When a woman REFUSES to admit she's WRONG; with 2 examples & what men need to look out for...

[@jeffvalasek4774]

Fence girl - "It's not that I 'm ungrateful'"... Yes, it's abuyndantly clear that you ARE ungrteful.

[@Richard_Nickerson]

Abundantly* Ungrateful*

[@NerdlySquared]

“I wasn’t cheating, I opened our relationship, so you see how it’s ok”

[@adam.dzwoniarek72]

she's not a thinker

[@Sticks04]

Well she's obviously not a do'er either. She's a passenger princess.

[@nigsbalchin226]

I disagree. It was obvious that she was grateful that he tried, but in her opinion he made an artistic decision without her input, and that's unacceptable and she's going to put him right on that mistake. She's not saying that he did it wrong, just that he got the esthetics wrong, and needs to fix it.

[@SteveK139]

As a homeowner, I'm very handy. I've put on my own roof and installed my furnace. My wife always comes and makes sure I have enough to drink and eat while I'm working. I love when she asks questions, so I can explain exactly why and what goes into each job. LOVE IT! But her expertise is the decorating and filling the house with stuff. It looks fantastic because we both know the strengths of the other.

[@Muslera_81]

Those type women are housewife material and that's what this generation of entitled feminists won't understand. They get taught that these social media fake life styles are the future and the only talent they really have is one maybe two body parts that are interesting. Sad. Enjoy your life buddy

[@asolaris6470]

If she is UNTEACHABLE or UNWILLING to CONSIDER possibilities, DUMP and RUN AWAY.

[@templarrising6299]

It's the girl boss me me me.. kryptonite to men

[@oterosocram25]

*****COMMENT FROM ABIBLICAL PERSPECTIVE HERE***** After some years of marriage, its not worth it, do the right thing, bring the matter before knowledgable people such as an insurance employee or a lawyer, then keep walking.

[@NerdlySquared]

People are way too willing to just suggest ending marriages over some pretty petty stuff. Ungrateful behaviour needs to be pointed out and checked tho, before it expands, which it will.

[@oterosocram25]

@@NerdlySquared Agree.

[@Loosehead]

Depends on what she is wrong about? If she thinks Israel have gone too far, but doesn't think the hostages need to be released, dump and run away. If she mixes grape and grain, that's not so bad.

[@canebro1]

Posting online and asking random internet strangers for their opinion rather than asking her own husband is a HUGE RED FLAG!!

[@rushelm8101]

But typical.

[@canebro1]

@@rushelm8101 Sadly true :(

[@dadymadass]

Aha... You are sleeping with her? Because you know right 😆😏

[@paulrust316]

Who said she didn't? She was asking what other guys thought. My answer involved the front door & a work boot. Cause I've been there & done that & now I'm happy.

[@adamfindlay7091]

Ahhh yeah.

[@ancienttech4636]

Small toddlers and animals cannot fall through the smaller gaps at the bottom. As they grow, their heads and bodies can't fit through the larger openings higher up. He's absolutely 100% right! He's a great Dad!

[@ancienttech4636]

My now-ex ladyfriend asked me to find out why her furnace was having trouble heating the house. When I checked, she had installed a restrictive Merv 8 filter on her 40 year old unit, and the airflow wss very slow, so the furnace was in overheat. Blower kept running, gun cycled on and off. Classic case. When I installed the correct filter for the unit, the house warmed up immediately, but the ducts banged when the unit would turn on. I told her that I would brace the return duct to quiet it, but she wasn't having it. She installed another Merv 8 and the system immediately went back into overheat. The argument was fierce. I lost. I still care very deeply about her, but I am no longer responsible for her situation. Very sad.

[@exothermal.sprocket]

As someone with logic and a farming background, this is a "duh" moment. But I guess reasoning isn't the strong suit of the average person.

[@exothermal.sprocket]

@@ancienttech4636 Reminds me of some conversations with my mother. Due to the fact she cannot process science, physics, mechanics, or basic troubleshooting logic, whatever emotional attachment she has created to "conditions" in the house is all that she cares about. If those conditions change in a way that bothers her emotionally, it matters NOTHING what logic, science, physics, math, or reason you can talk about. Just the fact you attempt to employ reason against her emotional conditions, signals to her that she is being opposed, disregarded, disrespected, argued with.

[@Capohanf1]

Just tell the woman it is City Building Code for it to be that way.

[@dbird1356]

It’s a safety thing. This woman needs to realize she is unknowledgeable and unappreciative. He was doing the work. He made the decision re the fence… the right decision. And she not only is unappreciative but she has the gall to post a video. Strike one!

[@BillPeschel]

What a world. I would never let my wife record our private, intimate conversations for online consumption. Period full stop.

[@katemiller7874]

Thank you. Never. I wondered if he was doing it?

[@johnscott2849]

It’s really no one’s concern other than for those involved. She’s being a bitch to say the least. Once again WTF is wrong with people? Let’s whine and complain to people I don’t even know because I think he is wrong. WTF never mind if anything makes sense.

[@corwintodd5131]

Amen to that brother.

[@FT4Freedom]

This is extremely important to a free society. Privacy.

[@MrJerichoPumpkin]

yep, that's a skit, it's not real

[@williamsekely1476]

The insurance bit had me yelling. Every car on the road needs to have at least liability insurance!

[@abelauclair8976]

I did the same thing. dear lord. it protect you from bodily injury and property damage you might do to another party so they don't SUE YOU and end up living in your house owning all your stuff. someone needs to sit that lady down and explain shit to her.

[@rafmatt1607]

They should have insurance, but as far as law/regulations, it depends on the state.

[@CanadaBud23]

@@rafmatt1607 NEED. Insurance is MANDATORY everywhere. Whether or not how it's used/required there is varying stipulations of insurance.

[@coryowen1949]

I wish I could have seen the continuation / conclusion of the insurance video. She was obviously under the impression that insurance was only for crash repair on your own vehicle. He never was shown explaining what insurance really entails, like liability versus collision and comprehensive coverage. I'm guessing since him explaining the difference wasn't shown, maybe he never did attempt to explain. So all we see is her chattering on, still thinking she did him a favor. Scream worthy for sure, William. Maybe Emily could explain why there wasn't more to the video.

[@BallstotheWalnuts]

It's not real

[@dx3354]

Congratulations on your new home. Thank you for advocating for men’s issues, perspectives and feelings. I’m so grateful.

[@davidp2888]

"It's not that I'm ungrateful...but I'm ungrateful."

[@crafty1098]

Yeah, she's already resenting having to show gratitude and so the nitpicking is meant to devalue his work so she gets the help and doesn't have to reciprocate. See also: any time a man helps out with chores.

[@marcuschauvin7039]

​@@crafty1098yup!

[@KatanaKamisama]

If he asked her to make a sandwich, and then told her she did it wrong and he wanted her to go make it better.... imagine

[@jtowensbyiii6018]

Ungrateful? It's much worse, it's hatred

[@sbarmiueenl]

"He's gonna be mad when I ..." and yet she does it. Getting him mad is the whole point. It's her way of vampiring off his energy.

[@Tomsthumb]

If they can't look themselves in the mirror then I Guess looks aren't good enough.

[@davidharnden8851]

I’m a building inspector. You are correct that it is REQUIRED to do it the way he did.

[@yunthi]

was about to comment on this, in finland a cube with the dimensions 6cm*6cm*6cm must not fit between the fence at the bottom. (if i remember correctly) im not entirely sure if this is just the bottom or the entire fence tho. i am curious, what do the regulations say about the rest of the fense?

[@777Looper]

Yeah I got certified as a home inspector, but didn't do it much. From what I remember there was nothing specifying the bottom of the bannister. Pretty sure it's anywhere on it. But it does make sense that you would want to prioritize the places where baby heads or small pets would be poking through.

[@yunthi]

@@777Looper my own expertise is in glass panels, so the size of the holes never were a thing id need to know about ^^

[@muskokamike127]

the key words out of her mouth are the answer: "I don't know why he did it this way" so instead of finding out why, aka gaining knowledge, she made a video.

[@vinceradical8910]

THANK YOU!!

[@GinasUTubeAccount]

My son just told me to watch your vids. OMG so true!!!!! You are so on point. Women often are quick to point out men's shortfalls so it is very refreshing to see a woman calling out women for doing it to men.

[@vkdeen7570]

It's because feminism has taught women to try to compete with men at all times and thus they're always looking to tare men down even their own man

[@ThePoopsmith-12345]

I’m regularly reminded of when I’m wrong, like several times a day. My wife only ONCE said she is sorry in our 10 years of marriage. I know it’s just one time because it was so memorable.

[@kevinc1593]

Clip 2 (No insurance): Even in her explanation she doesn’t consider if in an accident one of them was at fault. That is a quick way to lose everything you own, starting with your house.

[@Defhrone]

not just that, she believed not only that her husband was wrong, but also the police officer. Basically anyone could have been involved and she would claim them all to be wrong

[@scottzeezee4343]

You don’t need “comprehensive” that covers your car but it is the law that you need ”liability” that covers other people and their property.

[@johnleeson6946]

The fact that she didn't even tell him she did it is more troubling than what she did. After the divorce, I hope she gets her cats at the local Rescue Shelter.

[@silvergrizzly316]

​@@johnleeson6946🤣 ikr, LMAO!!!!!!😂😂😂

[@sarumano884]

@@scottzeezee4343 "Third Party, Fire and Theft" over in Britain. Basic level insurance which is REQUIRED BY LAW.

[@Ridingrules10000]

"It's not that I'm ungrateful..." yes. That's exactly what it is. If you asked me to redo it, I would say no. That is stellar work. She'll never, ever be happy until enough people tell her "no" and she does some self-reflection on why she's can't be satisfied with anything, ever.

[@aquietpatron7281]

Telling someone they did it wrong without listening to their explanation is a great way to piss them off. Suggestions are more readily accepted if done after listening.

[@slartibartfast2452]

She didn't bother to even do a 10 second internet search to find out she is wrong about the railing before she assumes he is wrong.

[@Fred2-123]

The bad part isn't that she didn't do any research. The bad part is that she didn't ask him why he did it that way. Actually the REALLY bad part is that she posted a video. That is massive and unforgivable disrespect.

[@slartibartfast2452]

@Fred2-123 like when a boss shows up on site half way through the day. Comes to you and just starts making accusations. Instead of saying hey what are ya up to.

[@darrenskjoelsvold]

As an insurance agent, she's absolutely wrong.

[@Hope_Boat]

She knows. She just wants her husband to get rid of his car to spend the money on new shoes and stuff.

[@thoughtfulalbatros9683]

As a 4 yo child, she’s absolutely wrong

[@danc7904]

Maybe she is from NH? No insurance requirement there.

[@uncle0eric]

Well, but you're a male insurance agent. Therefore, something.

[@darrenskjoelsvold]

@@danc7904 accent is wrong.

[@lockitdownduck4033]

To many women always looking for something to complain about. So true.

[@Youre-Welcome]

Said like a true incel 😂

[@lockitdownduck4033]

@ said with fact. Only thin skin people play all those terms incel etc. it’s called real men not soy boy wimpy men wearing skinny jeans.

[@lockitdownduck4033]

@ did you shave your head so men will do humanity a favor and stay away from your woke delusional mind. By the way millions of women of all colors also voted for Trump. Not a woman who never received one vote in any primary. Do much for democracy. Have a nice day.

[@johnblackhead2384]

The panels on the fence have smaller openings at the bottom to keep small children and small pets from getting stuck. He did it correctly.

[@04658IFH]

Well, you are totally right on how well that wire works in a deck railing, but the part everyone seems to be missing is that is Hog Panel. It's an agricultural product that found its way onto Pinterest and into the hearts of housewives everywhere. I bet she asked for hog panel railings and that is exactly what her husband installed.

[@DangerRat]

Another thing to consider is that this hog wire has horizontal wires. Some toddlers will use those horizontal parts as a ladder and climb right up and over. If she really wanted it done right they should have used vertical railing posts (again spaced close enough together to prevent kids falling through) or spend the money for clear glass panels.

[@Starteller]

She wanted all small, like the one she saw at a store

[@stevejohnson9340]

They are called hog slats. They’re built that way to keep small piglets from getting through.

[@Geonet1]

Emily, you are an absolute star to me and I guess THE kind of woman so many men would look out for in their lives but never find...

[@BornRandy62]

He used hog panels for the fencing. They are made exactly the way you described small spacing at the bottom Baby oinkers are tiny. They could get out of the fencing. He cut them to fit so he owns them now. There is no taking them back.

[@BornRandy62]

There are hog panels that are about 4 feet tall and cattle panels that are about 5 to 6 foot tall. Cattle panels have the same sized openings everywhere. But there would be material waste because the size opening they would cut to fit would leave a larger unusable panel . besides of the charge. Cattle panels cost more.

[@templarrising6299]

Absolutely, it's much more safe with small pets & kids.. she is gross for making and then posting a video of it.. I could never be with a woman like that

[@robertmcginness4610]

And if it's his house alone he can do whatever he wants to it. I was the sole owner of my house till she defrauded it by lying bout me.

[@robertmcginness4610]

In women's world you don't have to admit wrong to men. It's OK to lie even under oath & for many ( not all) but for over all you may never criticize a female! WHOA!. ...

[@jkline999]

@@templarrising6299 no they are not safe. kids will climb it.

[@gustaflindstrom379]

I love your videos regardless. Stop apologizing about the background! What you are saying is what is important.

[@wd6919]

when my wife and I were newlyweds, she was making chicken and rice, she put the casserole dish in the oven with the plastic lid on it. I told her she needed to take it off or it would melt. She said no, the recipe calls for it to be covered. I held my tongue and let her do it. After a little bit she starts smelling something strange but goes about her business. When the timer went off she went to the oven and sure enough the lid had melted into the casserole. We had mac n cheese that night for dinner, but we had a very valuable lesson and a memory we look back on now and laugh about. She listens to me about stuff since then. 🤣

[@JohnMcClain-p9t]

It seems to me you've found a rare and wonderful woman, good luck!

[@hermanl920]

There are some women / wives that ==STILL== dismiss what their husbands say even after being schooled.

[@kevthepoet]

After reading all these comments I was expecting this story to end with her not admitting her mistake or somehow blaming you 😂 actually a rare happy ending 😅

[@Oridiian]

I had a similar thing happen when I was little, but it was my dad who wouldn't listen. He was refilling a glass olive oil bottle from a large can we had in the pantry, and spilled it all over the bottle. Mum said "you better clean that before you pick it up", followed by "oh shush, I just need to get it over to the sink". 10 seconds later... *SMASH*, as they both slowly look up from the floor and make eye contact. No further words necessary, as dad silently went and retrieved a mop and bucket. The story comes up every family xmas dinner lol =)

[@McTaco]

Minor inconvenience for a long term lesson and memory.

[@mwtaytay]

I have to say, and I’m not trying to be disrespectful to your fiancé or make a pass at you but every so often I’ll watch one of your videos and the one thing that always comes to mind is that it’s so refreshing to see a genuinely happy beautiful woman, I cannot tell you how uncommon that is these days! Great vids btw

[@misterknight3901]

In the second video I lived in this lifestyle for many years. The sad thing is, at any time a complete stranger could tell her the truth and she'd believe him. But she'll never believe the man she's living with. Its a very frustrating life. The man only reason I stuck around is because of our kids.

[@lucaburzio282]

I experienced the same in different topics: sports, hobby, daily life, car. You are right: a stranger can say anything and she will believe immediately, but if it comes from the partner it will generate only discussions and only because you are the partner and with the partner everything is allowed. No way baby. That is frustrating and kill your energy and enthusiasm day by day.

[@gladiammgtow4092]

People that do that are often Narcissists. She was trying to devalue and belittle you. Run away from her.

[@janosd4nuke]

​@@gladiammgtow4092 so glad that you said 'often' and not overgeneralized. Because yeah, can be an indicator of narcissism. But in a sadder case it's a more salvageable insecurity issue. Since women tend to be more emotional, if you as her partner disagree with her even if you are right, she may precieve it as de valuing her and a threat to the peace of the relationship, thus she gets defensive. With a stranger on the other hand, she has no attachment, no relationship to protect, so she has an easier time to remain in a logical frame of mind thus open to new information. Then again, a woman who accepts bearing your child, yet still doesn't trust your judgment & knowledge at all, now her mindset is FUBAR.

[@runesimenstad8864]

@@janosd4nuke Same with my marriage. She would listen to anyone but me even if i had explained thing's to her earlier. That was when I understand that she had no respect for me. Things got worse and I ended the marriage after our daughter moved out to go to the university.

[@justsome-guy7596]

I'm 100% familiar with this one

[@SusanVivian-g3l]

This intriguing video serves as a poignant reminder of the heartache I've been enduring since my 7-year relationship came to an end 3 months ago. My cherished partner, the love of my life, made the difficult decision to part ways, leaving me consumed by thoughts of him. Despite my earnest attempts to win him back, I find myself facing frustration and an overwhelming sense of emptiness, unable to envision a life without his presence. Despite my efforts to move on, I'm compelled to confess my lingering feelings and longing for him here.

[@malitatyre8219]

The process of releasing a loved one can be an uphill battle. I can relate, having navigated a similar journey when my 8-year relationship dissolved. Despite the heartache, I refused to relinquish hope and embarked on a quest to win her back. Turning to a spiritual counselor for assistance, I found guidance that ultimately led to our reconciliation.

[@SusanVivian-g3l]

How did you manage to connect with a spiritual counselor, and what's the process for me to reach out to her?

[@malitatyre8219]

Allow me to introduce Suzanne Ann Walters, a highly skilled spiritual counselor known for her expertise in rekindling past relationships.

[@SusanVivian-g3l]

Thank you for this invaluable information; I've just checked her out online. Very impressive indeed!

[@Tumid1]

Perhaps if you had made "earnest attempts" to listen to what bothered him & modify your behavior, you could have avoided him leaving you. You use terms like cherished partner & love of my life, but if you had actually treated him like he was...he wouldn't have ended the relationship. All men, before they leave give woman MANY opportunities to save the relationship, but you figured he was the one who needed to change. Well Susan he did change.....his address. Btw, your post reads like a cheap romance novel suggesting you probably have a difficult time distinguishing fiction from reality.....he dodged a bullet.

[@cryptojihadi265]

OF COURSE, the second woman can't figure out why you need insurance on a low value car. Like most, she's pathologigcally narcisstic; the thought of carrying insurance to protect someome ELSE THEY might hurt, never crosses their mind.

[@tonyp.bahama9368]

Im a man and insurance is a scam.

[@thoughtfulalbatros9683]

@@tonyp.bahama9368say that again when you’ve crashed into a train bridge causing 87 million in damages… 😂 I think car insurance is probably the only one I’d agree with BECAUSE it protects others Things like breakage insurance deffo is tho

[@chrismay2298]

@@tonyp.bahama9368 Yep. These normies are insufferable. IT'S MANDATORY!! Yeah, I don't follow rules that don't make sense.

[@Psilo-gn1sx]

​@@chrismay2298 yeah, I would think that too if my premium were 15% of the car's net worth

[@mylesleggette7520]

@@tonyp.bahama9368 I used to feel this way, until I hit another car through no fault of my own. You're not wrong - it IS a "scam" of sorts that we all participate in, but when the drug-addicted idiot sued me for $500k and the jurors thought that whoever had damage to the front of their car was automatically liable, I was damn glad I was participating in the scam.

[@thelastdarknova]

Honestly the way you approach a topic or ask will completely negate majority of fights. Ask, from a point of curiosity, why he did the fence that way, there is usually a reason and I’ve noticed that men (or at least my husband) likes to talk about how/ what he did with stuff like this. Also, Being able to admit you are wrong or even just admitting the possibility that you might be wrong goes a LONG way! Humility will never go out of style lol.

[@billstarr9396]

This is true! To this day my ex-wife cannot or will not answer a direct question. Not even to save her own life.

[@dewardroy6531]

You married her; what were you thinking?

[@RichWards-Wins]

​@@dewardroy6531he said EX wife. Dude came to his senses.

[@hyabusa22]

The question women love to answer or hate to answer is “why” they will never treat it like a normal question. It gets them super excited or super enraged. Pay attention next time you ask a female why for anything they do.

[@mylesleggette7520]

My wife cannot answer any questions involving numbers without giving me a whole song-and-dance first. It doesn't matter what the topic is, even the most innocuous questions ("How much water did you drink today? How many stops did your train go?") will be met with hemming and hawing before I finally get her to spit out the answer. "How much did you spend on groceries today?" "Well, first I was just going to get dinner, but then I though about how our son needs more snacks, and then I figured we could stock up on...."

[@yestfmf]

With, regrettably, one exception: “will you marry me?”

[@smonroeh]

Don't worry about the background Emm, it's your beautiful self that you're here to watch.

[@mr.goodwrench8273]

I am so glad I am single. I used to be married, and I had to deal with her being wrong constantly, negatively affecting our lives, and not coming clean on any of it. Argumentative and melo-dramatic. High maintenance. It is so rare to find a lady of whom is not like that.

[@crafty1098]

This is how men see it. Emily isn't wrong about the relationship part, but for men, the big part we notice is the problem solving side. My first thought isn't that she's ungrateful or emasculating. It's that she's ignorant and argumentative. I think women often do know that they're wrong but feel powerful not having to admit it. But even a man who gives in will quietly revise his opinion of her to be stupid at best, psycho at worst. If it was a s&$# test, then she wins I guess. But it hardly matters because the man is quietly revising his decision about whether she is marriage material.

[@gladiammgtow4092]

99% of females are like that. Ego and emotional driven.

[@DarKnight0064]

They are rare maybe and I do get where your coming from buddy, but, I've been married for 21 years in November and its my first and I've been ( maybe ) lucky 😊 but if ( and im sure you are ) your a good guy with a good heart, you know there is a lady for you looking 😉 too ! Wish you luck not that it sounds like you will need it 👍 Best

[@justsome-guy7596]

I wonder how many guys here reading this note, knows the 'I'm always doing it wrong' feeling?

[@carladossantos1142]

We always draw from our past experiences. But don't let that make you believe that good women are rare. There are still some out there. Men have hurt me so much in the past, and although there are times when I get really sad for still being single, I never think that all men are crap. I've done the inner work and I know there is one good guy meant for me. When people are healed is when you don't see this type of disgusting behavior and thus when relationships/marriage work so beautifully. You deserve to be loved in a better way. Don't lose hope and change your belief: I can still remarry a good woman, there's a good woman out there for me :) ❤

[@raymondroberts7243]

Emily, God bless you for what you do. You speak the truth, and you are helping many relationships be better. There is no better way to spend a life than teaching people how to love. Bravo.

[@ekidmusic]

I get high blood pressure just by watching the second story. 😂

[@minovskyecm3596]

You and me both, I would have said ok, lets fight it, but you need to be there to speak to the judge in my defense. Then i would bring some popcorn on trial date.

[@klenz9581]

@minovskyecam3596 definitely. He might even get a night of peace as well after the judge finds her in contempt for arguing with the judge that she is right.

[@jacobheinz8236]

Emily, you’re spot on with these 2 cases. Other than walking away ( if you’re not married ) what can men do? Being married I know and appreciate these kind of experiences. It’s very sad but also very real in my married experiences.

[@falsificationism]

My ex never (in our nearly 10-year relationship) apologized. Ever. For anything. It was like she was allergic to apologies, even if she was egregiously wrong. And I was also always the one apologizing, even for silly things (e.g., burning the dinner). It was such a lopsided relationship. I think a lot of guys can relate to this too. Not just accepting wrongdoing, but apologizing for it too.

[@srivera4339]

I am sorry you went through that and you probably won't believe this but I am one to say sorry and say I am wrong if I am wrong not just in a relationship but for any situation

[@falsificationism]

@@srivera4339 Thanks. I think it's healthy to acknowledge wrongdoing, and to be open to being wrong when it's warranted. I interpret it as a sign of maturity and humility. Good to have some confidence when we're right too...having a backbone is also healthy. With my previous relationship though, I'd stay firm for a while, but then get the silent treatment until I apologized which was just absurd in hindsight.

[@thoughtfulalbatros9683]

I’ve found this to be fairly common Be careful on the apologising constantly - both for your self worth and because they lose respect Betaization by a thousand concessions is a real phenomenon

[@falsificationism]

@@thoughtfulalbatros9683 Yep yep

[@mylesleggette7520]

My wife always complains that I don't apologize for things, but when I do say I am sorry she says either I don't mean it or it doesn't mean/fix/change anything.

[@Starburster33365]

Thanks!

[@exothermal.sprocket]

A pretty substantial handful of women I have talked to over the years all had this issue in common. They would NOT admit their wrongs. EVER. Every technique was employed to avoid that. Over and over and over. Hey I'm not perfect, but I admitted when I was off. I apologized when it was warranted, even when it wasn't (to try to regain open conversation). Ultimately I had to end connections.

[@johnschultz7583]

You are absolutely correct about the fence, Emily. Safety's sake!

[@RumblinRides]

In the first one. I would not feel emasculated or anything. I would be more upset that I had married a brain dead fool, and I would be looking for an out. Living with someone like that only gets worse.

[@miconis123]

For me it's the arrogance of assuming her husband did it wrong. I've seen those fencing before in the store and wondered why it was built that way until I saw it on someone's deck and then it was obvious in retrospect. She should have asked him off camera.

[@markh.7650]

@@miconis123 Dik Dok is 90% women ragging on men. If I had a wife and she made a video about me at all, it's transfer the house into someone else's name, clean the bank accounts offshore and straight to divorce court.

[@crafty1098]

Exactly. Men first see the problem at hand, not the relationship. She may think she's being dominant or getting out of having to show gratitude, but instead she's just proving that she's stupid.

[@TheBazino]

@@miconis123 This. I would have no issue if my wife came and asked why it's the way it is and then after I explained it go "alright, I get it now, thanks honey". But instead she a) put him on blast on the internet for being dumb and you can be sure she went to him like b) "you need to re-do all of it, because it looks awful!".

[@brucewaite3733]

​@@TheBazino exactly. She probably didn't spend a second asking him what's happening while he built it. Instead, waits till he's all done to them say something

[@rockefellersilva]

Videos like this just reinforce my determination to stay single. Thanks❤

[@TreadwellJay]

What's even worse than woman in the first example in being wrong, is the fact she recorded her complaint and put it on the internet. That is profoundly disrespectful, even if she had been right.

[@detectivekornfed]

I'm a woman and I emphatically agree.

[@MrJerichoPumpkin]

"yeah, not to sound ungratefl, but Idon't like it now that the work is nearly finished". Story of my life with customers.

[@AndreasPuchner-xn6kd]

Looks Like you forgot at the end of the video to cut a piece…in this moment you are the sweetest and cutest and natural person i have ever Seen. As i recognized whats happened i was confused for a second, then i smiled. Your man should Never ever let you Go!❤️

[@dolfinwriter5389]

#1: There might be building code as well that specifies what size gap must be to keep animals and small kids safe. #2: She's thinking of COMPREHENSIVE insurance that will fix or replace your own car as opposed to simple LIABILITY insurance to fix or replace OTHER DRIVERS' CARS/PROPERTY and cover medical bills due to an accident. She took off the LIABILITY insurance that ABSOLUTELY IS REQUIRED BY LAW. She THOUGHT she was doing something smart to save money, but she only knows enough about this to be dangerous.

[@zachroberts1988]

4" is the national standard, that fencing was well within code...

[@metrikmechanik]

In europe all new railings have to be vertical so kids cant climb them and fall

[@brendahartstern4565]

I think the laws might be different in different states? In my state, insurance didn't used to be required. Of course, then there is the idea that the government does not have the authority to tell you how to spend your personal money, only tax money. But yeah, you should always have liability at least

[@RichardTavilla]

So happy for you Emily. The world needs to hear you. You matter

[@williamgilmore4287]

My ex-wife was exactly like woman #2. If she had it in her mind something was a particular way, there was no changing her mind. I could prove her wrong and she still would not aknowledge she was wrong. Forget about any apology. She thinks she knows everything and no man was going to tell her differently. She's a nurse and I've heard her say that she knows more than the doctors. Glad I'm shed of her!

[@c18888]

Knowing she was a nurse I’m guessing you caught her cheating.

[@ScoobyShotU]

Yeah I get some nurses know an incredible amount about it all just by being around the er everyday if that's what she does but that's a level of insanity I'm sorry you went through that but I've had nurses that feel this way as a guy with a bone disease who has broken 60 plus bones and had 10 plus emergency surgeries some nurses are smarter when it comes to meds and all that because they see you drs just think they know and don't have clue about what real pain is

[@cbushin]

She might be right about knowing more than the doctors.

[@lsporter88]

Those were two very good examples. I truly hope that second one was a skit, because if not, good grief did that Man make a poor choice. So much so that I'd have to throw a red flag on both of them. Great video.

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

It is a skit but I have to say that there are so many women in this world that do act like that and it's really sad she's trying to help but she just doesn't realize that she's helping in the wrong way... But I would rather be with a woman like that versus a lot of other rowdy raunchy women this is a woman that you can actually work with she just needs to be educated😅

[@lsporter88]

@A_Well_Traveled_Man Yeah, if she's actually willing to listen, some are not. And if not.....forget it. But I'm sure glad that was a skit. It made me cringe though, so they did a good job.😂👍🏾

[@amyself6678]

No, I respect a woman who will act, try to save money on ins. And until a law is shown to her or a website I respect her arguing back to vague rumors about ins. She's wrong but we all are wrong . ... I know girls who act dumb and passive and I Wish they'd risk being wrong, it's not a criime to be wrong .... She is probably often right about children and housework, we need brave women let's not act like 1 mistake and then arguing is awful..... Meekness is worse

[@lsporter88]

@@amyself6678 I agree, one should risk being wrong to get clarification, sometimes. But by now, everyone knows (and really should know) that it's the law that you must have insurance to operate an automobile. That last example was in fact a skit. One that illustrates that some Women will not admit they're wrong to a Man even when he is obviously right. That was the whole point of the video. I was simply commenting on the whole point of the video (look at the title).

[@amyself6678]

... I still like this lady on ins, she was proactive and tried to save money and didn't cave when hubby said vaguely she was wrong. ... And think about it, DO THE MATHS ON RISK AND REWARD, she saved like $2000/yr and ticket is as guess $1000 and the odds of getting stopped and ticketed are maybe 1 in 5, so even if it's the law it's worth it to ignore it.... Just following the herd of people is not always wise, they are scared babies sometimes.... Do you know there is no cost to not having health insurance, for 2 years there was a fine but that lapsed, and now it may be illegal but there is no fine ---- but you'll still hear that "it's illegal to not have health insurance"... I'm just saying, copying what most people do or think is lazy way to make choices.... I'm not a crazy, but after working in law office long ago, then one learns ok avg people are SUPER lazy and sloppy thinkers on even big issues, look up the law and penalties and also do the math and risks, don't follow general opinion.... My black friends say white people are so quick to pay money to companies it's sorta weird, and so afraid of breaking law the cowards and idiot worker drones they are .... And yes some of the guy blacks I know skip health insurance by some tricks in small companies, saving $10000 buys a lot of beer and for young males it is NOT worth it yet the majority panic and pay based on rumors.... The internet is free, look up real facts and also do the math ...... I sound wacky, just lazily following the herd is not something to be proud of... Or am I kidding, luckily one can look up solid facts and info and not just listen to random opinion!!

[@westmorelandgreasy348]

She's an adult and doesn't have a clue about liability insurance.

[@cryptojihadi265]

Because liability covers the expenses of someone ELSE that you hurt. Why should she give a flying fuck about someone else? The narcissism of modern women is off the charts. They're INCAPABLE of thinking of anyone else.

[@cbushin]

Does she really not know or is she trying to force him to stop driving that car by knowingly making it illegal?

[@russs7574]

Once again, Emily, your videos make me appreciate my S.O. all the more. We have been together 17 years now, and one of the things that makes our relationship great is that neither one of us is hesitant to admit when we are wrong. And one of the other things is that once a matter is settled, neither one of us feels the need to bring it up again in the future. I would like to think that she isn't a unicorn, but..................

[@Jurgium]

This first one has been covered by contractor reactor creators as well. It's to prevent small pets and toddlers from falling through/getting stuck in the lower gaps

[@fd15k]

Many comments already covered the technical details of both videos. What stood out to me is that the guy in the second video was unable to immediately point out that liability insurance required by law and comprehensive damage insurance are two different things. Yes, he was clearly frustrated and upset by getting the ticket, but he could have pointed out that simple reality to her. Now the other thing is that woman is not an outlier. It is very common for women to have a complete lack of understanding of how the world works, even those who went to college and even got advanced degrees. They're not intellectually challenged, but they grew up in an environment where they didn't have to use their intellectual capacity to solve any problems, and thus never developed analytical skills.

[@surlyogre1476]

the first video; that's hog fence material, IT'S SUPPOSED TO BE THAT WAY! for the safety of children and small animals. edit: Okay , you covered it. I apologize for the rant.

[@Zakdj27]

I know your fiancé feels like he won the woman lottery when you said you would date him. He feels like the luckiest man in the world. I speak for a lot of men by saying thank you for understanding us, we all appreciate you producing these videos.

[@robertfindley921]

I've never heard a woman admit she was wrong. Or say "I'm sorry." But then I've only been on this planet 61 years. Has any other guy heard it?

[@RoyG.]

Brother, I'm 72, been married for 44 years and I've NEVER heard my wife, even ONCE, admit that she was wrong or apologize. Women, in general, will never apologize or admit when they're in the wrong.

[@capusvacans]

I think the closest you can come to an apology from a woman is when they go: "I never said that" right after they "said that".

[@chrismay2298]

I've heard the words, but they were just lip service to "win".

[@yestfmf]

I count myself blessed. My wife can and does admit when she is wrong. She also has common sense and integrity.

[@ickster23]

I've heard it occasionally, but it was said with venom and anger in their voice.

[@IndyNewsontheStreet]

I do not have much comment on the made up skit but you are 100% correct in you assessment on the first video. Not saying you are wrong on the second but 100% accurate on the first. It was also incredibly disrespectful on her to put this out there in public. That made it exponentially worse.

[@KenHiroshi627]

Sounds like she's confused by Comp collision and liability

[@markh.7650]

This. She is right to drop Comp on an old car, but you damn well better have 100-300 liability on it if you own a house.

[@jackdurden466]

He should have said that so I do think that had he explained it in such a way that they could lose their damn house if he gets in an accident, the she might understand.

[@ApesAmongUs]

@@jackdurden466 He was still dealing with the realization that his wife lacked the real world knowledge of a 3-year-old. If you have to explain to an adult why you shouldn't store milk in the oven, then you can be excused for not coming up with the best arguments right away.

[@zedwpd]

Some people are confused about commas.

[@Munce72]

She doesn't care about any of that gobliagook, she want's to save money.

[@slayerrocks2]

"Would y'all be mad if I said this was wrong, and ask you to redo this?" Not half as mad as you would be at my response.

[@nicholastrawinski]

ive said it before, ill say it again "if you think you know better, how bout you just go do it yourself so it comes out right?"

[@4thtroika]

How are you still alive?😮

[@SoloRenegade]

@@4thtroika I say the same thing, all my life. There is a reason I get so much done. I don't waste my time doing things "wrong".

[@MitchellKessler]

I feel like I feel with these all the time. It really drains your confidence and makes you depressed. It’s hard to find confidence to stick up for yourself when it’s the only girl you Ben with in 30 years.

[@steventuckerman9424]

I never do another thing around the place again and it is a safety factor

[@alloounou6900]

100% in general. It's not a problem if someone wants to understand the thing before claiming it was done wrong. It's very much a problem if someone wants to come in declaring it's wrong without hearing the why. It's arrogant and annoying.

[@terryaustin5976]

There are women that run on sailboat fuel I have spoken to many. Common sense isn't so common, you either have it or you don't, you can't book learn it.

[@LisaDonaldson-m8h]

There's actually a T Shirt that said just THAT. UNFORTUNATELY COMMON SENSE ISnt THAT COMMON 😂😂

[@tonyp.bahama9368]

"sailboat fuel" 😂

[@Grecks75]

Sailboat fuel 😂 You can learn it if you pay attention to the world around you. You also need basic logical capabilities. I think I know what the issue is. 😢

[@reesetownes2401]

You are spot on. We men hate it when women do this to us.

[@stevemeloccaro891]

no insurance!! she's an airhead

[@silverdale3207]

Yep,it's not just for their car but for the Mercedes she hits while making a tik tok video while driving.

[@kittehgo]

It's illegal isn't it?, to drive without insurance..

[@Vilfy]

I've seen that couple in another video where she was arguing thst gmail and email isnt the same thing.

[@feloniousmonk3049]

Minimum coverage requires LIABILITY insurance. Comprehensive and Collision insurance is optional.

[@chrismay2298]

She's definitely and airhead, but insurance of any type is an absolute scam. I don't participate in scams.

[@dori411]

"I don't know why he did it." THEN ASK WHY!

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@OfficialSeth]

On scenario 2 I'd kill to see the wife argue with the judge that she doesn't need insurance on that car. That would be top tier entertainment to watch the judge and everyone in the courtroom lose their shit over her.

[@CanadaBud23]

No kidding. This is something even grade schoolers know.

[@williamgilmore4287]

She'll always believe that they are wrong, not her!

[@smferreiro2610]

@@williamgilmore4287 They are wrong... and being mean to her.

[@jackcurl2005]

@@smferreiro2610 especially when she doubles down and gets a contempt of court and a night in a cell thrown at her for continuing to argue.

[@coolgranddad5430]

My long since departed grandad summed women up in lawman's terms. He said they never forgive and never apologize. For a simple retired farmer, I think his summary was spot on.

[@timberwolfdtproductions3890]

In scenario #1, there would not even be a discussion. The safety of the children and pets is far more important than aesthetics. The wire stays, and that’s final.

[@TrekBeatTK]

Especially with a POOL BELOW IT!

[@gerald-gs2vh]

You have an insight to the minds of men. Such a rare thing indeed! I wish my ex-wife had just a 10th of your understanding, perhaps then I wouldn't be divorced.

[@johnblackhead2384]

You sound just fine Em. Don’t worry about it.

[@andrehenkel1981]

Emty backround is the best, ...nothing that catches attention and shift the focus!

[@johnserosanguineous1886]

"I don't care how its supposed to look! Instagram says YOU need to change it."

[@GLGSENT]

Love your usage of an English.. "Major Bummer". lol. You are correct. The human ego doesn't like to be called stupid. How we think is a choice. This is just a function of human psychology. I am also a historian. Being a historian is like being a detective. You are trying to figure out just what was going on in history. This can take considerable research. Historians don't always get it right because our own biases sometimes get in the way. This is not usually done for nefarious reasons but its not easy for any human being to be a 'candid a friend to truth' These 1000+ letters have elluded academic scrutinty for over 224 years. I'm the author of "the public view". “History may distort truth, and will distort it for a time, by the superior efforts at justification of those who are conscious of needing it most. Nor will the opening scenes of our present government be seen in their true aspect, until the letters of the day, now held in private hoards, shall be broken up and laid open to public view. What a treasure will be found in General Washington’s cabinet, when it shall pass into the hands of as candid a friend to truth as he was himself!” founders.archives.gov/documents/Jefferson/98-01-02-3562 Irrespective of how inteligent we may be thinking still requires work. Some people just choose to be lazy thinkers. These letters can be traced back to just one man. He was a genius that went by the name of Benjamin Franklin. This is more a testimony to his raw genius than anything else. These letters prove an extremely clever constsitutional legacy that he had authored. To a certain extent it was hidden in plain sight with human pscyhology. The only reason I stumbled onto the context for these letters was that I chose to allow another his own intelligence and education being James Madison. He was far more educated than historians had allowed him to be. Benjamin Franklin had a very good sense of humor. I read he had provided some dating advice to a young man. He told this man that he was better off dating a much older woman. His reasoning was that they would be far more grateful. As for myself I have never been married. I'm now 60. I'm perfectly happy and very independent. I don't mind being stuck with me for the rest of my life. I like to keep my mind busy. While I'm not adverse to marriage it has never been a priority for me. I plan to get a very goofy chocolate brown lab one day. I think I will name him Franklin.

[@dennishansel9526]

Encyclopedia for sale. Wife knows everything. Nothing like two first-borns in a marriage. Thank God for the level and the square. I have lost count of the number of times the missus has disagreed with the bubble on the level.

[@nonachan2205]

About the fence I thought the same thing you did. It’s a safety thing. So it means he is very cautious and thinks things through before he builds it.

[@patnev9296]

For the first, the biggest thing is that she says "it's not that I'm ungrateful" while posting a lack of confidence on her husband's ability to do the work on social media. That, for me, is the truly egregious bit.

[@hopoutside]

When my wife and i do house projects, I lead. When we do finances, she’s takes point. The difficulty usually arises when the man (me, in this case) is unaware of WHEN to lead. As men, we must lead at times and be supportive at times. Wives will not always know when the dynamic should shift a little. A little awareness and humility go a long way. I’m also lucky to be married to my wife, so there’s that. I’ll always adjust and look in the mirror, as she does as well. Give & take, etc. if someone has to be right all the time, then we have a problem. It’s usually someone doesn’t want to follow, or give a little. These “things” we do aren’t that important, yet how we respond is the difference between bliss or stress in the relationship. Married 20 yrs and counting to the same woman.

[@MrChaes]

How hard is it gonna be? Find out and replace them yourself. All the framing and screw holes are there.

[@gazsto]

I've encountered this often with my former partner. Being a man who received little gratitude, it ultimately led to our breakup. As someone skilled in building and fixing various things, with my own workshop, she has now chosen a partner who isn't as adept and struggles with the basics. Her recent complaints about his inadequacies and contrasting praise for my abilities felt like a twist of karma. I simply smiled and walked away.

[@derrickparran]

Men are ready to take the hit if we are wrong. No emotions, just results. NEXT!

[@marcb2120]

He needed to say they need liability coverage instead of lumping liability and vehicle coverage together.

[@Grandpacarlreacts]

1. What he used is a hog panel as opposed to a cow panel. The hog panel is better for small dogs and pets. He was 100% correct. 2. Yes, you must have insurance on all cars on the road. She is flat out wrong. Yes, a red flag. Run like hell.

[@smferreiro2610]

She forgets driver's responsibility for damages to others. Many jurisdictions (not all, though) make "third-party" insurance mandatory.

[@chrismay2298]

"Must", "Have to" and all those terms are hilarious. Never had a car that didn't operate just fine without insurance.

[@russs7574]

@@chrismay2298 You're either an idiot, a troll or a bot. A car doesn't NEED insurance to operate. However, YOU need at least minimum insurance coverage to DRIVE a car on the road. You will find out eventually if you're ever in an accident and the other driver sues you into oblivion because you have no liability coverage.

[@hologenics1958]

10:32 this was so cool. Love to see the artist at work.

[@tkboxer]

She has never heard of liability? Maybe not responsibility as well.

[@cryptojihadi265]

Exactly. They're too narcissistic to even consider the fact that the OTHER person might need protection from an accident SHE caused.

[@Richard_Nickerson]

It doesn't matter if it's a skit because it's too real. Most men have had multiple conversations like this before they're even actually men. This is why mansplaining is so prevalent.

[@BOBSMITH-YouTubeStoleMyHandle]

Its most likely the county building code. At her age, she should be smart enough to know that. I showed that clip to my 16 old daughter, and she immediately knew why the rails were so close. Wow, just wow!!!

[@tonynussbaum]

I wonder if lacking accountability is generally innate in women or if it’s on us as fathers to work harder to cultivate accountability in our daughters. I know I’ve been guilty of letting my daughter get away with stuff she absolutely shouldn’t have gotten away because she was crying. Not always, but far too often, and that’s on me. See how I did that, ladies? 😂

[@Patson20]

It's left over from the days when women weren't accountable because they didn't work and own things. They just took care of the house and kids while the man went out and took care of business. But once we made women "equal" we didn't change how women were raised. If you want women to be accountable raise them like a boy. But even then it'll only work to a degree

[@russs7574]

You are a very wise man. Far too often, these women we see in these videos end up that way because as a young girl, they were able to wrap Daddy around their little finger when it came to being disciplined or being held accountable for the things they did. Or in my case, she had Mommy wrapped around her little finger....any time I attempted to either discipline or hold her accountable, it led to a huge argument with the "ex." (Which is one of the reasons she's now my ex.)

[@jeroenneve5807]

that's some excellent example of craftsmanship, woodworking, design and planning. I wish I was that good with tools. I'm *sure* there is a very good reason for how the railing is constructed.

[@BrawndoDrinker]

Most building codes require the gaps can't allow something 4" to pass through any opening. But yeah if they have small pets, not a bad solution. #2 video, ooofta blonde moment, my ex was a blonde I know that feeling many times over, luckily my ex was not that dumb on basic things like that.

[@yitzharos]

7:00 this gave me anxiety. how do you not break and jut flat out call her stupid. And she's wrong end of it, nothing more to hear.

[@Queequeg61]

Not to mention the fact that the railing has to pass code.

[@ironwoodification]

I like to watch your videos when I'm feeling lonely. Makes me realize how good I have it being single.

[@rinkopr5561]

That second video, I’ve asked the officer to follow me home to make sure I didn’t kill my wife for being the stupidest thing. God ever stretched a patch a skin over.

[@lachlanp3365]

For the insurance one I can forgive the thinking they don't need insurance. In my state CTP (compulsory third party) is part of the REGO. While in a state next to me it is not, you have to buy a CTP policy. This only covers injuries related to road accidents. Then you have third party insurance basically if I Run into a $300,000 supercar my insurance will cover it. (It is also known as bomb insurance around here) Comprehensive insurance basically covers everything. Your car other peoples stuff (It will also have options)

[@Disinterested1]

Congrats the thing I don't like with the first one is she goes online FIRST doesn't talk to him OR involve HIM in a decision regarding HIS project so I would find her hard to see as a life companion when she asks strangers before me the second one I had an ex like this and she was a narcissist she full well knows but will even go off into making NO SENSE before admitting any wrong doing! RUN you are not a human in their eyes only they will ever be right! and 100% men can do this too!

[@Richard_Nickerson]

Please use punctuation

[@904Hurricane]

Thank you for doing these videos and congratulations on your new place Emily !

[@darrenskjoelsvold]

Yikes on that first one. She is ungrateful, BTW. But yeah, it has to be smaller at the bottom to keep kids safe. That may even be "code" depending on the state.

[@Puppylove82-gv3gm]

My thought was why not just ask him why he did it that way instead of blasting the poor man on the internet.

[@darrenskjoelsvold]

@Puppylove82-gv3gm from your fingers to God's eyes. You're absolutely right and she should privately ask him but these women have tictoc brain and have to clout chase on the internet. That's why they are undateable. Never get involved with a woman who had a social media presence.

[@freakturns]

Totally going to start leaving your videos on for my wife to find. lol Thank You for being a wonderful advocate for Men!!!

[@earnestrobinson7453]

The second skit is something that most men have experienced. Women rarely, if ever, take full accountability for their actions.

[@jackcurl2005]

In all honesty, there have been several woman in my 60 years who will admit they messed up when they do. But there have been far more that never accept any responsibility. I'm also ever single, in part because I won't put up with that BS.

[@mrpopsful]

I still remember the breakup i had with my ex. I asked, "wasn't there any time that you ever came around to believe that I was right?" She just said "yes, there were lots of times that you agreed with me"

[@dewardroy6531]

Video 1: Here is the code. Video 2: My love, my darling, mi vida, mi corazon: please do not ever make any operational or financial decisions unilaterally; discuss it with me first. If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it is the general operating principle. ( Reinstating cancelled insurance usually results in higher premiums. Add to that the cost of the ticket and related court costs and fees. Now do the math and tell me how much money was saved. Now be a good wife and make me a sandwich. (😂)

[@froggiman1]

Your last sentence was gold.

[@Oneshot8242]

​@@froggiman1We're all assuming she knows how, or is good at it..,.

[@MDAdams72668]

In my state no insurance=loss of driver's licence and HUGE fines She would likely than leave if he could no longer work without licence