she's interested in is the BACK SEAT!

[@daveb3910]

But then if she accepted help from them she wouldn't be able to use them as an excuse for taking zero accountability. When four family members independently choose to keep their distance it's probably not the four that's the issue. Although there are exceptions obviously

[@suzubee9602]

I'm not going to defend her, but sometimes circumstances are like this, I've had to pay $700+ in driving lessons and still don't feel comfortable enough to go in and do my drivers test just because my family (or ex at the time of dating him) refused to teach me how to drive. as expensive as they are, she should just pay for driving lessons when she can afford to

[@JayMoonify]

She’s going to regret voluntary disclosing this information

[@Nunyuh346]

Yeah her family is gonna hate her

[@capitalist4life]

I kinda respect the honesty…

[@ritokazoriv]

Her family has no right, they could've put her up for adoption at birth; they ruined her life from the get-go ​@@Nunyuh346. I'm deeply shocked any parent would treat their child like that to such an extent they are looming to reject the gift of life in favour of having to exist with them.

[@debrisremoval3151]

@@capitalist4life Just because you respect betraying your family doesnt mean we all do, your name says all we need to know.

[@kungfoochicken08]

@@debrisremoval3151I agree with your position and I’m a huge capitalist. I even have rental properties in low income areas. Even I understand the duty to be loyal to your family.

[@victorheredia5835]

Caleb that’s her dad that has traditional views, she lived under his roof that’s what it makes the difference.

[@alexcantu3539]

Exactly

[@huntersigler9895]

So if I have a room mate I can tell them who to sleep with? Never understood that argument. It’s very thin.

[@77devon]

​@@huntersigler9895yeah but if your parents shame you you think that thats normal and you're scared of them getting so angry because they own you, she is finally old enough now to slowly realize and try to fight the anxiety he instilled

[@juanmorales5123]

@@77devonEverybody is obsessed with “anxiety” And shit. Just be an adult and get over it. Y’all use anxiety as a way to plead for sympathy

[@alexdevonshire6120]

People’s parents didn’t have any strict expectations and real discipline for them when they were young so they assume everyone else should be the same.

[@greenerpastures1000]

Unfortunately, she keeps blaming her father or her boyfriend for not driving. There is NO REASON she can't enroll in a driving school. That is where she has to start. Driving is a useful SKILL. If she doesn't get a drivers' license, she will continually blame those around her. If her father passes or her boyfriend decides to move on, she will be dependent on others again.

[@rachaelgoldstein8091]

I know when I was a teenager I had a job and bike to class and pay a driver to teach me to drive and I was 15 and did all that

[@LibLibertyLibertarian]

I learned to drive from being interested in how my parents drove. you can learn alot from observation

[@esexavo]

So who taught her to open her legs? We all want to know

[@wealthelife]

Driving lessons cost money, and she is trying to cut expenses to pay off debt. After getting a license, a car would also cost money if bought with financing, so I would think she should focus on taking the bus to work until the debts are cleared, then save up an emergency fund, and then save up to buy a good second-hand car for cash. She can do the driving lessons when she gets to the stage of saving up to buy her first car. And by then her boyfriend might have decided to give her free initial driving lessons (to learn the basics) so she only has to pay for a couple of lessons before taking her driving test. ps. My NW is around $4MM yet my last 'new' car purchase was a 20-yo S-type Jag that cost $8K cash. Buying a new vehicle (which loses value the moment you drive it off the lot) is insane, as is using financing to buy anything except a house (or an investment such as a rental property that provides total ROI (rent + capital gain) that is more than the interest rate on the loan).

[@rachaelgoldstein8091]

My point is I didn’t realize on my parents I figure it out.

[@charly44ish]

The Dad is clearly Catholic like most Mexicans, and was probably hurt when he found out she was sleeping around. This is common in Hispanic households to be shunned and not spoken too. Usually they will reconcile after some time

[@WanderTrust]

SHE CAME PREPARED WITH THAT CARD!!!! Love the spirit. Very sweet person, I hope she does her best to take Caleb's advice and she'll be set at such a young age!! It goes fast.

[@whitney2548]

This girl is blaming her dad as the source of all her woes yet she's buying him Chinese dinners and begging him for rides because she never learned to drive and is too lazy to use public transport...Idk, it's not adding up...

[@Unbleepable]

She's a typical modern liberal feminist woman. Can't take accountability so she blames the men in her life.

[@beckypetersen2680]

@@kodiaxx8307 Well since dad wasn't here for the audit, there's a lot we don't know. I'm not sure things are adding up with what she's telling. Having a hard time listening to her excuses.

[@ll2323]

This is very normal in Mexican culture. They guilt u into taking care of them. My grandma did it to my mom and sisters.

[@Unbleepable]

That should be normal in all cultures worldwide. It's the circle of life@@ll2323

[@IAmebAdger]

Things rarely add up for the young and foolish.

[@jaredandrew9906]

Thanks for all your work. I just paid off all my debts and my wife will be debt free this week!

[@king_vixtor]

Let’s be honest I’m not a father but if I were idgaf how old you are, I don’t want my daughter being known for sleeping around or being a OF/ porn star.

[@lucianaromulus1408]

Or son. It's showing you're a failure as a parent.

[@aishahiltz9458]

Hardest part for you is going to be grasping that your child is their own person.. you can feel how you want to but it’s not your life all you can do is help and support in the ways you can.

[@garethkalum8297]

​@@aishahiltz9458 and the hardest part for you is realising that something given readily for free also becomes valueless.

[@Britt4880]

I truly don’t understand the pride with her “chain breaking” tattoo, saying she broke free from her dad, but she still gives him a ton of money and relies on him to drive her to work? If that’s not a chain I don’t know what is Wish her well though, she’s got a good sense of humor!

[@bryguy1811]

Don’t miss the twice yearly trips to Mexico with him as well. I don’t think she knows what no contact means.

[@SarahNathanielOber]

A very odd relationship. “I broke free” …from what? You asked him to drive you to Houston. If I were scarred by a person I wouldn’t want to be in the same room as them let alone take a road trip together.

[@12137Marth]

Yeah I don't really see her dad as an abuser or someone hurting her like she's enslaved 🙄 but obviously it's unhealthy. It sounds like they're two adults who are both equally codependent and enablers for each other

[@3namechangezalowdevry90day7]

She's a flake. She was at least taught to have some morals.

[@Husckle2]

It's a two face i am not the problem typical in people in their 20s ( source i am 25)

[@marisaring1325]

Been watching you for a month, and BINGE watching everyday. I just saved an emergency fund and I’m ready to tackle my 9,000 dollars in debt!!

[@hiddenleavess]

Lemme help you out Bby girl

[@matthewv4170]

​@@hiddenleavesscringe

[@PatBirdUK]

​@@hiddenleavess opportunist 🤣

[@marselse]

@@hiddenleavessbro thanks for letting me borrow your Lamborghini last week 🙏

[@davidhansen4193]

It's what the show is about. Congratulations 🎉

[@StaciaBielka]

She needs to stop seeking validation from her father and not try to get it from men either. It sucks to know that you’re on your own in this life, but that’s the reality and accepting it will make it easier to take responsibility for financial state of it. It’s great that she has a supportive boyfriend, but I would not count on this support too much, it can harm the personal growth. I also hope she doesn’t hope to inherit that land in Mexico because dad is obviously a douche and will make it impossible for her to get, there are other siblings and family, too.

[@SwanBelmont]

“I have broken chains tattooed on my wrists to signify me breaking free from my dad” “I’m so pissed my dad wouldn’t bring me here”

[@rosie20098]

Literally. Plus he drives her to freaking work, but she's trying to go no contact

[@Championedd]

@@rosie20098 ungrateful af

[@tulserorobs4163]

My wife and I been listening for about a year ago and we're at no debt, +12mo emergency fund in a hysa, household income 100k< , 40/10/50method, and purchased our first house a month before the arrival of my baby boy❤. Thank you Caleb for encouraging

[@whatdoyoumeantheresnocoffe9141]

Excellent .. congratulations, job well done! On the baby boy, too .. lots of luck!

[@L0wSkiller]

Please please please 🙏 take pictures, take videos, capture a bunch of memories throughout the process of them growing 💗 be that annoying parent that records them at their birthday party. you'll never forgive yourself if you don't have videos for a few year span. They grow so fast, and time is fleeting ❤ much love 💖 Edit: you don't need to post them online, people can be weird and deranged, but having them backed up in a few places incase a hard drive fails can be the difference in-between having the perfect slideshow for their wedding and not ❤

[@hermitabby]

​@L0wSkiller im pregnant with my first. And that oddly made me emotional, lol. But that is very true take all the pictures cause they grow fast, my nephew is only 3 and has gotten so big

[@alpaca6462]

Which ratio goes to what on the 40/10/50 method? Is wants 10?

[@feliciavale4279]

based

[@asecmimosas4536]

I feel like she blames her dad for everything. This is the sort of thing that you have to hear both sides on. He doesn't seem like a pleasant person but literally everything is her dad. Unspecified purchases, for her dad. Eating out, for her dad. Buying this, because of her dad. Every financial decision has something to do either with her dad or her mom. Like ok, at some point it's gotta be about you. Because right now you're making yourself out to be a side character in your own story, be the main character in your own story.

[@shadowandflame99]

It would probably be really good for her to move to another city and just focus on her own life for a while. You’re right that she doesn’t seem to be treating herself as the main character in her own life; she’s the decisionmaker now, and ultimately it doesn’t matter whose “fault” any of her problems are; she’s still the one who needs to fix them. I come from an abusive family background myself. There were plenty of ways in which I was delayed compared to my peers, things I had to learn as an adult that ideally I would have learned much earlier, and emotional issues I had to work through. My fault? No. My responsibility to fix and take charge of my own life going forward, regardless of whose fault anything was? Yes. She's still pretty young though, and it's understandable that she hasn't fully wrapped her head around this yet. I wish her well - hope she works through all this and gets to a better place, maybe with the help of a good therapist!

[@matemahe]

The guilt is they ingrain i can't explain it

[@universelegion3470]

that's her side of the story

[@littlewigglemonster7691]

​@@matemahe bred for codependency

[@brightonuprach]

The subtext is that her dad abused her. And she's dealing with the symptoms of that abuse. As we all know, financial management and mental health have a strong negative relationship.

[@Thaxannadrote]

Holy cow! Imagine how the drive home would have been if her dad had driven her and then sat there while she talked about how she wants to go no-contact with him...

[@luiscortes5858]

He probably wouldn’t understand, he probably only speaks Spanish

[@lexdiamond20]

Holy cow! Imagine her bf hearing her tell the world she was a whore right before dating him. Eeek!!!

[@BLACKAAROW]

@@lexdiamond20 if he still stays with her then he is the biggest simp out there. I would have ended it instantly.

[@cynsational7225]

@@lexdiamond20how does that affect their current relationship? It doesn’t.

[@Mikkel-RS]

@@cynsational7225 A woman is interested in a mans future, a man is interested in a womans past.

[@kaer_pn]

Caleb looking at the chain tattooes “…and that’s why therapy exists” 😂💀

[@GymandYum]

This lady being unnable to own any of the stuff is what made me click out of the video in the middle of it. She is a kid that wants to live as an adult.

[@miguelguerrero2335]

To give context, as a Mexican. Mexican dads will not drop you from the family, but they distance themself from you; however, they won't kick you out of the house. They care and don't want their kids to be homeless or in terrible conditions. She is very Americanized, and the dad still has his roots. If he were like her, he would have dropped her like many in the show. Edit: Also, like every other first-generation, if you live under their roof, you are still just a kid, and they will give you harsh but well-deserved opinions.

[@jilianemorales2074]

Same with Filipino families.

[@AmmyWolfable]

The kicking out varies by family. First gen as well. My father would and has kicked out family due x reasons. He's very old school

[@dobia4486]

I thought Caleb had too much judgement here, if he doesn't want his daughter sleeping around in his house he doesn't have to pretend to be proud of her

[@miguelguerrero2335]

@@dobia4486According to her, she was sleeping out outside the household. Caleb has too much of a personal opinion on this matter, and to have that much opinion, you need to hear from both sides, not just her. It's hard to listen to this so far.

[@zoilalulu3798]

"Well deserved" is BS.

[@Guy_LastName]

im 10 minutes in and already i can tell she'll blame her dad for everything

[@blade7506]

i’m 10 minutes in too and did she ?

[@kunya16]

​@@blade7506yes. Absolutely.

[@danielredziniak2996]

@@blade7506yes you’re incompetent like these people on his show too?

[@stevebennett4959]

Respectfully, it’s a little inconsistent to say “you’re an adult, you can do whatever you want” while she’s also “you’re living at home with her dad.” I think parents should be as supportive as they can be. However, if she’s still living at her childhood home with her dad, she’s not really “adulting.” Dad may not be that nice, but well within the boundaries of appropriateness to take issue with her being “a whore” while living under his roof.

[@djmaster1995]

The daddy issues get old fast. She keeps blaming everything on her dad, despite moving out years before.

[@kellyhealy734]

Caleb, I can't wait till you have a daughter... you won't be so "cool" about her sexual escapades. Believe me. LOL

[@kristine7304]

The ASMR bit was so good. I love when your guests play along with your games.

[@DryerDan]

Hey Caleb, I just wanted to let you know that your videos have helped me weather a car repair bill without having to tap into any credit. Its pushing my payoff plan by a bit but I'm not falling back into a hole!

[@sourdoughsavant22]

Thats awesome, it can definitely feel like a setback when stuff like this happens, but you're right, that's the point!!!

[@3rdsidetriangle]

Way to go! Caleb is out here challenge people and your proof.

[@toomanyrads3827]

*gets one side of the story* “Oh well he’s obviously a POS”

[@CalebHammer]

Yeah, that wasn’t fair of me.

[@sheviper]

​@@CalebHammerit was totally reasonable! His reaction was over top, not ok to force beliefs on adult child when she wasn't hurting or negatively impacting him

[@sheviper]

There's more mature ways to go about expressing any concerns dad may have had... But end of day she's an adult and allowed to make her own decisions

[@songofrest]

She should mess around with a toothbrush and a dentist.

[@Manito68]

For someone who bashes her dad for almost everything, you sure spend a lot of money taking him to eat out and helping him. Give me a break.

[@bideobanshee]

I’d like to hear dad’s side of the story

[@GulagFather]

Fr 😂

[@roscoejones374]

"She was swallowing weiner like it was a hotdogs eating contest and I didn't like it." -Her dad, probably.

[@BudgetLikeNicole]

When she said that her older sister was basically her dad's personal assistant , it might be a similar situation to the lady from a few video back where she took care of the logistics of paying the bills for her parents. Totally a cultural thing, I still get phone calls of my grandmother doctors appointment and I don't even live in the same state as her anymore. 🤣

[@Nunyuh346]

He had the audacity to say weird family like dude u don’t know anything about immigrant families

[@hermitabby]

​@@Nunyuh346 not even just immigrant families... though I am from a town where there is a huge percentage of immigrants so lots of my friends are from first gen so its most definitely very common. But I also feel like he fails to realize that even with american families we are not one culture with one idea of how things goes. I always helped my dad with everything like bills, he never graduated, couldnt write or see well so would help him write the checks when I was a kid.

[@casey012]

I have a feeling the dad isn't this monster of a person she tries to portray him to be. It sounds like he is frustrated with her and is trying to parent and guide her and she is just perceiving it as harsh and detrimental. Only because there is such loudness and persistence of how he is at fault for everything and how she blames him for every single thing. I'm sure he isn't perfect and there were some obvious moments he fell from grace but I'm not convinced he is a fault for everything

[@Nunyuh346]

I agree he tells her not to be with all these men for her own good Yk what a dad will tell you for your own good and also doesn’t want you catching a damn std

[@y2ksurvivor]

This. I'm disappointed Caleb just 💩 all over her dad despite having such little detail that was one sided. I'm grossed out by adults that blame their parents for their own adult actions or inaction. This woman is deceptive, and it appears even her sisters recognize that.

[@pdg7290]

I'm glad I saw this comment and the people replying. I thought after seeing Caleb's reaction,the world was lost. A dad (possibly went about it bad) not wanting his daughter to give herself to random men and to find a man she loves isn't bad.

[@steveklein9335]

yup. it is a father’s job to teach his daughters to value their purity. it is a very difficult task these days with the feminism bullshit spreading the lie that sleeping around is empowering. it isn’t. it will make you less attractive to men. and believe it or not, one day, you might value having a great husband and being a mother.

[@mossbaby6292]

Are you guys kidding me. He said she’s going to hell for past actions and continues to hold what, a casual thing with guys that = less one every 2 months, against her despite the fact she was a consenting adult and it wasn’t his business. No matter how you feel about casual sex, she was young and her father completely abandoned then fucked her financially. We would not be having this same conversation if she was a guy. He never taught her how to drive and demands money to drive her places, which is encouraging dependence. He has nothing in retirement which is a burden on his kids, he takes his kids out for food knowing they both can’t afford it and makes them pay for it, he completely abandoned her when she needed him. Healthy fathers do not have daughters with broken chain tattoos to symbolize ending their relationship. Messy as hell that she’s still interacting with him, but all children crave their parents and she lost her mother immediately after she left. Have some empathy and basic human decency to see the situation for what it is

[@sneak916]

She’s for the streets

[@IxTechNiK]

She seems to be blaming everything on her father. I understand the situation wasn’t the best but there could have been things done to prevent all of this.

[@stephaniechilders5176]

Seriously. My mom ruined my brother and I's childhood, but we are both of the mindset "whatever doesn't kill you, makes you stronger." We don't let that past define us or our choices or our quality of life. It really only takes a mindset change.

[@Liimpy]

Blaming others is a theme with this generation

[@SheriLynNut]

She didn’t just blame her father… She also mentioned her mothers death and the resulting grief, and agreed with Caleb that she recognized her spending was a coping mechanism. She’s trying to turn herself around, and seeing a therapist once a week. She cut up the cards. I truly believe she was coping with a toxic father, was grief stricken over the loss of mom, and I also truly believe she wants to do better, and I think she will.

[@NewAdventuresOfUs]

​@sher-ilynut804 Just from what we heard, her dad wasn't toxic. She was 19. An adult. You can ask an adult to leave your home for breaking the household rules. I think there is more to the driving thing because her mom could have taught her, or she could have taken classes as a teen or at school. She is using her laziness to manipulate others.

[@JJ-zr6fu]

Her mom died she’s in a rut. Unfortunately she doesn’t have the support hopefully this helps her.

[@stenohero]

relate to the toxic family situation, with silent treatment and everything. went to driving school as an adult with a bunch of 15-year-olds. embarrassing? yes. but you can do it!

[@aaronqueen55]

I hope her boyfriend dumps her after hearing this.

[@marcosrivas8651]

territory is just the mexican word for property, been hearing my uncles talking about it all the time

[@dm96177]

I watch these videos to remind myself how fortunate I am to be financially secure but they keep me motivated to stay diligent. Thank you Caleb, for providing these learning opportunities!

[@jessicaflowers4393]

We all have to acknowledge when we make decisions instead of pushing our chooses onto other person

[@Nick-pd2yo]

right she made the choice initially to live a certain way and she shouldn't be mad if people don't agree.

[@djmaster1995]

@@tymondabrowski12 Oh, stop it. That has nothing to do with her financial situation. Also, a majority of people on Earth believe in Hell. So acting like mentioning your moral values to your kid is abuse, is insane. Fine, you're projecting your own issues on her. Save it for your therapist.

[@GaninIsMyName]

Ain't NO WAY her dad is this bad. And even if he is, she needs to take some personal responsibility for her life and stop blaming him for ALL of her problems. Driving me nuts. I want dad's side of the story.

[@lins8753]

Having a bad relationship with your dad can really do damage on a child’s psyche. She’s still young, she’s got time to receive therapy and get out of the victim mentality.

[@BrickedUpp]

Mexican parents are like this. And 99% of the time they’re hypocritical as shit lmao. Her story is more on the crazy end but still very believable. I have some family that are as bad some even worse than this

[@user-ek5nl1jc4b]

She a straggler daggle. Dudes gotta be desperate to even want that.

[@CamperPrius]

Amen me too

[@Maria-le5jp]

Unless you live with Hispanic parents, yes they are that bad. They're extremely conservative and overbearing

[@charityhopper1430]

She needs a new boyfriend ASAP! She deserves better.

[@MrGoogle87]

Also other way around. Needs alot of therapy first

[@arthur3817]

Caleb is just So into the card cutting. That deep dragon rumble and then the ASMR. Glad she got out of that situation! I hope this helps her get into a better financial situation!

[@TylerG60]

I feel like her dad isn't that evil if she's still helping him and he's helping her. I think she just wants someone else to blame for her poor decisions.

[@TJrules299]

That’s such a weird comment. Most ppl continue to be abused by loved ones b/c they love those ppl and there is familial and societal pressure. So apparently if they don’t go against the grain then they are lying. This is why domestic abuse victims are never believed.

[@talyahr3302]

Yeah she says that's the reason why he didn't teach her to drive then immediately says he wasn't teaching her before 19 either. 19 is real late to start learning if he was ever going to start, which he obviously wasn't going to.

[@faridahnamyalo5808]

Perhaps she’s helping her dad because she wants him to love her. Like she said in her talks, they fell out before and both been trying to amend their relationship.

[@3namechangezalowdevry90day7]

She knows she's a 304 BECAUSE her Dad taught her right from wrong. Teaching someone to not be nasty isn't abuse, people p!mp!ng their kids out is abuse!

[@3namechangezalowdevry90day7]

​@@TJrules299Teaching a kid right from wrong is called PARENTING, not abuse.She's getting scammed by "therapists" trying to cure her from having morals!

[@bdajazzfan]

Her dad is probably just trying to be a dad. Her lack of accountability and laziness would make her blame him for simply wanting her to be a human being that contributes to society.

[@PoisedSkydiver]

Exactly. He's just trying to have her build some self respect.

[@SamMartinBurr]

Caleb, dude you are working so hard putting out this much content this consistently. I hope you're keeping well.

[@Manito68]

Completely agree with you.

[@Jacob-ed1bl]

​@@alexandria65Clueless ignorant clown alert! 😂

[@faketaxi25]

@@alexandria65Yeah like wtf 💀 he probably enjoys it too I dont imagine it being that draining

[@christycolman6075]

I feel bad for the dad. I feel like theres another side of the story and shes just throwing her dad under the bus. 😢

[@MPPG663]

Agreed. How dare her father not be on board with her sneaking out the family home to meet "dudes"... That fact that she calls them "dudes" makes me think that there was likely some money being exchanged for her meetings.

[@seithroil]

​@MPPG663 what an insane conclusion

[@cowyeti21]

@@MPPG663 Jesus christ what a wild conclusion lmao

[@cowyeti21]

There isn't much that excuses basically going no-contact with your own daughter.

[@Jtl12318]

@@cowyeti21totally disagree lol, we live in this clown world that is soft as shit. Families disowning people was a totally normal thing not that long ago and we should bring it back. Any self respecting father who sits by and condones his daughter doing of or something similar including going out and fucking a bunch of random men should be ashamed of himself and isn’t a real father. Now of course he should make these families rules very clear so it’s not a surprise and then once they are an adult they can as they wish but doesn’t mean they have to accept it. Bring back shame

[@josephjordan7736]

Nah if you're an adult living in your parents house, the dad absolutely has the right to disapprove of her promiscuity

[@gothamarea]

this

[@jackierodriguez7457]

I see your point but also the dad not speaking to her while she was still there was very childish. There’s better ways to go about it

[@Jetblack1979red]

@@jackierodriguez7457she definitely exaggerated that. He probably did get upset with her but she behaves like a bratty teenager so take what she says with a grain of salt. She doesn’t seem to know the definition of shun or no contact.

[@Built4dTough]

agreed. his house, his rules.

[@briannahanson6394]

@@Built4dToughshe wasn’t bringing guys into the house. Her dad is manipulative that can’t be denied just by the bank statements.

[@calebalexander424]

take a shot every time she says “my dad”

[@vortex_beast1585]

*dies of alcohol poisoning*

[@juanbermudez1321]

Ngl when I heard guest sleeping around and going into debt I thought of some dude spending money on strippers and such while not paying bills.

[@YouMissedBro]

Thats what i thought, dorky dude who can't talk to women so he pays for sex. Not trailer park bunny

[@justine8344]

She keeps blaming her dad and it’s annoying. If he’s that terrible why won’t she just do no contact with him.

[@Racstacko]

I was asking my boss about the new hires and he told me someone that applied their first job on their resume was from 1960 my job is very labor intensive so my boss didn’t even call him for a interview Caleb is not joking about dying on the Walmart floor start your retirements early as you can my people

[@TheSUPERHAPPY1]

That person should take their age off of their resume. And anything else that shows their age

[@RagingBadger68]

@@TheSUPERHAPPY1until you show up to the interview. When they look at you walk in to the office for that interview you’re screwed.

[@joshuaburch4908]

Caleb, as a fellow white guy from the Midwest, we have a different understanding of the word "traditional." I have been blown away by the stories my Asian and Central/South American friends have told me. It's a whole different world when it comes to who makes decisions well into adulthood!

[@ChicagoMillingCo.]

American culture is all about the individual, most other cultures are about the collective.

[@jilianemorales2074]

Actually South Americans esp Colombians are more uninhibited when it comes to sexual encounters. Mexicans are pretty much like Asians when it comes to being disciplined and conservative. This is also why Mexicans are more successful and way more intelligent that other latin/hispanic groups.

[@BelArtist]

@@jilianemorales2074🤔

[@Electricdreams21]

​@@jilianemorales2074how does conservatism relate to intelligence?

[@calrey]

​@jilianemorales2074 Yeah, I'm curious, too. Because about 50% of the millionaires I've met over the years have been non-conservative. Being conservative or non-conservative doesn't seem to be a factor in financial success.

[@brimmed]

You can't call being an electrician your backup plan when you didn't even go through an apprenticeship. Once you have your ticket and can do whatever the hell you want, then you've got your backup. If she leaves her job she's starting at ring 0. Especially in texas an area notorious for under paying trades other than oil riggers

[@awsambdaman]

Yeah I’m a young maintenance man in Texas and I get paid okay but sometimes I am concerned about specializing in a trade. Everyone here uses immigrant labor and immigrants are willing to work for less than Americans are. So sometimes I wonder if I’ll have to move north a bit to get better pay as a tradesman

[@ethanwasme4307]

for real

[@ColeRees]

Here after I just spent $3000 on an “f-u” purchase, but only because I hit my savings and inventing goal for the year and I am fully out of debt. Feels good to have peace-of-mind!

[@ryanreetz8531]

What did you get?

[@jkirstyn]

Yeah share with the class what you got! Congrats on hitting your savings goals!

[@ColeRees]

A beautiful new telescope for taking pictures! It’s my hobby but I’ve held off for the past two years because I’ve been saving up. It pushed me back to $35k in savings/investments but I did a cost/benefit analysis and found that it was within my budget. I also made sure to purchase used and shopped around for a screaming deal (two months of waiting) instead of buying new. I “saved” around $2000 because I bought used!

[@jacksonsmith5490]

Same. 20k purchase (car from Japan fully restored)

[@lisandrox6723]

@@jacksonsmith5490which one

[@doughboy532]

Caleb can you please use a template from average bills such as cell phone, gym, mental health, gas, etc so when you ask the guests they don’t forget? Usually they are new to the concept of a budget and it’s their first time thinking about everything in that way. Some may just be overwhelmed by the extensive conversation at that point of the discussion. I think this is so awesome man and proud of you. Keep up the great work! 🎉

[@Seraphilms]

Agreed. During the time they’re “applying” to be on the show and messaging back and forth sending statements and paperwork, an outline of the small monthly expenses can be helpful like you mentioned.

[@feistyflavors5227]

The fact that she keeps saying “my dad never taught me” is a little annoying…since she obviously learned other things on her own. Also…I could be wrong, but it seems like her dad fosters his children’s dependency on him to be able to control their lives🤷🏾‍♀️

[@overcastfriday81]

Exactly. Local high schools taught all my friends to drive. The only one who can complain is the bf, because she was supposed to get her own car and license.

[@emelievilleneuve]

Loving this show! In the past few months, i paid off 7k in cc debt and i have 10k in savings 🎉🎉🎉

[@Nodeaa]

Was just thinking about how much i wanted to see the new financial audit and then it's uploaded 🙏🏽

[@CalebHammer]

❤

[@seanh8546]

​@@CalebHammerwhich one was the 800k special or is it not out yet

[@josephbrown9685]

@@seanh8546Didn’t realize there is going to be an 800K special, but I’m assuming it hasn’t happened yet because he just recently passed 800K, and there are still episodes in the backlog.

[@seanh8546]

@josephbrown9685 I just looked at his community posts, it's dropping Sunday. Thanks for the dedication Caleb I know you dislike youtube but we appreciate you lol.

[@kinfolk108]

I probably would've ignored the w**** comment rather than going down that personal rabbit hole. Unfortunately people seem to come and trauma dump on Caleb rather than focus on finances. Makes sense because poor mental health is strongly correlated to poor financial health, just unfortunate for what the show vision is. I love how much Caleb cares tho, hard not to want to help everything

[@BabyMango]

It’s because people who are watching this can relate. If you want something straight forward... There are other channels for that.

[@kinfolk108]

I don't really relate to my dad thinking I'm a w***e, but I see my mistake in expecting "straight forward" financial audits on Financial Audit. Any channel recommendations...? @@BabyMango

[@MaNA_tW]

W Dad

[@brooke225]

She talked about her tattoos that they are a symbol of her breaking free from her dad but she isn’t. She talked about wanting to go no contact but then asked him for a ride and takes him out to eat a lot. I’m glad she is in therapy to help her understand the situation and hopefully she can distance herself from him because it does not seem like a good relationship

[@JfkNeedsWindWall]

I disagree. The guest has a loving protective father,but ignores all advice without even trying to understand the advice. She is the definition of the strong independent woman who don't need no man until she needs a man

[@aliciatargaryen]

@@JfkNeedsWindWallexactly

[@Jetblack1979red]

Hope there is an update on her … she took zero accountability for her choices and was allowed to blame others for everything… my guess, she’ll be even further in debt and spending even more on weed.

[@skyegroome223]

I noticed that, too. He let her get away with a lot. I think he was attracted to her

[@byegirl866]

I don't think that's a fair judgement call. She was receptive and didn't fight Caleb the way other guests have.

[@k20z3keith7]

To whoever is editing the zoom in cuts... you're doing the lord's work. 😂

[@pharma_chela]

I finally sat down, wrote out all debts and came up with a plan to knock out the debt. If everything goes according to plan, I'll be debt free a week before my wedding! 😅

[@erikasolorio2468]

Hopefully you make your goal!🎉 I need to do this but I’m scared lol

[@pharma_chela]

@@erikasolorio2468 thank you! It wasn't easy at all to sit down and write it all down. But once I did and wrote it down, I got a sense of relief knowing there was an end date to it. It's normal to be scared, I hope you take the first step! ❤️

[@bryan.flores]

Dope, good luck

[@IAmebAdger]

Hopefully the wedding can be paid for with means other than more debt then ^^

[@pharma_chela]

@IAmebAdger obviously! There would be no sense in me getting out of debt just to get back in right? 😊

[@gainsofglory6414]

Love the show Caleb...but I would stay out of the parenting advice.... Parenting doesn't stop stoo at 18. Shunning is a stupid response, but a response was needed. A father can never say "who cares" do objectively destructive behavior of his own daughter. Not allowed.

[@krogershoppingcenter2088]

caleb's really showing off that hes single in this episode. "WHy no mlady i dont care if you slept with 7 people at the ripe mature age of 19! You're an adult, let people enjoy things!"

[@LawrenceTimme]

Yeah he's clearly not a dad. Any healthy dad would just say " hey daughter do whatever you want your and adult". They would still discourage bad behavior and encourage good behaviour

[@sapphireblue1013]

Hope Caleb has a daughter one day so he can have some wake up calls regarding parenting. When my now adult child decides to do stupid stuff we taught her NOT to do, it's all her own decisions and consequences, even though we tried to get her to make better and right choices. She has absolutely no right to pin her stupidity on us, her parents.

[@capitalismftw4757]

7 dudes in a year: Caleb "so what? Also your dad is a terrible person". Come on Caleb that is not healthy her dad has every right to say stop it. A dad is trying to protect his daughter and you get mad at him?

[@ericahoelscher4957]

nope

[@dangsood4945]

I sincerely doubt he just said "stop it" based upon the fact that she herself used the word "whore" and described being shunned enough she became suicidal.

[@capitalismftw4757]

@@dangsood4945 that is self condemnation. Yes it is hard to not hate yourself. But you should not blame your own mental issues on another person. It is psychologically damaging to have intercourse with that many partners it damages your pair bonding abilities. She is upset with herself because she realizes it was wrong. Not a reason to get angry at a father who doesn't want his daughter to hurt herself. Religiously speaking I can clearly disagree with him on the idea of a mortal sin (not in the Bible) but he clearly doesn't want his daughter to hurt herself and mess up her future.

[@dangsood4945]

@@capitalismftw4757 I think you're talking out your arse

[@capitalismftw4757]

@@dangsood4945 you can think what you want. But you are the one advocating young girls give themselves out to as many men as they can. So of the two of us who is more moral? Who actually cares?