What Women Actually Want on The First Date (ladies, you might not even know you want this until now)

[@wy4tt52]

Loved this! Because I’m a guy, I don’t know what is going on insider her head and what she wants without the perspective of another woman. I know the targeted audience for the channel is women, but with this and all of your other videos, I gain perspective and understanding. Thank you!

[@alleyvallotton]

I am soo glad it was helpful!

[@jvyeknom]

What's a first date?

[@alleyvallotton]

This means the when you and someone go out on a date for the first time together.

[@clublulu399]

Lmao I read u loud n clear

[@sagebrawlin5264]

I don’t really care about where a woman wants to go on the first date. I’m taking her where I want. If she’s genuinely interested in me, she’ll be happy to just spend time with me. First date is part of the weeding out process. If the girl has the right vibe, good chemistry, down to earth, easy to talk to etc, then she’ll be considered for 2nd date. On the 2nd date, she’ll get flowers taken to a fancy place etc. So there are steps to it, no girl is getting (or expect) a 5 star treatment unless they’re worth it. As a guy is vital to approach woman from an abundance mindset. A woman is the most important decision a guy can make, so it needs to be a great one

[@Alinka909]

Do you mean that as in “I’m going to pick out what we’re going to do, and will be willing to give some alternatives if she doesn’t like what I picked out (with the other alternatives being other places you’d want to go)” or for instance something like “I don’t care if she doesn’t like Indian cuisine. I like it and want to go. If she doesn’t want to go there, then we’re just not going to meet up?”

[@edhog]

Agreed. I never spend money or more than an hour or two (if I’m really digging it) on a first date. If a walk in the park with a dog, a $7 ice cream and some friendly banter isn’t good enough than they’re not entitled to my kickass lifestyle for anything further. I got called a broke ass by a chick one time for that very date described above. After she found out that I’m actually not broke and that I’m just not flashy and I don’t believe in buying affection she tried to get me to take her out again. The first date is to get to see if you’re vibing (connection) for future dates (investments).

[@alleyvallotton]

Interesting thoughts!