What No One Says About Baby Wearing...

[@EmmaHubbard]

Thanks for watching! Don't forget to get your free 0 - 12 months old developmental milestone chart here: brightestbeginning.com/checklist/

[@littleoak5]

I like wraps and slings the most for keeping their legs proper and carrying them. I like the sling less during the newborn phase

[@ebonneenelson2325]

Congratulations on the new baby. Also I tend to wear my second baby a lot and I always pay attention when I wear her. I am one of those helicopter parents that constantly makes sure that their baby is ok even if she isn’t laying down. 😂😂😂

[@EmmaHubbard]

😂 I am pretty sure I will be wearing this bub too, as I need to keep up with a 5 year old and 3 year old! It can be very handy!

[@andyjame28]

Just go ahead and buy this. It has been a game changer for our baby who loves being held and looking around at everything. It fits my small, 5'4" skinny frame, and my husband's, 6'1" muscular frame. Of course we have to adjust it differently but both of us can wear it comfortably! Definitely worth the month. Washes easily, too!

[@jennyh4025]

I‘m so glad, that I had my child in Germany. Carrying a child facing away from the parent is highly discouraged and frowned upon - front facing carriers are actually only sold, when they are „international products“. And post natal care midwives help choosing and using a baby carrier. So I really didn’t learn anything new, but hearing the possible problems was quite interesting.

[@EmmaHubbard]

That is so interesting. It's awesome the post natal car midwives help you choose a baby carrier which suits you and your bub. Sounds like a great way of doing things!

[@jennyh4025]

@@EmmaHubbard In my opinion good pre- and post-natal care (along with paid parental and even eight weeks of mandatory paid post-partum leave for mothers) are some of the reasons, why Germany has a lower maternal death rate than the USA and is just nicer to and better for pregnancy, parenthood and babies. Not all midwives do it themselves, but they tend to recommend experts if they can’t for whatever reason and even most shops and manufacturers (unless they are based outside of Germany) will tell you to always carry your child with its belly to your body.

[@kerstingefischert3170]

I’ve been baby wearing my daughter for the first 7 month for every nap, and today I’m using the carrier for some work at home when she is sick, that’s so great! Back carrying is key after 1 year of age :)))) and I’m glad that she know sleeps in her own bed, my back does not hurt any more

[@lauracrua]

I fell with my baby in a carrier and landed on my hands and knees able to save us both vs carrying a child where we would likely have both been badly injured. I think sometimes carriers are compared to prams which is obviously not a direct comparison when most people end up carrying small ones in their arms frequently.

[@jgo5707]

This is exactly what we needed! We are considering wearing our newborn and this came at the perfect time!

[@EmmaHubbard]

Firstly congrats on your newborn! Hope it is all going well! Also so pleased to hear this came at the right time for you and your family. Hopefully it helps!

[@lisaroper421]

For what it's worth, we *loved* wearing our babies!! In the end we loved the woven wraps the best for the support and ability to make it do what you need to do!

[@rosebaby808]

Congratulations on your pregnancy, Emma! I am a huge fan of your videos. I discovered your videos in the middle of the night when my baby was a few days old, and I was looking to educate myself on this new little person. As a first time mother, your videos have taught me so much and made me so confident. You're like a member of the family in my household. Mazel tov again!

[@EmmaHubbard]

Hi @rosebaby808 thanks so much for your lovely words. It honestly makes my day to hear that I have helped in some way to make your parenting journey a little easier. Also thanks so much for the well wishes for the pregnancy. ❤

[@braria9855]

I also am adding, that the briefness of them and clips + images (which you have been adding more of lately) makes them so much nicer and easier to digest

[@MandiMomOf8Channel]

Congrats 🎉🎉 I'm pregnant with my 8th right now 💗💗

[@EmmaHubbard]

Congratulations to you too! 8 bundles of joy would be amazing!

[@hannahmay4161]

Congratulations on the new baby! ❤️

[@EmmaHubbard]

Thanks so much!❤

[@theresawest]

So excited for you that you have a baby on the way! Thanks for all the great videos!

[@EmmaHubbard]

Thanks so much! We are pretty excited too, especially the kids!

[@lawaincooley6788]

Congratulations on your little one on the way!! Wishing you health and happiness!!!

[@EmmaHubbard]

Thanks so much!❤️

[@nicolepilgrim3142]

Congrats my dear 🎉 🎊 🎈I actually use the ergo Omni 360 and I don’t know what I would do without it use it every day like clockwork…finished using it moments ago, my 9mth old fell asleep In it …wearing a baby is a natural thing just look at the tribal ethnic communities or Africa where mothers carry the baby on the back.

[@EmmaHubbard]

Thanks so much❤ So good you have been able to find a carrier which works well for you and your bub!

[@KatSolovei]

Congratulations, Emma! Thank you so much for your educational videos. You're a great mom and this planet needs more people like you :)

[@EmmaHubbard]

Thank you so much!

[@julia2]

Congrats on your new baby ☺️

[@EmmaHubbard]

Thank you!! 😊

[@BWP3000]

I was browsing on how to wear baby and what carrier is better and as I was looking at my baby your video autoplays. Now I'm reconsidering buying since my baby is currently 2 months old. Thanks for this video 😊

[@EmmaHubbard]

No worries at all.

[@sarahj87]

Thanks, I just bought an Ergo baby carrier for my soon to be newborn

[@tmobz]

Please be very careful when you put your newborn in the ergo, although it says from newborn it isn’t always a great fit until they are a little older around 6 weeks. Make sure you observe the TICKS Good luck and happy babywearing! (UK babywearing consultant)

[@pugtrees]

Congratulations! Hope that you have a healthy pregnancy! Since healthy babywearing involves head support and not having the baby's face pressed up against mom or dad, does that mean that you can't babywear with newborns who lack those neck muscles and/or can't babywear while your baby is napping?

[@monsterZero]

Hi, Can you please make a video on 3months premie baby’s behaviour sleep cycle and stuff like that ?? My baby boy born at 26 week and now he is full term and came home with low flow. If you make that video than it will be really helpful Thanks 😊 ❤

[@shamlishah4836]

Hey.. Thank you for posting such knowledgeable videos. I am first time mum and am meticulously following instructions given by in your videos ranging from toys to development milestones..everything.. Thank you very much 😊

[@EmmaHubbard]

I hope the videos continue to be helpful! Thanks so much for trusting me❤️

[@rashminable]

C for chin and K for kiss is more intuitive for me. Congratulations!

[@EmmaHubbard]

It does make a lot more sense. Thanks so much!

[@cynthiam7940]

Congratulations Emma and Thanks for all your helpful videos. My 4 months old baby girl has been blessing from one of her nipples for almost a week now. I took her to her pediatrician and he is not sure of what can be causing it, he might order labs today. Do you have any information regarding this problem that is making us so nervous. Thanks in advance.

[@manasam1371]

Which baby carrier do u suggest? Pls reply

[@HatariRed]

Congratulations on your new baby! My first is due early next year, and I have been drinking in your videos on early development. Thank you for what you do!

[@EmmaHubbard]

Congratulations on your pregnancy too! ❤I hope you are feeling ok! So good to hear you have started to watch the videos on early development. Hopefully it makes the first part of your parenting journey a little bit easier!

[@em-hw3cv]

What carrier do you recommend?

[@alexandrashaikh5679]

Congrats on new baby. Thanks for another great educational video.

[@beckyevans8744]

Congratulations on your upcoming little one!!!! Sending tons of love. Your videos have helped me with my little one who is now almost one. I am a pelvic floor PT so I treat a lot of mamas. I love your evidence based material, so I refer my patients to your channel all the time.

[@EmmaHubbard]

Firstly, I am so pleased you have found this channel helpful! And thank you so much for recommending this channel to your patients. That is the biggest compliment. Also thanks so much for the well wishes. We are very excited about our little one arriving in November. Lots to do before then though!

[@armineyordanyan9563]

Congratulations on your pregnancy!!! Thanks for all off your videos. They have been very helpful for me as a first time mother. I keep sharing your channel to my friends who are expecting too. God bless you and your family!

[@EmmaHubbard]

Thank you so much!❤️

[@yellowbeachgirl]

When is forward facing the baby in a carrier alright if ever? Ty for the video!

[@MsKaylakay19]

Works great I so needed this

[@Pigimyshrewed]

Can you talk about weaning off of breast-feeding? Thank you for all your great content!

[@EmmaHubbard]

Thanks for the video suggestion!

[@victoriavasquez155]

Thank you Emma!!! I discovered your page recently and it is really helpful. Greatings from Peru!!!

[@EmmaHubbard]

Hi Victoria! It’s so nice to hear that you are finding the videos helpful.

[@lobright4358]

Great content! For some reason when i wear my baby to a wrap, his knees are not m shaped

[@jes5icaP]

Hi 👋! I’ve been watching your videos for a few years now and stumbled upon them when I was trying to figure out what high chair to buy (we have two Tripp Trapps!!). Congrats on your pregnancy 😊 Sending you positive vibes from Canada!

[@EmmaHubbard]

Thank you so much!

[@Rhiles44]

Honestly this was so hyped when I was pregnant and the first few times I did it it strained my back so bad I was like forget this and haven’t done it since and probably won’t ever do it again.

[@EmmaHubbard]

Babywearing can definitely hurt one's back!

[@umauma9147]

Very useful for me mam🙏💐 Thank you soo much 💖

[@EmmaHubbard]

My absolute pleasure!

[@arii7248]

I love baby wearing and I definitely recommend anyone wanting to do so to visit a sling consultant in person to ensure a proper fit and practice. The other night when my little one was struggling to sleep I secured them in a carrier and they soon fell asleep.

[@EmmaHubbard]

Thanks so much for sharing this tip!

[@JakobPuchmayr]

thank you for this video. do you have a particular product that you can recommend? Regards

[@caitlynnmae2475]

Congrats on your new baby! So exciting.

[@EmmaHubbard]

Thank you! We’re so excited!

[@sarahbriand3278]

Congrats on your pregnancy! If I might add another risk of improper baby wearing. I had a carrier which didn't position hips in the M position when facing outward and it cut off circulation in my baby's legs! I guess there was too much pressure on her vessels passing near the underwear line. Her feet would get greyish! I checked online to see if others had experienced the same thing and many have. Some have reported red spots appearing on baby's legs. I have now purchased the much more expensive but more supportive ergobaby omni carrier which supports baby's legs when facing outward (my baby likes looking out more than facing my chest). Haven't had the problem since.

[@EmmaHubbard]

Thanks so much for sharing this information!

[@sophia4christ]

Congrats on your new bundle of joy! 🤗😊❤😁🇯🇲😁❤🙏🏽😄😁

[@EmmaHubbard]

Thanks so mush for your well wishes❤ We are very excited

[@a.nobodys.nobody]

We didn't start wearing ours until 4.5 months. Such a bummer. It's a huge game changer. Esp since he's been holding his head straight up since 2 months. On that note, didn't realize we could start practicing sitting then as well. Whoops

[@aaminathwaheeda3897]

Congratulations n i would like to know about which formula milk is good to start after 6 months for babies. Like animal products or plant based etc..

[@EmmaHubbard]

Thanks! Unfortunately, which formula milk is best is a little outside of my scope. A dietician would be the best person to answer this question!

[@tmobz]

Congratulations on the baby! I think it’s a shame that you’ve focused quite a lot on the negatives of babywearing. I don’t think you have consultants in Australia but we have them in the UK and we have spent lots of time training to do this. Could’ve been mentioned in the video. Can I suggest that you read ‘Why Carrying Matters?’ By Dr Rosie Knowles, she is a babywearing consultant and GP who also trains consultants and runs a sling library in Sheffield 😊

[@EmmaHubbard]

Hi Tracey thanks for sharing your knowledge and recommendation. As I mention in the video babywearing has lots of benefits and it is something I am very familiar with as I did with both of my children and will do again with my bub at the end of this year. As the purpose of this video was to talk about how to babywear safely to minimise risk and promote a baby’s development I needed to cover the potential concerns/issues which can occur when babywearing. This isn’t something all parents are aware of and raising awareness just ensures the baby and parents are safe when babywearing.

[@nk47100]

Congratulations on your new addition!

[@EmmaHubbard]

Thank you!

[@TheJaseku]

Great quality. Thanks :)

[@basseyukpe3469]

Congratulations Emma, God's blessings.

[@EmmaHubbard]

Thanks so much!

[@TJDash]

Close enough to kiss seems to be a do as we've always done but no explanation as to WHY

[@ArtByKarenEHaley]

Here were the reasons I learned for this part of the acronym. When your baby is close enough to kiss, the baby is not down so low as to be smothered by your breasts or chest, or the carrier. You can hear the baby breathing at that proximity. You're able to see the baby's airways and ensure they are not obstructed. And your lips can sense temperature more sensitively than your hands, so if you are concerned the baby is overheating or getting cold, you can kiss the baby's head and get an idea of how warm the baby is. Plus it's just nice to be able to give the baby some affection while your hands are busy.

[@kylaboutin7638]

What about baby wearing on the back? I've seen some families do that, is it better for older babies/toddlers who still enjoy being worn?

[@monicarocha7640]

Thanks Emma for another great video! And congratulations on the new baby!! :) I just bought a baby wearing today, for my 6 week baby. Is there a limit of hours the baby should be on the baby wearing?

[@tmobz]

There is no official research for time limits when baby is facing the parent in a sling, so long as baby is having all their needs met (such as changing nappy, feeding etc) it is worth noting that when baby is a newborn and in a sling they can be very sleepy and might even sleep through their feeding cues. Keep an eye on the last time you fed (bottle or breast/chest) gently take them out the sling and give them time to wake up before feeding! Happy babywearing! ( I am a babywearing consultant in the uk 😊)

[@EmmaHubbard]

Hi Monica glad you found the video helpful. Also congrats on the safe arrival of your little one! I hope you’re finding the newborn stage enjoyable and not too overwhelming. Currently there is no research which definitively states what the limit is on how long you should wear a baby. What’s important is that you meet their need as Tracey mentioned but also give them free time playing while lying on their back,side or tummy throughout the day. The free movement they get in these positions helps to develop their muscles strength, coordination etc. Basically variety in positions is key!

[@monicarocha7640]

Thank you so much both of you! :)

[@Amy-ol7jk]

Congratulations on your good news!! ❤️❤️

[@EmmaHubbard]

Thanks so much ❤

[@NoorBakeer]

Thank you for the video very informative and helpful as usual

[@EmmaHubbard]

It's my absolute pleasure!

[@anatroskot6950]

Hi Emma! What about wearing baby in the opposite direction? My baby can’t stand to be carried facing me.

[@tmobz]

How old is your little one? (Carrying consultant in UK?)

[@EmmaHubbard]

Hi Ana this is a great question. In regards to optimal hip development the recommendation is to face them in towards you for the first 6 months. But bubs can tolerate facing in the other direction once they have good head control which happens at around 4 + months. I would just be aware that facing away from you is very tiring for bubs as they need to hold their head upright with minimal/no support. So you might find your baby cannot tolerate this position for long or you may notice their head falls forward in their chest or to the side and at this point you should get them out of the sling/wrap/carrier. Hope that helps!

[@samridhichawla2536]

Emma which carrier you recommend for small babies

[@jacksonfysh3746]

Another fantastic video, thanks Emma

[@EmmaHubbard]

Glad you liked it!

[@VTSD2109]

We are thinking about purchasing a new carrier for our one year old son. How important is M position at this age? Because carries of popular brands here don't seem ergonomic enough for me (they provide П not M position 🤷‍♀️)

[@dinithiabeysiri3199]

Hi Emma, I would love to know what's the carrier you are using. It's so confusing to buy what's on the market. Also, we are planning an overseas trip when bub is 4 months for a period of 5 weeks...any tips?

[@Phronesis7]

African baby carrying is time tested and more beneficial to help the baby relax as well as interact with the environment safely. And it’s free! The baby attaches better, is naturally protected, safe and allows for multitasking for the guardian. Babies should be carried on the back, not the front. That’s unsafe and always looked unnatural and uncomfortable for the baby AND parent. Baby carriers never made sense to me and this just confirms it

[@arkitekfran]

The sellers don't care and it has become a supply and demand Bull crap. The masses will never stop falling for things they see as easier.

[@skfjhsdjklfhsdjlfhsd]

Yes, but as you well mentioned it, it's still referred to as the "African way". Most westernized parents will rather be uncomfortable than carry a baby "the African way". Unless some magazines start recommending it. But that would require industry support first. Let's not miss the opportunity to make tons of money 😂

[@vanessashapon5944]

I lived in North Africa for 10 years and alot of women carry their babies on their back. I personally ( not african) found it easier for me to do certain things with baby on my back. Bit after having a baby I found I got more dizzy that way. I also found baby can breastfeed carried on the front. Personally I feel the front way is easier and more convenient for me and my baby. Doing housework I found baby on my back easier.... which makes sense since African women have long been very active outside the Home and in physical things... Western women have had more relaxed lives at home and with cars more accessible to them

[@dubmob151]

Is back baby carry only for older children rather than newborns and infants? Assuming it's done with the same sling, how is it done safely without assistance?

[@Phronesis7]

@@dubmob151 It’s mostly for newborns and infants but you can still carry toddlers if you can do it safely. The beauty of the African method is that once you’ve been trained a few times, you know how to do it alone. You bend over and have the child lie on your back while you secure the cloth firmly around them. I was taught how in middle school and I was terrified the first few times, but it’s the absolute best thing coz to the baby it feels like being swaddled

[@zhangqianzq]

Thank you very much for the video! Are newborn infants safe in the carrier before their necks are strong enough to support their heads?

[@EmmaHubbard]

No worries at all. Yes it is usually safe as the wrap or carriers for newborns provides head support. Just makes sure your little ones head is turned to the side, their chin is not resting on their chest and their face remains uncovered so they can breathe freely.

[@zhangqianzq]

@@EmmaHubbard thank you!!!

[@PotatoSalad11]

Wait...why doesn't the K stand for Kissable and the C stand for Chin away from chest rather than the other way around!?

[@EmmaHubbard]

Not sure!

[@instinctivejudgement]

Congratulations! 🥰

[@EmmaHubbard]

Thanks so much!💕

[@annabees]

ok, but all the examples to reduce suffocation are of babies who can hold their head to some extent... What do I do with a newborn?😢

[@mthomas73]

Great tips

[@EmmaHubbard]

Glad you like them!

[@jasmindrace]

Congratulations 🥳

[@EmmaHubbard]

Thanks💕

[@zmtyaeffie5646]

I love you ma'am ❤️❤️❤️

[@EmmaHubbard]

❤

[@RodeoSwappingBoogie]

Also important: some carriers have a starting weight. Like your baby must be at least 7 pounds

[@EmmaHubbard]

Thanks for sharing this information!

[@tamaravarela8446]

Congrats on your pregnancy! 🥳 Wondering is it okay to do more extended baby wearing for a couple weeks for a trip? We plan on traveling abroad with baby sometime around 5 - 9 months and only plan on bringing an ergo baby carrier for light travel. So we would be wearing baby for several hours every day during the trip.

[@EmmaHubbard]

Hi Tamara thanks so much! A trip overseas would be lovely! At that age your little one’s hips will be well developed and they have a lot better head control so they can keep their head off their chest very easily. Wearing your little one during this time would be perfectly fine.

[@tamaravarela8446]

@@EmmaHubbard thank you so much for your reply!

[@EmmaHubbard]

@@tamaravarela8446 no worries at all! Enjoy your trip overseas!

[@elena1573]

Hi Emma, please take notice that crawling has been officially excluded from development milestone list by CDC.

[@EmmaHubbard]

Hi Elena, thanks for sharing this. It is something I was aware of.

[@brianmathews2926]

Why wouldn’t C stand for Chin and K stand for Kiss, the reverse is ridiculous

[@EmmaHubbard]

Good point! No idea - but you can always think of it the other way.

[@raxxie]

so its not recommended then for newborns??? they don't have any neck/back control

[@EmmaHubbard]

Baby wearing is fine to do with newborns. You just need to make sure you follow the TICKS rule and get a carrier or wrap/sling which is suitable for newborns to be in.

[@raxxie]

But how can you keep their face unobstructed. That makes me nervous

[@EmmaHubbard]

@@raxxie It is just about positioning their face so that it is clear of your chest and no material is covering their face.You also want to make sure your baby's chin is not resting on their chest.

[@livebygodscommands7613]

@@EmmaHubbard also I know newborns are sensitive to overheating quickly so not keeping a newborn in a carrier for a long period of time, I did this once and I felt him feeling abit floppy I realised how hot he felt being against me in a carrier while I was feeling hot myself (even in an air conditioned cool shopping centre) I immediately took him out and took of his onesie off woke him up and gave him a long breastfeed, I did repeat this mistake again

[@shaheensamavati2010]

The examples of “TICKS” done right are all older babies. How would a newborn be able to keep their face away from your chest? I can’t picture it without the baby being able to hold up their head.

[@EmmaHubbard]

With a newborn you turn their head once they are positioned in the sling or carrier to ensure it is away from your chest. Hope that helps!

[@thilakavathyramachandran8741]

hi mam....my son don't drink cow milk,so what to do?

[@EmmaHubbard]

Hi! Cow milks under 12 months isn’t needed. If your child is over 12 months and your concerned check in with your doctor on ways your little one can get the nutrients available in cows milk from other foods.

[@aoiahiru670]

I once saw someone wearing their baby and one of the baby's legs was completely purple from restricted blood flow. We carefully asked if everything was OK, and indeed it was NOT. That experience made me never want to use one of those-wrap around baby slings... Not only can the baby suffocate in them, but their circulation can EASILY be cut off. And especially if they're wrapped up tightly as Emma recommends... Terrifying.