be aware of guys who say they wanna provide and are solution-oriented but never actually do anything for you. there's always an excuse or dodging of the subject when it comes to actually doing something about it. have had one of those play around with me. it's like they can sense what women expect but it's just empty words to string you along.
@MizzNee7965 ай бұрын
truth. fortunatley my father who raised me was extremely quiet, so i learned to watch more than listen. men can say anything...people lie to God every day...what makes us think they won't lie to us?
@canesugar9115 ай бұрын
Leave my dear
@happynurse10625 ай бұрын
His words are meaningless without action!
@omnipotentworldwider51113 ай бұрын
@@canesugar911sounds like she already did
@Amandy365 ай бұрын
Damsel in distress lol. They come running to the rescue.
@artisticagi5 ай бұрын
Evaluate whether or not he’s emotionally available by being vulnerable and emotional. = GOOD STRESS
@zionssoldierofwar71945 ай бұрын
Dealing with that now. Im out
@danieljinkins326711 күн бұрын
Love this content
@shanayekh93455 ай бұрын
Stump girl era 😂 Seriously this advice is too good
@dmystfy5 ай бұрын
Can confirm it works
@shanayekh93455 ай бұрын
@@dmystfy thank you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@Butterflii375 ай бұрын
STUMP GIRL ERA 😂😂
@tamhead15 ай бұрын
It is sooo stressful for them to pull their weight emotionally. He nailed this.
@TheDreamhouse20105 ай бұрын
He said "let somebody else do it!" 😂😂😂😂😂 absolutely agree!
@user-gu6vf3je1d5 ай бұрын
I have only met 3 men in my entire life who this would actually work on and were actually capable of getting anything done. Only one of them could achieve doing anything right or to my standards. Most men are just not that capable.
@tanyasharadamba12645 ай бұрын
🧐🤔we have so much to unlearn.
@acd11685 ай бұрын
You can do it! One day at a time
@FlowerDance3335 ай бұрын
Not I’m just a “stump” with no arms and legs 😩😭🤣🤣🤣
@AJ-oz9vy5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 a stump is wild but kinda true! make em work!! I’m a really happy eater around my house. 🏡 I love that he loves to make me food and girl, I get feddd 😋 ❤
@staceylove15885 ай бұрын
I've always been that way with the Men in my life. I always give them a project and show super happiness when they complete it. It's like training a dog or a child...IJS...
@RoyalEmpresstiti5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@n04265 ай бұрын
I love this. Finally someone who doesn’t say to be a b*tch. It’s about being vulnerable and feeling if he cares and worrying and stressing about you. It’s not playing hard to get. 🙄
@deirdreoutlaw15785 ай бұрын
Not me about to add "I am a stump No shade" to my wall of mary jane post its 😂 😌
@yogigoyi5 ай бұрын
Can we do this with all men we encounter? I dont really want a relationshpp,i just want men to be of service to me since im a single mom😂 I want to use mgtow to my own advantage since men should "stay away from single moms" My dream is to just have men begging to fix things for me and to want to teach my son manly things without wanting them as a boyfriend
@cynthiaholland13Ай бұрын
Just curious, what would the man get out of it? You're offering the feminine things they lack I guess, like cooking and cleaning? Or would you just be looking to use them? Also why not have the father serve in that capacity
@HaileysGiftShop5 ай бұрын
Lol brother I absolutely love that you highlighted the word "good stress for surely there is such a thing as good stress vs bad stress which is called eustress - but never hear people talk about this so you totally rock. May God bless you and your family as you continue to try to share healthy tips XOXO💚💙💜🙏🙏🙏
@dtv4433Ай бұрын
OMG!!!!!!!! THIS IS SOOO TRUE I'VE BEEN MARRIED 45YRS. TO MY HIGH SCHOOL SWEETHEART LADIES THIS WORKS ! Listened to what he's saying its the truth my husband to this day is head over hills about me and he can't keep his hands off me LOL😊 he enjoys doing things for me and hurriedly comes back for more stuff to do for me it's healthy stress the men love!
@rn25112 ай бұрын
I wish you clarified the don’t be a bitch in reference to the book. The “bitch” in the book is not a nasty bitch people usually mean. It’s knowing your worth, maintaining your dignity with green flags, speak up but don’t nag, and not being a doormat.
@Urnotwelcomed-x8v5 ай бұрын
They only person who I would take dating advice from. It makes sense and it’s no gimmicks behind it
@JoirychelleАй бұрын
Yyyyyyaaaaaasssss!!!!!🎉 THIS is what I’m talking about, loved how you delivered THIS! And I AGREE and APPROVE this message! 🖤🔥🙏🏽
@carolinpurayidom4570Ай бұрын
1:45 it will also increase vasopressin which is essential for men to bond with you long term
@kyraforeman54085 ай бұрын
It was the fact that he called himself out for me😂
@thechocolatefoxx5 ай бұрын
Damsel in distress. I will always need a Man. I love this Thank you for confirmation and explanation.😊
@TheRoyaltyStar2 ай бұрын
I love a man who takes initiative. It’s such a turn on! 😅 Side note the hood of the car you are funny. 😄
@britneydaniels62945 ай бұрын
This was helpful. Thank you❤
@paigenicholespeaks61725 ай бұрын
This was very helpful!
@aspiringrootwoman245 ай бұрын
Look under that what do they call it? Lmaoooo
@constancejenkins38675 ай бұрын
Thank you for the Understanding UPDATE 🙏🏽 ❤
@virtue14955 ай бұрын
Always on point with great relationships advice!! I Like how you pause and say "yeah?" For emphasis! Thanks for your awesome coaching.
@gtrprincess119 күн бұрын
So helpful
@BecomingDrea5 ай бұрын
You’re so good! 📝
@BleuGoddess785 ай бұрын
Always so good ❤
@stephanieg35542 ай бұрын
I actually have that book. But nah it's too much. I just wanna be me...
@Kiyonce.Kartier5 ай бұрын
Yes be a stump lol my arms and legs don’t work when a man is around 😂😂😂
@no.63772 ай бұрын
I am just a stump. Maybe a tree🌳
@ankitabhatt3412Ай бұрын
I have heard alot about this that let men do things for uh and uh should have that receiving energy. I do agree with that and I was being in my receiving mode but then things go south when those men started keeping accounting record on what they do and then they will taunt me "oh I did that for uh , if I wasn't there uh would have never eaten that , gone out , travelled , seen those luxury , etc" they start counting things as favours and then I stopped giving men chance to do something for me. Mind well , even I did put efforts for him financially , emotionally , physically but those were out of love or affection or romance. I never even thought of keeping account on them. 😅 And now I am deeply wounded , I can't trust anyone , I don't let any men do anything for me. Let me know if I can fix myself 😅
@julinedaniels38052 ай бұрын
100% accurate
@shakti64382 ай бұрын
That’s a fact
@somebodycomelistentothispo72175 ай бұрын
I’m married and this is too much
@MeMyself9845 ай бұрын
You’re a beautiful man 😏❤ And thank you for all that you do! 💋
@movingforwardopportunity6675 ай бұрын
Hey Fran ❤❤❤❤❤
@shundareed23875 ай бұрын
Lucky you
@kckgirl784 ай бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@ssiegreen52925 ай бұрын
Vasopressin, not testosterone.
@DatingCoachAnwar5 ай бұрын
both =)
@opharahanglin96245 ай бұрын
I'm good.
@TravelingInstyleWithBrookeАй бұрын
I love u Anwar, we Besties and u don’t know yet lol