What Women **Actually** Want in a Man (this is good news)

[@xbavajee]

very good synopsis of the most basic and important things women want in a Man!!

[@theharlowmethod]

@@xbavajee thanks man! Glad it was helpful!

[@JugglernautNr9]

I'm 38, pretty tall (6'1), slim and fit (go to the gym), i'm dressing well, have a stable job, i'm social (going to parties), have a lot of friends, i'm laid back and confident in interactions with people in general and some people would say that i look quite decent. But what i'm shocked about is the number of flakes i get from women. If it's from dating apps or in real life, it's very hard to meet up with somebody these days because women suddenly not responding anymore even though i have decent text game (funny and nonchalant). I remember that wasn't the case a few years ago (pre Covid) where i had date after date and most of them went very good. Yeah i got older but i'm still healthy, fit, out there and pretty young looking. Something changed in society and that is beyond our control. Videos like these are very nice and all but i think they miss something crucial. Nevertheless i still gave it a thumbs up.

[@Andreas_K_III]

I can really relate on your experience. I experienced the same stuff 100% as you. Especially this year sh*t went down hill. It’s as if someone put a curse on the dating game and it has never been so terrible like this year. I already thought something is wrong with me and I am going crazy. Nice to hear that I am not the only one.

[@theharlowmethod]

Thanks for sharing all that. I think it's good perspective. I'd like if you could expand more on the thing you think I'm missing. Try to describe it. Let's drill down!

[@Infynyte1133]

My bad. I wont just leave a negative comment. Keep going bro chase your youtube dream and keep on keeping on.

[@notyourdad361]

What youre saying is in the times where social media wasnt a thing. Today girls have almost unlimited options where its creating unstable relationships.

[@theharlowmethod]

What specifically is no longer relevant due to social media? Social media has been around since I was in middle school... I think I'm familiar..

[@colinh9294]

I agree with some things said, but in DC & NYC (places ive lived) the women care about money. They will ask what you do for work, and your academic success to gauge whether you are worth going on another date with. I understand why they do so, but it is something they care about. Infact there was a Pew Research study that showed that financial success is the thing that women hold second most important in men, in general.

[@theharlowmethod]

I haven't spent a lot of time in the North East, but I'm not surprised to hear this. It's unfortunate that there are women who are extremely shallow. Not much low earners can do to overcome that. My experience has been more reasonable. I've spent most of my time in Colorado, Arizona, Texas, and California. I never had issues in these states. In fact, I thought Denver was the toughest. That said, I remember what it feels like to doubt my own self worth. When I was bartending, I assumed that I'd be overlooked by quality women. And often times I was. But I was relentless man. I put myself out there constantly and was willing to suffer rejection. And the truth is, nobody remembers all the rejections. They remember all the times you closed. And that's what you'll remember too. Don't get discouraged. Stay in the arena and the right chick will come your way.

[@Caesare9223]

Thanks bud.

[@theharlowmethod]

🙏🏻

[@Infynyte1133]

3:04 you dont say huh

[@lucas5656]

Is this satire?

[@oophorror2251]

It should be, right? This nerd ain’t getting no play.

[@theharlowmethod]

It's funny... I said in the video if you disagree, drop a comment, let's start a dialogue. But there's always that guy that brings nothing productive. Nothing but negativity. How about asking a question about a specific part of the video so that I can respond? These little negative jabs are truly beta behavior and benefit nobody.

[@theharlowmethod]

You're the one who clicked the video big dog.. and somehow you're the authority on this subject? haha ya buddy. For sure.

[@oophorror2251]

Why not embody them instead of portray them? Big cringe, dude.

[@theharlowmethod]

Emody.. portray... that's six of one, half dozen of the other. I think you get what I mean. Thanks for nitpicking though. Big cringe dude.