What do women think about after sex? Men need to know about

[@christopherdecker5839]

Caitlin V, I can’t thank you enough. I maybe only 19 and very inexperienced but a few weeks ago I lost my virginity and before I found your videos I was honestly scared that I wasn’t gonna be the guy she wanted but your videos help so much. Thank you so much it actually means the world

[@chasmcl42]

Catlin I've been married a long time and had six kids, and you teach me so much thanks x.

[@jcantavella]

Caitlin you’re brilliant! I’m just finishing my divorce and she claimed she didn’t feel cared for. I might have lost her due to this.

[@rickygarcha1311]

Dude Listening to women on relationship advice will lose your masculinity and grow u a pussy Follow these guys Dan bacon - Corey wayne All the best

[@dancingshiva7008]

@@rickygarcha1311 I'm sorry, but that just pissed me off a little. No, a lot. I wanna call you a douchebag, but I won't. Also, I'm tempted to say you know nothing about women, but I don't know how true that is. But it's one of the most foolish things (nice) guys say on social media, that you can't learn how to understand women by listening to women. You have the nerve to say that men can do a better job. Granted, they can do a hell of a job--but, dear God! I'ma f**kn lose it if I hear this kind of talk again.

[@wallstreetvazy151]

@@rickygarcha1311 😂😂🎯💯

[@sayian2k]

Love the hair, fits you so well. Great tips. My problem is falling asleep 😬, it just knocks the energy out of me sometimes. I never would have thought to talk about it right afterwards though.

[@codystockstill8646]

What you have done for my life……. Thank you, so heartfelt. All of your hard work and dedication especially dealing with the internet and it’s difficulty with this subject on various platforms. Thank you so much for bearing the brunt of so much ignorance to make advancements for others in this field. And with such a stellar delivery. Most underrated beautiful soul in existence. Round of applause from all who appreciate Caitlin for the years of dedication and hard work that produced this channel…. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@CaitlinV]

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[@MrBooYa-yd5er]

This may be more for experienced girls. My target is a virgin and yes I must be affectionate afterwards but I think being overbearing would confuse her as to whether or not we were done.

[@blondie5989]

I want BJ from Caitlin

[@samg2590]

You're definitely cuddle material ms. V😍

[@epsensei]

Caitlin! You're breaking my heart!😢😢😢you intentionally covered those traps!!!😭😭😭😭😭But, of course, as per usual...excellent vid! Informative, educational, entertaining!

[@clausm2203]

You always give great advice even tho im in my mid 40,s i learn a lot from your videos

[@howardhorowitz1405]

It's so important for me to please her first. I enjoy my time with my partner so much more.

[@LenzelDavistheeqalizer]

Caitlin, I like your title "she comes too." However, my mantra is you get two before I get one! And yes, post-sex affection is critical, in making your partner feel valued.

[@MsSimixx]

awww, Caitlin, you've given us timestamps. Thank you for listening to the feedback

[@CaitlinV]

thank you Sim!

[@blondie5989]

@@CaitlinV you are UNBELIEVABLY HOT😍

[@andrewtomlin1426]

Thanks again Caitlin V for the insight, and education of your videos , taking time to make them for us. 🌹🥰❤

[@77rmitra]

THAT WAS AMAZING CAITLIN - THANK YOU!!! I LOVE AND APPRECIATE YOU SO MUCH!!!

[@PeterDonnellan-i3i]

Thanks for your help I really appreciate every word that you said I'm definitely going to keep listening to you more!!! ❤❤❤

[@nenishere24]

You are the BEST! I only wish your channel existed like 25 years ago😘 ! So many validations i have received watching you, and learning so much! Thank you!

[@whitedogman1]

Caitlin, you are the best. Another spot-on video experience.

[@shozanhanma2709]

4:20 "Cuddle-crusher" yes! If this was an anime that would be my finisher attack LOL cuddle the person until they give up

[@imacverde3260]

If we are the "doers", How to receive? might be the question. I found to be ok understanding, or maybe more: accepting the "parental cost" (I don't know the exact term in english) differences between man and women: -male seeds are abundant and are ready to spread -while women's are less + knowing (reptilian brain level) the caring time takes much more than 9 months Even though our modern time, they (women) are still "the place" to "get into", the heart to reach. Accepting this can make us (men) accept the joy to care ...and find fulfillness Caitlin, Thanks, Marco

[@jb-dd6ve]

Loven your topic and I just went through that with one of my girlfriends. Me being a man I didn't know these things

[@Ace-nx8we]

havent even kissed a girl yet and here iam..you look amazing as always caitlin.

[@timothyrday1390]

Women don't understand how men feel after they release. Men also have feelings of "shame;" it's the biggest 180 feeling in the world. It's extremely difficult for men to do anything else but roll over *because* of those shame feelings.

[@LeashMechanic]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@gloriakuhn8670]

I'm curious about the shame that men supposedly feel. What about sex is shameful to them? It doesn't add up that men would be ashamed of having sex, but still want to have sex with as many women as possible.

[@timothyrday1390]

@@gloriakuhn8670 That is a good question. The difference is when they (men) are "fully-loaded" versus the feeling right-after. Right after, there are intense feelings of shame for having let the "animal" instincts take over. There is an extreme opposition between feelings in that instance, but normally men are in some state of desiring, but that doesn't mean it is always so strong (as in the moment). However, the older men get, then they are usually not desiring as much all the time (although there are always some who still do, apparently).

[@darkhighwayman1757]

I never have shame but I have 2 kids at home and sexy time is usually late at night and I get tired and it's late so...

[@gloriakuhn8670]

@@timothyrday1390 I can't speak for all women, but for me I have felt that shame after making love as well. That's when I would need the guy to hold me. It would take away the shame because it would be more of a connection on an emotional level. I would think that the guy could hold the woman while going to sleep. That seems like it would fix the problem for both the man and woman.

[@robwho58]

I appreciate you Caitlin and all your insight!

[@CaitlinV]

thank you Robert!

[@benhilland8845]

Caitlin' Caitlin ✌️, what song was in the background? Of course I liked it. (@12:20)

[@Bob-yl9pm]

Caitlin V You are so amazing, and you're thoughtful conversation is too! Do you think we humans need to make more beautiful babies? Is that what we need to work on? Loving families?

[@orionmckay4273]

TRIUMPH!!! A video on a skill I excel at!! Cuddles? got it down. Pillow talk? I can hold a conversation. Kissing? Been told I'm a good kisser. Clean up? Pretty good at it. Want me to stay the night or bounce? Depending on schedule: can do. In all honesty awesome video!

[@CaitlinV]

thank you Orion!

[@maitahn]

The problem isn't the initial rolling over. A guy is drained and needs to recharge - and in his mind is doubting himself. A woman should spoon him and hold him so he feels safe when he's vulnerable.

[@davebarnett3809]

My mother told me that the way a woman kisses you tells you how to touch and treat her. Has worked for me ever since

[@donaldscott7279]

Agreed the older i get i realize cuddling is important. More finger sparks please

[@randydavis6604]

Another great video and thank you for the insight.

[@aniketjaiswal3147]

Love from India . Keep up the good work.

[@mickeybonejelly]

Thanks Caitlin, very helpful advice.

[@varzacwarin782]

Always helpful hints for me, thank you Cathlin V👍

[@stanbruce7288]

I'm in the process of changing my job title and I always tell my instructor that if I can see it I can do it so ijs really I know it ain't happening 😅

[@donalddrake7133]

I get what you're saying, but I feel like it's a little tiring. So if a man needs to go to sleep because he did all the work basically. And he gave his spirit end body floors to her. Then doesn't she need to know that he needs to go to sleep? Does his needs ever count? Not that he should just roll over and go to sleep. However, does his needs ever count? And does she ever need to care about his needs? Also, instead of feeling abandoned. Maybe she should feel satisfied. Maybe the paradigm is wrong.

[@2fpick]

Good stuff Caitlin!!!

[@CaitlinV]

Thank you Chris!

[@user-sh2mk8ew4c]

I never knew this. Yet they stayed.

[@MrSupervillin]

We fall asleep 💤 because we did most of the work.

[@ElimEx1]

My wife was the guy she describes. Totally told me she didn't care about me. But she gets too hot if I hold her. So there's reasons why this might not happen and we have to be understanding too.

[@KrishnaSingh-rg4qk]

I see all your videos superb outstanding.

[@EchoesDaBear]

Caitlin, what if it's your wife that rolls over and falls asleep? I'm the one that wants to 'talk and cuddle' post coitus!! She's had her back/shoulder massage, foreplay & fun (big 'o' each time) - so she's done after we're 'done', but she's also not a late night person, and with 3 kids (2 of them teenagers), later at night is literally the ONLY time we have for 'us'! It doesn't bother me that she does. I know she's satisfied, and so am I. After 25 years together, I know what makes her tick!

[@endcensorship874]

"bumping uglies" is SOOOO 90's

[@samuraidm1]

Us late 30+ appreciate the nostalgia 😅

[@sayanmandal2246]

The Purple looks so good on you 😍

[@marekward6202]

Your video's are great, and I have learned how to be a more aware, sensitive lover. I've had several compliments which should be to you really. . No thank you's though. I used to but once someone said thank you to me and it felt a bit odd, like it was less of a two way experience somehow. I felt a little used. And yes, I have noticed that if women 'get their oat's' they value snuggle time less. Less than me sometimes, lol :) x

[@mali-bv4wr]

It was my question for a long time. Tnx a lot🌹

[@johnmichaux616]

Hi Catlin V. Very true !😊👍

[@Р.Х-ю8ж]

And what if she is not in to cuddling and think if a man dose this that makes him less masculine???

[@ericlingswiler9012]

Wow look at the time, I need to get home, my husband will be home soon!

[@user-oo8xp2rf1k]

Again? Do they do that? 🤔

[@andreamelissamorales1387]

This makes so much sense. I was like, I don’t really care about snuggling after. Then you said I’d you have an orgasm you don’t care, everything come together 😂 but yes when I don’t finish I get mad because I just don’t think it’s fair!

[@danielsmith-ze3wy]

Good morning everyone

[@randaljameslynch3863]

Love the hair color!

[@lomotil3370]

She broke up with a guy because he didn't cuddle right...

[@CaitlinV]

the sex was good, but red flags are red flags!

[@blondie5989]

@@CaitlinV you are a phenomenal LOVER

[@jessefoulk]

Mortal Kombat finishing move: The Cuddle Crusher

[@jamesthornton9399]

How about a Book on after sex moves. The book to use after the sex moves book?

[@askredditstories.]

I would have created a better thumbnail but you preferred a thumbnail without text.I am still available

[@fallenslave6684]

Have you heard that mpst of divorce in marriage is caused by lack of sex?

[@EricB256]

I don't roll over, I roll towards her and cuddle indeed :-) We've often showered together after when it's been in the morning. I would totally agree that the pat on the shoulder doesn't come across well. ;-)

[@Dee-gf6ir]

Sex life is still way ahead of my league. I'm 24 year old and I don't even have a girlfriend till now..😔

[@exoticblckrose6175]

Me too 😒😂😂

[@BadBoy-cp9lp]

Mgtow 😊

[@AliceLenarduzzi]

Great video as always, but that zipper not exactly centered is really bothering me as hell LOL still love ya tho 😜

[@journeymansmitty8283]

Oh crap then I've been so guilty of this most of my adult life after sex I leave now seen the light with this video I'm kind of ashamed of it LMAO😂😂😂😂

[@paulclarke7571]

I was in a relationship with a woman once that rolled over and /or did the immediate separation deal. She was different but that's how she operated. Maybe had something to do with her being married IDK...

[@shulmab]

If the woman does not want to bond after sex, that’s ok. If it is the man who does not engage in bonding behavior, that’s a problem. You should turn down your entitlement before you record the video.

[@blakedexter1451]

Lol this isnt her entitlement its the entitlement of all women hahahaha

[@akadirnilavane2861]

You are correct madam!

[@HaHaHaYouFool9439]

That explains a lot….. I’m the type of guy that after sex I have a more energy and want to go enjoy the rest of my day or night. No sleep, no relaxing. After sex I could go work, or play sports, or be active. Idk what causes that but sex gives me energy and makes me feel more positive. I don’t like to cuddle after, or lay down and relax. Like I wanna go do something cuz I feel great. But at the same time my wife thinks like what you talked about. Because of that I’m sure that’s the reason she cheated on me. So instead of wanting to be active and do something fun I have to force myself to do something I’ve never really liked???? Sounds to me like I have to be unhappy and force myself to do things I don’t wanna do just to make her not cheat…..

[@josephcieplak8920]

If a woman doesn't bother calling you back after sex, well, it means you didn't woe her in bed! lol it's that simple.

[@josephcieplak8920]

@gemini232003 Yeah, that's true. but that is only applicable in case you don't count with any other option.

[@scorpian6013]

On the contrary my partners say me thank you after sex with a kiss expressing gratitude.

[@josephcieplak8920]

@@scorpian6013 What does that even suppose to mean?

[@scorpian6013]

@@josephcieplak8920 Females try to dominate men who can't hold long. The real question is not of satisfaction but dominance.

[@josephcieplak8920]

@@scorpian6013 That's the role every man should have in bed. if he can submit his woman then it clearly means he's not a good lover who could make wow in bed. it's that simple.

[@niakain9194]

I normally "throw her off me" (her words not mine) grab her waist and cuddle till I get hungry

[@Allenmarshall]

"Every time. He brings up hotwife everytime."

[@dplant8961]

Hi, Caitlin V. "Meeting her needs"????????????????????????????????? What about MY needs??????????????????????????????????????? This izza TWO-way street, Lady. Just my 0.02. You have a wonderful day. Best wishes. Deas Plant.

[@shulmab]

You are so wrong about many things it will take several posts to just touch on them. First of all after care also includes providing an environment in which to have the relationship. For married people and those living together, earning the money to pay the mortgage is aftercare. So much of the effort men put in is not considered.

[@randaljameslynch3863]

...and the eye shadow...

[@MD-Coin]

What if youve agreed beforehand that it IS just about sex and neither of you want feelings to get involved, just casual friendship and occasional sex?

[@Rocknranchman]

As a sixty yr old 👨🏻‍🦳 I am always looking to improve my wife’s 👵🏻 pleasure and do anything to improve my overall performance as a lover and make the entire experience cumplete (😁) and memorable for her! Thank you for the female insight! 😘

[@JonathanFrantz-y1s]

Trying to get my girlfriend itched it in your programs sweetheart I think she'll benefit from it just as much as I do

[@RD-xh9ss]

I get it dont leave her hanging. But give us credit. Sometimes men are tired. We have to exert a lot of energy in many ways to make a women happy. And now another to the list. Men get tired too.

[@peterdonald1155]

l know when guys get it, it's worth it, but damn! it can seem like a hard script to follow. Even women that are friends can be unnforgiving if you forget the cuddle!!!

[@danyabboud4656]

Well i am 14 i don't have a girlfriend either ☹

[@shozanhanma2709]

Don't bother with the girlfriend thing, do what's called pump and dump. Basically, don't use chicks , but refuse to commit. Take her out on a date, if she's consenting and warmed up and ready to go, have some sex!, but when she asked if you were a couple, tell her "I like the relationship as it is now!😁"(aka friends with benefits)

[@lakmeister]

Shows you can't win..? They ain't ever happy whatever you do....stay in all week....go out once?? Yes you guessed...trouble!!!

[@BK-Actual]

Always excellent insight..... glad to have th scoot from a female perspective. It has done nothing but help me relate and speak "estrogen". My wife has the mentality of a dude.... she wants to get her freak on then its "go away you're sweating' me"... hahahaha.... On a side note.... LOVE the Purple Hair.... it looks fabulous. Keep the awesomeness coming! Thank You!

[@CaitlinV]

thank you Bill!

[@alanclayton2971]

Chart at 11:23 is wrong. Nothing, and I mean nothing happens until the socks are off. Ok, maybe a come hither look, but other than that.....

[@lorrainestuart1035]

As a woman there is nothing worse then a man who doesn't take off his socks just not sexy at all

[@Atem_S.]

Hell yeah!!

[@andromydous]

First, I'm the opposite. After sex, no matter how tired I am, I'm wide awake. Second, hypothetically speaking, what if she's the one who gets up, goes to the bathroom, and everything is over? It sometimes, more often than not, feels more like a hook up. Hypothetically speaking of course.

[@byronmartin4511]

Byron hi

[@Knit_Mask]

I really want English subtitles 😭

[@mikerieger8964]

My wife likes to cuddle for a few minutes and then she wants to not be touched so she can fall asleep! Took me several years to find that sweet spot to cuddle long enough....but not too long!

[@denistaylor1782]

Doesnt matter what you want?

[@Dean4511]

I just tell them it was better than making the eight ball on the break before I roll over and fall asleep. Women like that.

[@Allenmarshall]

Everytime?

[@keithmcdonald8322]

Pretty good

[@gregmoldovan5921]

Kissing her afterwards is complicated for me because she's SUPER turned off by smelling or tasting herself. However, we love oral with each other so much that it's a staple in our foreplay. We cuddle but don't kiss afterward due to her tasting herself on me. I want to be able to kiss her afterward and so does she because she'll often try and kiss me, then back away going "oh yeah, I forgot. You taste like vagina". I truly don't think it's due to uncleanliness as I've experienced her with and without yeast infection and multiple different flavors. Any advice to helping her get over the taste or in getting rid of the taste without toothpaste?

[@johnsajan8459]

jessica i learnt something positive after coitus. Thanks alot dear my sex life its wow since then.

[@davidduff9871]

He wrapped himself around you and THEN he went to sleep?

[@jacksparrow4613]

Hi , im in long distav$nce relationships , how to entice her ,

[@shulmab]

We are subject to a tremendous amount of social engineering. For example right now, 12/3/20, we are bombarded with information about the incoming Biden administration, with barely a peep in the news media about election irregularity hearings in Pennsylvania, Arizona, Georgia, and Michigan. Social engineering is a powerful tool. You should be telling your audience that they have been subject to social engineering to not engage in sex (you get a check more on that one), but you should also be telling your audience how to overcome their programming.

[@aivspn1]

How about if we both fall asleep. Or even worse being my partner fell asleep after sex. (Female)

[@aivspn1]

Oki nevermind

[@jagmohansharma1299]

1st view 😁

[@CaitlinV]

🥳

[@thorzyan]

Always tell her you'll get a wet cloth for her to clean up. Go pee, Turn on the faucet, let it get hot, wet the towel and squeeze it out and bring a dry cloth. Offer to clean up your mess and the. Cuddle her after she pees. Always pee right away to avoid a UTI.

[@ntnrocket1]

So I guess saying, "Yes, I won the bet, that bastard is gonna pay me!!" is probably NOT the right thing to say.

[@usmc1992usmc]

That’s actually how i met my first wife believe it or not. After the military, me and 2 other guys were working at this office supply store. We divided all the single women up, seven in total. I chose two. One guy chose 3 and the other guy chose 2. We then had a bet to see who could get laid first with one of our “target” ladies. We were not allowed to interfere with each other and had to stick to our chosen women. I ended up winning a few weeks later. However, she won me for the next 23 years and 3 kids. Sadly, we divorced in 2015 but it was a great run.

[@ntnrocket1]

@@usmc1992usmc Wow, that's quite a story. And I thought I was gonna get so many "flame" and hate comments that I wouldn't be able to read them all.

[@ntnrocket1]

@@usmc1992usmc Forget to ask, how much was the money amount of the wager???

[@usmc1992usmc]

You know I can’t remember now if there was a money wager or if it was just a “friendly” challenge. We had a great time working together. I was the white dude, the guy who chose 3 women was puerto rican and the other guy was a slightly older black dude. This was in a very diverse area (Washington DC suburb). Most of the 7 women were black and/or immigrant. My ex was a black lady. To this day neither my ex-wife (or my sons) know the real story about all of this. Needless to say, I didn’t think my ex-wife would appreciate knowing she was part of a bet. And I wouldn’t want my sons judging me or their mom for any of this. Lol anyway...yeah

[@ntnrocket1]

@@usmc1992usmc That was my next question, if your wife ever knew about it. But that's still pretty cool. Were you the only successful one or just the first of the group?? And thank you for your military service.

[@joshuariddensdale2126]

I've watched episodes of I Didn't Know I Was Pregnant, and I wonder how some women can be pregnant without showing the usual distended belly.

[@diammond9605]

CudleCrusher will be my next ingame name rofl

[@JuanSanchez-mr6lz]

She's definitely the proudest garden tool I've seen(in my opinion)

[@frankslusher2236]

Horizontal Bop....

[@tonyperez2803]

😆 im so guilty of sleeping after