What the Narcissist Fears After Disengagement

[@jeffcollom7945]

Basically he’s saying no contact is going to save your happiness. He’s absolutely right

[@LaurensCorner]

Can confirm. Highly recommend.

[@cheriemonami]

I experienced this due to my divorce. Our two children, young teens, were fed smear comments generously to the point I was painted black by all three. My children, not being narcissists, took the comments to heart. I cannot express in words the impact this had on me. I did not know about narcissism at the time but I remember predicting he would have to find an enemy to blame the divorce on and it wouldn't be him, it would be me. I was powerless to stop it so my strategy was to be consistently positive to my children and to model the best behavior I could. My goal was to be a happy person even though I experienced a loss of such magnitude. My strategy has paid off. The narcissist must win in their own mind. I support that in order to stay safe. Better to keep my intelligence to myself.

[@annafortuna8388]

Well done you! Actions speak louder than words.

[@1WhoCares]

The relationship between paranoia and fear and how this is used to motivate the narcissist is fascinating. Paranoia seemed to loom large for my ex, and I have never understood why.

[@lesleyashton1833]

I’ve promised myself that I’ll never forewarn my replacement about my ex’s mental health issues. I’m just going sit back, relax and let it all unfold by itself! She’s well bitten off much much more than she can chew. I’m happy to let her suffer the consequences of their behaviour. He’s already tried to Hoover me back in (2 yrs after he dumped me for her and in no contact with him) I declined his kind invitation 🤣 and he went straight back to her. My usual kind and compassionate nature has left the building where she and him are concerned.🎉😅

[@michellehinds6092]

Being the eldest daughter of a diagnosed narcissist father and a sociopath mother I came out to be highly empathic. The opposite of them. So genetics are not always the case. However I enjoy watching The Narcissist in my life squirm after he played the games with me. Even being brought up in the family that I was brought up in this man perfectly mirrored what I needed. I never seen it coming and I blame myself for that. However due to the fact that I am financially at this moment can't leave until March. I have to engage in conversation of course on his perfect timing. What I have learned about you narcissist is that you guys are much easier to manipulate than you think. But your ego just can't see it. However I do enjoy your video sir. They are eye opening of course and I can relate again being a daughter of such people. I also see that I have the power to bring down my narcissist. Have a good day sir

[@cindyluwho602003]

Currently, there is a three-way narc arc that has been going on for about a year on KZbin involving 2 main 'influencer' channels. There are lots of reaction channels covering it & panel discussions. H D Tudor has even been mentioned by one of the 'victims'. The whole thing involves egos, violence, sex, police & civil actions, limerance, sexual assault, threats, obsession, harassment, promiscuity, drugs, alcohol, lots of money, unrelenting attention-seeking, many side characters & lots & lots of food!! It's totally crazy. I wish you could cover it but I couldn't bear them making more money off of views!

[@GrumpyMeow-Meow]

Does the narcissist feel jealousy? I was disengaged from when I received a promotion at work (we were both employees at a major corporation). He got very nasty to me when this happened. Turns out to be the best thing that could have happened!

[@DOTMH_1]

I can't wait till the divorce is done. I should have never married him.

[@thelastsausage635]

He fears a karaoke challenge… I think our glorious narrator should sing Love Her Madly by the Doors…. I may have had a few wines

[@tansysmith5126]

Hmm long red wig very interesting HG....

[@QPRTokyo]

Why did I know all of this already?

[@chickadeeacres3864]

It must be exhausting to stay on your game as a narc. Have you felt the relief of ending the games HG?

[@voulapetrakos7508]

Maybe he thought I was on a shelf once I read his text from our son n laws mother and told me our marriage was over four years ago I hit that door no I’m not his supply anymore I just don’t speake to him and now I decide whether I want to talk to him or not what goes around comes around and that’s what he is getting same shit he gave me 👿🤥🖕🤮💯😆

[@berniekennedy9793]

HG a near peed YoYo championships🤣🤣🤣

[@TecOneself]

It's very important to maintain the facade, specially now days. A psychopath is not always on psycho mode, where fear does not exist, a pro-social-psychopath either because it can pre-meditate and is certain in total control. I know of many whom have the capacity to be multi-cultural and can project from different points of view, cultured. I'm glad you mention your talks in youtube, it makes me think, in the tones of voice and assertion of control. Without the facade I'd better be nothing, it takes much to maintain respect in order to keep ones work. I've failure, I had to put my facade away in order to serve what mattered most and deliver, remain, but by not taking care of my facade I lost much fuel and that's noted, it that pays and it hurts. Maybe it's a mistake that's repeat, yet, your words make me think, for certain I can recover my facade with more awareness. Super Empath (I'm not), I'm not against narcissism or narcissist traits among all the characters, I'm all for its rp and it's many dynamics dimensions, thank you once again.

[@berniekennedy9793]

Tabatha🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 HG

[@DOTMH_1]

Do they care if you expose them publicly, such as playing recordings of his abuse on public podcasts. Having a news station do a story on him and thise who helped him abuse ?

[@chickadeeacres3864]

Did Amber Heard care?

[@voulapetrakos7508]

Excuse me I honestly believe u do experience pain stop u bull I don’t believe what u are saying unless ur not human!!!!

[@voulapetrakos7508]

To all the men and woman that are in a relationship with the narcs please please get out there’s a way you can do it we don’t believe all this shit from our husbands wife’s or another relationship I done it over fourty years and six children I had to do it all alone please get out this is messed up crap there not humans there evil I loved my husband he was my first and yes I left him and now he has prostate cancer I don’t want anything bad to happen to him I wish him all the best with his health but I did leave him and u can do it too please 🙏🌪⛈❤️🌈🌈🌈🌈💯💯💯💯💜💜💜💜💜💜🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@wendyhannan2454]

Very good advice, your a very strong women to leave with six children. It must of been tough. 🙏

[@thelastsausage635]

I remember New Years Eve 2000 the whole of Dartmouth was in fancy dress pub crawling and I was dressed as Princess Leia and this bloke just looked at me strangely, walked up to me, took me in his arms and kissed me passionately, smiled, then walked off into the night never to be seen again. Was I an Intimate tertiary source? 🥷