When a Vengeful Killer Refused to be Caught...

[@CoffeehouseCrime]

Hey folks! As you can tell this one is a little different to the usual format, simply trying out new things! Let me know what you think. Thank you for your patience on the audio issues! Recording and editing away from the studio for the first time - but it’s getting better. Next one will have better mic quality and quieter background music! We are away for one more video and then back to the usual format!

[@moaxblink]

Amazing upload, I can't wait to watch. I'm sure the new format is going to be amazing!!

[@MachinimaCommentary1]

Can you make a video about Stephen Paddock, the Las Vegas sniper who killed 58 people.

[@Rayna-gn3ni]

Your quality of content never ceases to amaze me. All the way from Oregon, US.

[@pv2639]

What's the format? Traveling to commonwealth countries?

[@anthonyhack1164]

Don't sweat it, man!

[@_meags]

I love the way that you did this video with the on site reporting, it’s a nice change of scenery and I’m sure we all appreciate all the work you put into all your videos!

[@MidnightPodcast]

Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@mosaicgirl4002]

So tragic, poor Lilly. I live about an hour & a half down the coast from Sydney & know it fairly well. Such a beautiful city. Well done, Adrian on trying a ‘travelling’ format. A respectful & very thoughtful tribute to Lilly. Nice work.❤

[@emmalouise7884]

This lovely innocent woman obviously saw red flags and ended the very brief relationship because of them and his controlling personality and STILL this happened. Horrific.

[@Genesiscoupe3000]

I knew Lilly well, and she was no angel. She was CONSTANTLY cheating!

[@emmalouise7884]

@@Genesiscoupe3000 even if that's true she didn't deserve to be murdered.

[@JaimeTaylor-lf1dd]

​​@@Genesiscoupe3000 wow, is there any need?, this is a beloved daughter and friend and your comment is unnecessary and uninvited. The creep who killed her is the perpetrator and I suppose you are an angel? Just disrespectful

[@kimberlywilmoth9184]

​@@Genesiscoupe3000Who fucking cares? Cheating doesn't make her deserving of being killed...and it's lower than low to speak poorly of a murder victim.

[@venvibe9202]

​@@JaimeTaylor-lf1ddhe might be telling the truth abt her lifestyle, but at this moment it's unfair & unnecessary to say that because that doesn't justify what he'd done to her. He's a thug and didn't have the right to take her life.

[@SpookyNerd13]

It actually gave ME chills just knowing you stood there feeling all that. This is a really interesting format, I like it. It must have felt so intense.

[@sadeamour23]

You always do an amazing job of covering these cases with empathy, integrity, respect and compassion for the victims and their families. I love the new format you incorporated into the video. Thank. you for everything you .

[@TruecrimeAndcommentary]

The brutal thing about life is, if he had just focused on the context, pushed through the immediate feeling of doom and saw this as just a bump on a very long road, 10 years from now he would be married with kids and looking back on the breakup with Lily and remembering how much of a big deal it felt at the time, how glad he is he didn’t overreact and how now he never even thinks about her now he has a wife. And Lily would have a family of her own. It’s tragic how feelings felt in the moment can lead to actions that are irreversibly final.

[@tebogoserepong7732]

Loved the new format ❤️great episode!

[@sandibaker5298]

Really enjoyed this format. Stay safe during your travels!❤

[@Lorfyed]

I love this format. Having footage of you in the places discussed in the story makes it more relatable.

[@n.g.l.]

Tbh, I like this. You traveling. Maybe do Coffee Sundays where you unwind

[@katyap.8404]

Thank you so much for covering this story. I was watching it in real time last year, in disbelieve and shock. I work not far from that school in Sydney, and i know teacher who used to work there but had to leave his job and moved out of area after what happened. People were so traumatised. So sad. My hart goes to Lillie's parents, such a horrible tragedy 😢

[@FengShuiHomewithMilou]

Hi Adrian! Nice to have a little change in the video's love it❤. Me as dutchie haven't heard about this story about Paul. Thanks for this story!❤

[@kimchristianson4743]

I appreciate the way you present these stories with such sensitivity. I enjoy the new format too.

[@bg9509]

WooHoo Adrian! Almost 2 million viewers! Well deserved. Love your posts- thanks!😊

[@kashigata]

Isn’t Sydney amazing?! I lived in the Blue Mountains for 6 years, so was able to visit Sydney regularly. I’m so thrilled that you are back here Adrian! I’m in Victoria, now. Melbourne is nice but Sydney? OMG!!

[@AmorDivino-e5q]

Everyday several woman gets killed around the world by their partner or ex partner . I'm so sick and tired of this male violence against women,that there even is a term for it "feminicide". Thanks Adrian for another interesting story,this time on location, that's a great idea if you like to keep travelling,but I also like your coffee - house scenery. You seem kind of sad in this video,hope you are doing ok.

[@BenavolutionArt]

South Africa

[@KimberlyBellamy]

I agree. You just never really know the person you're associating with. It's very scary.

[@AlexanderJoneshttps]

Women create men like this

[@BenavolutionArt]

@@AlexanderJoneshttps a very broad and unprovable statement.

[@lindasmith6072]

​@@AlexanderJoneshttpsI see. Its women's fault for men's violence ? Makes perfect sense...

[@AaronMetallion]

If my (hypothetical) son did this, I'd flush his ashes down the toilet. Rip Lillie James. I've followed you for a very long time and watched all your videos Adrian. I'm a game artist, and keeping a pop-out video player with your videos running while I draw makes the time pass. I didn't expect to see you at the scene. You've gotten so good at this, and I feel proud of you. Almost at 2 million subs! You deserve it!! 🎉🎈

[@lislevollgraaff1236]

When you dont raise your son with boundaries and impulse control...

[@rafaelamb]

It was a delight to see beautiful Sydney and your “in site” work!

[@hillmidget1326]

I'm at the end and I'm visiting my home house and as soon as j get in there's a hammer on the old phone table honestly shook me I can't believe how horrific her death was she deserved so much better in life rest well Lillie ❤

[@andreambrownridge7642]

💜💜💜 rest easy lovely Lillie

[@jenniferbailey5914]

Sydney certainly is a very beautiful city which holds many wonderful memories for me. This story hit us all hard. RIP Lillie. So so sad!

[@AwfulDog1]

Wow, you managed to find clean bin chicken (Royal Ibis) in Sydney!!!

[@janicevictor7414]

Love the "where it actually happened" episode!

[@PinayTruckerGIRLUSA]

I love coffeehouse crime, I watched 80% of his uploaded stories already. But this one particular video the background music kinda hurt my ears using my headset.

[@sheilamaefidelino4706]

I will miss the normal background but I like that we see a different view when we watch the show. Great job!

[@LegitLC]

This spoiled a-hole stole the first thing that wasn’t handed to him. Your coverage is always so thoroughly, intelligently and respectfully done. No matter the format, it’s always flawless. This was cool to see, no doubt! Lillie deserved the world. 💔

[@bitbybitfarmseast3085]

I like the coffee house vibe, but enjoyed the natural background too.

[@harleystewart7903]

Love the format of this video, the new "live" angles and scenes it's great. P.s I'm also a long time watcher and an Aussie

[@sandysizemore501]

Prayers for both Families 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💔💔💔💔😥😥😥😥

[@kellydavis275]

Well done. Your most professional video to date. Thank you for keeping your opinions out of it and giving us just the facts.

[@ryderpearce5359]

Youre in sydney!!! This i heard about when I lived in Adelaide. Thanks for doing an aussie case

[@bevleaross8736]

as an Aussie (melb), it's good to see us featured. Like the new format (sort of reporter on the spot). Would love to see you cover Ivan Milat

[@blazenash87]

Really loved this format!

[@ms.krueger2660]

Never have a secret relationship!! Insist on meeting family and friends. Even coworkers if possible!! Neighbors!! Anyone that knows the person!! They can tell you exactly what kind of person you are with!! ⭐️ Texted her Dad so he could see her body!! What a sicko!! Disgusting!! 😢😢

[@hemetqueen4262]

Hi Adrian! Love your channel- I would say the music is a bit overpowering in some moments. You may want to consider adjusting the volume so you aren’t competing with the ambiance. And the sound effects for swipes may be a bit too theatrical. I do enjoy the new creative endeavors! I especially appreciate the portions of visual reporting. Perhaps you could walk while discussing the case as well and cut to you exploring different locations. Please keep experimenting! It’s wonderful to see you develop your process!

[@kibouhope]

She's so beautiful. It saddens me how horrible this is

[@subz3r0444]

When a man is disliked by his male peers that’s the biggest red flag. If your boyfriend doesn’t have a single male friend of his own / no friends at all of his own you need to be careful ❤ Sadly there are a lot of guys out there like Paul and they walk amongst us looking as normal as the next person. RIP LILLIE! 🥀 he never deserved you. wishing for healing and peace of mind for her family and friends.

[@joannohalloran9632]

LLOVE THE NEW BACK GROUND. CHANGE IS GOOD ONCE IN AWHILE!

[@graemefeeney2256]

People always trying to sue people or organisations that have nothing to do with premeditated evil doings.

[@joannohalloran9632]

Love your post. Poor girl!

[@DollHolguin]

She was absolutely beautiful and this happened on my birthday breaks my heart ❤️‍🩹💔

[@Cynthiabecker24]

Thanks, 4 another excellently presented case.🇦🇺💙

[@DesertVox]

"Thou shalt NOT give your heart to a 304." - Sun Tzu

[@MachVX]

Oh wow, that hits close to home. I went to SACS

[@ubertoyourmomshousetonitef4204]

Who all here reading this comment has definitely taken a dump when waking up in the morning? Also who has ever farted in their lives and something extra comes out of your bung hole and then you have to throw away your underwear. Comment down below your responses. Lastly who all here catches a glimpse of your poo poo before you flush?

[@QueSara1111]

Hey Adrian, you should come to Adelaide while you're in Oz... we're affectionately known as the murder capital of the world. We also have great coffee thanks to our large post-war Italian migrant community 🤗

[@sandysizemore501]

Wow! 2023. Very recent!

[@sandysizemore501]

I don’t get why you would want someone who doesn’t want you? Just walk away with your broken ego. Just go and heal. You will.

[@BeRightBack131]

Lillie's parents shouldn't sue the school. They need to sue his parents. They're the ones who raised a spoiled brat who was never taught the word no.

[@jasminemottu4879]

Rest in peace Lily

[@renaeo8300]

Welcome to Australia!! Woohoo ❤

[@IlGattoGialloCucina]

I dont mind the new version I like all of them

[@traceyminnis3275]

Rip beautiful girl

[@kissmyvansdude]

Are you coming to Melbourne?

[@RayneZerati]

I'm absolutely in love with the fact that each episode you go over a little bit about the area the events happen as well as any coffee facts. I learn so much from you without feeling like it's jarring to the story you're about to tell. Your story telling is top notch and I always feel completely engaged. Definitely one of the rather few channels I've actually hit that notification bell for. Thank you for everything!

[@Fluffy-Fluffy]

defiantly should be definitely. defiantly means "in a way that shows you are not willing to accept criticism or disapproval". But it's a very common mix up. I don't mean to be rude, I tend not to correct mistakes, but this one really has a completely different meaning and I hope this helps you in the future.

[@nikkianderson5076]

I agree ❤

[@RayneZerati]

@@Fluffy-Fluffy No worries! I appreciate it. Autocorrect got me on that one. I hadn't noticed it at the time. Thank you for the catch!

[@jxn1056]

​@@RayneZerati"Auto-INcorrect" drives me batty! It makes me appear illiterate on the daily! Lol

[@bjh7924]

Same. I enjoy the mini-history of where the crime took place 👍

[@doctorstuffy8821]

Love the different format!

[@kajarvi14]

As much as I like seeing beautiful Sydney behind you (a place I’ll never be able to afford to visit), I still love your original format of your green screen coffee shop with the sleepy cat and ever-changing view outside the window. Either way, I love your videos and always get excited when I see you’ve posted! ❤

[@JoseWolff]

agree , there's something appealing about the green screen coffee shop with cat... or maybe it just grew on some of us

[@AwfulDog1]

Biggest problem with Australia is it lacks the history and culture of Europe and the Middle East and many parts of Asia. Beautiful to visit, wonderful lifestyle but not much here artistically to see after a few days.

[@ziwestan1990]

I agree, much prefer the in studio café with the kitty. The sound is much better as well, this was loud with music that didn’t match the tone of the story, and often too loud and distracting.

[@comefondue]

Same. The on location feels too much like WE ARE THERE and i prefer the cozy coffee house flannel cat STORYTELLING vibe of hearing your melodic voice and letting my imaginatin take me back to the place with the help of your usual images. I am distracted and wondering if flannel is too warm for Sidney. If flannel is a seattle vibe (coffee) and if you have applied sunscreen. Too real. Less “let me take you on a journey”. Also the warm lighting is more the vibe than this cool lighting.

[@tyronesmith4622]

Yeah I prefer the normal background it’s more cosy and homely and relaxing.

[@staceyrigby3064]

I love how you give a little background on the locations, coffee, and people

[@mr.melancholy4973]

Not only did he rob that poor girl of her future, but took the cowards way out. I know this has been said a thousand times but my heart really goes out to her family.

[@pryingopenmythirdeye1830]

The cowards way out? Your very unintelligent aren't you ? What a dumb thing to say . People are straight up braindead these days. It's pathetic." The cowards way out"... god the stupidity is overwhelming

[@richardaitkenhead]

People who commit suicide aren't cowards, thats a vile thing to say, we know nothing about the incident.

[@k_isforkaito.]

​@richardaitkenhead9561 I'm curious, why do you think that?

[@valsblueforrest2961]

Control freaks are cowards.

[@richardaitkenhead]

@k_isforkaito.9918 because my brother, my nephew and my best friend all committed suicide and I would run out of fingers if I tried to count the amount of good people I l know that took there own lives none of them were even close to being cowards, heros, fireman, boxers ,bricklayers plumbers,drug dealers even a murderer ( he done 14 years) , ive been to more funerals than years I been alive, I was born in 81, I know plenty of cowards and scumbags not one of them would have balls to take there own life, I couldn't do, im a bodybuilder and a trained fighter, I fear no one but take me own life nope I'm too much of a coward. Was this fool who killed that girl a coward he very well may be, but people who take there own lives they aren't cowards they just lost themselves or were hurting. I do appreciate that you asked my reasoning Instead of a dumb comment like most of the Internet. Listen to how to save a life or runaway train they are about suicide, people don't write songs about cowards they write about heros that are lost. I hated my loved ones for leaving like that at first, cowards how dare they but now I'm older I understand, hopefully you never have too.

[@spnfam-ily]

Sounds like he was really good at masking his creepiness and rage. Those are the scariest and most dangerous ones. Rest in Peace, Lillie 🕊

[@lisadolan689]

Narcissist’s are very good at doing that 😐

[@mealsome1571]

i'll never understand how people can be like that tbh. I'm from Australia, originally Victoria. there's a large amount of those guys. they usually all fall under the same type. I'm a bouncer at a night club now and you can tell the type straight away. the amount of people that carry things to spike drinks is frightening and usually unreported to the police as the venue typically disposes of it internally to avoid police presence which of course would cost money. The amount of stories i can tell you......

[@beck86]

@@mealsome1571 and there lies the problem - most people can't understand how someone can be like that, but they're out there.

[@MJW238]

Not that good -the headmaster said he seemed normal, but plenty of people said he had issues.

[@taskcasburn6086]

Like they always say though, there are always tells, no matter how subtle they may be. We have a gut instinct for a reason. When you get an off feeling about someone, it's not for no reason. Everything is some kind of tell about a person. Whether good or bad.

[@juanitarichards1074]

He was a sadistic SOB, luring her father to the school, knowing the terrible shock that poor man would suffer on his arrival.

[@jimmyelkordy3752]

Personally I think he just wanted the dad to know what happened. Maybe he felt bad and that’s why he jumped

[@leesashriber5097]

Pure evil 😡

[@mistert4533]

He wasn't luring her father. He wanted her father to know where his daughter was as there is nothing worse than not knowing what has happened to her

[@juanitarichards1074]

@@mistert4533 He's a psychopath, without conscience by definition. He only killed himself because he knew he wasn't going to get away with this and couldn't face life in prison.

[@mistert4533]

@@juanitarichards1074 I'm not disagreeing with that. Just because he is a psycho and a coward, it doesn't mean he lured her dad. He called the cops and told them where her body will be. He let her father know as well. He didn't lure anyone. Just because he did that, it doesn't mean he still isnt a psycho or a coward. Are you just trying to make him even worse to justify your hatred for him because murdering someone should be enough for you to be ok with that.

[@Germania72]

I wonder how the family dynamics were within Paul's family for him to be like this. This innocent girl had the misfortune to cross paths with him.

[@VioletJoy]

I wonder about that as well. There is always a backstory.

[@tkatrich3]

Entitled rich kid brat by the sound of it

[@Andreamom001]

Narcissists normally were either completely indulged and never made to deal with consequences OR were abused or traumatized in childhoood. The abuse does not have to be from parents.

[@Preppie-thirty]

My guess is he was was completely indulged by his parents.

[@melissamoonchild9216]

​@@Preppie-thirtyI agree, I doubt he ever heard no

[@MrYoung-qn5rp]

Just in time for the dishes! Thanks for all you do!

[@ahmadLp585]

Hell yeaah

[@elivaughan1192]

hey! same. I do the dishes and watch these. lol

[@PrinceBaraButterfly]

So I'm not the only one who does chores and listens to true crime, hahaa

[@really_rebecca]

Yep this is me as well! Cleaning the kitchen whilst listening to coffee house crime

[@ar2043]

E X C E L L E N T JOB with the "experimental" format!!! I for one give it a big thumbs up!!! 👍 It really added a whole new dimension. Great work!!!

[@dikeledimothiba65]

100%. Especially since we all love the way Coffeehouse Crime videos start. Always so scenic, informative and upbeat. This was refreshing. I look forward to more of these on-site videos with improved audio quality. ❤ Nicely done Adrian🎉 You are definitely walking towards growth for your channel😊

[@mumof3625]

I’m Australian, and I feel this particular case touched many many people in this country - such a needless waste of Lilies beautiful life, the suffering she must have endured and my love goes to her parents, family and friends still. I also feel for his parents, the heartache they must feel that their son did this and then took his own life. On a lighter note, have been following you for a while and loved this format!!! Thank you for all the hard work!

[@wanimalus]

As an Australian, I agree that this case deeply affected many of us. Lily's tragic loss and the pain she endured are heartbreaking. My thoughts are with her parents, family, and friends during this difficult time. I also sympathize with the anguish his parents must be experiencing, knowing their son committed such a terrible act and then took his own life. On a brighter note, I appreciate your support and am glad you enjoyed this format! Thank you for following along, and I'll continue to do my best.

[@Genesiscoupe3000]

I knew Lilly well, and she was no angel. She was CONSTANTLY cheating!

[@pgtips1199]

So she deserved to die? You sound rejected!

[@imdeadindeed]

​@@Genesiscoupe3000Nobody is an angel, so what?

[@Obsessed_With_Corgis]

@@Genesiscoupe3000 Even if that *is* true (which there’s no way to verify) that absolutely does not excuse murder!! It does suck to be cheated on, I would know; I’ve had 2 ex’s cheat on me, but normal people move on. They don’t *murder* the person who cheated on them!! Actual revenge would be a life well-lived without even thinking about the cheater. What this guy did was nothing but twisted and sadistic.

[@burrellbikes4969]

Smashing her face in that manner implies that he viewed her beauty as something he could not have anymore. And had to destroy it so no one else could.

[@tentinquarantino3005]

I'm not sure it's that deep as to "imply" it as he was clearly just an unstable and egotistical POS, but it's certainly a possibility. We'll never know.

[@junecleaver748]

He knew Lilly was to good for him

[@junecleaver748]

@@tentinquarantino3005 Destroying someones face is a deeply personal crime

[@tentinquarantino3005]

@@junecleaver748 I'm not disputing that

[@psgistheworstclubineurope]

Stop simping for the deceased it's disrespectful

[@zakksu]

Oh fantastic to see you there while covering the case! Just please stay safe and have tons of fun!

[@shades1349]

I agree! It’s really cool to be able to see the actual locations

[@siobhanrose1680]

While it is ALL about Lily, because how dare Paul do what he did. I do also feel for Paul’s parents. Yes, all my thoughts and condolences are with Lily’s family and loved ones. But I just cannot even fathom how it must feel to love someone as your only child, who killed a person in cold blood, and then to have no closure themselves because he takes his own life. That is some hard, hard stuff for a parent to deal with. Their only child, a horrible murderer, and dead. They are victims too, and as a mother I feel for them also.

[@shez5964]

Excellent post and I couldn't agree more. What Paul did was unforgiveable but I'd like to know the circumstances that caused him to commit such an act. I hope the families get clear answers even if it's never released to the public.

[@janeebbon8960]

Interesting that they didn’t want to take his body back home to the Netherlands.

[@siobhanrose1680]

@@janeebbon8960 I imagine not many people wanted to celebrate his life, plus, it is extremely expensive to have bodies flown overseas. If they planned on cremating him anyway, there’s no reason to fly it. I feel like they would have flown here when his body was found.

[@janeebbon8960]

@@siobhanrose1680they seemed wealthy enough to be able to afford it. Also, he didn’t sound as though he was very popular. They didn’t even want to take his ashes home.

[@Replicanna-rl6zg]

For the son being able to do such act, I don't think they were very good parents at all. Yet, I do not think the boy was narcissist but had a very low self esteem, more like the parents or at least on of them must have been a narcist

[@juns597]

I like both your settings. You're a wonderful host, empathetic. RIP Lilli

[@patpreston5071]

Your channel is so good I don’t mind any format. I will still always look forward to your content. ❤

[@stillme4420]

I kinda like the old format better with the fixed background, the sound is better there too just saying because you asked for our opinion.

[@anjeru4211]

your dedication to covering and delivering such cases + consistency are appreciated. you are one of my favourite true crime channels.

[@dianec9456]

As nice as it was for you to travel and see the location in person, I like the studio version better... So maybe one of these every now and then, but not too many. Thank you Adrian!

[@journeysintothelight2133]

I absolutely agree with you. I also found the music too loud and distracting. I prefer silence, or, if there is any music at all, at a very low volume.

[@Ghetto-toaster22]

So you now telling him where he can record and how often? Lol go play in traffic please……don’t like here records? Then don’t watch it! Always some annoying person like yourself trying to tell how someone else what to do and boss them around like you are someone of relevance. Pretty sure he will do just fine without your views and input….get lost

[@dianec9456]

@@Ghetto-toaster22 Dude, chill. He ASKED in the pinned comment for our opinion.

[@mattpatt199]

Get help dude. He asked for people's input. ​@@Ghetto-toaster22

[@zacharyhefner2208]

Wow imagine being so extremely Insecure, entitled and vindictive that you willing to go as far as kill someone for breaking up with you over a relationship that only lasted 5 weeks It another situation where he was spoiled by his parents. This is what you get when you never tell your kid "no" his entire life

[@cdes1776]

For some reason I'm reminded of Joran van der Sloot in SA.

[@AndrewAung1992]

5 weeks is not a relationship, women fall in love/out of love slower, while men fall in love/out of love faster. It takes women about 7 to 8 weeks to completely fall for a guy and initiate a relationship. The males job is to keep things casual, hang out, have fun and hook up. The female is the one to ask for exclusivity. This was more of a FWB thing, however poor girl met a very unconfident man, who got very perturbed.

[@becd9366]

​@@AndrewAung1992this is so enlightening. Tell me more

[@starwyn7]

@@AndrewAung1992wtf 😂

[@Saumya-km3fu]

​@@AndrewAung1992 feminine?

[@cathycallaghan3744]

Fantastic Adrian. Love the new format. As an Aussie I can vouch for the beauty of our nation that is sadly blended with the danger of which you so eloquently speak. Thank you for a great video on a very horrific and tragic case. ❤

[@DuendeTortuga]

I like the comfy in-studio usual format to be honest, but you being in the location makes it more personal too (overall, great video as always!)

[@dn9597]

Rip Lillie James. She was so beautiful and seems like she had bright future ahead of her. Condolences to her family and Paul's family for the loss of their children.

[@zyrrhos]

He was an only child. His family and psychological background needs to be examined.

[@trolltrama9780]

​@@zyrrhos examine yo momma

[@FLo-jc7ig]

​@@zyrrhos Don't be RIDICULOUS! You think they "secretly" raised him to be a "Murderer"??? How absurd! Get a Grip🤯

[@zyrrhos]

​@@FLo-jc7ig Secretly? That's an odd take. This person had psychological issues. Either he was "born evil" or he was a product of his upbringing. Surely you've heard of the term "nature vs nurture."

[@Genesiscoupe3000]

I knew Lilly well, and she was no angel. She was CONSTANTLY cheating!

[@spicytupperware]

I live 5 minutes away from St Andrews. I was driving past with my husband when it had happened and we noticed police tape surrounding the whole area and we were wondering what had happened. Never in a million years did I think what happened would happen so close to where I live. Thank you for covering this, what a devastating case.

[@azazello1784]

No need to brag about being married.

[@LH-ot5rk]

@@azazello1784😂

[@zaksharman]

@@azazello1784 Where the hell does she "brag" about being married

[@NeedPieces]

@azazello u are sick right

[@zanderisamazing5043]

​@@azazello1784smug marrieds can't help but be smug

[@johnhenderson131]

I always find people with huge egos or worse narcissistic, to be tolerable for a short time but I couldn’t tolerate it in a relationship. I’ve also noticed that narcissists tend to be unaware of their attitude, don’t realize others are aware so they’re easy to identify…and in my personal experience….Avoid! 7:20

[@danidakota7304]

But, in this case I found it interesting how his parents treated him as their perfrct "own child" Maybe I am wrong, but I have got a feeling that his parents fed his narcissism and arrogance, probably telling him all the time how awesome he is, and that he is better than anyone else.He seems like typical self-centered, egoistic POS. who thinks he deserves everything he wants without ever working for it.

[@keroknight2989]

​@danidakota7304 he already was. His parents are wealthy Dutch business owners, and people say that poverty is the most contributing factor to committing a crime, I beg to differ!

[@johnhenderson131]

@@danidakota7304 I think you’re absolutely correct. I’m sure it started there, was reenforced and just escalated!

[@johnhenderson131]

@@keroknight2989 That’s because you’re intelligent and possess that ever so rare quality of “Common Sense “!

[@danidakota7304]

@@keroknight2989 I know. But I think his parents helped forming his future sociopathic behavior and his narcissism

[@chelseagirl278]

Lillie was gorgeous, inside and out, intelligent and so engaging. We will NEVER forget you ❤ 🕊️ 🙏 💐

[@shehnazahmad5213]

I ❤ your channel. From Johannesburg, SOUTH AFRICA 🇿🇦

[@danidakota7304]

Hello from Germany this fellow fan of this channel. ❤️❤

[@claudiabothma]

Hi fellow Jo'burger!

[@thereseangelz4143]

Me too 🇿🇦 an hour south of Johannesburg

[@LaniV7]

From SA too, love Adrian's channel!!

[@ebayerr]

My great-great grandfather immigrated from Sicily to New Orleans in the mid 1800's and opened a coffee house there.

[@stfuplsok]

*1800s

[@beevonerd]

That's pretty cool, I was actually just in N.O. early Jan to work a fan expo. Love it there, you can feel the culture everywhere you go. 👍🏿

[@westbank5436]

I'm from New Orleans, I love my city!! Thanks for the visit. Hope y'all enjoyed y'all selves.

[@JengaPR]

WHOA!!! I legit jumped at the intro! So intense! So strong! Wait wait wait!!! My coffee isn't ready!!!

[@idil90622]

And men say that women are the emotional and hysterical ones... Please teach your sons how to regulate their emotions, we are tired of these kind of tragedies.

[@yogeekmelina4331]

Your storytelling abilities are wonderful. I appreciate the time and care you put into every case. Your compassion, your skill in keeping is engaged, and always the care you put forth is phenomenal. Thank you for sharing.

[@joeveltri58]

Sounds like a case of if I can't have her no one will, which is odd after a few weeks together.

[@sagepirotess6312]

First love can be strange. Though if patient he may got her down the road of life

[@Avigailish]

That's insane😢5 weeks!!! He was so immature & Severe attachment problems...and i agree with Adrian fragile ego😢

[@jennie2eire]

Hope Nero didn't miss you too much while you were away! Great case coverage yet again, well done Adrian

[@praytogodus]

Thank you for your kind words! Nero is always happy to see me when I return. I'm glad you found the case coverage helpful. If you have any more questions or need further assistance, feel free to reach out.

[@Uapa500]

Why are you replying for @CoffehouseCrime?

[@ntsoqtqt137]

​@esctruecrime I don't remember Adrian @coffeehousecrime changing up his name format too 🤔 😂

[@EIRE55]

@@ntsoqtqt137 His name is Danial Nolan from ESC True Crime, from the US, and he joined YT on 22 Dec 2023. My guess is that he's taken a very quirky way to try and advertise himself.

[@MT-dh2tr]

Adrian is a class act! Others are trying to be funny. Thanks Adrian for a respectful review!

[@pollypockets508]

Who is trying to be funny?

[@MT-dh2tr]

@@pollypockets508 the guy who does the life insurance dance….

[@dolceitalia5846]

@@MT-dh2tri Watch both Adrian and the ‘guy who does the life insurance dance’ and enjoy both channels for different reasons. Making jokes isn’t necessarily disrespectful, it’s gallows humour and if you’re from the U.K. you’d probably understand this 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@chloep8808]

@@dolceitalia5846agreed. I watch both for different reasons. I like their differences … we don’t need to bring one down to lift the other one up. They can both be great

[@MT-dh2tr]

@@dolceitalia5846 thank you for the explanation. I really appreciate it!

[@manout3372]

I think the biggest takeaway here is how badly people are about judging their fellow humans. Most people fall for a good looking face, a façade, if someone is socially acknowledged, etc. Many times, these people are the biggest psychopaths. The world runs on appearance and fakeness.

[@VioletJoy]

There are plenty of psychopaths who aren't "attractive" also. One thing I'd like to see is more education in psychology all throughout the school years. Learning about ourselves, personality types, mental illnesses, etc. would greatly benefit society. There will always be those types of people, but it would be really valuable for the rest of us to understand the red flags and how to handle them.

[@haji818721]

Not true. Sometimes they are, sometimes they are not. There is no type, but especially being goodlooking or socially acknowledge has nothing to do with it. Appearance has zero to do with it. A bit crazy that you are even insinuating it does.

[@paulinejackson5861]

Good looking people tend to be better people, especially men. Ugly men are generally less trustworthy because they are jealous and insecure, from my experience and my friends.

[@peterschroeder3087]

dude wasnt looking good at all...he had a soft unmanly face...absolutely she tried it FOR him not to get with him...realizing that she quit the relationship as soon as posible and problanly broke it down on him exactly that way in that bathroom...She was way to good looking for him, she realized it and he always knew...thats why he took his life afterwards....was all too obvious..

[@psyche1988]

You're a man hence you cannot possibly speak for what women find attractive so keep your bias to yourself ok ? ok...now, most psychopaths and sociopaths are good looking, charismatic or being perceived as having high status. There's an interplay of genetics and enviornment, you obviously know nothing about their relatioship as do we, so please just be quiet. @@peterschroeder3087And btw, fyi, NO ONE is too good looking for anyone to date, we are all humans with different needs, what one finds beautiful other may find tiresome, it's obvious that your have no idea what relationships or dating is like so that just tells me you either have no dating experience or are a child, in any case leave the discussion to the adults. Thank you !

[@Lotty100]

Wow, this really brings the story home. Amazing to see the areas of significance. I really feel for Lillie’s family. RIP Lillie

[@praytogodus]

Indeed, seeing the places where significant events occurred can make the story feel more real and impactful. The empathy you feel for Lillie's family is a testament to your compassion. May Lillie rest in peace, and may her family find solace and healing in the midst of their loss. 🕊

[@XpRnz]

Congrats on this new format, really cool to see you there on the ' scene ' ! Shows your dedication and effort for top quality, keep it up.

[@chermacdonald8533]

I loved this format. Bit then again you could be sitting on your couch in PJ's and I would love every episode lol You are by far one of my favourite true crime streamers. Keep doing whatever feels right for you😃😃😃

[@metalmomma4229]

Is the audio in this video different for anyone else? Or is it just me?? It's kinda harsh and the "s" sounds are really whistling and loud

[@stonebone316]

Most likely because he's outdoors filming this.

[@wilycat5290]

Yes, different. But he mentioned this ahead of time.

[@aceman67.]

You being there while telling us of the case is really cool imo!

[@Agapy8888]

RIP Lillie. Forever in our thoughts. ❤️

[@ashleyrenegade]

Awesome job! Love that you switched up location 🥰

[@thehangingparsiple5692]

Ahhh, fellow Renegade... Enjoy the mash up tonight? ❤✌️

[@joellemichaela]

You are so talented, Adrian! My dinner just arrived here too (saw an earlier message) - thanks for making my evening!

[@praytogodus]

Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm glad I could assist you, and I hope you enjoy your dinner. If you need anything else, feel free to ask. Have a wonderful evening!

[@gonznyyr]

Perfect timing! Thanks Adrian! Have a great day!

[@needsmorecowbell1758]

Ive watched several of your videos back to back and I noticed the commentary you make, specifically when you say things like ‘okay he was a total douche but he could’ve matured over time’ I appreciate the professionalism and then human that comes out. Thank you for your channel