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@HappyBirddi10 ай бұрын
I do like the beard! It looks very sharp on you Also I wanted to comment asking why you stopped putting the short images at the beginning of your videos? In some of the videos there'd be a black and white picture to sort of preview the case, and I did like the detail, is there a reason why you don't do it anymore?
@iamlowkeyedits10 ай бұрын
Yayy, It's Adrian and Nero! xox stay safe and awesome everyone. The beard looks awesome. psps to Nero. p.s. my links in bio.
@hannabanana59210 ай бұрын
It makes you look more serious and sophisticated!
@llynnmarks338210 ай бұрын
Have you posted this story before? Maybe I have you confused with another channel.
@yuviawong855910 ай бұрын
You look great either way ! Great video as always 😀
@CrazySmurfs1810 ай бұрын
In Sweden, stalkers are made to wear foot cuffs that always tracks their position. this means, that when they have a restraining order, they can get arrested as soon as they are too close to the victim they are stalking. This way of dealing with stalkers has the strongest evidence that they dont recommit the offenses, and actually show that higher rates of stalkers stay away from their victims.
@amberstargames10 ай бұрын
That’s efficient!
@teresathayn517010 ай бұрын
Here in the US it takes so long for our systems to accept and adopt new ideas that we didn't come up with! Ego's get in the way of progress here far too often!!
@poeticsilence04710 ай бұрын
You said it. Or they always have to bring up money. @@teresathayn5170
@Fibonot10 ай бұрын
I agree it’s efficient for repeat offenders. But in cases of first time actors, the story is different. I’m not sure a restraining order warrants geolocation monitoring in most countries. However, if a restraining order is broken- I really do see the benefits of a tracker, assuming law enforcement can intercept before tragedy.
@Sniperboy555110 ай бұрын
Seems a bit authoritarian to me
@ilovemycat___10 ай бұрын
Stalking must be taken extremely extremely seriously. It is not just a mere nuisance, those with stalking tendencies are extremely dangerous pathological people. Usually jealous and controlling
@YouTubeCallsMeAntiSemitic10 ай бұрын
People don't take it serious. If they aren't telling a victim to ignore it then they're saying it is imagined 🙄. It's extremely hard to get police to investigate the basics like a car break-in that a business surveillance video may have captured but the business won't release the video to anyone but the police 🙄. And they know how to hack security systems to override cameras and alarms... It's just a difficult insanity to combat alone.
@ash_tray10 ай бұрын
Thank you for this comment. My ex, who nearly took my life, stalked me until he passed away himself. Constantly telling me he’d kill me and my unborn twins, contacting my family and friends trying to find me. the amount of paranoia that it gives you at ALL TIMES is something I had never experienced before.
@thedesensitizedsympathizer530710 ай бұрын
I'm one of those "Pathological, controlling" people! Screw you for insulting all of us. I may have stalking tendencies, but at least I never acted out on them. THE Closest thing I've ever done, it try to find a hacker online to delete someone's twitter account. Not all of us are super dangerous. I wish you people knew what we feel like and I wish you knew how our heads work and how we actually DON'T want to stalk people after a while, but due to memories and brain chemical imbalance. Our brains will NOT make us forget. I once couldn't sleep for two nights because my brain wouldn't stop repeating the person who installed online. I actually couldn't eat for two days. I slapped myself and even tried hitting my head on a tree, to forget about her. But I couldn't. I don't remember how I moved on but I think I just prayed for God to make me forget about the person, or at least have my brain stop thinking about her. Low and behold, I was able to move on. I could eat again and though I couldn't erase her twitter account completely from my memory. I was able to go back to my life. This experience is why I have some sympathy or at least pity, for stalkers.
@thedesensitizedsympathizer530710 ай бұрын
How did he pass?
@SiViC7410 ай бұрын
yes and be careful of crazy cat ladies out there, they are seriouly the craziest people I ever met.
@HannaInTheHandsOfGod10 ай бұрын
Restraining orders really need to come with an ankle monitor! Then an alarm could go off, notifying authorities, if the stalker comes within a specific distance from the victim's home or workplace.
@Project_BlackBox10 ай бұрын
Never even thought of that. What a great idea
@HannaInTheHandsOfGod10 ай бұрын
@TheRealCatof that's true. 🤔 Maybe with proof of threats? Regardless, it would save lives.
@nekonomicon298310 ай бұрын
@PassionsPhoenix It would depend on the level of stalking. If they've been showing up at their house, they obviously know they're address so it would probably be safe to assume the stalker in question is at a high danger level.
@jborden1810 ай бұрын
That's actually a really good idea!! Good thinking!!
@thefrofox10 ай бұрын
While it is an interesting idea I think it could be easily abused
@ReadLikeaGilmore10 ай бұрын
"If I can't have you, no one can" is such a dangerous mindset, and authorities really need to take it more seriously. Too many people have been murdered because of stalking.
@wizzardofpaws242010 ай бұрын
I had a stalker ex when I was younger. He was controlling and I left him. He'd flatten all four of my tires twice. I would catch him peeking in my windows. I was terrified. The cops did absolutely nothing so I bought a gun. I was scared to even go outside. One night while watching TV I got a chill like I was being watched. I pulled back the curtain with gun in hand pointed directly at him! He ran off and I never saw him again. He went on to terrorize other women.
@jamie6856010 ай бұрын
Name him and the state he is in! Let everyone know
@nj491610 ай бұрын
from one survivor to another, i am glad you are here now.
@tracydee185710 ай бұрын
Those poor women
@owlstillloveyou733810 ай бұрын
One of my ex’s also stalked me for months after we finally broke up, but he was too much of a coward to do it himself…he also had pending legal action against him. He had friends of his (who used to be friends of both of ours when we were dating) do it for him, and report back to him. I’d get tons of harassing phone calls and text messages, and to this day, I don’t know how much of it was him or the idiots he manipulated into believing that I deserved this sort of behavior for leaving a toxic and abusive relationship. At the minimum, I know his then girlfriend (who he cheated on me with) and his own MOTHER were directly involved. The police never took me seriously. I’m just so relieved, humbled, and grateful that in my case, the stalking eventually petered out many years ago with no violent escalation…so many other victims meet with unnecessary tragedy. ❤️
@jwst810 ай бұрын
if nothing else, at least you 'chose' your stalker.. it's much creepier when it's someone you don't even know
@ambrabridges216110 ай бұрын
For most stalkers, a restraining order isn't a deterrent. There need to be tougher laws that are consistently enforced to make a difference. With some digging, the authorities could've found this guy. He obviously had a cellphone that could be used to track him and credit/debit card activity would've helped as well. Too often, police are dismissive of stalking complaints because they think the stalker will eventually "get the message" and leave the victim alone or worse, think the victim brought the situation on themselves.
@YouTubeCallsMeAntiSemitic10 ай бұрын
Exactly. Or even decide the stalking is a delusion...
@annenelson565610 ай бұрын
I despise stalkers. Law enforcement needs to take it more seriously. They seem to think it only happens to “hysterical” women therefore not important.
@jborden1810 ай бұрын
It drives me crazy when authorities (some, not all) seem to side with the perpetrators in situations like this. Reminds me of people who blame rape victims. It's sad, really.
@nhmooytis705810 ай бұрын
Glocktherapy 😅
@Rasengan57810 ай бұрын
@@nhmooytis7058Based and true.
@187mrsmith10 ай бұрын
RIP Zohreh Sadeghi & Mohammad 🥀😔
@TruthFinderAlways2 ай бұрын
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@kittysteele233410 ай бұрын
I had a stalker while i was in the army. He was military too so he had access to come on base where i was stationed at. I was moved to a new command, but he reached out to friends who stupidly gave him my information. He'd show up constantly to my shop, and a restraining order did little next to nothing. The most that happened to him was a few days in the brig, in which a stupid MP gave him his PERSONAL phone to contact me. Nothing happened til he broke into my apartment where he tried to strangle me to death. To this day, i blame his command for defending his actions along with my own friends giving him my information. Stalking is a serious issue. I refuse now to give friends my personal information now because im so scared theyll be stupid again and give my info up.
@DaWorzt9910 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry that happened to you Kitty, Hope you doing better and staying safe and is in good mental health right now!! 🙏🏽🇺🇸
@bjh792410 ай бұрын
What kinda friends give your info to a stalker??
@mrm198410 ай бұрын
Those aren't your friends, they knew what they were doing. Some people thrive on others misery.
@praytogodus10 ай бұрын
I'm deeply sorry to hear about your experience. It's extremely concerning that even with a restraining order, the stalker was able to persist in harassing you, especially with the assistance of others. It's unacceptable that proper measures weren't taken to protect you, and the behavior of the MP was completely inappropriate.
@geminimonroe896110 ай бұрын
Im glad u are taking precautions. What you are going thru is really scary. Stay safe 🫶🏼
@moonavav136810 ай бұрын
She and her husband were our friends! She was brilliant, passionate and kind. RIP Zohreh
@gabrielle754010 ай бұрын
Im so sorry for your loss.
@christopherlopez249110 ай бұрын
Sorry. You’d think Redmond is safer than other neighborhoods in/ near Seattle. But you get murders who are dangerous to those they stalk.
@azazello178410 ай бұрын
Stop your lies. Kind people don't buy 1.6 million dollar homes.
@didndido363810 ай бұрын
@@azazello1784Kind people live in holes covered with tarps?
@wazzazone10 ай бұрын
@Azaz WTF are you on about, are you saying that a stalker has a right to murder? Persian possession alright.
@Mowgi10 ай бұрын
I'm a male, and I have experienced the horror that is stalking. You never feel safe. You never feel alone. Constantly changing your phone number. Constantly being hyper aware of every one around you while out. The feeling of dread when you spot your stalker. The feeling of knowing that the police are useless in these situations. It genuinely broke me. Fortunately it eventually stopped after 2 years and I've finely begun to heal. But so much damage was done, mentally.
@lauraguzman36177 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry you had to experience that. I had a stalker my first semester of college and after weeks of stalking me around campus, when I finally told him I didn’t want to be in a relationship, he turned his head, called me a bitch, and spit on me. Absolutely horrifying. Had to get the campus police involved. I wish you the best in your healing journey!
@KBbookcorner5 ай бұрын
I hope you get better. It's never a good situation and it's hard to feel safe
@reyfan01110 ай бұрын
This is why being a victim of stalking is so scary to me. You hear about people begging authorities for help and handing out restraining orders and fines and any kind of consequence, but the stalkers are relentless. And it doesn’t seem like much gets done until the stalker physically harms them. By that point it’s too late. I am so sorry for this girl, she did every possible thing she could and had the support, but this guy was a monster
@cwired940710 ай бұрын
Not to mention, often you get the temporary restraining order, but the judges don't even issue full restraining orders… unless you pay $2K+ to have a lawyer represent you in court. Stalkers are often great liars, since their whole lives are a lie, and the system really doesn't care about you. Police don't do anything but tell you to get a restraining order. And in the end the paper does nothing if someone is determined. You must supply your own self defense.
@mariesmocca5 ай бұрын
Yes, exactly! People do all they can, and ask for help/protection from police... and it almost always is to late anyway. Very very scary for the victim, and very very unprofessional from the police. That makes a esy pray...
@nikkih63910 ай бұрын
I got stalked by a guy in college. It was terrifying. One night at 2 am i hid in the girl's bathroom to get away from him. I waited 15 minutes and checked the hallway but he ended up waiting in the stairwell and came up behind me. I screamed so loud, i drew attention so he left luckily. He was so busy stalking me that he actually failed the whole year and got kicked out but i still had to change my number and block him on everything. It was such a scary time.
@PlusUltraAdrian9 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry that happened to you. I hope you’re doing better.
@CreditR018 ай бұрын
I'm so glad you're safe. That's terrifying. The campus should've never let it get that bad.
@dolceitalia584610 ай бұрын
I never understand the point of a restraining order. If someone is stalking me & threatening my life; ignoring the warning from police, what makes anyone think they’ll abide by a restraining order?! It’s ridiculous & the law needs to change swiftly.
@derkeheath517210 ай бұрын
Restraining orders weren't created to be a deterrent. They exist so that higher penalties/sentences can be given after the restraining order is broken. Of course, this means nothing to the person who took out the order if they are dead.
@dolceitalia584610 ай бұрын
@@Azzlad I have never relied on ‘the state’ - thankfully never been in a position to have to! Just merely making an observation based on my knowledge of restraining orders…
@purplevelvet698 ай бұрын
@@dolceitalia5846lucky you,
@didndido363810 ай бұрын
There should be a service agency that stalks your stalker!
@thechloechronicles968810 ай бұрын
Now this is the first suggestion I've actually liked. Probably not plausible, I just like it
@livingstone834710 ай бұрын
@@thechloechronicles9688It's definitely plausible and with social media and youtube it wouldn't be difficult to stalk and expose them.
@amityislandchum10 ай бұрын
Right, because legalizing and organizing stalking isn't the dumbest fucking solution ever suggested.
@ddonlee10 ай бұрын
That would be cool . If he message her 100 X, the stalker stalker would message him back 1000x.
@Spectralevidence-169210 ай бұрын
There are many PI agencies already.
@brandyjean701510 ай бұрын
I'm always sorrowed when rational folk believe irrational folk are going to react appropriately when served legal restrictions.
@sarahissersohn549510 ай бұрын
That’s not the purpose of a protection order- it’s bc it’s the necessary first step to them getting arrested, which can’t legally happen until they’ve been served the order, and have then violated it
@rashone287910 ай бұрын
Yes. I think often people in the more affluent class, those for whom thing have consistently gone well, are not “street wise”. Why didn’t she change her phone number?
@briasandifer2108 ай бұрын
@@rashone2879What tf would changing her phone number do when he knew where she lived? 💀
@tat179010 ай бұрын
Being stalked is mental torture and should be treated very seriously. Anyone who displays stalker behaviour is unhinged and has the potential to do even more harm. This is an extremely sad story, that poor family. Thank you for your hard work with these videos Adrien. All the best from Birmingham UK 🙏❤️
@traviswest97010 ай бұрын
Stay strapped. That’s why the US has 2a.
@stfuplsok10 ай бұрын
@@traviswest970 and mass shootings.
@Sniperboy555110 ай бұрын
@traviswest970 Crazy how your comment doesn’t have more likes. People need to protect themselves instead of relying on the state.
@Danica.Powell10 ай бұрын
This is so scary. They must have been absolutely terrified. It's just so scary that people are this insane and just walking around like they're normal.
@susanbodiford910510 ай бұрын
You got that right!
@leighDrusllalyle230410 ай бұрын
I had a friend who was a university lecturer here in the UK who had a PHd student who developed a crush on him. This woman became obsessed and began stalking him, much like the stalker in this story. She actually was already married with 2 small kids but her husband lived abroad (she was here just for her post-grad studies). The upshot of this was that she ended up being sectioned under the Mental Health Act and finally, deported. My friend, his wife and his family were both fine.
@amityislandchum10 ай бұрын
Interesting that they take action when the victim is male, considering that such a case is far less likely to result in violence. It's almost like law enforcement doesn't give a fuck about female lives. 🤔
@therealmacsauce578810 ай бұрын
Bro you’ve gotten so good at this.. you were never bad, but just have been perfecting your craft. Respect
@dinotoebean10 ай бұрын
Not to mention that he always shows respect to the victims and their families!
@nadinejackson374010 ай бұрын
As soon as he started threatening them with violence, he should've been thrown in jail. What a sad case. They came so far to realize the American dream, and had so much success, only to be gunned down by a psycho. 😞
@tencentpistol110 ай бұрын
This story rocked Seattle. It's a failure of multiple agencies and most importantly, the law with regards to stalking/harrassment. Restraining orders need to be changed/amended to force the offender to wear a gps device and report in person daily if needed until the order expires or is withdrawn by the filing individual(s).
@MirandaSinistra10 ай бұрын
Gps for sure, it'd even better if the victim could be made aware remotely if the stalker gets close so they can be vigilant and call the police sooner.
@Scxoop12310 ай бұрын
@TheRealCatof lol No you can't. I was actually in danger of physical harm from my ex and The Judge told me because she hadn't exhibited any violent behavior so I wasn't in danger.
@sammiesue355610 ай бұрын
I've lived in Seattle all my life and this didn't "rock Seattle." lol...there was a news clip once, maybe twice, and that was it.
@Scxoop12310 ай бұрын
@TheRealCatof Maybe in whatever Flyover state you're from but not in Florida and real states with big backlogged court systems
@ruthysmith895310 ай бұрын
no u can't depends on judge@TheRealCatof
@187mrsmith10 ай бұрын
There's nothing worse than having a stalker cus it violates a sense of your security and it makes you paranoid to where it starts to become unhealthy sn stressful and carrying over to your actual physical health! I've encountered these situations a couple times unfortunately an it was some of the most stressful times in my life tbh!
@azazello178410 ай бұрын
There are things worse than that.
@SavvyMuhon10 ай бұрын
@@azazello1784 Worse than being stalked and murdered?
@cecejamesable10 ай бұрын
@lo1784 There's always a one-upper with a useless comment.
@SamS-uv2ql10 ай бұрын
@@SavvyMuhonrhe said stalked, not stalked and murdered. Don't make stuff up please, there is nothing worse than that
@SavvyMuhon10 ай бұрын
@@SamS-uv2ql The woman in the story was stalked and murdered, I’m not making things up.
@justfloatingthrough245710 ай бұрын
This is unfortunately where you have to actively prepare to protect yourself. The police essentially stop protecting you once that phone call ends or you leave their station. Even tho I don’t carry (I’m not against it and I have friends who do), I’m hyper aware of where I can find “weapons” in my house (knives, bats, etc), escape paths, everything is always checked to be locked before sleeping, etc. Even if I know I’m in the house by myself and my doors are 100% locked, I still shower or sleep with the door to that room locked. I’m not messing around haha.
@christopherlopez249110 ай бұрын
Living in Redmond ain’t cheap. Paying so much, you’d think you’d be safe. However.. creepy people know no bounds. That’s insane to hear.
@VanillaMacaron55110 ай бұрын
Costs nothing to sit outside her house in a red truck all day and night.
@romeowandrainbow10409 ай бұрын
How did he get through expensive security systems ! …..
@mssramsunker482010 ай бұрын
I wish law enforcement took Stalking seriously especially when there is evidence in the form of messages, unknown gifts, threats etc...this always seem to end in lost lives! very sad case indeed, and thank you Adrian for always reporting with such empathy and respect for the victims. RIP MRS AND MRS Sadeghi!!! Love from South Africa!
@SirNic418010 ай бұрын
You must protect yourself. The police have no obligation to help or save you. And that's the law.
@Limeydawg-197310 ай бұрын
Trust me they do but only when it's one of them or the 1% . Us common people are fucked..
@Limeydawg-197310 ай бұрын
Trust me they do but only when it's one of them or the 1% . Us common people are fucked..
@praytogodus10 ай бұрын
Absolutely, it's heartbreaking to see cases where stalking is not taken seriously despite clear evidence of threats and harassment. Victims deserve to feel safe and supported by law enforcement. Adrian's empathetic reporting honors the memory of the victims and highlights the urgency of addressing this issue. My condolences to the Sadeghi family, and may they rest in peace. Sending love and solidarity from South Africa.
@melovetorun10 ай бұрын
Arm yourselves.
@madeleinegrace706610 ай бұрын
You are the best true crime KZbinr, you are very respectful. Much love and appreciation ❤
@fionagregory914710 ай бұрын
A true British man that's why.
@KristinShoots10 ай бұрын
thank you so much for highlighting the epidemic that is stalking. it’s still not taken as seriously as it should be.
@gsd822510 ай бұрын
Hello from Ireland 🇮🇪, Adrian. Thanks for the Jill Meagher video.
@Mikelvl310 ай бұрын
I am obsessed with coffee house crime literally the best true crimer on the planet in my book
@anachorafire145310 ай бұрын
Agreed it isn’t copied from others and well done
@mzn53310 ай бұрын
Probably poor choice of words for this episode……..
@BJ-ij4dm10 ай бұрын
You better not turn into a serial killer
@terrancesalazar316210 ай бұрын
Oooooo love coffee house but Stephanie soo the rotten mango channel so good.
@matthewerskine91810 ай бұрын
Ey yo not the vid for that word lmaoo
@stellamansilla184810 ай бұрын
This case really got to me. So unfair how this loving couple got killed by this psycho. They still had so much living to do!
@claudiabothma10 ай бұрын
Being 54 years old, there were always stalkers- it just seems to me that social media has created a scurge of stalkers. It's a concern even commenting with phishing etc that happens. It is terrorism. RIP Zohreh and Mohammed.
@BeckyJB88810 ай бұрын
This is a super rich topic because it’s about how our right to safety is sadly lost due to lack of resources and (or) repercussions for this type of behaviour. Thanks for bringing awareness to the world 🌎 ❤❤❤
@stefaniecosme477410 ай бұрын
Being a DV survivor, I can say with confidence that a piece paper stating that one person needs to stay far away from another doesn’t really work- Especially with someone as Unhinged as the Lunatic Stalker in this video- And, although I’m sure that nothing like this Heartbreaking story would ever happen to me, as my life is Very Low Key to the point where I’m really not even on Social Media, I’m Very Glad to live in a state where it’s Legal to own firearms- Especially given the fact that Wicked men like the one in this case would Never go after people that are Ready, Willing, and Able to Defend themselves- This is also something that I learned from living a life of DV- They Will ALWAYS go after those that are Vulnerable and Defenseless- Anyways, Thanks for another Great (but Sad) video Adrian! Oh, And, the beard is a Good Look for you- Many Blessings to you and your family and Keep up the Great Work!
@Jillhendry2210 ай бұрын
Omw what a sick and twisted individual!!!! What a sad and horrific story. It's so sad that they had to die in such a horrible way , they had such a beautiful life ahead and yet so young. RIP you beautiful couple and my heart goes out to their loved ones . Thanks Adrian for always having so much compassion to the victims whenever you tell their story. Waiting patiently for the next episode.
@misterguy292910 ай бұрын
Its cases like these that remind me that the law rarely protects people. At the best of times its there only to punish after crimes are commited.
@MrTaxiRob10 ай бұрын
we don't have a justice system, we have a legal system
@tigeress909810 ай бұрын
Its awful how some people think that it is acceptable to be this way! He was a coward!
@sergeipohkerova721110 ай бұрын
This is one of my favorite channels. One reason is because is a selfish way, I think, even on my worst days, I can claim that I'm at least not a stalker psycho murderer.
@dyls270210 ай бұрын
It's the same reason jerry springer was so popular my life might be hard but at least I'm not them.
@eleanorchorao487510 ай бұрын
Haha. Same. Low bar tho
@nhmooytis705810 ай бұрын
Or the vic of one.
@iamamaniaint10 ай бұрын
Hey there's still time!
@187mrsmith10 ай бұрын
I just had a stalker if u have that situation take it seriously cus it can go left real quick protect yourself get a restraining order document as much of it as u can so hopefully u can get them arrested b4 its 2 late!
@eleanorchorao487510 ай бұрын
Hey you! Good luck! Can you keep us updated on future coffee house crime episodes? Love and good luck!!
@ThomasSawyers10 ай бұрын
@@eleanorchorao4875wtf💀
@haij1610 ай бұрын
Yes let us know how you are doing please That's why I'm afraid of people now.
@annenelson565610 ай бұрын
I hope you stay safe. Can you set up security cameras?
@susanbodiford910510 ай бұрын
Your right! But a lot of times they can give a damn about a restraining order, more needs to be done
@michellepusczak925710 ай бұрын
When I was 14, my friends uncle who was 21 started to like me, and at one point, he called me and left a voicemail threatening to kidnap me and burn my families home down with them inside it. This murder is terrifying and I’m so sorry for her family
@arealious2510 ай бұрын
WTF
@romeowandrainbow10409 ай бұрын
Hope you reported him, he’s clearly a nonce
@rsh79310 ай бұрын
What a tragic end to a horrific experience 😔 teaching people boundaries and mutual respect is vital to growing sensible and balanced adults and we all have a part to play in it for the future of humanity
@CloudR3tainer10 ай бұрын
🎯
@joanhoffman370210 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, some people ignore/don’t respect boundaries. 😢
@SeraCheeseQueen10 ай бұрын
Ahh perfect timing, I needed something to listen to while getting ready for work. Thankyou Adrian, greetings from Australia! Hope you enjoyed your time here! ☺️
@Sellesion10 ай бұрын
There's a sense of shock listening to this case, as someone who lives near where it all happened. I've got friends and family who've gone to UW Tacoma, and I know the campus well. Moving to Redmond has been reality for many friends and acquaintances. Yet even though this case is so recent I hadnt heard of it before. Zohreh was a person like so many I know and it sure sounds like she was the best of em. Reminds me to check in with my loved ones often- cus you never know. RIP Zohreh and her husband.
@Loveofpets10 ай бұрын
I was stalked twice when I was younger. Restraining orders dont do anything they will still stalk you. Stay safe!
@diane330410 ай бұрын
I was born and raised in Seattle, and still live here. I worked as an electrician for Boeing for 26 years. Great place for coffee, except Starbucks. I'm happy to hear a story about where both of us were born! You need to come back someday!
@joshoshea319410 ай бұрын
You've done really well for yourself with the channel. I didn't realise that you've only been going since Covid? It seems like forever I've been watching? You've provided many hours/years of entertainment so I just wanted to say thank you 🙂
@ericastapleton704210 ай бұрын
RIP Zohreh and Mohammed. How terrifying that must have been for the lovely couple. And she did everything right by taking precautions and notifying the police. Thank you Adrian 💠
@aliwooz91310 ай бұрын
Wow she is extremely beautiful. Poor woman 😢
@tatumquinn639610 ай бұрын
Even though your content is so sad , you bring such a caring and relaxed way of delivering these tragedies. Your voice is so soothing. You must work so hard, you should be proud of the wonderful work you do. ❤ essex England
@persona2grata7 ай бұрын
It's scary how difficult it is to stop an obsessive person from stalking and harassing. Even people with significant resources can find themselves in serious danger, and there don't seem to be many effective mechanisms in place to put a stop to it.
@CourtneyTunbridge7910 ай бұрын
I am usually perfectly fine with murderers no longer being alive to steal oxygen from families of victims and from the rest of society, but in this case im actually fvcking angry he unalived himself the coward because he ABSOLUTELY deserved to live a VERY LONG life which could be spent behind bars. Im so glad you covered this case Adrain, ive only ever seen one other cover this case so im glad to hear it being covered by you. It's not just a very sad story but unbelievably fvcking nuts, i can't explain why this case affected me so deeply, my heart always aches for victims and their families but this one just hit different, im both extremely saddened but equally angry. R.I.P to beautiful Zohreh and Mohammed, you both deserved so much better and this world became a lessor place the moment you were both stolen from it, i hope you are both together in paradise ❤️ 🕊❤️🕊
@caro.caro.957810 ай бұрын
My blood pressure is going up just watching this. So sad.😭 Rest in paradise. 💕🌹🙏🏽
@LanDominiq10 ай бұрын
My mom had 2 stalkers in my lifetime. One was more aggressive and overt about it. He would watch us from far and beat my mom once for trying to move on. He was a long-time boyfriend of hers with very little education but worked hard. The other was a suitor who was more like a friend. He was very sneaky and seemed like a 'nice guy'. This one scared us the most because he broke into the house and vandalized it more than once. The second one NEVER showed his evil side in front of other people; us as kids rarely saw it. Because of this, my sisters and I grew up vigilant and able to spot signs early. I often wonder how lightning struck twice. They were 2 complete different kinds of men with nothing in common; looks nor personality!
@RoseGolden010 ай бұрын
I’ve been so busy with life I haven’t been able to sit down and watch your videos.. I’m binging now. This is such a sad story. RIP 🕊️
@claudiachauke989510 ай бұрын
It's 22:20 here in South Africa 🇿🇦 I will watch tomorrow morning ❤
@leemuraz471310 ай бұрын
I'm watching as I tick in to sleep... Johannesburg
@bradleycrafter208110 ай бұрын
@@leemuraz4713 Me too, I can't wait till morning.
@claudiabothma10 ай бұрын
Hi Claudia! I'm also Claudia in South Africa ! Looks like Adrian has a lot of viewers here.
@claudiachauke989510 ай бұрын
@@claudiabothma He is gaining momentum 👏💯
@claudiachauke989510 ай бұрын
@@leemuraz4713 I'm watching now😁
@Sentai710 ай бұрын
Here this so much when it comes to police. "No violence has been done so we cant do anything. We will keep an eye out". I don't know how true that is because I never been stalked but stalking does need to be taken seriously. This story alone is disturbing and a eye opener.
@33Jenesis10 ай бұрын
Internet makes more and more socially isolated ppl, often from birth. They would be awkward and obsessive, stuck in a mental loop not able to get out. Ppl who live on line due to work or use SM heavily are all potentially in danger if attracted unreasonable attention from a person like this guy (or gal). Address is easy to find. Phone number, too. Although not every stalking case ends in murder, the act itself is heavily damaging to victims’ sense of safety and well being. Living in constant fear is no life at all. Worse yet, fear for loved ones’ safety is even worse.
@saralee67109 ай бұрын
There really needs to be higher punishments for stalking. I had a stalker, and it was horrific. Firstly, getting the police to take action is challenging at best. It went on for 4 months until he delivered a 100+ page, handwritten, account of what I had done, wore, where I had been, and most egregious was his intention to not only sleep with me, but my daughters (actually my 8 & 4 y.o. nieces he believed were my daughters). He sent it with bears and candy for the kids, and roses for me. I did not know this man at all. I did not even know his name, just that he lived next door to my Mum and Dad. My sister owned the next house over, so I was reasonably terrified. Only then did they pick him up, and 26 years later I remember verbatim that defense attorney looked at me to query, " So, what are we really here for? A crush, and a love letter?" I nearly jumped over the table. Seriously, telling me you are waiting to have sex with my "kids," is a "love letter." In the end he only received 3 years, the most infuriating part was the three years was for a probation violation. He was previously restrained from the home he was living in for a previous SA of Mum and younger sister, who still lived in the home. Why was he out of prison to begin with. Mum may be nutters, but the girl was only a teen when I filed, so she must have been rather young. Regardless, I had to relocate both my parents and sister, and am still paranoid about everyone, as I had never even said hello to this person. We're going to have to agree that some people do not need to be rehabilitated back into society, because mental harm to another is a type of death as well. Just because the victim is surviving physically, it should not be a reward of limited responsibility for the perpetrator, as it is simply encouragement that there is a permissible level of cruelty allowed before the criminal is affected. The victim is affected immediately, and often for many years if they survive. This is sad, and infuriating.
@TimelapsedArk10 ай бұрын
What a gods damn shame. Social media can be a nightmare.
@relaxationandsleep422610 ай бұрын
Thank you, Adrian, for highlighting these important cases!
@losouth519410 ай бұрын
I would’ve moved. Changed my name, got an attack dog, security cameras, the kind that blare loud noises and turn on all the lights in the house, gated fence with barbed wire above and on ground outside. I’m not staying around that or trusting the cops would help me. Love your videos but not obsessed lol. Truly sad story..
@SiViC7410 ай бұрын
you probably would never do that on welfare
@praytogodus10 ай бұрын
It's understandable that you would consider extreme measures to ensure your safety in such a situation. Taking steps to protect yourself, including moving and implementing security measures, can be essential for peace of mind and physical safety.
@juliegill627810 ай бұрын
LEAVE THE ANIMALS ALONE!!!!!!!!!! ANIMALS ARE MOST DEFINITELY NOT OUR INDENTURED SERVANTS!!!!!!!!!!!! THEY ARE MOST DEFINITELY NOT ON THIS PLANET TO BE SLAVES TO ANY MEMBER OF THIS TOTALLY STINKING RACE!!!!!!!!!!! FACT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NOT opinion!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THEREFORE, GET OVER YOURSELF AND GET YOUR PRIORITIES STRAIGHTENED PERMANENTLY, NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Julie Gill, Glasgow, Scotland.
@isking171510 ай бұрын
You could do all that and still be looking over your shoulder all day long. Victims should take protective measures but it's these freaks we really need to sort out.
@denisehagwood454210 ай бұрын
I don't think any of that would've stopped this guy
@natasham651010 ай бұрын
You are really so great at always finding new to me stories! And I watch/listen to a lot of crime stories. You always have such a great way of showing what's truly important- the victims and their loved ones. I really appreciate you Adrian! Keep up the great work!
@katiecao6410 ай бұрын
this is so heartbreaking, i never new zohreh, but we went to the same college. may zohreh and mohammad rest in peace.
@lindarackstraw771110 ай бұрын
This is such a sad story. My condolences to all involved.
@sukijay499010 ай бұрын
I’d like clarification on the job of the police. Is it to investigate psychos threatening violence, or is it to swoop in after they have taken the lives of their victims and stand around looking grim?
@silentbliss766610 ай бұрын
Of course it's the latter duh...
@Komainu95910 ай бұрын
The police are not body guards and you really don't want them to have the power to arrest someone because they THINK the person may commit a crime. That is not how our laws and Constitutional rights are structured. The best they can do is arrest someone for Stalking which can range from a misdemeanor to felony in most States- so you're looking at what- 6 month to maybe 2 years if no probation. You think the stalker is going to forgive and forget when they get out?
@iamamaniaint10 ай бұрын
@@Komainu959translation: There's nothing police can do about stalking, just deal with it. They're police, not protectors. It's not their job to try and prevent crime, just help clean up the aftermath and make it look like a job well done. Sounds pretty depressing to me and this negligence has resulted in a lot of deaths. But hey, give the cops a break, man.
@hannabanana59210 ай бұрын
Adrian! I've been watching you since the beginning and can't believe you're almost at 2M subs! Well deserved!! And I'd like to think I helped a little as I told everyone I know (and don't know online) to watch your amazing videos. 😁
@FlamingBasketballClub10 ай бұрын
The fact that Redmond Police Department did absolutely nothing is insane.
@FlamingBasketballClub10 ай бұрын
@@HappyDanceThrifter Yep. Now they are regretting the decision. 💀💀💀
@bura1910 ай бұрын
@@HappyDanceThrifter Nobody defunded anything. That has zero to do with anything, especially when it comes to stalking. Cops routinely do NOTHING about stalking until it's too late.
@bura1910 ай бұрын
@@FlamingBasketballClubWhy would they? Cops have always done nothing about stalking until it's too late. The imaginary defunding has nothing to do with what happened.
@CBass-mn5dy10 ай бұрын
Yea...they were in the epicenter of the "defund the police" activism... they were probably under manned by 2022.
@iamamaniaint10 ай бұрын
@@HappyDanceThrifteryeah that seems like a mature decision for a police department. People are saying mean things so we're going to slack off and let people die. Does that sound admirable to you? Get your head out of whatever political hell hole you've got it buried in.
@shibasurfing10 ай бұрын
I was stalked by someone in uni. They got me by surprise at first and went from there. Even contacted former high school friends and acquaintances. It was so incredibly violating. I finally managed to get everything locked down enough that they couldn’t keep doing that, but I can’t even imagine what could have happened if that didn’t finally deter them.
@AnthonyJ50410 ай бұрын
Why didn't the alarm sound? What happened to the top notch security system?
@devotedlyjo8 ай бұрын
It's absolutely horrendous and disgusting that stalkers aren't taken seriously.
@sarahcullis146410 ай бұрын
I really don't know how you police a stalker, unless you can lock them up, a piece of paper will not stop someone determined to hurt their target. I am so sorry her mum had to see her baby die in front of her.
@EnfvntTerrible10 ай бұрын
You're right, a paper won't protect them from direct harm, but that's not the point of a restraining order, they're put in place so that IF and WHEN the stalker does something to violate the order, then it is grounds for arrest and further police intervention. I had an ex nearly 5 years ago now that ended up stalking me and leaving letters in my parents letterbox, it became incredibly intrusive and i'd get over 70 phone calls a day from private numbers and constant message requests on social media, I then filed a restraining order against her and now if she does something again i can easily go to the cops and a more serious and immediate action will be taken. Funnily enough, she has sent me a message request in the last few weeks, i immediately blocked her new account but don't feel immediately threatened to notify the police but if i did i know she would be in huge trouble due to the order against her, i always lowkey joke that if i ever go missing or something happens to me it's cause she did it ha.
@judithsullivan970310 ай бұрын
Whoever was the authority that went to his home and gave him a warning?.. He had already been to her front door... That was enough evidence at that point to have arrested him for threatening behavior and tracking her down narrowing her position to her home. Law enforcement failed in their responsibility to protect. They already knew his residence it's easy to check the truck trucking company and find out when he would be in between deliveries. When she went to the Redmond police and told them of everything that was happening with the packages and the hotel invitations over and over again all they said was let us know when there's something new that happens... No that's just not taking the situation seriously enough or being irresponsible and ignoring their responsibility to protect and serve.
@silentbliss766610 ай бұрын
@@judithsullivan9703you'll be surprised that the police did what they could according to their protocol for a harassment case. They will never admit that it was their oversight that caused the situation to escalate into a homicide. Someone need to push the government for a change in legislation so that law enforcement will take more serious and effective actions in the future
@judithsullivan970310 ай бұрын
@@EnfvntTerrible There is actually so much more the police could have done letters are a tangible piece of evidence regardless of restraining order that show a pattern of harassing behavior and a reasonable transgression of your privacy when you had set a limit. .The lack of police response in these situations has become acceptable. Policing is not just showing up with a gun and handcuffs, We have become accepting of a Rambo kind of police officer rather than the kind of police officer that we learned were always a safe resource. Just look at police officer with their bulletproof vests and all of different weapons mace expandable clubs and other accoutrements hanging off them. They are militarized andno longer the same police that were designed for community based policing. They are no longer interested in knowing their communities they respond with force and it has become the rare exception that they become any kind of resource for negotiation or mediation of an issue.
@EnfvntTerrible10 ай бұрын
@@judithsullivan9703 my comment has nothing to do with how much the police could’ve done, that just happens to be the law - obviously the police failed these two in protecting them further after a restraining order was in place, and then violated. I was just explaining how obviously a piece of paper doesn’t protect you the way people think it does. If you read my comment you’d see what point in making, not here to argue, was just giving an explanation. have a great night :)
@PricefieldPunk10 ай бұрын
This has got to be the biggest fear of any normal streamer/podcaster/youtuber has.
@confessorsedai10 ай бұрын
Didn’t they have a good security system? You’d think it would’ve gone off blaring if someone broke the window- otherwise, what’s the point of having one?
@CloudR3tainer10 ай бұрын
🎯 smdh 🤦♂️
@sneak91610 ай бұрын
Just an assumption but the security could just be cameras at the front and rear doors of the home. Window sensors are quite rare for people to purchased
@paulatavares522010 ай бұрын
I think they said he entered through a open window.
@belle.m10 ай бұрын
They also had a restraining order. This guy was obsessed. He found her phone number and address. A security system was not going to stop him. They should have hired a bodyguard
@silentbliss766610 ай бұрын
Zohreh's mother was the 'security system'
@kirstylfc2810 ай бұрын
My insomnia has kicked in early this Thursday night, even my meds aren't helping, then a coffeehouse crime video drops!!!! It's like Adrian knew!! Yeah!!!
@melissamoonchild921610 ай бұрын
insomnia is rough, I had some terrible bouts last year.
@kirstylfc2810 ай бұрын
@TheRealCatof I'll look at that thanks x yes I've been on several meds and I can fall asleep after taking but can't have a sustained sleep. So once I wake, whether it's been 20 minutes or an hour and a half, my brain believes I've had full night's sleep! It's awful I'm tired all day but hoping one day I'll get past it x
@rohanasmith1067 ай бұрын
So even the top security system didn't help? That's a bit strange. And the guy didn't think of buying a gun himself?
@thehaglin10 ай бұрын
Stalking needs to be taken more seriously! We need tough legislation to take into consideration the electronic component more seriously too. My boyfriend, now husband, and I were stalked by a guy long before the internet became suave a major part of everyone’s lives. I can’t imagine how terrifying our situation would have been with that component added onto what we were experiencing.
@kellyscott636110 ай бұрын
This is a wonderful channel - the videos are so well done! Thanks very much for bringing these stories to your viewers - even when they’re tragic, they provide interesting and educational accounts of situations of real people. My heart breaks for those injured or killed and for their loved ones as well. ❤
@peterkeigwin84710 ай бұрын
Two very bright lights gone. RIP 🙏
@Carter-f6x10 ай бұрын
This makes me sick to my stomach. RIP to the victims. I’m currently being stalked and the police are doing absolutely nothing. I’m so scared it will escalate to this
@gailmiller633310 ай бұрын
@user-qt4iv1vr8q I sincerely feel so sorry and and anger about your situation. However I would like to offer a suggestion and, again, I’m very sincere and serious. As you know a Restraining Order is a mere piece of paper therefore, do “whatever” you have to do to permanently solved the problem. Please remember it is better to be tried by twelve than carried by six. I speak from experience, although I didn’t have to go on “vacation” for a while, if I would had to it wouldn’t have mattered to me at all, I’m still amount the living. I sincerely hope your situation is improved soon and you can go on with your life without living in fear. Be safe and take care.
@cassiem389310 ай бұрын
So sad, such a lovely and compassionate couple! 😰 RIP to them both.
@jackwalls717010 ай бұрын
They had the money to move, why put up with all that? They needed to go stay with the mother, not the other around. RIP
@annenelson565610 ай бұрын
Stalkers will follow them almost anywhere so moving doesn’t always help.
@boba333110 ай бұрын
Considering he drove from Texas to Washington to stalk her, I really don't think moving would have actually helped in this case. They probably wouldn't have been able to move fast enough to not tip him off, and even if they did he would have quickly figured it out and just tracked her down again. Unfortunately police just don't do enough to protect victims in these cases - these people are completely unhinged and will not stop unless forced.
@romeowandrainbow10409 ай бұрын
Totally agree they had the money to move anywhere !
@mscotthem197310 ай бұрын
This was so heartbreaking watching the coverage when it happened. Thank you for covering this case, Adrian(not sure of the spelling).❤❤❤
@thomasmyers912810 ай бұрын
You mean that piece of paper didn’t make that man stop…. 2nd amendment….. You are your 1st line of defense….
@annenelson565610 ай бұрын
For once I agree with the Second Amendment defense. I’d need lessons and would most definitely get them in order to be competent.
@Rasengan57810 ай бұрын
The police are literally under no obligation to protect you. Stay strapped, friends.
@xcel00710 ай бұрын
@@Rasengan578 Uvalde was proof of this
@DaWorzt9910 ай бұрын
Wise words my friend ..like the late Billy the kids said I can make you famous 🔫
@iamamaniaint10 ай бұрын
@@Rasengan578they are obligated, they just don't. It's in their motto: to protect and serve. Ya knucklehead.
@elvirahernandez854610 ай бұрын
Just wanted to share that I appreciate how respectful and kind you are towards the victims. It’s insane how people have the entitlement towards others and feel they are allowed to harm others because of that mentality. This was a great video once again! A nice way to spend my lunch. Keep the hard work up Adrian!
@weirdstring9 ай бұрын
The police failed them. Protect yourself. Arm yourself
@rileymilan10 ай бұрын
Every time someone mentions Christina, my heart aches 💚
@budduhkaq934310 ай бұрын
Cheers from Wisconsin. Keep up the good work!
@tdillonaniawhitaker120010 ай бұрын
Thank you for all you do. Thank you for not just jumping on the " idaho " bandwagon. You have always done the neatest case coverage....in a world all your own . Thank you, sir ,and keep on keeping on ❤
@onetiredempath10 ай бұрын
I appreciate CoffeeHouse Not jumping on that bandwagon too Too many have covered it and Lots have covered it poorly and just to be in the “In Crowd”
@jackiel.178010 ай бұрын
I experienced a stalking ex when I was 16 and I’m glad I got out before I ended up dead. Stalking has to be taken seriously
@MariAsherahRose10 ай бұрын
Adrian, I love a neatly trimmed beard and it really looks good on you. As always, you do an amazing job covering these horrible cases.
@AnaxErik4ever10 ай бұрын
Love the channel, and drinking chai lattes while I listen to Adrian. I wince whenever we cover perpetrators that can be considered yanderes, for those who understand what this type of obsessed, stubborn, destructive personality type is called in Japan. Hmm... that reminds me that I really like the Asia/Australia cases covered here.
@user-browngirl753 ай бұрын
i was stalked by a rapist years ago. it was the most terrifying experience of my life. now that i have moved far away i feel safer. so heartbreaking this case😢
@bradleycrafter208110 ай бұрын
I was on my way to bed 22:53 pm and then a notification and I had to watch, perfect as always.
@fiona956310 ай бұрын
I love you Adrian!! Thank you for sharing these stories and being so respectful of those the world has lost❤
@thetman00689 ай бұрын
Cases like this are why women absolutely should learn how to use firearms for self-defense, and carry them close!
@Voicelet10 ай бұрын
This sort of case always leaves me ponder how many victims we are going to have until the laws deal with stalking proactively rather than reactively.
@rachaelghostcat858410 ай бұрын
So sad, rest in peace to the beautiful couple!
@Andy_0L10 ай бұрын
After these kinds of things have happened so many times already, I still don't understand how they are not forcing these people to wear a tracker that informs the victim and the police if they get near, it's always when it's too late that they seem to care more about it
@silentbliss766610 ай бұрын
That's how law enforcement manage their cases, it's the same for missing persons, domestic violence, sexual assault, speeding, DUI, you name it
@ahmedhassaballa545310 ай бұрын
I feel terrible after hearing this.may they rest in peace and give their loved ones patience and love.
@spookyashes855510 ай бұрын
ADRIAN, YOU WIZARD ❤ i literally JUST finished brewing some coffee and then sat down to the notification of your post that i got while i did so. how do you do that so often?! thank you for your efforts, as always :)
@Atmatan10 ай бұрын
You manifest your own mirror. Remember that next time your fears arise.