When homemaking is hard

Click my link: glnk.io/jyj9/farmhouseonboone Get 20% off Dreamland Baby sitewide + free shipping when you use my code BOONE!
Recipes mentioned in this video:
Sourdough Pancakes- www.farmhouseonboone.com/our-...
WANT TO START YOUR OWN KZbin CHANNEL?
Learn how our family supports ourselves full-time on our homestead with our blog and KZbin channel with in my FREE KZbin success masterclass: www.farmhouseonboone.com/mast...
WANT TO START A BLOG?
Check out my FREE blogging success masterclass: www.farmhouseonboone.com/mast...
GRAB MY FREE SOURDOUGH EBOOK
Farmhouse Favorites Sourdough (50+ pages with all of my sourdough recipes)- withered-breeze-7467.ck.page/...

[@angelahagood3639]

I can’t tell you how refreshing it is to hear you encourage homemakers! I’ve heard two ladies in my past make the comments of how bored they were staying home…”because you can only clean a house so much.” There IS more to it and you demonstrate it so well. We don’t have to have eight kids, a farm and live in the country to be purposeful. When you talk, I hear start where you are, do what you can with what you have. As cliche as it sounds, time goes way too fast. I’m sixty-two and wonder where the time went! Thank you again for lifting up homemakers, and those ladies that dream of doing it. That little sleeper is a genius idea! Wish I’d had one with my son.🙌🏻

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Yes to this!!!

[@NogginsVintage]

I love my house and pottering about in it, I’d be quite happy if I never had to go anywhere

[@sharonkrzyzanowski2283]

I am an RN who started this career in my late 30's. BY FAR, my greatest joy was staying at home with my girls and caring for them, my husband and my home. It's the best thing ever!!! ♥

[@foxonthefarm7260]

All other careers exist to support the ultimate career; the homemaker

[@gamingwithfrodo]

Yes! the raising of the children!

[@ellendunn559]

And without homemaking, the rest of life doesn’t really happen, or happen well. Humans need a functioning home in order to thrive.

[@felishiarae332]

I love that you said, “I get to be a chef, and a designer and sometimes an artisan baker.” That’s a really neat way to look at it when sometimes it just feels like we’re cooking another meal or replacing something that fell apart in the house. Your channel always encourages me in homemaking!

[@mirandamcguire810]

It's also much much more difficult when you have a husband that works outside the home 60-70 hours a week.

[@gloriack7976]

I see you. ❤ We got this. 💪 🏡 🐄 🐔 🍞 🌾

[@samanthakwait8782]

I feel that. My husband is in the army and usually works 6 days a week, gets up at 430 and most nights doesn’t get home until my kids are in bed.

[@marymack1]

I've heard it said that changing "I have to" to "I get to" is a great way to lean into gratitude.

[@celianicoll7060]

This! When I find myself griping about so many dishes, or the never ending laundry, or the mess on my freshly cleaned floors... I remind myself of this. I get to clean dishes, because we have food to eat. I get to fold laundry, because we have more than one set of clothes. I get to vacuum again, because I have a house to live in. We are so privileged and so blessed!

[@jilla8503]

Victor is just the cutest most happiest baby. He seems very chill. That armoire is gorgeous. Looks perfect in your room. Thx for always trying to be real with us Lisa. I appreciate it so very much🩷

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Thank you! 🤗

[@luckypenny4263]

All the children are happy as well ❤ this is a really good family ❤ the videos always make me happy to see a solid family. I so wish the world could see what we see on how life should be … family first ❤

[@Clutterfreecarli]

The one thing I have always loved about your videos is how practical you are. So practical, relatable, and down to earth. ❤ thanks for inspiring us.

[@kitt7477]

One very important element missing in running a home is having an on board supporting husband. Without his support and cooperation the task of the wife & mother would be very difficult & even miserable. On board, supporting husbands of large families are a minority here in the states. With all the work & business of the wife/mother it would be crucial for the husband to be busy in something he personally enjoys doing as a man, so he doesn’t start complaining & stoking arguments.

[@user-bq7lx7sm8v]

There IS value in homemaking. Making our families and homes a priority, if its possible, IS important. I have been a single mom and I have felt like I had to do it all. I remarried and we made the decision for me to stay home and I feel like it was the best decision. Often its treated as if its not a job. It is a full time job and children and all their different stages take time and effort.

[@donnarakitzis2719]

You make homemaking look effortless. Thanks for showing us the reality.

[@welshrarebit1153]

Right!!! I don’t think I could ever do it I get easily overwhelmed and I’m a neat freak

[@carolyncampbell6149]

It gave me so much joy to see Victor waving his arms and kicking his legs, just delightful. Thankyou for this video and all your encouragement.

[@ANAbiNader]

Always so happy when a new video of yours is up. I'll make sure to enjoy this in peace and quiet tonight when the kiddos are in bed. Greetings from Switzerland

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Hello from Missouri!

[@jessicabaugh5185]

I would so love and appreciate a podcast episode/video on transitioning your babies from your bed to their own, and more about your version of the Bradley method!

[@pennyharris1543]

It's true, homemakers are more than just housewives . We wear many hats!!!

[@hdavis1291]

It is basically running a small business.

[@ginakelly7886]

You’re doing what is the most important and fulfilling. I’m never as happily as when I was taking care of my kids, grandkids and husband. When I care for them they care for me.

[@shellydehart8217]

Lisa, to me your amazing woman. I give you so much credit to do n be who you are. I also admire you. The generation as of today is so very different than when I grew up. Everyone is in a hurry, no stopping to smell the roses. It’s become very materialistic n money talks big. Homes going for millions today. Children are growing up with technology n lack of respect. Morsels have truly left this generation. Yet your family is being raised with love, respect n much knowledge. Your a mother who’s always there to protect her chicks n feed them well n give them a home with many wonderful memories. I know there’s more women who follow you on your Utube channel n your Pod Cast n I like to say kudos to them all. You all are women to admire with much strength n respect. ♥️♥️😊👍👍👍🌟

[@jx4375]

Great video … two things though Lisa - I cringed when you sharpened your knife and used it immediately without washing it … it leaves tiny metal shards on the blade when you sharpen it which will get on your food - so always wash your knife after sharpening … also - the AAP, and others do not recommend weighted sleep sacks any longer - more articles now state DO NOT USE weighted sleep sacks and Amazon won’t even allow the sale of them … so please everyone do your research first!! Just FYI - love your videos!!!

[@debbiemize2269]

Thank you for another great video. After 51 years of homemaking, there are times I get do discouraged and feel so unappreciated. Then I sit down and watch KZbin, and there’s usually such an uplifting video that you have just posted! ♥️

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

You are so welcome!

[@sarabrunsvold2461]

The three most important jobs- wife, mother, homemaker.

[@katieswitzer6264]

I don't think being a wife should be considered a job.

[@ShesInHerElement]

I found that a sound machine helped with Emma to get her used to the noises that come daily in the home. She can sleep anywhere now... Thanks for another great and inspiring video!!

[@denisejones1863]

The most important thing for a wife and mother is to feel appreciated and loved by them. I also laugh when my family thinks we have a self cleaning house! It certainly is true when they say, "A mother's job is never done".

[@rashmimathur5318]

My heart melted when victor was smiling ❤ I watch your videos to relax and I get inspired. I agree, there are many roles you play as a homemaker. I stay with my dad. I'm unemployed at the moment so I've been doing things around the house. But sometimes, it's not valued. I get told, you are at home what did you even do today being at home snide remarks. It just adds insult to injury at times. But I know how much I cherish putting food on the table, having a clean house and doing the laundry etc

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Hang in there.

[@rebekahbratton793]

Thank you for your gentle reminders and tips! I saw your armoire and was a bit discouraged because I have been looking for something so similar and it feels like I have been looking forever. Then you shared it’s been on your list for a long time as well. It reminded me to be patient and content to keep looking for the right one. Thanks again!

[@jannier9766]

I love that you care about and encourage other homemakers.

[@DebbieBiddle-kn3cb]

Lisa, I love watching you as you care for the needs of your family! You and a few of my other KZbinrs have replaced tv watching for me. While I am in the minority of your followers at 69 yrs young, I assure you I am one of your biggest fans! I’m not sure you will read this but I’d love to know about that big bar of soap at your kitchen sink. Have a blessed day! Debbie from Ky

[@carolyncampbell6149]

I’m 69 too Debbie and feel the same as you!

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Thanks for following along! That is my solid dish soap bar...I purchase it from the Ballerina Farms website.

[@Laura-wc7zo]

One tip that helped me was to not train them to sleep in the dark. Blocking out the light makes it harder for them to fall asleep when you’re out and about I feel. Or at someone’s house that doesn’t have room darkening curtains.

[@kristinotto102]

If you’re home most of the time I’d rather have them sleep well at home 🤷🏼‍♀️ I don’t have many opportunities where I need my kids to sleep well out of our home so I train them to sleep well here

[@nicolemartin8737]

This is also important when you live in an area with long summer days. Here in Alaska my girls had sheer white curtains so they learned to go to bed no matter if the sun was up like it is almost all day in the summer. Also for camping, the kids needed to be able to sleep in a bright tent. It also helped set their body rhythm so when we are dark most of the day getting up in the morning wasn’t so hard. The kids adapted to it very quickly and they can pretty much sleep anywhere and anytime they need to now. 😊

[@Laura-wc7zo]

@@nicolemartin8737 yes!! Here it doesn’t get dark until almost 8 and our toddlers bedtime is 7.

[@ColleenH38]

I agree! When homemakers change their perspective that housekeeping, cooking, etc is not important or is a miserable chore, and think of it as a way to bring comfort and joy to themselves and their family, it changes the mindset.

[@SheriLatulip]

You are like a machine that never stops.

[@CharlotteRyerson]

You are so right Homemaking is harder sometimes than other times. We all need to be encouraged and thank you for this! It’s also good for us to encourage other homemakers when they struggle. It’s good to find a Titus 2 “mom” -one who can pray for you and encourage you, for truly homemaking is what we are designed to do by God. What He ordains He maintains and we can help that maintenance by just being a listening ear and giving a words of affirmation. ❤️🙏🙌✝️ You do that for us! And we can do it for others in our life too.

[@NorthFork-Ranch]

Such great advice, as mother of 8 and our Family is mostly gone from home now, I can tell you that disorganization is HARD ..and seasons change too.One big help I had was that our older Children were organizers and loved to help have things running more smoothly.

[@user-vj9ld1ub6b]

As a ftm...this video hit me right in the heart and I needed this. Thank you for all you do ❤

[@happyhealthyhavenlyhome]

What a great message! Homemaking is such an honor when you step back from the day to day and see the big picture, that you're shaping a culture for your children and grandchildren to look back on fondly

[@POPgoesTheWeasle601]

I definitely needed to hear this

[@EmilyBGates]

Only 2 mins in and every word resonates with me❤❤❤

[@lynsmith2698]

Great video Lisa. Even us retired age ladies get overwhelmed and have many hard days being homemakers, I remember my Mum saying. Men get to retire but women don’t, we still have to cook and clean and pay bills. But for the most part, I would t trade it for any other job. I still do lots of canning, hunt, garden, keep bees and clean the house when there is time. Anyways, the hard days are out weighed by the happy, rewarding days, 🌷🇨🇦

[@roszcutler9724]

I’m so glad it’s Friday, thanks Lisa

[@ramonawhisenant2045]

I really enjoyed!!

[@glendaakers7528]

Love this!❤❤❤❤

[@rachelseibert7882]

Such a joy to watch!

[@laurieanne9712]

Yes and YES to all of this! I kid my husband saying I should have majored in picking up in college--it would have stood me in better stead! But love homemaking & all it entails!

[@deblepley7755]

Thanks for the encouragement. ❤

[@lorikegley3327]

Your armoire is gorgeous!

[@Sonya_Barnes_On_Move]

Man, this one really resonated with me. It is hard. And my WFH Job has had chaotic hours lately, in the midst of a terrible pollen season. I’ve digressed to instant meals for a couple of weeks to simplify life in this season. Thank goodness we have community and creators like you to remind us it’s not just us. Thanks for a few moments of peace today, Lisa ❤

[@irmarosario676]

He is absolutely precious ❤

[@joannahale4222]

Thank you, for the encouragement, Lisa 💜

[@kennethbailey9853]

It's all worth it !!!❤

[@HotchildinMurf]

Lisa, the armoire is beautiful, but the babies are just adorable. You inspire me everytime I watch your videos. I'm 60 and no small children at home now, I miss it do much. I wish I could do over those days.... enjoy them, it goes way too fast. Cooking for 2 is just hard. 😢😢😂

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Thank you...I really do make an effort to enjoy all the moments!

[@CharlotteRyerson]

But cooking for 2 is a great and noble ministry too! I’m 71 and find that making a happy home for my husband is rewarding in the same way it was when the children were there. I miss those days too but try to enjoy every minute of these. In some ways they are even sweeter, for we know our homemaking days will be over if we live long enough. May God bless your cooking for 2 with beauty, love and joy. Soli Deo Gloria!

[@Naturalrnmom]

I love your videos sooo much!

[@kathleengallagher2659]

I love these homemaking videos!

[@heybakingbuddy]

This message truly came when my heart needed to hear it. Thanks for sharing your glimpses into your home and having such a positive and calming channel

[@debwinfrey]

Just beautiful homemaking!

[@ritahall8653]

Love your home

[@ruthgreen2014]

Thank you so much for taking the time and effort to make these videos! (and your podcasts!) You truly fill the nich now missing in today's world...women getting together where the conversation was about making a better this or that, doing a better this or that and plain old support. I know for myself your Monday reset routine you share changed the way I plan the first day of the week, making the rest of the week run smoother. Also, your calmness and common sense is contagious for now I can go into the kitchen, (or any other room) focus then relax while doing what needs to be done! OH MY what game changers!!!

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

So glad to hear that!

[@ellenjensen2465]

Hi, I'm interested in this Monday reset...do you know which video it's on ?

[@maryglover8283]

Perfect timing. Thank you. Blessings to you and your family.

[@chantelbritton-cole397]

This was super validating…it’s easy for us to get use to tasks and feel like it’s not enough. It’s enough 💕

[@kimberlystone3987]

Hello family on Boone ❤

[@cindyflinchbaugh7155]

Thank you for your encouragement and just showing there are pockets of time to get things done.

[@tammysvegankitchen]

You’re amazing ❤❤❤❤

[@mistyhuber4831]

Thank you

[@user-ti6zo7pz5i]

love your channel , God bless you and you wonderful family

[@regsabatini]

This came at a perfect time-I’ve had a short fuse with my two babies this morning. I love your honesty and encouragement in homemaking.

[@khawlahpeace1222]

I really loved and appreciated this video. I’ve been home making for over 25 years and I appreciate every step even the things that are frustrating because at the end of the day we wouldn’t want to be any other place . Love and hugs

[@LizMee]

This was a huge encouragement to me. Homemaking has been harder for me lately so this is just what I needed to get back in the right mindset.

[@inkandcaffeine]

im in the throes of newborn life with a toddler & both the overwhelm & the self doubt are strong right now, thank you for making content that slows down & encourages us

[@littlelana696]

This is so needed for me. Thank you! Watching your channel has helped me realize how many skills you really need as a homemaker. I’m not just crazy for feeling overwhelmed by the learning curve. I have two toddlers and your channel has helped me so much navigate and put language to what I’m doing and what this job actually is

[@ritamckinney9169]

You have some beautiful babies

[@Hannah_MK]

This was so beautiful, relaxing, and encouraging. Thank you, from a pregnant homemaking mama of 4 young children!

[@rosemarymunson915]

Nice changes. Victor is just too adorable.

[@carolwhisenhunt7504]

Victor looks just like his mommy. Great video Lisa.

[@virginiaboone8163]

Where does all of your energy come from? You must be blessed with an amazing constitution. Try as I might and as much as I loved my small family, I could have never kept up with your pace.

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

I am an energetic person...so is my family of origin!

[@barbarapeterson8030]

HAPPY FRIDAY Lisa, family, and fur babies. I absolutely agree with you Lisa. Enjoyed the video. STTB

[@JuliaMcLean6559]

Just like she was talking about there’s so many aspects to homemaking I feel like you have to run it like a business I do as much as I can when I can and when I can’t, I don’t some days are so overwhelming and other days seem like a breeze! 😊

[@NatureLover-yt8tu]

Your videos always inspire me. Watched twice just to see Victor smiling and kicking his feet.💕

[@cynthiawhitcomb1780]

Good advice

[@shirleystrong2122]

Love this video! Lisa you make everything look so organized and easy! Your babies are all so beautiful!

[@sallibra7924]

Thank you for validating all the job titles of my running of the household! :D Many others think we sit and eat bon bon's all day and do nothing.

[@minervabird1967]

Lovely video, and the advice of keeping track of inventory is so true. When you don’t have clutter, you can spend your time properly cleaning, and a clean calm space is good for inner peace too.

[@sarahwilliams3177]

So helpful and encouraging 🤍

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

So glad!

[@user-fb9ri4jy9f]

Praying for swift success sleep training Victor. He is so precious doing tummy time in your videos, I love it

[@pauleengould998]

You always peacefully inspire me

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Thank you!

[@user-js2gg8fz2c]

You have the most calming voice, thank you so much for your advice today and sharing with how to get around or out of a struggle!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ 😊

[@dawnsullivan6794]

Beautiful.

[@welshrarebit1153]

Finally a video I was getting impatient love your channel new sub alert. Stay blessed.

[@angnbama]

This is such a great vid! REAL! This is real life. Thank you for sharing. Inspirational and motivational!

[@carmarasmussen8118]

User error 🤭 That baby on his tummy on your rug was the cutest thing 😊

[@lindasmith5190]

I love the new armoire. Enjoyed the video.

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Thank you!

[@crystalfriedl3972]

My children love watching your videos with me. It is quickly becoming our one and only show to watch each week! Haha! Our mouths start watering while we watch you cook and then we plan what we’re going to try making that week. We had so much fun making Dutch Baby pancakes! We all get so excited seeing your children in videos and Just call them buy the name of our own kids that they look like. You may choose not to do so for privacy reasons, but my children would just be so thrilled to watch a video of you showcasing what your kids do with you in the kitchen or around the farm. My kids are Girl 11, Girl 9, boy 7, girl 5, boy 3, and expected boy to be born any day!

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Congratulations! I have many videos that have my kids in them....you can maybe search through and find some.

[@LaLadybug2011]

Great video! Thanks Lisa.

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

You are so welcome!

[@mariecincotta1926]

I look forward to your posts so much! Podcasts are okay but I enjoy watching you better! You are an inspiration to so many women.

[@user-yx5pl7el6u]

I just look forward to your videos each week so much! I love all the things that you do and your insight into day-to-day life and homemaking. You are by far my favorite KZbinr❤

[@alphaabraham4526]

Lisa, what an inspiring video. May more watch this to get a different insight into homemaking ❤

[@TheMennomilist]

Yeah. . .my little one is not a good sleeper either and when he gets 4-5 hours of sleep I am in shock too. I am like you with my children's clothing too. Every spring and autumn we go through their clothing. Beautiful family photos!

[@wandagordon6453]

Love your new family pictures! God bless y’all! 😀♥️

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Thank you so much!

[@CountieLt25]

Lisa! We had a two sock drawers! One if 11 here! To this day I have my own sock drawer because of the nightmare of looking for a matching set! The pictures were too cute!! Is that Daniel on the stairs with you? Such a big boy!

[@nefariouspersephone9447]

ive always used Ergopouch sacks for my kids but lately ive been seeing these weighted sleep sacks and i think i may have to give this brand a go!

[@vickiecrouch6041]

You make it look effortless. Thanks for the encouragement.

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

You are so welcome!

[@FlapjackR]

I also do the wardrobe swap out as we enter spring and autumn, it’s the best way. We keep their collections so minimal, I probably have more clothes in storage waiting to be worn than are actually in rotation right now!

[@Ray-pt5bi]

Victors Chubby cheeks are adorable!! I got that dreamland baby sleep sack and It did nothing for us, I actually felt like I was using a straight jacket on her. I switched to a sleeved 100% wool sleep sack. Have since learned that pediatricians don't consider weighted sleep sacks safe for sleep.

[@susanjohns7362]

Really enjoy watching your videos you have a great way of keeping up with your homestead.

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Thank you!

[@carolynoquinn4573]

Lisa, that Armoire is absolutely gorgeous ❤

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Thank you...I am so happy with it!