What Happens When Feminists Pay Alimony | James Sexton

[@BreakupBounce]

Do you agree with James Sexton?

[@ExiMaster]

no

[@BreakupBounce]

@@ExiMaster Which part do you disagree and why?

[@tg5127]

Yes, absolutely

[@jamesseeker1538]

Not about finding a new person after divorce. Women like men who have already been through the selection process but if you were thrown back into the dating pool they see it as something must be wrong with you..... And just take a look around there are PLENTY of simps to take up any used up women and the women usually "settle" for these guys even though they don't make em hot but because they provide and are a safe option.....

[@AshishShrivastava-q6i]

Yes!

[@LetsGoforDabash]

We live in the society where talking about bad men is considered as awareness but talking about bad women is considered as misogyny

[@johnhein2539]

And all the people who think that way live on Reddit.

[@richardsteiner45]

In case you haven't all noticed. This is all NATURE. Micropenises exist, sexual domination of males exist, LGBT exists, female spiders will eat males. Trust nothing. Trust no one. They are animals.

[@Ameridlo]

slow women refuse to accept the inherent evil from women, and we all men are quite aware on how evilness our sex holds

[@Siiimon426]

This

[@LetsGoforDabash]

@@johnhein2539 reddit is a gynocentric platform where weirdos can openly talk about r*pe n unhealthy fetishes but people will report ur " I don't date women who have lots of male friends" comment because for them it's regressive patriarchal attitude

[@GSK4EVER]

Sexism towards men and misandry is not only accepted in our society, it’s encouraged.

[@АлекСневар]

Yes, towards white straight men

[@richardsteiner45]

In case you haven't all noticed. This is all NATURE. Micropenises exist, sexual domination of males exist, LGBT exists, female spiders will eat males. Trust nothing. Trust no one. They are animals.

[@richardsteiner45]

@@АлекСневар 1000%

[@coltonsmith3724]

@@АлекСневарany race of men

[@bimrebeats]

Sexism is not the issue. Undue sexism is. Men and women are not the same.

[@osark2487]

"Give me all of the authority with none of the responsibilities." The feminist mantra.

[@teresamagnusson]

We have inherent risks and responsibilities that you don't have. It's biological, and justifies any authority we choose to wield.

[@MichaelBrown-q4y]

@@teresamagnusson There are no "inherent risks" that you have within this context, and if you want to play that game of "biology" then the supposed authority Men have wielded over Women for millennia shouldn't be an issue for you given how patriarchal systems are demonstrably inherent in all of hominidae (the order of the primates).

[@EE-kt8sh]

​@@teresamagnussonNo logic is why you deserve no authority

[@teresamagnusson]

​​@@MichaelBrown-q4yWe are in charge of natural selection. All mammalian females are. This is how evolutionary biology works. It hasn't helped hominids for guys to try to be in charge, they're really bad at natural selection and leadership.

[@teresamagnusson]

​@@MichaelBrown-q4yThe inherent risk of reproduction is all on us, love bug. That's why we're naturally meant to be in charge. We are meant to control reproduction.

[@richardjohnson4052]

I worked in the Divorce court for 30 years. When the laws changed and women were first ordered to pay child support, I would get a couple calls every day from women who gave up their kids to 'find themselves' complaining that we were taking child support from their paychecks and it was unfair that an absent mother should have to pay child support. When I got custody, my judge refused to order her to pay ne child support. "Why should I order child support that she will never pay?" If I didn't pay, I would be in jail. "You don't have a dozen woman's groups waiting to have me disbarred."

[@alexmuenster2102]

>> "You don't have a dozen woman's groups WHO WOULD THEN ACTIVELY WORK to have YOU disbarred."

[@richardjohnson4052]

@@alexmuenster2102 thank you.

[@GAPearce828]

Women making the excuse to 'find themselves'? What a fucking joke. I commend you for your experience dealing with these jokers. That judge who was being rude to you and sided with the former wife has no spine. In fact, one could argue the legal system in general is SPINELESS regardless of ethnicity or gender. [Few are capable of turning against women and ordering them to pay since they're ruled by their ego and emotions].

[@itsme-sq5rd]

Vmen only support vmen. It's not about equality or justice. It's just about what they want.

[@zenden6564]

👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏

[@floridashawn7317]

There are no feminist in a divorce courtroom or on a sinking ship.

[@garyvaughan7748]

LMAO ...Thumbs UP!

[@robertmonroejr1315]

Or, working on a garbage truck emptying cans in the middle of summer or winter, repairing roads, doing construction, changing a flat tire, etc.

[@garyvaughan7748]

@@robertmonroejr1315 ......Fair and Equal..50/50 ...ANYTHING a MAN can do,women can do BETTER ....50/50 .....LOL!

[@teresamagnusson]

​@@garyvaughan7748Sorry boys, but we bear the biological risk and responsibility of child bearing, no matter what our career achievements are. So that's why you go down with the ship and pay up in the courtroom.

[@teresamagnusson]

​​​@@robertmonroejr1315Cool. You go ahead and risk your life and sacrifice your earning power to grow a child inside of yourself, birth it, breast feed it, and raise it. That way you're exempt from emptying garbage cans in the winter and repairing roads.

[@dennisharry8408]

He's right, im a Mediator and the unhappiest clients are the women paying alimony

[@evorider3689]

That's because there is no truer saying than: "With women, it is all about the money"!!!!!

[@MrGamman3yt]

I hope you listen and read. My arbitrator overlooked purjury, and then listened to lies (easily provable - if he would have actually READ the affidavit). I was NOT a credible witness, when i have provided 1,500 pages of info, tried to create spreadsheets to summarize. Yet, her own evidence contradicted her own story.

[@holeymcsockpuppet]

​@@MrGamman3ytsad. But it doesn't surprise me. Tens of millions of guys are going through the same thing. It infuriates me. You'll make it through, and on the other side is a nice big pool of SUCK! Ugh. But after you swim through the suck, you can start over. And you will.

[@Justtwodangmany]

Okay, first off "I cheated" on my ex after she "neglected" me 😂 for most of our marriage. She thought that since i went outside for fun, she could too. So she did, and I found the online chat with pictures and dirty flirtatious talk. While sitting with my lawyer and mediator, i presented my evidence to them and they began reading together from it as the individual parties, my ex and her boy toy. They had the best time doing the voices. So about ten minutes later my ex and her lawyer came up to settle for just the child support since SC requires faithfulness all the way up until the divorce is finalized for you to get alimony. Leaving her PC on saved me $310k😂

[@mnomadvfx]

Makes sense. They've been told and reinforced over and over again that this isn't their lot in life. Disney makes them think that they are all princesses, and their magazines make them think that they all deserve big, expensive weddings. They have been sold a pack of lies all their lives, and the only ones that see it are the ones raised by a single father who suffered the reality of what it's like on the other side of the fence.

[@moderngentlemanschool]

He's right that the man is somehow always at fault and no one will take your side. My ex wife was tremendously abusive after we got married and I left quickly. I'm much happier now but even my family told me I was wrong to "abandon" her. So even when a woman drives her husband away by never spending time with him, never being kind to him, and definitely never sleeping with him, somehow the man is at fault.

[@lilfairycupcake]

glad u got out quick. i wasnt that smart.

[@LeadLeftLeon]

Your family are traitors

[@richardsteiner45]

In case you haven't all noticed. This is all NATURE. Micropenises exist, sexual domination of males exist, LGBT exists, some female bugs will eat males. Trust nothing. Trust no one. They are animals. You got caught in a trap by a parasite.

[@bernardogalvao4448]

This "man is always at fault" is so internalized in me, I struggle to ever blame pther people

[@ChineduOpara]

​@@bernardogalvao4448 Yep. Same here.

[@Chuck-iv4qp]

My sister just divorced her musician husband and is FURIOUS about having to pay alimony and child support. LOL

[@michaelperez3887]

A woman will destroy a family for her own (selfish happiness)

[@janushomer9111]

will they put her in prison like they do for men, if she doesn't pay or is late on the payments?

[@bogusjuan4998]

My ex didn't pay child support for a year and half, they did nothing to her. So from my experience, no.

[@words007]

Do update chucky boy please please 😂 we guys need to know how women who break the code of the world gets treated and what the outcome she gets.

[@CZAR-]

My best friend ex-wife has not paid him child support for 27 months and counting and she still had her driver's license and I know for a fact that they have not taken her passport because she travels out of the country frequently. For me, there is no benefit for being a husband or father.

[@DontDieSenpai]

Can confirm. Was cheated on and told she felt neglected, so labeled the bad guy. I felt neglected and cheated later, also a bad guy.

[@08ehrman]

Well let see. I got denied food stamps because I make too much. Lost the house, the car, medical debt, credit card debt. And denied a loan....meanwhile I'm sure the next fool will happily step up and try. Unless a sugar momma comes around to save me.....ima go on a limb here and say guys have it WORSE. I will never deny it will be hard for both involved. But if I break down in tears in someone's office they call the cops all I'm saying

[@braedenh6858]

But 8 years from now when you've lived in a dump with your TV on a box and paid off your debt and you look good from exercise and single guy eating, girls will look at you again and you'll be back to square one

[@richardsteiner45]

@@braedenh6858 No he will be smarter. Marriage is over now.

[@richardsteiner45]

In case you haven't all noticed. This is all NATURE. Micropenises exist, sexual domination of males exist, LGBT exists, some female bugs will eat males. Trust nothing. Trust no one. They are animals.

[@SnerMerNer]

@@richardsteiner45yup. Once you get burned, you don’t stick your hand back in the fire.

[@d_all_in]

So you can't manage your finances and whose fault is that?

[@shaolinotter]

it was definitely a wakeup call for me when my wife cheated and our entire community turned on me and congratulated her. especially since I was the most valuable person in the friend group from a pure work output perspective. its funny that feminism is amazing for men if they are strong enough to accept the truth. you are better off without them

[@mnomadvfx]

Certainly you are better off if you have had a vasectomy early on and never ask them to marry you. Leave them no room to hurt you beyond cheating and you are much better off.

[@Bibirallie]

You were the “ most valuable person in the friend group from a pure work output” what does hat even mean?

[@AM-ep1rv]

​@@Bibiralliehighest paying job

[@mfawls9624]

Yeah. My wife cheated and there's like this aura of it's me that needs to initiate everything in attempting to rebuild the marriage.

[@edenkillswarrior9056]

Maybe they were jealous of you

[@Neon_White]

Being a man under feminism sure is fun. You get all of the responsibility but none of the authority. It's like being the CEO but you're purpose is to just be the scapegoat of the company with no actual power.

[@shaolinotter]

and theres a 75% chance that once youre out of gas, your contract will be torn up and you will find another guy in your office

[@Highwynd]

Plus DEI and affirmative action initiatives that men pay the brunt of the taxes for to keep women at a vertical advantage over them in hiring and promotion policies and practices that favor women over men by over 6X on average and is predicated on nothing but the fact that they're women. If men were given an equal playing field again to strive for work, men would be activated and engaged with work again, and companies would hire men more frequently than women because it's just more advantageous. Statistically less likely to call out from work, generally harder working because men have the testosterone, tenacity and male drive to provide and we are judged when we don't work hard and we also won't leave our place of employment when we have kids unlike most women. Big surprise that men are heavily built for consistent labor. This is "sexist" and thus women must be given "equal" opportunity and "equal" pay, and so the men give up because they're penalized for being men and having a male work ethic and mentality/drive, and now the infrastructure of society is collapsing because men don't want to maintain and uphold a society that disrespects the people that primarily are responsible for building it.

[@mnomadvfx]

"It's like being the CEO but you're purpose is to just be the scapegoat of the company with no actual power" Ironically I'm pretty sure that's exactly what the function of Kathleen Kennedy and Kevin Feige is under the Disney corporate structure.

[@Neon_White]

@@mnomadvfx reminds me of a lot of national so-called leaders as well. They get elected but they cant actually do any of what they wanted to get done, but still get 100% of the blame for everything that happened under them.

[@MorteWulfe]

Understand that they have attempted to condition you all your life against your nature. Use your rational mind to control the beast you can be, but take back your power.

[@Waltkat]

I agree with James. He forgot to mention how feminists feel about the military draft.

[@pistolpete5620]

Excellent point! Women want _"equal rights"_ but only in the areas that benefit them.

[@rastalique8114]

In 1980 the National Organization for Women augued to INCLUDE women in the draft. President Carter was in favor of it. The registration form i used at the Post Office had a check box for male/female. Congress refused to pay money to make extra draft cards for women.

[@terry_willis]

Plus, even IF women were drafted equally/pro rata with men, they would NEVER "be in harms way", NEVER be in a hostile fire zone. The really bad part about the draft/military is getting your legs blown off or having your face grossly disfigured. Society would not tolerate that happening to the fair sex.

[@adamd9166]

​@pistolpete5620 The best way that I heard it articulated was that women take an "a la carte" attitude towards equality, picking just the parts that they like.

[@julesgro8526]

Just to be fair, the feminists i have come across don´t want the draft for men either.

[@patg3424]

When I got divorced my ex wife just got her masters degree and a big promotion. She tried to hide her assets and bonuses but we found it all in court and I happily accepted alimony from her to this day. She wanted to leave so fair is fair and I earned it by putting up with her and her cheating for years. Don’t be afraid to claim what is yours gents.

[@Trynottoblink]

Lmao based

[@sparkzbarca]

Yeah but you put up with cheating so being ok with alimony is expected. If you were the kind of man to say no to alimony, you'd have been divorced long before she got the promotion no? You want to get revenge? Have a great life and do it without her giving you hand outs. Well that's what a man does anyways. But then they don't stay with a serial adulterer

[@winstonsmith6204]

@@sparkzbarca NAAAAAAHHHH😁. . . take the money

[@sparkzbarca]

@@winstonsmith6204 that you'd trade getting cheated on MULTIPLE times for something as easy for a man to get as money? I mean go take a welding course and make 100k less than 18 months from now, 150k in 36. Who cares about that pittance? I can't imagine being so weak you need a woman to pay your bills.

[@user-vx1up7ty7z]

@@sparkzbarcahow exactly is letting someone keep money they owe you “the best revenge” lmao. How about live a great life with the money they have to pay you

[@PeterTheVald]

Words from a divorce lawyer are based on facts, not opinions. I love this guy!

[@mysterioanonymous3206]

Yeah but his sample is heavily skewed. Thats why police officers often are such weirdos. They constantly deal with a holes so over time your perception fools you. The biggest predictor for graduating college is still whether or not your parents are married. And the stats for kids from divorces speak volumes too. So make of that what you want.

[@markplautz6842]

One caveat to your analogy… if you buy $20 worth of lottery tickets and don’t win you’re only out 20 bucks. You take a shot at marriage and don’t win many will pay for the rest of their lives. Big difference.

[@Morbutt]

Well he is a divorce attorney so I would assume he is well aware of that...

[@Jus7aguy]

You did notice he followed that up INSTANTLY with "get a prenup" right?

[@johanvanstaden2408]

Trust the divorced guy to tell you that having a great marriage is down to luck… Happily married people will tell you that it’s a skillset, expressed as a series of smart choices…

[@lucagraziano8739]

​@@johanvanstaden2408There is a bias in both so wouldn't really fully trust either. This guy seems genuinely fair though. He did say it is unlikely but potentially worth it even if for the few good years BUT he added get a prenup. Prenup = multiple tries, less risk involved and you can enjoy the whole thing without major expectations.

[@coltonsmith3724]

@@johanvanstaden2408its both

[@josiah5776]

My ex owes both me and her first husband 6 years in back child support. Guess what the authorities do to enforce it. That's right. NOTHING! Despite what Mr. Sexton says, I have yet to see one single woman paying anything to the man in a divorce.

[@simmorg290]

It does happen. I read a while ago that there are so many well paid women in Washington that some of them do end up having to pay alimony. The funny thing is that the women, as the guy in this video said, thought that it was the worst injustice in history since money is always supposed to flow from the man to the woman after a divorce whatever the financial situation.

[@josiah5776]

@simmorg290 I've heard of women paying child support, just never never seen it in person. Pendulum, might be swinging back ... but too late for me and millions of other men. Hopefully future generations of men won't have to deal with this garbage.

[@AndyViant]

Yet a man $10k behind would be in prison for a felony crime.

[@angrydragonslayer]

​@@simmorg290i know of a few women who have been told to pay alimony None of the ones that refused has had anything done to them

[@smokingcrab2290]

You have to pursue legal action

[@mr.wildcat405]

Six years after divorce and seeing all of this content spread like wildfire. No idea why tf I got married in the first place.

[@justsomeguy6336]

Because you were horny. Right?

[@whiteyobanion1104]

We are all brainwashed into it.

[@impudentdomain]

That is really a common thing I hear from somewhat older men who got divorced, especially the ones who never really wanted children badly. Why did I do it ? Sort of like being brain washed by society that it was something you had to do.

[@jonvicmamon2529]

You can marry but too idiot on love that is a fairy tale. Be realistic on picking real women. And they maybe not the best looking women but if you choose wisely and have self control it will be worth it. Listen read old quote on life and relationship like women talk in reverse. It's real it's a way to find genuine people friendship and also having a backbone and a spine. They may be few people around you because they stay away from you. But only evil people stay away from you.

[@justsomeguy6336]

@@impudentdomain because 🐱

[@Mantelar]

A buddy of mine and his wife were at a party when his wife was talking about how she’s learned to do it all, without here traveling husband. He was finally sick of what he was hearing and said “You give anyone 13,000 a month and they should be able to go it alone” The silence was deafening. Except for my laughter. Yeah, I’m that guy.

[@Boner_Jamz]

And yet, society just can't wrap its head around why men in droves are just checking out.

[@stevenator0281]

Lottery winner here! Married twenty-seven years and it feels like I got married yesterday. Every day with my wife is a good day. I am Blessed!

[@tims.3950]

That's awesome, man. I'm happy for you.

[@stevenator0281]

@@tims.3950 Thank you. I hope that you get to experience the same!

[@macmcleod1188]

That's really cool. The odds are about one in four to survive and be happy. Not quite lottery level but still took some luck and probably some hard work on both your parts. On the other hand right this second the lawyer is saying that the odds are much worse than he only knew one happy couple ever. Which is kind of odd because I know five happy couples out of the 30ish couples that I know.

[@richardsteiner45]

@@stevenator0281 Youre being drained by a parasite.

[@platch23]

Actually “happy”? Or they seem to get along fine? I know too many couples that seem happy in public, but then divorce.

[@GnomesPwns]

The alimony thing is hilarious. His reasoning behind his own divorce is interesting though.

[@richardsteiner45]

In case you haven't all noticed. This is all NATURE. Micropenises exist, sexual domination of males exist, LGBT exists, female spiders will eat males. Trust nothing. Trust no one. They are animals.

[@stevenroshni1228]

It's the thinking the grass is greener on the other side effect

[@pistolpete5620]

Another issue that was not discussed in this video is the suicide rate of divorced men. The statistics show that, compared to divorced women, divorced men are nine times more likely to die by suicide. If it were women that were nine times more likely to die by suicide then it would be called an epidemic and there would be a national outcry to help women but because it's men then it doesn't even get mentioned.

[@jasonpeach820]

Not going to check this before I post because I don't want to go down a rabbit hole. But I had heard at sometime, that more women attempt suicide than men but men are just better at it. Some of it was men are more likely to use violent means ,i.e., gunshot, hanging, etc. Where women are more likely to try something like pills or slicing the wrist. Not sure how true it really is but it makes sense to me.

[@Kevin-us4gj]

This video hits the nail on the head. My ex-wife drug out our divorce over three years because she didn’t want to pay child support. Not even alimony, CHILD SUPPORT.

[@RonaldKragnes]

Every woman's a feminist until it's time to split the bill.

[@daveman9712]

He knows ONE happy couple amongst all the couples he's ever known? Jeez that's depressing.

[@rickmossop3733]

IKR. I know several. It is kind of depressing I don't know more though.

[@braedenh6858]

I don't know any

[@macmcleod1188]

I know five happy couples among the roughly 30 couples that I know. I think his sample is biased because he's an upper class divorce lawyer.

[@RandomCarrot2806]

My guess is that because of his profession, he sees every red flag and every source of potential conflict in every couple no matter how minor they are.

[@daveman9712]

@@macmcleod1188 Point taken but five happy couples out of 30 couples is still only 17% success at being happy. It's still depressing.

[@alanmartin6436]

Any man who gets married in America is signing up for his own hostage situation

[@danielkalloo3834]

I pity my brother in law who just married my sister. He's a doctor and a great guy but I already know how its gonna turn out statistically. its so sad the advantages women have in todays world and still want more more more lol. they're never satiated

[@Kumar-fg1cj]

Brother it's not only the USA . it's all over the world

[@bjkarana]

Or, marry a woman who makes more than you. You missed out on a lot of what he said.

[@private-private]

You are right but why why why do men still do it? Today?? In 2024?? What is wrong with us as a sex that we keep doing it to ourselves??

[@poeticprincee9750]

@@danielkalloo3834damn brother that’s very scary actually!! You seem like a good man

[@QuantumCat76]

0:15 so it's harder on men

[@baitingmaster5622]

Allegedly

[@eeayquetting5963]

Yup

[@vulture3874]

My daughter got divorced. No kids, no alimony. My wife; her stepmom, was raging about it; that she wasn't 'getting paid'. I told her, Louise ( my daughter) is a lot like me, when I got divorced and we got together I took the attitude, 'What is the maximum you are happy to walk away from, what is the minimum you are prepared to walk away with, just to keep your sanity?' It worked for me, and my ex (Louise's mom) hated it; no leverage. Btw, I got custody of her and her older brother at 5 and 3.

[@BreakupBounce]

And that is why fathers are crucial in their kids' lives-standing strong when it counts, guiding with wisdom, and teaching the value of self-respect and integrity. You did right by your daughter, showing her that peace of mind and personal dignity are worth more than any payout. That kind of example is what builds good women and good future mothers.

[@mcfrisko834]

Looks like you better watch out brother. Your wife might switch up on you.

[@EE-kt8sh]

Aren't you worried about your wife's attitude? Sounds like she will want to "get paid" if you ever divorce

[@kchall5]

Dude, I hope you have a solid prenup with your current spouse. Sounds like she may be looking to "get paid" herself.

[@vulture3874]

@@BreakupBounce Thank you. It was hard work but worth it. I think what the other three contributors have taken from my story is confirmation bias. We are both over fifty and you'd like her; she dislikes feminism too.

[@Kevin-vm6yy]

I've said it 100 times, their are no feminists at 2 am when you hear someone breaking in. Or if you get a flat tire in the rain.

[@dunkirk1581]

The best way to win the game is, Not to play.

[@garyvaughan7748]

YEP ....Been 29 years and counting ....Besides Nam(2 years) that was the most emotional draining DAY BY DAY seven years in my life EVER!!!

[@mcfrisko834]

@@garyvaughan7748You guys had no business being out there. Our govt is so corrupt. Thanks for your service.

[@slackerman9758]

You know Matthew Broderick’s character in WarGames got taken to the cleaners by Allie Sheedy’s when she left him for a biker.

[@joshua5555]

the only reason alimony still exists is because enough women havent been affected by it yet.

[@pbrown0829]

Facts

[@imonit4272]

🎯🎯🎯

[@aaronfarrell6484]

“Is divorce harder on men or women?” I think it’s equally hard on both. Goes on to list the numerous ways it’s way harder on the man and the few outlier example where it’s hard on women…

[@perrymaskell3508]

Separated 19 years ago after only 2.5 years married. Daughter was 4 months old. Couldn't handle the abuse any more. Took another 2.5 years to finalise divorce - gives you an indication of the fighting. Been ripped a new one 3 times in Court since then. Pay about one third of my take home pay in Maintenance / antimony, for 1 child. Haven't seen her going on 3 years now, because there started to be hints of sexual assault and / or sexual misconduct allegations, so I walked away. I get a few emails, but that has dried up. And now they motivate the continued payment based on fraudulent claims - which I can prove are fraudulent. I now have no idea when the payments will stop, because my daughter is now at University (was not informed let alone involved with the decision), and thus not self sufficient. She could become a career student, and the ATM at Father Bank must continue paying. So, men get it way worse. I know it must not be easy raising a child as a single parent, but man, the money must sure make it comfortable, and when I have been excluded from their life so thoroughly over such a long time, they can do as they wish, because I will simply have to pay the bills, or be locked up. My daughter's future is on track to be so messed up, it scares me.

[@imonit4272]

IKR? 😂🤣😂

[@Qwerty95ish]

Otherwise KZbin would probably shadowban

[@watman5]

He's a lawyer.

[@chaitanyagupta6668]

The first few seconds were to reel women in. So many women have made up in their minds that they have it harder always. Can you imagine them spending time on this video?

[@bobowon5450]

my parents are divorced. I understand why she left him. He was distant, made a lot of stupid mistakes. But at the same time the more i learn about their relationship the more i realize just how imperfect she was too. How she never tried to sympathize with him. If he made a mistake it was his mistake, if she made a mistake it was because he didn't support her enough.

[@MorteWulfe]

About time people realize that this is all about POWER. The matriarchy really has seeded itself into this country for years.

[@PhonoDirect]

Yes. And it will bring the end of it. The West is fubar, thanks to feminism. It's now running just on the fumes of the past.

[@imonit4272]

It’s about socialist’s exploiting f3male nature to destroy one of America’s greatest strengths, family. The race grift is a socialist weapon… The F3minism grift is a socialist weapon….

[@christiandoll4435]

Women's money is their money. A man's money is also their money as well.

[@dassemultor2980]

jepp and women call this "equality"

[@bdtrap]

A former colleague of mine, female, was ordered to pay her guy alimony. She was in tech sales, he was a personal fitness trainer. She made about 4x his take-home. She was LIVID that she had to pay. Her reasoning: "he's a man." She also trash-talked the flock out of him, and most ppl took her side. Whilst they werr married, our colleagues talked sh*t about him being poor and she would add to the joke. He left her due to the disrespect and bcs she rarely came home after work. It was tho, in her story, his fault that he couldn't make more.

[@imonit4272]

Yep! Sounds exactly like the thinking of a modern vvoman to me: If he makes a lot of money, she’ll divorce him to take his money. If he makes no money, she’ll divorce him because he makes no money. There is simply no reason for a man to get married… None

[@DrBilly90210]

Did someone put a gun to her head and force her to marry him? 😂

[@chaitanyagupta6668]

Why do you think women want the man to make more? 😂😂 You think it's because "I'll be vulnerable during pregnancy" bs? Children's care is the least of their concerns. They use children for their own fantasies, why do you want a tall man? Because I am short and don't want my children to be short. Why the man should provide? Because I'll carry his children and take care of them. Why do you need this much alimony and child support? Because children ... You get the idea.

[@JonsTunes]

YES I'm male, I was cheated on, I took our three daughters and raised them singlehandedly. Their mother had another child shortly after the divorce and as a result was not required to pay child support and never has for the past 14 years. Had the tables been turned I'd have paid her £140,000+ by now. People still supported the decisions she made, again if the tables were turned I'd be stoned in the street for the same actions!

[@sinizzl]

Yet you are the one who stood firm for your three daughters and bit the bullet when their mother didn't. You are the one who's providing a home, a father and a future. Women, the authorities and society might take away your money, but no one can take that away from you. Watch over those girls. Be the kind of man you would want them to look up to. God bless you.

[@larion2336]

@@sinizzl They'll grow up to be three more lying, cheating ghouls like their mother, no doubt. What a waste it all is.

[@dassemultor2980]

If you had to pay alimony and had another child short after the divorce you still had to pay aliminoy. Women call this a patriarchy.

[@imonit4272]

Rules for thee but not for me…because reasons. - The F3minist mantra

[@georger6624]

When women have to pay alimony things change, feminism goes right out the door

[@stevethomas760]

Some years ago a good bud was going through a divorce. Their son wanted to live with his dad but the judge was giving custody of both children to the mom. Her lawyer "if he pays child support for both his son can live with him". His lawyer told him if he could afford it, pay it. When his son came of age to choose my friend when back for child support for the son. She went nuts.

[@rjs617]

I’m in that guy’s first situation. My ex and I originally had shared custody of our son. I earn much more than she does, and so I am paying her alimony and child support. My son was miserable at her house and he wanted to live with me, but my ex would never agree to that-until I offered to continue paying her child support. He has been with me for 2 1/2 years now, and during that time I have paid child support as if he is still going back and forth between our houses. My lawyer is telling me not to rock the boat-that if I can afford to keep paying the child support, I should just pay to avoid a custody battle. My son is almost 18 now, and so this BS will be over soon.

[@stevethomas760]

@@rjs617 It is BS but the upside is that you've had the time with your son and your guidance will make a difference in his life. Brother you are on the right side and your son will appreciate that (likely later). The guy I mentioned passed a couple weeks ago. His son had grown into a good man who loved is dad. I never heard my friend ever mention that it wasn't worth every penny. Good luck

[@rjs617]

@@stevethomas760 Definitely worth every penny.

[@holeymcsockpuppet]

Divorced men may have it a bit easier after divorce, but only in dating...and that's all. Most never want another relationship. Trust, finances, health, security, relationships with friends, relationships with your children, mental health...all suffer for the man. For the woman? They get money, empowerment, and adoration.

[@Erewhon2024]

But at least they get stuck with cats when old.

[@davidcox3076]

@@Erewhon2024 And boxed wine. Don't forget the boxed wine. Or, is that whine? : )

[@stevenroshni1228]

Dating as a divorced woman is like looking for a job as a felon For men it's more like a misdemeanor

[@manifest2203]

M4n are more likely to re5marry.

[@manifest2203]

@@stevenroshni1228 exactly. These people are lying.

[@marquisstrongchild7535]

I may not need it, but I'll be damned if I don't take alimony if I was entitled to it😂😂😂😂

[@bobg5362]

Divorce is NOT equally hard. Men get flucked emotionally, legally and financially 99/100 times.

[@mcmneverreadsreplys7318]

1996: cheating wife who admitted I was "faithful, loving, dedicated and working on the relationship." To protect the kids from her con man lover I filed against her (got to pick the best court for my position). The 'shrink' and court awarded me sole custody. She paid child support but it was so small when the oldest child hit 18 and she asked to reduce the payment the court refused to change it. I'm glad it worked out the way it did, but really, no one won - especially not the kids. Postscript: her (never faithful) lover dumped her less than a year later a week before her birthday.

[@larion2336]

It's a dime a dozen tale, unfortunately. Feminism has been one big social experiment of women demonstrating exactly why granting them absolute freedom and equal rights was a mistake- not just for men, or children, or society- but for them most of all. Much as you wouldn't let a child choose what's for dinner every night - ice cream, ice cream, chocolate! - neither is there any wisdom in giving women free reign, they actively destroy both their own lives and that of everyone in contact with them, usually through a series of shortsighted and unbelievably selfish choices.

[@akidmyself4053]

I've seen 4 marriages over time were the couples genuinely love each other. To be honest, they were all traditional (don't go crazy, the worst I've seen were also traditional). But here is what they had in common. 1. Husband NEVER belittled his wife for her role in the marriage (many traditional couples have the husband insulting the wife because she doesn't make money but still wants her at home). 2. The wife likewise speaks respectfully of her husband. 3. They knew what they wanted out of life and their marriage before they got married. 4. There were no crazy age gaps. 5. They would blush when talking about their spouses. They never said a bad word about their spouses.

[@larion2336]

Guarantee none of the wives were promiscuous before marriage either. The men too, but the women especially.

[@everythingisfine9988]

I've seen it with age Gap. But otherwise yeah, everything you said

[@dassemultor2980]

" husband insulting the wife because she doesn't make money but still wants her at home" Really, I have never seen that. Was she expecting an absurd expensive home, but doesn't want to work for it?

[@imonit4272]

Husbands don’t start belittling their wives until the wife starts devaluing the relationship: Cheats Let’s herself go Withholds sex Emasculates him by comparing him to more successful men - MASSIVELY common. Misrepresents herself by hiding high body-count. Gaslights him, calling him insecure for having a problem with her high body count. The list goes on and on… * Once she starts with her bullshit, a man will struggle to be gloving toward her. Wives wreck relationships…not husbands. But we’re programmed to blame men and believe vvomen’s tears. It may take two to tango, but it only takes one to destroy a relationship.

[@Munthegun]

If anyone is wondering, this is a clip of a much longer vid on a KZbin channel called “Soft white underbelly”, and it’s VERY worth the watch.

[@FlirtFailsYT]

Good to know, its also in the description.

[@Munthegun]

@@FlirtFailsYT oh damn I didn’t even realize. Thanks dude.

[@picivyvortac2641]

5:46 "somebody's gotta win" he's not mentioning that if you lose, he wins as a divorce lawyer.

[@Leonhart_93]

It's not like he made any effort to paint the overall picture in a positive light. He was very candid about how raw of a deal it is most of the time.

[@stevenroshni1228]

"someone's gotta win," that one is me

[@imonit4272]

The only way to win… is not to play.

[@gregghunter1796]

Women absolutely see a man with full custody of young children as having "baggage". They do not want a man responsible for children. They always think he's looking for a mom to take care of his kids.

[@chipremel8594]

It's rare to see men awarded custody of the children, so a lot of women see that as a responsible, competent man who can actually be a man.

[@TheJacali]

I’d argue that a lot more women would be into that man than men would be into a single mom.

[@dadadadave9652]

First time coming across this guy's video, and I gotta say, I love his energy and delivery!

[@joejoejoejoejoejoe4391]

"I think it's equally hard on both" - so they guy loses his wife, and finds out that she never loved him anyway, so all his happy memories are ruined, he loses his children and possibly finds out that they're not even his, he loses his house, loses half of his pension, has to pay half of the mortgage of the house that he's lost, has to pay alimony, has to pay child support whilst she tells lies about him to turn his children against him, and she gets to keep the house, children, gets the big pay-out, gets lots of sympathy and attention, gets to be cool because divorce it the thing to do now, how it that in any way equal? The only positive he can give is that he can re-marry but that's nonsense. What woman would want to marry a divorce dad, he'll have no money - the most important thing she will look for, and why would he want to marry again, knowing what will happen again?

[@knightheaven8992]

It's insanity.

[@ottifantiwaalkes9289]

Really important I agree. once a possible new female partner finds out that most of his income and so forth goes by law to the previous leech she's gone too. What would she do if she finds out really early that this lemon was already squeezed?

[@ClockworksOfGL]

One reason why things are changing (albeit slowly) is because second wives are tired of their husbands having to pay the first wife. It’s like that meme where “[thing happens]…women most affected.”

[@joejoejoejoejoejoe4391]

@@ClockworksOfGL Men die in war, women most affected; women make false allegations, women most affected etc.

[@BowlCrossy]

Yeah, seemed like a throwaway line because he said "equally hard on both" and then went on to explain in each case why its worse for men. What woman out there is seeing a divorcee with kids and going "Ooooo, instant family!"... ? If that's actually the way someone thinks, the poor guy should run.

[@smokingcrab2290]

Those "beautiful vibrant smart" women you met who you think are a real catch.. Remember there's a reason the guy lost interest

[@private-private]

Agreed, everyone new is vibrant, smart, beautiful. Just live with them for a year and that wears off real fast.

[@Smartcom5]

@@private-private Most doesn't even can uphold their façade of falsehood for more than three months.

[@Smartcom5]

*Remember:* _No matter how cute she might be, somewhere out-there is another guy, who already had enough of her._

[@rg2613]

Non religious here and married to my wife for 21 years. We both get along really well. I think the secret is a kind heart and willingness to compromise and just love the other person no matter what happens. Marriages that don’t work out is because one or both partners are too selfish and once they don’t get what they desire, they seek that from someone else whether that is money, passion, excitement, etc…

[@MrGamman3yt]

Women initiate 75% of divorces now. They must be based first.

[@bjkarana]

Same here, but married for 15 years. There's no fool proof way to avoid infidelity and divorce, but honesty, patience, and putting your spouse _first_ certainly stack the deck in favor of a a good marriage.

[@eprofessio]

Outlaw child support and make DNA paternity test compulsory.

[@aj2228]

The opposite. DNA testing is actually illegal now.

[@everythingisfine9988]

No & No Less government life regulation. That's why we're in this problem in the first place. Marriages should be a social thing and not recognized as legal doctrine by the state. That solves everything

[@CrimzinEclipse2010]

@@everythingisfine9988In theory, what you’re saying makes sense. In practice, taking the law out of marriage and make it an exclusively social thing will never happen. So, if we’re going to live in a world where the law will be involved in marriage regardless, we may as well make it fair towards men by ensuring that terrible women can’t abuse the system to their benefit, which is what currently happens all the time.

[@jokerthief1946]

@@everythingisfine9988 States are build on family units. It's literally how we count loses in wars - in how many family units got destroyed. You just blasted the most empty argument ever possible. Outlawing something that binds a population together by filial relations and ability to inherit is the most dangerous thing to happen. Fun fact : even commies recognized the danger of that and quickly banned their little sexual revolution in 20s of XXc. Stalin was even promoting something akin to "nuclear family" (commie style of course).

[@ellys573]

This video is about alimony, not child support. Maybe stop thinking of child support as paying the woman and start thinking of what it actually is - paying for the child you brought into the world.

[@sahaaf7563]

It's not the man , not the women , the kids suffer the most in a divorce. Most kids from broken homes don't do Well , this hurts society. Men & women make families, families make society it's directly related.

[@aj2228]

We dont care about society or kids. That would be communism.

[@RobNeeth]

Crazy how all our ancestors, for all of history, wouldn't let women impact society. Almost like they all tried what we're trying now, and figured out it's a bad idea. Good thing we have the internet now, and it will aaaaallllllllll be recorded.

[@icestationzebra8636]

I’ve thought this too!

[@BowlCrossy]

Indeed. I don't think they tried anything like what we've ended up with in the modern western world. The old timers listened to women and they learned. Seems like we stopped at some point during the 20th century.

[@prettyboyjeremy]

"What makes you believe your conspiracy theory?" Well, they just started saying it publicly in front of cameras

[@Sensorium19]

It's called group selection. The groups that tried giving equal rights to women don't exist anymore. The ones that chose a more functional and successful arrangement did survive.

[@thebeastincarnate5736]

All successful societies across all of history were patriarchies for a reason And then some hippie boomers decided it wasn't such a great idea in the 60s and now everyone's paying the price

[@lazyakers]

5:43 He doesn’t know many happy couples because happy couples aren’t seeking this guy out.

[@rafaelr5243]

That's true. I know quite a few. Most I know are actually but I live in a red state not some materialistic blue city.

[@_nuance]

People find men's suffering especially when it's coming from women as a funny thing to laugh about.

[@paulschumacher4308]

My wife & I are one of those happy couples. It takes work to make it work, but yes ... we genuinely like each other.

[@francois853]

If she cheats on you, destroys your family and earns more than you then you should absolutely take the alimony.

[@monsieuralex974]

Society NEEDS to study that happy couple he's talking about and make a detailed report on why their marriage is working so well! People need to be told the truth about happy marriages! 😄😄

[@MrGamman3yt]

An emotionally stable female that can deal with and communicate hard discussions. And has a passion for/ respects him. If the 1st is true, then the male parts must be true too. Women initiate 75% of divorces now, so their stability is utmost imlortance.

[@badart3204]

@@MrGamman3yteh, that’s assuming all men are able to have those hard discussions. Women have less incentives to stay in a bad marriage than men thus are going to have a lower threshold for divorce than men do. All things being equal it very well could be closer to 55%

[@cyrusp100]

Nobody can make that level of effort for decades in a marriage - it has to come naturally. The only way it works is if you are naturally compatible. If you have similar values, similar libidos, similar levels of introversion etc. Ideally one day someone maps these traits onto the human genome and then we can use AI to find our naturally compatible life partner. Until then it's a big gamble.

[@Scion141]

That's pointless. People are different. What works for them will not work for others.

[@stwida91]

MY divorce was the best thing that ever happened to me. It opened my eyes and taught me how to say "no". My now-wife - I didn't settle for a single thing. She is perfect, she feels the same way about me and came from a similar relationship background... Sometimes the best way to learn is to fail.

[@samofrabat]

@3:08 That's because men allow that. IF they held women accountable regardless, then we can say we have a true just legal system. If it gender neutral, it must be so. women must pay. PERIOD

[@bjkarana]

Look for a woman who holds herself accountable and you're well on your way to finding a good spouse. That's what I did (I am the product of divorce and a mother who has _never_ held herself accountable) and my wife and I are still happy after 15 years.

[@samofrabat]

@@bjkarana what about men, we must not allow this injustice and leave these legal loopholes

[@bjkarana]

@@samofrabat I don't disagree.

[@djjwp]

When I divorced in 1995, I went for child support and the court house closed the window on me after I submitted proof of custody. When I asked why they took the last month when I had custody, I got told it was my issue to get it from her. Men get screwed over big time.

[@matthews2122]

Surprising a divorce attorney, encouraging people to get married. He knows as long as the narrative keeps going that you need to get married to be happy. He’ll keep raking in the dough, because most people aren’t going to make it.

[@bennettmusiccollective3218]

My cousin and his wife are hand holders. They’ve been married 35 years. She still caresses his neck, he still reaches for hand. They are childhood sweethearts. They remind me of a tee pee and the poles that hold them up. He’s one pole, she’s another. Their dedication and devotion is the third pole helping to hold everything up. And it’s wrapped in a beautiful fabric of love. They never waiver. And they never let anything come between them.

[@FishAndChips2478]

That's cool, that's also a very childish and naive idea that could cost dearly to anyone pretending to live in a Disney movie

[@bennettmusiccollective3218]

@@FishAndChips2478 😂😂😂

[@Mr.Creepo]

Lottery, that’s a good one. I told one of my ex girlfriends,”a lot of people know how to play the guitar, but very few of them get to be rock stars.”

[@fivebooks8498]

The only way it works is if the woman keeps thinking her man is better than her. The moment she thinks she can do better she will lose attraction, cheat and leave.

[@FishAndChips2478]

It's true, it's also pretty disgusting, that's their behavior, their "true love"

[@danguee1]

Exactly what happened to me. My wife - a lawyer - had a clandestine, 2-year affair with a colleague. When I found out and left her, everyone firstly assumed that I'd had an affair and been kicked out and then, once the word got out, automatically took the view that I'd "forced her into the other guy's arms"..... Slightly frustrating - but you at least find out pretty quickly who's a friend and who in the family is worth having anything to do with

[@Bill-c8e]

One couple. My experience is the same. I'm a 73 yo man. I live alone, and I love it. Deep down . . . I wish I had found my soul mate. But, I know what he knows. The chances aren't good.

[@ceedizzel2025]

Men need to MAN up and take that alimony if they are entitled to it. Come on guys..

[@viper-the-great]

Absolutely 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 facts

[@jsomeone3]

5:19 This was the dating strategy I employed in college. Hit up the same spots every weekend, don’t overextend yourself financially, and maybe you’ll nail it. I won my lottery on a seemingly inconsequential Thursday $1 beer night in 2009 and never looked back.

[@Cunashi009]

Get rid of alimony and child support the see how many women still want to get married. If women married for "love" then they would have no problem finding a man and making it work.

[@timmccreery6597]

I agree with James Sexton. That is why, when my first wife decided to go have boyfriends and I realized I had to file for divorce to protect myself and my two kids, I hired a female attorney and I stood up and cheered when I found out I would have a female judge. As it turned out, I kept the kids, the house, the dogs and all the bills and child support was left open though I never collected it. I demanded that she keep medical insurance on the kids.

[@jackwilson1818]

“I think of a man, and then I take away reason and accountability.” - Jack Nicholson’s character on how he writes women so well

[@jeremyscott6641]

My advice of 17years married, have every fight once and realize nobody is perfect, eventually you run out of things to fight about lol. Easy to leave but you will just have the same fight with someone else.

[@angrydragonslayer]

I am envious I had 1 fight with my first gf and she still tries to restart it every now and then, more than half a decade after i left her

[@bjkarana]

Haha, very true. My grandparents were married for 68 years and I'm pretty sure all of their "fights" were settled with no more than a sigh or grunt.

[@gulli72]

Close your eyes and take a moment to forget the money. Imagine you have a perfect, rock-solid prenup in place. Imagine all the material b.s. being solved and irrelevant, and focus solely on the _stress._ Imagine _just_ the stress. Is it worth _that_ stress?

[@scottverge938]

What stress?

[@vecter]

It's only stressful if you don't know how to handle women. Which is 99% of men.

[@antoniolima1068]

@@vecter what s### is this how to handle, have "handle" enough of them to realize insanity, how about another idiot that is so codependente that he changes onus of responsibility from female to male, get a fuking grip on yourself and never tread lightly with other males.

[@knightheaven8992]

​@@vecterthen all the women can marry the 1% of men then... Good luck peace in life is priceless

[@vecter]

@@knightheaven8992 you'd have peace with women if you were (1) truly confident and masculine and (2) knew how to handle them

[@GothTwink2330]

“I yearn for true gender equality. I have no patience for one who talks about female privilege when it suits them, and then complains about someone "not being a man" when it's convenient.”

[@fuzzy-supernova]

Kazuma Satou, the wise one.

[@nathanwilliams5290]

Once women start earning more than men , alimony laws will change 6:13

[@ThLivingHam-g7x]

@@nathanwilliams5290 maybe. women look down on men who make less than them on average. they prefer a guy who makes even more than them. until they make so much they cant find a guy who makes more....also since women are graduating and attending college more then men this is going to happen. alot of women with more education than men and presumably earning more. but since they have a degree, that is more important than a blue collar guy and they will hold him in contempt

[@John-Jay-Allen]

This is exactly why I’m MGTOW and I’m in my late 50’s. I had a nightmare of a one and only marriage and Getting together with the right woman is like winning the lottery! I agree!

[@kennethng8346]

I find it amazing to see how attitudes change when people find that they need to pay, or they are responsible.

[@hitthestreetsphoto1253]

The important thing everyone should remember is that one happy couple would still be happy and together with or without marriage. Why get married when you’re never going to win in those odds? Stay single or live with someone but NEVER get married. It will most definitely destroy your life. That you can take to the bank, the empty bank.

[@Erewhon2024]

In most areas of the USA, if you (while unmarried) live together, you will eventually be considered to be part of a "common law marriage" and face every one of the risks married guys do (except perhaps that you get "church shame" up front for fornication rather than for divorce). Back in pioneer days, there weren't enough justices or ministers around in some parts to solemnize the vows, and while this has become unnecessary for a century or so, laws once they become terrible are never fixed/removed.

[@ferdinandgleinser2681]

After a divorce, men are 9 times more likely to commit suicide then women....let that sink in. So no, I don't think its equally hard on both sides

[@anthonyju6392]

In my congregation which is comprised of 150 people I know 3 couples that have that spark between them. I can't judge myself but I am told me and my wife also fit into that category. I would say the odds are not great but it is not as bad as James says. The thing they all had in common they were all poor when they got married and they were all young. I guess it also goes without saying that they all had strong religious backing. I also have 2 non-religious friends and their marriages also seem to be good as well. My oldest brother's marriage seem to be good. My second brother maybe not so much. It is hard to say what works and doesn't work but in my opinion the few things that help make marriages work that I see are the following: willingness to compromise or adapt to changing circumstances - This could be losing your job and now you have to spend less or moving to a different location never becoming ungrateful - always appreciating in the small gestures having an optimistic or positive outlook on life - I am not suggesting you think the world is a wonderful place but rather no matter what difficulties you face in life you have the outlook that you will make it through. owning up to your mistakes and saying you're sorry

[@MrGamman3yt]

The main/only difference is the women are emotionally stable, can communicate, and the men are as well, only after the 1st part is true.

[@jsross33]

@@MrGamman3yt "women are emotionally stable" - hahahaha, no. just look at the percentage of women on anti-depressants. Try spending some time on that cesspool known as tiktok and you will very quickly see woman are crazy. "can communicate" - the ability to speak doesn't mean you can communicate effectively. Women are very rarely able to communicate in a direct straight forward manner, it's all hints, inuendo and you should be able to read my mind.

[@bjkarana]

@@MrGamman3yt that's a fair point.

[@ClockworksOfGL]

I had a buddy that got laid off and his “wife” dumped him in about a month. I’m not married, but to test out my gal, I told her I was having trouble covering the bills for the month (not entirely true, btw….the money was just in the wrong spots temporarily). She hung up the phone, called back a few minutes later, and said she was able to locate a friend that could loan me money until I got things straightened out. I hope I die before she does, I can’t imagine a life where I have to live out my days without her.

[@anthonyju6392]

@@ClockworksOfGL When you find a girl that sees you and her as a team instead of a lizard's tail that can be shed as soon as it is inconvenient to have one is a very good sign.

[@politenessman3901]

If you are entitled to alimony and feel uncomfortable taking it, take it and donate it to a mens shelter or a mens mental health charity. Get receipts both for tax and to show your friends that you are passing it on.

[@Andrew-nw4np]

I’m the same as that lucky friend. Married 20yrs and 25 yrs together in total. I’m only 45yrs old and she is 42. Still have a long wonderful life ahead of us. My family is my world. The secret is to just keep it simple and block out external noise.

[@skynet2966]

Married in a church, divorced in a court….that’s all you need to know.

[@willembeltman]

0:54 and the judges are women.

[@poeticprincee9750]

Oh God that’s the worst!

[@4400seriesFAN]

Trust me, if I even win an alimony case and can take money, I will do it, very proudly and I will be laughing my ass off about the situation to everyone!

[@Paul-sj5db]

If the guy doesn't need the alimony he should still take it and put it into a savings account for their kids.

[@drumsnbass]

Absolutely!

[@drumsnbass]

Absolutely!

[@guyh.4553]

Screw that! If I was awarded alimony from my ex-wife, I'd sure as hell take her money! As I would most likely want to be the one to want to work out the differences. I wouldn't find any shame behind it. 😁😁😁

[@mmadmic]

Men are considered as bad guy by default in marriage, therefore, men stop asking women for marriage, and women lose everything, good man, good father, good companion and at the end are alone. And men deal far more better with loneliness than women do.

[@clas683]

Only men can be called ‘creeps’, not women. And it has nothing to do with the man’s actions but only what a perticular woman claims she feels about the man’s actions.

[@AntiSewingCircleChristianity]

Get used to it.

[@badart3204]

Creep is more about being considered threatening. I’ve encountered like one female creep where everyone was like “dude something’s not right about her” but women lack the physicality thus are largely not considered as creepy unless they exhibit especially bad behavior

[@danmartens8855]

The destruction of the family by our culture is its worst sin. Unhappy homes produce unhappy children.

[@spybreak23]

>Judges are human Citation needed.

[@PJ-pj8lr]

The world is slowly waking up to the evils of the Jezebel spirit, a turning point is just around the corner.

[@CanadianSpaceBoy]

As a man i dont see the point of marriage. My parents arent married and they are happy together why would i need a piece of paper to prove my love or a special date to celebrate our love when we can do that every day. A day becomes special if you decide it is. Every day dan be special

[@thebteamgamingchannel5701]

Further proof that they cherry-pick their equality

[@poeticprincee9750]

Bingo!

[@notnurfcreanga]

neo-feminism is always just: "i want... higher wages.... justify it with the anctient myth of the wage gap, i want to.... make male only spaces illegal but not the other way around with the gender equality act... i.... don't want... to pay child support... and always be seen as the victim. Oh and make it so that if anyone points it out they are sexist"

[@Nad-A123]

More of James please and its worse in th UK wen you divorce - try getting equal custody or any time without the ex-wifes permission.

[@jimbomoosio2184]

There are no feminists in a house fire, hostage situation or when it comes to paying the bill

[@sirclarkmarz]

The happiest married couple I know met in their late 50s neither one had children they both own their own homes and only get together a few times a week .

[@High_Rate136]

That’s my goal. No cohabitation, and having date nights a few times a week.

[@Trynottoblink]

So basically a “living apart together” marriage. Interesting, you never hear about these outside of celebrities doing it. But honestly “living apart together” is the only type of marriage I’d ever consider. Something really valuable about each person having their own space and staying out of each other’s way, I suspect it improves those marriages by a lot

[@treacherousjslither6920]

​@@TrynottoblinkY'all just friends at that point. Why even get married?

[@benny3969]

That's not a marriage; that's perpetual dating without commitment. As such, the people will eventually treat it as disposable by seeing other people sexually as the relationship is not sacred, special, or enduring. If that's the best you know, then you must be existing in a human cesspool of depression and sadness. Even if you clap back, your point of view is anecdotal and not representative of the whole, and does not work when reported on (e.g. celebrities who do it and eventually getting divorced).

[@alexr6470]

So they are not a married couple then. They more look like a hookup couple. I am sure both of them or just somebody of them have side pieces. This isn't a real marriage, they are more like friends with benefits