What it's REALLY like Dating Vietnamese Women in Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam 🇻🇳

[@rc....]

Dude, stop steering them towards western culture, why would anyone need to have many bf or gf???

[@aaronaround]

they wanted them ask them why haha

[@bryanscruggs7566]

seriously, asking a bunch of lgbt questions isn't going to help his channel.

[@tvbuu]

I'm tired of these western clowns

[@andywu8558]

Thats why the Usa is falling apart. I cant wait to move out of this hell hole America.

[@aaronaround]

@@bryanscruggs7566 it actually was perfect, you got “really” what dating is like in Vietnam

[@wennyhoang3009]

The marriage age is kinda depending on which region in Vietnam you are in. People live in the village might marry around 18 years old. But in HCM city might marry around 25-30

[@DarkLight-sz1vp]

What about small cities / large towns like Dalat, Bao Loc, Pleiku?

[@aaronaround]

@@DarkLight-sz1vp it’s definitely younger in the rural areas and smaller towns.

[@tinhhoangvan9327]

​@DarkLight-sz1vp 25 _30

[@Ojisan35]

I have lived here in Vietnam almost 3 years and even my friends that have lived here over 10 years complain about how the independent western mindset has started to spoil the mindsets of traditional Vietnamese women. More and more women are choosing careers over marriage in their early years which is fine for them if they choose that. But so many cant fathom why men dont want them the same when they are 30+ years old. Literally look around Vietnam and you will see thousands of beautiful women in their 30's and 40's absolutely gorgeous but still single or single with kids. Vietnamese women have always been labeled as hard workers but now they are hard workers for themselves and wasting away the very thing most men desire....youth and beauty! I have lived overseas for 16 years and generally Asia is behind the US in many trends and movements and this is no different. There is a huge sugar baby culture in Vietnam and now with feminism starting to get stronger here it will only make the traditional family life more rare in the coming years. The girls in the videos said they are single because they are waiting for destiny, they are single because most women are focused on careers more then finding husbands now. (The students said it themselves)

[@aaronaround]

Oh yeah I hear you I think you are right about all of that... deep down though I think they will all get married and have kids haha ... tik Tok is powerful 😂

[@ChicoLatino098]

If men can feed and work hard for themselves then why can't women work hard for themselves? Why do you want the nonsense thing called marriage? Fuck this conceptual shit called marriage and all the marriage. Men and women can have casual hook-ups and they can still stay independent and both genders can achieve great success and fly as much as they can.

[@thethaovatoquoc312]

That's maybe because many men don't treat them well, as extra-marital affairs have been rampant in Commie Vietnam, and wife-beating is a common scene. There is a reason why "Cafe om" and shady bars, restaurants, barbershop, and massage parlors have been extremely popular there, to satisfy the sexual needs of unfaithful married men.

[@tvbuu]

Bingo. The u.s is killing the rest of the world

[@paulz6491]

Vietnam is a poor country and families need to incomes to survive…..

[@yamuiemata]

Sad to see the university girls have been contaminated with the feminist movement and independent ideology

[@Curling12341]

Future crazy cat lady

[@XxAxX16]

Cry more, incel

[@nickg2431]

I was just thinking that,In some years no-one will want them

[@javelinblue5414]

Yes, it is. Feminism will spread to Asia. Fhiliphines, Japan, Vietnam, etc.

[@rafae5902]

yeah, it's like a decease

[@giudaenterprises22]

a lot of vietnamese guys are fboys, so it's tough. A lot of vietnamese women have to find older guys 5-20 years older than them, because they are more serious. I married my wife when she was 25, but we met when she was 22 after she just finished college. I prefer the younger ones because they carry less baggage and their fertility is important if guys want to have children. There's plenty of cute girls like the last one in this video around that age

[@aaronaround]

Yeah I agree with you it seems to be the case with the ages as well. They tend to like to date older

[@andyo.593]

When I was around Vietnam a lot of boys that I’ve seen would be at cafes drinking coffee and smoking but I then realized they were 14-15 years old hanging out with their buddies. Men cheating and having second gf’s is very common and a lot of the girls know that. I met my wife in Vietnam and she’s told me every one of her past 5 bf’s except for one, has cheated on her with 2-3 other women. It’s gotten to the point where it’s almost to be expected when a man cheats.

[@KpopUnniesUwU]

In big city, most people get married late because they want to be financially independent first then get married at late 20s. But some people may have a traditional families and they want their children to marry early. But now some people marry too early because they think married after 30, your body shapes will change when you got older, and it also hurt your health and their skin problem. Also, LGBT in Vietnam has become very friendly now, they accepted same sex marriage and public will see it as normal. In small villages, some families asked their children to marry when they reach 17/18 because they are still stick to traditional mindset. But nowadays in villages, people tend to let their children graduate university then married after have a stable job, if they don’t have a job, their families will let them married and will give them money to start up a business. Still, some of young children especially girls have to suffer from marriage at early age, they couldn’t say anything but have to accept it (but this is really rare nowadays).

[@aaronaround]

Yeah I hear you there is a lot of truth to that!

[@rc....]

Great answer, not too young not too old, it is about knowing each other, takes a mature woman to know that.

[@rc....]

7:12 these two are amazing amazing of what ladies are! Georgia peaches are sweet! Loyal, warm, traditional, none of that modern messed up dating BS culture.

[@aaronaround]

yes they are from the old school mother land :) it was nice timing to run into them 👍🇻🇳

[@sitichodizah4766]

Nice interview Aaron,...

[@aaronaround]

thank you ... this one was fun 👍👍

[@Hicks-g1m]

These are great interviews Aaron I was surprised by some answers they do have a different culture in Vietnam 👍👍🆒🆒

[@aaronaround]

yes, but what they still mainly want to be married fairly young.. the age is getting older slowly

[@bayplaytoy1313]

Whoa，great video!

[@aaronaround]

Thank you 🙏🇻🇳

[@AwakenedEntrepreneurship]

Good content, bro! Keep it up.

[@aaronaround]

Thanks appreciate it!

[@cassiodomingues5403]

Alright, boys. We still focusing on the Filipines, then.

[@aaronaround]

haha

[@vestraduke1411]

lol facts

[@eduardomaldonado1647]

Phillipines and Thailand don't go after university girls. University girls are indoctrinated with feminist propaganda.

[@JeffMorrisonAdventures]

😂 see you in Manilla.

[@Coffewithsteve]

Good luck on getting scam in Philippines

[@Tweewhite]

Most women you interviewed told you they want to marry later (late 20’s, early 30’s). Yet you kept saying most people in VN married early. You already made up your mind, what is the point of the interview? lol

[@aaronaround]

Yeah because on average they do, especially outside of the city where it is even more conservative .. but it is quickly changing

[@Tweewhite]

@@aaronaround a quick search would reveal the average marriage age in VN is 26.2. Women 24.1. Not too young I would say.

[@aaronaround]

@@Tweewhite well I’m from the US and nowadays that’s considered young and like I said in video a lot of people not all, get married just out of university. Thanks for doing research 👍

[@Greatma9]

He is confused

[@SocialThisandThatPodcast]

Sounds like feminism has made it's way to Vietnam.

[@aaronaround]

TikTok is global

[@quasimode9038]

MEANWHILE ALL OVER IN THE WORLD!!!

[@lewismbugua7012]

Bro if you love the Western culture so much why did you leave, sad to see Vietnamese ladies join the Western culture of modern women and their independence gabage. They are losing their femininity and youth.

[@aaronaround]

I love all... everywhere has it's pros and cons

[@jecknick7460]

The girl at 8:21 was amazing to say the least !🥰

[@aaronaround]

I don't remember but thanks for watching :0

[@DJ_TRON]

I'm pretty sure that was a transgender judging by the big hands, likely plastic surgery on the face and the oversized boob job.

[@MohammedFawasvsc]

Nice video ❤

[@aaronaround]

thank you thanks for watching

[@mr.g1683]

Sir the students there how do they pay for universities. Do they borrow money as student loans from banks. Is that even offered there. Does only people with income above average there afford to attend universities? Plus do the universities there have student teachers?

[@aaronaround]

you know I am not sure a lot of the universities I believe you have to pay for... some are free.. I know if you want to become a teacher the government pays for that degree to incentivize.. but I know the nicer universities are not free but I do not know if they do school loans here.

[@aaronaround]

also I am not sure if they have student teachers

[@wennyhoang3009]

Normally, parents will support everything until their kid got a job (unless that family is too poor, students have to find a job to pay themselves). Most of Vietnamese people will have uni. Cert. And the answer for the last question is NO

[@aaronaround]

@@wennyhoang3009 ah ok nice thanks for the info Wenny

[@mr.g1683]

@@wennyhoang3009 thank you kindly for replying.

[@arsa4fun]

“Not good not bad” cute cute :)

[@aaronaround]

haha yes

[@CRACKHEADLLC]

Lol these women have no idea that Japanese, Korean and Chinese men rates a woman that is at 30 or above as an expired products 😏 long live Kevin samuels

[@aaronaround]

Well to be honest I would be shocked if she wasn't married by 30.. most women here are

[@tinhhoangvan9327]

She think of Asia men ( Korea, Japanese, Chinese, Vietnamese)

[@XxAxX16]

Looks like ugly Japanese, Chinese and Koreans think too highly of themselves 🥴

[@phatphil7836]

Even 26 is a leftover woman. A Christmas Cake.

[@bryanscruggs7566]

these women being indoctrinated by western culture thinking they can wait till 30 and still be wanted

[@rc....]

The girl in blue has good head on her shoulders and think independently 👍

[@bryanscruggs7566]

lol

[@rc....]

Not dating for long term relationship, dating for marriage, long term isn't marriage....

[@aaronaround]

yes there is so much western influence in the PH that is why it is nice being in Vietnam because there is much less especially when it comes to food!

[@PocketHorror-br1kt]

5:36 "Wow shes cute!" 😅 5:56 😢 (crying meme)

[@aaronaround]

haha :0

[@Temblizz]

Who else looked into the comments when the girl started chanting "we are strong independent women"? haha What a shame. Thought Asia was the last place on earth where you could actually find quality women.

[@aaronaround]

yeah but it's still not mainly like that there. Although women in Vietnam do work extremely hard

[@hDHDFFbhda]

When is the next update since this is a year old

[@aaronaround]

I know I hear you!

[@yumenahmenah7336]

Wow surprise about opinion the student

[@aaronaround]

Yea but to be honest she said at the end she still wanted to get married by 30 haha

[@mae-daruchannel4856]

they are have a good choice

[@WiillasAnnnewi]

Hello

[@briancrawford69]

I've always wanted to visit Vietnam amd SE Asia

[@aaronaround]

Yeah you should it is awesome ... you'll be glad you did

[@zeethedrummer]

Bro: Make a Peace sign. Her: No kiss? 😥 LMFAO!!!

[@aaronaround]

haha yeah I know right

[@markgarreth706]

This is so cool. So nice to see the young ladies be more progressive and open towards other ideas and exploring new things to find what best suits them ❤ great interview!

[@bryanscruggs7566]

It's actually really sad

[@tvbuu]

​@@bryanscruggs7566facts , the colonizers bringing their brainwashed ways

[@J.D.Vision]

Woke progressive leftist way of thinking is destroying the United States as we know it, I don't wish that on any other country.😮

[@timsmith8391]

You live over there?

[@aaronaround]

Depends on the day.... where my head is at haha

[@AdamHuynh-s5s]

21 strong independent then 30 after 9 yrs of earning 10mill month they want a husband but they too old for men of value

[@aaronaround]

😳😂

[@basilbrush7878]

Men and Women in Vietnam at 30 years look more like 20 when compared to Westerners

[@brianvoigt8894]

Dont push the sick hook up american culture please. We also see how terrible it is.

[@aaronaround]

Oh yeah I hear you. I am not pushing it. Just asking how it is in Vietnam

[@eduardomaldonado1647]

Some of these women are Toxic modern ideals. @@aaronaround

[@mae-daruchannel4856]

independent woman 👍

[@DrPhucNguyen]

Hello em

[@WiillasAnnnewi]

Hello

[@mae-daruchannel4856]

@@WiillasAnnnewi hello Sir

[@Phan-Xu]

I thought Vietnam 🇻🇳 was totally against LGBT! This is not good at all!

[@aaronaround]

Overall they are. Even in HCMC the most liberal city that woman was explaining she still hides it from her family

[@yanti2680]

Omg Gen Z .. 😂

[@aaronaround]

the internet is powerful :0

[@borat707]

Of course the main reason why homosexuality is either promoted or suppressed by any society is ultimately the birth rate and the sex economic index. The media and government of any country can subtly influence human behavior to achieve a balance in the birth/death rate. Notice that in the era of WWI/WWII and most world conflicts, there was little promotion of homosexual behavior. During the Vietnam War, I would assume that homosexual behavior was suppressed. Now that military conflicts are at the lowest level in human history, and the world population is increasing dramatically, it would make sense that governments would have a vested interest to increase abortions and decrease the birth rate, while raising the birth rate for males, or to import foreign male labor, which can raise productivity and sterilize males by overworking them.

[@aaronaround]

@@borat707 😯

[@scottwang266]

THE LAST CHICK IS DID SHE LOOKED HERSELF IN THE MIRROR LATELY???? SHE THINK ABOUT JAPANESE OR KOREAN SHE MUST LOST HER MIND 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@aaronaround]

😂 what do you mean? I thought she looked kinda Korean haha

[@neiltuong1855]

@Scott Wang. What is wrong with preferences. Does she have to look korean or Japanese to prefer them. It's the same as Chinese prefer white or hispanic women. Do Chinese have to look like them? On the contrary, I know many Koreans and Japanese men prefer Vietnamese over Koreans and Japanese women.

[@XxAxX16]

Have you looked in the mirror? Us Vietnamese don’t need Korean and Chinese with small 🤏🏼

[@vanminhnguyen9868]

The outlook of vietnamese women is closed to chinese not to thai or Philippines

[@aaronaround]

hmm yeah I am not sure but you might be right about that

[@vanminhnguyen9868]

@@aaronaround if you leave bankok and move to pataya the thais have more dark skin than people from bankok. The people from bankok are more than 50 % Chinese

[@aaronaround]

@@vanminhnguyen9868 ah wow interesting I didn’t know that :0

[@aioxima2146]

Người khme là vô ơn nhất thế giới

[@fridaydell]

the first girls make me feel sad so sad

[@philipcharles9342]

Do vietnamese women think of western men?

[@aaronaround]

I am not sure 😂

[@ifaltea5644]

Do you like men or women? Both…. Wtf 🤣

[@aaronaround]

You know I don't think she meant physically but I am not sure..

[@wennyhoang3009]

She might misunderstood your question. Might be interested in both genders. But lover must be man, that is why she said if she has chance, she would prefer an England s boyfriend

[@aaronaround]

@@wennyhoang3009 Yea I hear you thank you for inputing :)

[@wennyhoang3009]

@@aaronaround one more thing, Vietnamese is really attached with their family, family is the most important thing in life, might support their child until they (meet the God). Some big family might live together (3-4 generations) in 1 house. But few years lately, young generation prefer to rent a house for their small family (after they get married, which mean before getting married they still live with mom n dad)

[@aaronaround]

@@wennyhoang3009 Yea ok I did know that but thank you for the good word :) .. hey are you good at singing? I saw on your channel.. I need someone who is good at singing

[@SOCORROGM]

Leftovers

[@rickyarme2317]

Yeah I'll stick to the Philippines

[@MikeManning-p8u]

Most men have the same mindset regarding marriage for thousand of years. However, women's mindset have changed about marriage over thousand of years. Men usually like things to stay the same and women usually are more adaptable to changes with their environment.

[@aaronaround]

Yes there is some truth to that

[@orlandomando8486]

Intro question about LGBTQ? damn you have to go behind bars

[@Mr.Skip-di6yg]

Me love you long time.

[@aaronaround]

ha

[@Seroskill36]

So feminism and all this BS is also spilling now in Vietnam. Kinda sad.

[@Freeeeeeeee27]

You will see it in the big cities. Gotta find traditionally minded women.

[@williamwhite1596]

Leviticus 20:13 KJV Bible Deuteronomy 22:5 brings punishment of Luke 17:2 !!!

[@Mr.Skip-di6yg]

She love you good - boom boom long time.

[@aaronaround]

nice ha

[@buzzlightyear9256]

Thabk you brother for the insight might have saved me a big chunk of my sabbatical ti find a wife

[@alekasandarmilosavljevic6767]

ENGLAND ISCRAP

[@aaronaround]

bingo!

[@KevSheehan]

Lol "dating"

[@aaronaround]

:)

[@jejudo3000]

Keep it Nam