What Is The Difference Between Gender And Sexuality? • In The Closet

[@MeliOrsini]

"Mine are she and her... And also, goddess" same Jen, same 😌

[@kaitlinslover639]

same

[@jessicat2596]

I almost posted the same exact comment xD then I saw yours. but SMAEEEEEEE JEN (yes it was supposed to be smae)

[@foxspirit0929]

Yeah I prefer she her and of course GODDES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@mariqviller2815]

I stopped the video and told my mom that this is me from now on

[@dramaticvirghoe]

I wonder if Jen knows 90% of Buzzfeed viewers want to wife her

[@emilybmusic3304]

i hope she does cause that means she knows i have the biggest crush on her

[@mayaconnor6955]

Yesss she is wife material

[@Yun-jr1ln]

omg really?! i thought i was the only one who liked herr

[@kad3181]

+Yuneke Henley then you haven't been in the comments section much have you ;)

[@jollybeauty0418]

i think its closer to 100% ♥

[@DylanZhang]

"Mine are she and her, and also goddess." HAHAHA I LOVE JEN

[@genetierney9975]

Tanya Zhang good thing gender pronouns are the result of sick people. Sec and gender are the same, just because its 2 different words doesnt mean you can change the meaning of history, degenerates.

[@ailsacarlaw2097]

idk i mean i just thought of it as gender is who you are sexuality is who you wanna get with go get that person of your dreams you adorable little dorks

[@pingu090]

That's essentially what it is!

[@imexclusiv9742]

Close but by definition gender is only male and female.

[@elliotludwig7487]

Well put

[@lukap7297]

sexuality could also be who u DONT want to get with #asexuality

[@raellis22]

PREACH!!!

[@NinjagaTeam]

im so glad jen finally got her own show :^) she so cute

[@_thesoulwoman]

She is so adorable 😍😍

[@mcrguitar316]

Yes!!

[@kaitlinslover639]

same

[@totallynotellie270]

same

[@Nochu]

Rocco seems like such a sweet person. I wanna be his friend 💖

[@zzomlb]

+

[@IJustBrokeSomeMetal]

omg same

[@madelinefoster3704]

Idk maybe I'm gross but I love and want to screw him

[@Nochu]

+Madeline Foster I dont blame you, he's pretty attractive and his personality is so sweet. Lucky to whoever his partner is/will be.

[@audreybenton8856]

+Madeline Foster pfftttt he's so hot I would too

[@WILD4X4D]

As a straight white man, this help with understanding of the lgbt community. That's being said I have a lesbian friend who jokingly says she identifies as a gay Autobot. True story

[@animebrains6859]

Respect

[@minakhan6984]

Dude i have the upmost respect for you

[@NostalgiCrazy]

Thank you for having an open mind and willingness to learn about people different from you!

[@cheesecakelasagna]

Respect to you and your gay Autobot friend.

[@zannacart8533]

"Not my pick-a-dilly hole."

[@ferninthehouse]

+Luke Karl that happens to me a lot when I'm reading the comments while watching the video

[@elliottsmithstan3046]

+Luke Karl same

[@yellow5682]

same grl same

[@andreasez3838]

i thought she said "piccolo hole" lmao

[@lightning2367]

😂

[@TeenNailArt245]

Why do people get so offended when it comes to gender identity?! Literally how someone identifies harms NOBODY else so where's the problem???

[@kaitlinslover639]

this.

[@thatthingyouseeatthecorner5249]

When a mindset people dislike becomes more popular, they tend to complain and disagree with it.

[@oksanuh22]

Someone said it smh

[@SS501Fan101]

Because a lot of people are ignorant to gender, I mean just look up at the comments.

[@menemen7908]

yeah like non binary.... totally real 😐

[@megangilmore9355]

No one should hurt other people just because they're different, I'm not transgendered but it doesn't sound fun, I'm a girl and I would feel uncomfortable if people called me he. People who are transgendered are not going away, and since they're not hurting people, what's the point of hurting them? Just focus on loving and improving yourself instead of hurting other people :)

[@neonscucca8987]

Some transgender people are uncomfortable with the term 'transgendered' (as opposed to 'transgender') just so you're aware x

[@megangilmore9355]

+Click Nixon oh sorry

[@slpflopy3025]

Okay Megan, but this is SO important; thank you 💕

[@betsyb]

+Camila Cruz how??????

[@jb_2099]

seem key words in your comment "loving yourself" how can you focus on that if transgender people can't accept who they are your given one life and one body you get what you get either love it or don't so idk about this whole loving yourself think don't get me wrong we should love each other no matter but just think about it

[@softxprincess8349]

Jen makes me question my sexuality i s2g she's too cute

[@blue-yy3sy]

yaas

[@anonymousaccount9734]

Melanie!

[@charlotteashfield2392]

+Cienna Ayala triggered!1!1!!1!1!!

[@memes_unite8863]

fr like jen is literally my favorite person on buzzfeed

[@reid7470]

she really does to me too

[@mayrar9164]

"And Also goddess" 😂😂😂

[@ellahere6214]

Rocco and Jen in one video! My life is complete omg

[@bryantwilliams7149]

Gender is who you go to bed as and Sexuality is who you go to bed with.

[@Br0th3r7]

OMG thank you !! I just can't stand people saying "i identify as an helicopter" or whatever just to make fun of people. I'm a white straight disabled girl and i understand that people can feel other ways than "boy" or "girl". If words like "trans" or "non-binary" have been invented there is a reason: it's because some people TRULLY FEEL THAT WAY. Just because you don't feel that way doesn't mean that some OTHER people doesn't, BE OPEN-MINDED !! I would just like to say that the most beautiful thing in the world to me is LOVE, could we love each other fore who we are please ? :)

[@MizukuMirai]

I identify as an attack helicopter so please respect my vehicle rights

[@andrewellis3070]

+SF Flicks well I identify as a toaster... check your privilege

[@darudesandstorm1656]

I identify as Sandstorm sooooo...

[@amelias2882]

+Andrew Ellis then can I wrap you up and box you back in the box and send you back? Thxx

[@tybeets3162]

stfu

[@Lynhenoikhe]

I once spelled bottle "bootle" in the comments And oh man did people freak out

[@abathingale]

OMG YOU SPELLED BOTTLE "BOOTLE" HOW DARE YOU!?

[@23tinkerbell101014]

Dat bootle tho

[@tralala9873]

DDDDIIIIEEEE

[@nweedy8436]

bootle

[@minakhan6984]

rocko is hot AFFFFFFFFFFF

[@antwaon2890]

L.

[@wingicecream7125]

I know!

[@annemaveera5112]

YES.

[@jalantikustikus]

I KNOW MAN

[@minakhan6984]

The Proper Gentleman So what if he is trans? Doesnt change how hot he is on any level.

[@AllisonFunk]

buzzfeed: is this an actual closet

[@AllisonFunk]

I neeD ANSWERS

[@magemaribelle1384]

This is the most important comment on this video

[@arabellat5133]

No, it's a set.

[@Lauren-fy2mu]

Idk why but Jen reminds me of dory from nemo

[@mckennathemammal6675]

YESS

[@alyiahohlson2607]

true true

[@jacobluna6719]

I love Jen's segment bc it's so chill

[@LueEvangeline]

*sees Jen on the thumbnail* *instantaneously clicks the video*

[@emily-yz2ky]

jen is the cutest and i love her

[@UnSubGimposaurus]

"Not in my piccadilly hole!" God, I love Jen XD

[@TheChangeMyLife]

Could Buzzfeed make a video explaining how are there more than 2 genders? Because I genuinely don't understand

[@Emily-ww9do]

I think they did with foods... but maybe that's sexuality I don't remember. Maybe there was a toy one?

[@jayevans5350]

There's actually like 5+ genders, because you can be male, female, neither, both, or gender fluid, which mean one day you could want to be more feminine, while another day, you might want to be more masculine (I think) and then there are people who are just somewhere in between any of those

[@gutseru8980]

They can't make a real world explanation, since it is all, virtually, made up

[@jaimecarter3988]

Bill Lumbergh Pronouns such as he/him, she/her, or they/them are the standards.

[@denisedr6061]

+Bill Lumbergh identifying as a ninetales isn't a gender identity , like i said, gender is um,more of a way of dividing people and assigning roles to them. maybe trans people started identifying with other genders than they were assigned because of the roles imposed on them..

[@darciestimpson8904]

mY FaVOriTE sERiES!!1!!1!!

[@thegracken1290]

Ayyyyyyyyyyy pham

[@phanicatthechemicalfallout460]

Ayye

[@zeynepislozcan5211]

Phandom is everywhere

[@originalkittyglitter4484]

THE PHANDOM TOOK OVER THE INTERNET!!!!!!!!111!!!!!! ATTACK

[@La987786]

same

[@brickguts]

If you don't know the difference between gender and sexuality then.. Don't go on the Internet

[@whatever9142]

this is the worst comment section

[@xxxx783]

I feel ya.. but gotta keep trying.

[@menemen7908]

best *

[@krazyk931]

Because you commented ;)

[@slpflopy3025]

I know! there's so much hate :c

[@montgomerynathameion]

Most people are being positive to transgender people...

[@kikutachan7885]

Jen is like the asian version of Poussey hahaha I love her so muuuuch. ❤💜❤💜

[@celinekeifer2291]

OMG YES

[@tarajoy5905]

Can I seriously just keep Jen?

[@hellahomo3307]

only if I can get custody on weekends

[@tarajoy5905]

marissa peterson Maybe. Further negotiation required. How about every other weekend?

[@hellahomo3307]

+Anteep it's called a joke I'm sorry you've never heard of it

[@tarajoy5905]

Anteep thanx 4 the trololols bro XD In all seriousness though, it is a joke and no need to get your panties in a twist

[@spookyshy9154]

My favorite buzzfeed series are in the closet and lady like

[@leighshearer3269]

Same!!

[@kellytran56]

living for this series already

[@stephaniewhite7620]

No Sand in THIS "Pink-a-dilly"! LMFAO!!!! I died!

[@ethancrate7169]

I love this so much!!

[@thatboy_dorian7135]

+Cienna Ayala lol

[@carsinmars9446]

+Cienna Ayala fat

[@minakhan6984]

+cartwheel2002 never have i liked a comment so fast.... fat

[@isuhhbelll]

"With sand involved?" "Not in my pikidilly hole"

[@baleydee]

Jenn is the queen of buzzfeed 👸

[@fluffpuff7]

“Can i pet you.” “Sure.” 😂

[@ktsmellz]

my life is simple; i see jen, i click on jen, i watch jen, and i continue to crush on jen. thank u.

[@General_Sparklez]

Honestly me. 👏👏

[@JorgeL721]

This is so confusing. I hope we can all get along. I also hope I don't say anything stupid.

[@howl2060]

That. Fur. Coat. So rad...

[@a-koro4752]

Sexuality is about who you go to bed with. Gender Identity is about who you go to bed as.

[@edgyfedora7717]

OK so Jen's preferred pronouns are she, her and also goddess

[@Ninjanugets123]

i am still extremely confused about the gender vs sexuality thing

[@andrescardenas7548]

Im genderfluid and Pansexual

[@c0llinray]

There are only two genders, and pensexuality doesn't exist.

[@andrescardenas7548]

+Collin Brown Im genderfluid I can call my self a girl, a boy or both. Also pansexuality does exist. look into your sexualities

[@c0llinray]

gen·der ˈjendər/Submit noun 1. the state of being male or female (typically used with reference to social and cultural differences rather than biological ones). MALE OR FEMALE. NOT BOTH, NOT ANYTHING ELSE. There are four sexualities; heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, and asexual. There are variations, of course, and NOT EVERY DIFFERENCE IS A NEW SEXUALITY.

[@GreatKristina23]

me too!

[@oliviaritchey7743]

Me too hi friends!

[@Keeeeeeeeks]

In The Closet has become my favourite Buzzfeed series, oh my god

[@DutchAtDawn]

Plz do a bi vs pan episode

[@trintrin22]

Please!!!

[@iamnightmaregirl]

thank you for this bc i was confused for the longest time and i felt weird about asking someone

[@mangogoat4691]

This is the most liberal comment section

[@mangogoat4691]

***** Yeah that's because minorities are sick of white liberals telling them what to do and what to think.

[@SS-mt3vx]

Why does race have anything to do with political beliefs?

[@21_silly]

YAY!

[@23tinkerbell101014]

+dark side because white people have a habit of policies lily attacking minority races.

[@gyarugals]

+The detective from gallifrey to me there's no such thing as race we're all human here there's no such thing as a race less dominant or more dominant we're all human and judging people for way they look and identifying as a race that's just complete inhumane we're all just humans that have different skin color that's all and different appearances that should not identify as a race should be no category

[@sophiav39]

Jen is literally the most adorable human being I've ever seen and I love her so much!!! meeting Jen is one of my life goals

[@Ozark90s]

Rocco is a very attractive male

[@AnkBert]

The part where they explain the straight and gay thing with teddy "bears" was just great xD

[@magemaribelle1384]

I love watching people who make "lmao r u triggered!!1!!1" jokes get unreasonably offended and angry whenever buzzfeed posts videos about trans people. It's like the greatest form of Internet irony

[@Stephaniecl19]

that was very informative. I've always wondered about that but never wanted to ask because I don't want to offend anyone or seem shallow minded. but i want to address people the correct way in the LGBT community with their sexual preferences, etc.

[@McKenzieTVentertainment]

I identify as a bar of soap.....jk i don't even know anymore honestly.

[@MrKirby365]

it's so short but this has to be one of my favorite BuzzFeed shows I would really love to see more of this it's always funny and heartwarming and educational and fantastic

[@EthanTheRaccy]

39 dislikes already? why?

[@IngenieurREtard]

scoot

[@EthanTheRaccy]

+Enrico Shang yaaas

[@IngenieurREtard]

take dis **hands out spycicle**

[@EthanTheRaccy]

+Enrico Shang Shanks yu

[@menemen7908]

needs more

[@666metalszereto8]

I am a Man and I consider pansexual! But more towards the bisexual side! Meaning I love woman and Men more but I can be open to other and in between as well and I have! it's not just about looks or anatomy but personality!!

[@ScullyLoveless]

and also Goddess, i agree

[@tohfubu5482]

I'm straight and I'm already so attracted to Jen ... I AM CONFUSED

[@Skyler_Momoko]

YAAAAAAY ROCCO!!!

[@megankisuperrad]

Rocco with the squirrel made me laugh so hard!

[@SuperPez13]

I once again have cancer. thanks buzzfeed

[@trinitymiracle1975]

2 videos with Jen in one day!!! my dreams came true!

[@SamScamander]

these comments are sad... what time is it? 1855?? no! it's 2016. there are more than 2 genders, get over it haters.

[@slpflopy3025]

THANK YOU, I hate transphobia so much and sadly there's a lot of people who are

[@josueluna7532]

People who use the term haters provide no valid argument. You're butthurt

[@montgomerynathameion]

Sorry my clock said it was 6:55pm

[@musicality8039]

+Jojo ホモ lol

[@jrom6263]

What time is it? 1885? no it's 2016 - gravity doesn't exist.

[@karmapolice3459]

They're my biggest crushes in buzzfeed.

[@rutho.6282]

YASSSS! Its back!

[@christhesoprano]

It's crazy how people don't get this!

[@ashu.showhun]

I wish Rocco wasn't straight ..I wish he was gay...cause I'm gay and I got a crush on that straight-man

[@Simperson123]

Yes, I use tumblr. No, I didn't find out about non-binary genders from tumblr

[@maddiconnor9840]

I love this show

[@maddiconnor9840]

My favorite thing on Buzzfeed

[@Blehblehbhleh]

Can I honestly just say Jen you are awesome!! Seriously your my favorite

[@rocketcompanyoffical6903]

I sexually identify as a buzzfeed worker, does that mean i work at buzzfeed now?

[@ayyeeelmao5786]

Bruh get on my level, i sexually identify as a elephant

[@coryn7119]

Yo cory noonan we almost have the same name

[@lauramac9481]

I'm laughing so hard at the stuffed animals bit this was great

[@cecipasttenseseesaw]

Im holosexual.

[@Hello-gr7mj]

me to

[@Hello-gr7mj]

JoeLikesSkyr please tell me your joking

[@Hello-gr7mj]

no no holo-sexual as in holographic as in a joke from the very amazing simplynailogical (she's inlove with cats polish mnt. and sparkley things such as holo.)

[@gracehaley7100]

This explains everything at least 90% better than most people will tell you.

[@otis6642]

I don't understand what about this is so confusing to straight cis people. If you actually listened to what they were saying maybe you'd understand it... :/

[@sardonyx9540]

If Jen is the host, I'm gonna watch this 24/7

[@LemeLeyo]

Rocco is Trans? I thought he was gay dammit I wanted with him! LOL Well good thing I like trans guys too xD

[@justinabonce8108]

Jen seems like that crazy bestie that you would never leave

[@taisha6270]

why are there so many dislikes?

[@adgspot2338]

Because there's only a Male and a Female. Nothing "in between".

[@loganweeks5499]

+CarmeloDoesGaming if all you're going to do is hate, please leave. You're not helping anybody. And before you start up with "freedom of speech," just remember that I respect your opinion, and everybody should, unless it is DISrespecting somebody's existence. Thank you for your time.

[@lolanaterlin]

+CarmeloDoesGaming actually there is in between, I identify as a female, and Rocco identifies as a male, but there are some people who don't identify as being male or female because they don't feel as if they are either

[@TheBlackOp2Helper]

Lolo Lin no offense but just because you don't feel like a certain gender doesn't mean you aren't that gender. If i were to not feel like a male per say doesn't mean im not a male

[@camrynbrock5073]

+TheBlackOp2Helper exactly! like you could feel whatever you want but that doesn't mean you are that. you could feel like both male and female but you aren't. when people see you w/o knowing you, you are a male or female. when you die they will identify you as male or female. everyone says gender is whatever you want it to be but its not. its gender.

[@souhailnaji1343]

"Mine are she and her... And also, goddess" hahahahah I love Jen.

[@SuperAlexisxoxo]

I want to kiss jen😍

[@Murph1802]

Gender: What one physically identifies as Sexuality: What one sexually identifies as

[@mikaelalexander2892]

Coming home to two vids with Jen?! Must be my lucky day

[@Jakafe]

Rocco looks disturbingly like my ex. Only way cuter. Way t'go, Rocco!

[@tabiandro]

Male, female, anything in between AND everything outside of the binary.

[@c0llinray]

Male, female, nothing in between, AND nothing outside.

[@tabiandro]

+Collin Brown Your experiences with gender fit inside the binary. That doesn't invalidate anyone else's experiences with it.

[@julieeyerman]

"and also goddess." this is why I love you Jen

[@peaches950]

Rocco has been gay, straight, woman and man

[@sunny6455]

hey can the next episode cover the difference genderfluidity and cross dressing because lots of people don't get the difference also I love Jen I'm a big fan 💖💛💚💙💜😄

[@whitneykinyaevskaya2807]

Would love to hear more about his story!!!

[@thecottoncandylette]

Can I just love him? He seems so sweet, and he's super cute. He seems like the kind of person that would be a blast to be around as well.

[@theresanichols4993]

couldn't have said it better my self, this is great.

[@blushingbby]

"She and her... and also goddess" MEEEEEEE

[@luciojohnson274]

rocko's smile in the begining was so adorable

[@spongethom]

Omg. Rocco and Jen in the same video? I love this so much.

[@Emilovesyouuuu]

Aaah!! My two favorite buzzfeed people! 😍😍😍😍

[@Jun_And_Cun]

This was actually very helpful and informative. Thank you

[@marixclara1]

"... and also goddess" hahaha love it!

[@grrl_genius]

No one is talking about the fact that in the intro Jen is wearing the astronaut helmet form you do two episodes 4

[@charliestrelczik942]

"She and her. And also goddess." 😂❤️

[@sample.text.]

"Skate and Destroy" Homie can't skate his way out of an open door.