What Your Attachment Style Says About Your Personality

Have you ever wondered what your attachment style says about your personality? Your attachment style can provide insight into the types of relationships you’re likely to develop throughout your life. From the type of people you meet to the type of partner you are, your attachment style influences all kinds of interesting things about you, including your personality type. So, watch this video to find out what your attachment style says about your personality.
Disclaimer: Like any “type” or “style,” though, these are meant to be a guide. People are much too complex to always fit neatly into categories. That means it is possible to relate to more than one type or style.
If you enjoyed this video and want to learn more about how your attachment styles affect your life in general, we highly recommend this video: • How Does The Attachmen...
Writer: Gabrielle LaFrank
Script Editor: Isadora Ho
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Nayeli Meneses
KZbin Manager: Cindy Cheong
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[@WhatAWonderfulWorld808]

I really enjoy the narrator's voice.

[@BaBa-pf3ol]

Sammeeee

[@sth_new_alex]

True story 😁😊

[@kero.j]

I just came to know that she sings as well! You should check her out: Amanda Silvera

[@BaBa-pf3ol]

@@kero.j okay thanks.

[@rhys2792]

It's really calming

[@littlevoidcat2801]

I used to be a fan but after watching this video i am the whole airconditioner!

[@Anxmaly666]

But can your air conditioner run Crisis?

[@littlevoidcat2801]

There is only one way to find out

[@ifrahjama2215]

Cute haha

[@Blahalel]

Someone stole your joke, LittleVoidCat.

[@helena7402]

Took my dumb ass a little to understand this, I though you were in a air conditioner 😂

[@caroline-jz8np]

why is the voice just so calming

[@Psych2go]

I know right?

[@caroline-jz8np]

Psych2Go it just makes me happy

[@treznopresto4878]

Amanda Silvera was the best, make me sleepy ASMR :D

[@medievaltimes6473]

She's on class 3 narcotics

[@JackGordon86]

Learning about attachment styles is of monumental importance for personal development. I cannot stress enough how much of a better understanding I have acquired about a close loved one's behaviour, as well as my own.

[@Helloo298]

Almost forgot that it's not only ourselves as individuals going through this. All of us are.

[@PriyankaGupta-ew1li]

Yup Yup!! ❤🙏🏻😌😌💜🤗

[@sehrinteressant]

i’m disorganized sometimes i want a relationship and sometimes i’m very afraid of it. i often ghost potential partners and on top of that i always chase partners who are unavailable

[@gloriecco]

Same here! Watch Thais Gibson videos. She will help you a lot

[@supermcfly3103]

I feel you.

[@jasminekoidhis2893]

Ghosting is cowardly just face them

[@shravani165]

Sameee😪😔😔

[@aworldofcaroline7239]

same

[@chaewings3713]

Her voice is so comfortable and soothing..

[@Psych2go]

Agree! What's your attachment style? Also what kind of topics you'd like us to cover more on?

[@tatsumaki9397]

Psych2Go could you make a educational story with your cute little characters?

[@percolsin]

Anxious attachment style""

[@drttyyydeputy9753]

Secure attachment is a fleeeeex man imagine being that

[@martynmazz]

Seems like one perhaps, but it's not easy for people with Secure Attachment styles to find others with the same. Given that it's quite rare, people with Secure Attachment styles can be perceived with distrust or accused by others that they couldn't possibly be genuine. Which, coming from other attachment styles actually can make sense, since their reality has trouble recognizing other frames of being. Other times people with Secure Attachment styles get placed on a pedestal by others, a place they generally have no desire to be in. Just my 2 cents though

[@drttyyydeputy9753]

@@martynmazz very insightful, thanks for the input friend

[@martynmazz]

@@drttyyydeputy9753 you’re most welcome!

[@whattea2680]

I was like this in my first relationship ,so secure

[@craigmerighe8742]

I’ve been an anxious attachment all my life, BUT, through hard work and perseverance, I am now a secure attachment man.

[@Quelealive]

teach me senpai, I beg you !

[@m3_mac]

Question: Did you guys specifically pick people for smooth calming voices? Or did it just become a coincidence? (This is an actual question)

[@Project32HMT32]

I think they do it on purpose because when they post about opportunities to voice for them they request people with calming/smooth voices

[@whydontduckswanttobemyfriends]

I think they do it on purpose. To not trigger people or something like that

[@b1njjj95]

It's definitely intentional. Calm and soothing voices are less threatening and frightening to people and are less likely to trigger someone who may have been abused in their past.

[@m3_mac]

Ok thank you guys answering :)

[@Psych2go]

Great question! Yes, we want to make sure our VO has calming voice. It's important to have someone be able to deliver important message access without triggering the audience. I hope you all appreciate the hard work behind creating the videos :). Also, if there is a specific animation style or topic you like to see more on this channel. Let us know!

[@Psych2go]

What's Your Attachment Style? Lets see who else has similar attachment style as you! Who wants to see more personality videos?

[@owens.studios]

I want to see more

[@DrayWasTaken]

Psych2Go haven’t watch it yet but i’ll edit this later I have Anxious/ambivalent attachment.

[@SunGodNika-bi2jr]

180 views 27 likes I'm a early 🐦

[@taravati181]

Do a video on gender disphoria already

[@leeona2189]

I have a bit of all of them, but it is mostly secure

[@treznopresto4878]

My attachment style: *Well nothing just trash :(*

[@rumessakhalid8320]

same here

[@Anxmaly666]

You like recyclables to?

[@treznopresto4878]

@@Anxmaly666 Nah only one time usage

[@Anxmaly666]

@@treznopresto4878 🤣🤣🤣

[@cwen_2504]

Her voice is so calm and relaxing that’s just.. 🍵💗

[@masonmaniac7410]

I did a quiz on this, my scores where: Fearful avoidance:27% Anxious preoccupied:27% Dismissive avoidance:27% Secure:19%

[@Luigi-hb5td]

Where csn you do this quiz

[@masonmaniac7410]

@@Luigi-hb5td www.psychologytoday.com/us/tests/relationships/relationship-attachment-style-test

[@weirdchamp4601]

I got 71% avoidance of closeness

[@georginafronda496]

I got 33% avoidance of closeness. Considering I grew up in a neglected and abusive environment seems am doing okay

[@charlie-yp2oq]

Y o

[@vexindo1535]

POV: *The creator is actually first*

[@solange3172]

POV: the people who commented 2 weeks ago are first.

[@fangirlinneverland6335]

Pov: the person who made it just made it and someone else posted it lolz

[@Psych2go]

You win the gold metal!

[@dailydoseofmedicinee]

Adults are described as having four attachment styles: 👇 Secure, Anxious-preoccupied, Dismissive-avoidant, and Fearful-avoidant. The secure attachment style in adults corresponds to the secure attachment style in children.

[@odinudin4313]

Amanda's voice is so calming...even the auto generated captions caught everything she said!

[@alecojaleco]

This helps me sooo much

[@darleehart9782]

I definitely fall into the anxious/ambivalent attachment section. My parents were always very clear that they loved and supported me. But I think at least one of them has a mild form of bi-polar disorder. So I've spent most of my life constantly wondering what kind of mood they're in and how to shift my responses accordingly. It's an on-going guessing game. Even now that I'm an adult (and for financial reasons am living at home for a little bit) it feels like my dad is the hormonal teenage girl of the family. I'm starting to wonder if he has symptoms of early onset dementia. I'm tired of being the reasonable adult in our relationship. In my own romantic relationships I tend not to believe compliments or when they say that they love me. Maybe it would just take a long enough relationship. But two of my boyfriend have had emotional disorders or an unhealthy obsession, while the other one broke up with me.

[@userm180]

hey, hows it going?

[@flymae1815]

The last two attachment styles sound like my childhood. But I feel like I've had enough experience to exercise and strengthen secure attachments. It's still a work in progress :-)

[@doloresdelcastillo252]

Fly Mae Still working on it, and I am a grandmother 👵🏻

[@twilight3304]

@@doloresdelcastillo252 aww I dont know why but this comment is so cute

[@maespace222]

im the anxious type, and i constantly apologize to the person i have a crush on or ask them if theyre angry with me then i feel bad that im being clingy, ughghghgh

[@flymae1815]

@@maespace222 I am so glad I found this channel! The information they share has been incredibly helpful in breaking down the things that I've struggled with. I found that needed to accomplish self-love. It was and is a difficult thing to process. Please dont be so hard on yourself.

[@userm180]

its been a year. how are u guys now?

[@flor9288]

I'm an avoidant attachment type. I used to feel very weird when people were nice and considerate, and only when I pushed them away they told me how distant I was to them. At least now that I know what's wrong with me I'm working on it to get better

[@userm180]

hope its working out for u

[@mida-hg6jm]

i recently discovered attachment theory and i find it really helpful because it makes me understand myself better. i think for sure i’m anxious-attached. i tend to get really clingy and obsessive to people who give me attention and comfort. i start becoming very emotionally dependent on them and it affects me. recently, i’ve been trying to heal from this attachment style. It makes a lot of sense because i don’t recall my parents not fulfilling my needs but sometimes they weren’t there for me when i wanted them to be. i was a really anxious, quiet kid and i remember getting attached to pretty much anybody who seemed like they cared.

[@FFakiha]

I had anxious avoidant attachment style but now i am secure! ❤️✨

[@berfin3176]

How did that happen..asking for a friend

[@FFakiha]

@@berfin3176 hello! I started practising self love and i started choosing what's best for me, i pledged that my needs will come first for me, i started studying psychology to understand myself and my childhood better... I started journaling, eating right, i also started practising the LOA and i started meditating, i am on my path to healing, it's a process, i had a very emotionally traumatic childhood but as i turned 19 i realised my life can be in my control, so i took baby steps and here i am, happy and healthy 🥰✨ it's a process and anyone can do it! Just be patient. ❤️✨ Hope you have a good day!

[@berfin3176]

@@FFakiha It made me hopeful seeing you grow out of it just by yourself... That's beautiful and inspiring to me. Thanks for the effort ❤️

[@FFakiha]

@@berfin3176 💖✨

[@jasminecharmane6826]

Love it !!!

[@malakmoustafa9063]

Okay, you thank us everyday but we really should be the ones to thank you. You've been very very active and you've never skipped a video without thanking us AND you have been covering ALL the topics we want to hear about. Thank you very much psych2go

[@Psych2go]

You're the best! Thank you for coming back watching our videos. Don't forget to share our videos to people you know might benefit it. It will support our channel and give us ability to reinvest into more psychology and mental health videos to everyone 💕

[@stephanieh5478]

I have a secure attachment style. However, my last relationship made me so anxious! My las relationship was with an avoidant attachment, it was so frustrating because I would do EVERYTHING to make him comfortable . . When I get back on dating, I'm going to ask about their attachment style.

[@NoWyre]

I feel like I am a mix of anxious & disorganized avoidant-fearful attachment. What about a video to cover emotional dependency? I realized I relied on other people to make me happy, so I recently took a social media break to take care of myself and I found it helped a lot. I'm sure you guys know of more strategies that would be interesting to share with everyone else struggling with a similar situation.

[@boredaflol]

disorganized attachment is basically just anxious AND avoidant attachment so

[@mida-hg6jm]

hey, i know your comment was 2 years ago but i’m someone who struggles with emotional dependency. i’m very curious if you’ve improved or got rid of your emotional dependency and i’d appreciate if you would help me out a little

[@absarmstrong]

I commented 2 weeks before it was uploaded because I'm a Jedi

[@princessmidnight6067]

How did you comment 2 weeks ago

[@ava8625]

@@princessmidnight6067 exactly

[@sagesharkie]

how did--

[@absarmstrong]

@@princessmidnight6067 It used to be accessible only if you went on a playlist

[@Tocky]

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[@teddybear_chan2024]

I'm anxious a lot and it affects my everyday life in a negative way yet I don't talk to my mother about it because she says it's all in my head which makes me doubt others trust a lot

[@zerro6961]

Same. I've just stopped showing my emotions near my family.

[@teddybear_chan2024]

@@zerro6961 oh I have to but I'm not sure why; I trust online strangers more than my own family which uhm idk is bad I guess?

[@zerro6961]

@@teddybear_chan2024 I don't think it's bad coz nobody knows who someone is over the internet, especially if you use an alternate name and not use your own picture, and you also need a place to vent without getting judged (most of the time).

[@teddybear_chan2024]

@@zerro6961 yeah I guess I've tried talking about this to my mother once. And we'll got hit with the "it's all in your head you don't need help there's nothing for you to be deppresed"

[@zerro6961]

@@teddybear_chan2024 bruh same. She's the main reason why I stopped showing my emotions. It hurts but it's better to hide them from my family. Thinking of definitely getting help if I could anyhow move out.

[@Tei_022]

Avoidant attachment really exposed me quite a bit. Also this voice is so amazing and soothing 😊🥰

[@kommienezuspadt.]

No matter if you are first, Or you are last, The thing is, No one asked.

[@jorjines]

Tysm

[@kommienezuspadt.]

@@jorjines why

[@owens.studios]

I loooove her voice. So calming and peaceful

[@1milebehind]

i'm still not sure which attachment style I am but for 1 friend i know, i think he has an anxious-avoidant style so it makes me understand him more. thank you for the video

[@s.thetruthkeys2959]

Holy learning something new. This is truly something, I've never heard of..kind of refreshing.

[@farahjames8010]

I think that, since I’ve gone to counseling and have admitted how my trauma has affected me, and possibly has steered me in the direction of being a narcissist, I have been able to mostly have a secure attachment style, and I do believe that it was because I realize that I will never be good enough for anyone and that is perfectly fine because I am 100% good enough for God. I cannot explain to you how amazing it feels to finally be good enough for someone and to never have to feel that you have to rely on anyone else for that feeling because you fully have it inside of you, obviously not all the time because everyone is still human, but my father was never told he was loved when he was a kid he was never good enough. He became a perfectionist, and he never went to counseling. He’s very avoidant and relies on himself and he’s a narcissist, so I always feel that I need to make him happy that it’s my fault that he is unhappy even though I have nothing to do with it that is completely not at my fault, I have realized this is definitely anxious, and disorganized, and avoidant attachment style. I also do come off, sometimes as clingy or too needy

[@solange3172]

I still don't understand how people commented 2 weeks ago.... 👁️👄👁️

[@hiiro-xentral3171]

Probably because its released early for certain people like patrons or smth

[@ArsHaD-dg1gb]

@@hiiro-xentral3171 can u say clearly please?

[@hiiro-xentral3171]

@@ArsHaD-dg1gb Its probably because it was just unlisted, or because it was released early for patrons from patreon, or some other 'donating to creator' site.

[@stanfatou2002]

@@hiiro-xentral3171 uh no obviously they traveled through time and messed up the matrix *duh*

[@hiiro-xentral3171]

@@stanfatou2002 damn you right you right

[@ananyakalmani4067]

CONGRATS ON 4 MILLIONS SUBS !! YAYY

[@anansii9140]

imagine having the secure style,, i could actually never

[@yourlocaldemon2195]

I think I’m in the secure section, although I do question if someone still likes me when they suddenly become cold, I’m just afraid, basically. I also question myself if I’m being a good friend, if I’m actually cool to be around with, when someone’s sad I worry about my comforting skills and if I’m just making it feel worse... Make do of that if you will (maybe it’s linked to my past since I have lost a friend soooo...) And I just wanted to thank this channel for being what it is, because I can get to open up and not feel weird about it! It gives me some good insights on friendships and overall is a great community!

[@userm180]

how did you lose a friend, if thats not too personal?

[@serendipitysaudio]

I did the quiz and got Sercure: 25% Dismissive: 31% Fearful avoidance: 25% Anxious preoccupied: 19%

[@nicoleonfeels]

Secure w/ sometimes anxious tendencies! 🙋🏻‍♀️ I use this classification as a guide... know where you are so you can forge a path forward. 💯

[@Psych2go]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@xxmathiasnofacexx]

Their voice is so soothing and calm 🥰

[@WeicaiXu]

Love this video. The ability to read personalities is such a gift!

[@solange3172]

You didn't even finish the video 👁️👄👁️

[@shazzzz]

@@solange3172 👁️👄👁️

[@dejamayfield3400]

Watching this with tears coming down my face. I’m almost 23 and I’ve never had a healthy relationship with a man because it’s so hard. It’s so hard for me to be vulnerable and emotionally intimate. I always go for the wrong men because I my perception of love is so flawed. Im so scared to be a mom, I never wanna put my kids through this.

[@userm180]

hey, its ok. we learn as we grow and you dont need to rush it. having a healthy relationship requires you to be in a decent state of mind too. you should try working on yourself and your mental health first before trying to get in a relationship. when we are not in a good state of mind, we tend to make bad choices and therefore we can end up with horrible partners.

[@Connorscarlos]

I’m going through the same thing, I’m 22 and feel I always go for the wrong men available, and become distant for the right men.

[@dejamayfield3400]

@@Connorscarlos I know the feeling! It really does take time but we’ll get it!

[@eliciaramirez5026]

These videos help alot I really appreciate you being their for everyone -u- thanks again

[@thisisepic3052]

I love the music and everything 😭😭😭👏🏼👏🏼

[@jessiezack9999]

You're voice is too good that I watch your videos before sleeping...! ❤

[@mermaid960]

I love the art style this episode, I really hope you use it more!

[@kamuikanna6922]

When you're so early there's no coments 😏🍵

[@Psych2go]

Welcome! :D

[@caroline-jz8np]

WOAH I FOUND A KANNA 😆

[@kamuikanna6922]

@@caroline-jz8np hehe konnichiwa ( ╹▽╹ )

[@emptybox5459]

your profile-

[@kamuikanna6922]

@@emptybox5459 is me when i see my grades ♥️

[@wisdomtoknowthedifference]

I am everything except secure. A little bit of anxious/ambivalent where i can't easily trust people, a little bit of avoidant where I start to move away once I feel a growing intimacy, and disorganized because I never knew how to self-regulate. I am working hard on my healing. It's tough but I am willing to be patient.

[@nurulimantaufik]

I LOVE LOVE LOVEE THE ART!! super cute 🙌✨❤️❤️❤️

[@MxPotato84]

I relate to the first 2. Im definitely a mix of both secure and anxious.

[@bowdoesjai4746]

I love your guy’s videos! We appreciate it ✨

[@Psych2go]

Thank you sooo much! Did you learn anything from this video? What other topics you'd like us to cover more on?

[@mariahpokedawg7124]

Thank you so much for the videos you post. Recently subscribed. It's encouraging me to seek help for trauma and just overall work on myself. Your voice is soothing as well. Thank you ❤ I hope you're well!

[@Psych2go]

Thanks for watching!! We’re happy to hear it has helped you. Are there any other topics you’d like us to cover? :)

[@mariahpokedawg7124]

@@Psych2go I'm catching up your videos so there might be something I'm interested in hearing more in depth and you've already made a video about it. I'm very interested in different types of "romantic" relationships. Like, monogamy, polygamy, polyamorous, open. I've found that I don't fit the societal norm of romantic partner wants and needs. Also interested in: -How our childhood affects adulthood -Retraining our brain and how long it takes -Core things people can do to help with mental instability, like simple tasks like eating and moving. Or things that impact our mental health in a negative way that we may not be aware of. -Affects of long term media and digital consumption

[@Psych2go]

Thank you for your feedback! Definitely will pass your comment down to the team. ☺️ if there is a specific animation style you like the most. Let us know in any comments :)

[@Homesicktraveler]

I have a disorganized attachment style. Mentally I experience the same anxious tendencies, but tend to show more avoidance through my actions.

[@akankshamajumdar3454]

The VO should do asmr, I would fall asleep to their voice, it's so calming

[@nusratjamia7953]

Thanks for your time and consideration to share.

[@mrplatink]

Love, love, LOVE this channel!

[@Psych2go]

You're the best! What's your attachment style? Also what kind of topics you'd like us to cover more on? 🙂

[@mrplatink]

@@Psych2go Thanks; I find a somewhat secure attachment style, and I would like to instill this in my son. Have you heard of the "Gifts of Imperfection"? It's a book by Brene Brown. I know you've discussed about "it's okay that you're not perfect" before, but the idea just popped into my mind. Thanks for your hard work!

[@noahjameson8155]

I’ve never been scared of other people’s intentions because my boundaries are so stronks 💪 that they ‘betray’ me before I can even get attached 😌

[@tessarae9127]

Rad! I was just thinking about attachment styles ☺️

[@MrJoon360]

My parents were rarely around, I really think I have the anxious/ambivalent attachment style. I feel like I'm always looking for reassurance.

[@userm180]

did your parents not being around affect you in other ways too? or just the reassurence part?

[@MotivatedPony]

Such a honey voice! Beautiful! 😊

[@user-ut7ig7zu7k]

Her voice is so soothing

[@sriharsh567]

Your voice is so soothing ☺️☺️

[@ericboehmer8351]

Yes ❤☝️ Her Voice ...So Calming ...Like Sarah Mclachlan 💙😇

[@bu1t3rfly17]

i literally love your videos

[@Psych2go]

You're the best! Did you enjoy this type of topic? If there is a specific animation style you like more. Let us know!

[@gillianlee6922]

So I have a disorganized attachment style. My dad struggled with addiction most of my childhood and I would see things that made me so scared of him. He was also a narcissist and my whole family suffered abuse whether physically or emotionally and mentally. If a fight ever occurred, my parents would both leave the house for a certain amount of time and I never knew when they were coming back. When my dad came back, the day after he would sit us all down and have a 2 hour lecture about how he is messed up and he is still our father. My mother would talk to me about him and would try to help me understand. Now an adult, in relationships i tend to dissociate in a fight and can never say the right things. I understand it all goes back to childhood but it’s something i wish i never had to go through.

[@bath_time_tyler]

Yes! I'm seeing quite a pattern. I think I may have secure and avoidant attachment style. Might need to look further into disorganized.

[@maria-mx4er]

your voice is everything

[@marygado5023]

Wow im actually crying while watching

[@ava8625]

How do there videos get dislikes.

[@Jdabomb93]

Because, there’s people out there who think Psych2Go’s methods and constructs are inaccurate, and not based in facts.

[@ava8625]

@@Jdabomb93 ok, thank you for explaining

[@Jdabomb93]

Kaitlyn Jefferson You’re welcome. 😉 But it’s just my assumption. Lol I don’t really know why, I’m just making an educated guess. 😄

[@ava8625]

@@Jdabomb93 It is a very smart guess

[@Jdabomb93]

Kaitlyn Jefferson Why thank you. ☺️

[@berenice9000]

I have an avoidant attachment style, but I am able to help others be emotionally vulnerable since I’m very empathetic. However, when it comes to myself I am unable to do the same. I’m an emotional person, but I don’t like to ever show anyone, which leads to people thinking I’m someone who is very emotionless or has a stoic personality. I’m so confused as to whether Im an avoidant or not 😪

[@elizabethcooper3278]

i took a quiz on this lol fearful avoidant: 44% anxious preoccupied: 6% dismissive avoidant: 25% secure: 25%

[@RC-ey4gm]

This was helpful. I heard myself and others.

[@hannahdavies2282]

What i love is you do about 4 videos a day

[@Theboydevoye]

Music is so good one this one!

[@mxastet5414]

Amazing video like always ^^ thank you so much and don't stop being amazing. Hello to the wonderful people scrolling through the comments ♡

[@Psych2go]

You're the best! What's your favorite animation you've seen so far on our channel?

[@mxastet5414]

@@Psych2go Hello! Keep being awesome y'all ^^ and as for my favourite, it's the videos where y'all talk about the signs of toxic parents because that really opened my eyes ^^"

[@ItsWhyUno]

This is the best style I think at least..!

[@jamielrich1017]

The narrators voice is perfect!

[@xoutsideraspakavinatigo2650]

When I heard the explanation of the disorganized one, I think (not know, that would be absurd, I am not experienced in psychology and overall stuff like that) that this is me I guess, plenty of times, I just don’t know how to react in situations, even with loved ones, by plenty I mean whenever something more serious or close to conflict arrives, I can argue sometimes and sometimes I just lock myself away..

[@PR0TOO]

Hello i just started watching your videos a few days ago! the animations and narrators voice are so good, i hope you stay safe!

[@Psych2go]

Thank you so much! Is there a specific animation style you like the most?

[@PR0TOO]

@@Psych2go Yep! kzbin.info/www/bejne/fXm4k6BjZdV7pc0 i didn't really thought you would reply by the way

[@Psych2go]

Thank you for sharing! :D I've noted it down.

[@jessdsk8838]

Thank you because one of your videos made me realize I was bottling up emotions but I didn't do anything about it but at least I'm aware

[@Psych2go]

You are so welcome. It's important to be aware and seek professional help when needed to be. Did you watch the bottling up emotion video on our channel?

[@jessdsk8838]

@@Psych2go mhm

[@Mushroom321-]

What a calming voice! 🙂😲

[@WindyBeeStudios]

I have reactive attachment disorder. I thought I had it under control but it’s worse again and it’s driving me nuts and sending me into a downward spiral 😊

[@drawer1386]

The background music is awesome

[@Imprettyghoul]

I think I'm disorganised avoident-fearful attachment. It was pretty accurate when describing the inability to understand the parents. As a kid my dad was distant one minute and caring the next and then my parents would argue and then makeup which often left me confused. I thought they didn't love each other and then one year they were like "yeh we actually love each other" it was wierd because I didn't believe it. I definatly have a problem keeping consistent relationships I've had 3 maybe even 4 groups of friends that have come and gone and I'm only 23 lol

[@userm180]

have u considered trying therapy? might help

[@mitacestalia7532]

Yeah, that sounds like my life too. I think disorganised avoidant fearful is correct. If you feel better, I'm 28 now 🥲

[@Average_Dominos_Employee]

I developed disorganized attachment from being almost completely unable to communicate my needs due to autism and having parents who couldn’t understand me or really help me. I never knew what I wanted anyways, besides healthy relationships, which were like… impossible.

[@hellenrose9556]

Anxious/ambivalent here... I was close to tears when I heard explanaton of my type, and nowdays, almost 28 years old, this is still ruining my relationships with people...

[@staceylee8571]

Anxious-preoccupied with dismissive-avoidant mix personality type

[@mitskiislife]

score of attachment: 27.5 secure 25.5 avoidant/dismissive 25.5 ambivalent/anxious 21.6 disorganized

[@jerrica4315]

From what site is this?

[@ananya1541]

I got an ad about a quiz for this just before the video and my results were almost equal for all 4

[@Shazistic]

You must be the change you wish to see in the world. -The Shades 🖤🖤

[@lazyliz3691]

I really love your guy's videos their so enjoyable I learned a lot of things thank you!

[@Psych2go]

Glad you like them! If there is a specific animation style you like more. Let us know!

[@lazyliz3691]

I really like the animation style you used right now :D

[@DrayWasTaken]

I have anxious/ambivalent attachment (Time skip 1:51) Growing up I was a cry baby, people teased me for being a cry baby :/ when I turned 8 years old I stopped crying, I become more distance and Not caring towards some people, I still even now can’t understand why people cry for some things. Then I hurt people I don’t want to harm people my anger and no self control forces me to do it. I don’t want to be left behide, I have been left behide in the past so I try to be Nice as possible but can’t manage it..I wonder if people hate me because of what I do.

[@lilkitty_outcastlove4913]

I’m secure attachment but I had a mother that was like the second and third type... my hurt from my family made me want to love people even more so they never feel that way and it taught me self love. ❤️

[@userm180]

thats actually so nice. great job

[@korinne7594]

I just got an ad for an attachment quiz before this video... Damn.

[@Zullala]

I'm an anxious preoccupied type and my partner is an avoidant type... It's a real dumpster fire. When he pulls away I feel hurt and want to be closer to him but he just wants to be left alone. Giving him space when I'm feeling unloved is the most difficult thing! But I know that if I crowd him he'll just become agitated and sad. Then he might actually stop loving me for real! I'm really trying to tend to my feelings on my own but my heart beat increases just thinking about having to give him space! Aaaaah why does it have to be painful? I hate it!

[@Esabelle]

*Another great video! (Not that I’m surprised about that 😉).*

[@blackshadow2291]

Honestly I think I'm like a mix of secure and avoidant attachment style. I tend to be there for others but then so many times later I end up disconnecting with everyone

[@nullteso5620]

Love your videos

[@bowieh8216]

fearful avoidant style here 😔 it gets in between my every day life too.

[@Lordran__]

Would you care to explain?

[@chichiu2220]

great video like always ☺️ Also can you maybe make a video about being socially awkward or something that has to do with it being hard to make friends because right now I am really lonely I’ve also been having really crazy thoughts lately that are a bit personal so I won’t say them. I want friends but I hate socializing and I feel like if I make friends the group would get tired of me since I don’t talk much since I’m not so close to them. I don’t want to be ignored in the group also sometimes I insult myself in my head like saying I’m ugly and that nobody would ever want to be my friend and I laugh at my own insult I don’t know what’s going on with me I want help but I don’t know who to talk to I talk to my mom but she doesn’t understand me and also ignores me Sorry if this didn’t make sense

[@userm180]

hey, are you ok? its been a year

[@prestongabelhausen-uw6yy]

I'm anxious attachment style. I'm constantly being abandoned like I'm trash. I just want someone to love on me. But everytime I date someone, they push me away. No matter what I do, I'm never good enough to be the only guy another guy wants.