What are Estonians Really Like?

What is the true Estonian mentality? How do foreigners feel about living and dating in Estonia? And what do the Estonians themselves have to say about their mentality. Everything you have to know before coming and dating in Estonia.
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0:00 Intro
1:49 What is the Estonian mentality like?
4:51 Biggest culture shocks living in Estonia
6:34 What is it like dating in Estonia?
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[@ahkkariq7406]

To me as a Norwegian Estonians absolutely seem to be Nordic in their mindset.

[@SRBOMBONICA86]

@VladVernygora-ug8sw Nordic are absolutely emotional robots ,anti social psychopaths ,Russians are opposite of nordics in every way thank God

[@redevilrrr]

@VladVernygora-ug8sw In your dreams tibla

[@A-A_P]

​@VladVernygora-ug8sw nordics are known to be progressive and caring, neither russians nor estonians either (estonian myself) have such a mindset, russians tend to be even more conservative

[@sikirer]

As an Estonian this is why travelling is often very mentally exhausting for me. I've visited over 30 countries and I've loved visiting different places to see the buildings, nature, etc, but the way random people strike up conversations is always so difficult for me to handle. So every time I get back home, I am relaxed by the fact that I don't have to talk anymore haha

[@sarahbayati6773]

Lmao

[@romanz9342]

It’s difficult for you because your slow brain finds it hard to maintain a conversation.

[@BumbiSit]

thats kind of sad actually.

[@lagritsalammas]

@@BumbiSit there's nothing sad about it, it's just a different culture around small talk and respecting others' privacy.

[@Steamgirled]

I have dual citizenship; America and Estonia, I mostly think of myself as mainly Estonian since I lived there from one year of age to about fourteen-fifteen. I moved to America due to circumstances (thinking of moving back), and I'm not gonna lie, once you get used to the random conversations and saying hello to everyone you see, it's really nice. It has a much less depressing feel, since everyone isn't reserved to death, lol.

[@enchantercometome]

I'm from Turkey and I have had close Estonian friends. Not only they have a great sense of humour, they're the best I think as friends. They're just very reserved before getting to know you.

[@kriimdriim]

We are very sarcastic, making quite merciless jokes, mostly about ourselves but also others, which can be difficult for a foreigner to understand.

[@bike-tyson-oak]

Last week I spent my holiday in Estonia. And to be honest, I found it rough. In my own country (the Netherlands), I'm being considered an introvert. In Estonia I felt like the most extrovert person in the world. Every time I said "hi" to people they either ignored me or looked at me like they saw a ghost. I went out one evening and I didn't manage to even get one decent conversation. Every time I tried to have a conversation they answered my questions and nothing more. I really had to pull it out. So, I experienced the Estonian people as extremely closed and almost terrified of strangers. Of course I had read about it but I totally underestimated how extreme it was. It's sad, but because of this the chance that I will ever return is very small. On the other hand, we also went a few days to Helsinki and we experienced the people over there as much friendlier and open. Shy but very approachable.

[@adamwnt]

it's the ussr past, everything the russians touched or anywhere they went the just ruined it, it's a fact. Anyone who didn't experience it they just won't understand it. I was born in Poland in the '70s. Poland wasn't even part of the ussr but until the end of '80 the spying authoritarian state was present everywhere, that's why all central Eastern Europeans are like that, diffident, simple as. It is changing though especially with young generations being born after that VERY bleak era, but it's a generational change.

[@OverTheVoids]

I wonder if the the sparser town more north of Finland are more like Estonia. I'm not surprised too much by what you said about Helsinki as large cities seem to be much more socially relaxed and outgoing.

[@jrast7407]

This depends more on the culture. I think that we would agree that Spaniards are more extrovert than Dutch people but we don’t feel the urge to say hi to random people on the street. Of course, if you say hi we are going to reply and in other instances, we are going to strike up a conversation.

[@bike-tyson-oak]

@@jrast7407 In my experience, if you say hi, you'll be completely ignored.

[@satakieli13]

They still struggle with their past and the Baltic depression..and it shows. I feel ya.

[@henri_ol]

"This is comfortable , but the another is Finland" lol 😂

[@saalvosegg8171]

As someone who is Swedish and Finnish I have always seen the Baltic states as being brothers to Nordics. I see the Baltics having a lot more in common with the Nordics than they do Eastern Europe. I often see traditional Latvian and Lithuanian clothing having Nordic influence and Estonia also has a history of being under Denmark and Sweden. Plus the Nordic-Baltic Eight should a sign of strong ties with each other.

[@Rasytojas1980]

We have a lot of similarities We all love sauna Drive volvos Are introverted Have germanic work ethics Deal with winter and darkness Love forests and lakes Spend weekends in wooden houses somewhere out of city Literature has similarities Tall blondies However, Lithuania is a bit different due to polish history it feels central european sometimes

[@Rasytojas1980]

Latvia also was under sweden

[@saalvosegg8171]

@@Rasytojas1980 Lithuania does have a blend of Nordic and Central European. They’re also very introverted as well. But they also have Romuva.

[@Rasytojas1980]

@@saalvosegg8171 yes we like pagan traditions and metal festivals

[@butterflies655]

The only difference is that Finland and Sweden were the same country for over 600 years. Even today swedish is the second official language in Finland.

[@Noah_ol11]

Nordic countries : Finland 2 meters to talk , Baltic countries : Estonia 1,5 meters to talk , The Whole American continent , the North and South : can we get closer ? 30 cm is too far from each other 😂😂

[@nintendo1709]

Canadians and Americans also need personal space haha. I think ur thinking of Latin America

[@KohaAlbert]

Estonians, bare minimum, more than reach of stretched out limb... And only if absolutely necessary... - thank god for telegrams, phones (preferably SMS), email, social networks, ...

[@Yalbou]

Finland is not a nordic country

[@KohaAlbert]

@@Yalbou Finland is full member of Nordic council (meanwhile, Estonia isn't). Finland is also very much northern Europe (geographically, culturally, etc - also, the given affinity is meant when people speak about „nordic Estonia“) What Finland is not, is Scandinavian (geographically, also excludes Iceland for example) and North-Germanic - here its Finnic (unrelated language - linguistic similarities between Scandinavian languages and Finnish is kind of like attempting to compare Greek and Turkish).

[@Yalbou]

@@KohaAlbert nordic is a race and to an extent culture. Finnish people are not racially nordic

[@hemmper]

Not helping in accidents with several bystanders is called the bystander effect in psychology. There are cultural differences, some have theoreticized that not wanting to stand out or take the first step in helping is a fear more commonly found and instilled in cultures that is or have been victims to oppressive regimes in recent times. Maybe it takes one or two generations of freedom to get over.

[@davidyasss3484]

I'm Irish, in Ireland. One time I was at a club/bar with my ex and friends. A Danish guy was there and he loved chatting with us, a Norwegian as well. Then I saw 2 Finnish guys by themselves looking awkward, so wanted to include them in our group. They blatantly said no and asked me to leave them alone. It was such an odd experience. They soon left when Brazilians started talking to them (who later joined our group). So maybe I was just getting too close as the girl said. I wonder would it be like that with Estonians.

[@Ed-xv4sy]

Good lord and I thought Canadians are somewhat reserved. We're not brazilians but also def far away from finnish

[@Sa7biUK]

I used to work in Stockholm in a multinational company. There were mainly Swedes there, with a few foreigners from the Americas and Europe. There was also a sizeable Finnish presence and they never mixed like the rest of us did, but they were not particularly rude about, just a little surprised/reserved if you ever did make the mistake of thinking they would want to talk to you

[@saalvosegg8171]

Finnish people and Brazilians are polar opposites of each other. Brazilians are loud, extremely friendly, rowdy and very up close in your space while Finns are the very opposite. We like our space and keeping to ourselves. It takes time and a lot of patience to get into our circle. Just ask the person I’m married to. I’m Swedish and Finnish married to an American from the South. Our relationship started off at very different frequencies but we have managed to meet some where in the middle. Our common interests is what brought us together. The first few dates were awkward but managed to warm up.

[@Ed-xv4sy]

@@saalvosegg8171 Ain't no body got time for that sweetie. I determine in two seconds if you're fly or not. We had a Finnish group actually join is in Amsterdam so there's some Finnish people who are outgoing and like a loud boisterous crowd, so just like you expect patience, that's a luxury outgoing people may not afford you.

[@saalvosegg8171]

@@Ed-xv4sy Why are you Dutch so aggressive? I’ve understood that about you guys.

[@tobiojo6469]

Awesome video

[@Just4Kixs]

I visited Tallinn a few months ago and loved it! It really is an introvert's paradise like me.

[@kulnokaiklem]

Estonia the Baltic Tiger - it is an excellent documentary about Estonia in YuuTuube.

[@piiluja]

This @11:54 is gold. Finding your soulmate is difficult. Finding soulmate from another culture even more so, and the farthest (culturally) you travel the more desperate it gets.

[@maricostafernandez]

My son married a Estonian. I am going to be a grandma of a baby boy this year! His wife is a beautiful, nice, kind young woman. Hoping to visit Estonia soon. ❤️🇪🇪

[@oliobgmoti-bulgaria8401]

I had an Estonian friend, cool memes, music and chill vibes

[@bigworm3886]

This series is fantastic!!!!

[@hulkhulk5141]

My man Manan!!!! Great job, he’s becoming famous!! This was a very interesting video.

[@gabrielfuret4852]

Great video! interviewees were fun to hear

[@seanmovie9077]

I really love this series that you have made please make it on more countries

[@Steamgirled]

NAH THIS IS SO FUNNY THAT BUS SAID "THIS BUS IS GREEN" XDDDDD 5:55

[@josephhudson7378]

I would definitely love to travel to Estonia. I like history and how they still have it.

[@carlossaraiva8213]

Visited Tallinn early this year. Gorgeaus city. They have a bar totally dedicated to Depeche Mode, one of my favorite band. The women in Estonia are beautiful and modern and sophisticated.

[@kalebind1]

Hence they enjoy the silence

[@toomuchinformation]

​@@kalebind1😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@kalebind1]

@@toomuchinformation intended basically

[@toomuchinformation]

I know.

[@annasmidova1404]

Thanks for video❤pls do Slovakia or Czechia next❤pleeeaaaseee❤

[@cedricnicholson7446]

people from warmer climates tend to be more friendlier quicker because you're outside more often in the year than the colder climate countries. It's like that here in Canada as well when trying to get to know people. One thing though is we aren't shy to say hello and speak to people. I can easily tell Eastern Europeans and Nordic people apart from Westerners. The way they walk look so closed off. It's their normal behavior but I couldn't imagine that being apart of my culture. It's amazing how cultures differ even in passing by.

[@person-yu8cu]

i think it depends where you are in canada. for example i find that large cities like ottawa and vancouver, but also small conservative towns, are not big on saying hello to strangers; while smaller cities like kingston and victoria tend to be much friendlier. context matters too. buses are a place where canadians will be "coconuts" like russians or finns.

[@flyby3079]

Yes even Newfoundlanders & most other maritimer province people tend to be friendly. And mind you they get very cool weather. Cooler than in Ontario where i live.

[@ahkkariq7406]

We are constructed that way to be able walk on the ice in winter, and since we are native it is in our genes.

[@flyby3079]

@@ahkkariq7406 lol this has nothing at all to being friendlier dude!! 🤣

[@ahkkariq7406]

@@flyby3079 No, of course not. It's only about keeping your legs together like a penguin, so you want slip on the ice.

[@simulki7108]

Come to Sweden next time to Skåne, Helsingborg my dear, and i'll change the boring perspective. Stockholm is what we in Skåne says, ultra boring. I love your videos abroad. Hugs! ^^

[@VeyMylife]

Been to Tallin, very beautiful city. Kisses from Indonesia❤

[@lgrace3874]

This video only needs 1.4 million views to exceed the population of Estonia.

[@DatingBeyondBorders]

Let's do it! 😁

[@muyleche6466]

I learned a lot just now. Thank You!

[@jj-v12]

YEAAAH Finaly i can see this video!!!

[@TTT111]

I would love to see a video of what Estonian men think about Estonian dating culture and dating foreign girls. 🙂

[@denisefontoura8444]

That would be nice, but most of them declined the invite to participate in the video :)

[@matchaa121]

As much as I've talked to Estonian guys, they prefer Estonian girls. But honestly I think in general they would take anyone who shows interest in them😃

[@ROOBIT420]

im estonian and we are scared of women hahahahah many times women have been toxic or salty so we are scared now

[@lolsoina]

I love my country Estonia

[@ilhuicatlamatini]

I’m impressed at seeing the men on the streets with bouquets of flowers lol! I find it very sweet and would absolutely love such a gift from my guy. 💐

[@carolin9876]

Honestly, flowers are more of a special occasion kind of thing here in Estonia. In my personal experience, younger men (30 and under) aren't very romantic.

[@broonie32]

​@@carolin9876as Estonian guy. It's true. We only give flowers when it's a special occasion. Never with no reason.

[@stanspb763]

This video focused on the historic Old Town area which is very interesting as the most preserved city center from the 13thcentury which i different from that tourist'centric Old Town. I am an American who lives in St Petersburg Russia over 2 decades and regularly visit Tallinn since it is so close. Compared to most of Scandinavia or Finland Estonia is friendlier and far easier to meet people, particularly girls. My most recent trip was last week and since the end of tourist season ended a month ago, Old Town was not crowded at all. Generally prices are low, about 1/2 of Finland, and a lot more variety. I met and went out with 3 girls, casual activities since I was over twice their age. Tallinn is my favorite Baltic Sea city, after St Petersburg which is more open and much more cultured with a wider range people from all over the world. One of the traits those I met were attracted to was living in such a great city, one a lot younger than Tallinn. The people of Estonia are friendly to Russians but the government is not. The sauna culture is not as universal as in Finland. The cafes bars and restaurants in Old Town have staff who speak Estonian, Finnish, Russian and English for the most part. Small countries almost always have multicultural trade and languages. The city is very clean, more so than European or UK cities and certainly cleaner and safer. Walking around after midnight requires no added caution, like St Petersburg. Smaller towns are more difficult to communicate unless you know Estonian in the north or Russian in the south. Warning ,take very comfortable walking shoes,, Old Town has its vast area entirely with cobblestone so your feet can really get bruised in leather or light walking shoes.

[@r.h.7633]

Good. It's all accurate. It's us.

[@MrDadyD]

Sounds like type of country (im Swedish). I dont like hyperactive latinas or overly loud americans

[@nintendo1709]

That’s sort of rude mate

[@Lucyinthskyy]

As an American Latina you are making huge generalizations 🙄

[@MauricioOsuna-et8et]

I'm from Brazil, and (if I don't royally screw it up) moving to Tallinn when the winter ends. > anything except for marrying and divorcing is done online Buying and selling land. Unless they changed this from the last time I read about Estonian bureaucracies, they also directly record and manage land ownership.

[@Steamgirled]

Estonia is a very modern (introverted) country, so I wouldn't be surprised. It has great cybersecurity. You can't even access your bank without your ID card or SSN

[@Mohamedmerwany3rd]

I like Estonia 🇪🇪 but I think is interesting adventure ❤ good luck

[@Basheez]

This thing about not helping when you fall is so true! 5:22

[@matchaa121]

when I fell on ice in the winter I felt so embarrassed when a man tried to help me😀 I would have prefered him to ignore me lol. If you need help, ask for it. If you dont ask, people assume you can manage by yourself

[@davidpritchard604]

Having lived in Estonia years ago, I have to say that they are quite distant but not as distant as Finns. Alcohol helps with both Finns and Estonians to open them up.

[@diamondsarenotforever8542]

Finland's alcohol consumption is not so high. Watch the statistics in the video " Country alcohol consumption comparison. " Finland's alcohol consumption is in the middle of Europe. Estonia 's alcohol consumption is higher.

[@davidpritchard604]

@@diamondsarenotforever8542 In the old days I saw many Finns passed out around the Olympia Hotel and staggering around in the streets. The ferries between Tallinn and Helsinki were so unbearable for me, that I would spend the voyages on the outdoor decks to avoid the loud drunken Finns inside. Estonians on the other hand are quiet drunks which I much prefer.

[@diamondsarenotforever8542]

@@davidpritchard604 Finland's alcohol consumption has gone drastically down in 10 years anyway. Also everyone in Finland does not drink.

[@lamppuu1]

​@@davidpritchard604 Finnish people go to ferries to drink.. that's the wrong place to form an opinion of Finns. You know Finland is only 106 years old country, there's still a lot of "trauma leftovers" from wars. I think that's a part of why Finns drink and can't talk deeply without a drink (for most people). We do have our flaws just like any other country.

[@davidpritchard604]

@@lamppuu1 I know what you mean about war trauma, years ago an old drunken man started yelling at me on a trolley traveling north on Manerheimintie. He was screaming Saksa at me. According to other passangers, he was from Lappland and was still angry at the Germans and thought that I was one of them.

[@ArthurOfThePond]

I think all the Nordic countries have the feeling of being shut off with strangers, but warm with their close ones. So much more love and attention to give, when you don't have to engage in meaningless interactions throughout the day.

[@mikeylejan8849]

Love Estonia from the Philippines.

[@Bloodark124]

How good are Estonian's English in Tallinn? Like it seems that foreigners visiting won't have too much trouble just speaking English with the locals?

[@AsifSaifuddinAuvipy]

They are pretty good

[@OverTheVoids]

I've heard that the older generations know more Russian whereas the younger generations know more English.

[@12margus]

Most Estonians are fluent in English (Source; I'm Estonian)

[@duartesilva7907]

​@@OverTheVoidsdefinitely. Bring Google Translate with you 😅

[@KohaAlbert]

tolerable for tourism - but can be restraining for socializing, which can become isolative and exhausting to settle without learning the local lingua.

[@nevojae511]

Seems to be a great place in Europe in terms of digitalization. Otherwise it is very similar to Western Europe and Scandinavia in terms of the societal norms i.e. reserved people, wary of strangers, excessive compliments are frowned upon etc.

[@nordicest]

Estonians would not come infront of the camera and give comments :D.. so we saw mostly newer generation or very open minded people there :P

[@carleryk]

And Russians instead of Estonians.

[@stevestruthers6180]

I'm Canadian, and Canadians can also be quiet and reserved. I myself am that way. I can become more extroverted if I feel comfortable with the people I'm with, though. It can take a while to make friendships in Canada because people are often quite circumspect about who they get involved with. This is especially true of English-speaking Canadians whose ancestry is British. That's not to say Canadians aren't friendly.. We can and do talk to strangers in the street, but we're not intrusive about it. We don't have a problem smiling at others. And like Estonians, we like to be a comfortable distance away from people when talking to them. So the upshot of what I'm saying is that I can understand where the Estonians are coming from.

[@socosj6383]

I am from Mexico and Estonian men approached me a lot and not only in clubs or bars but in the university, malls, stores. It is the first time in my life that I feel that popular :)

[@meeliskask9177]

Estonian men tend to like latinos

[@Harman_traveler]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@KeillaSellay]

Estonia is not the Sillicon Valley of Europe. That place is reserved to London, judging by the numbers of startups. Yes Estonia is a digital friendly country, but it doesn't even come close at the number of startups compared to London.

[@Rex1987]

i have a little question for Estioninas about your nordic connections: I am Danish have seen in danish documentarty that Tallinn really means "danish town" due to the Danish Crusaders back in the middle ages coming to the city. Is this true or its just danish propagana so to speak? :D also at 11:59 with the people dancing in the street in medival clothing where the sign says "soldans" thats a very clearly a danish word for sun dance :)

[@kallelaur1762]

its true and Dannebrog is from here. I remember the 800th anniversary celebrations. We had a lot of Danes here then. And 800 years ago.

[@kriskt4754]

Taani= Denmark, Linn= City. Turning interwar era period Estonian nationalists wanted to turn Tartu into capital city, since Tallinn is considered as foreign made, but then WW2 and Soviet Union happened.

[@ademox]

Northern Estonia belonged to Denmark until the mid 14th century. So yes, "Tallinn" is basically a "City of Denmark", however the name first appeared in written text around 16th century, long after danish were gone. The city itself had an official german name Reval for centuries. Estonians changed it to Tallinn after 1918 after they gained independence to distance themselves from the then hated german rulers.

[@carleryk]

​@@ademoxBut the name didn't come from nowhere. Germans called it Reval and Estonians called it Tallinn most probably at the same time.

[@minaolenella869]

danish flag is from Tallinn, according to a legend.

[@augustbrante8117]

I am expat in Medellin Colombia. Love it here for now (5yrs). But want to continue my travels and watch tons of videos about other places sort of like yours. But you by far the best in the way you ask questions it gives us a better idea of culture and if we would be good with that or not. Thanks keep up the good work. There is a guy from S. America doing videos like yours but mostly just showing all the beautiful women. I think beautiful women are everywhere. It's the culture that is important to me and I know that not every single person will fit into that stereotype but most will. I could not live in Estonia if they let a female who broke her foot just lie there without helping her. Here in Colombia, I was hit by a car the first week I moved here. There were about 7 [arking meter people who saw it and did nothing. I remember I saw stars it hit me from behind so I didn't see it coming at all. Only scrapped my elbow and lost all of my groceries. So I was lying down in the road got up quickly put a huge dent in the side of the car ran around to the Driver and it was a young girl. Lucky bcs I was planning on yanking out of the car. But the parking meter people did nothing. Here it was not bcs they dont want to get involved. They dont want to get involved with gringo in complicated situations bcs they dont understand English. Sometimes here that works for you too. Police having random stops for motos will have you drive through bcs they dont speak English either. Your twist on all of this is very interesting keep it up!

[@nicolevomm]

Btw, now in Estonia you can get married online as well. Just digitally sign the documents in 5 mins.. And the presence of the 2nd person is optional:)

[@user-bx8go7cj6q]

What, really?

[@Limpi43]

6:10 He said it like it would be a bad thing that nobody start yelling and cursing. Are there really people who prefer the yelling "culture" to the quiet one???

[@piiluja]

I think it wasn't expressed as a bad thing, it was "cultural shock" and not negative one. But indeed many people see anything outside from their own box to be just wrong at first.

[@zasmirko100]

We have. There is great Russian population here and their manner of behavior is often different.

[@piiluja]

Disclaimer: No Estonian men were harmed by doing those interviews.

[@kalma999]

I don't understand when foreigners come to another country that the culture and customs of that country should be the same... not ofc everyone think so.

[@johngonzalez4298]

Have an awesome Thursday, Marina!

[@botlfpx]

I visited Estonia and lived in Pärnu during the USSR (I live in St. Petersburg)

[@uzstiklo7141]

Do you happen to know why so many Russians like remembering that god-awful USSR? Nostalgia for their youth or the totalitarian regime?

[@stanspb763]

@@uzstiklo7141 You are old enough to remember the USSR? Or just going by western propaganda? I spent time in Leningrad in the middle 70s and it and Moscow were rather middle class, and offered unmatched access to culture, and education. In the 80s it declined until end of the USSR, a choice by a president who is hated now because it created forced privatization to criminal groups, a process created by USA "advisors". The 90s were terrible for all but the criminals by by 1999 the corner was turned and the new president started the continuous increase in quality of life that continues today. Older Russians look back on the USSR as a time of security and stability for families, with very good education, leisure time pursuits, access to culture unmatched by any country, long vacations etc. They looked at pride as the only country that could and did defeat the nazis, and absorbed by far the greatest loss of life. 1/2 of the US population would see a dramatic improvement in quality of life if they had the services of USSR of the 70s. Now it is the widest open direct democracy in Europe or the Americas.

[@uzstiklo7141]

@@stanspb763 Yes, I'm old enough to remember those times, unfortunately. Sorry but only deeply traumatised people may talk about 'stability and security' along all the other 'perks' of the Soviet system. Following this logic, prison life isn't that bad, either. North Korea seems to be quite stable, too. Amazing life with no human rights, widespread poverty and 'long vacations' behind the Iron Curtain:) Why go to Paris or New York when you could enjoy 'culture unmatched by any country':) Long queues and smelly half-empty shops built your character. Military style marches around a school hall and obligatory marches in the street to celebrate occupiers' holidays were a dream:) People didn't have to make choices -- things were decided for them. Vielikaja dierzhava, indeed. Brrr.

[@kalebind1]

In this place, on November 20, 1945, Jonas Neifalta-Lakūnas, the commander of the partisan platoon of the Dzūkija region (later Dainava district), died in the battles with the Chekists.

[@uzstiklo7141]

@@kalebind1 Argi Jonas Neifalta-Lakūnas nežuvo Kalniškių miške?

[@renekauts8323]

It's amazing how so many people in the world(even in US and Europe) have never heard of Estonia... God forbid! This country is a member of the European Union and NATO since 2004! It also uses the Euro as its currency! Estonia has a lot of nature, beautiful women and smart children! There is one bad thing though: Russia is a neighbor....................

[@StoneyTree]

True and we had the Estonian kroon before the euro

[@flyby3079]

Probably because of how small the country is.

[@DianaDiana-dr6qv]

A lot of people are ignorant of many countries unfortunately. Also, in a lot of public schools in America, kids don’t learn geography of the world. I never learned all of the countries as a kid in school-I learned them on my own as I grew up.

[@henrikg7661]

Manan must be the most famous estonian person by now 😅

[@MarwanMnawer-jn2xh]

I am here ladies

[@martopoim]

You can register marriage online starting this year.

[@softskillswithkhan]

Country of introverts! Interesting!!

[@jsigur157]

I am starting to believe cold climates breed more reserved cultures

[@Joekool88]

As an extroverted Singaporean, if and ever I go to Estonia, I think I will be really really surprised 😅

[@ericballi4701]

Had a couple of dates with an Estonian woman years ago. Her brutal honesty was just too much for me. It came across to me as arrogance and demeaning. And this was after I dated a German woman, so that is saying something!

[@matchaa121]

I have been to a lot of dates with Estonian men. When it comes to who's paying for the date, it has always been the guy. I don't really know if they actually want to pay but they still do it. I sometimes insist to split the bill, but only when I really don't like the guy and can't wait to get away from him😀

[@stanspb763]

When I invite a woman to an event, opera, club, dinner, drama, bicycle trip etc, I always pay in any of the 92 countries I have dated in. I never turn down a home cooked meal however if they want to reciprocate. If they want to pay, they should organize their own activity and invite me. That might seem old fashion but it is part of the selection process to weed out closet masculine women. Being from the US, I left decades ago because the culture got so crazy and 67 genders were too difficult to navigate, being cancelled or attacked for not knowing which of dozens of pronouns one adopted. By insisting to pay, it diminishes the effort to plan a memorable activity.

[@piiluja]

@@stanspb763 if you have had dates in 92 countries then you must be either some kind of addict or very desperate

[@kalma999]

If i'm dating..womens pays the bill. and they are happy to do it :))

[@nimetulaps]

3:06 as an introvert in Estonia, INTROVERTS DO NOT COME TO ESTONIA lmao, there's a chance some of the people are really rude and overly confident so they're complete assholes, met too many.. like for example drunk old men(sometimes women) or grandparents. Buuuut I mean there's also many that are respective of space and like a good chance they're also introverted. But I still wouldn't recommend :D.

[@suevialania]

Almost half of the people are Russian speakers in Estonia and Latvia, capital's!

[@karilamp558]

You don't have to lie. 69.72% of the permanent residents of Estonia were Estonians. There were 25.2% Russians, 1.74% Ukrainians, 0.97% Belarusians, 0.59% Finns, 0.15% Tatars, 0.15% Jews, 0.14% Latvians, 0.13% Lithuanians and Poles. 0.13%.

[@suevialania]

@@karilamp558 i mean, in 2011 in Tallinn and Riga, almost! And I'm NOT pro Putin's Rússia! Catalonia have similar problem like Estonia and Latvia, not with Russians but with Zpanish!!!

[@Schnoorfunk]

Not all Estonians are like that, you chose wrong people to interview, to be honest.

[@user-mw9io6xi7j]

Allah bless you all please all day and night please ❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊❤❤❤

[@dernevalribeiro4503]

I enjoyed the video. There are things about dating I never thought before and this video showed them to me.Those estonian girls are will grow old an die without my money to pay dates. For I know I am better than the average guy. Maybe it's bad for me, I will sure not date that much.

[@linusfotograf]

"It's cheap if they don't pay..." So she admits to being cheap? Or maybe it was all said in jest?

[@louiseleite3866]

The more I learn about other cultures the more I love being Brazilian ❤🇧🇷

[@sashal7123]

Not surprise at all. Brazil is mainly known for few things: criminal, football, overrated carnivals and maybe videos like "2 girls 1 cup" 🤮 Be proud, be proud... 👍🏼

[@louiseleite3866]

@@sashal7123 Hey wise man. There is a difference between a country and its people. Where did you get the pride thing? I never said I'm proud of that country. Read my comment again, duh..

[@salsaestonia]

Actually now you can get married online as well

[@Yalbou]

Yeah estonian women are shy and reserved. But they forget about that when a really attractive men appears ;)

[@toomuchinformation]

Of course they will; they're human beings.

[@bonsummers2657]

Make India Great!

[@priitpriit259]

All these videos about Estonia are awesome, but they only talk about Tallinn. Get out of Tallinn and find out. In Estonia, the saying is a country within a country. The people of the country side have to collect money to go to Tallinn for a vacation, a concert, a museum...

[@kriimdriim]

I'm not from Tallinn and find this quite an exaggeration. Do not know anybody who has difficulties finding 10 euros for a bus ticket or 30-40 euros for a museum, or restaurant. Most drive cars anyway and EE is so small you can get anywhere very quickly.

[@valentinbiah8211]

Thanks for taking Manan out of the closet. He looks nice from a distance.

[@drrubsom]

Brasiliam Living America 🇺🇸. 2024 keep going

[@peace-a]

Cubans will most definitely stick out like a sore thumb in Estonia since they're so loud, lol.

[@perkelix]

Close enough. Somewhat like Finland, but more old-fashion (especially the Russian minority), and yet much more independent women than in Finland.

[@TheTerkzzz]

This is a dated view of the whole population but okay.

[@Sa7biUK]

@@TheTerkzzz You mean it hurts your fEeLiNgS

[@TheTerkzzz]

@@Sa7biUK It is just not what is the whole truth..

[@CuriouslyWatching]

Day 2 of requesting to date Marina

[@moibe182]

Finland----->Estonia----->Latin Countries-> 😊

[@person-yu8cu]

doesn't sound that different from canada. a country of introverts is the first thing i think about when i hop on a bus here.

[@stanspb763]

A lot fewer, if any, Nazis in Estonia.

[@chetyoubetya8565]

Sorry becoming someones friend should not have to require massive effort.This sounds like a big drain on someone and I can see why people just don't bother.

[@He_l_en]

They meant it just takes little bit time to win theyr trust not like you have to bring moon and stars for them or smth. If you win theyr trust eventually, its much more rewarding cause you can be sure that they truly like you and like spending time with you As an Estonian who lived in Australia for a year, it was so weird how ppl were so “friendly”, “nice” and etc. It was tiring for me cause it seemed soooo fake. Sure, several ppl werent fake and actually were nice but this learned fake friendliness gives me trust issues cause I dont understand is the person genuine with me or not

[@He_l_en]

And no, I think that becoming someones friend requires effort. Friends are more than just people with who you meet time to time and do things together. Its much more deeper and you should ‘work hard’ to become friends with someone

[@salsaestonia]

You are confusing friends with acquaintances. People tend to have a few friends and a lot of acquintances. Becoming someone's friend should always require work.

[@chetyoubetya8565]

@@He_l_en I don’t know what type of friends you have but I never had to work to have friends it’s something that just happens you don’t plan it and you can’t make it happen either the whole idea that you have to basically make someone like you or make someone have something in common with you it’s not friendship I don’t know what it is but it’s not friendshipI’ve never had to work at being someone’s friend.

[@chetyoubetya8565]

@@He_l_en Win someone over? That’s not friendship. You can’t make friendship happen it just happens naturally if you have to play games and do silly little things like that then I can see why people in the country don’t have friends.

[@waviiyoungprince]

Maybe i was too quick to judge Estonia woman. I have reconsider my opinion of Estonia people i think the problem is not enough interaction with other cultures might be the problem, i will reconsider visiting Estonia i think i was too fast to judge and now i think it is a good idea to visit especially since im into technology and im looking to retire somewhere i can continue my quest to get into the technology era. Looking forward to visiting in the future

[@Heizler]

Hungarians' nordic cusins. ❤

[@diamondsarenotforever8542]

​@@friendofenkidu3391Racially Hungarians are very different ppl.

[@pmcllc1]

Let me guess with alcohol everything gets better

[@riskonr1]

Why didn't you interview any Estonian men? Seems unfair.

[@ortolitore1522]

Estonian men know nothing about dating foreign women, that's the reason probably. The second reason - these interviews were made in the tourist areas in the middle of day and the Estonian men were mostly at work.

[@sigmamaleLGBT4703]

​@@ortolitore1522so Estonian women don't work or just work at night as prostitutes? Is that?

[@ibelieveinhumanity8312]

I live in estonia over 4 years but trust me if you are sociable and an extrovert ,its very boring place.Nothing is wrong here but people are so different and boring.Even men here are shy which is wooow for me but I made some connection here with a lot of efforts .

[@DM-nl7kf]

The Estonians says that they are related with Japanese, Koreeans, etc.! The Finns and Hungarians too!

[@toomuchinformation]

Yes, the Finns and Hungarians share the same language root. How did that happen?

[@MikaelMahsudjan]

It seems like every Estonian has social anxiety.

[@piiluja]

Thanks. Looking from Estonian side it seems like any foreigner has attention deficit disorder.

[@Antti-ox1ho]

And every Finn too according the foreigner people.😄 Though the Eastern Finnish people from Karelia and Savonia and Finn Swedes may seem a little bit more social than the rest Finns. Greetings from Finland! Terveisiä Suomesta!

[@redevilrrr]

@@Antti-ox1ho Yup. And Estonians in Finland stand out as being chatty, though many of them are blue collar workers residing in Finland as Estonian salaries are shamefully low. Most of the people from Southern Europe or Latin America who move to Baltics or Scandinavia move back, because the cultural and social norms are too different. Living in Estonia is also far from being a cheaper option than Finland because rent, utilities and food is basically the same now.

[@markellis6101]

Like humans from Estonia?

[@waviiyoungprince]

From this video Estonia people seen as cold and indifferent as there weather. Sorry but not appealing. Probably wont visit for that reason being Italian we are very social and passionate people. Dont think they wpuld make a good fit for people like me. No offense

[@redevilrrr]

Yes, most Italians who move to Estonia soon relocate back. Culture is too different, weather hot most of the year and overrun by tourists. I personally know at least 5 Italians who moved back, 2 for jobs and 3 because their relationship with Estonians didn´t work out.

[@Nassuist]

this video showed nothing about estoninan culture :D well damn... i was watching it and wondering wtf is this vid talking about :D

[@victor________]

sounds like a nightmare

[@martinkoitmae6655]

For Estonians living in Estonia is perfect, most of us are introverted anyway

[@stiglarsen795]

If you do not know yourself and do not master your feelings and does not care on your role on earth, it is a nightmare. You have to be a strong soul to live in the cold and dark, not beeing a loud human baby. All nordic countries are much more rich and developed than the ought to be based on their small populations. Could not live a place beeing different than introvert culture but you have to be strong to live in the Nordics and yes sometimes it is hard.

[@karllol1378]

why interviewing only Estonian women?

[@GeorgE-yo5yc]

With all due respect - Estonia is not the Nordics. Fact. It is a wannabe Nordics. Let´s call a spade a spade. Geographically, Estonia is the Baltics. Historically, Estonia is the Baltics. And despite having made impressive strides towards becoming a modernised, well-being country, Estonia still ha a long way to go to fit in with its 5 Nordic neighbours.

[@camping4u]

tallin = beautiful tytot and alkohol and almonds :D

[@Reaperman529]

but estonian man likes to speak with foreigners if they are little tipsy.

[@holytrauma2198]

As an Estonian... Tallinn is not estonia. I get that you guys what to make videos in the capital and be cool but you are really missing it with it. and where the fuck did you get these guys xD fuck me

[@Frivals]

Having a black color in their flag then can imagine their mentality 😂

[@redevilrrr]

@VladVernygora-ug8sw TBH nothing good ever comes from the east and no neighbour of Russia wants to do anything with them because Russian main exports are oil, misery, mass murder and poverty.