What REALLY happened with Ohio/REC

www.gofundme.com/f/not-your-a...
Thank you for your help!!!!

[@CedricAda]

Wow, what a thing. That whole whirlwind of frantic exciting activity and promises followed by urgent decisions needing to be made just sounds super manic, followed by a pretty textbook crash in interest and capability to follow through. I have heard pretty much unanimous accounts so far of all of the american retail knife companies paying absolute peanuts to their employees. As a general rule, any business that goes for the “we are a family” tact with its rank and file employees generally starts on the sunny side of that term but soon converts it to the side more akin to constant favors and unpaid overtime.

[@arrowheadguys7637]

Well said Pete. This is very accurate of my experiences with "family culture" in American business. Employees are your most valuable asset and companies need to remember that.

[@ZPositive]

Mike being manic depressive is the first thing I thought of when I saw this video. I wouldn't be so quick to generalize that American companies don't pay well. Be of value to a company, be a dependable employee, and you'll be fairly compensated. Yes, there are bad bosses, but that's not the norm.

[@ericasedc]

Yep. I realize I have made mistakes thru this as well. I should have had a back up plan (even though they literally aren’t available). And I should have been smarter. It sucks for everyone. Thanks for watching guys (:

[@arrowheadguys7637]

@@ZPositive I think Mike had a plan that depended on everything going right to work out, and when everything didn't go right he didn't know how to handle it. He only said American knife dealers don't pay well, not all American companies. I have heard this as well, specifically Blade HQ as it relates to all the turnover with their KZbin personalities

[@ZPositive]

@@arrowheadguys7637 yes, shit happens. Plans fall apart. But ghosting someone, then getting mad at them when they say you damaged their trust is not being a good person.

[@robanderson5570]

Thank you for sharing the tangled web of events that, frankly, should NOT have gone down. You both are honest, yet fair and forgiving. Not surprised, it’s part of the reason we love y’all so much. We just want your human and canine family to find a new home soon. Will look for instructions on how to donate. Much love from south Texas.

[@najib19nawas]

Big fan of the channel and very appreciative of all the genuine and thoughtful opinions you have been sharing on the knives that have been discussed in all your episodes. This by itself is a service to those who are not well equipped to make purchasing decisions and want to make sure the purchase they are making is coming from an informed place. You provided so much good information to us beginners that I see you as a consultant and I am willing to pay for this information. So do not see it as a handout! The only area that I hope you are willing to be open to is to seek input from this community as to what is best to do with the money you will be getting to make sure that you have diversity of inputs from smart folks here who are willing to strategize with you to put this money to “best” work for you and Nicole to give you stability and minimize risk of finding yourself in this predicament ever in the future. Both of you are young and smart and have the potential to do good things in life but you need mentorship. Seek it out and be open to get feedback from your audience. You have to have a plan and be intentional about it. We are here to help.

[@NJames-dh6kz]

You both seem like smart, hard working people with a high level of integrity...I'm sure you'll figure something out. I'm sorry you're having to endure this crappy situation though.

[@ilovesoftwhispers]

Brave to put out an open, emotional and obviously very personal video like this. Kudos. And thanks for keeping us in the loop. Regardless of your personal situation we’d still continue to watch and love your videos! Keep on keeping it real ladies. X

[@Cletus_the_Elder]

Thank you for laying this out in a dignified way. I think we understand now how the rug shifted underneath your feet. I appreciate that you did not frame yourself as victims, which I see too often among people who need to explain hard circumstances, and that you were reluctant to give these details from the start.

[@mildmannerededc]

What a crappy situation you two... I had been wondering what had come of the big move. I'm confident other doors will be open when the time is right. Stay authentic and look after all those puppers! Please do feel free to reach out anytime, always happy to help when and were I can. - Brad

[@ericasedc]

Thank you!!!!!

[@slkknifelover]

Love your content and your honesty. You will survive this and come out stronger. The community needs people like you guys... keep up the great work

[@mrc2205]

Wow that’s a lot to have happen in such a short time. I really feel for you two. I can imagine the panic now, having to find somewhere to live for all your family. I only hope there is someone over there who has another property you can move too. I would happily donate or give to a go fund me or patreon or what ever to help you guys. So don’t be afraid to do what you need to do. Good luck

[@doncarson8618]

Erica I'm a new subscriber. I sincerely appreciate you and Nicole being willing to share this personal situation. I have had similar situations happen regarding broken promises and new jobs. I can tell you that every time it was God's grace that prevented a much WORSE situation from happening. This was THEIR loss and this will all work out in your favor in the end. You didn't compromise your honesty or your family. Please don't change and keep sharing your knowledge with us newbs. Thank you for all that you do.

[@ericasedc]

Thank you for the kind words!

[@jgon-lq4kt]

damn this hurt to watch. Crazy the ups and downs in emotions, i couldnt imagine what i would do in your situation. I hope it all works out, be strong guys!! if i could contribute in ANY way possible, please let me know.

[@boostbrigade]

That was a unfortunate situation. To be honest tho I don't blame you guys for trying. fortune favors the bold, risk can lead to great success or in this case a pain in the ass. Me and my brother are the same way. we'd almost rather die than ask for help. After 2021 alot of people are really struggling. My brother was physically/emotionally getting ill from the stress of bills and job pay changes so I finally had to insist on helping him. He finally accepted. I'd rather donate when I can than watch people I care about endure the stresses that can accumulate from lack of funds. I'm so happy your letting people help you. You guys are the exact type of people that deserve the help the most. You guys are awesome Take care!

[@THExDUDEx8624]

Yeah,it's crappy. I think more than likely he had intentions on keeping his word. I think he over committed. He should have let them know right away so they had time 2 find something. I had my boss that I worked for for years do something similar. Well, promise 2 do something and keep stringing me along.

[@boostbrigade]

@@THExDUDEx8624 stringing along seems to be common these days. I've had that happen to me as well. Very disappointing to get strung along. But nothing compared to the string that pulled notyouraverageedc along. Ya I agree. his plan went sideways and he Lacked the ability to quickly own up to it before it became way to late.

[@tacostu3016]

I'm sorry for all the inconvenience an confusion that has happened I wish you all the best

[@FreedomFox1]

Did you publicly question him on the Microtech thing? If so, I can understand why he might be upset. When you work with someone, they need to know that you have their back 110%. That’s tricky, given what your channel is about. (And this isn’t a criticism, because I have a similar personality.). Overall it sounds like everyone meant well, but the practical considerations should have been dealt with differently. You should have known upfront what the positions pay. And he should have enlisted a buyer’s agent to find a place… based on his criteria, he probably would have learned within minutes that it would be difficult or impossible to find a place. All of that should have happened before you decided to leave your current property. I know, this is probably all obvious in retrospect… I hope everything works out. There’s some good ideas down here in the comments.

[@daveburklund2295]

I want to work with people who are honest. Most people do.

[@MayhemMechanic]

Moral is......trust no one

[@jd4edc]

Gosh, I’m so sorry that it didn’t work out but applaud you for the ground you’ve decided to stand on regarding the situation. Don’t give up on your dream either. I’ll keep your family in my thoughts and prayers and I fully intend to donate to try to help. Thank you for all you do and I wish you all the best finding a solution in the little time you have to find one. 🤞🏼

[@narkfly]

Thanks for sharing, lessons to be learned all around.

[@johnfuller6338]

Please keep us posted, I'm in a similar situation n as a veteran I at least have the v.a. to get help from, I can only wish u the best of luck going forward.

[@jahmama8652]

Damn...I feel it. Been in a similar situation. Stay positive and know that things will work out eventually

[@stunod1479]

Great learning experience. . Sounds like Mike is a big talker. Keep powering on. You will succeed. I'm sorry and sad you don't have family. Also, I don't know of any company that wants to hear opinions, honesty, and outspokenness. They want their egos stroked. If that's not for you the only route is entrepreneurship.

[@Cyanoblades]

You have to get everything in writing when it comes to things like this.

[@ericasedc]

Now I know that haha oh well

[@arrowheadguys7637]

Even then there are almost always loopholes for the person in power (since thats who probably paid to have the contract drafted) to backout.

[@AdamFourney]

@@ericasedc I’m quite sure that it being a small business factors in to this story. With larger companies, you want to look for a formal letter of offer, which sets out all the terms (start date, salary, relocation allowance, temporary housing allowance, etc). You sign and return it before it expires, and everyone knows where everyone stands. It’s also useful should you need to prove your employment to a landlord or whatever

[@AdamFourney]

@@ericasedc I’m quite sure that it being a small business factors in to this story. With larger companies, you want to look for a formal letter of offer, which sets out all the terms (start date, salary, job title, benefits [if any], vacation, relocation allowance, temporary housing allowance, etc). You sign and return it before it expires, and everyone knows where everyone stands. These letters exist exactly because you aren’t the first person this type of thing has happened to. Such letters are also useful should you need to prove your employment to a landlord or whatever.

[@jeffsmith6915]

I always wonder if people think past the step of adding a contract to deals like this and determine how the contract would have actually helped.. or not helped. Usually a contract means, at best, better odds of financial compensation after breech of contract. Most likely it also means more time and stress going through litigation to get it...not good! Actually contracts often end up functioning only to draw out the pain even longer and with more $$ when you get the lawyers and legal system involved which is the last thing people want. Plus he has not yet refused to help them with the financial hit they are taking. If they aren't planning on asking him to help financially then a contract would literally not have helped with anything. He has to say "No" to their request for compensation for this mess before a contract would have served a purpose. The contract exists in case he refuses to follow through.. not to force him to do it. In regard to these ladies time, future plans, losing the home and stress this caused it would have happened pretty much the same way had a contract existed. A contract alone is often not enough in these situations. Here's 2 options to help protect against this happening this way again... 1) Moving bonus paid in advance. I almost always ask for this when the other side backing out exposes me to risk of either time or money loss. 2) If a bonus can't be negotiated then there's still an option. Each party deposits a predetermined amount into an escrow account. If either party backs out then the other gets the whole pot. And if any potential litigation will them be the burden of the one who backed out. I've done this a lot. It eliminates the need to trust and helps you to adjust to the fallout of a bad business deal. Both of these options would have given him more to lose than the time he spent on a few phone calls which is all it sounds like he invested in the deal. It probably would have made him take it more seriously.

[@april44]

Lemme just say I commend you both for your decision to keep “your family” together! Kudos Girls! It may be a hard lesson learned but in the end you have each other and your “fur babies!” I know it ain’t a roof over your heads but you’ll both sleep better knowing you have each other, all of you.. through thick and thin! Shit happens for a reason- it just ain’t too apparent yet!! It’s all gonna work out- chin up and keep up the good fight!

[@arrowheadguys7637]

There are definitely lessons to be learned from this. I've been on both sides of this situation, the young person needing help and finding the wrong person to trust because they told me everything I wanted to hear, and also more recently as the business owner with huge ideas for growth who got ahead of himself and when things didn't work out, ended up hurting others. As I've learned from those mistakes I'm sure both you and Mike will as well moving forward. As I said yesterday in the video that was taking down, in today's economy finding work should be easier than finding housing that will accommodate your needs with 6 dogs. It was hell for me finding a place to allow 2 dogs, and even then I had to lie on my lease because of the breed of one of my dogs. My suggestion would be to relocate if housing is completely unavailable in your area. Start looking for places with better housing options, find a house that will work for your needs, then find employment in that area. I own a lawn care service and the entire industry is desperate for labor, and we're paying a lot more than we used to. If you find housing, I would call all the lawn care companies in that area and see if they're hiring and find out what they're paying. I suggest this because you've mentioned experience in that field before, and its usually something you can start ASAP. I'm sure you're looking for other options too, but thought I'd throw that out there because in my area literally everybody I know in this field is desperate to hire people. If you need anything to review, you are welcome to borrow anything in my collection as long as you "use my shit" and if you need to sell anything in your collection I am almost always open to buying knives lol. Let us know when you get the gofundme or patreon set up and I will contribute there as well. Do some research and see which options have the lowest (or no) fees and fastest transfer policies so avoid delays down the road getting the money into your bank. You might also consider something like Cashap or Venmo.

[@ZPositive]

Lots of wisdom in your post. For sure, we business owners have the toughest time getting excited about future plans, using that excitement to motivate employees, but also knowing when to draw the line and temper our expectations. That enthusiasm that drives us can also be very destructive if we don't control it.

[@arrowheadguys7637]

@@ZPositive I like to think us Anthony's got things figured out Yeah, growth opportunities are the hardest thing for business owners to manage, especially if it's significant. It's easy to get over-excited and make plans for everything to work out perfectly. The problem with that is it requires everything to go perfectly to work. I just turned away a chance to double my business because everything would have to go perfectly and I would have had to make promises I don't know whether I could keep. Sucks to turn it away but was the best avenue. I've said yes to similar things in the past and it's never worked out

[@ZPositive]

@@arrowheadguys7637 it's sad how business opportunities that got me super stoked 5 years ago now make me more skeptical than excited. There is not a more jaded, shrewd old bastard than someone who's fought the entrepreneurship battle for 50 years. But if it was easy, everyone would do it, right?

[@Cletus_the_Elder]

You don't need me to tell you that you are decent man with life experiences that honed that decency into practical wisdom. I hope you have a bunch of kids that can carry that decency forward. It is so rare these days that we take notice of it when we see it. Maybe it was always this dark, but I imagine that there were many more good people in the country in earlier days. Nowadays, there are more people who only want to appear to be charitable and kind than those who actually are.

[@arrowheadguys7637]

@@Cletus_the_Elder Thank you I appreciate the kind words. I try my best but know that there's still a lot I have to improve on.

[@johnhebert3855]

I am sorry you had to go through this. I've lived in Ohio and grew up in New Hampshire (Franklin). The later is better.

[@kid5Media]

This makes me very sad but I am so glad you've shared. And so glad you've decided to accept donations. I know how hard that must be. I'll be happy to contribute what I can. The knife community needs people like you around. So does the dog community. Wish I had a magic wand I could flip and come up with a better solution. Hang in there.

[@joshrolfe86]

You guys are both awesome! I am so sorry to hear about the struggles and the lack of follow through from Mike after promises were made. It’s gonna be tough to find a spot for 6 dogs - I want to help in whatever way I can also. Wish I had a property in New Hampshire to rent to you all haha

[@ricas1143]

Life is a continuous learning experience very sad to ear about all this but learn from it and adapt. For the time being be practical and do what you can. Will be waiting for your gofundme. Cheers

[@drygulch1000]

Reaching out to local animal organizations to get the word out may put you in contact with people more willing to occomidate your family. Someone mentioned sharpening services which would give you cash and content about the way particular steels respond. You both have so many skills you will make it through this rough time.

[@treychambers3050]

You should start a Patreon and upload some exclusive videos on the side there. That way people have a way to support you directly for your content and you don’t have to feel weird about taking a “handout.” I’m sure tons of fans would subscribe and pay for your content. You’d have a more reliable steady stream of income over time vs a one time payout. Just an idea… hope y’all get this figured out. Love the content!

[@DavidV4444]

I love knives, have many and like most, enjoy all the knife and gun KZbin channels - been watching them for years and years… you are incredibly talented - above and beyond knives, you are engaging, real, informative, consistent and you have one of the best if not the best channel - I just love your videos. Keep moving forward but try not to forget that not everyone can do this KZbin thing - it takes creativity and talent as well as knowledge and you do it so incredibly well. Don’t worry so much about where you are because your incredible talent will take you places. You have talent way above anything I could ever aspire to - this situation sucks but you will prevail and I will support you as well - you deserve it!

[@poncho151]

This whole thing seemed kinda odd to me from the beginning. It sounds like one side being serious and committed while the other side is just saying yes to everything with no real intention behind it. Unfortunately in the end it literally is gonna put you guys out on the street. If I had to guess, I think he probably had a big vision moving forward and figured you guys would make your way out no matter what, so he just kept saying yes and a plan with no real backbone ended up forming but for you guys it was the only option. That said, I’ve seen situations end quite poorly when one person is controlling another persons income and living situation while also being in a completely new place. So maybe you guys avoided something for the better but more than anything I hope you guys are able to figure things out and it doesn’t get too stressful and difficult.

[@ericasedc]

Thank you so much.

[@MrPocketfullOfSteel]

Indeed Poncho. I'm 57 years old and with that comes a bit of wisdom. If that dude would have said all that stuff *haha* to me - I'd have thought he was on drugs, plain and simple. Secondly, if *not* drugs.....unstable mentally. Manic etc. That is just *NOT* normal behavior. *Ever.*

[@daveburklund2295]

Wow, that is a sucky situation. I had a job offer fall through at the last minute once. That alone hurts, but I had no pets and still had a place to live, so things were not as bad. Good luck to you two!

[@My_kind_of_knife]

I completely understand, I have 2 dogs and they are part of my family. I would never give them up even if it means giving up opportunities. I wish you both best of luck!

[@saintill3724]

Wow that’s such a crazy story! I feel bad It didn’t work out. Hopefully Ohio isn’t totally out of the picture! I think you 2 would really like the Lakewood or somewhere near Lake Erie area out here. The dog situation is tough too. I had to give up one dog when I was younger to move somewhere. It still bugs me, I could only imagine 4 or more. But i had a friend who ran a dog sitting business and had 10+ dogs all the time and they had a pretty big family on top of that but made it happen. Bedford OH area.

[@ZPositive]

Man, what a confidence destroying ordeal. The kind of mess that crushes your faith in the goodwill of strangers.

[@ericasedc]

Oh well. We tried. We all did.

[@ZPositive]

@@ericasedc it wasn't a mistake to tell Mike that your trust had been shaken. He made a bunch of promises, then ghosted you. That's not cool. But one thing's for sure, he's going to see this video and take it personally. He took the Microtech thing the wrong way, and he's going to do the same thing here.

[@ericasedc]

@@ZPositive I told him I posted this. So at least he is aware

[@ZPositive]

@@ericasedc Honestly he sounds like a manic depressive to me. Super motivated and optimistic, and then the situation changes and he becomes a different person. Him lashing out at you after he ghosted you is wrong, wrong, wrong. Life teaches us all kinds of lessons, some of them more painful than others. I'm sorry this one has been so brutal.

[@jeremynedrow7003]

I'm so sorry girls,for everything that has happened.

[@paulthelefty]

So sorry that you are going through this… Sounds like typical corporation bullshit. You guys are awesome and you’ll pull through I know it! Looking forward to many more great videos with lots of honesty… LOTS!!!

[@artemkanarchist]

Thanks a lot for your work - and let’s hope the knife community stands in solidarity with you and helps you and the dogs pull thorough it. Mutual aid is the only way ❤️🖤

[@channelzero8916]

Your being way to kind he said he’d make it happen and dropped the ball and screwed up your living situation I wouldn’t work for someone that goes back on his promise

[@latetodagame1892]

When something is family owned it means that you're not trying to please investors. But they don't necessarily care about their employees.

[@snowtiger44]

All the best for you both and the dogs 🙏🏻

[@kimslater525]

Erica and Nicole!! You two have always done such an amazing job at being responsible, independent, and supporting each other,!!!!!!! Things WILL turn out.for the best becuz you kids have earned it,!!!!!!!!!! Just hold on a little longer!!!! I love you both so muçh!!!!

[@ericasedc]

We love you mom 🥰

[@nicoledodge7240]

Thank you Kim, I love you so much!!! 💜💜💜

[@mikeyeh7646]

Sorry to hear about this. Don’t ever lower your integrity as human beings, Erica and Nicole. I had always been too nice but got cluster f$&@ed that many times. Now I don’t trust ANYONE! I hope you get out of your predicament soon and come out of this ordeal stronger than ever. I am in Melbourne Australia, happy to offer some help from here. Let me know how.

[@shadowcastyt]

They’ve got a “gofundme” linked in the description

[@pnutmal]

This is a crazy story . I have alot of thoughts on this hole situation but I think I'll just keep them to myself . The one think i wanted to tell you guys is there is a major shortage of labor out there . I work for a large concrete contracting company as a foreman we are paying young people male and female $38 an hour to come to work for us starting out that's $24 per hour on your check every week and 15 $ per hour for a benefit package which includes full health insurance and pension . This is a union job . Also I do not live in a big city more like a rural area with a few Big Towns probably similar to where you live . There are these kind of jobs everywhere in every industry right now. Like one guy commented earlier it's easier to find a really good paying job then it is to find a house .

[@pinhookfishingclub]

Wish you all the best! So talented and full of good vibes, you’ll land on your feet!

[@NeevesKnives]

Crappy situation and I hate this for you guys, I've been through the ringer many times over myself so I understand, I'd like to help out where is the gofund me? Or is it through the Raffle?

[@ericasedc]

Making it tonight J. Thanks man

[@dualsportedc]

Jesus. Definitely a FUBAR situation. You guys will be in my thoughts and prayers. I’ll be watching for your GFM. I don’t have much but I will try to help as much as possible if I can

[@petipetya]

Napoleon Bonaparte : “The best way to keep one's word is not to give it.”

[@solanaandmichaelwine901]

I gotta tell you that whole situation sounds weird I'm sure your hard workers but why is this guy willing you do all of that it's not like your machinist or engineers I'm just confused on why he needed you specifically so bad not saying that you all are not smart hardworking g people but do you get what I'm saying it just sounds sketchy from the jump and from experience having your boss be your landlord and your boss doesn't work they are literally in control of your entire life or atleast that's how it feels I've been there and done that anyways I know your dogs are everything to you guys but it's gonna be extremely hard for you to find a place to rent with all them dogs if I was yall I'd start looking for an older mobile home you can usually get them pretty cheap and could fence in your yard for the dogs but anyways I've prayed for you all and remember everything happens for a reason and God has a plan for you

[@ericasedc]

I know. I was stupid with some of this. Thanks for watching!

[@arrowheadguys7637]

My guess would be he wanted to build up the youtube channel to cash in on the success of BHQ, KnifeCenter and SMKW with theirs.

[@nicoledodge7240]

@@arrowheadguys7637 Yes her KZbin has more subscribers than REC, she would have been valuable.

[@stompbox64dtown9]

He was looking to hire a social media coordinator that already had a built in audience.

[@arrowheadguys7637]

@@nicoledodge7240 yeah that was the 1st thing I thought of as well. That would have been good for them. Almost makes me wonder if they've been talking to other KZbin personalities as well.

[@justinbelcher3679]

I have a rescue dog and he's a member of the family and I'd like to rescue morebut it's not in our budget to do that right now. Saying that to say this which your not gonna like. It's sounds like some of those dogs need to go back to the SPCA until you can actually afford to rescue so many dogs. Look I get it and I don't like saying that but it sounds like based on what your saying is that you've taken on too many dogs and that's a big reason your in the financial situation your in. With 2 incomes it shouldn't be that much of a struggle. The situation with REC a side. I'm praying for the both of you . I hope that what I said doesn't offend you because that's not my intention at all.

[@MosesRS]

Wow, that situation sucks! However I'm being honest and sincere when I say this, with that many dogs you almost have to buy a house. I don't know of any renter that will allow that many. Most renters allow one maybe two...but 6 nope.

[@ericasedc]

Yes- we will have to buy!!! That is what the donations will be for.

[@solomonkane408]

If it sounds to good to be true it probably is . I feel bad for you I had a similar situation where I moved for a job then the job wasn’t there I had to pull money outta no where . I know you guys will figure it your tough ladies and hard working.

[@bobmtb1443]

So happy that you put your dogs first; they are cool dudes! May our best wishes be with you! You Will Win!

[@ShawnL61189]

Thanks for telling us what happened. Where do we donate to help you guys out?

[@stompbox64dtown9]

In. I was in similar circumstances growing up. Thankfully it worked out for me. Would love to pass it on.

[@shadowcastyt]

Got a “gofundme” in the description

[@billhudson4805]

It may not hurt to look into job opportunities with some of the big knife companies, mainly the ones you test and do reviews on. Product loyalty and honesty can go along way. Plus these companies have the money to get you there and settled with relocation packages. Just an idea. All the best to you both.

[@kf_boston]

DOGs❤️ completely understand definitely a life lesson here Business No retail business will buy you a house or pay your rent to fill a entry level position no matter how hard working you are financially doesn’t make sense Best case 5K sign on with multiple year contract I’m not trying to be harsh I feel for your situation and I’ve been there lived under a bridge luckily for a short time along time ago and my happy pup is what got me through that time Early on I always was ok with peoples words and feel if I say something I follow through but shortly after I learned signed contracts are a game changer Wish you both the best

[@johnnyventurino8947]

Both of you ladys are awesome and im just like you two when it comes to my dogs. I would never leave my dogs they are just like my kids. You both are very mature beatiful ladys GOD BLESS BOTH OF YOU AND I KNOW EVERYTHING WILL WORK OUT FOR YOU TWO LADYS.

[@Kcubreva-]

Here is a wild idea, come to Vermont… if you can work at construction or farming or day care for dogs, not a rat race, regroup. Work, dog friendly we’ll find housing less then 30 minutes to a good job… maybe start a knife community here… we really don’t have one. But what we do have are strong communities that let you be the strong people you want to be

[@nickmartino2839]

I know what you meant...... but you guys ARE NOT dumb kids..... not at all...... and ......I won't say what I want here...... just not the best place.... but watching this......I literally just wanted to give you guys the biggest bear hugs ever!!!!!!!!!!!

[@ericasedc]

We love you Nick!!

[@OneMinuteKnifeReview]

Hang in there. I hope it all does work out.

[@jonathancamps9853]

This kind of experience cant be bought, only earned through anguish. God blessed you with conviction and discernment which will give you a better life and opportunities. There was no way to know this unless you have savvy business people around you, which you dont, but you always set the terms before anything. And get it in writing. No matter how sweet the deal and how nice they are. I dont think you did anything wrong, in fact you aced this test. God bless you

[@ericasedc]

Thank you so much. Definitely learned a lot from this!!!! And I have zero resentment surprisingly- which feels good. I am only looking forward- and so grateful that I was able to learn from this experience!

[@gabrielbaker2667]

Damn that’s insane to hear about REC. Sometimes a business grows too fast for the owners to handle, but it’s insane to know people are counting on you and to put that situation on the back burner. At the very least you put an assistant on combing retail listings or something if you can’t handle it yourself. You’re dealing with this in a much more mature way than I would, which I admire you for

[@ericasedc]

Thank you. It’s hard- and scary. But we need to be strong and level headed to find a solution.

[@felixf5211]

I own and run a business and completely agree with the OP. Business ethics are not an oxymoron. As an employer, one is responsible for his promised whether they're in writing or not. A contract is a contract. These young women were told it's a no-go at the last minute, after they'd already made concrete plans to depart, and apparently REC was aware of all this. Ultimately, this comes down to responsibility and professionalism, and REC dropped the ball. Makes me a bit angry, if I'm honest.

[@ericasedc]

@@felixf5211 it’s frustrating for sure. We are still screwed and not once have we been reached out to..:

[@MrPocketfullOfSteel]

Wow Erica. As a newbie to your channel, I bumped into this. *Smh.* Wow is all I can say. I hope you guys are doing OK and all. FWIW - I'm glad I heard this from you. It makes *decisions* easier on my end. Thanks again.

[@ericasedc]

Thank you for listening to our story and commenting💕

[@stevena.simmons3203]

Also, I've been wondering what happened w all the plans you shared.. that's so rough. We're all struggling out here right now. I can help you some though!

[@tynungester2543]

I am in Ohio and REC is where I shop most of the time. I for one would love it if everything aligned and you were able to get out there.

[@ericasedc]

I don’t think that will happen but please keep supporting REC!!!!

[@johnparinellojr.2035]

On the bright side this situation made you stronger, and help fortify your dreams. I’ve only been watching your channel since Monday this week, and I can tell your good people. Seven times down eight times up.

[@ericasedc]

Thanks so much! We made it to the other side!!!!

[@leatherblades3908]

Everyone I know with more than one or two dogs that doesn’t own their house has been in a situation like this. It’s a tough one.

[@dustinhedglin2657]

I'm am so sorry that happened too you two..you girls rock and will be going places in the knife world

[@Hungrybird474]

Man if I could do it over again I’d go in the medical field hands-down. It’s too late for me now but I would definitely do that and get 15-30 acres in a decent place way sooner

[@JohnnyQ714]

Shooting arrows of positivity your way!!! You two will prevail!!!

[@SodaPopCurtis808]

Sounds like ya'all need an attorney. Without a contract, it would be a tough legal battle. It sounds like HE was working a hustle and something fell through on his end. Watch out for them "car salesman" ladies. They gonna sell you a lemon.....

[@wyldebill7248]

Oh no ! Best wishes ❤️

[@ericasedc]

Thanks so much my friend!!!!

[@chrischase6793]

Having not ever met this "Mike" or even heard of this company until today, this sounds like a top down problem. First, their guy left "suddenly", which is the first red flag. Did he say why the guy left? Cause employees don't leave bad jobs, only bad bosses. And it seems like you dodged a bullet. If this is how he acts to non employees, I can only imagine the struggles you'd have to suffer as employees. Personally, i don't trust people like that with tons promises. And if he was actually serious from the beginning it would have been in writing. I think y'all dodged a bullet. Wishing you the best of luck!

[@ericasedc]

Thank you for watching!

[@experienceprecision5406]

Man what a mess. Definitely a learning experience. Being older I would of advises against even sending the offer for your services. You offered to go work for him but there was no way you actually could of. But this guy says that's not a issue and starts showing off. Then it implodes. Sorry for you guys. I just would of tried finding someone to take in my dogs until I got settled. Well listening further I guess salary should of been the first thing. The knife business is not pleasant at all but what is.

[@2371Anita]

I am glad you are going to Exept donations. It takes a big person to do that! Because that is a hard thing to do. I will donate some money. I am truly sorry it won't be much. But I hope all little bit will make a big enough pile! And boy, wouldn't it be nice from river edge if they would donate dollar for dollar! Because he put you in this crappy situation! Were can I donate?

[@sal1964]

Never trust anyone always have a back up plan best of luck to you guys

[@mattzza6665]

Sorry guys for the stress you are going through, lesson learned, When it sounds too good to be true...You know the rest. Chins up you will make out. And I will make my own decisions on what to think about rivers edge. In the meantime 🗣 USE YOUR SHIT. 👊💥

[@Frizzlefry7]

I don't know if I've ever heard any one say "the good life" and "Ohio" in the same sentence until now.

[@TheHeroBadillo]

No dont lose your faith in ppl. Sometimes things do not work out but stuff happens maybe to steer u in a different direction! I Support ur channel! Never Fold!

[@hanikaram3351]

I HOPE THAT YOU FOUND AN AEWSOME PLACE AT VERY GOOD PRICE . I salute you for never intending to give your dogs away pets are like our children in fact more vulnerable

[@clintashmead3558]

This was hard to watch because I think everyone wants this to work out. Keep your heads up because something else will pop up. You are marketable and represent the community very well. I would hope that other companies recognize your abilities and offer you a better deal. I don’t expect a response from you but please know we love your content and you have a following. I’ve watched your reviews and they have influenced me and some of my knife purchases. You use your shit. You know your shit. We learn from your shit. Any marketing companies dream.

[@ericasedc]

Thank you for the support my friend!

[@nickmartino2839]

No blame......... we just have a real situation here to deal with......we have to get you guys a place a nice reliable safe place to live....... that's number 1

[@knifenerd1776]

I’m sorry it didn’t work out. When something sounds to good to be true it usually is. I think it’s going to take more time than you want but a new door will open. Also you are going to have a very hard time ( not impossible) renting when tons of people need housing that have no pets. Good luck , stay positive !

[@ericasedc]

Yep! I am aware we are completely screwed. Thanks for watching!

[@smv128]

Listening to your story has literally caused me to have an anxiety attack on your behalf. I am so very sorry this has happened.

[@ericasedc]

Oh no!!! I’m sorry /:

[@Mridgwell]

Be strong for your tribe Steven

[@stevena.simmons3203]

Is there a link somewhere to help?

[@ericasedc]

Working on it!

[@robertmiller2831]

I have been a supporter of REC for a long time and this really sucks all around. I’ll see what I can do to help you out.

[@ericasedc]

Thank you. So much.

[@coprolite_steve]

IMHO, you should monetize. Taking money from youtube doesn’t compromise you and your viewers can support you via subscription. It doesn’t stop you from refusing “shady” deals that would compromise your ethics. Of course, this would only generate a small amount of money that won’t solve this issue but it would help to keep the channel going. Pls post the gofundme links when you can.

[@Suture555]

Thought you need like 10,000 subscribers to monetize a channel.

[@coprolite_steve]

@@Suture555 It only takes 1k but the money really only flows from memberships until you can seriously bump the views up.

[@heavyweightsound]

I don't often comment but I do enjoy your videos. Big respect for how you handled it. What an enraging situation. I'm sure you'll reach your GoFundMe goal and I'll bet within the next 5 years you both will be working for a better Knife Company.

[@ericasedc]

Awh thank you. Seriously! Bless

[@heavyweightsound]

@@ericasedc you're both obviously smart and devoted to what you do and any employer would be lucky to have you. I think this experience is just going to be a stepping stone to better things. Wishing y'all all the best! 💚💛❤️

[@pixeljedi8472]

I’m sure you’ll sniff out this kind of BS a little more effectively in the future. Growth is never comfortable. Be well Erica and Nicole.

[@A.J.Collins]

At least you did not move to Ohio and then get hit with a company policy disallowing employees from posting opinions on social media about vendors/knives carried by REC. Mike ghosting you during the ProTech fiasco may have been him, or someone close to him, considering opinions as a liability to his company. To be fair though, he surely knew who he was associating with so, it may have very well been someone else in the company or possibly a vendor that encouraged him to part ways with you. I am sorry that this turned out the way it did and I am praying for a new door to open for you and Nicole.

[@geek211]

Sorry to hear about all of this :D I think this falls squarely into, "if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is".

[@Knife_guy]

So sorry you two are in this situation, it really sucks! I do think it’s just a situation where it was a risky move and unfortunately things did not work out. I am sure you will figure this out and be even stronger after making it through this situation 💪

[@Doug-do7ge]

That's a tough situation, what area of New Hampshire are you looking to live? I'd like to help

[@ericasedc]

We want to stay in Wilton/Milford so we can keep our farm job!

[@Doug-do7ge]

@@ericasedc you are right, homes in that area are pricey. I was looking to purchase a rental in either Maine or New Hampshire sometime but sheesh

[@lukehendrickson3669]

I’d love an opportunity to help however I can (as it seems is the case with many others here). I’m sorry to hear that the effusive promises from Mike turned out to be nothing of substance.

[@BumbleBeeedcYT]

I’m proud of you two!

[@Letmetellyouwhat]

Pretty mature 20 somethings.... Y'all got good heads on your shoulders. Stay positive and keep taking the high road and it will work out.

[@ericasedc]

Thank you so much!!!!

[@codys5727]

I think the best of intentions were there but a job is a job and i don't feel that Mike should have promised more than the positions. I don't doubt that he wanted you guys there but it is always better to underpromise and over deliver. Looking back I'm sure he'd say if he could make it work and you guys could figure out the situation with the dogs that it could happen

[@pkamiko]

Its an unfortunate situation for sure. Mike should at least help you guys get a new place in New Hampshire.

[@sal1964]

We're is the link to go fund me?

[@ericasedc]

We are working on that

[@sal1964]

@@ericasedc let us know please

[@martinley4952]

I feel for y’all. Good intentions are cheap, actions are more expensive. He should’ve told you your salary up front. If something sounds too good to be true, it usually is.