What are the Mature vs Immature Versions of the 16 Personalities?

[@FrankJames]

Watch "Signs the 16 Personalities are Not on the Right Path" next 👉 infj.me/3AKtv0u

[@Ferrothorn462]

They say a stranger's come to town

[@abhishekmaurya6352]

Please put time stamp in you vids please 🙏🥺

[@infdox9051]

Mature = dead

[@KittyCat-Luz]

@@Ferrothorn462 They call him Mr.Frank James :)

[@Ferrothorn462]

@@KittyCat-Luz Strollin' down the internet boulevard

[@elishaso]

0:00 ISTJ 1:02 ISFP 1:43 ESTP 2:31 ISTP 3:11 ISFJ 3:46 ESTJ 4:27 ESFP 5:06 ENTJ 5:47 ESFJ 6:32 ENTP 7:01 ENFJ 7:53 ENFP 8:43 INTP 9:27 INFP 10:28 INTJ 11:38 INFJ

[@geekygirl0333]

Wow, that was incredibly fast! Thank you!

[@rhondaallen6878]

Thank you for the timestamps

[@valkyrja-]

Literally what I was hoping to find lol TY

[@i_ate_the_context]

W comment

[@KitKatBanana]

@@valkyrja- same

[@mayuuraa]

that pie recipe story at the start- 💀💀💀

[@narkystart]

🤣🤣🤣

[@sheep-sheep]

💀

[@johnpett1955]

The sass the grandma had when saying "oopsie" 😂

[@luzellemoller6621]

Lol

[@oliviah.5846]

Not me sweating profusely in anticipation of the ENFP bit…

[@LoveHandle4890]

It takes a lot of maturity to maintain 16 different personalities. Props to you, Frank.

[@Ferrothorn462]

lol

[@pitrek121g]

One to rule them all

[@bluej7135]

I have the power to make it 1k likes, and I'm gonna use it!

[@adventureboy444]

As a INTJ, I used to make my plan like a straight path. Then when something in the way, I realize I should make a backup plan at least 2 or 3. Now I always make sure I have a backup plan for everything. And all of them failed anyway

[@itznakoma]

oh noooo.

[@platoriamS]

That's when you should realize that not everything can or should be planned and improvising is also an important aspect

[@itznakoma]

@@platoriamS true

[@vapx0075]

One pays more attention when they're "actively" searching the video and using the timestamp links so I'm ok with this. or just take it all in as a fun video. works either way

[@vincentvanderweide5653]

Unfortunally, von Moltke the Elder was right when he said "Therefore no plan of operations extends with any certainty beyond the first contact with the main hostile force."

[@OtakuAnime01]

I’m an INFP and can relate to feeling like I’m “always the dreamer and almost never a doer”. I come up with so many ideas, but never put them into action.

[@mari_moon3191]

There's so many things going on in my head lol

[@heiresslaite2950]

Same here. It's getting..

[@JaxBox1]

Exactly I have a lot ideas I wrote down but idk why I can’t make it come true

[@AnaGD]

I'm still writing the script

[@michellediaz2962]

Yeah , me too , i have like 4 or 5 notebooks with ideas , plans , and thoughts that i have , but most of them just ended in the black hole of my drawer xdd i want so bad make a comuc or write a novel , but i just can't organize my ideas in order to building it something i want to create xdd please help 🙃😂😅😅

[@thangray531]

I’m 40 (male and INTP). My late wife (39 not male, no longer alive and ENFP) and I always loved sharing your videos with each other to rub the other’s face in our self made dumpster fire. It always made us laugh. Can’t tell you how, but this video made me feel like I was home for a few minutes. I thank you kindly.

[@pitrek121g]

Took me 30 years to get that I am not everyone's savior as INFJ. Still learning where to set boundaries 😵

[@maeiia18]

MBTI Timestamps~ 0:00 ISTJ 1:02 ISFP 1:44 ESTP 2:30 ISTP 3:11 ISFJ 3:46 ESTJ 4:27 ESFP 5:06 ENTJ 5:47 ESFJ 6:32 ENTP 7:01 ENFJ 7:53 ENFP 8:42 INTP 9:27 INFP 10:28 INTJ 11:38 INFJ

[@havefun3470]

I'm an INFJ and the advice you gave in ENFJ, INFP and INTJ part also resonated with me, other than INFJ part of course. Great video! 😊

[@SecondFloor2311]

Was thinking the exact same! Holy crap. Those others all had aspects that are very relevant in my life, plus the INTP 'armchair expert' stuff (I'm so gonna use this word although I did feel attacked lol)

[@DearLucky111]

Same here!! I was just thinking that am I a part of all these four mbti😅 I think many infjs would relate to that.

[@eliabynascimento6618]

Oh gosh, the same happened to me! I was even "hmm, maybe I have to take that test again, 'cause maybe I'm not INFJ"

[@Pinkywinkykinky]

The Enfj one jived with me and I'm Enfp

[@aninfphilosophy]

I'm INFP and the advice he gave ENFJ, INTP, and INFJ resonated so much with me lol. So interesting!

[@edi9892]

For me (INTJ) my biggest flaw was trying to stay in control of everything and thus doing everything by myself and horting resources, but barely ever using them. Quite ironic for someone obsessed with efficiency... Yes, trust issues play a role and I've seen baffling examples of incompetence...

[@Yash-1509]

relatable

[@Brevicauda]

I do have control issues and tried to fix them by having more flexibility. But it didn't work. So, I chose to have things in control again. But this time I learned to be more realistic and considerate. INTJ by the way

[@Brittwhales]

Since INFJ was last, I was patiently anticipating what it could be… So accurate. I used to refer to myself as the workplace counselor because people just automatically opened up to me and used me as a tool to help solve their emotional problems. I actually enjoyed some of it, though other times it was very paralyzing because I didn’t want to be insensitive. In my family, I was often held responsible for solving others’ emotional dramas. Now I can say, “Not my problem.”

[@ThornWolf1]

I'm an INFP, and I definitely get sucked into my ideas and fantasies, primarily because if I have an idea I worry about forgetting it. I've come to the conclusion that if I have an idea for a story, for example, to just write it down/type it out, I don't have to worry about forgetting it. It doesn't have to be pretty, I can edit it to my heart's content later. But now I don't have to obsess over it. But I also really related to the ENFJ. I couldn't set boundaries for a long time and just got trampled by people, including the person I had a 6 year serious relationship with. He'd do something that hurt me, I'd tell him that, and he'd either explain it away or say he wouldn't do that again just to do it again later. And I'd forgive him every time because he knew how to twist it into making me feel like the person who was the problem, that no one else would have an issue with what he was doing, it was just me. It wasn't until after he left me for the person he was seeing on the side that I realized just how manipulative he was of my real need to try to see the best in people and forgive them for their lousy behavior.

[@johnpett1955]

Yeah ENFJs and INFPs are actually pretty similar due to being shadow types.

[@Ahnm1406]

I'm sorry you had to go through all that. Such relationships can be very painful and can progressively make you forget what you think is right, what you like and dislike, and what makes you special. I hope you are recovering well! My ex-wife also left me after 5~6 years for a different reason. While she was truly a great partner and didn't push my boundaries, I was always too focused on supporting her, being by her side, following her lead, and I ended up forgetting about my own plans, friends and preferences over time. I see that as my own mistake, assuming we were a great team, our deep connection was more than enough and that I should work to make it last forever. Then it suddenly ended, and I felt completely lost for quite a while. I didn't know what the past years were meant for, where I wanted to live, what I should buy for myself, where I should travel to in my vacations. I realized I didn't even have close friends to talk about the divorce, because all of my closest friends at that time were actually hers, and I kind of lost them indirectly too. I'm also an INFP and it took me a long time to process those feelings alone and find myself once again. Keeping up with my writing and recovering my love for playing music helped me a lot.

[@FireFeather214]

I am an INFJ and my girlfriend is an ENFJ who I am still trying to kindly explain to her that I cannot be fed useless information about how her day went with people (coworkers of hers that I’ve never met before) because it bogs me down, and I end up procrastinating on creating my novel. Being an INFJ is awesome but it also kinda sucks sometimes when you have to tell people you that love to back off for like 5 weeks so you can level out your thoughts and emotions again, so that your creativity is free to vibrantly flourish again.

[@d.p.trivedi]

Both INTJ and INFJ stories feel relatable. 🎯

[@hollyvincentart]

I related to both the ISFP and INFP. When I was younger I would always cancel plans at the last minute because I didn't feel like it anymore 😄I also really relate to needing to go into 'Monk mode' but now I'm a bit older, I've started to take action more and actually put some work in to get started on creative projects and it's made me feel really good about myself and like I'm making more of an impact by putting my art into world instead of letting it simmer inside my head, I'm even connecting more with others because of it. I used to not even bother to do anything physical with my ideas because I thought it would be a waste of time and no one would care or be interested in them anyway. My advice for younger INFPs is to not be afraid to take the first step, no matter how small it might be, because you never know what stairs that step might lead to ☺

[@gracebohler4380]

Can confirm INFP is accurate 😅

[@luisj.m2471]

I've struggled with monk mode most of my life. It's so difficult to get away from it

[@elysebuehrer5981]

I’m having an immature INFP day. I laughed when you called me out like that, and also felt inspired to make the rest of the evening more mature… okay, that sounds… never mind.

[@kaliah1494]

I get what Frank means about ENFPs but I think this only shows the "jokey" side of us. I've found that I have just have a general lack of "vibe awareness". I'll go along with what ever momentary thought or emotional dialogue that comes to my mine, including dark moods and deep analytical discussion at a cheery party and bringing the entire mood down, because the thought was interesting to me.

[@kellikakes81]

Ha! This is me as well (and typically about MBTI or Ennegram lol). I have to consciously tell myself, "Sam, nobody cares. Be in the moment and enjoy the party/event and go dance or something lol!"

[@JadedeaJade]

Yup, mine is usually about human behavior, pointing out things that everyone does, and apparently no one likes to hear. Like for instance, in videos such as these, most people only comment about themselves, rarely view it from a community perspective and comment or upvote on other posts, and love to say, "As a ..." I might be pointing out the obvious, and I may not.

[@holleighlordel1575]

Yeah I’m not so jokey either. Sometimes totally tuned in to the vibes, sometimes oblivious until I realize what’s going on and have to bring it down a notch. Or Sometimes I catch the vibe immediately but don’t care and just carry on my way anyway. And sometimes I really just don’t give a crap about what outrageous shade of eyeshadow celebrity xyz wore to whatever award show because there are people facing unspeakable trauma in the world and shouldn’t we try to help them!… but nobody in the room wants to go deep with me. Sigh. I’m so often the square peg trying to fit into the round hole. 🙃🤷🏻‍♀️

[@rbdb8953]

​@@holleighlordel1575I'm a square peg in a round hole too, too often . . .

[@nabila1379]

Wow. That INFJ scenario happened to me a few years ago. It took more than three people to tell me to stop thinking too much about my friend's relationship issues.

[@justkickinit8488]

Yeah I felt like this scenario describes about half of the anxiety I experienced in my late teens to mid 20s. I’m getting better at that exact scenario, but boundaries are so difficult to set and I’m working on that

[@kaylaisawesome9952]

I love the little scenarios before the explanation of each type

[@cloink_7605]

i feel like the videos are getting more visually interesting and fun and fast paced but at the same time i miss the not-so-perfect and slower paced videos with more detailed explanations and bloopers *so yeah in short frank bring them back*

[@shillout]

I miss them too, it's those videos we "fell in love with." But this is what he wants to do and enjoys, like he has said. So let him do it his way, by making us laugh while we expand our minds 🥰

[@AdorableOracle]

They are always there when we want to watch them too :) Plus on his second channel there may be some new vlogs at some point as well! :)

[@NYCGlamDork]

I miss the bloopers too. There is probably still the sage, bearded, sometimes man bun wearing frank in there. He’s just forever, changing and growing as a person and a creator. Wow, I’m really sappy today….

[@sangriad.938]

i love this current style more actually

[@啊啊啊啊-m4s]

INTP: It’s not like we are never going to use our knowledge…it’s just we haven’t come across the right circumstances to use them yet. Which probably won’t happen in the next 100 years.

[@sesyblue1563]

That's why we have "to learn" to use the right knowledge in the right circumstances. Like making priorities, select, organize that knowledge with the intent of applying it. Having useless knowledge it's like being stupid and I don't like it (even if it's fun learning it). INTP

[@IronDiva]

I am a mature INTJ, and I approve this message.

[@BibleBoy70X7]

Dear Editor: It was a little hard to remember which of the 16 personalities FJ was talking about at some parts of the video. My suggestion would be sticking the initials for personality type that is being talked about into the corner of the screen. Hopefully that makes sense.🙂 But then again, maybe others have different, better thoughts and ideas? Great job Editor! We love you!❤

[@autisticdancer]

I like that idea! Yeah, sometimes I tend to space out mid-video (not because it's boring btw, just because my brain does that sometimes) and forget what personality type FJ is talking about so I have to rewind to remind myself. I think putting the personality type initials in the corner would be helpful. :)

[@AmyMarie1992]

I second that! Also, some videos have text that disappears to quickly to read. Great video as usual though!

[@klowee5240]

Or a timestamp but then again it is available in the comments so......

[@chrisfeng7619]

Made you look

[@Granzteelvids]

Hello my fellow intuitive minded people lol

[@roominesstv]

INTJ here - Frank, you used 16 specific examples! That was a lot of work for you. Well done!

[@medusagorgon9]

You are spot on! I became so stressed out over a neighbor who used me as her emotional comfort blanket that I packed up my house and moved away. Not matter what I did or said she would appear or call at all hours of the day and night. When I tried to create boundaries, she began using her personal issues to manipulate me! I learned a very painful lesson from her! #infj

[@blancheb3533]

Yes I'm INFJ and over the years I've just learned to set those boundaries and make it hard for people to chat me lol

[@alistairmarston9405]

I’m an INFP and proud to say that I know who Adrian Monk is! Would definitely recommend the show “Monk” to anyone who likes murder mysteries with a bit of comedy.

[@thunderbirdice]

Have you watched “Marvelous Mrs Maisel” on prime video? The same actor plays the father of the main character. It’s a wonderful comedy series.

[@tracieanderson6813]

I'm INFP I also love watching monk☺️ I love psych show too❤️❤️

[@RosheenQuynh]

It's so weird finding fans of the show! But it's cool too

[@aneesacues]

INFP! and i LOVE monk. i miss it.

[@tracieanderson6813]

I wonder what mbti monk is ☺️

[@JimmyThaJam]

This was a great format for understanding the mature vs. immature aspects of the 16 personalities. Gold!

[@perrytheplate]

Another thing infj struggle with is accepting criticism. I like to think I’m mature, but it still blows hard hearing something I put thought into isn’t as good as I thought it’d be. Depending on how someone words criticism I can take it more easily if they say it like an advice, upgrading something per say, but if it sounds as if the thing I put thought into is bad, needing to be fixed, my face often reddens even though I know I shouldn’t be so embarrassed and shamed.

[@StephanieJeanne]

That was great! I loved the ISFJ one going to College A after all. The dad was hilarious being disappointed!😂 All these were great lessons done with your speical brand of humor. 😂Thanks as always, Frank!😊💜

[@thunderbirdice]

😅I’m ISFJ.

[@alyssert1743]

I really like the way you came up with a story for each personality. It was probably time-consuming, but i think it really adds to the video and makes it easier to grasp for a lot of people. It’s also kinda fun guessing which personality each story was for and even the stories that werent my personality I still watch (for most videos I do anyway) because its interesting to learn about them in case I could meet one someday. I also really like how you improvise and don’t have a strict script that you stick closely to. It makes the videos a lot more interesting and fun to watch :)

[@aahanachand3062]

As an ISFP, I never knew ISFPs could be inconsiderate. Yes, I'm really moody and do whatever I feel like and whenever, but if it's hurting anyone in ANY WAY then I would never. I don't know if this is an ISFP thing or not but I'm quite good at observing/sensing the atmosphere/vibes around me and quickly notice if someone is uncomfortable with my activities. I'm think I'm okay-ish mature haha

[@kellikakes81]

Usually in the moment -- like in front of people (Se) -- ISFPs will do what you just said, but if they made plans with a group of people, some ISFPs have no problem instantly changing their minds last minute, to do what they "feel" instead of doing what has been planned for weeks, because those people aren't in front of them to feel that pressure (or maybe they're compelled to do whats in front in them at that very moment instead of the plan). Admittedly, I do the same sometimes, although I'm ENFP, but I push through more times than some ISFPs I know (we are known as flakes too but in my experience, ISFPs flake way more and for different reasons lol). (My "Ne" kicking in right now) Another way of looking at this behavior is empowering for an ISFP *IF* they tend to typically push through majority of the time (activating their Te too much) and then decide to be true to themselves and do what they truly resonate with at their core value (Fi) by "flaking." However, that's a different type of scenario (and usually a heated interaction lol).

[@marinhusky8863]

As someone who dated an ISFP, this happened all the time, but as with all things, I think there are degrees of how closely we adhere to our "type"

[@aahanachand3062]

@@kellikakes81 I know, change of moods is for real in ISFPs. They may feel like crying one second and laughing the other. I think because the Se is constantly taking in the surroundings and that causes them to keep viewing different things and get influenced by it. The Fi also plays a role here like you said, because Fi doms do what they 'feel' like lol. Yes they can be flaky.

[@kellikakes81]

@@aahanachand3062 yup! They may get too caught up in the present moment sometimes. I'm usually there to activate their tertiary Ni and sometimes that blindspot Ne lol. And btw, 2 of my closest friends are ISFPs and I love them to death! One for 30+ years and the other 20+ years. Love ISFPs!

[@tinygardentomato]

My sister is an immature ISFP😢

[@MarianneAngel147]

Dealing with an enfp teenager right now... I have never dealt with anything more draining in my life. Enfj and infj are spot on. I relate to both and have just recently started doing those things, so yay :))

[@mtc-j9i]

I laughed hysterically at this, and I’m in public right now, so that’s awkward. INFJ woman here. I identified with the INFJ issues, and it’s a reason I isolate….people really have you enlisted to solve and listen to their problems 24/7! Dude! I have my own problems!!! But I also overly identified with the INTJ’s cooking shows because I’m an avid watcher of cooking shows. I’ve definitely taken in years of lessons….make sure my equipment is just right….and I’m not exactly a great Cook 😂 I also identify with monk mode (although I’m usually really getting something done, even if it’s just inner peace work or catching up on house work). The other one that made me laugh really hard is the INTJ…. Basically all the IN’s had me laughing way too hard!!!! We have issues.

[@cloink_7605]

yooo the educational videos are back idc i’m giving a like goodbye infj vs normal mums

[@ramsesemerson]

INTJ here--I never had a chance to be an overplanner because my family was nothing but unexpected situations growing up. I kinda think there has to be another form of immature INTJ based on environment

[@HLA-vh5of]

I'm a infp and struggle with the notion that I'm not productive enough, but I'm a working parent and my time is full. Sometimes it's OK to relax and rest. I have big dreams but there's only so much I can do with the time that I have and thats OK.

[@anchiatai]

Loving this new format with examples. Makes everything interesting and easy to understand.

[@mybeautifuldoggies]

What a clever way to point out people's faults, and the solutions, all without offending anyone! You, my friend, are a genius! ... and a very good person. 😊

[@LeafLeafy]

Usually in these longer breakdowns of how the types work (when traits are grouped individually), I tend to skip around by timestamp, but these were so entertainingly done that I watched all the way through and learned a lot about some of the other types as a consequence 🤭

[@segfault1361]

As an ISTJ I can relate to the immature ISTJ (being too pedantic with rules without understanding the "big picture" intent), as well as the other close introverted types, the ISFJ (trying too hard to make sure everyone's happy and walking on eggshells for every interaction), and the INTJ (being inflexible with plans and not accounting for things that can go wrong and blaming others when it does). These are the things I've been working on over the years so it's pretty accurate.

[@echo5435]

As an ISFJ, I am proud to say I actually went to the school I chose, instead of the one my dad wanted me to go to. ... I am not as proud to say the only reason I wanted to go there was because all my friends were going.

[@Bleepboop_killerducks]

As an INFP, I found myself relating to ENFJ's one a little more. I think it's because i don't really go 'monk mode', I just think about writing that script whilst I'm going about my business. If I didn't have to go to school i would spend most of my time in my room doing nothing tho.

[@AdorableOracle]

❤Happy to be learning today Prof. Frank. Hope all is well :)

[@luckyvia1807]

Well this is pretty accurate , im an enfj , and exactly a year ago i could never say no to anything , because i thought that saying no is mean or rude , and i cant be more proud today because i just ended 4 weeks ago a toxic 8 year freindship but really yall i learned this the hard way but dont burn urself to keep others warm , and saying no is not rude

[@Brevicauda]

The biggest wake-up call for me as an INTJ was when I had to admit my defeat that my lifelong plan had a flaw and that was not considering reality as an inconsistent high-risk variable 😏 Wake up you fool! There's no heroic ending in your story, it is reality! Anything possible! Including your downfall! 😪 And when I wake up from that 'Narrative' Utopia. I began to rewrite my life once again from scratch!

[@jackieschesnuk6669]

Diving right into one of the examples without an intro was an awesome change up! It got me wondering, got my attention and got me hooked! Well done Mr. James

[@princesserika9899]

The INFJ scenario, accurate cuz that actually happened to me one time 😅 I remember being stuck in the middle of someone's rant about something or somebody that I don't know how to help them out in messy situations. Even if I gave them a little of advice, it still bothers them on the next day. Sometimes I say "It's up to you", "It depends on you" or "I think you should reflect on those problems and see what kind of solutions that can resolve them" 😃

[@Democratic_Idiocracy9833]

"Why not?" 😂😂 As a rebellious INTP, I will say I love this line lol. Edit: I was planning to get back to my comfort zone but since I watched your video for INTPs, I just realized I wanted to get out of my comfort zone again and socialize with other people even if it's against my will so that I can share my knowledge to them and of course, I can share my theory about molecules, theory in cognitive psychology, theory in political ideology such as the combination of Nationalism and Conservatism and the theory in personality psychology. Maybe the universe called me to watch your videos since I accidentally clicked this and the universe want me to get out of that comfort zone so that I can go in the right path. I appreciate this video!

[@meowbie.x.9880]

Mee too 😹..like this video finally convinced me to share my knowledge about Psychology, the paranormal world, etc..

[@ellier2018]

This was so awesome! Love the sensory examples, maybe I’ll show this video to myESFJ parents bc the concrete examples you used made it easy to understand!

[@Limitless306]

The man is back with real stuff 🥳🥳🥳

[@SirachaSauce]

Cool video! Thanks for not announcing the names of the personalities right away and starting with the "Imagine" scenarios; I liked guessing who's who before it was stated - INFP

[@andhereismyspout]

I love the "imagine if" style of these clips! - an INFP :P

[@uki8152]

so, I am an ISFJ, and your scenario is LITERALLY what just happened to me this week. I ended up choosing the highschool I wanted to attend, so yeah!

[@anaverna2682]

The most relatable thing I had ever seen (ENFJ) You make such a lot of effort and creativity to show all these specifics in a REALLY well-done prepared way, like the better blueberry pie ever THANK YOU FJ, your channel always both give some good spirit and the important info as well, wish you well and tasty blueberry pies 🧡🥧🫐

[@Adwiti_Mishra]

Lmao.....I just LOVED every skit/example so much, especially the ESFP one! Frank you're really funny! It keeps getting better and better.

[@shanahaneuropa]

Really enjoyed everything about this video!! The content, structure, editing, and especially the scathing reads of each type lol

[@salmasuuu]

I must be an immature infp then.. at the prime age of 21 lol

[@suzanna3838]

So much greater episode compared to the stock videos! I would even prefer Frank just talking to the camera compared to those videos.

[@erinb9647]

So got called out there!! Often times I would joke around and laugh expecting others to chime in with their laughters... Nope!!--- Spoken Words from an ENFP But. Do we ever really grow up. 😉😉

[@pizza8725]

Good advice bc sometimes what i learn is really out of this world-INTP

[@floz9956]

This is so on point for the various MBTI types of people I know and myself, it made me truly laugh out loud. In my mind, I see these as the 'nailing it' or 'failing it' moments that we fluctuate between throughout easier and more challenging times. When I see those less-helpful behaviours from myself it's always a warning sign that I need to tweak something in my life. Like actually doing something instead of thinking endlessly about it. No more ruminating, time to ruminACT!!! Or something...

[@emmaboberg6818]

The scenario about becoming an emotional trashcan to your friend who is venting to you about a problem, hit waaay too hard! I have been there too many times, but I'm learning to set healthy boundaries, and in that way not soaking up all their thoughts and feelings like a sponge and also becoming more helpful to my friend

[@MissSaltyShark]

I was not at all expecting the ENTP one to go in that direction, but I’m glad it did. Keeping promises has always been something I’ve struggled with. So thanks, now I know what I need to work on! 😂😅

[@GKFF9872]

Thanks for confirming I’m a mature ENFJ *hair flip*

[@ChefGamrLafs]

Who else just jumped ahead to their own personality or personality of family or friend member?

[@esrae.-.]

I like this new format. It's good to experiment in presentation techniques, this turned out fun I think. Also the examples are on point, they feel anecdotal. They resonated a lot with my real life experiences with people. Thank you and have a good day :)

[@watashinonawakirayoshikage]

IxTP, INFP and INYJ were relatable in this one. Thanks for another new, good, interesting video! Am always waiting for new videos🙂

[@veronicao4643]

Great video. As an INTP, I hate that I’m a thinker but not a doer. I get into my head that I need to be an “expert” in order to do something. I’m trying to move away from this line of thinking.

[@meowbie.x.9880]

As an INTP too..🙂..like..we know everything yet.. not do or able to do anything? Idk..like ..just stop thinking n do it😭

[@BerryBearBeaver]

Loving the new video format of just jumping right into the examples! 😁

[@Xyz_669]

As a mature person, I like this.

[@dmela9156]

Infp here I am always in my imagination, but when i am starting to write my ideas, then I am just caught myself panicking because I want to make it perfect and forget make a story done so in the end I just never finish it

[@RA-zq1ni]

i really liked the format of this video! it was both entertaining and educational

[@keyraedynamite]

The curly wig moving to and ~fro~😅 as the friend vents to INFJ 😂😂😂

[@nathalieprange1713]

The ESFP's "Why not?" really got me 😂😂😂 Great video, super funny and very informative for every type! Great work, FJ!! I confirm the ENFP one, hahaha!

[@affinity266]

Great explanation, great sense of humor, great video. Thanks for your efforts, Frank.

[@Miluielle]

ENFJ - it's happened to me too many times, takers will take and of course since I have empathy for the lost, rejected or troubled individuals I used to choose and attract friends who did not have the capacity to be friends back! I really struggled with letting go and or boundaries. I now try to give myself the advice as if I were giving it to someone else. Would I advise someone else to keep being friends with someone that treated them that badly over and over again? Who never put into the relationship? No, I would be absolutely indignant for the other person over that sort of treatment so why don't I feel the same care factor for myself? It's not all about them, I matter too.

[@douglasbrown8288]

This is an excellent video, FJ. I've seen dozens of them on your channel, and this one is one of your best for sure. It's going to be useful to a lot of people.

[@EmmiElek-rm1sk]

I really loved the structure of this video, now I can relate to being the friend of every personality.

[@linmonPIE]

I have to admit I’m an immature INFP. Monk mode forever until some sort of deadline pops up then I end up in situations like the immature INTJ where it feels like everything that can go wrong will go wrong when I’m actually trying to get something done. I do realize that big inconveniences would only be minor inconveniences if I had started working on the thing earlier, but I think I’ve accidentally Pavloved myself into believing that doing stuff is always going to be a somewhat painful experience. 😅🙃

[@purplemind93]

Thanks for attracting and until next time stay cool and creative Frank!

[@anyamirza6969]

As an immature intj, bro explained the biggest problem that I have

[@maaiker2977]

Infj BINGO! You can't help everyone. Had to learn that the hard way. Listen up infj's... * some people don't want your help. * some people you can't help, cause...for example its a friend of a friends issue you are listening to. Or the requirements are missing to do anything. Or you simply don't have the time or energy. No is allowed too and doesn't require an explanation. * some people aren't really in need of help (!!). They play victim to manipulate you. Or make their problem into your problem to be lazy themselves. And last but not least, what is helping? Me doing their thing for them isn't really helping....its just me getting that thing thrown to me every time cause "you know how to do it and I don't". Don't play saviour....play coach instead and teach them how to help themselves so you don't need to help them anymore. 👍😃

[@alice9510]

As an INFP I realize that I do get very wrapped up in my feelings, and it's easy for me to get depressed. The only way for me to get stuff done is to basically psyche myself out, pretending that I don't have an emotional connection to whatever is bothering me. I hate that tho, feels as if im a robot. I think the only way for INFPs to get thru sht is to just focus on goals and nothing or no one else... AT ALL.

[@veracuskar3017]

Thank you for showing a range of different possibilities. It's worth to try... Wish you a nice Monday.🙏🙂🍫

[@supersillyus3r]

My mum is an ISFJ and she struggles with others in her workplace making use of the fact that she finds it hard to say “no” to helping someone. Dad is an ESTJ and has a hard time listening out others opinions when he’s mad. I am an ENTP and as a few years ago I got a group of random strangers into an online project, all of us worked on it for a week and then I ghosted them. Spot on FJ!

[@LMaeCook]

As an INFP and a Monk fan I appreciate this. 👍

[@chachathepigeon]

I guess what any personality type who wants to become more mature could take with them from this video is: - know your own boundaries - think of how your actions affect others - take care of your own needs - be open-minded - be honest - get stuff done

[@kdcadenza4170]

My isfj friend went from immature to mature when they wanted to marry a partner their parents didn't approve of. That was the tipping point

[@emilylauraa]

As an INFP I feel so called out 😅 just the other day I spent the whole day processing emotions and got nothing done. I didn't even really journal. I had my journal open but most of it just stayed in my head

[@alice9510]

The only way for me to get stuff done is to basically psyche myself out, pretending that I don't have an emotional connection to whatever is bothering me. I hate that tho, feels as if im a robot.

[@IrielSaucedo]

i'm ISTP and when i was in school i always wanted to skip classes and go to different places just for fun and my sister didn't understand how i could do that (INFJ) and i always found the things my sister was interested in as boring or stupid. and now I'm watching a video on youtube of the 16 personalities that she loves so much. And the truth is that I accept many things that I didn't before and that I know I don't have to judge anyone's tastes. no matter how boring they are...

[@CaveyMoth]

Ironically, a lot of the ENFJs I know have been very unforgiving. Or at least they appear that way on the surface. They are often quite stringent at first, becoming befuddled or peeved when people around them aren't putting the effort in to do things correctly. But when you get past that, they have a warm, welcoming heart. They want to make you into a better, happier person. But not in a happy, hand-holding way. Instead of simply holding your hand, they will tug you into whatever perils are necessary to build you up, and then they will suddenly let go so that you can face the challenges on your own (It is the best way to grow).

[@SoulofAnother]

Oh boy the ENFJ one was way too true 💀You'll always see me giving people the benefit of the doubt even if they've done something really bad. And a lot of the time, I use the fact that I'm forgiving and don't hold a grudge for more than an hour or two to my advantage to calm people down when they think they've upset me. Person: "I'm so sorry, really. I'm so so sorry" Me: "Dude, It's okay. By tomorrow I'll most likely have forgotten about it. :)" *IT'S A VERY COMMON CONVERSATION I HAVE WITH MY FRIENDS* 💀 I was just talking to my Dad last night about these girls that are just generally mean and bullies but I don't want to judge them to quickly because I have no idea what they're going through. 😭 And I always personally forgive people and give basically everyone second chances. I am definitely an immature ENFJ because I just want to help everyone I can, and make sure that other's are happy. Because if they're happy, then so am I lmao. 💀

[@Lea-mc2qy]

Amazing video as always! Just something I noticed: the transitions between the types were not really obvious, it was kinda confusing because I thought you were still talking about that one type when you had already continued with the next. I really enjoyed the video though. Keep up the great work!

[@bennozin7845]

It's so crazy when it's true. I've been acting like an immature ENTJ these last couple of weeks, because I so badly want to do good on my exam and be the best. SORRY MOM AND FRIENDS!

[@poojamoroliya]

Loved the video. This was a much needed topic to be discussed. It felt closer to reality than the fairy ideal mbti world. Today’s take away. “You can be empathetic without being pathetic” 😛 - Papa infj (being a growing infj, I see you as my papa infj now 😁)

[@jenniferhanses]

As an INTJ, I'm not sure that that's correct. Because by that light, I've never been immature in my life. I've talked with other INTJs and we have yet to come across this mythic over-planner that can't handle the randomness of the universe. It's this constant stereotype that I've seen in MBTI channels, but no one I talk with seems to have ever experienced it, nor did I experience it myself. And when we do meet a failed planner, it's usually an ISXJ who couldn't conceive of something outside of the way things have always been. I mean, with Ni, a college student should not be leaving studying down to the last minute. Something could always come up, whether it's a fire alarm or a friend's personal crisis or a fun activity that you would really rather be doing. I'm sure different INTJ's have different coping methods for randomness, but if you don't build some flex time into your plan, your plan just sucks and you're not worth of the title of Mastermind. Different INTJs may be comfortable with different amounts of flex and back up plans, but we all have it. So I don't doubt that there are immature INTJs. I'm just not convinced that that's how we express it.

[@MsInnersanctum]

I think I agree with you. Immature INTJs can get stuck in deep confusing emotions and brooding over irrelevant stuff, but not having difficulties with planning. Maybe? Just a thought.

[@klowee5240]

I mean when my plan doesn't work i adjust accordingly and make it so that it works but yeah i never procrastinated by studying a day before the exam. I think the immature part of me is "my way or the highway" like feeling I'm always right maybe? Or not.

[@jenniferhanses]

@@klowee5240 I did at one point have issues with doing my homework as a kid. It was math, which I hated. And the teacher would roll dice to decide if she was going to collect our homework. So I was basically disincentivized after doing work that kept not being collected and graded. All other classes took priority above math work that I really really didn't want to do because it seemed pointless to do it. I know math teachers say that practice is the point. But I was already fine at understanding all of the concepts and didn't need to do it for that reason. But I think all INTJs will struggle to do things that they've classified as having no purpose. So I don't think that's a sign of immaturity. Not sure about the my way or the highway thing. Maybe? Maybe we're too quick to judge and cut someone out if we're immature and more willing to be patient and give the benefit of the doubt if we've matured? I don't know, though. Because whenever I've tried to give someone the benefit of the doubt for the sake of politeness and group harmony (since I cared about other people involved and was trying to be a good friend), I've always ended up being proved right. Like, oh, look, I get bad vibes from my ENFP friend's new BF. Maybe I'm just being jealous and over-protective? Maybe my emotions are clouding my judgment? I should give him a chance. Oh, no. Never mind. He just stole all of her money and kicked her out of the car into a ditch and I had to come pick her up at 3 a.m. after he put out his cigar on her. (at this point in my life, if I get bad vibes off of someone, I don't know what they've done, but they're bad. I don't mean that I just dislike them. I dislike plenty of people. I'm talking "I've got a bad feeling about this" level not "oh, she's just got this annoying voice that grates on me.") And then there's the other factor of my way or the highway of going off alone and that's never been a mistake. Some things you just need to do by yourself. I don't tend to hold grudges for people who were more conformist and couldn't come with me. Heck, my theme in college varied between "Life is a Highway" and "here I go again on my own, going down the only road I've ever known. Like a drifter I was meant to walk alone. ..." Eh. Mind drifting. In any case I don't "think" those are our issues. Could be developing healthy attachments with the rest of humanity. Which is kind of in the vein with my way or the highway, but not exactly the same. I definitely think INTJs tend to be unhealthy if they do not care about at least some other people. Then we're like kites without a string. But I don't know if that's immaturity.

[@Scruffed]

My idea of an immature INTJ was someone that never lets anyone off the hook when they're wrong about something, compulsively and tactlessly unpicking any perceived flaw.

[@klowee5240]

@@jenniferhanses hmm yeah I guess you could say that there's room for improvement when it comes to relationships but not necessarily an immature trait either way we're not perfect and it's ok

[@dominikas127]

Omg, ESFJ is so true, tbh, I can't even tell that I met mature ESFJ ever, even old grannies or aunts, they always gossip everyone like they didn't have their own life. So irritating.