What trauma taught me about happiness | Lindsey Roy | TEDxKC

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@susanmazzanti5643
@susanmazzanti5643 7 жыл бұрын
I was hit by a car and had a broken neck. Thank you for helping me find a new way to move forward.
@JaysonT1
@JaysonT1 6 жыл бұрын
Susan Mazzanti How are you now?
@harbhajankaur2907
@harbhajankaur2907 6 жыл бұрын
Punjabi
@dbsk06
@dbsk06 5 жыл бұрын
Stay strong. Nothing is permanent
@susanmazzanti5643
@susanmazzanti5643 4 жыл бұрын
This was several years ago and I still improve but I doubt I will ever get over this. I am old enough that the surgeon who did the neck fusion thought I probably would not grow enough bone to actually fuse my neck. I did and I still live alone. Not as well as I did before but I look for ways to manage. Thank you all caring. That helps me do what I need to do on the hard days.
@BhaktaChand1
@BhaktaChand1 4 жыл бұрын
Those 49 dislikes, I hope you are perfect. Thank you, Lindsey, for sharing such a wonderful and inspirational story.
@sbakerproductions
@sbakerproductions 6 жыл бұрын
It took me two years to come to terms with my physical limitations after a violent assault. It wasn't until I bought into the process of healing wholeheartedly, especially the inner self. I can attest to her message and my deepest respect to Lindsey for sharing her story.
@RalphDratman
@RalphDratman 7 жыл бұрын
Remarkable level of honesty. Many thanks to Lindsey Roy for this excellent talk.
@honestcheetah
@honestcheetah 7 жыл бұрын
Someone once said something like, "if you look closely at what brings you tears you may see that you weep for the very things that brought you joy." -T.S. Eliot(?)
@TheJuryIsOut
@TheJuryIsOut 4 жыл бұрын
What an amazing courageous soul. I hope you find healing and peace in your life. One of the few talks that had my undivided attention from start to finish. Some really inspiring pearls of wisdom to live by and deal with whatever life throws at you.
@Kristiana-mb9lk
@Kristiana-mb9lk 3 жыл бұрын
I’m moving on from my trauma of the last 2 years, it happened so learn from it and move on, I can’t change that past but embrace the change that is coming, the change not only of my making but those close to me who have allowed me to see that I need to change, to engage with them at what level they wish to engage at, listen to new ideas not just that they are my friends or colleagues but because I trust them to hold in part my new life that I know is coming, to change my Negative hypnosis into a Positive one. ♥️
@joanm3682
@joanm3682 6 жыл бұрын
I've had more than my share of personal trauma. This is the best TED talk I've ever heard- which is saying quite a lot. Thank you for your words of wisdom!!
@lynguyen8590
@lynguyen8590 5 жыл бұрын
Trauma teaches one about strength. If you suffer you do not have to hide your sufferings. Trauma could be your greatest power.
@cathihanauer6513
@cathihanauer6513 7 жыл бұрын
I love this talk. Pure inspiration.
@maureenurness9197
@maureenurness9197 Жыл бұрын
Lindsey, as always, lots of "catch your breath moments", tears, and even laughter, in a talk about trauma. Loved it.
@harenrussel
@harenrussel 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Lindsey. You're courage, bravery, acceptance of your changes and rising up above it all is motivating and encouraging. Keep strong.
@actionforanimals4862
@actionforanimals4862 3 жыл бұрын
Lindsay's courage is inspiring. She offers a path forward for anyone struggling to live without trauma.
@chrisburke2085
@chrisburke2085 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being you. God bless your family!
@BhaktaChand1
@BhaktaChand1 4 жыл бұрын
Such an inspirational story. Thank you for sharing. I can not understand why people would down vote such a beautiful story.
@ronadiongon7075
@ronadiongon7075 3 жыл бұрын
You are strong and truly an inspiration. This talk is so pure, you can hear the emotion in her voice. One of the best inspirational ted talks.
@josephamankwa10
@josephamankwa10 4 жыл бұрын
2020 and am still watching. Inspiring
@dennisnewton9384
@dennisnewton9384 6 жыл бұрын
That’s awesome. You could have given up and been miserable and bitter. Great talk!
@ShereeTrask
@ShereeTrask 2 жыл бұрын
Profound, inspiring and so courageous. Thank you for sharing your story of resilience and bravery!
@НазымКорытникова
@НазымКорытникова 7 жыл бұрын
You're so great and amazing! So honest and strong! I believe your talk helps a lot ot people...
@jude1515
@jude1515 7 жыл бұрын
Excellent speech and I admire your strength!
@consc306
@consc306 3 жыл бұрын
“Focus on what’s in the present & what lies ahead”
@Pro0osh
@Pro0osh Жыл бұрын
She is the BEST !
@alwanmaria
@alwanmaria 6 жыл бұрын
I love this talk! It makes me so emotional evertime I see it! Beautiful!
@hollowone777
@hollowone777 6 жыл бұрын
This is great. Thank you very much, I appreciate your candor and help. I'm in an extremely dark place in my life right now because of my difficult physical issues and this has given me a lot of things to think about and meditate on.
@sempressfi
@sempressfi 5 жыл бұрын
Hope you are doing better 💜
@nellyb.9340
@nellyb.9340 3 жыл бұрын
Lindsey- thank you for giving me hope and sharing your experience and wisdom, I thank you for your courage and you have a very large extended family and we love you and love each other,; we are united by one thing.
@tammiwood3937
@tammiwood3937 5 жыл бұрын
Sp honored to hear your talk...you are amazing
@mykel6406
@mykel6406 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your honesty, and authenticity, life changing
@artsmart
@artsmart 5 жыл бұрын
Well done Lindsey! Simply inspiring.
@AChis-vg3fw
@AChis-vg3fw Жыл бұрын
Your talk is amazing. I listen to it when I’m struggling. I’m so grateful to you for shearing. Please know that you’re helping me to look for my perspective. Thank you so much 🙏
@SamSung-zx9tb
@SamSung-zx9tb 6 жыл бұрын
...two left feet...lol! Continued blessings and thank you for the 3rd person perspective.
@alibeaumont-filder3185
@alibeaumont-filder3185 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing courage .. great perspective too .. humbled by your message .
@benjoplin8302
@benjoplin8302 5 жыл бұрын
this is great. what a thoughtful and sensitive talk. thank you for the wisdom and inspiration, ms. roy.
@olsparkywisenheimer8239
@olsparkywisenheimer8239 7 жыл бұрын
Great talk. Being a trauma survivor enlightened me to many of these same things. I admit though, after living through trauma myself, I'd like to win the lottery for a scientific comparison.. lol
@arlinegeorge6967
@arlinegeorge6967 3 жыл бұрын
Roy you are beautiful amazing impressive n courageous soul. Inspiring great talk. Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.
@monkeyfacelove1283
@monkeyfacelove1283 7 жыл бұрын
Needed this talk!❤️
@mirandamiranda9579
@mirandamiranda9579 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing talk! you are a hero! You really inspire me to look at life challenges in a different perspective! thank you!
@brendadrew834
@brendadrew834 7 жыл бұрын
Great TedX talk...beautiful woman, inside and out!! Blessed be~
@monstervan
@monstervan 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story!
@Chanesmyname
@Chanesmyname 2 жыл бұрын
It is really brave and kind to share your experiences and how you have managed and sorted these things to help other people with those lessons.
@linishabhoyroo2145
@linishabhoyroo2145 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this awesome perspective!🙏🏻💕🌸
@pryncessyanni
@pryncessyanni 4 жыл бұрын
POWERFUL!
@SandeepKumar-bt7is
@SandeepKumar-bt7is 6 жыл бұрын
Vry vry inspiring Ted talk. It's one of my favorite
@truebluewonderful1139
@truebluewonderful1139 6 жыл бұрын
New perspectives keep depression away from us too.
@jimhammond9193
@jimhammond9193 4 жыл бұрын
Massive "Fist Pump"! Wow!!!
@ArtandKitchen_
@ArtandKitchen_ 3 жыл бұрын
My trauma taught me how to be happy by myself.
@irektaflinski5449
@irektaflinski5449 4 жыл бұрын
Wow life changing 👏🙏🏾💙😭
@rockysage7760
@rockysage7760 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this talk. It's insightful.
@peanutbuttercookies6227
@peanutbuttercookies6227 6 жыл бұрын
I’m glad everyone is so inspired by this, but I’m having a hard time taking her seriously. She’s still able to work and earn her own money. She’s still able to bathe and dress herself independently. She can still think clearly. She has supportive friends and family. Sorry, but I don’t see her as a “survivor.” She just had an injury that she had to adjust to, but her life really isn’t that different than before her accident.
@truebluewonderful1139
@truebluewonderful1139 6 жыл бұрын
I think you don't have enough life-experience to get it.
@JaysonT1
@JaysonT1 6 жыл бұрын
I'm a trama survivor and it hasn't improved me. Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not saying I salk in it and it's poor, poor me. However, it hasn't added anything really. It has taken away many things and you learn adapt. Maybe some/few find value in it but most just learn to adjust.
@marksoberay2318
@marksoberay2318 5 жыл бұрын
Same here, I was in an accident that i lost multiple limbs
@zylascope
@zylascope 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Great advice.
@TheCozyCushion
@TheCozyCushion 7 жыл бұрын
Great Talk ;) I truly enjoyed it and will use a new perspective.
@Labendvanbrosif
@Labendvanbrosif Жыл бұрын
Hey that’s my friends mom!!!
@MrDan11422
@MrDan11422 6 жыл бұрын
As much as I want to stay positive with someone that's negative. Confused about what to do
@Sarahthompson2237
@Sarahthompson2237 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome, thank you… I’m trying-wiring
@dasbeharifull-timemystic2075
@dasbeharifull-timemystic2075 7 жыл бұрын
ok....so perspective training is the answer
@jeandistefano5486
@jeandistefano5486 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Gina in lights
@selamselam3942
@selamselam3942 3 жыл бұрын
Well done!!
@riaspoint7374
@riaspoint7374 5 жыл бұрын
Good motivation Dear
@jodie-annsemenov19
@jodie-annsemenov19 3 жыл бұрын
💜💜💜
@miraclegirl4634
@miraclegirl4634 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful
@azylstra4777
@azylstra4777 7 жыл бұрын
@Ella0158
@Ella0158 2 жыл бұрын
@ghazikutbi3206
@ghazikutbi3206 3 жыл бұрын
Lindsey Roy is right. What is the worst thing that could have happened. i. e. we should count our blessings bestowed to us by Almighty Allah, the creator, and none of our blessings should be taken for granted. Par example: an electrician was working with his plier in an electricity wall plug and all of a sudden the two electric poles touched the plier and a shock happened which caused a damage to the tool. Imagine if the plier does not have insulated handles.
@robertcorderchiang3947
@robertcorderchiang3947 5 жыл бұрын
My God
@JyoSco007
@JyoSco007 3 жыл бұрын
😊💕🙏💞😘
@nothanks8594
@nothanks8594 4 жыл бұрын
Champ
@gildardovalencia6323
@gildardovalencia6323 4 жыл бұрын
137
@harvinkhaneja4688
@harvinkhaneja4688 Жыл бұрын
Accident Eksident Eiksidant Eksidnt
@harvinkhaneja4688
@harvinkhaneja4688 Жыл бұрын
Anchor Hainkar
@amberscottcmt7400
@amberscottcmt7400 3 жыл бұрын
Does the microphone really have to pick up every sound her tongue makes inside of her mouth while she's talking? It's a good message, but dang girl, try hydrating your body before you have to give a speech on a microphone. Like the day before, cuz that dry mouth smacky sound is enough to send those of us with misophonia into the survival brain where we cannot absorb the message. Seriously, I wish there was a transcript for this one.
@chantalgreen9035
@chantalgreen9035 3 жыл бұрын
Where is your empathy
@VladyslavKL
@VladyslavKL 3 жыл бұрын
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