INFJ - 5 REASONS TO FINALLY REALIZE YOU HIT THE JACKPOT BEING AN INFJ | MBTI

[@Wenzes]

“INFJs, have you ever felt like your personality was more of a curse than a blessing? 🌟 Let’s flip that perspective! What’s one INFJ trait you’ve struggled with but are now learning to embrace as a gift? Share your thoughts below-I’d love to hear your journey!”

[@cafe.cedarbeard]

My astrology patterns make for a super INFJ perspective that alienates me from every job I've ever had. I'm still camping in parents yard from the unconstitutional rules inserted just as I was getting back to work in 2020. I wish I could afford to be in your circle cause the friends I've gathered in my last couple of decades are not fit for advising me as they just put their limitations onto me just as my parents have done. Childhood PTSD is one of the hardest things to heal, age 51 I'm still in the midst. First house Uranus in Libra is just one thing, then Venus in Aquarius 5th house and stationed evening star phase, Jupiter a few more degrees in at the midpoint. Then add Lilith BLM conjunct Juno and Eros on one side of my bottom house Capricorn Sun, Mercury out of bounds on the other my way with words only works with people who have integrated their shadows if it goes beyond casual small talk. My musical skills are superhuman, yet with my poverty trap no band will take me in. I have no idea how to get out of this as everything I've tried so far has been a vicious rug pull just as I get going. I've embraced all my superpowers but it's a vast gap between social connections as almost all of my previous friends are going off the deep end of paranoia and all the spiritual bypass Ram Dass types who just want to feel loving all the time, then turn into dog faced demons or doormat simps when the going gets gnarly.

[@joanerhabor3233]

Intuition ✨

[@thisistamarica4625]

1. You see the bigger picture 2. You’re deeply empathetic 3. You’re a catalyst for change 4. You thrive on meaningful connections 5. You’re incredibly resilient

[@ErinIsReal]

6. We, irrational perfectionists, cause innate issues and more with others by being intolerant of their lower standards.

[@almightycdott7897]

This is why I love this channel, there’s a KZbinr by the name of Marty Glenn who says you’re only an infj if you truly hate being one, and if you don’t hate being one then you’re not an infj ,and the comments were just agreeing. I was questioning myself because although being an infj is not easy, I love it at the same time and don’t hate anything about it

[@corporaterobotslave400]

I've arrived at the point where I can constantly push ppl's triggers, but not "on purpose"; it's something that just happens when I allow myself to share what I know, to just be who I am. I no longer care if it is accepted or rejected. I did my part. The rest, that's up to you.

[@deborahwolff5651]

I've accepted being an INFJ and am comfortable with myself

[@kisslena]

I’m thankful that I’m an INFJ. Harder when you don’t know who you are. Being a person who uses your gifts to advance and improve your life not only helps yourself but it helps others. You don’t have to directly assist, lead by example.

[@DearYoungerSelf111]

I'm seeing it less and less as a curse as I learn the unique tools and methods that work for me as an INFJ. This channel has been instrumental in this. The more I value my uniqueness the less I feel my INFJness is a curse. I've learned I have to make my inner voice so damn loud that the noise of the world doesn't have an impact on how I feel about myself.

[@esoteric.breadcrumbs.]

I love this. I am launching my new programming to help people with exactly this. Navigating Sensitivity, launching soon. ✨

[@royal_lotus8834]

As Im healing from nearly a lifetime of emotional abuse by my parents. I'm also i'm starting to see the beautiful things I did in the past. And I'm still doing to this day. Now I'm at a place where I'm starting to grow and learn en become a better version of myself! And by doing so I'm als learning the value I have as an INFJ. And yes I Love being an INFJ and the magic I carry within me

[@flynneart1111]

👍🏻💜

[@DanzeMusic]

Can’t agree more! I used to think it was a curse to be an INFJ too, because we always start off life being unhappy and misunderstood; but once we understood why we felt that way, it’s all good, if that’s who we are meant to be. Maybe all the stresses and traumas we experienced were a pay forward to the better life we are living now.

[@wonderwomanx1268]

Excellent insight, thank you. I DO see myself as an amplifier but catalyst is more accurate. Morality is everything to me and most people fall short for Themselves. I won’t shrink for anyone, especially to stay in chaos.

[@jessmason2112]

It's kept me going and alive being an INFJ.

[@gregoryritchie7852]

INFJ blessed by the curse. American Dream crashed and burned. The ashes left, the simplest life, barely surviving "catalyzed" to my astonishment actually thriving! Less is more.

[@tarmstrong805]

Great videos, very inspiring! I’ve made the kind of turnaround that you’re talking about and my life is different and better than I could have imagined a few years ago. Still struggling with finding a romantic partner-attempted relationships always feel so one sided. Maybe my expectations are too idealistic. This is a topic I’d like to hear more advice on.

[@user-sz9pz2bt4f]

I’m so glad I’m an INFJ. Yes, it’s hard, but worth it when.

[@VictorTAnderson]

Thank you for reminding me of who I am 💪

[@kikitaube-hansen]

Hi Wenzes😀, hearing your content shows, you are being able to master life at it’s fullest . Thank you.

[@KatYoutube-d5l]

Proud to be an INFJ 🎉❤

[@R.S-1986]

Very proud of you, you've come a long way since you started. And now, you're a role model. 😎👌 GG

[@chrislim7976]

If you're in your 20s or 30s I'd say infj life is generally miserable. Now in my 50s I've learned how to use and manage infj traits and it is very peaceful. I'm also now seeing friends from my 20s come out of trainwreck lives that I saw decades ago. 😊

[@gabrieldelatortilla1]

So there is no hope for me? lol

[@chrislim7976]

@gabrieldelatortilla1 We are all about hope.

[@gabrieldelatortilla1]

@@chrislim7976 sorry, I said it ignorantly. I hope a lot, I love life, but the deadly fear of judgement plus the lack of affection plus not knowing how to live in the present... I'm getting better everyday at the latter, but will I figure it all out before my 30s? 40s?

[@chrislim7976]

@gabrieldelatortilla1 Such an infj answer. 😊 Just sharing my experience; you may not have it or anything figured out when older. Rather you gain in understanding and accepting how things ARE and how you fit into it. That alone should provides comfort, peace and hope. Plus lots of solitude, rest, meditation to be present and connection with nature. It sounds cliche but deviate from it is when we are "off" and miserable. I recently reconnected with horses. I used to ride and I now also simply visit horse stables to "be" with the horses. It is amazing.

[@Just_A_Thought_2025]

💯 resonate and agree with this. 🙏🏻 Being an INFJ is Definitely a double edged sword ⚔️ but once we learn which side to use we are unstoppable. ✊🏻🧡

[@MC-gr7uv]

I took my first baby step in standing up for myself over the phone (graduated from text) and although it didn't go the way I had hoped it would, I learned soo much from it. It was really difficult but I know I'll get better. I'm hoping to join the next boot camp. Thank you for your work Wenze ☀️

[@chiefbeef5590]

Thank you wenzess Every infj needs to know that being an infj is a gift not a curse and Ni can be kinda overpowered sometimes

[@adriana27100]

I LOVE & I'm proud to be an INFJ! It makes me unique and difference than others! It's a beautiful thing to not be like most! 💫♥️💫

[@larryadams9935]

Wow! This is one of the most helpful video posts for me I've ever seen! Thanks for the encouragement to stand up for myself and release my true amazing self. 😌🙏❤️ INFJ

[@sègnes-n5u]

i love being an infj because i dont need anyone truly and can restart over and over. i also believe soo much in karma when ppl hurt me i laugh knowing they hurting themself.

[@iaiamare]

Thank you, Wenzes. Your example is such an inspiration for me. Your words always feel natural, like a glass of water. It takes one to see one, and I'm proud too to be an INFJ.

[@marinamayer6920]

I started discovering all of this thanks to you and to the fact that I dared to go out there into the real world!

[@RememberTrueStyle]

Thank you! I do feel very fortunate to be an INFJ

[@sebastienmorand2479]

Sounds like some kind of hope. That's what I need. I can not stand me anymore. I feel like I tried everything (except the bootcamp).

[@SanchitPatekar-eh9cb]

everywhere i looked, people were mentioning this book in comments, and even a friend brought it up. i ignored it for a while, but curiosity got the best of me, and i finally tracked it down. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki wasn’t what i expected-it was so much better. two weeks later, i’m attracting the kind of energy i’ve always wanted. my relationships, health, and even my work have all leveled up. i see now why everyone was raving about it.

[@Lecursiv]

Fantastic video Wenzes. This is your best one to date!

[@jamesshepard8297]

Hey! This video goes for 11:11. ❤

[@tamaraburgh7292]

I recently met a fellow INFJ-the first I know of. Upon meeting, we had a meaningful conversation that made me feel hopeful and excited that I finally could have a fellow-traveler INFJ friend. She said I was only the second INFJr she had ever met. We both have busy lives but I suggested we meet for coffee sometime and compare lives. My invitation, however, doesn’t feel like she is interested. I realize that even INFJs are too intense for INFJs. It’s was disappointing.

[@patriciataylor4954]

Thank you ! Sounds hopeful ❤

[@riyajacob2909]

Love the content and the 👕 Tshirt.

[@kennethlapointesongwriter3330]

I understand myself. Which is why I don't seem to need anyone to 'understand me'. I don't look for any role society wants to give me, because I see way too many dumb, worthless games being played by too many people in society. Why would I want to fit into that?? You create your own role. You are the only one who is you. No one else is you (and you're no one else). So why would you think someone else could/should decide what you should think or do?? They don't even know what your favorite color is, or whether you love caterpillars....unless you tell them! The most amazing creative people in the world are those who simply BE THEMSELVES to such a great degree that it amazes everyone else...because YOU are doing what YOU do...and nobody else can do that, because no one else is YOU! Such is the amazing variety of human beings creating things their own unique way.

[@adriana27100]

I do struggle with absorbing other's energies and it staying with me longer than I would like...How can we shake it off faster? I would love to know some tips about that! 🙏♥️

[@annaschafer-fs9nf]

I'm currently working on that and noticed that when i like focus on that feeling deeply, it kinda fades. So i would close my eyes cry a few tears and 40sec later it vanished

[@Spokiez]

🤗 Darn it Wenzes, (sniff) thank you! Love you, blessings be ✨

[@blessedsoul949]

Insightful!!

[@나비-r9n]

Thank You Wenzes

[@KaliBattle]

Thank you so much. You are a life saver.

[@safeenasafee2578]

i swear, every time i scrolled through youtube, someone was talking about this book. at first, i thought it was just overhyped, but then even my friend mentioned it, so i had to check it out. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki wasn’t easy to find, but man, it was worth the search. in just a couple of weeks, i’ve seen huge shifts-people treat me differently, my confidence is on another level, and things in my life finally feel like they’re falling into place

[@stevenjohns-savage7024]

Thanks 👍😊

[@cajuncrackerranch7990]

YOU are an amazing soul, Wenzes. Thank you 🙏

[@lostjunglist8704]

I really needed this today. Thank you. You have a new subscriber!

[@mdrvoidx5426]

That was a good therapy shesh, thanks👍

[@johnjamesnorton1218]

Great Advice-Thank You

[@surendamor4917]

t felt like this book was following me-every comment section, every convo with my friends, someone was bringing it up. i wasn’t even planning on reading it, but the curiosity got to me. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki was hard to track down, but now i get why so many people were talking about it. within two weeks, my confidence shot through the roof, people started noticing me in ways they never did before, and my goals feel so much more within reach. it’s wild how fast things shifted.

[@wendy3992]

❤thank you❤

[@ruthbeberman8082]

She is so right.

[@Baulx138]

bless you

[@PradeepThakur-mr6ti]

i kept seeing people in youtube comments and even a few friends talking about this book, and i was like, what’s all the hype about? i wasn’t even gonna bother, but after hearing about it so much, i gave in. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki wasn’t easy to find, but wow, it was worth it. after just two weeks, my dating life completely turned around, money started flowing in ways i never expected, and i feel more confident than ever. i didn’t think a book could actually do that, but here we are

[@dhamon-pi6os]

At the end of the day, you don't want to be alone would be my answer.

[@zanegraham8945]

Humanitarian- Idealistic 🙏🌱

[@AhsanGill111]

I think INFJ, ADHD, narcissistic abuse survivors, 12th house people and afflicted 4th house (if you believe in astrology), are usually connected and people usually tend to have all these.

[@DB-rr1eo]

Yup!

[@ch33kystuff]

With all due respect, I genuinely thought the title was sarcastic. I literally lol'd. Is it just me? 🤔🤷🏻‍♀️

[@arclite7846]

I really fucking hate being an infj. Wish I was anything but this personality. Rejected, alone, ghosted, empty, misunderstood, offensive. I don't want to be different, I have never been happy and always been jealous of others.

[@naamanpratt]

I love being an INFJ and embrace it. 💫

[@flynneart1111]

I knew 😊

[@ThePracticalIntuitive]

Times stamps please.

[@itswagon]

Basing such proclamations based only on the results from a type survey such as the MBTI ignores that they survey is flawed to say the least and the speaker has not actually studied the Jung concepts at the base of functional (NOT Personality) types.

[@tnt01]

Why can't someone handle a deep connection with a friend or lover?

[@gregoryritchie7852]

These people are rare and hard to find. Most people want to live in the superficial.

[@Kelbelle-gt3dl]

✨🕯️🌀💫✨ 🤔maybe compassion, service, curiosity, drive 💫✨

[@jimbob-ic5kc]

Currently facing the hardest fork in my life ive ever faced. Do I continue to be the authentic, caring person i am and be lonely for the rest of my life, or do i be the awful, selfish person and get all the unfulfilling relationship the will make me happy in the moment? It amazes me how theres millions of people online that understand things like I do but cant find a single person in real life. Being the genuine person I am makes me feel so good about my life, until I come home to empty, lonely, depressing nest i spent my entire life building for us. Then she disappeared... Why bother im so done with women and just humanity in general. End sob story lmao

[@tnt01]

Do not go back to mistreatment. Ever. Keep looking.

[@HimanshuArora7111]

My friend, I don't know your story. But I need you to know that the only way to move forward is with an open heart, even if it hurts. And also, if you are harboring a belief that the only way you can be happy in the moment is by being awful & selfish, then you need to check your beliefs. I'm wishing that you can figure it all out.

[@gregoryritchie7852]

@jimbob-ic5kc I hear you man - loud and clear.

[@Natalie-lf7hb]

This current collective is still hating smart people. Schopenhauer also addressed it but it is still here. Especially since not everyone is able to distinguish the different degrees of Value between Knowledge Wisdom Insight. Insight is the crystalised version but be aware that that insight may not always be resonating on the variety of paths of choice Although at some point it is just 1 path untill you become the path and or also know and receive the insight that some Japanese Zen wisdom is based on, and simplified and got undone from unnecessary opschmuck and other distractions. Then it is known that what w thought to be so real and build our entire dedicated experience to is not what it seemed nor any other seemingly seperate phenomenon or so i tend to describe some works of Art Japanese style to which some say it is emotional. No it is abstract. And it tries to influence the Mind. Just like Koans. That is an interesting strategy Koans hahaha

[@Natalie-lf7hb]

The essence they try to present in that Art is: ; am i dreaming or is Something dreaming me

[@Natalie-lf7hb]

Discretion is quite an important trait but sometimes it has its exceptions but for some things discretion is preferable. When that does not work and the evidence based data makes clear urgency then something needs to be done somehow by someone dont you think so?

[@fanaticist]

it's even worse for male INFJs.

[@Brody.W]

Amen 😅🤣😂

[@jaredvaughan1665]

Socionics Model G shows that healthy INFJ looks like healthy ISFJ. And an unhealthy INFJ looks like an unhealthy INTP.

[@SamsonPavlov]

💪⚔️🪄🧩

[@SethHoldenReal]

Something is different about you…are you okay?

[@jydsproductions4664]

Thank you Wenzes...