I totally agree. I’ve been to jail a lot in my past due to addiction, but the last time I was in for a year. I spent the first couple months drying out, then playing spades for hours on end and eating myself to sleep on commissary every night. Then, I started to read more. I called my family instead of old friends. I started meditating and doing yoga a few times a day. I wouldn’t completely isolate and I would try to do a couple drawings a week for other inmates of their family and such. I stopped ordering crap on commissary...and something changes in me. I started dreaming of the person I wanted to be. I made myself a schedule and I journaled and wrote letters. I lost weight and felt flexible, strong, and comfortable in my body. Once a month I would buy a bunch of coffee and make coffee shots for everyone in the pod and play charades...it was the first time in my life that I was self-motivated, in shape, positive, driven, and I was able to think about other people instead of just myself. Doing time is what you make it. You can try to fit in, which always creates drama and keeps you in that mindset...OR you can create yourself a peaceful place inside the chaos and use your time to become a better person than when you went in and create some healthy habits that you can take with you when you go. Thanks for this...I started watching this and thought it was gonna be BS and was ready to disprove you lol BUT this is factual and encouraging and something I wish people would be told when going in. Also, many people locked up feel forgotten and separate from the world...so, if you know anyone inside, write them a letter!! Y’all have no idea how much a simple letter can brighten an inmates day and renew their spirit, to know people still care. ❤️❤️❤️
@chrislynch71333 жыл бұрын
Welcome home. Wish you much success in the future.
@WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial3 жыл бұрын
I am very grateful you took the time to leave this message. It will help everyone who reads it. I applaud you for changing the direction of your life from the inside. It is not easy in that hopeless environment. Your story proves that people can emerge from this experience stronger and better than when they entered. Again, welcome home and congratulations on your success.
@julianwaugh9683 жыл бұрын
Well done, I hope your life on the outside is proving to suit you I did a month in jail and it was an Experience to say the least I did 5 days in solitary for observation to make sure I didn't try to commit suicide even though I had been in a mental hospital for two weeks prior . After 2 weeks in General population I was allowed outside, I cannot tell you how marvelous it was to be outside and feel the sun on my face ,a slight breeze of fresh air, little things that are taken for granted . I wrote about the experience as we had no books to read . Well some people should stay in prison, they actually prefer to and some when they get out have a hard time . Well good luck to you all.
@robertdaugherty66723 жыл бұрын
Wow,I'm 51 wish I'd heard this 35 years ago,God bless ya
@WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial3 жыл бұрын
I, too, wish I heard the message when I was younger. Thank you for watching. Be well.
@InvisibleGuy27 ай бұрын
Justin, when you spoke about being in bed at 8pm and up at 4am, did this schedule effect any one and did other guys get upset that you were waking that early or was it just understood that in a situation where you can’t control much your sleep schedule is something that could be?
@TyrellPreston-t4n7 ай бұрын
Oh yeah wake up 8 pm 4 am
@amyturbiner63643 жыл бұрын
Appreciate your directness and honesty. You're a gifted and eloquent speaker Justin. Thank you again for all you do.
@WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial3 жыл бұрын
Appreciate your supportive words, as always. Thank you.
@kareno62223 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. My son is there. I hope he learns what you have.
@WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. If you email his name and registration number, I’ll send him my book. Please send to Support@WhiteCollarAdvice.com. My best to you and your family.
@j.w.groves73143 жыл бұрын
I have spoken to many people who have let us say strayed from the straight and narrow and it's just like you say no one just woke up and said today I'm gonna steal and cheet .it was a gradual thing a little bit here a little bit there and they woke up one day in a world of hurt .very interesting and helpful .
@WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your comments. As the cliche holds it is a slippery slope.
@DaRyteJuan2 жыл бұрын
Your outlook, your insights and your advice is valuable not just to white-collar convicts, but to all of us struggling in life. If we don’t like the situation we’re in, if we believe we deserve better, we can can first OWN where we are and work from there. As someone once said to me, “We can never leave a place we’ve never been” which first means to stop being in denial.
@vannahfrazier1742 жыл бұрын
Awesome again! Love your candor. Suggested books, please. Knowledge is power.
@JGULLIF2 жыл бұрын
You need to know that you are speaking to more than just people heading to the slam. I hope I live my life conscious of the need to make right by the people I've hurt and try to live with purpose and honesty.
@WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial2 жыл бұрын
Love your message. Thank you for sharing.
@michaelmullin3744 Жыл бұрын
I went to prison in 1988. It was probably the worst time of my life but a friend of mine told me one day. You're gonna laugh about this and I could tell you it took 40 years but you know what looking back on it? It was the probably the best learning experience I ever experienced I was in there with guys from Harvard. Yeah places things. I never even experienced and I use that to my advantage and I came out and I was much better than i'm when I went in
@sampompeo97473 жыл бұрын
Great insights here.
@WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial3 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@Rookie5k473r4 ай бұрын
I have never been to jail or prison. I got sentenced to 6.5 years. I gotta self report to a federal facility in 2-4 weeks. I have a degree. I got a aiding and abetting charge for fentanyl. I was basically giving a guy rides and we got pulled over when he had a large quantity of drugs on him. Then his partner had no place to live so I let him rent my back room at my house for 2 weeks. He was told to not be selling drugs at my house. I thought he was doing well, but he was just being extra sneaky. I had 10 guns that I have owned for years and years. When he got caught selling drugs they searched my house and charged me with having guns and drugs together as well. I know I was dumb for allowing this, but fentanyl addiction is very tough and quitting is harder than anything I have done to date. But 6.5 years or 78 months is a very big sentence for a first offense I thought. I have a 14 year old boy and a 12 year old girl. That's the worst part is I'm gonna miss their high school years. I have been clean and sober for 249 days straight as of today. This is the first time I have been sober like this since maybe 2006. I had got sober before but never made it this long. I cam attribute my sobriety to my probation officer. I feel so horrible for doing this to my kids and parents. Is there anything you can suggest to help prepare me for this? I don't really know what to expect. I do plan on writing a book. I have lived a pretty wild life so far. Also, I'm not claiming to be innocent, I was wrong for helping a person who sells drugs. I'm just looking for maybe a little guidance about what's about to happen to me? Maybe there are some good videos about my situation and what to expect? Any advice is appreciated. Thanks.
@ilovestrider123 Жыл бұрын
Thank u for explaining federal prison i may end up there soon i have recently made a horrible mistake at 21 and may end up with 5 yrs do to threats of terrorism stupidity i did i dont think before i speak
@mrswampgass21863 жыл бұрын
Some people learn the hard way
@WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial3 жыл бұрын
I know I did
@gerry23453 жыл бұрын
I like this vid... Good insight.
@WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@bettyvonner64765 ай бұрын
Wow crazy when some people get mail to report there dam
@kaibrost19313 жыл бұрын
Both of My Parents Should Be In Federal Prison For The Rest of Their Lives Since 2008 !!!!
@kevinrice49093 жыл бұрын
Always made my own trouble....did alright in spite of myself.... they can't catch everyone... more of us than there is of them..... The old man's down the road.....
@kevinrice49093 жыл бұрын
The good people get the good reward..... glad you're back on the rails.... family is the only thing of value on this planet....we are in this world.. not of this world... good vid kid.... keep your powder dry and good luck hombres!
@WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much...
@ronaldgoldstien703 жыл бұрын
U bet fight if u have to win or lose u will get respect otherwise every predator in there will rob u
@EveningTV3 жыл бұрын
Interesting concept for a channel. I''m curious why you never just say prison. The difference is obviously meaningful to you, but I don't think there is any common knowledge of why that would be. Can you explain why it is important we know you were in FEDERAL prison and what the differences are other than they have a reputation for being like a country club. I doubt that is true, but even you said it was like a college campus and you have lots of autonomy and free time to get in shape or work on your memoir. I do not believe this is true in a any regular prison, but I could be wrong. /certainly some states are harsher than others. Thanks for sharing.
@captnron593 жыл бұрын
Federal prison=country club
@billygunn71803 жыл бұрын
I know that you're not supposed to drop the soap. Same thing, in the navy.
@johnfroelich85543 жыл бұрын
At first, i unknowingly hung out with sex offenders. Until i was told it sent the wrong mrssage...
@WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial3 жыл бұрын
Where did you serve your sentence?
@johnfroelich85543 жыл бұрын
@@WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial MCC chicago. West Van Buren St
@ronaldgoldstien703 жыл бұрын
Federal prisons r much bet than state prisons u bet know some people in jail if u get incarcerated u bet stay with your own race and have a daily routine
@angelhelp68193 жыл бұрын
Any any movies 250 players and color TV
@markharris15263 жыл бұрын
I worked with a man who spent 17of his 34yrs in prison and said he wanted to go back so he broke in a jewelry store so he could go back
@WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial3 жыл бұрын
I had the same experience in the halfway house in 2009. One day my bunkie went out and never came back. He had been in prison more than 35 years. I later heard he engaged in petty theft to ensure he could go back.
@anthonymaniz98963 жыл бұрын
My neighbor violates his parole so he can go back to prison just to get raped he says it's a adreline rush
@justinharris6898 Жыл бұрын
Wow
@justinharris6898 Жыл бұрын
Prayers for him
@LectronCircuits3 жыл бұрын
Bummer that you didn't hide a stash of cash to have when you got out. Cheers!
@WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial3 жыл бұрын
I had something better! A plan, discipline, and desire to help people emerge from this wretched system successfully.
@betsymarin79323 жыл бұрын
What a moronic statement. People have to go through things to get their morality right and apparently all you care about is money. Good luck with that when you're dead. See then what money will do for ya.
@LectronCircuits3 жыл бұрын
@@betsymarin7932 Per chance when you replied, your sense of humour was temporarily off-line? Cheers!
@citypopFM Жыл бұрын
This dude definitely went to PC lol.
@Dawg9999911 ай бұрын
you need a new mic...
@WhiteCollarAdviceOfficial11 ай бұрын
lol! I got one. This was filmed years ago
@deadsouth62263 жыл бұрын
You wouldn't last in a regular prison, lol. Lol.. Believe me. Your actions would get you beat down. You don't even have a clue what it's like in a Real prison. Candy
@staubert4774 Жыл бұрын
Inmates die in Devens aeyer ma no medical care , unsanitary , two homosexual incompent co belfre and pedrozza