When is the right time to Quit?

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[@rickireign]

Yvette thinking she’s Gen Z in her mid thirties sent me!! 😂😂😂 Can’t wait to listen.

[@StarlessTerrace]

I said the same thing.

[@mizndmi8703]

I don’t know how many ways I’m going to say this but Sir. Glen you are beyond musically gifted. Every episode you change the cadence of the intro and it’s a fresh experience. This intro is by far my favorite, I’m loving the staccato flow, down to the way you enunciate the words, the musicality is there! I played the intro back like seven times.

[@BeleafInFatherhood]

🥹 thank you! Giving me all the feels haha!

[@boluadebekun9370]

Yes!!!

[@AlwaysLime]

I have a 10 year old middle son like “this guy”. I so relate to the lack of self-awareness and behaviors that make you say, “why does he think this is okay?”. My kid is in counseling. He has moderate generalized anxiety. He has moderate dyslexia. Some things are sensory seeking behavior and some are self-soothing behavior… and some is just a boy being a boy who needs discipline and discipleship. I had a “come to Jesus” moment a few years ago where I pulled off the road sobbing and feeling in my heart God telling me to fight for my Isaac because God is fighting for him and to hold on to these words “he will be saved”. So I go back to that moment and “remind” The Lord of what he said (I know he doesn’t forget) and re-commit to holding onto hope for him. God is sovereign.

[@eyannaanais]

“Abandoning that one, Isaac moved on and dug another well. This time there was no dispute over it, so Isaac named the place Rehoboth (which means “open space”), for he said, “At last the Lord has created enough space for us to prosper in this land.”” ‭‭Genesis‬ ‭26‬:‭22‬ ‭NLT‬‬ Sometimes if one area is a constant fight and struggle it’s ok to quit and start fresh somewhere else

[@PurposedPath]

Whew! That’ll teach 🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@shatikac]

The Kool Aid man made me laugh out loud.😂😂

[@thebossdawghomie]

"he has more grace given to him than everybody else, but he can't see it." That's Word right there!

[@ashy4595]

I love how you both respect each other’s boundaries with sharing. Asking do you think it’s ok to share this or cutting it off when it’s going to far for your comfort

[@elkaydoug8863]

Wow. I don't think that Yvette is dumb. I mean doesn't she come off as so patient and kind? Isn't she a teacher? I mean dumb? I don't get any of that. Also Glenn seems so relatable, smart and cool. I don't think that he would get with a dumb woman. 😮 Wow, calling Yvette dumb hurts MY feelings. 😢 And another thing isn't she always reading? 😊 I'm just saying, dumb is not the word. She's got too much common sense for the age that she is. She has an old spirit. But never dumb. ❤

[@boluadebekun9370]

Yvette saying she genz was crazyyy😂😂. Glennnn to hear youu a wholee youuu entrepreneur and creative genius saying you had/ have a passion project that you weren’t able to commit to is so comforting for some reason.. Cuz i know what that feels like🥹. Also “we should honor quitting more”! What a statement. Ppl are in horrible jobs, school, and careers onlyy because of the shame of quitting.

[@valariehunter5389]

Riah, has great creative abilities and imagination. Watching a lot of SyFi and Super Heroes causes the mind and imagination to expand. Love it. 💫🌕💫😂😂💜❤️💜

[@chandabwsandidge0430]

40:57 The question Yvette said is how do we adapt? But I wonder if some people would ask themselves, does this change of story or revealing of new info give me the option to say ‘I’m done’ because I didn’t sign up for that. The reality is that marriage is a faith journey through and through, less something that is harmful to spouse or children, we have been called to marriage with this person. The difficulties and frustrations lead me right back to the Lord; an ongoing conversation that gives me strength.

[@DaraAdeola]

I’ve been watching for two or three years now, and I have to say this is one of the best episodes ever. Keep it up guys. Speaking as a single 20 something ❤

[@DaraAdeola]

I know it was getting a little specific towards the end but I would love to hear about the redemption piece. That word really spoke to me!

[@anabettencourt6943]

The music in the background is really frustrating. Please no background music. Your beautiful voices and wisdom are enough

[@lynngevity3724]

I loove that you personally perform your intro every episode!! Great podcast

[@theknights3025]

I love the banter ❤❤❤

[@CaribeanBrit]

I'm supposed to be having my low dopamine morning but I can't stop binge watching your pod. I'm so glad I found your content it's so refreshing ❤❤❤

[@AskIveSolar]

Man this stuff about story is a short little masterclass for content creators and creators in general . Thanks Bro and Thanks Sis for asking the question. 32:00 minutes or so.

[@B.LES.S1]

💯🌹good discussion. Excellent infact. Love

[@IM-A-Healed-WINNER]

Orion Sun has a voice like butter. I saw her in DC and she made me want to fall in love all over again!!

[@hoodhippie7117]

Love the bars at the beginning ! Something that’s not talked about enough is being in a relationship with an MC over 25. I love seeing that your wife supports you ❤❤❤

[@TimmerTheChipper]

2nd video 2nd day. Definitely earned my attention. Thanks.

[@Ashley-ur9in]

This was divinely timed. Thank you for this honest discussion!

[@shepsheila]

Balling my eyes out!!! Needed this!!! Current situation!! Thanks!

[@deez596]

HMAY is my morning favorite playlist 💕

[@lashawn369]

Late check in from the DMV.

[@AskIveSolar]

Re: Some folks with great marriages listen to HMAY. Around 30:00 I watch HMAY and I jokingly say "And Ive (my first son) lives at home with two parents and Ives parents have a real good marriage." 8 Mile Eminem voice

[@TheHarrisFour]

So interesting how alike Glenn and I are especially relating to "family". Curious the purpose of the "define family" exercise. My husband and I's definition of family is different. For us, all it does is cause us to pause and ask questions when a situation comes up involving "family"

[@srswms5157]

Great insight & wisdom,Beleaf

[@shepsheila]

Confession as a middle child. I am Riah, he is me.. Now, I have a second born/ middle child. Lord help me!!!

[@keishaheslop1536]

Lol.. my husband says "mob" instead of cult! 😮

[@IiveinlovewithKim]

I love y'all.

[@WNAHRadio]

It’s from a movie called the jumper! He can teleport and they probably saw that movie and thought they can do the same.

[@Poor_Georgie]

By the way Theo's gift was fire 🔥 still listen to it till today

[@BeleafInFatherhood]

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@MaatsScale]

Tell Riyah Beau to practice meditation so that he can focus his energy on rearranging the atoms with his mind not his body. That's how you teleport safely. :)

[@boluadebekun9370]

Huh. ✋🏿🔥

[@MaatsScale]

@@boluadebekun9370 Peace...I'm a Gen Xer so I'm not sure what the emoji combo means...but everything is mental...just like BBD used say :)

[@Buyis]

Gen Y (Y2K = Millenial) is literally before Gen Z.

[@MatthewRichardson1]

Bruh. I had no idea Frank Puppet was something you had wanted to do even before Theo's Gift. Wow.

[@loveed1110]

I believe it’s a cult too, Glen!

[@kennethhilton8700]

OMG!🤦🏾‍♂️ The chocolate baby story time with Uriah is def not the MIDDLE CHILD SYNDROME (well at least not restricted to the middle child). My oldest daughter is Uriah. She Naturally doesn't consider others, dodges accountability/responsibility, but doesn't understand the grace she's given even when being reprimanded. Ya'll..... help! LOL. It just might be a while, sigh......

[@joygabby64]

Sex is definitely comparable to appetite or hunger. Somedays you are just more hungry than others. It’s will fluctuate. Idk why the world makes it seem like men want sex at every waking moment. Maybe because that is what’s pushed in media and music

[@AlwaysLime]

I have a man who makes it seem that way with no beating around the bush. 😂😂😂In other words, every day is normal to him. I’m relieved for women around the world to know it’s not every day for every man😂😂😂.

[@Chloeeezyyy]

Dudes def act like it when they have nothing else going in in their life

[@Dina8485]

Glen is right, Millenials are Gen Y 😂 i think yall are called millenials bc of the new millenia, going from 19- to the 2000s ans coming of age then Sorry i was obsessed w this for some reason 😂😂 from a Zillenial (97)

[@gloriamitchell3518]

😂😂😂

[@ladiepink]

We def millennials

[@BeleafInFatherhood]

😂

[@shkase398]

I think you are thinking of the Boomer generation, like our parents.

[@chantelmaria2293]

Y'all are millennials. (1981-1996)

[@meki2510]

Yvette seems so Bored...