What happens if i raise a child without ANY interaction in The Sims 3?

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[@Banana34598]

The golden child, while still having a difficult upbringing, being a snob while the black sheep child is neurotic is the most realistic thing I’ve ever heard.

[@FreakLilBitchAntonia]

me asf

[@foreverbored2009]

the sims 4 has spoiled plumbella with their easy “toddler just eat off the floor and raise yourself” mechanics so much she forgot the sims 3 had us in the trenches

[@TheDawnofVanlife]

But toddlers are pretty self sufficient, lol. If you can pull food out, they can eat it. To be fair I would say Sims 2 and 3 toddlers were like 18months to barely 3 years old, while Sims 4 toddlers are like 4/5 years old (like on the cusp of kindergarten/preschool).

[@Photoshoptransformations121]

I miss the open world so much, the cycling to school really added a lot of atmosphere and reality

[@Photoshoptransformations121]

@@ThatGuy-cm4oq mine didn’t freeze, and now it’s a forced freeze because you have to stare at a blank screen

[@immersive_meditation]

And the trick or treating, going to do minute outside activities bc there’s no loading screen….man what a gem

[@Photoshoptransformations121]

@@immersive_meditation yes!

[@dylanfulcher5134]

@@Photoshoptransformations121okay sir big-bucks-good-family-computer 😔

[@Lsg93]

literally crying over baby #2, she just kept making the best of a bad situation.

[@Alex-xi9ij]

it annoys me that neglecting children has no repercussions into adult hood- imagine having a complete psycho bc you neglected the kid

[@cottoncandy10291]

Exactly, I want consequences to my actions!

[@bugbear2357]

there should be some kind of repercussion to having a poor relationship with your kid, or some kind of memory if you do less than x interactions with the kid in a given life stage

[@ViceCityExtra]

Thats what is supposed to happen in sims 3. If you neglect they will randomize bad traits Starting from pregnancy tbh they will randomize traits on birth

[@crazygamer_1082]

Well to be fair to TS team, they probably don’t think the player is going to actively choose to neglect their children sims because they have the chance of being taken away. Plus they might have thought that would be too dark for a life sim.

[@sarahrosekhalil]

@@crazygamer_1082 I mean the build in different deaths to the game. So I think the sims team knows we play diabolically sometimes.

[@somegenerichandle]

The toddlers in Sims2 can eat dog food and sleep in dog beds. Hence they can take care of themselves.

[@steffanixoom3629]

maybe I've totally lost it, but why was this house giving massive Sims 1 vibes??? she is so Sims 1 coded & I cannot explain

[@LiterallyJustAnActualPotato]

I totally agree haha. I love it ❤

[@KlaraL-_-]

Right???

[@ThePerennialEffect]

"In the Sims 4, emotions are the main driving force, and not your sims' reality". Honestly, same.

[@HanaAmeNoJutsu]

I used to use nraas mods to set all members of a family to npcs except for a child, and then i would control that child while the rest of the family took care of themselves (school, promotions, needs, etc etc). Was really fun and chaotic Edit: its been years so i cant remember, but it was a combination of different nraas mods. Probably Story progession, probably debug, and master controller,

[@beelzebub6414]

wait how do you do that exactly?

[@eth1111]

Yeah which mod did you use? and which settings?

[@HanaAmeNoJutsu]

@@beelzebub6414 its been years so i cant remember, but it was a combination of different nraas mods. Probably Story progession, probably debug, and master controller,

[@HanaAmeNoJutsu]

@@eth1111 its been years so i cant remember, but it was a combination of different nraas mods. Probably Story progession, probably debug, and master controller,

[@TheBestPolicyHonesty]

​@beelzebub6414 if You have master controller. Click on sim > nraas>>master controller>>advanced>>>selectablity. And just make sure autonomy is on high so they move and do stuff.

[@Pencliff]

I love the thought of Declan editing and being so confused about the eyebrows

[@DeeJayM_Vlogs]

Honestly the confusion I had…

[@TheCrazyBrittish]

He wasn't confused on the eyebrows, he was confused about the eyes, plumbella was complaining about the eyebrows but declan was worried why she wasn't acknowledging the cross eyed sim. But she didn't focus on it cause it's a very common glitch in sims 3

[@julesanddiamonds]

I could be wrong about this but possibly giving the parents the heavy sleeper trait may make it easier for them to sleep while the babys are crying? (I guess for others who are loooking to try this lol)

[@tirsden]

No, in Sims 3 there is a point where nobody on the lot can sleep when a baby is so tired they non-stop scream (that is the point where if they are placed in a crib, they will fall asleep, but without being in a crib they will legit just scream like banshees for ages until they finally pass out on the floor). There is a debuff moodlet on all the other sims and everything, except for babies and toddlers if I remember right. One of the weirdest times this happens is when playing a homeless challenge and trying to take a nap on a lot where a random townie family brought their toddler who is left screaming somewhere in the building while the parents do heck-all.

[@dragontatoes]

Idk why it said you need a high chair, I hate them so I've never used them. You can even "feed on floor" to one baby, then have them drop the bottle and move it to the next room.

[@ashdavis3866]

Id love to see sims 2 with this challenge!

[@user-hg8nf1gs6o]

The pleasant twins' already did that

[@averyeml]

I’m glad you did this in TS3, because in 4 honestly my default state is giving them that Independent or whatever trait where they can already use the toilet and letting them run themselves. That game is so unbalanced that it’s honestly easier if the family just gets out of my way 💀

[@gcfe6003]

Not gonna lie that Strawberry Blonde do be looking great on you

[@Kjasmineo]

If your parent has the trait “family-oriented” you’re able to use the “feed on floor” interaction which basically just lets you bottle feed the toddler on the floor 😁

[@strawberrypink.]

I think you're able to do that without the trait, but I don't think Jesse thought of that because she didn't want to have any interaction

[@ha_des]

yeah I think that's just for everyone

[@xgreydovex]

A Christmas fan giving Halloween the respect it deserves?! BLESS

[@andrewcary9360]

Plumbella playing The Sims 3 is my happiness

[@georgiemac1784]

LIVING FOR THE TWILIGHT REFERENCE ❤❤ I would love it if jesse tried to build Charlie's house, bellas house, Edwards etc 🥺❤

[@sabaducia]

Thanks for confirming that this was a Twilight reference

[@LauraBeeDannon]

Moonlight Falls has those references but not that deep.

[@ellewhomeows]

I wish you could create your own festivals in TS4 like how you can create different holidays on the calendar.

[@pandakatiefominz]

The festivals were great but the create your own holiday system in Sims 4 is divine. The way the Sims 4 doesn't presume what holidays you want to celebrate is great, because like, yeah it comes with four premade ones, but the celebration options are SO vast. I've been playing the sims for literally as long as I can remember, but it wasn't until the Sims 4 Seasons that it became easy for me to maintain family relationships through generations, because the holiday system is so fun I host a party and have my sim's friends and family come visit and it's so fun for me. And like, my college sims will host a keg party for New Years but my sims with a spouse and children hold a much more reserved gathering. It's literally the best

[@ellewhomeows]

@@pandakatiefominz Completely agree with you! That’s why I’d love if that customization was available for other things as well, but I think the holidays was a good place to implement it!

[@peytonmaddox5283]

You can put a VERY LIGHT DILUTED blue/purple wash in to tone out the orange - like a lavender.

[@3amanxietea]

i love how jesse and declan probably have each other's phone numbers at this point, but have full conversations on the video notes 😂 i LOVE the sass 😂 "we just not talking about these eyes no ...?" "i'm just numb to it now declan" 😂 i passed away respectfully 😂

[@TheRealityofFake]

I think it would've been interesting to see if the non-neglected toddler grew up well. Toddlers are a pain in the Sims 3 and they take a lot of effort, but I believe you just have to teach them 1 of the 3 toddler skills (potty train, teach to walk, or teach to talk) in order for them to grow up well. But I just love seeing Sims 3 content. Would love to see this done in the Sims 2 as well.

[@Mr123spill]

when you do it for the sims 2, you can have a dog bed for the child to sleep in :)

[@quixotical]

and a pet bowl to feed them :)

[@DiscoTimelordASD]

I'm trying this out tonight. This has got to be a joke.

[@Quaila]

Damn, I’m annoyed that doesn’t still work in the Sims 3

[@TheDawnofVanlife]

@@DiscoTimelordASD yup, a hungry toddler will go all in on the pet bowl in Sims 2. Wasn’t even trying to neglect the kid, just hadn’t gotten over with the bottle fast enough and the toddler was all in on that full food bowl for the cat. 😂😅

[@DiscoTimelordASD]

@@TheDawnofVanlife I was surprised to see it's true!😂

[@skogsdocka]

Plumbella PLEASE talk about the fiasco that is the EA app not installing the sims 3 expansion packs for a lot of users. We've been trying for over a year to make the game work. We've begged for EA to help. Maybe if a bigger creator talks about this they'll get some fire under their seats. Luvs yus! ❤😊

[@DiscoTimelordASD]

I play on disc too so that's the only reason I can still play.

[@milk-jp6cp]

i literally had to uninstall my game and reinstall to get it to work with the expansions

[@averyeml]

Idk if I’ve ever seen such a perfect sponsor for a creator. This game looks fun, I had not heard of it once before this, and now I’m gonna check it out!

[@paigesofia7]

“And you can replicate the object” had me sold right then and there.

[@wumbology6072]

It’s trauma time, hens

[@revannia]

Hometopia has been on my wishlist for 2 years (?!!) so I'm looking forward to seeing how it is.

[@vampkimi]

Yessssss more sims 3 content

[@claudiacook619]

This is so chaotic. Not me shouting FEED ON FLOOR!!! FEED ON FLOOOOR!!!!

[@thesims3girlie]

I was shouting the same!!

[@ha_des]

the original baby had "difficult upbringing" because youre supposed to teach them how to walk, talk, and use the potty

[@indeboss]

Why was that google search lying to you?? 😭 You can give babies bottles without having to put them into the highchair

[@pinkcatacombs]

Honestly I always feel like in ts3 I have to like actively make an effort for parents and kids to have a relationship they do not autonomously do if lolol but in ts2 the whole fam is tight as fuck

[@NikkiNotion]

More Sims 3 content please!❤

[@eatsteas]

if you ever do this in the sims 2 it's gonna be so easy lol toddlers there can eat pet food and drink bottles from the floor like you tried to do in the video. they can also sleep in pet beds autonomously

[@TheDawnofVanlife]

You are the second Sims channel I’ve seen with a Hometopia sponsorship. Hometopia is really trying to go after the Sims builders market! I mean if you just like to build and decorate more than playing with characters…I guess. Without the Sims, Sims isn’t fun. 😂

[@Hydrangea_Babe]

sameee here! insta-wishlist, v excited to see more hometopia content maybeeee

[@Jasmine-mt5xy]

I mean I’m a simmer and I wanna play that game as well. Different game, different experience. To my understanding there are customizable characters on there, too. I don’t see it as competition tbh. Just another similar game no different than fighting/war RPGs.

[@leahdavis9434]

Without the Sims it isn't fun, *for you*

[@Poppyyyyy13]

Third for me! 🥲

[@sidhackney8831]

There is actually a huge amount of players who only build and decorate and rarely or never play with the Sims themselves. So yeah there are plenty of people who find the Sims fun without the Sims.

[@kelsey5093]

Is anyone else happy when Plumbella does an ad??? I’m just so happy for them that they’re successful enough to get money from sponsors, I’ve watched for years 😭❤️

[@kristenmccaig1637]

Plumbella humming Eyes on Fire SENT ME. OMG. That was my favorite song off the Twilight Soundtrack. I had a cool Aunt who bought me the CD back in 2009, and that just really MADE my middle school experience. My friends and I would sit on the bus with my CD player resting on our laps and share our headphones so neither of us could actually really hear the music, and then walking home we'd have to walk super close together and I'd just be holding my super cute powder blue walkman between us. Miss those days.

[@Cinnam0nScented]

Good to know that UK 90s kids had the Harvest Festival song in primary school - even in Scotland, we had that bop!

[@UnlimitedApathy]

Off topic but NOOOO omg that color is so insanely flattering on you!

[@wrenpen]

i LOVE the peachy hair on you it looks so pretty really brings out the rosy cheeks

[@user-wr9fr7ic2o]

Yesss 2023 sims 3 content!! I have an adhd hyperfixation on this game, and it’s hard to find quality and recent content for it (probably because the game is like,, 10 years old) Haven’t watched this yet, but I’m so hyped!!

[@watchmedo635]

every single british person started singing along at 17:55

[@cottage-core_]

This is what I need while I trudge through the flu. ty ty❤

[@ColorOfCozy]

Plumbella with glasses and the slick back hair obsessed lol

[@delouie]

love ur hair and ur uploads always bring me such joy

[@honeymatcha379]

QUEEN that's not ginger that's peachy and it looks stunning 🫶🏻you've been my special interest comfort youtuber lately and i never comment but i love the hair and i love u

[@Qtopian]

Ok miss strawbella shortcake i love the hair color

[@Aimeeeeef]

It’s 3am in Australia and I just got this notification 😏 I love this hair colour!!

[@DegrassiInstantStar]

Oh, this is a brill video, and loving the more inner-plum-coloured hair!

[@MyPrinceRo]

I would looove watching more Sims 3 content from you!! 💚💖

[@lillysophielucy]

Honestly, the slicked back hair and glasses is a slay!

[@partiallyaghostt]

would love to see this with the sims 2

[@carolinenatalicio]

it would be so fun in sims 2 because of the wants & fears

[@rjafitzgerald]

Oooooo I LOVE this warmer colour hair on you, really suits you 😊

[@Laira348]

Pretty sure the kids get taken away if their social is too low in sims 2, so I don’t think the experiment would get very far 😂

[@JustHollielol]

Plumbella singing the harvest festival song brought back so many happy memories I literally can't 😭💗

[@candiceki3125]

omg would love if you made a sims 3 series with a family

[@Yvonne_Smeagol]

Would love to see this in sims 2 ❤

[@elliefaerie1320]

NOO NOT THE HARVEST SAMBA!!!! We did that at my primary school tooooo omg.... It's another harvest festival, when we bring our fruits and vegetables, 'cuz we wanna share the best of all the good things that we've been given 🎶🎵

[@ThePC360]

neurotic but self sufficient. I love that for baby #2.

[@TheMirandalorian]

"Time is candy" -- i literally laughed out loud 😂😂😂

[@EggKayonnaise]

Fully started singing the harvest festival song with you. Memory unlocked 😂

[@ghostislosingit]

17:48 PRIMARY SCHOOL ASSEMBLY SONGS MY BELOVED!!

[@geminiecricket4798]

Love Sims 3 and 2 and 1 !

[@ewakaflaka6804]

Sims 3 is my love

[@TheRebelAndTheGirl]

Honestly you can wear any hair colour and it looks fab

[@kyndaldunbar3315]

Would love to see this in the Sims 2!!!!

[@Jockofc]

The imaginary friend is one of my favorite things

[@softfeelings275]

more sims 3 content pleaseee

[@psychopqth1125]

I started off hating how you talked but its kind of helpful to have such a energetic personality kind of snapped me out of depression for a moment

[@LadyLoraella]

Idk if you were still planning on doing this, but I'd love to see how this would go in the Sims 2!

[@dasanidani]

I think you would like the documentary "Three Identical Strangers" 😭😭

[@Quaila]

Jesse love you so much and everything you do. Damn, I didn’t realize you’d lose the ability to chose your trait if you had “indifference” toward your homework as a teen lmao, that’s harsh. Now, I don’t know if it’s too late to do anything about this but I fear you may have unfortunately said “homescapes” here (21:57) thereby giving that maddening nuisance of a game with those infuriating bald butler mobile ads your recommendation when you meant to say Hometopia. I know your taste is far too good for you to have meant that, so I’m going to go ahead and spiritually dunk the homescapes butler’s miserably bald, bald head in a toilet and shove him in a locker on your behalf

[@VultureSkins]

Oof, I can’t believe nobody along the lines of editing and approval caught that lol, that’s funny

[@ihaveaname699]

I think 17:49 just gave me a heart attack. I didn't think anyone else sang that song in school.

[@MW-sd9yz]

Oh boy, a late comment. Funny thing is, if she'd ever seen the "Toddler Food Bowl" by zoe22 and the "Napping Mat" by Arsil; both found on Mod The Sims, she could've done this experiment with way less headache.

[@violetfirecat]

Damn you singing that harvest festival song launched me straight back to my primary school singing assemblies fghjk

[@animemangaluv13]

Ooo psychological experiment

[@Ilucja]

I love ginger plumbella back 😊

[@cheeriozombie]

The strawberry blonde hair is soooo cute on you Plum ❤️ I’d play with it a bit cuz she be workin for ya

[@Mrsmaggiekanebabe]

This is how I normally raise the kids in the sims lol I don’t have time to take care of them

[@dontbesav]

Love the new hair!! 🩷

[@kissing_yoo_ohmylove]

we know its a good day when you post a sims 3 vid

[@jengrande2281]

Cant wait for the Sims 2 Version

[@luzpmt]

You look really great!!!!! Not weird at all, it’s kind of a look!

[@Soundso026]

I had the subtitles on and when the untertitle read the ``[twilight noises]`` i completely lost it :D

[@sylvankadonka7155]

Your hair looks dope af🖤

[@QueenAlexzandra]

The hair is my favorite peachy color so cuteeee

[@glamour5789]

YESSSS SIMS 3

[@MichaelTargaryen8809]

"hello hens" caught me of guard, so serious, you have my attention

[@yungceezy7749]

I LOOOOOOOOVE THIS HAIR COLOUR!

[@GBfanatic15]

that was a nice twilight reference

[@samuelzachariev]

I think that you can use the food processor to make it into baby food

[@krissa3257]

Yes, you can serve the baby the food that you make if you have a food processor. You have to put the toddler in the high chair, then pick serve food and then pick the food you want to serve.

[@DiscoTimelordASD]

Yep. I was very surprised with that level of detail.

[@thesims3girlie]

​@@DiscoTimelordASDright! Sims 3 is wonderful.

[@anatrarosa4073]

as if you just reminded me of the harvest samba or whatever it was called. what a banger

[@NiaJustNia]

You should've got the sleeping mat mod so the neglected toddler can put themselves to sleep

[@berk..]

NEW PLUMBELLA VIDEO

[@DissonantSynth]

Love you, plummy-plum-plum!

[@Janellishh]

Sims 3 babies and imaginary friends are the stuff of nightmares 😳🫣

[@jessmelgar219]

I stg I literally redownloaded TS3 two days ago and then I see THIS video!? I wonder how many people have done this recently