What Happens When Pride Gets in the Way of Your Happiness

Does pride ever get in the way of your own happiness? Plus, which is a more important trait - having a strong sense of humor or being a brainiac?
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[@Anas-rx1he]

I love Loni’s self awareness of her in past seasons. I know it doesn’t come easily or naturally to her but she’s opened up a lot more in recent seasons, and I appreciate her more serious and intellectual side.

[@InspirationalSmiles]

Yeah she’s very smart not in just what she knows but the way she goes about presenting information

[@Anas-rx1he]

@@InspirationalSmiles Yes you’re right, especially when it comes to presenting news and factual info, she has a way of simplifying it which makes it easy to follow.

[@jasminefranc5889]

Yes yess!! This!

[@eneshastringer323]

We love you Lonnie !

[@TravelingOnStardust]

I do as well! People forget that she comes from an engineering background and she should get props for that!

[@desireev8798]

Pride will cost you everything but leave you with nothing.

[@dilciaenid57]

Yup!

[@TravelingOnStardust]

So true!

[@brooklynforever1990]

Truth

[@IsabelleMN11]

I am so glad Loni embraced the decision to just wear flat shoes. This is really major and I don't know anyone else on TV doing that other that Whoopi sometimes.

[@katy5362]

And Wendy Williams

[@janejustin1788]

true,,,, i see even pregnant talk hosts wearing very high heels and wonder whether they aren't uncomfortable

[@carolanncraig3398]

@@katy5362correct!!!

[@kakikarei]

Loni is really growing! Love it. Garcelle has changed the hosts and the show in general. Best addition ever!

[@hav5959]

Garcelle really fits the dynamic of the show! She vibes so well! Love her!

[@stephanieshelton5813]

I'm exactly Adrian when it comes to pride, I get embarrass easily so my pride don't allow me to put myself out there in fear of embarrassment

[@jaydecampbell3499]

Being shy is tied to Pride and the fear of embarrassment around people that you stay to yourself

[@mrexecutive]

Adrienne

[@Kassandra_016]

If you’re reading this I hope this year you wholeheartedly believe that you are worthy & enough

[@tryin2beehappygolucky431]

❤️

[@madison.amariiii]

“girl you 45 now” has me cryingggg😭

[@LiahB]

Loni’s growth is beautiful I simply love her!!!

[@MajesticMyronn]

Pride is something that will easily make people sway away from you if have you too much of it ! Too much pride to apologize , to not have humility , to not remain humble… lemme tell you something having too much pride is the death of things that mean most to human heart !

[@dilciaenid57]

🎯 pride is the reason I’m divorcing. Meaning the highest on the spectrum. A Narcissist can’t be married.

[@ingrid8994]

💯💯💯

[@MrLoyalty2me]

Mannnnnn these girl chats be giving me life!! Thank you ladies for starting off the New Year with amazing topics!!

[@lerayshaaen]

Pride comes before the FALL and the sad part is prideful ppl be so prideful they don't know they falling 💯 😪

[@mayalicious203]

Loni’s take on the funny topic was interesting because the first person I thought of was her lol she definitely had a issue with knowing when to stop the funny and just participate in the conversation . Sometimes that can be overbearing because it seemed like it was her way of deflecting during deep conversations

[@rechemaroberts7031]

I promise Adrienne and Jeanie's stories get me everytime LOL

[@takimahowze]

There's a difference between Having Pride and being Prideful. I truly pray that Adrienne gets delivered from fear 😔 I love Loni!!! She's amazing this season

[@nolyssa]

Adrienne really hit home with this one

[@music-gs7qo]

Come on Loni !!!!!!! Loving your journey

[@christianrobinson8451]

Pride is a fool's best friend.... Great quote!

[@Queenblessful]

Wow Adrienne just explained me,I feel like I have miss out on so much just cuz I don’t want to come off looking dumb.The slightest detection am off.

[@NaijaGirl94]

Loni has grown soooo much! We love you Loni!!!

[@raejae5565]

Adrienne and her "FUN FACT" 😂 There's a big misconception that smart guys are socially awkward and nerdy, the funny/witty guys are usually smart anyway - most comedians hold degrees from prestigious universities

[@Joejoyoyoyo]

Yeah, I know one with a masters in computer science… Loni herself used to be an engineer

[@theoneandonly0099]

You have to be smart to be able to think on the spot and make good comparisons between current affairs etc

[@sh1659]

Yaaaaas Loni! Knowing your worth is important, pride comes before a fall! 💃🏽

[@MajesticMyronn]

I think common sense and street smarts can be helpful in everyday life but I don’t need a teacher or a mentor I need someone who can bring ease to my life and sometimes when time gets tough u gotta laugh to keep from crying so having someone in my life that can make me laugh… I’ll take that over anything else ! Laughter heals the soul

[@oriade1889]

Pride is unhealthy period. We can’t mix it up with self worth, dignity and principles it is not the same. The Bible warns against pride, so there’s no such thing as I have a healthy amount of pride. I love Loni’s perspective…

[@ItsNicckster]

*pride offers a sense of protection from people hurting you. everybody has a little portion of it subconsciously. now if you live by it, then that’s unhealthy and can turn into ego and conceitedness. it’s good to have an even balance of humbleness as well*

[@ThatsJustMyBabyDaddy]

I love how Loni kept it real about that first season. But we weren't mad that you was telling jokes. We were just mad that the jokes didn't seem true. 😂

[@anonnona6433]

Hahahah. Personally I was mad because the jokes would be made at the wrong time/ moment 🙃

[@vuyon5317]

character is what will take u a long way in relationships. funny is a cherry on top

[@josephlovely7759]

Reading the room is important

[@rubykanja]

I always start my day off with the real, this show is amazing

[@liana1019]

I would have really loved Jeannie’s perspective on this! She expressed before that she’s a sapiosexual and is attracted to intelligence and I relate to that

[@teomt6015]

WOW! Garcelle is so so so stunning

[@lillyc5805]

Richard bay and then jerry springer were my favorites!!!!

[@MaryBieber7]

Thank you for the longer videos!

[@brooklynforever1990]

Loni has really grown as a host. I’m eally loving her insight this season.

[@lalaycoco9467]

“You shouldn’t be a shamed of your tv guilty pleasures”. This show is my guilty pleasure

[@ronwilliams5907]

'Pride cometh before a fall' is also in the Bible.

[@semmungrei4197]

I thought she was going to quote proverbs. It definitely is in the bible.

[@ages6592]

It’s in The Book of Proverbs (Hebrew: מִשְלֵי, Míshlê (Shlomoh), "Proverbs (of Solomon)"), which is a book in the third section (called Ketuvim) of the Hebrew Bible (The Hebrew Bible is the same as the Christian Old Testament so it’s in the Bible because it’s an old Jewish wisdom and the Old Testament is the Jewish texts).

[@LTScheming]

Adrienne described insecurity not pride.

[@TT.3123]

The two are intertwined in a way

[@LTScheming]

@@MJ-wc6nm This is true. My insecurity rooted in fear & shame that stemmed from childhood. It probably came off as being prideful. Haha...I don't know Adrienne but love the conversation that she's sparked.🙏🏼

[@TT.3123]

@@MJ-wc6nm you nailed it.

[@maryjane2965]

Uff that was eye opening, I never thought it was about pride too only imposter syndrome. This gave me a new perspective on my own issues lol. 👏🏾

[@SuckerPunch92]

Ad doesn’t sound prideful, she sounds insecure. Loni did make so many jokes in earlier seasons. It was too much. I’m glad she recognized that.

[@takimahowze]

Yessss 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 and Full of fear which makes me sad for her for real.

[@jaydecampbell3499]

To me, it actually sounds like fear of embarrassment which is Pride but it can also be insecurities because in order to fear embarrassment, you gotta care about what others think abt you at least subconsciously

[@SuckerPunch92]

@@jaydecampbell3499 agreed

[@lofisis7271]

I was a child when Richard bay came on...he had slime on his show that's what made me watch as a kid

[@goldenbeautytejeda6700]

I have been feeling Loni for a HOT minute!!! I can relate with her 100%! I am very much appreciate a SMART person! I also love funny, I will take them combined but I am attracted to smart! Sorry very much not sorry. 😁🤣🙌

[@jamarbooker8573]

Yup different strokes for different folks 😂 I loved that Loni I’m both funny and smart Also Adrienne’ you should encourage your husband to go to jeopardy

[@kendracosey]

It’s not an “ancient Hebrew proverb,” Loni. It’s a Bible scripture found in Proverbs 16:18. 😊💕

[@ages6592]

The Book of Proverbs (Hebrew: מִשְלֵי, Míshlê (Shlomoh), "Proverbs (of Solomon)") is a book in the third section (called Ketuvim) of the Hebrew Bible (The Hebrew Bible is the same as the Christian Old Testament so it’s in the Bible because it’s an old Jewish wisdom and the Old Testament is the Jewish texts).

[@britbritnicole]

It’s the run for me 🤣🤣🤣 Yass I remember Adrienne was on there

[@43grantct]

Remember when Loni was the DJ on the Ellen Show. She was funny and they kept asking her back.

[@hiboahmed8876]

There’s a lot different kinds of intelligence and smarts. For example I think ade is so socially intelligent, she’s relatable and funny and just so good at being engaging and knowing what to say to connect well. That’s a type of intelligence

[@roni6752]

I think I prefer smart people too. I value someone with views and emotional intelligence.

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

Yes. Life is to serious to be taken Seriously. Learn to LAUGH!

[@bunkeeze1184]

The tresses on Giselle,so luxurious looking😍

[@lerayshaaen]

Adrienne your getting pride confused with fear. It's your fear that stops you not pride. Fear of being embarrassed for example. In my opinion

[@LTScheming]

Fear and insecurity

[@djidjine5082]

Exactly! Pride would be if she thought she’s too good for the Masked Singer

[@belunu4980]

But Loni, I enjoyed your humour in the first season! Loved the first season.

[@CatzWach]

Pride vs prideful is a conversation

[@alissabillings2292]

I remember Richard Bey. He would hold a Mr Puniverse contest and a Ms. Big Butt. It was hilariously low budget but entertaining. Keep up the good work ladies. I love The Real!

[@aizac.1979]

Loving Loni's look right now 😍 Your makeup and color is bomb 💣

[@tryin2beehappygolucky431]

Reason i married my husband! He is hilarious 🤣😆😂

[@theimpactspacewiththeblack6999]

Loni's sneakers are always dope mannnn!!!

[@JasmineJones-wh1tv]

My guilty pleasure is any cooking/food show.

[@dilciaenid57]

How is that a guilty pleasure?

[@MargaritaNZ2024]

Pride & Ego are the worst traits lol

[@tryin2beehappygolucky431]

Arsenio Hall was always a blast, It felt like a party 🎉

[@ria_pseudovev0386]

This show is my guilty pleasure

[@mercedesamour4611]

I can’t get past Adrian’s outfit 🤣🤌🏽 maybe a cute Bob with this look.

[@TheSMILive-fk3sp]

Actually what Loni is talking about is not intelligence as in IQ but she's speaking about Emotional Intelligence, which self awareness is a part of. Being able to read a room and know when to quit is a combination of both IQ and EI

[@tyeishamccaleb5520]

I definitely understand what Loni says about comedians or people who are extremely funny, not knowing how to read the room.

[@pinkcherryworld7073]

Adrienne is a fashion Icon , she look amazing.

[@ColibriDuNord]

Noooo never let Pride go❣️ There's Pride , and there's ego. ~cheetah g@y 🌈

[@user-os3gp6pv5h]

LOVING THESE GIRL CHAT TOPICS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@santhy9963]

It’s the “woow” at 8:32 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀💀

[@jeanetteh.8393]

Loni is beauty and brains though too with her engineering degree lol but I'm with her I like smarts first 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@LockedInNOW]

You should Def have a good level of Pride , but not too much where you don’t learn and grow or unintentionally hurt yourself or someone 🙂 !

[@Deerych]

I remember Richard Bey!

[@keenahizuagie3306]

Adrienne wears all her Dads suits so nicely. Every damn time

[@Im_LaurenB]

Y'all been dropping a word in these videos

[@colette5413]

i want Loni’s outfit. she looks so comfy!

[@newnana9070]

I have a prideful sister. She’s an expert on everything.

[@HabitualMender5]

I miss the old Maury . Paternity test and cheaters are all it shows now. I remember so much the man or woman episodes out of control teenagers . Jenny Jones is a throwback ! loved it !

[@lydiamesfin2139]

i love loni, s comments.

[@CSBTelevision]

Adrienne, my sister and I would watch Richard Bay during the summer break.

[@keba773]

This was a word!!

[@sattasana7753]

And you should have won Mask Singer Adrienne. Just I have put my pride aside and taken my current role..and now I'm pushing for and going to get my what I deserve

[@icandi804]

The gold nose on Loni is distracting me!!! 😩🤣🤣🤣

[@semmungrei4197]

Yes, 90 days fiancé. Love that show

[@Msladyrae92]

pride and self-worth aren't in the same vein.

[@tracibarnett2058]

I remember the Richard Bey show.😭

[@wayNAY87]

Great topic

[@lerayshaaen]

I like a "smart man" not a "smart ass" know the difference 😉😉

[@markoushayes2233]

Adrian that is me all day.

[@michelleh.3326]

Loving Loni ❤️

[@CJ-dg3bm]

Me too Loni. I really need a smart man because intelligence is definitely sexy.

[@lifeisbeautiful9455]

I was on Maury too doing re-enactments.

[@tashawilliams8093]

I think a sense of pride is okay but having too much pride is definitely an issue. 😳

[@tikawiththecurls]

90 day fiancé is an organized hot mess , Issa yes for meeeh 😂 !

[@tryin2beehappygolucky431]

Happy 2022 😊 Smile! ❤️

[@moneytalk1987]

i love just the three of them

[@BigbossBonita]

Thats a great thing Israel did for Adrienne but on the flip side that is EXHAUSTING. I dont want to have to force my spouse to go for their dream. You need to be self motivated & i can add to that but if i have to do ir for you. That is exhausting. That is a job for a father not a husband.

[@tryin2beehappygolucky431]

Richard Bey is from Queens and lives in Midtown Manhattan according to Wikipedia.

[@EnterGalactica]

Lmfaooooo this was a great segment

[@doneecemcneil7826]

Gm edagdwg thanks you tube for sharing this story of ego takes over your thinking be thankful and wait god bless you with pay attention to what you do and say Linda j. Peace knowing god for yourself is a real gift from god only

[@LaNenaDelRap]

This is old. But i think the people that are unable to switch off the jokes are the ones that use it as a defense mechanism

[@minianoiz6492]

Loniiiii 😍❤🙌🏽💜👑👏🏽

[@taneshareedkinard8144]

Loni!! I love your outfit. You’re just so beautiful.

[@ashleyrogers1930]

I'm glad they allow Loni to be smart now because she was annoying af in the first couple of seasons. She is way more likable now.

[@lonzowilliamson7235]

I hope this show never ends 🙁 they talk about a lot of important topics that I incorporate in my life daily ..