What's the most painful thing you've been told? (Strangers Answer)

[@Thorayaa]

Hi everyone! I've been reading through some of your comments and it makes me happy to see that you find my page a safe place to share your answer to this question. With that being said, I want you all to know that unfortunately I'm unable to keep up with all the comments and I feel awful because some of you have been sharing really personal experiences that I think should be acknowledged by someone. So please if any of you are having suicidal thoughts here is the number to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 and if any of you have been sexually assaulted and are looking to speak to someone, here is the number to National Sexual Assault Hotline: [phone] ..... If you're not looking to reach a professional I really hope you'll consider talking to someone close to you that you can trust! Lastly, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't think that I'm ignoring any of your comments

[@torin6258]

Thoraya Maronesy What you’re doing is incredible and this just goes to show how much you care about everyone. Truly amazing. 🙌🙏

[@axelledubois3999]

The most painful thing that I ever heard is that my mom had cancer And my brother who said that I better suicide because im selfish.... Edit: you are amazing!

[@Username-os1ts]

Axelle Dubois I’m sorry to hear that. My aunt has cancer and she’s more like my mom than my real. ❤️❤️

[@santoscastorena4762]

Thoraya Maronesy thanks love for this video I was told a lot of things and I am strong now

[@franciscoizquierdo5557]

"Are you where you wanted to be? Like are you living the life and dreams you expected?"

[@vinny_3725]

When the guy with the tumor said “I’m waiting” that hit me different

[@sofiasantelicesmiranda2849]

Same 💔

[@TheChatterRoom1]

He lied

[@Em3r1c4]

fuck this

[@beaujonathan7752]

Thought he said "i'm winning"

[@miaalizzi2651]

I thought he said I’m winning and that’s why he chuckled.

[@snwii6156]

The guy with the tumor when he said "I'm waiting" Be strong.

[@edenhouseholder7466]

Its so sad, this video came out a year and a half ago. Hes probley gone now.

[@Redwallfan_1]

If it helps, I think he said "I'm winning." So maybe he's fighting and trying to stay positive.

[@asmaa3610]

@Audrey Greenson same

[@famalki1619]

He was lying about it. Check the description

[@snwii6156]

@@famalki1619 I know he did, but it still hurts you know.

[@ciarabullecer9062]

“I don’t remember your name, but I remember that I love you.” -grandmother with alzheimer’s 💔😭

[@eee-hv5nk]

My dad’s aunt had Alzheimer’s, but she did not remember him and would constantly ask to be left alone.

[@sinanimations8228]

That's so cute

[@eee-hv5nk]

@@sinanimations8228 what exactly?

[@loka-chan6695]

My grandfather had alzheimer’s to and when it was at the worst one of his brain halves shut down and he only lived with one of them and he was sent in a house care for old people and my dad was going to a business trip to another country so my father took me and my sisters to my grandfather some hours before he had to go to the airport and we had ”fika” (svedish word for coffie, coockies, juice and more) and then we went home to say goodbye to dad. The day after father had landed in the country safe and then we got the call. Me and my sisters was playing videogames and mom started so scream and cry and we asked what happend and she said that grandfather had died (i think he died in his sleep but I don’t remember) and that his brain had forgot how to breath because of the alzheimer’s. He said something like that to to us when we meet him the day before.

[@eee-hv5nk]

@@loka-chan6695 oh my God, I am so sorry 😣

[@abbyhill3175]

“I don’t believe you were raped.” -someone who meant the world to me

[@Ant1quedoll]

im so sorry love,you deserve so much better i’m so sorry you had to go through such an awful thing i seriously wish the best for you :(

[@ace_of_spades3164]

Oh my dear i wish i could give you a hug

[@karinkyrr8302]

I have a war going on with the Police. 20-30 times they slammed me down on the concreat floor, stripping me naked with hand cuffs on. Each time i get more angry. I say stuff like " i'am gonna find your daugther and slitt her throat". A serious thing to say i know. Never gonna do any of sorts. They can't drag me to court. Cause Every thing i have on them. But it hurts dough. Every time i go out side i know i have eyes on me. I feel like you in A way. My body getting violalted.

[@Giovanni_Gabrielli]

My dear Abby, I can only imagine. My best friend the last week told me straight that he didn't believe I had "that job" (I work for the Japanese embassy in Rome) I showed documents, badges, clereance cards, pins, money on my account and I speak japanese fluently. He didn't believe me and said he simply didn't want to see nor speak to me ever again. Best friend for 20 years.

[@preddysun_official6913]

I'm so sorry

[@Zero-ov6xs]

"I don't wanna leave you" - my girlfriend, laying on a hospital bed after a car crash, hours before she passed away.

[@Svuem]

Oh my god... I'm so sorry I don't know what to say. This just made me cry... I don't know how long ago this was but I really hope you're okay

[@phoebegayle4153]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you're okay and may your girlfriend rest in peace xxx

[@MrToasty4]

I’m so sorry. I don’t know you but I just want to give you the biggest hug. 💙

[@milsterino6401]

there are times that words can do very little to curb the pain, but i'll try. i know nothing about you, or your relationship, but it seems as though from what she said, you know that you made her happy. she didn't want to leave you. you gave her joy, and sometimes that's all we can ever do. bring people happiness.

[@Zero-ov6xs]

thank you guys for the concerns. for anyone who's curious or worried, it happened years ago and I'm doing alright nowadays. it's just something that stays with you your whole life

[@hantae4609]

“I only had three more months ... it’s been 5 months “ I hope he’s still okay and alive

[@amaruwilliams5455]

An update would be nice, cause now I'm wondering if he's still doing okay. Don't know him at all but still. He's a human being just like the rest of us

[@hasna1879]

I saw a person and he is 83 years old and he have cancer so. he can live if he try if he should not give up

[@jjxrden]

Oscar Tovar source??😦

[@LitoMyer]

@@jjxrden I dunno I'm guessing???????

[@jjxrden]

Oscar Tovar Well then I hope not :(

[@PanteraRosa91]

Be so careful with your words yall, you never know who you could be hurting.

[@Joseph-wu5ev]

Fr

[@mizougz]

Yes very true

[@0nion300]

True, my dad once not thinking said "I'm surprised how u are still alive" Not in good way obviously-

[@joelmartindominguez8273]

@@0nion300 he was probably holding on to some anger and let it out on you. Do think about it too much! 😁

[@Sanaahp]

my most painful thing, I can't believe I jinxed it. My online friends, I was super close to them. They were neighbors, the girl was 13 and the boy was 16. The boy was always online in the middle of the night, and the girl in the day. One day the guy stopped coming online. The girl told me she rang their doorbell but no answer. I made a joke saying, "I guess he died then lol." two days later, the girl texts me saying the guy committed suicide. I still cry, they were my best friends.

[@luciahoneybee]

The fact that teacher called his students "my own kids" tells me that he is an amazing teacher and I'm glad he didn't choose any other job in the world. 💛

[@reeahn]

i also noticed that :((

[@yohaAlt]

Adolescent kids can be really cruel. They are witty enough to say the stuff that REALLY hurts and have the audacity to say it..

[@kathis6840]

It happens gradually. When I was still in university, I thought it was odd that my friend (elementary school teacher) always said "my kids". When I started working as a nursery teacher, I started saying it, too 😅 These kids grow on you so much. You spend so much time with them and you would do anything to protect them. So yeah, they feel like they are my kids. ❤

[@bethanyoneal5789]

That’s sweet. I love it when teachers care about their students

[@maherischlong]

reminds me of the times when it would be Mother's Day during primary school, and we would "accidently" call our female teacher 'Mum', but she would always laugh it off and continue with the lesson.

[@titch9255]

“if you’re really depressed why are you still here?” - my sister

[@ix3755]

You are in this world because of a reason. If you need someone, I'm here man.

[@Lori.Grimes]

@@ix3755 Thats really sweet of you

[@DidulienaD]

I don't know you but stay here in this world as long as it's possible ❤️

[@ookipi]

Why.. Your sister is a cruel person. Why would she say that.. She disgust me so much. You dont say that to a depressed person.. Instead of asking why you arent gone yet maybe she should have said shes grateful your still here. She makes me sick

[@JoaoGabriel-fm3ho]

You're gonna be okay, things will get better and you deserve happiness. ♥️

[@gabb5]

There's that awkward laugh that all the participants do after they talk, that's just the laugh you give to stop yourself from crying 😞

[@d.speedy5083]

Yes we try to pretend that we're okay but the pain is too much to hide😞😞

[@litchtheshinigami8936]

Yep..

[@estilam6729]

Well, you know, some people just pretend that they are happy. I usually laugh, say stupid things, I'm trying to be funny, just to hide that I'm actually really depressed. Internet is a cool place for people like me though 😂

[@ixillium7592]

It's true. So true.

[@roseturnbull8051]

I’m bullied a lot and I go through depression I’m a young kid and I only talk when I need to.

[@arikim6717]

Notice how they're all trying to keep their smile while telling painful stories

[@lainetafili9201]

I know my heart wept

[@Lena-uh3ky]

That smile is hiding a pain

[@jeremywall7206]

Lol, the smile was embarrassment in most. Its hard to let share your makeup crisis and expect it to meet the criteria of the question. Figueroa Street. Start there and donate your time by asking these people the same question. Check out soft white underbelly channel, that's real pain.

[@Lena-uh3ky]

@@jeremywall7206 Jeremy Jeremy you are a tragedy

[@marcgerrian]

yeah theyre so strong.if i were asked by that question,i would really cry...

[@victoriaballard7354]

At 68 years old I finally got the courage to ask my mother if she knew that my older brother was sexually abusing me from age 5 to 13. She said she did know. I asked why she didn't protect me and she answered that she had to protect my brother. Our relationship ended. She is alive today at 97.

[@BornAgainFitness]

I’m sorry that she didn’t have the courage to protect you. That type of abandonment by a parent is hell and puts us on a very shi*ty journey. ❤️

[@victoriaballard7354]

BornAgainFitness thanks for the sentiment ! However I have been blessed with the best friend ever in my husband of 33 years and my life has been a wonderful journey with ups and downs like most of us.I chose to leave my terrible roots behind and build my own family's love and strength.

[@Ant1quedoll]

i’m so sorry that happened to you and i’m glad that you met someone

[@anthonyx3576]

Sad for everyone. Sex is very obscured and isn't always carried with the terror society wants you to put on it. Justice system only knows how to respond to it as if it was pure evil. Depending on how old your brother was - that would of been a death sentence for him.. by his own mother. Something like that is very hard to do, to find the right way to protect. It would be like you started severely socially abusing your brother and your father was forced to kill you. I'm not saying it was right, but beyond terribly difficult especially if she wasn't 100% aware

[@vvalbatt]

i have a similar story, except i told my mom. neither were blood related (mom and brother), but she's protected him the entire time

[@ziggyiggy1619]

“they found her body” my mom telling me my best friend had committed suicide.

[@giuliaghia8847]

this made my cry so, so much. I can't imagine how hard it must be.

[@ellieestridge4302]

I am so sorry

[@lamamoustafa5503]

OMG my heart broke so much 😭😭💔💔

[@hannahminnick7978]

My bestfriend's mom said, "I don't even know where to look to buy a headstone." over coffee about 3 months after it happened. I understand how much it hurts 💞

[@sanjanadev951]

That's hard really💔

[@Tang0-1227]

Notice how most of their painful words came from their childhood. You’d think you’d forget as you get older but that shit really sticks...

[@giulietta-1555]

Adeline Camacho words hurt the most

[@Caitzeee]

Juliet Jj The saying, Sticks and Stones can break your bones but words can never hurt you isn’t true and this video is proof of that! Words hurt more than anything, bones can heal but sometimes words can’t! Words need to be used for inspiration and love and kindness over hate!

[@lisatwigg6057]

I was thinking that too. We think childhood is so far away but there are these constellations of both happiness and pain that kind of stick with us and shape us for better or worse. In my situation it was somewhere around 11-13 that I remember my first painful thing said about me: "You're too sensitive." It took me a while to really believe I was allowed to be sensitive again. I still feel that way sometimes but I am very grateful and appreciate my sensitivity now for the most part.

[@mitsyjunkyutie6078]

Yaaaa

[@nursegod]

I was 30 when my boyfriend at the time(not for long after this comment)he told me that there was nothing attractive about me.I’m assuming he meant internally and externally.

[@sylviebaker1574]

*“i don’t think there’s anything we can do because he was your boyfriend”* that’s so so messed up on the polices behalf. i’m in shock honestly.

[@liv6842]

i'm going through almost the same situation.. but instead it was my best friend and neither of us were under the influence of anything. the justice system for sexually abused people is honestly the worst. i really do hope that she gets the justice she deserves though.

[@sylviebaker1574]

liv ? i’m so so sorry you’re going through that and i honestly hope you both get your justice

[@StixTrenton]

Suka from the past events you have no idea

[@monke2229]

the police system is fucked up

[@avanshikasaini2094]

@@hahahaha-jj8op i hope u know that not every girl do that...i agree for some but plz don't use word "girls" which includes every girl 🙏

[@graveyardoperations7407]

The bartender at my father's favorite bar told me he died a year ago. I have not heard my father's voice in over a decade. I have half sisters on his side. No one called me, despite them all knowing my number and name. The most painful thing I ever heard was nothing at all.

[@redzin8818]

I'm sorry for your loss.😢🌹

[@kimm31]

That hurt me. I’m so sorry that happened.

[@toomuchofeverything6397]

"Dont forget me please." My boyfriend said that about 1 hour before he lost his fight against cancer. We've been together for nearly 9 years.

[@sunnyside2581]

you're so strong for sharing that. Im sorry for your lost, but he's in a happier place .

[@nicollllllllllll7749]

Stay strong 💪🏻

[@whoisintissar]

im so sorry :"(

[@liliankfmn]

I'm crying so hard right now

[@meryemalbayati6449]

toomuch ofeverything god blessed him 💝😨😔

[@eng5875]

Pregnant and the doctor said "the baby has no heartbeat".

[@leopard2a752]

I am sorry to hear that. I send all my best wishes!!

[@loriadams7724]

Yes, that was the hardest thing for me to hear.

[@endlesswaltz9051]

I’m so sorry...I’m so so sorry...

[@nicoyfoster5095]

I’m so sorry ❤️🙏. That happened to my mom a couple of months ago and I can tell that she is still heartbroken about it. She’s a nurse and she really has been wanting another baby ever since I was a little kid.

[@loriadams7724]

Nicoy Foster I’m so very sorry for your Mom. I will say a prayer for her. I’m sure having you as a comfort is very helpful to her. 💜❤️

[@andrewjames2617]

These strangers being honest about their pain is a beautiful thing.

[@lainetafili9201]

I so agree...the song Beneath Your Beautiful comes to mind. They are achingly beautiful these precious aching hearts.

[@hizkiakristandy9332]

Well not about the guy with tumor. Check the description.

[@faithnelson6069]

i think this is my new favorite channel.

[@SeatLeonMK2]

tf you talk about nigga pain is stupid

[@mansi1549]

True . This feels like a secret place for comfort and comfort

[@neurLOON]

"I regret marrying you and having kids with you." - soul crushing words from my wife... what actually brought me to this channel...

[@domfelipe3910]

-"You're so stupid you'll just die without me." -"I regret marrying you." -"I will break your face. Well anyways, it doesn't need breaking." -"Sobrang tangaa mo!!! Wala kang silbi." (You're so stupid!!! You're worthless.) - My wife whenever she's angry.

[@mochimou8650]

"who are you?" - my grandma when i visited her after her stroke

[@user-sx5tk6nk6d]

this made me sob ily

[@purplezen4261]

😥😭

[@morgedits]

I’m sorry bb

[@strxwberii_milk3929]

Aww

[@xmandel]

Same 😕

[@luna_au]

The axe forgets, but the tree remembers.

[@harh2063]

Yep ; )

[@hcpiano]

The axes often does not realise it is half made of wood

[@hcpiano]

@Travisthemaxus2 Seems like you are the quote on quote"fucking idiot" here since you are the one asking ^____^

[@joicemariyam4184]

So true

[@aliyaha.9299]

@Travisthemaxus2 please be nicer, if you don't know what the qoute means its alright. Just use your words carefully

[@sofiagalaaaz]

"We are not going to hire a psychologist. Stop being sad for attention" -My parents to my sister. A couple months later she commited suicide. Mental illnesses are a real thing. Depression is a real thing. Please ask the people you know if they are okay. I was not able to change my sister's mind and that shit will haunt me forever. You have the power to make someone else's live better, you have the power to save lives. My big sister was amazing... When I was younger she just seemed kinda distant and always liked to be alone. Or... just not around my parents and me. I was an annoying pre-teen who wanted her attention and honestly I get her now lol. She came out to me as bi like 6 months before passing away. I still remember her getting home really happy after hanging out with her friends. She kept talking to me about her girlfriend and about all the stupid stuff that she did with her friends. I still believe that the only reason why she kept living a lot of time while being really depressed was because of the girl she kept talking about. After she passed away this girl was left absolutely emotionally destroyed. My sister happened to be the only reason why this other girl was alive. Luckily she never gave up. please check on your family and friends. make sure they feel loved.

[@41aronisaha34]

This comment hurt. Hope you are doing good❤

[@shreshthaarora3572]

I'm soo sorry. Sending you a big hug!!!

[@sofiagalaaaz]

@@41aronisaha34 Thanks :)) this was like 10 years ago so I'm doing better. I haven't talked to my parents in like 8 years

[@emily24013]

i’m sorry for your loss.. 💔😞

[@babysittingtipsandtricks8869]

I wish I could hug you right now!! That must have been so hard!

[@flowerpower7288]

After my therapist disclosed to my mum that he was concerned I'd been sexually abused by my dad, my mum said "well, even if that's true, what am I supposed to do about it?", I was 15, I didn't mention it again for years and years. My Dad passed away when I was 44, my Mum finally said she believed me.

[@BornAgainFitness]

I’m so sorry that she couldn’t be there for you. It had nothing to do with you.❤️

[@heartriah]

i genuinely hate it when people have this change of mind/personality whenever someone passes away. it’s so fake and disgusting. i hope you are in a better place now. ❤️

[@millindajohnson7276]

“Daddy is not coming home, ever” I was 6 years old and he was killed in a car accident on his way to work.

[@Lesafe771]

:*(

[@your_favourite_cookie]

I'm sorry, I hope you are doing okay today. If not, feel hugged.

[@natjap123]

I'm so sorry

[@nicoyfoster5095]

I’m so sorry 😔🙏

[@millindajohnson7276]

Luhvestro ??

[@emalgar5370]

“Dad hates you, he wishes you would just died. No one wants you.” My little brother, my best mate. Everything changed after that day.

[@jknj8429]

@@marierostert1536 well what do you think?

[@gabrielavieitas1806]

@@marierostert1536 oh God. How could this be good?

[@aaAa-bp1yd]

Your little brother? I would've smacked the hell out of him. What gives him a right to say that to his older sister?

[@aaAa-bp1yd]

Life or death? You choose I can't imagine your own sibling saying that to you. I mean, I've said pretty nasty things to my siblings but they all know it's a joke because they say it back to me. However, when they're being serious then that really hurts.

[@aaAa-bp1yd]

Life or death? You choose I'm very sorry. You should explain to him how he's being racist and why it's hurting your feelings, or at least tell your parents. I know it's kind of dumb for me to say that because I'm assuming you've already tried, but just know that if they still do it, they're probably not the right family for you. ❤️

[@Cat6288q6]

"Hurting someone is like throwing a rock in the sea, it's easy to throw but you have no idea how deep it goes." -unknown

[@someone-dv4yv]

That’s actually a really good example…

[@Sanjen66]

I am totally the guy named unknown in all those quotes

[@cinemaparadiso5402]

I had a major crush on my coworker .. never asked her out or anything, I knew that I wasn't good enough and I had no chance .. one day she said that I am creepy looking 🥲 and made fun of me 🥲.. also awhile ago my classmates asked why God created me and that I must be a "mistake" .. and honestly I think they are right!

[@Cat6288q6]

@@cinemaparadiso5402 don 't ever think that! Thousands of people died today and you weren't one of them. Why? Becaus your worth it! becaus there is someone out there waiting for you to make their lives beautiful. So never lose hope!❤

[@alphavegeta5148]

Until that person LITERALLY throws a rock at you. Why can't you just physically assault the people who hurt you? No matter who they are. You're small? Learn MMA and strike them when they're alone. Vengeance is the only path to peace.

[@elixirmotivation]

I don't know why but when the guy said "One of my students asked me why I was even a teacher", this line hit me really hard

[@souminda]

I feel bad for him . Bcz as a student I hate teachers

[@emilytyler7979]

“ look in the mirror , maybe you would see why you have no friends “ - my mother and I’m still in high school so that really hurt me

[@Alexandra-gv9bo]

Hi you, I am now your friend. You are beautiful inside and out 🥰

[@angelikadegabriele2635]

Aww damm😞 I would love to be Ur friend 😞

[@Alexandra-gv9bo]

@@Wirtplaysclarinet That sentence hurts but its a really common sentence between siblings... You are perfect the way you are. Make your own friends and be happy. (Sorry for my mistakes)

[@mritten]

"Get a better mirror. Look a little closer. Stare alittle longer." "Because something made you despise everyone who told you to quit." -Shane Koyczan Stay strong.

[@kingofamateurartists4574]

Ayo fuck that bitch

[@Alma97-rjl]

"Stop lying." Was what my mother said when I told her my father sexually abused me. I was only twelve.

[@Wreckit11822]

I'm so sorry..

[@sage3309]

Sorry to hear about what you experienced. Hope u live a good life tho.

[@Neels01]

Insult- your father is a mistake and your mom is dumb

[@harleenkaurmann4516]

Oh dear! That must have been so very hard. I hope you are better now.

[@cl3v3rshii2]

I am sorry .I hope you are living good life.

[@simplynessa15]

“You’re dead to me” my grandmother told me this when i was 18 years old. I hadn’t talked to her for a few months because i started a new life in another city. I haven’t spoke to her since and it hurts

[@isaacreynolds9541]

U will get through it and i believe in you. Words can hurt and trust me ik. My mom used to do drugs alot and I've seen her dead 3 times. They gave her a shot to bring her back, idk what it was called. But ik ur pain and it will get better

[@angelamercygabriel8296]

idk.. for me most grandmother always more painful to speak those ill words that our mom because they are not as child

[@MrHype]

Call her tn, you wouldnt want that to be the way things end and im sure deep down she wouldnt either.

[@yourminimochi2694]

Simplynessa15 I know it hurts but please try talking to her, she can be gone is just a day

[@wheezing.]

My grandma said she would leave me if I go for my best friend who’s a female... and me and her do everything together

[@hieronymuslarsson1388]

Follow up question: What's the cruelest thing you've said to another person? There are so many victim stories, but where are all the perpetrators?

[@alexandriabrock6979]

it was intentional. i wanted to hurt him because he hurt me so badly. i told him what he was. i said, "you r@ped me, (name)." he hated it so much because it was always unspoken between us that he abused me. he sobbed. i tried hurting him more times after that, including telling him that I don't love him and that he's dead to me and he killed who he used to be. every single day, I regret it. not hurting him, but I regret not doing more. i wish I had strength to come forward with my story and try to get justice because I know he's now dating a minor. i have ptsd now and pray to god every day that i never have to see him again. I'm sure i said many more cruel things, detailed things, but i wish i had been crueler. and stronger. its always the unspoken words that hurt the most anyway.

[@mewzer_]

@@alexandriabrock6979 it may have been cruel but its true, im so sorry you got hurt and I truly hope you can heal

[@ishathiru3516]

I don’t like to talk much so I usually say the bare minimum but sometimes it gives off a different More hurtful meaning and I am just too slow in realising that. I regret saying those things alot

[@alobhlyamii3525]

Once in anger I told my father "your existence is meaningless" I realized what I said right after I said it. My heart ached so bad and I Immediately apologized but ig I'll be guilty of it forever.

[@ShamsofTabrizzz]

I told to my mom she wasn't a model for me. She cried, I cried too.

[@kiwizona4104]

“Nobody actually loves you. Not even your daughter.” Broke my heart, because my baby is my world.

[@ninougami4770]

💔

[@euv9595]

well, i love you

[@kiwizona4104]

Thank you guys 😭❤️ You’re all so sweet!

[@briannac4260]

We all love you💕

[@lolosbizarreadventure]

Emancipate her. She doesn't deserve all the things you've given to her.

[@may5082]

"She's not my daughter. She's her father's daughter."-my mother.

[@bussyyussy7188]

this is really sad I hope you feel better....

[@may5082]

@@bussyyussy7188 It was years ago so I'm better thank you for worrying^^

[@bussyyussy7188]

@@may5082 that's good to hear

[@mayrarebecca_1076]

That hit me hard 😪❤

[@katial1461]

My mom says that all the time! Im happy not to be her daughter!

[@ABD-vk9hw]

People remembering bad things said to them from 4th grade.... Shows you how powerful words are... And what impact they can make... Use them carefully people👍

[@Jamie.0187]

Amit Dhanokar that one guy remembered what a random kid said to him in 1986 says enouh

[@musicmuse3401]

In 2nd grade a kid told me I should've never been born. Definitely remember that 🤦‍♀️

[@user-ql8fy5bj7u]

Actually it shows that they are sensitive and take thing personally..

[@marketa7752]

And 6:00 she looks soo much like Marion Cotillard!

[@yssteph781]

@@user-ql8fy5bj7u Not really.. if the words are sincere and meant to be harmful, it can hurt a person A LOT.

[@justicegusting2476]

My dad was chronically verbally abusive. I’ll probably never get over all the things he said to me. My Mom was the sweetest, kindest mother anyone could ever have.

[@Bankai90]

Same here. Exactly the same

[@bigfatdaisha8466]

"your grandpa just told me 'hey Pat I'm gonna go to sleep now' and he died.." -my aunt

[@toxic_cardriver9568]

Sorry for your loss...my grandpa died too. Your always in his heart❤

[@theothu]

i just started crying

[@LittlePlayerCookie]

@@theothu same

[@tianfeifei5976]

@@theothu same

[@23andrewtate]

Your aunt is named pat

[@excuseme3258]

I feel like some parents don’t realize how hurtful their words can be and that the things they say can really stick with you for a long time. A lot of my insecurities started as ‘family jokes’

[@betshilton]

I know what you mean

[@marythomas3808]

Oh fuck, i get that. My mom and uncle are to thank for some of the things i obsessess with keeping on point. Sometimes even when i dont feel like those things were worth putting my energy into and to stop doing it, i would remember the shit they would say to me as casual remarks, and it would make me relapse all over again

[@juliazablocki1283]

I loved my body. I thought it was beautiful. Every time my brother took something sweet my dad or grandma wouldn’t give it a second thought because he was “skinny”. When I took something he said I should work out or eat healthy. One time we were at the store and I took this shirt and I showed to my parents and my dad said “you have to work out to were that” and laughed. I cried in the fitting room. I don’t wanna eat anymore and I hate my body. It’s all because of them.

[@aliceswayer9979]

Feel ya. I stoped eating for couple days because my mother always used to say stuff like „oh u sure u wanna eat THAT?“ or „u really shouldn’t eat this and this because ur already enough… u know…“ and after a few days without eating I totally cracked up and cried and told my math teacher everything and she was really nice and said „u gotta tell her“ and guess what my mum said. „Well I’m sorry if u are so sensitive and everything but u know that stop eating isn’t good either“. Yeah, I know that. And I’m still horrified about the thought that I actually went this far (although it was for just a couple days it still was horrible)

[@dariaalessia7649]

Same my mum said my butt is too big as "an innocent joke" and now i keep hiding it because i'm afraid others will judge me as well... fml

[@getjinxed3540]

“tomorrow we can go to the market and get you that toy” -my grandmother before she passed in her sleep

[@biomedizintechnik]

RIP

[@yuyu_walker]

I'm sorry for your loss, I hope you're doing alright. I'm sure your grandmother will always watch over you from heaven~

[@xxroseteddypalmxx3884]

OMG!! No I am so so sorry💔🥺 At least she didn't had a painful death:( I am so sorry...

[@LemonLuna]

You know, the stars are people who died and are in your family, the sky is always watching you! :)

[@ninamoon4573]

@@LemonLuna yes! the stars are the people who love you and appreciate you. that’s why there are a ton of stars in the sky, because they support and love you. not just your family, but the people who truly and genuinely love you!

[@kikianellaesther8118]

I had a man tell me "I hope I age you." That was the most weird disgusting shocking and bizarre thing I've ever been told. He was definitely a narcissist and we were arguing about how he doesn't empathize basically. He was enjoying arguing. If someone's a narcissist RUN. But words are powerful. If they aren't loving don't let them eat you because it's not true.

[@Wee_Voo]

I didn't mean to make her a narcissist but I also didn't know any better because I was young. I'm still unconditional. Live, die, it's your choice. Ya, know?

[@Justin-tt9cz]

What does that even mean

[@BustedDreamShawty]

​@@Justin-tt9cz I'm guessing he hopes the stress, mental and emotional anhuish he inflicts upon her causes her to look older than she is 😢 Sad and horrific to hear

[@aynalyaa]

“you will never be good enough” *everyone felt this once in a lifetime*

[@herrbonk3635]

I feel it every day, and I'm 56 now.

[@regretevatorr]

I have never .. but one day, probably..

[@jess9848]

It’s actually sad because they only person said that to me, is me.

[@karinalisaC]

To All of you: you are good enough! You are you - you are the only you that exists on this planet - and it is wonderful that you exist! I am sending you all my love! Believe in yourself! You are good enough- you are Gold!

[@rayanacosta5801]

@@karinalisaC Thanks 💛

[@tirednotbitter]

“Your dad is lucky he’s dead so he doesn’t have to put up with you anymore.” -an anonymous stranger just months after my dad passed away

[@greyhamster2885]

(Hug Hug)

[@saniha6687]

I'm so sorry..

[@angelicabutterfly1794]

That's horrible. I'm so sorry. Hope you're okay.

[@sunghoonsvampiregenes5732]

These people aren't human anymore

[@mrnizhr]

I'm so sorry, hope you okay. Big hug for you💖

[@andrewesquivel]

"can you stop?" - my father I have turrets syndrome. I can't.

[@babysittingtipsandtricks8869]

Oh that sux ur dad is ridiculous.

[@elizabethpajwo9820]

😳

[@zejdland]

Millenials be like that

[@venusk777]

oh my God my dad does the same every time I tic I told him, I can't control it he said "It's just an excuse"

[@elizabethpajwo9820]

@@venusk777 WTF?? 😳

[@mateussalzmannvilela8193]

I know that harsh words can hurt our feelings really bad sometimes. But watching this video made think of how much pain i caused in others by saying things without thinking first, mostly people who cared about me. It still haunts me.

[@yvettevermeulen75]

I can relate to this. Someone I love broke my heart and because I was hurt and in pain, I said some really hurtful things back at him, without thinking. And it bothers me so much, some days it's all I can think about. I believe now I am a bad person because of it.

[@ace_of_spades3164]

The thing about regret is that it can help you do things better in the future, or at least with more consideration. Plus, bad people aren't usually afraid of being bad people; thats part of what makes them "bad". Forgiving yourself and resolving to try to make an effort to do things differently is difficult but it pays off in time, trust me.

[@thecapone45]

Things like that keep me up at night sometimes.

[@weartsibuaba7859]

Same here i beat myself up everyday and regret saying those things to them

[@negativeiqpoints396]

As somebody who has said mean things and been on the receiving end of a LOT of mean things from toxic friends, forgive yourself. You feel regret, that's amazing. You are a thousand percent better than most people who say that sort of stuff because usually they don't regret it. usually they make themselves a victim and pretend they never did anything wrong. Hell I had a "friend" who tried to make me feel insecure for years, and then once i lashed out at him, he claimed that he was a "saint", and that he "never had any problems with anyone, ever." You are so much better than these idiots and despite what you may have said, you're good. You're amazing, there's nothing wrong with you, and all you can do is be better, and it seems like you already have.

[@vittorias3799]

Just imagine being the person who said something rude and watching this video and realizing u were that person mentioned in the video. I would hate my self forever

[@anaquot]

I've been that person. Not to any of these people but who has said harsh things. It took a while to work on it but it mainly stems from wanting to regain control over a situation. Instead of gaining control over my own emotions it was having a control on theirs by being as hurtful as possible. It works. For the short term but you eventually become someone that nobody can trust or someone that nobody likes anymore. Its also because I grew up with a mean family and alot of abuse directed at me so in a way it was normalized.

[@durimcali3812]

@@anaquot its pretty good that u realize what you are doing or saying , hopefully you will change ( ? )

[@anaquot]

@@durimcali3812 I've already been working on changing. I've come a long way I feel.

[@durimcali3812]

@@anaquot congratulations !!! Keep walking on that path !!!👍

[@spacecat2255]

The thing is, we all have or one day will say/do something that will hurt someone so much they will remember it for a long time (maybe even forever). That's just human. How we react to our own mistakes is what counts.

[@heatherselby879]

-“your son is gone, he killed himself” Nothing will ever be more painful💔

[@annanaszzz]

stay strong💖

[@annanaszzz]

You got this.💕

[@heatherselby879]

Anna Szabo thank you❤️

[@youfortherebe]

stay strong ma’am

[@heatherselby879]

ツsophįa ❤️

[@lyzhongo5766]

"I don't know what I did wrong to be punished by having a child like you…" -My mother to me when I was 11.

[@skunkie110]

Parents are dealing with their own unhealed hurts and trauma...and then it gets passed down and projected on to the kids. I’m not saying this is okay, but it does give a sense of understanding, so we may feel more compassion, knowing they’re doing the best they can in the mindset they are under due to whatever stresses, anxieties, inner demons they are dealing with. When we can heal ourselves, we’re healing it from our families and breaking the cycles that have hurt us. It can be a beautiful thing if we allow it to be. To see through the hurt and heal, and be better for the next generation. To come from a place of love and understanding rather than hurt.

[@kimtaejin9057]

You don't need her . She needs you . Love yourself

[@ellen8244]

Same thing, but she said it after I said I was bi and came to to her, and her only It’s hard to write comments like this.

[@pillowmoment]

My sister had a breakdown in public once and my parents were yelling at her (she’s 16) She said “it’s almost like you don’t care” My mom said back “y’know what? I don’t.” It wasn’t said to me, but it felt like a kick in the stomach

[@zoivelazquez9682]

My mom called me a bitch, I was ''late'', I made it to school on time. I'm 10 now, I was 8. She called me a bitch every day, she has stopped luckly.

[@XD-nd7ou]

My heart goes to everyone in this video. They are all so beautiful souls and are so strong. It's just so frustrating knowing that there are people who are genuinely bad and tell and do such painful things. The most painful thing I've been told was my boyfriend lying to me that he has cancer. I know, sounds unreal, right? I'll tell you my story. We had a LDR, it was going for around 5 months, he've been calling me the love of this life and the right one. He was telling me everyday that he loves me so much... We spend hours together everyday and being on call at night before falling asleep and dreaming and planning to meet each other. Around 20 days ago he started feeling very bad, as he told. His head and stomach were always hurting. I did everything I could to support and take care of him, letting him know that I'm with him and that I love him irrespective of how he is feeling. After a week of feeling bad he told me he will go see a doctor. And you know? I believed everything! He said the doctor said he has an autoimmune disease but they didn't know what type it is yet. He said they need to do more analysis. Some more days passed. He told me he was still in pain continuosly and that he's throwing up very oftern. And he was faking everything so well... such a good actor. When we were on call he would groan as if with pain and all the things like this. Then a few days passed, and he said that the doctor told him they suspect he has cancer but it's not conlusive yet and that they need more time to confirm this. A few hours passed and he sad they confirmed. He said he will go to do more exams to know thae type of cancer and possible treatments the next days and that he won't be able to pay me more attention. I told him not to worry about this and that I love him! And that we need to focus for him to get better now. I assured him that I support him in everything. The next day he disappeared. I thought the doctors told him his cancer is very bad and that he doesn't talk to me not to make me feel sad. I was so horribly wrong. More days passed, during which I was researching everything about cancer and joining different cancer communities, just to make everything I can to help him feel better. I learned about so many different stories of people with cancer. I sympathise with all of them! During this time I was writing letters to him everyday (because it was our thing to do every night). And I was trying to contact him everywhere I could. One day, I found his instagram account... and what do you think I found there? A photo of him kissing another girl... He was calling her 'my love' like he used to call me. And she called him 'my significant other'. This is a term I taught him, he had no idea such term exists before :) and he's using it with her now... I saw him being happy and healthy cheating with another girl when I was worried for him thinking he's in the hospital and is undergoing treatment. I was praying to God everyday to cure him... I needed explanation and texted both of them. After a day I got answers. Apparently his love for me was fading and he had no courage to tell me but he had courage to tell me he has cancer so I'd leave him... guess what? I'm not a monster like him, I wanted to be with him even him being sick... He told me he is with the girl after he left when he told me he has cancer but the girl told me they are together for 2 months... It was so difficult to comprehend that something like this is happening to me. And it's way more difficult knowing that he dared to lie about cancer. Seeing their photo I immediately broke up with him. I'm not sad he's not with me anymore but I'm sad he did it that way. Lying about having cancer... this is just so wrong and atrocious... It just doesn't sit well with me. How can you lie about having cancer?? Can you imagine? And the worst part is that I never expected this from him as he 'loved me so much' and I thought he is the kindest person ever. He turned out to be a monster... the worst person I know... After I told the girl everything, she is still with him... I hope he doesn't do the same to her... It must be difficult to live with a liar, a monster and a cheater... I don't feel anything for him now, except disgust. I'm happy I found out his true nature and that God saved me from being with such a person. Felipe Cafezeiro Plech, if you'll ever stumble upon this, know that you are not worth of my feelings. You are a monster, a real monster. I feel bad for all people that have cancer whom you disrespected with your lie. I feel bad for all the people he has to deal with too. I'm sorry! May God forgive him. 🙏

[@anshumansahoo7568]

Hope you are doing well lady 🙏. My prayers with you.

[@onIythepinks]

"I don't want to die" - My grandpa said that to me 2 weeks before passing away from cancer

[@IDK098]

Awww :(

[@bubblyg.4685]

That made me cry

[@divine6735]

Hahahaha

[@onIythepinks]

@@divine6735 it's not that funny I was only 10 when he told me this 4 years ago

[@divine6735]

Ruby X age is just a number haha ha

[@Backyardsloth]

“You’re just a kid, you’ll get over the loss.” After I lost four friends one to cancer, one to a robbery, and two to suicide

[@ineselmoumni]

That’s horrible, I’m so so sorry for that, hope you’re doing better and sending love and good vibes your way

[@lutfiamohamed368]

That's traumatic especially to a kid. You'll get better with time, stay happy always. Sending lots of love and prayers your way ❤

[@angelina-zs3bl]

•Mare• the•sea•lily wtaf

[@angelina-zs3bl]

Do they think chi,Daren are immune to feelings

[@vaibhavtiwari6992]

Nvr happened.

[@Turtleno0]

“I’m so sorry, we tried our best”-my little sisters doctor

[@Mariaa.k_7]

Omg im so sorry, big hugs❤

[@catovermolen625]

I’m so so sorry🥺

[@0freyaax]

Omg im so sorry

[@josemanuelmurguia8970]

F ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@bxccahs]

Oh I'm so so sorry, it hurt to read this :( I hope you're okay 💖

[@fanderesidentevil]

"You are weird, nobody will love you and you will die alone and a virgin" My own big brother told me that, even when I helped my parents to accept he is gay. He could never accept how I am

[@manfredsworld4706]

I'm going to be honest. I tell myself stuff like this almost everyday now. I don't even cry about it anymore because there is no point. Enough about me and my unimportant problems, I can't imagine the betrayal you must be feeling right now. I truly feel sorry for you.

[@Ant1quedoll]

i’m so sorry love tell your brother taht his words hurt you..i’m sorry :(

[@Desmondreis]

Im So sorry. My sisters are scumbag said worse stuff too. We not deserve this

[@SeattleRaindrop206]

You’re not weird, trust me. 🩷What’s your name?

[@madim9739]

"I'm not in love with you anymore." From my husband, 2 days after I gave birth to our beautiful daughter.

[@borianakarakasheva3099]

WHAT AN ASSHOLE!! I hope you are better and that you find someone who loves everything about you. Also let your daughter bring Joy to your life! I know it Will ne hard trusting again because you can never be sure of others' intentions but im you Will find the happiness you deserve

[@lisa-minniezondi3118]

GIRL DROP HIS ASS YOU DESERVE BETTER!!! I mean that. Take your daughter and leave him, you’re better off.

[@mlmmmmm6884]

I hope that there's better person for you and a great future for both 💟

[@Iris-gy2mi]

Just WOW! That's why they have shows like Snapped! I feel for you and you're better off without him. You are worthy and deserve way better than him.

[@user-sq6yl2kz7b]

Damn that’s a different type of hurt , Especially after u just gave birth . Thats so Low of him

[@mndyD9]

“You’re not the daughter I wanted” - my mom... she told me this from age 12- today, I am 27

[@LucifersPride6]

I am sorry

[@amithjathin4772]

I hope u r strong, all the way....

[@BlancoWilliams]

My parents constantly tell me that I’m retarded and that Im a disappointment.

[@Johanaa]

That is so sad

[@nikkigulayan3754]

I'm sorry, just ignore your mom. You are an amazing person and your mom is not worth it if she's gonna put you down.

[@toniartworld8944]

“If she wasn’t born life would have been easier” My grandma to my mom thinking I was asleep

[@xKatGamingx]

You deserve to be here 🤗 and stay strong and never give up

[@arianaescalante6028]

Oh my god, that’s horrible, I am so sorry, sweetheart.

[@jroyals_]

💛💛💛

[@MarkBalic]

I mean that happens with almost everyone cause its hard to take care of a child you know, be strong 💪

[@Leftovercookiewrappers]

you should confront them but alot of things happen even happend to me alot people love you more than your mom and grandma

[@Bugonacup-wn5kw]

"You're so sensitive" "You're overreacting" "What, you think you're special?" Just for others out there, it's not all in your head. If you need help please reach out to who ever you can. Please stay strong and know that the things you are experiencing and feeling matter and are real. You are real.

[@mrslundy1535]

It is so heartbreaking that most of the painful things said to people are actually childhood traumas.

[@broskinie7168]

Yeah I think its because we are still learning the bad in the world but that's sometimes an excuse for people actually doing bad stuff.

[@suprimemiray6285]

ayyo I DONT EVEN HAVE A CHILDHOOD LETS GO- oh thats more painful oh

[@vlogartworkadventure5941]

I have childhood trauma and i am scared i will ll never be out of it..

[@mgmassey174]

@@broskinie7168 people don't do bad stuff because they were abused. Abuse damages you PERMANENTLY Especially if it happened before five and continues for years. How dare you judge what you haven't lived through.

[@missyc13]

@@vlogartworkadventure5941 I always say everyone needs therapy, because even if it looks like everything should be great for someone, everyone deals with issues, and sometimes you just need someone to talk to. Therapy works, especially for childhood trauma's regression therapy works great

[@hellomynameissadddx6719]

“It’s been 12 years get over it, you don’t even remember her” a girl in my school said about my sister that committed suicide

[@blueberrytea4942]

That's just horrible to say! 😢💔

[@mayamartinez260]

I'm so, so proud of you for thinking about her still. For keeping her with you. For never forgetting her. I hope you can live comfortably for the rest of your life.

[@minatosfav]

that’s so disgusting :( sending virtual hugs and love ❤️

[@charlottetam2983]

I'm so sorry u had to go through that 💕

[@hellomynameissadddx6719]

Thanks guys y’all seem like great people

[@yoda5280]

“I’m embarrassed to have you as my child.” -My mother when i drew a rose for her.

[@yalayolo8061]

I'm so sorry that happened to you

[@thankyouuniverse3682]

Not okay. Love to you. 💖

The problem is not with you, is the person. If you have shit inside, is normal to spread it

[@mateo2acc15]

did she really say that ?

[@aditisutar9496]

😞😞

[@camilletheys5530]

my favorite part of this series is the fact that you can’t really offer much advice but just through them speaking it out loud is lifts the weight off of them and just talking is such a healthy and productive thing

[@evajoy9859]

"I wish I had never adopted you" - my dad when I was 15 years old

[@kellinka]

@Eva Joy I'm so sorry someone labelling himself as a father said something so painful. I wish you all the happiness in your life, please be safe. I'm sure an amazing girl.

[@hollylangford24]

are you fucking kidding me? 💔 💔 that breaks my heart.

[@sarahbeaver5950]

I'm so sorry but dont worry cause others will love you more

[@cloudydazeeee]

Don’t worry, he’s just belittling you because he feels bad about himself. He probably doesn’t know what you’ve been through! *Sends virtual hugs your way*

[@strawberryghost]

i wish i could adopt you

[@Valentina-gj9lg]

"Your baby doesn't stand a chance, he will not be born" - the gynecologist I miss you, my little one

[@shadowsinmymind9]

I was told this too. Still one of the most painful things ive ever gone through

[@egoisticflamingo5869]

im so sorry

[@sonjamcdonald5646]

I am also so sorry x

[@googleaccount8567]

oh my god I'm so sorry

[@suprimemiray6285]

Im sorry

[@Tezzer-005]

"Your dad killed himself" it still hits me today, i was 8 years old when he died.

[@talakaissi7216]

Tezzer-005 I’m sorry

[@Peyton-hp5ol]

Tezzer-005 sorry to hear that..💔🖤

[@Lesteuxdelielie]

We support you through here❤️🌹

[@annademani3314]

I lost my boyfriend the same way. I feel your pain. Much love to you.🧡

[@Tezzer-005]

@@annademani3314 ❤❤❤

[@anjamatic521]

"It was too hard for him." Both of my grandmas said this about their sons: one for my father and the other for my uncle after I had multiple physical and mental health issues as an explanation on why they haven't been around when it was all happening to me.

[@idkidkyuhhh39]

“Saying mean things, is like throwing a rock in the ocean, but you never know how deep that rock could go”

[@21bulgari]

very nicely said

[@darthmaul2005]

I appreciate this comment

[@ameghacs2610]

Yehh😢

[@MrSamoannn]

I saw a reply to this literally the other video like this. It goes "It goes as deep how the ocean allows it to."

[@TheBlackManitu]

Truer words probably never have been spoken. You never know if the rock ever gets floated back to the shore ever. I know what some simple words from my classmates in the 5th class did to me.

[@bloodfusion3901]

"It should have been you!" My mother, a few weeks after my younger brother died

[@Gentapi5]

Wow I- I'm really sorry about that...

[@Gentapi5]

With all due respect, shame on your mother for saying that. Grief can take a toll, but saying something like that is never appropriate. If/when your mom becomes more level headed, you should explain to her how what she said made you feel to fix your relationship with her. Again, I'm really sorry about that, but stay strong.

[@bloodfusion3901]

@@Gentapi5 oh pretty sure the bond is severed, the worst part about me hearing that was that I somewhat already believed it anyway natural guilt. It was new pain that day I sat down for like 20 mins staring at the floor when she said that, never felt pain like that before. Thank you for your comment, it means a lot

[@ellenthelimelighttgtatbo9696]

@@bloodfusion3901 I so sorry! If my mom said something like that to me I would punch her and leave and go live with my bestie. Also, what does severed mean lol?

[@coco8258]

Oh my godness... i am so sorry to hear that 😥 are u ok?

[@ayuubali81]

"depression is being colourblind and constantly told how colourful the world is" -Atticus

[@jodiebasnett8875]

Trip13 A What a fantastic way to describe it 👏🏻

[@michaljones8940]

This made me cry

[@halimamohamed7854]

When you're colorblind you can still see color, you just see the color a little faded. So they can still tell the difference between colors and they know what the colors are, they just can't see how bright it is. So they can still enjoy color and they can still find the beauty within the colors. So no matter how sad you are, you can still enjoy the beauty of life.

[@justintime2026]

That's vague as hell, every now and then everyone can relate to that to some degree.

[@amaimojiretsu7450]

I was actually names after Atticus, and I always hold onto that quote, kinda cool to see it down here in the comments 😊

[@jovypasagad7441]

people at the older stages in life still remembering painful words they've been told when they were younger is another level of pain. it's scary to think of how many people we've hurt intentionally/unintentionally still got our words to this day.

[@grammybear2117]

"I'm sorry to inform you that your daughter passed this morning." Police.

[@malena9341]

I hope you doing better today... thinking of you

[@grammybear2117]

@@malena9341 yes, thanks, it's been 3 weeks now.

[@HI-hg6ye]

I'm so sorry .... I hope you're doing better

[@angelogaudino3500]

@@grammybear2117 the same thing has happened to me, my mom died in a car accident 2 weeks ago she was only 43, I am so sorry for you I know what you feel in this moments

[@grammybear2117]

@@angelogaudino3500 oh my. This is very sad to hear. I hope you and your people are ok 💔

[@jiwoosswag9814]

"We fight because of you" -Mom "Cry! you always cry anyways" -Dad

[@TheChosennn]

Jiwoo's Swag real men cry

[@anathestargirl]

Same.

[@Emily.Russell]

I just want you to know something so important. It's not your fault that your parents are fighting. That can make you feel so much worse about anything and can lead to depression, I hope you know that *it's not your fault no matter what they say, it's never the child's fault* I'm so sorry that they told you that, a lot of problems can stem from those words, like (I'm going off of my own experience) anxiety, depression, suicidal thoughts, self harm and so much more. I again hope you never have to hear those words again

[@brandonfox350]

Same

[@Cheryskul]

Damn.

[@jenqth]

“I never liked you , it was a dare”

[@devondeclan4302]

iiJenxo’s that happened to my sister

[@conorgilsenan3821]

O shit damn

[@abbieveniningha5719]

This happened to me close to Valentine’s Day worst part is that Valentines Day is my birthday :#

[@cinda6397]

His/ her loss!!

[@GovOwnedPhatty]

Oof that basically happened to me

[@dhruvsaxena2736]

"she is no more" The above statement was said by my sister to me in the context of my mother. My mom died of covid on the morning of 17th April 2021. It's the most painful thing someone has said to me .. I really wish I can delete some portions of my brain.

[@I_Love_animals11]

Im so sorry I hope your doing okay ❤❤

[@mariyamsaba3737]

The things that hurt the most are often said by your parents, family, friends.

[@dani_dazed]

Maryamzainab Saba yeah that’s what I was thinking. The most hurtful things I have been told have all come from my family

[@yan5193]

they hurt the most because you are emotionally attached to them

[@musiccfreakk1996Be]

yep, for sure. I had too much of this. like 'it's your own fault (answer to me when I said i got bullied'. and right now, being in college, and having failed some classes through the years, I often hear 'you'll never achieve anything, you'll never make it'

[@missjo174]

True.... because there opinion matters. Strangers could never hurt me or someone I don’t care About

[@ainailyas5365]

Yeah

[@kiannamcdonald488]

That man with the tumor looked SO alive and ready to fight against the future i really hope he lives his life to the fullest..

[@Orthodox.777]

I hope that too.

[@dusk6549]

He passed away. 😭😭😭

[@chichitrain7528]

1000 subs with no vids? He did? How do you know

[@kiannamcdonald488]

@@dusk6549 how do you know that?

[@Marlyak]

@@dusk6549 how do u know?

[@laraennasri7171]

"It does not surprise me that you have no friends" -mom

[@LinWarai]

Lara Ennasri that’s awful, I’m so sorry that was said to you

[@izzy6575]

im sry ro hear that u have to go through the same devastating pain that i also have to hear... "maybe this is why u have no friends" or "i dont blame people for hating u, not talking to u, and bullying u..." it rly doesnt help my state of mind...

[@multifandom1342]

Thats devasting to hear but this is what my dad told me..."Your a useless girl who will never get anywhere in life". I still remember to this day but you have friends who love and care about you. I am proud to call you my friend 💕

[@laraennasri7171]

@@LinWarai yeah, it was really devastating... but now, fortunately, things are getting better, I've learned to be a little more extrovert ❤

[@laraennasri7171]

@@izzy6575 Oh my, I'm so sorry to hear that... that's awful, how can they say you things like that?? I understand you, I used to be bullied too... and I used to hear similar sentences... hope this will end soon 😖 Meanwhile, I'm here if you want to have a chat ❤ (Sorry for my bad english)

[@tigershark2772]

"are you sure you still don't like boys?" My mom has been saying she's supporting me for years but every once in a while she'll say something like this. I don't care if other people don't approve of me liking girls because I don't let it hurt me and its not necessarily who I am but its different with my parents who support me in everything. It had been quite a while before she had said those words. And when she said this recently, it disappointed me because it feels like she's pretending.

[@somedudeentp]

I totally get you, don't mind your mom, I'm pretty sure you're awesome ☺☺ try to talk to your mother that this hurts, alright?

[@roshini.s6008]

Mine says," you just like guys stop getting yourself stuck in a loop called i like girls".....like wtf am i supposed to do....

[@somedudeentp]

@@roshini.s6008 don't listen to her, just be yourself because it's okay to be like this

[@cannedprimordialsoup]

"You're just sad and depressing. No wonder why you're so alone." - my ex-best friend

[@boginemeth8343]

When I needed my best friend the most he said, that the only reason he is still talking to me is because he 'has a chance' on getting me laid.. Yeah I had a panic attack after that.. It was at that time when everybody at my class was greeting me like "Oh god why are you even here" or "Just go home nobody wants to see you here". I had no friends. Just him.

[@rosiefazli2749]

“Stop eating all the time, starve yourself for once” -my mom

[@holo5081]

Damn, I hope you're ok now

[@rosiefazli2749]

Holo she still tells me it all the time no matter how much weight I lost but thank you anyway :)

[@sapnabisht285]

Eat all you want to beautiful....♥️...

[@HeyWieGehts123]

@@rosiefazli2749 Thats an advice idiot

[@padfootlovato2422]

Please don’t. I’m always here for you, though I don’t know toy

[@asterliketheflower6060]

“your dad is gone baby girl. he’s gone”- my mom to me at 8 years old, Christmas Eve.

[@zanibot426]

Christmas Eve?? That’s a horrible time to be told about your parents’ death.. I’m so sorry for you man.. I hope you’re doing well right now,

[@madisonjames1236]

So sorry

[@ethankarten7179]

Its okay you will get through it.

[@xGHxMAN15]

puffball yeah my cousins dad died on Christmas Eve in 1995 from a heart attack. Imagine waking up on Christmas, but your dad doesn’t...

[@applesong01]

My dad died 2 days before my sister's birthday... She thought it was a joke to get her to come in town until she had to help make funeral plans. The funeral was on her birthday...

[@isel5876]

"he's gone" My mother told me these words last year, about my grandfather, who had died. I was absolutely shattered; tears wouldn't stop falling. My worst nightmare was happening. I knew he wouldn't stay with me forever but wanted him to. He was my everything, he was like a father to me, and the person I loved the most. He was the person that raised me and the one I admired the most. The months after his death was very hard. The year before that I moved to a different country, in 2021. Everything was new to me, but I did not like it, I did not want to live in another country, and I absolutely did not want to leave my grandfather, but I had to. I just remember that he was really sad about me and my mother leaving, I was worried that he might fall into depression because of it. He obviously had people to stay with, but it was not the same. He only traveled 2 times to the country where I was living, he was even going to move with me and my mom, but his time in this life had ended. He died in my home country, alone. I still blame myself for moving to another country, and for not staying with him when he needed me the most. He was sick, I don't even know why, my mom wouldn't tell me and still won't. I don't even remember the day he died. I blame myself for everything. I deserve to feel guilty. I should have spoken to him every day so that he did not feel lonely. I should have done more. I still remember the last day I saw him, I knew deep in my heart that it was going to be the last. I was preparing myself just in case it was the last time, and sadly it was.

[@wallbirds]

“The only reason I’m depressed is because of you” -my mom trying to blame all her problems on a 14yo me

[@blackngoldcuttlefish3390]

ugh typical shitty mom behavior. (Like, typical for shitty moms lol). I'm sorry you had that kind of mom. :(

[@euphxricha8489]

I'm really sorry for that ❤

[@intuitivescorpiochic3828]

I'm so sorry.. You are not the reason for your mother's depression sweetie... Unfortunately, she has a mental illness & doesn't know how to cope with it the same as someone who isn't sick. Take that pain & let it become the strength to put into doing something that you are passionate about. Some of the most talented & successful people today, have been through similar nasty situations & turned all their pain & negativity into something positive. I pray you can do the same, I also pray your mom finds help. Keep your head up young one.

[@johanna-gt5qg]

How old are you now? Btw is this way too hard for a 14yo.. hope you’re doing well..💛

[@ridzuanrizal1510]

Thats suck.. sorry m8

[@pugsplaywild529]

the saddest sound I hear is when someone laughs at themselves instead of crying in public

[@ptycat]

I was just about to comment how sad/interesting it is that almost everyone says their most painful experience with a smile on their face. It's a learned reaction to mask their feelings, I'm actually trying to unlearn it myself. very hard

[@laeminiscence]

it's pretty sad that people mask their feels even when saying the most painful thing they said to them...

[@jacklynn_friends6089]

That's me every day...

[@bella-pt2ln]

Jacklynn _friends same

[@whispy4027]

It might be seen as masking the problem but it's a sign that it has been taken care of and that he/she has over come it

[@elizabeththemillennial3974]

"I never wanted her anyways" My mother. At 11 years old when my parents divorced and my dad told her he wouldn't leave without me. I thank my lucky stars everyday for my father.

[@MsChurrasco94]

Bless you and your father

[@BALSCOU]

so do never let him alone neither sad nor lonely

[@annaa3726]

😔💔 It makes me feel deadly sad inside knowing you had to hear that from your own mother💔

[@Sanamasher]

You're brave ❤

[@dudunkuna7439]

I'm so sorry

[@beneficentnature9356]

2:00 I'm a 30 year old man who was told something similar in regards to math when I was 10. My father asked "how do you not understand this?" And then said "I can't help you." I love my dad and we have a good relationship, but that moment has always stuck with me. I've never shared this with anyone in person because it's perceived as weakness, and not masculine. I respect these people for sharing their experiences.

[@tanishkarawat8122]

"Don't smile your crooked teeth makes it look horrible" - my classmate

[@AkizatheNacho]

That's why I don't smile.

[@jakxx026]

No worries they are just covering up their own insecurities

[@annakelgorn]

i LOVE crooked teeth omg i would watch u smiling for hours omg im so sorry for u that people dont recognize your beauty

[@tanishkarawat8122]

Haha its sweet :) Good people are hard to find .

[@Leana99]

Who cares really just smile and make the world beautiful😍

[@EvelinSeiler]

"I have not been happy for almost twenty years." My mom, shortly before my twentieth birthday.

[@choda9758]

Oh shit bruh...

[@funnlecake221]

Same omg

[@sarahlouise9433]

oh my lord...

[@uniquefurore8458]

I'm sorry, Evelyn...

[@zman2205]

Oof

[@spirtstone9124]

"your just like your father" It hurts even more when you look exactly like the person your mom hates the most.

[@nightdreamer.]

Oof, feel you. That phrase was used a lot by my mom when I was a child. And also people who knew my father would often say that I look like him. Thankfully, we've finally worked this out with mom. And people now usually say that I look like my . I hope it gets better for you, too! Stay strong (ɔ◔‿◔)ɔ ♥

[@Fucknows_lad]

thats what my mum said, and my dads in jail...

[@nilay.k]

I’ve been told that aswell

[@slightlyweird..]

Mines similar , “Why don’t you be just like your father.” - My mom years after my father abused her and later committed su**ide

[@elsmeow82]

Tbh same :/

[@kiraarkhipova4935]

“You’re not my daughter, you are a stranger, not the person who I raised who doesn’t make scenes, who actually acts like a lady, I lost you.” Just because I didn’t take his side in an argument. ❤

[@dezi9157]

Something that gets me is the way that everybody smiles while recollecting the memory, yet their eyes still hold the sadness.

[@Demi.d3mi]

You can feel the tears behind the smile

[@bigman7682]

”i’ll back at 8” -my dad that was 9 years ago

[@Vanessajahseh]

ツxKolli 😢😔

[@riley42073]

ouch

[@vishalbansal277]

Oh shit I'm so sorry🖤

[@clint4637]

Damn, that hit me hard dog.

[@bigman7682]

[@yesss73]

The thing that made me sad is when they smile while saying something hurtful.

[@selenaharley2605]

Wow thats true and also so deep

[@yesss73]

Yeah :(

[@jadekratochvil4437]

It's too keep themselves from crying

[@yesss73]

Yeah

[@juanmontero5348]

Smile no one cares about your tears

[@bg-ij9uc]

wow, that last woman choked me up. Great video. We can learn so much from your videos, and I know I do. I hope that last person heals. What a thing to hear when you're so badly hurt through no fault of your own.

[@syvestri5123]

" Even if your dad would beat you to death, I wouldn't do anything. " -My Mom.

[@tabitha5497]

That's abuse.

[@syvestri5123]

@I Have This Mug Thank you for the help

[@justacupoftea5486]

Are you still in that house ? Hope you're not in danger anymore

[@syvestri5123]

@@justacupoftea5486 Well yeah..

[@evanjelinerajendran9087]

This sucks! Don’t worry, things will get better ! Stay strong :)🌻

[@russellscott81299]

"Your son passed away this morning"... He was only 18 and the joy of my life.

[@isharamelbourne]

😞🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@beamazz]

all the hugs 🫂 in the world. Be strong please, i’m sending you love.

[@lichiehrb]

I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I don't get life sometimes.

[@softpanel10]

My dear Debora, i can’t even imagine how painful it is for you to live your life now that your son’s no longer with you but you should know and this is probably a sign for you to keep on living and try to be as happy as u possibly can, your son would really want you to have a full life. Please stay strong, God loves you and i love you

[@Пожирательреагентов]

I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t even imagine how hard it is to go through it, but it’s important to stay strong and keep living no matter how painful it is. Sending you love, we love and need you🫂🤍

[@junezartz]

“I’m stronger than it” -My friend days before she died of overdose.

[@somyatiwari8071]

I am so sorry.

[@cybersludge2183]

I had a friend pass away last Tuesday on the 2nd. His funeral was sunday. He also died of an intentional overdose. He was such a strong person, and I'm stuck trying to make peace.

[@Sus-nf1lq]

Rip I hope her family’s doing well..

[@gaylord1411]

I’m so so so sorry. Rip, hope u and there family are doing okay

[@micha2066]

Omg this hit me especially, my close uncle did the same...

[@ninjashera]

When my "best friend" of almost 15 years sent me a long message ending our friendship that ended with "you were never that good of a friend anyways". That was almost 10 years ago and it still haunts me to this day.

[@idonotexist4253]

“You were an accident, a mistake” my mother to 8 year old me

[@idyuda2640]

I'm so sorry :(

[@CoolioStuffz]

that is honestly the worst, people can tell someone they are a mistake or they are useless. no one is a mistake. you are not a mistake, hope u are okay D:

[@JamieM470]

She may not have planned to get pregnant, but you were given the gift of life by the grace of God. You are here for a purpose. Your life has immense value. You are no accident.

[@jdbhatts2912]

its about her. not about you. She can't process her own emotions or where she sees herself so she wants to take it out on you- blaming you would feel better to her sense of self. So if it helps, its not about you. But the saddest part is you were 8 yo. That is sad.

[@mathedidact5653]

You may have been a mistake, but she's thr one at fault. Don't birth a child if you can't love it and raise it well.

[@travelswithauntieann2551]

That first guy........broke my heart........he was given 3 months to live. I pray for him xxxx

[@manontomadini4517]

I dont understand what he have ?

[@becss4]

@@manontomadini4517 He has a type of blood cancer

[@Stranger_In_The_Alps]

“Why are you wearing a friendship bracelet? You don’t have any friends” My 5th grade female gym teacher

[@jasond4710]

Gym teachers are assholes

[@thomasvanderweegen3845]

Bruhhh why become a teacher if you gonna act like this to children ive never understood that

[@hanaesparkle3785]

where is she ? don’t worry i just wanna *talk* with her...

[@cauliflowrr]

im driving the car hop in

[@arfa193]

how can a teacher say such rude things to kids