What Your Ex Is Thinking During No Contact

[@meghanmcdonnell196]

I can’t thank you enough for this channel. I wouldn’t be able to make it through my sleepless nights without reassurance from your words.

[@costaskoullias1145]

I have a question we have 2 children and we need to have contract regarding our children. I will see my children. Is this a good thing? We try not to have other contact.

[@Mserikalopez]

I agree with you!

[@DEEEETECH]

Meghan you not alone going through it so painful but there is hope I embrace my lost is time to move along.

[@kostadrandakis5891]

Same!

[@swedencentral7489]

Same. :(

[@d33zz5]

After 5 months of no contact she texted me trying to be friends I just blocked her immediately and didn’t even read what she said lol

[@chonalyn298]

This is really true. In my experience i followed the NC at first its really tough i cried. Everytime i think of time and everytime i remember he dump me bec of other women but after a few months everything change i fell great .i nver think of him ofter.im very free and i can do what i want .....then when i totally move on....he come to my place and tell me tht he really miss me. He want to come bck to me but its over ....so guys NC is very good

[@edwardminaya1708]

No contact means you don't see no post on social media or nothing cut her off delete the contact and forget about that

[@ManifestTv.]

Its so sad to see so many ppl broke-up in the middle of a pandemic.😞

[@ridha7662]

Dear It is not sad...it is really good that we got time to see real faces else in busy life it's very difficult to find anything like this❤️

[@carolmilligan3259]

Haven't been able to see my friend for so long.really miss him.

[@xsperiencethe1255]

Dude right. That's why me and my 7 year relationship ended.. We just talked about kids and marriage months ago and now she's with another man. Insane.

[@yashinaik7660]

I got mine just before pandemic and see I'm here

[@Comeswoopfam]

That’s the perfect time to do so

[@leslittle9112]

One week no contact, and she has driven by at least four times, and I'm not on her way to anywhere. Winning! PTL!

[@eddiesid1149]

What a soothing and calm soul this man is.

[@ritahahahaaha]

You are absolutely right. I have done this it took all my might but I stuck to my plan . He texted me yesterday, he is still on read.🤨🤐

[@lamamaasrani3659]

Can u pls tell me what exactly u did for him to get back with u? Its not that i need hope or something but i feel so lost it happened 3 days ago and i still cant think straight and i need support pls

[@messrsandersonco5985]

I love the idea of using the time "to reinvent yourself". A great explanation of how this strategy works..! It must be absolute though until he reaches out - and then play it cool.

[@kwabenaantwiacheampong5502]

She blocked me and whatsapp me 2 years of no contact. I saw it and never texted back. Now she's always been watching what i put on my status. It really works

[@monicaten1]

Emotions overwhelm them.....that’s me! And I’m crying😥😭

[@jamchui9271]

My boyfriend dumped me we are in long distance relationship, and he posted his new gf in WhatsApp 5 hrs I cought him cheating on me. Unbelievable ! After he asked me to marry him and made a plan about our future and now he has a new gf. ! I don't think I'll get him back!

[@doughouston3552]

Thank you Adrian! This has been very helpful to me/us. Moving forward and reaching out after difficult break up. Blessings to you and love Advice counselors.

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

You are so welcome! I'm happy you found this helpful. - Coach Adrian

[@TheDrumminChuck]

My sons mother cheated several times and had one of the wife’s not have found out I’d never know. I left and left everything behind she has begged and begged went to therapy got on medications but that flame that once burned is gone and although I tried to forgive I knew it would never be the same. 2 weeks later I find she had been talking to a new guy on a dating app and he had taken her to dinner all while she was begging me. Hold your self to a higher standard guys cus if you allow it once it will continue to happen. I’m hurt but I’m ok

[@iamweird321]

I was toxic. He left me and he will not be coming back. I haven’t had contact with him. He is probably with someone else that will treat him better

[@questioneverything751]

I listen to you every single morning

[@rachaelgordove877]

I don't want him back. Him Leaving gives me peace... Yes I do miss him but its fine...

[@damaetusok4670]

Hello coach Adrien. I am going under this situation right now and everytime that I feel sober I just watch your video and listening to evryrhing you say until I fall asleep. Thank u

[@allymimi8789]

Hope you find peace ✌🙏

[@ilabwoy2136]

In panic mode right now😪😪

[@summersky7824]

Thank you! I appreciate all of you and this channel so, so, soooo much!!🙏🏼

[@philly2009ify]

This is true, I've done this and all the above happened

[@mulanwu5480]

Yes, it is true… When in no contact, SP will try to get attention in social media by posting his lonely feeling… it is true

[@basilistsimpitas6558]

My 9 years relationship left me like a stranger and blocked me from everything!!9 months since then and i think her no contact tactics are working so she must be happy without me so be it!!

[@robynsimpson4610]

I receive this Word Amen

[@shawnigriffin9432]

I'm the one who got broken up with and got ignored. I started no contact today and I'm getting private calls and calls from strange numbers. I love it! I want to know what this man will do and I want to see how far he will go to win me back. I need to know if our love is real and worth fighting for. This is great 🤣. Oh how the tables have turned. I cried so hard yesterday. Never again.

[@elijahbaltazar9030]

Hello coach. She friend zoned me because she said she wasn’t ready to love because she doesn’t love herself (she said “I almost love you” several times and she told me no one has ever treated her this well). It took me a while to realize that I was friend zoned because initially, all she told me was that she needs space. She continued to text me though because she told me that I was one of her best friends (I told her she’s one of mine too). But after talking with her, I told her I need space from her now. Do I apply the no contact rule? She essentially broke up with me without me knowing. I even asked her if her telling me that she needs space was her way of letting me down easily and she asked me what I meant by that. Please help me coach!

[@bandmaster1]

Not true been separated and in no contact for 3 years. And there is no interest for her to wanna come back!!

[@ayushpyare111]

I hope she comes back 🤞🤞🤞

[@toms81162]

Yeah right. Did the NC, she eventually texted to get my stuff and have a 2.5 hour talk where she brought up the breakup in the last half hour. While I was there she said I could keep my mothers Christmas decorations at her house. What?!! Overall the talk went well, she agreed we needed to talk more. I took a shot, over stepped, and asked when this virus is over maybe we could have dinner. She said that would be nice. When I left she leaned in for a hug but backed off, fine, with this virus, safe move. Texted her a couple of times since then, nothing specific, no relationship talk. That was two weeks a go. She has not texted first unless she wanted me to get my stuff. My feelings? She gave lip service and nothing more. So I guess I dont give a poop, JUST LIKE HER.

[@nychansen]

Update

[@ahmedsofiashem3383]

I can't thank u enough coz ur advise has given me everything i needed God bless u guys.

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for your kind words, Ahmed. Coach Adrian

[@weekendnomad5038]

I was so nice to him but when he said he wanted to end it I just said ok and stop texting him

[@chefbee2095]

Unfortunately for me,he lied about our breakup,manipulated me and cheated,he is happy with the girl, I blocked them on social media and a year later I am still struggling to breathe and sleep

[@nada46141]

I hope you're doing better

[@whiteswan8841]

Im in the fresh setuation right now.yes its hurt he leave me for other woman and we are in defferent country.we are married and we have plans!but he betrayed me.this channel helps me a lot to be strong.i do no contact.thank you so much for this channel 🙏🙏🙏

[@nourake341]

Hi Coach Arian, could you plz do a video about toxic relationships and when to let go? I know you guys made a video some time ago but could you talk about it again?or Maybe a combo about toxic and narcisstic people in rs?

[@angelv3313]

thank you all for what you do. i'm glad i found your channel.

[@lelexx4493]

Idk my ex posted week ago a sad quote and deleted it right after I saw it. I’m over a month on no contact now

[@sorayacroton1399]

You are so right. Thanks for your help. Soraya xox

[@trans4myourlife]

All was good in the beginning,then he started taking longer to message me, was like a partial ghosting, i called him out on it,he said he still cares,blah blah blah but continued to gives me breadcrumbs so i messaged him and ended it ..he did not respond...its been 6 weeks...im loving my freedom,working on my fitness and business...yes i miss him that is why im watching these videos but there is no obsession...and i know if he does not reach out...i will not...

[@elciscopowell5674]

Hi. Great content in your video and gives hope and encouragement to all.🙏🏽 Does this apply to married couple that have separated? Do they experience similar feelings? Thanks!

[@jagonpoo1131]

It’s going to be hard but hopefully I can do this, telling her I love you and her saying I know, I don’t want that, I want her to want me again

[@jessicafung7565]

JagonPoo time will tell, get stronger for yourself and stop telling her you love her until you love yourself more.

[@letsiemachakela4408]

After 2 weeks after no contact my ex explains why she left saying she is wants me to find someone to love me better that her. Why is she doing that?

[@trizaolentutu2632]

Thanks for your honest advies!! It really worked!!

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

You're welcome. Thank you for watching, glad to hear your feedback! Coach Adrian

[@keylimepie8426]

Thank you so much for this content✨🌙

[@agneslaufer9579]

After one day of no contact my ex started posting comments on posts with women's of my name. I'm in no contact second time around bc of his fault. He wanted my to be jealous but I log out of fb so he won't see my actions .

[@vaniajorge4158]

I love my boyfriend, but is being chatting on me with is ex ,so i start this no contact thing, so please help me more i dont what to loose him but i just what him to see me like he ise to.please help

[@bradymac2158]

What if you're doing the no contact but she's found someone she's been talking to on tinder? She's going to be moving on way easier without talking

[@isabellahastie573]

thank you for your wisdom

[@juniormedina7652]

Mine. Reached out when I had an accident. Because she is on the title. Yet, the majority of the conversation was not about the accident

[@intesarsalim8031]

Thank you sir ...For such a valuable and wonderful tips and tricks based on human psychology. ..may God bless you.

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you so much for watching Intesar! www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/

[@11Tov]

Amazing gentle soul

[@mdraufer]

What if I was begging and being needy when they first left but then I started no contact and it’s been going now for 21 days.. did I ruin the chances of fixing things if I begged at first?

[@j249]

No, you may have made the no contact proccess a bit longer but you have not ruined it. Stay in no contact and let him reach out to you

[@AustinFranklin-iq8tn]

Hi Adrian, Thanks for the quality content. I have a very important question for you. In my case it was me who decided to break up. My girlfriend requested time apart and I decided it was better to break up. How is this case different? Any insight will be DEEPLY appreciated.

[@tomwylie123]

Really good video, I loved when you said they will crumble

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you so much for watching Tom!

[@jenniferbrooksbank5023]

I did no contact and then we spoke again and I’m now 7 weeks into no contact again. I reached out after 4 weeks and heard nothing. I really want to tell him how I feel :(.

[@uzairmalik3039]

I guess even if you will contact him it will not be for any benefit. First try to show him you are happy. And you are more better in your life through social media. He will search you and look at you. Just make him little jealous. He will contact you and then the game starts.

[@fletcherwhite9718]

I don't want her no more.

[@geraldinecollins821]

This is soooo true my brother!!

[@HardcityRaindrops]

What is the court is making us have a no contact

[@bondjamesbond1664]

I hope she's thinking she's sorry for cheatimy on me...she lost a good hearted , faithful , educated and gainfully employed man.

[@oemamira]

Dear Coaches Truelly last Sunday we had an Amazing day with each other going out and laughing (after the first moment that day that hé was saying leave me alone and shut his door) but Yesterday Monday he was kindly and we are talking and laughing but at the end he hurt me a lot with words before i went to my place Hé was saying there is no we and i think you are living a movie, which movie to you live? That was Hurting me a lot, now he unblocked me in whatsapp but there is DISTANCE So far my situation ( we are coming from 2 divorces where i decided to break, but I regret and want him back)

[@samzamoraga80]

My ex told me that she love me but she dosnt want to get back she want only friend...its all my mistake thats why we broke up...what will i do?now im doing no contact...i miss her so much...

[@cheepawful]

Best “advice” I’ve heard! Thanks 🙏

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you! Coach Adrian

[@Mugenz32]

But what if she told me when iwas trying to reach her out , its over , and blocked me instagram, messenger.. but we chT still on. And shes coming back to homeland in a 3 months , we broke up in a distance..

[@wread1982]

They are all thinking glad I got rid of them, I’m so tired and annoyed of them

[@ArinSauls]

So I watch KZbin on a pretty regular basis and I haven’t gotten suggested videos related to exes until just a couple days ago and now I am being flooded with a bunch of KZbin recommendation videos on exes coming back or was wanting you and I am trying to move forward with my life. Why am I being suggested these videos when I don’t give two craps about my ex?

[@rochelleong3339]

Its been a m0nth since he left us, I feel w0rthless and desperate, I tried n0 c0ntct rule but I made a mistake last week I c0nfrnt him bout 0ur kids and status. but he t0ld me his happy n0w he will n0t c0mbck😭 n0w still hurting and restless😭😭😭.

[@chelaplan5814]

Hi coach Adrian is it ok to remove,unfriend and unfollow an ex on social media after the break-up?? to prevent myself to contact him.

[@brandonrhagen]

Wow you are right. Thank you for this

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@rosemaryrogers1478]

Good information as well as advice😘😘

[@vaniajorge4158]

What is my boyfriend is living with sameone , and with the no contact is going to push him more to her

[@janepediongco473]

we broke up for a 2nd time around he initiate the break up and he said our relation is like a ship that has a no route and we dont have a brilliant future because im older than him 9 years gap and he belongs to a very traditional family he is turkish guy and im a filipino there is a possibilty that i get back him 3 weeks now i applied no contact rule

[@gia7698]

I know its been 1 year according to your video. Do you still give advice? Let me know, because I know if I do not get some sort of answer...even a quarter of an answer to my question, I will soon have a heart attack! I am so confused and distraught!

[@callumstark5433]

I've recently restarted no contact again and going to do it properly it's been 1 month though since the break up, is it too late to start? or will it still work the same?

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for reaching out. Please watch this video to understand the power of no contact. kzbin.info/www/bejne/maSsfnV-jc9oqdE Coach Adrian

[@cesarromo3745]

My sons mom left me almost 3 months ago she actually left to another state and i am not sure if she is ever coming back we have been in contact but I have slowly have a kept it to a minimum.

[@lauvconstantino3292]

Thank you so much for the knowledge!

[@johncarlrubiales8078]

Thank you for this wonderful wisdom..

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Appreciate it, John! Coach Adrian

[@rietta1166]

I have always loved every advise from Love advice Tv thanx guys. I hav a question, What is right n effective way to do No contact?

[@MagaCanadaChapter]

Cut off everything. Stay busy and work on you. They will come back once you do that. Funny thing is you might not want them back at that point. That's my experience. God bless

[@eve3363]

Now this is actually a good video. Great job.

[@pamelabassmarsh5262]

I've done it. The best thing I've done!!!!! ✔

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Happy to hear that. Thank you for watching. Coach Adrian

[@errolhobson2249]

I've been hearing about the method of "No ContacT" for sometime now, but that cannot apply to me. Because shortly after she told me that she's seeing someone else - She BLOCKED me!! Hence, there'll be ON CONTACT either way.

[@reneeroberts714]

Hi, I am a 49 year old woman that did not know what true love was until I met, her 7 years ago. Her and I have been together for 7 years. A month ago the day before her 39th birthday and the day I was going to supprise her and ask her to marry me, we got into an aguement and she left and went to her sister house. I of course have done all the wrong things that you have said people do after a break up. She has told me that she loves me so much, and always will that I am very special to her, but not inlove with me anymore and that she needs to find herself. We have two children( both hers) son 10, which is now living with his father and a 15 year old daughter which is living with her older brother on her fathers side. I am begging for help, do you think this will help me. Its is so hard thinking that your one true love is gone.

[@nicolebiaggini5907]

Its been only 2 weeks now sonce my breakup with my partner of 4&a half yrs. Im devastated it happened so quick for me in 2 days. When I said I was leaving he agreed& the next day he has packed the leftover of my belongings& didnt leave anything at his place that belongs to me. A couple of nights ago he contacted me at night but I didnt answer I wonder what he rang for. Im still devastated that he agreed that I go

[@ericahernandez5944]

Can you apply no contact if you are living together? The situation was bad and I moved out of our room... but unfortunately my kids and I don’t have another place to go... and he won’t leave but it’s been a week of no talking, no texts nothing... can it work if we are in the same house?

[@zeke8341]

What if it wasn't your fault, and you walked away because of disrespect and you just didn't put up with such behavior.

[@amlanroychowdhury8552]

What to do if I broke no contact several times after 1 month of breakup?

[@josec1538]

Amlan Roy Chowdhury try to hold off for way longer maybe until they reach out to you now. Stay strong. Work on yourself and maybe find new passion in something

[@ira4600]

You're not the only one

[@davidharris2518]

Hi is there any way u can msg me i need some help and im am sooooo lost and dint want to self harm

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for reaching out, David. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ to book a 1:1 session. Coach Adrian

[@MrRobinvanleslie]

Hi I use no contact and after that my ex and unblock on facebook one night what should I do next?

[@kikyburnett3356]

Great Video, love it Thank You👍👍😍

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Appreciate it, Kiky. Thank you for watching. Coach Adrian

[@tanyaoberoi4228]

What exactly is "no contact" period? If you could please explain.....

[@ellaz4466]

Thanks.for the wonderful advise.

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

You are so welcome!

[@Sabilasunshine]

We broke up after i left him and the country we both lived in for a better work opportunity but i didnt want to end the relationship. I made mistakes of pushing him to stay together while he saw this distance as an end. Now after month of back and fourth he decided to end the relationship and said he will always love me but we cannot be in a relationship, hes very attached to my son and wish to keep seeing him despite moving on. I then saw him and realized he seemed to have lost feelings for me or was acting like it very well. Im confused i want to do the no contact but feel like it will build a bridge between us specially for my son whos attached to him. I know we were everything to him and suspect hes only trying to convince himself this cannot work.

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Here's a video that might help you : kzbin.info/www/bejne/l6TXnnqDZbR9nM0

[@shambhusnair91]

My ex is happy with her fiancee and am in no contact for the past 3 months.

[@GiePena]

How do you apply NO CONTACT when you have kids

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for reaching out. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ so that we can help you more on a personal level. Coach Adrian

[@shwes9540]

I was on no contact for 3 months after 3 month I got to know he plans for marriage and when I called him he said it already late very late ,if you are feeling low talk to you family and friends talking to me will not help you..😐 Why did this happen ???

[@shesnaturallydope6298]

😢😢😢😢I feel weak I just did that last night but now I blocked him on everything

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for reaching out. Please watch this video, I believe it will be helpful for you. kzbin.info/www/bejne/nn2Ukq1ph9yoprM Coach Adrian

[@shad6519]

I am a 55 year old woman separated from my husband who is 65 years old after 30 years of marriage. I have no future security or any income and living under the mercy of my family which I dislike. What I should do now because I have not heard or seen him since 18 months. Please guide accordingly. Thanks

[@canadianenglishschool1929]

how can you do no contact if there are kids to visit and share time with?

[@Diamond-uf3mu]

My boy friend he is come to see me and want hang out with me but I’m push him away after that he keep silent , even I’m text him say sorry , I didn’t mean to hurt him at all. I’m love him a lot. But he not respond??

[@tricktrick713]

What if u want to do the no contact but u have kid's with each other?

[@nosoupforyou278]

If it were me and I wanted to take someone back, I don't care who cares about my decision because it's mine, not theirs. That's me and MY life. They don't like it and want to talk mess or ghost then they weren't worth it.