What a healthy relationship really looks like | relationship coach reacts

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[@toolboxforlove]

Thank you!! And welcome to the community ✨

[@islascjoen6975]

thankyou for this, i've never been into a relationship and atleast before i enter one, i want to make sure i know some things about it. i gained so much insights in this video and i hope you continue to create these. you deserve more followers, you are a gem ❤

[@toolboxforlove]

🥹🥹 I’m so glad to hear you found this valuable!! I admire you for learning new things about relationships even if you’re not in one yet - it’ll only set you up for success when if/you decide to be in one 😘 thanks for being here!

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[@chidera7031]

Hey, Most relationships are complex at first, especially in the first five years when you're building your foundation. Effective self-communication is crucial, as is addressing arguments head-on. Arguments reveal weaknesses and help strengthen your bond. Negotiation, arbitration, reconciliation, and compromise are essential early on to ensure long-term stability. Avoiding these can be detrimental, as unresolved issues become harder to address later. Love and sacrifice are vital, but the first five years are truly a test. Finding someone who complements you, and working together to navigate challenges is fruitful. Remember, love requires time, patience, and effort. Hope this helped.

[@toolboxforlove]

Agreed, and thanks for sharing those words of wisdom 🙌 If we can look past an argument and address what it's signaling, we give ourselves a chance to overcome a challenge quicker, more effectively and build trust. I will say though that since every relationship and situation is unique, things can be smoother for some couples than for others for a variety of reasons. For some, it'll be rocky for a few months before it gets better - for others, it's 2 years, for others it's 3 years, for others it's 5. There's no fixed process when it comes to relationships. What I've found helpful is to 1) remember that we don't come with a relationship 101 manual (so issues aren't automatically a sign we're with the wrong person) 2) understand the cycle a relationship typically goes through & how to move past the power struggle phase if both people are willing to make it work 3) learn what it takes to build a healthy relationship so that we can feel confident when we choose who we want to be with and don't sabotage a potentially great relationship. I appreciate you!