What do you say if your spouse says to "Get over it."

[@Eclectifying]

Sometimes the partner rejects their partner because of PTSD, and blames them for their symptoms and accuses them of not taking full advantage of the treatments offered, or not trying hard enough to "get better." This is devastating. :(

[@TommyBowerscoasters]

Eclectifying I’ll say it is.

[@seemedecrazymuse]

This happened to me

[@chrissyprice7483]

One’s inner issues are solely their own to solve.

[@jennleighjones]

Thank you for this. I have been diagnosed with complex PTSD, though still not recognized by the DRM. It seems that everyone in my life just thinks I can get over it. Developing complex PTSD started as a child sick and in the hospital, then a mom leaving, abandoning me, then two emotional, psychological and physically abusive relationships lasting a course of eight years. I lost a daughter, not mine, but my boyfriend's that I raised, plus his business that I raised in aerospace. no rights. She is alive and well, but I can not see her, as I have He controlled my world and when I left, as my physical safety and sanity were compromised, I lost her and my identity. My current significant other has experienced loss with a brother that committed suicide and a father that died young due to lung cancer. But, he thinks he is just fine. How can you be just fine after those tragedies? I feel like I am trying so hard to make him feel, as I can not deal with my own pain, but he won't and does not understand why I can't just get over what happened to me. I was held hostage in North Dakota for months in negative 20+ degree weather with no gas for my SUV, keys taken, skillets with hot grease held over my head, so no I just can't get over it. Earlier, I lost a child that I raised from 18 months until almost seven. She was stripped from me. I choiced her in to the best school, ensured she was exposed to summer day camps, soccer, softball and ballet, but had to leave her the same age my mom left me. So, guilt and shame surround me. So, no, I can not just get over it. I realize there are others with similar pains and would greatly like to reach out to them. I will check your website. I thank you for your empathy. Mizpah, Jenn

[@zain4019]

Jenn this is all so horrible to go through :( your life over the past three years has, i want to believe, has gotten better. you deserve rest after all that pain.

[@sarahrashina2562]

You have gone through a lot

[@victoriachalita3305]

After 16 years of marriage I found out that my husband is a psychopath. Gaslighting hiding my things moving things and enjoying watch me look for them. A sadist. I divorced him. My two teenagers started doing drugs. Hitting me spitting in my face drinking threatening to kill me. They both are on probation. A girl and a boy. Life was normal. Until I exposed my husband. He is a millionaire and I found out he was living a double life. Now my children. My life is ruined. My son is also a drug dealer at age 15. I am an empath. I didn’t know this kind of evil existed. 100%it is genetic. I was a wonderful parent. I have moved and the kids are with my psychopathic ex husband. The police is always called they beat my ex husband also. My son was told he has anti personality disorder and my daughter a borderline. They have ruined my life.

[@islampeace...]

Wow your life sure looks hard but worrie not human as this life is not our real life this life is just a test from God so please do not give in to the evil of this world acks Allah(God) for forgiveness and help as God will indeed hear and answer your call so do not give up hope human.☺

[@GeniusJewels]

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[@callusbig4155]

Thank you, Dr. This is valuable.

[@carolashlee8002]

I am having a huge problem with this. I was getting triggered a lot with some of his behaviours. I though it was flashbacks Andy have been reading and seeking help. I don't think he validates CPTSD and my past traumas He sees it as bad behaviour Overreacting and being unreasonable It's frustrating as I hate living with anxiety and have reached depression

[@rabbitcreative]

My mom said this to me. Lovely woman.

[@ladennayoung2939]

Really good info and knowledge. Thanks for sharing. Have a blessed and prosperous day in the Lord, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen.

[@GeniusJewels]

Amen! (Though, we prosper spiritually, just FYI.) 😇

[@GeniusJewels]

But a rational, compassionate person WOULDN'T command their suffering loved one to "get over it." So, what do you say to THAT person? Good riddance?

[@bridgetcaloroso3246]

divorce!