what I wish I knew before I said "I do"

[@ChelseaandNick]

For those married people, comment below what you wish you would have known!! We want the people to know! 🙌🏼

[@MamaThatCares]

Marriage isn't a lifetime movie, its gets tough and hard like u said its 2 diff ppl coming together so u gotta just get used to eachothrr forgive and forget its not worth fighting snd let God and love be the main in ur relationships:)

[@ChelseaandNick]

@@MamaThatCares so good. Thank you!

[@eunhye3]

Not even close to getting married but still watching

[@tabitharodriguez6384]

Me too

[@sadgilouis2092]

Saaaamme 😂

[@lindymoyo9118]

Same here 😂

[@carliea5078]

Same!😆

[@saraabdulla1279]

Saaame😂😂

[@laurajohnston3245]

I really enjoyed this video! My husband and I have been married for a year next month, but together a total of almost 9 years. Relationships evolve in crazy ways. I remember several distinct points in our relationship where I thought I couldn’t love him more, but my love continues to progress in ways that I could never imagine. Our love definitely grows deeper with every argument, mistake, apology... My advice is that boundaries are essential and know that both parties need to have them to thrive in their relationship.

[@ChelseaandNick]

That’s beautiful ❤️

[@andream.4070]

I'm not married, but I am in a relationship and marriage is something we are thinking about in our future (: it's nice to hear couples like you and Nick talk about your experience.

[@ShelbyN3890]

I’m not married either me and my boyfriend Austin are thinking about it thanks for the advice🙂❤️

[@marktyler2396]

i've just had my 22nd wedding anniversary no road is ever smooth

[@ChelseaandNick]

Wow anything you wanna share with us? ✨

[@marktyler2396]

@@ChelseaandNick one of the first things i learnt was to respect your partners opinions after living on my own for so long

[@marktyler2396]

@@ChelseaandNick i have my space the wife has hers we have our intermate times as well

[@carolandrade149]

I'm dating for 1 year and 2 months with my boyfriend and it's been so hard! Not to love him, but our lives in general... A lot of close people have died and we've been apart most of the time, but we're so much stronger and so in love. This pandemic has been very hard, but God has blessed us with strength and courage to keep beeing together, loving each other and fighting every day

[@userm180]

keep the faith in JESUS :)

[@TheCarolineFile]

I’m so thankful for content like y’alls that is real and from a Biblical perspective! I love to learn from others experience for growth! I appreciate you being willing to share! :)

[@reyannaruiz5451]

First of all, I am LOVING your hair, you look so beautiful!! Second of all, I am just so thankful for this video and your transparency and encouragement based on The Truth. You & Nick are such a light. So much love for you!

[@rubypowell3959]

Your hair looks absolutely gorgeous Chelsea! Really shapes your face beautifully❤️

[@ponyjoe13]

I’m getting married in two weeks, been following you for so long. Thank you for making this video 💕

[@TheLol5632]

No one can prepare you for the learning curve that you experience especially the first year of marriage. I challenge you all to take the time to understand and get to know your other half. Its a learning curve for both of you and in the end you will get to know each other better even through the arguments.

[@ChelseaandNick]

Amen!

[@sarahs9802]

This hair length suits you so well! 💕

[@ChelseaandNick]

ThNks so much!!❤️❤️

[@andreacadena3803]

i can’t wait to get married one day it’s one of my dream goals !!

[@ChelseaandNick]

It’s a very refining relationship!

[@andreacadena3803]

yes & thank you for replying 💕

[@Yas.271]

Same here girl at God's timing ❤️

[@aishapatterson5549]

I have a boyfriend and I been thinking even though I don't know who or if I'll get married I really want it to be him in the future

[@aishapatterson5549]

@@ChelseaandNick hey do you guys have any tips on how to get my lover to stop being shy

[@freakinusername]

im 22 and my husband I and got married a year ago. when you were talking about how your family hugs a lot and Nick's family is different, I understand because it was the same for us except vise versa, hubby's family are the hugging type and mine arent so that's something I had to get used to which I am now. other than that we didn't have much differences. being married for a year and now with a baby on the way life is great and marriage is amazing. we never argue or fight and always try to keep God in the center of our marriage.

[@ChristopherDolby]

You are not your own person anymore... fifty percent of everything you are and own now belong to your spouse... it’s scary, but also awesome 👊😇

[@adriannadec8234]

Such a mature perspective/ video, I loved it! I’ve never been in a relationship but this is something I can keep in mind for when I do :)

[@keepingupwiththegrossfam]

my family is more like Nicks family. We aren't into hugging and telling each other we love each other 'just because'. However, my fiance's family is the complete opposite! It was an adjustment at first because I didn't want to seem rude by not hugging them or telling them that I love them as much as they wanted to hear.

[@meganwray6765]

Love this! Recently engaged, and getting married in May. This is very relatable with what my fiancé and I have gone through and are learning in our relationship going towards marriage.

[@katirose3600]

“it is better to say ‘i’m sorry’ than to have the assurance that i’m right” WOW!!!! preach it. still working on this in my dating relationship. also i’m learning that our families and the way we do things are and can be different and that’s okay. thanks so much for this video. it puts me at peace knowing marriage isn’t supposed to be perfect ❤️

[@abigailgear120]

So freaking thankful for content like this.🙌🏻 My boyfriend and I are working towards engaged and marriage hopefully with the next year, and I LOVE listening videos and podcasts about marriage and all that it entails😍

[@ChelseaandNick]

Ah yay!!!!

[@gabriellebarnes3393]

I also grow in love deeper with my husband I got married back in March of this year but it so nice to know from someone close to my age you understand those bumpy roads in marriage

[@michaelfrancis9406]

I am in a relationship for 5 years and my girlfriend tell me that I am to head strong and arrogant, and on the next she praise my self sacrifice and dedication as a minister of the gospel where I sacrifice a lot and she have to bare a lot. She had the coronavirus and I have heart disease, thank God that I did not get it, however I sacrifice for her and put my life on the line for her while I had other people to bible study with, and she felt left out and alone, and that cause me to hurt and suffer, and I prayed and am still praying to be better for her. And under all her displeasure I learn to stay silent and consider her above myself and before I answer pray about it. And even though I am accused or unfairly mistreated I make sure to take it and treat her with love and pray for myself and her. I really love her so much and want to change for our union to be successful because we can do so much together for Christ under his direction and leadership. And when we have arguments and she is crueling, I does say we had an intense discussion. So seek to pray more and ask yourself what would Christ had done if he was in my position and pray about it, and as the Holy Spirit show you, so do.

[@oliviatucker1587]

I love your videos like this. I’m getting married in a few short weeks. We have been dating for 8 years, one thing I have already learned so much is being willing to say I’m sorry just like you mentioned. We want to always remember we are on the same team. I love your advice and how genuine you are on here. You are beautiful as always. Love you guys❤️

[@adelinesadventures5196]

I was literally thinking yesterday I wished a video like this existed! I am in a relationship that is heading towards marriage and I wanted some good advice like this thank you!

[@ChelseaandNick]

Oh my gosh good!! Makes me so happy

[@whittytrav]

You are wise beyond your years!

[@ChelseaandNick]

Saying the things is easier than doing them 😂🙌🏼 I’m learning to follow through with what I learn more and kore

[@LL-ew2hz]

Yes you can grow in love but most people think of falling in love as growing DEEPER in love❤ Seeds can't grow up strong until they're planted deep down

[@chillinwithrachel]

Chelsea and Nick: post Me: CLICKS FASTER THAN THE SPEED OF LIGHT I make vidz 💗

[@Samanthaxvi]

I am not even close to the point of marriage but I wanted to say I love your insight on what you wish you knew. Thank you💗

[@ChelseaandNick]

🙈🙈❤️❤️

[@Justashley802]

My husband and I have been married for going on 11 years and this definitely spoke volumes to me :) you are on the right track :) love the videos Chelsea

[@ariarajnicschmitt1457]

So much wisdom about relationships!! You rock!!! My husband and I have learned a lot of similar lessons through our mutual relationships with our immediate families.

[@CiEsDe11]

I am currently engaged and will be getting married next year June 2021 and I AM SO EXCITED!!!!!!! I have been a subscriber for so many years now since the high school vids lol and you have helped so far in so many ways my journey with God and with questions I might have about Marriage and including God in relationships etc.

[@avadunnion]

Me family is a mix of your two. I would be the type to tell you I love u every two minutes whereas my siblings barely say it, it’s very rare. When they do say it though it means a lot 💖

[@ChelseaandNick]

That’s so sweet 🤍

[@jyf5757]

I’m so early!!! I still have a while before marriage haha but I like these advice videos

[@charlottej01]

I've been married for 8 months now and these are so true! Thanks for the video😊

[@samandkingbommiadventures7419]

I been married a year to my hubby it’s not easy but amazing

[@SCORPIUS.98]

4:09 that was so adorable Chelsea

[@sarahfox6584]

I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate your words. I am in a serious relationship right now, and I loved getting to hear your perspective on a lot of those topics. You’re amazing and also gorgeous! Keep spreading your Christian perspective and love of Christ!

[@desireebeardsley6292]

Such a great video with such beautiful points. Thank you for sharing. Seriously making me self reflect and want to do better.

[@bliss7166]

The thumbnail is everything 😍

[@sylviedabee]

I found this advice really enlightening. I'm not married or engaged, but I do have a boyfriend and this has been good advice to hear:)

[@lana3175]

I love your young living diffuser in the background 😉

[@ChelseaandNick]

Hehe YAS

[@JESUSISKING033]

you look so pretty chels. Love the channel 💕

[@KAyLA_K]

It really depends on who I’m with!!:) In general I’m like Nike where I try to express my love for them through doing stuff, but with certain people I express it through saying I love them, hugging them, etc...😁

[@rebekahkann1599]

Love the post but your hair is so great as well!! girl Can't wait to watch so much more

[@AmyBlakewood]

Aww I think it's sweet that he checks on you to make sure your okay. Married since 10/17/2011. Together since 2006.

[@moonchild4240]

Unrelated, but this new hair totally suits you! I love it!!

[@haalloondricka]

I've told my mum I loved her maybe three times? We don't express the love into words but we hug a lot, and do those small things that show you care about each other (mum sends me crosswords because she knows I like them, I make an extra cup of tea for her and so on). So it sounds like my family is more like Nick's. Also, I feel like the number of times americans tend to say "I love you" (when leaving the house, ending phone calls etc.) washes out the meaning of the phrase, but that's just my opinion.

[@jamie_faith]

Thank you for this vid, Chelsea

[@khauhelomotaung8682]

Thank you so much Chelsea #CryingInside,,, this is sooo insightful

[@cbebop5]

Love this hair length on you, it's perfect and gorgeous. :)

[@waynefry2678]

I love your channel so much!

[@ChelseaandNick]

Ah thank you!! What would you like to see more of?

[@waynefry2678]

@@ChelseaandNick I love girl talk! But I just like watching you guys vlog!

[@ninakrupar6046]

I’m not married yet but I’m in a relationship where both of us strongly feel that we want to get married to each other in the future. Is there any advice any older couples or married couples have for a relationship and struggles or just advice for keeping a healthy relationship over time?

[@hayleyreed8428]

Really good spin to arguing! Thanks!

[@jaydeanita]

Love this!! Thank you Chelsea ❤️

[@nadinehert7162]

Very good video! Thanks Chels :)

[@ChelseaandNick]

Thank you Nadine!! ☺️☺️

[@emilylorenz3252]

This was such a wise and great video thank you!

[@ChelseaandNick]

So glad it was helpful!

[@michaeladaniel6322]

Honestly I was well informed about everything before I got married

[@songwonlorenzo2482]

You look so cute! I am partially blind, but it’s cool I can see your face so well☺️ my family is like Nick’s family. there is a stereotype with personalities depending where one is born in a certain part of South Korea. Both my parents were supposably born in areas where they grow up without being affectionate and expressive with one another. It seems somewhat true because I grew up without much affection or physical acts of love and when we do it is awkward. Thankfully, my husband’s family is very affectionate and loves to hug, chill together, and say I love you!!

[@MamaThatCares]

U are so cute!! :) love how ur hair looks

[@ChelseaandNick]

Thank you so much 🤍✨

[@Ali_lamb]

Incredible

[@ChelseaandNick]

Wow you’re sweet

[@real_maire1402]

❤️❤️ thank you I need this

[@ChelseaandNick]

So glad to make it then!! Lemme know thoughts after you watch ☺️

[@vicky-ys2zl]

She literlly did her makeup when she was younger n now she is married i am proud

[@brittneydavis2573]

You just get prettier every time I see you! Can whatever magic you're using work on me, too? Haha

[@ChelseaandNick]

Wait this is so sweet

[@haleybodell8948]

This was so helpful, thank you! ❤️✝️

[@veerakorpi]

You should do a podcast with Nick!

[@jaydeanita]

They have one!!

[@ChelseaandNick]

We have one together called encounter now ☺️

[@angelalumia3394]

You're so amazing Chelsea

[@SP-fb7wj]

I miss your old type of videos😢

[@ChelseaandNick]

I’m not a teen anymore ❤️

[@jessicahebb7421]

This is super helpful!

[@ChelseaandNick]

So so glad!!!

[@michaelfrancis9406]

Ps. She was healed from the SARS 2 virus which I am so happy about because God heard my prayer.

[@liyahsunshine]

yayyy i’m here!!!

[@ChelseaandNick]

Hey sisss ✨☺️☺️

[@liyahsunshine]

@@ChelseaandNick Heyy ✨☺️🥰🥰

[@katie5573]

here!

[@ChelseaandNick]

Heyyyyy!!

[@kassyt6148]

Very helpful, I'm not getting married anytime soon but I am moving in with my significant other in the near future.

[@leann._]

Can you do little more fun videos like playing pranks on each other. or going shopping for each other etc

[@mathilde5020]

You look stunning !!! Love you

[@icapture4032]

Lovely couple

[@userm180]

faith alone or faith + works as james says here:Ye see then how that by works a man is justified, and not by faith only. Likewise also was not Rahab the harlot justified by works, when she had received the messengers, and had sent them out another way? For as the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without works is dead also. James 2:24‭-‬26

[@ChelseaandNick]

Love james! Thank you

[@Supergraph1cultram0dern]

i have a genuine question: i’m 16, almost 17 and a junior in high school. i’m embarrassed to say i’ve never kissed anyone or been in a relationship, but i also just don’t feel like i need to be in one. i’m just wondering if you had a high school relationship that wasn’t nick and if so, do you regret that. i’m also all about dating for marriage, and at almost 17 i have no interest in marriage. just asking for some clarification and assurance. 🤗

[@daniela2683]

I just wanna reassure you that, that is not something you should be embarrassed about, but in fact that is something so beautiful. To save yourself for the one is so special. That when you do find the one, you can give them all, your first kiss to be with them, your first everything with them, and it’s so much more special. Also this is pleasing in Gods eyes. :)) God bless you

[@avadunnion]

I’m in the exact same boat

[@lizziebethh]

Ya same here but about 2 years younger😂

[@sydneys6747]

That’s crazy that you say that, I’m 17 and a Senior right now with the exact same mindset!

[@joshuawilliams2487]

Look I am in the same boat as you, only difference is that I am 22 and still never have gone on a date. I want to date solely for the intent on marriage and I know currently I am not in a place for marriage just yet in my life. I have a lot of growing and some schooling to finish first before I will be ready, but I hope within the next couple years I will be more ready.

[@SamFitnessJ22]

Wish I could find my future husband am sooo single :-( c

[@amydoolittle8902]

Hi I love your vids so much

[@ChelseaandNick]

Thanks so so much!!!

[@thaynadias5124]

I'm single and i'm here, learning english!! Xoxo☺

[@ChelseaandNick]

That’s so so cool!! Proud of you!! What’s your first language?

[@thaynadias5124]

I'm from Brazil, my first language is Portuguese.

[@shelbiemartinez]

do you guys ever do therapy? like together or separately

[@ChelseaandNick]

Yes! We’ve done it together

[@tonyademott6090]

be there for open your ears

[@abigailadu6183]

Early squaaaddddddd💃💃💫

[@ChelseaandNick]

Ayooooo

[@makenzie9315]

Watching!

[@rblx_edits3962]

i love your vidis so muchu im sub i

[@tabithacaudill1016]

Hey omg hiiinir my fav

[@ChelseaandNick]

Hiiii✨🤍🤍

[@kelsiedavis9963]

Who came here because you saw her makeup video from 8 years ago?

[@waynefry2678]

First!

[@ChelseaandNick]

✨✨🥳

[@rorybi8487]