Most want the same thing. They want you to help their parents with money, They want you to build them a house, But all those things are not enough and will never make them happy. It's a lot like the west. You will be spending money like a drunken sailor and in the end, You will have an empty sack.
@jerrylansbury9558 Жыл бұрын
100% true ! They are not looking for security. They only want money ! As an American farmer........I can promise a Thai girl would never be happy here on a farm. Even though they would have everything they / she would need. If they spend a day in a farmers shoes here they would leave soon ! They call it culture. Culture is what you make it !
@drdal Жыл бұрын
You talk like a husband of a thai woman must live in slavery the rest of his life if he dont is very strong. But I feel thai women are not for me. I feel women from Vietnam or The Philippines are better. But there are actually many men her in Scandinavia who have a wife from Thailand, so some of this women must have some good qualities even I think it is strange.😘😛😜
@danielrubini7094 Жыл бұрын
mmhh..let me think...money $$ and then .. money $$ and then more money $$ 😆 i tested it, i told my Thai ex: look, i don't have much savings, my job is uncertain, but our love will win over adversities ..she disappeared at the speed of light 😆
@Maurice1813 ай бұрын
Laughed so hard..! "Money $$ and then .. money $$ and then more money $$"... Hahahahahahahaaa!
@mtcbdth2 ай бұрын
Brah....😂😅😅
@brianmyers13 Жыл бұрын
I love your list and have found it to be very accurate. Thai women require a confident, stable, and loving partner and in return you will never be short of love, affection, and admiration. Are they jealous at first...NO. They are scared and do you blame them? If you don't understand why they are like that and are unable to deal with it effectively then you are not right for them because the reason is very simple and easy to figure out: Being a woman in Thailand (and most of Asia) sucks. You can be tossed aside for the new girl after a decade of being a loving and supporting partner for any reason. Men treat them like crap because they know they have the power. Accept that in the beginning she will be scared/jealous and act accordingly: Do everything you can to not put her in a position where she can potentially feel jealously...make a point of letting her know often that she is your partner and nothing is going to change that. Nothing is more effective than moving closer to her and showing the room that she is yours and you are hers in situations where she is faced with a potential rival (even something simple like an attractive greeter at a restaurant). That will give her confidence and the fear/jealously will become less of an issue over time. Is that really so hard compared to the constant demands of your American girl? LOL.
@GoWithChalida Жыл бұрын
OMg I don’t know how to reply 😅
@shuvadeepdey2574 Жыл бұрын
@@GoWithChalida You are a Princess 👸
@kufudokungfu10 ай бұрын
@@shuvadeepdey2574get real she not
@shuvadeepdey257410 ай бұрын
@@kufudokungfu She is
@SomboonCM5 ай бұрын
I spent 8 winters in Thailand. They want money. And the jealously is on a level you can't imagine as a Westerner.
@RobFomenko4 ай бұрын
I've been married twice in the West, and I've dated several times since divorce. What you say is true. It's pretty much what all women want. And it used to be enough. Because a man would get what he wanted a stable household kids and a family and a legacy. But that has changed, even in Thailand. Unless you're in the ruling elite class but I know nothing of that. In any relationship there has to be compromised on both sides for it to work. Clear communication. And a true understanding of what that relationship is supposed to be and how it's going to be maintained on both sides. I wouldn't tolerate an abusive jealous woman. So the first time that happened either we would come to an understanding, or the relationship would end. I think that many of the men that get into problems, including myself in my marriages, either never knew that or forgot. I love Thailand. I love Thai women. At least many of them. I love how they keep themselves in shape, by eating right and taking care of themselves, I love their smile. But no one loves being taken advantage of, go to even have that attempted on them. People are people all over the world. They want a better life for themselves and their children, the least amount of pain and suffering, and at least a glimpse of a better future. Me I just want to have a great day today. Thanks for the video.
@28pbtkh233 ай бұрын
Great message with some good lessons.
@ginak74716 ай бұрын
They expect men to be ATM.
@Maurice1813 ай бұрын
Man's equivalent: Have supermodel looks with a super-hot body, never ask us for money, never get fat, never talk back, cook & clean without us asking, know how to be a lady in public, be hot in bed, know when to be quiet, and make a peaceful home. Not asking too much.
@LeoR4U2 ай бұрын
Yes. I know how to make a Thai girl happy. I’ve had “some” experience. But after a while I wonder: what does she bring to the table? What can she offer to me? Well, very often I find out it’s not really “balanced”, if you know what I mean. 😜
@972Kostas7 ай бұрын
What does the Thai woman want? Money, money and money.
@GoWithChalida7 ай бұрын
No I guess not just Thai women, everybody want $$$ 🤣
@stevek3437 ай бұрын
And more money, money, money 💰
@johnybrokeit7 ай бұрын
Thank you for making this video for us :) I just want to say that I appreciate your English, it is very very good! You have taken the time to learn the language, it is so easy to understand you. And your point that Thai girls are the same as girls all around this beautiful planet is very true, makes sense :) Thank you! Cheers, sweet person! :)
@jallythekid Жыл бұрын
You look beautiful. And I like it when you smile...made my day :) Have a nice day Chalida
@stephenbrowne3399Ай бұрын
You said Everything that my Thai girlfriend said she wants and what was important to her. Exactly. I've not reached the jealousy part we are just beginning to confirm our relationship. They do like money but for security and tame down when they know you are genuine. Thanks.
@derengreen468228 күн бұрын
Thank you this was very informative
@lama0101014 ай бұрын
This shows that typical Thai girls want the same as all other typical girls in the world. Cultural differences are not important in the long run when dealing with relationships. We are all humans and seek respect and understanding, aka love.
@GoWithChalida4 ай бұрын
correct !
@LeoR4U2 ай бұрын
“No shitting.” ? Aah, no cheating. 😁 Thanks for the vid and sorry for my comment.😅
@erineyles62072 жыл бұрын
Thanks Chalida, your tips were very helpful 🙏🙏🙏
@GoWithChalida2 жыл бұрын
Thx ☺️
@waleedaldousari61012 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the useful information 👍🌹
@alexdeonversaagdeАй бұрын
A provider.
@johnnybgood39097 ай бұрын
Definietely do not shit on your gf
@davdin2Ай бұрын
I dont mind paying for security, but its hard to trust if you are not around. But that's everywhere.
@stujones35663 ай бұрын
Sensational.. I'm in love ❤❤❤
@SIDEBYSIDERACING2 жыл бұрын
Chaliiidddaaa!!! “Because you’re seeing her as a 😍 WOMAN.. not a 🤔 ladyboy”!! That’s 🤣 HILARIOUS!!!!!!! Being funny, ridiculous, joking around, etc.. that’s the spice of 💞 life!!!!!!! 😏😂😆🤣🤪👀💚
@gray29422 жыл бұрын
Security is money.
@tonystark82014 ай бұрын
And money is 90% love from what I've seen there
@SIDEBYSIDERACING2 жыл бұрын
Good evening 🖐🏾 Chalida!! “You should be 🤪funny”!!!!!!! That’s my favorite one!!!!!!! And “NO 👿 CHEATING” of course!!!!!!! 😏🤣🤪😂😆
@marcelmarijkevanderwal256210 күн бұрын
be respect full
@kufudokungfu10 ай бұрын
I can confirm thai girl ao jealous its stressful
@billestep68043 ай бұрын
They want 3 things from gullible foreigners. 1. Money 2.money and the 3rd thing they want is money.
@theskull38382 жыл бұрын
Mmmmm. I think I'll pass. Easier to rent them out by the hour than try and meet all those expectations.
@GoWithChalida2 жыл бұрын
Yes of course as your wish 🤣
@theskull38382 жыл бұрын
@@GoWithChalida but thank you for your videos including this one. I do enjoy them, and of course I'm watching them.
@brianmyers13 Жыл бұрын
Please do that. Best you do not waste your or a woman's time. Sad that you will miss out on an amazingly satisfying relationship but clearly you lack the basic human skill to have one anyway.
@212Roger Жыл бұрын
🦋Papillon🦋
@RobFomenko4 ай бұрын
@@brianmyers13why shame him? I think you should look yourself in the mirror and figure out why that triggered you? I guess you think that every guy that goes to Thailand has to be a saint and only be looking for a wife ? get real. Some people go there for the red light nightlife and some people for the temples.
@Vehvilainen_Lundqvist Жыл бұрын
what if she says lets not see for 1-2 months...is there anyway to save it?
@nightravenonlineАй бұрын
They want money...dont imagine anything else ..
@bukdavid5098 ай бұрын
Money 💰 Thai girls want money 💰
@GoWithChalida8 ай бұрын
not specifically only Thai girl but it refer to the girls in general. Don’t you agree ?
@bobbyott197010 ай бұрын
Thanks for the advice u r soooo cute
@AG-so4gl3 ай бұрын
They want a gullable farang who cant say No, and of course money in the Bank 😅
@gterranova22 жыл бұрын
you should bro. she is perfect thai girlfriend(or maybe even perfect wife). you are the only one of her followers that loves her. 😂
@marknicholson65622 жыл бұрын
What about learning some simple Thai words or phrases?
@stevek3437 ай бұрын
All you need to learn in thai is, how much money you need this time. 😮
@markuchiha7737Ай бұрын
I wwnna go there
@stephengreaves22332 жыл бұрын
What about religious differences?
@oceanearth2243Ай бұрын
Cash money is what Thai women want. Let’s be real
@GoWithChalidaАй бұрын
@@oceanearth2243 Cash money is what people in this whole world want and we all are struggling for it. Not just Thai women Let’s be real !! Wake up yeah
@markomalley2 жыл бұрын
100% on the jealousy part. And on the giving compliments part (but if you compliment too much, you will end up hearing "bpaawk wan" from the gf)
@mtcbdth2 ай бұрын
What does Bpaawk wan mean?
@northbouy26252 ай бұрын
It means "sweet mouth" @@mtcbdth
@mtcbdth2 ай бұрын
@northbouy2625 guessing it's a positive thing?
@northbouy26252 ай бұрын
@@mtcbdth usually it's a bit of a playful tease. "Oh look at you with your sweet mouth". I normally hear it if I've been too complimentary
@mtcbdth2 ай бұрын
@northbouy2625 Thank you for the explanation! I will watch my mouth :)
@Jonathanpowell20234 ай бұрын
I'll take care of YOU forever and I'm totally serious!
@mantelikukkapenkki2368Ай бұрын
They want $, £ , € and bahts and that's about it, everything else is extra
@pepeee5482 жыл бұрын
Why i need a girlfriend if i have to pay all for her and make her financially stable thanks to me?I am not her daddy. She needs to work and have her money and pay as in western world half of bill
@tchalla99172 жыл бұрын
You are not understanding the culture! They are very traditional there so if you pay all the big bills, you can expect her to cook, clean, wash clothes, grocery shop and take care of her man's needs 😉! If she gets a traditional man then you get a traditional woman 😏!!
@ThomasNotJefferson2 жыл бұрын
i agree if thats the way. Because in the west u pay the bill and get nothing. So thats fair enough in that case.
@212Roger Жыл бұрын
Exactly! While she sleeps all day and shops and eats between naps. Hardly worth it.
@jamescasey107410 ай бұрын
I can cook, clean and do household stuff, so whats the value. Thai girls want an easy ride.
@chesterlincoln12688 ай бұрын
Do you want a Woman or a Slave?
@jallythekid Жыл бұрын
I would want to know...what kind of men do thai girls want? I mean looks and personality
@GoWithChalida Жыл бұрын
Different looks and personality attract some women. Not all women like the same thing
@alphonsonapoli6484 Жыл бұрын
chalida i like you your smart but my concerns are visas in thailand i live in the united states and im looking to retire in thailand . i would be happy to pay a fee for your help on this matter
@GoWithChalida Жыл бұрын
definitely I will get you in touch with BaanSmile Send us an email chalidatour@gmail.com
@randellkim22302 жыл бұрын
I do everything you said and i get lots of girls and even been married 5 times. But the girls are not what you want them to be. But my 5th wife is the best, she is just like you. But all the ex wives are good friends. I'll see you in 2023. You will he working for me.
@markstephengultia8768 Жыл бұрын
How can I date if she can't understand me 🥹🥹🥹🥹
@RobFomenko4 ай бұрын
You don't date the girls that don't speak any English. Many other girls do speak some english. If you're a main language is Kurdistan then I don't know what to tell you. Except there's always Google translate. Or the language of love. But I guarantee you she'll know the language of money. But I don't think that's necessarily A bad thing. A lot of channels come down on it but they're only looking at their side. There's two sides to every story and some would say three. There's certainly bad apples out there and everywhere but many of them are just trying to survive and help their families survive. I don't fault them for that. If I get scammed it's on me for allowing it to happen.
@5mtravellingguide5382 жыл бұрын
so cute looking super
@ritzsd55972 жыл бұрын
I don't no abt other Thai girls but I want to be with you ❤️
@Fred-PhelpsАй бұрын
You’d have to be crazy, its a dangerous country. I like African people, they are pleasant and with similar values
@user-ki7kk2no2i6 ай бұрын
They simply want money which they call help! They are beautiful and sexy but in the end it's all about money
@suretybroker100510 ай бұрын
Thanks Chalida! You just gave all the reasons that Thai girls are horrible!! Or let me translate - greedy and lazy
@thomasconboy4636 Жыл бұрын
Complements are eat
@hom4530 Жыл бұрын
Really very difficult to meet a serious and motivated Thai who knows what she wants, changing her life does not seem to interest them