What do I mean when I say 'stress a man out'?

[@lora3996]

be aware of guys who say they wanna provide and are solution-oriented but never actually do anything for you. there's always an excuse or dodging of the subject when it comes to actually doing something about it. have had one of those play around with me. it's like they can sense what women expect but it's just empty words to string you along.

[@MizzNee796]

truth. fortunatley my father who raised me was extremely quiet, so i learned to watch more than listen. men can say anything...people lie to God every day...what makes us think they won't lie to us?

[@canesugar911]

Leave my dear

[@happynurse1062]

His words are meaningless without action!

[@omnipotentworldwider5111]

@@canesugar911sounds like she already did

[@Amandy36]

Damsel in distress lol. They come running to the rescue.

[@artisticagi]

Evaluate whether or not he’s emotionally available by being vulnerable and emotional. = GOOD STRESS

[@zionssoldierofwar7194]

Dealing with that now. Im out

[@danieljinkins3267]

Love this content

[@shanayekh9345]

Stump girl era 😂 Seriously this advice is too good

[@dmystfy]

Can confirm it works

[@shanayekh9345]

@@dmystfy thank you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@Butterflii37]

STUMP GIRL ERA 😂😂

[@tamhead1]

It is sooo stressful for them to pull their weight emotionally. He nailed this.

[@TheDreamhouse2010]

He said "let somebody else do it!" 😂😂😂😂😂 absolutely agree!

[@user-gu6vf3je1d]

I have only met 3 men in my entire life who this would actually work on and were actually capable of getting anything done. Only one of them could achieve doing anything right or to my standards. Most men are just not that capable.

[@tanyasharadamba1264]

🧐🤔we have so much to unlearn.

[@acd1168]

You can do it! One day at a time

[@FlowerDance333]

Not I’m just a “stump” with no arms and legs 😩😭🤣🤣🤣

[@AJ-oz9vy]

😂😂😂 a stump is wild but kinda true! make em work!! I’m a really happy eater around my house. 🏡 I love that he loves to make me food and girl, I get feddd 😋 ❤

[@staceylove1588]

I've always been that way with the Men in my life. I always give them a project and show super happiness when they complete it. It's like training a dog or a child...IJS...

[@RoyalEmpresstiti]

😂😂😂

[@n0426]

I love this. Finally someone who doesn’t say to be a b*tch. It’s about being vulnerable and feeling if he cares and worrying and stressing about you. It’s not playing hard to get. 🙄

[@deirdreoutlaw1578]

Not me about to add "I am a stump No shade" to my wall of mary jane post its 😂 😌

[@yogigoyi]

Can we do this with all men we encounter? I dont really want a relationshpp,i just want men to be of service to me since im a single mom😂 I want to use mgtow to my own advantage since men should "stay away from single moms" My dream is to just have men begging to fix things for me and to want to teach my son manly things without wanting them as a boyfriend

[@cynthiaholland13]

Just curious, what would the man get out of it? You're offering the feminine things they lack I guess, like cooking and cleaning? Or would you just be looking to use them? Also why not have the father serve in that capacity

[@HaileysGiftShop]

Lol brother I absolutely love that you highlighted the word "good stress for surely there is such a thing as good stress vs bad stress which is called eustress - but never hear people talk about this so you totally rock. May God bless you and your family as you continue to try to share healthy tips XOXO💚💙💜🙏🙏🙏

[@dtv4433]

OMG!!!!!!!! THIS IS SOOO TRUE I'VE BEEN MARRIED 45YRS. TO MY HIGH SCHOOL SWEETHEART LADIES THIS WORKS ! Listened to what he's saying its the truth my husband to this day is head over hills about me and he can't keep his hands off me LOL😊 he enjoys doing things for me and hurriedly comes back for more stuff to do for me it's healthy stress the men love!

[@rn2511]

I wish you clarified the don’t be a bitch in reference to the book. The “bitch” in the book is not a nasty bitch people usually mean. It’s knowing your worth, maintaining your dignity with green flags, speak up but don’t nag, and not being a doormat.

[@Urnotwelcomed-x8v]

They only person who I would take dating advice from. It makes sense and it’s no gimmicks behind it

[@Joirychelle]

Yyyyyyaaaaaasssss!!!!!🎉 THIS is what I’m talking about, loved how you delivered THIS! And I AGREE and APPROVE this message! 🖤🔥🙏🏽

[@carolinpurayidom4570]

1:45 it will also increase vasopressin which is essential for men to bond with you long term

[@kyraforeman5408]

It was the fact that he called himself out for me😂

[@thechocolatefoxx]

Damsel in distress. I will always need a Man. I love this Thank you for confirmation and explanation.😊

[@TheRoyaltyStar]

I love a man who takes initiative. It’s such a turn on! 😅 Side note the hood of the car you are funny. 😄

[@britneydaniels6294]

This was helpful. Thank you❤

[@paigenicholespeaks6172]

This was very helpful!

[@aspiringrootwoman24]

Look under that what do they call it? Lmaoooo

[@constancejenkins3867]

Thank you for the Understanding UPDATE 🙏🏽 ❤

[@virtue1495]

Always on point with great relationships advice!! I Like how you pause and say "yeah?" For emphasis! Thanks for your awesome coaching.

[@gtrprincess1]

So helpful

[@BecomingDrea]

You’re so good! 📝

[@BleuGoddess78]

Always so good ❤

[@stephanieg3554]

I actually have that book. But nah it's too much. I just wanna be me...

[@Kiyonce.Kartier]

Yes be a stump lol my arms and legs don’t work when a man is around 😂😂😂

[@no.6377]

I am just a stump. Maybe a tree🌳

[@ankitabhatt3412]

I have heard alot about this that let men do things for uh and uh should have that receiving energy. I do agree with that and I was being in my receiving mode but then things go south when those men started keeping accounting record on what they do and then they will taunt me "oh I did that for uh , if I wasn't there uh would have never eaten that , gone out , travelled , seen those luxury , etc" they start counting things as favours and then I stopped giving men chance to do something for me. Mind well , even I did put efforts for him financially , emotionally , physically but those were out of love or affection or romance. I never even thought of keeping account on them. 😅 And now I am deeply wounded , I can't trust anyone , I don't let any men do anything for me. Let me know if I can fix myself 😅

[@julinedaniels3805]

100% accurate

[@shakti6438]

That’s a fact

[@somebodycomelistentothispo7217]

I’m married and this is too much

[@MeMyself984]

You’re a beautiful man 😏❤ And thank you for all that you do! 💋

[@movingforwardopportunity667]

Hey Fran ❤❤❤❤❤

[@shundareed2387]

Lucky you

[@kckgirl78]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@ssiegreen5292]

Vasopressin, not testosterone.

[@DatingCoachAnwar]

both =)

[@opharahanglin9624]

I'm good.

[@TravelingInstyleWithBrooke]

I love u Anwar, we Besties and u don’t know yet lol