when rural living is lonely and boring - deep winter at the cottage

[@Moona1966]

A wise woman once said: "You can never have too many candles!" It was me... The wise woman was me. Once had an entire shelf in our linen closet FILLED with every type of candle imaginable. It's not like they're going to go bad, right? :)

[@somepinkflowers]

@GERMAN GIRL IN AMERICA :: Me, too… 🕯🕯🕯🕯

[@sabinassketchbook]

Haha oh yes, candles are not only beautiful and smell really good but also are just perfect when electric power goes off 😁 so: very wise said!

[@AnaBela1990]

😂😂😂funny wise woman

[@carolyncampbell6149]

Me too! I’ve got a very big drawer full. My friend makes candles and it would be rude not to support her, right?!

[@anitaprudnikow2088]

I am also a candle girl

[@debbiedoughty]

Dear Paola, I lost my husband of 47 years last March. We married when I was 18, so I have never lived alone before, and this is my first winter without him. I came across your videos recently, and I must tell you, they have been company and comforted me. Like you, I love to read and make things, which also helps. Have you heard of the book, Wintering: The Power of Rest and Retreat in Difficult Times by Katherine May? I just listened to the first chapter and have loved it so far. Best wishes, much love, and gratitude, Debbie

[@alisoneden]

✨❤️✨

[@cyndieclarke7779]

I too have lost my beloved husband... it by far, has been the hardest to do... Just learning how to be alone and aloneness is so hard...I am so sorry for your loss. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers as your journey unfolds for you... Take care!

[@waterfirelord]

Debbie stay positive please. I know the first couples, second, minutes, hours, months years it will hard for everyone.

[@debbiedoughty]

@@TheMiriam333 Thank you, Miri! I'm really enjoying the book. The stories are uplifting, and the narrator's voice is soothing, like Paola's. I live in Southern Oregon, and our winters are mild compared to where Paola lives. We moved here in 1979 from Southern California, so I love it when we get snow. And I'm glad it only sticks for a few days! Tennessee should be lovely. Best wishes on your move.

[@debbiedoughty]

@@alisoneden Thank you!

[@simpleextrovert]

To anyone reading this, remember seasons change. You’ll feel better soon. Sending virtual hugs. 🫂

[@deeb8733]

🤗

[@bndergltd3053]

What cheers me up in January and February is knowing that each day is one minute longer than the previous one.

[@SunnyMeadow-wz9ni]

Thank you!💕

[@Wak-k9y]

nice cabin n nice view.....in Malaysia we call PONDOK......íts me Wakawood

[@TheCottageFairy]

MORE DETAILS ⬇️ Stay warm everyone! 🥶 just me over here doing hot foot baths for my chilblains - thankfully temperatures seem to be warming up a bit now, though we got over another foot of snow overnight! To be clear: just because I feel an emotion other than happiness doesn’t mean I am unhappy where I live and am moving a way. As far as I know there is no place on earth that doesn’t face some sort of challenge, man or nature made, that can be frustrating at times. I am so lucky to have my home and while I share these moments I am forever grateful. Winter is tiring sometimes, but that’s ok! It is a very small thing 🤍 feeling a bit down isn’t related to being rural, it’s having to say goodbye to family over the holidays and being ill. Rural living isn’t boring, being stuck at home sick is boring after a while. But again, it is a small thing that doesn’t change the fact I love it here 🙏 This time of year can be hard for many, when they are more limited in their movements and sometimes need more supplies to stay healthy and warm. Neighbors need to support each other and make sure everyone has what they need. While I am going back to work at my usual routine after having my family over, there was a time in between of snow storms and cold that kept finding my a little stuck at home, as it was a bit dangerous to try to leave without a snowplow. It’s all a great process that teaches you self reliance, but I thought I’d share since I was having some winter blues. Thankfully it is all temporary and natural, but is a good reminder that each place has expected challenges and that all feelings can come and go with time ❤️

[@airliberty]

Happy Three Kings Day from PR!! ❤️

[@cloud9reality315]

Good Morning Paola - You might try 'Natural Silk Liners' for your gloves and socks. I used to live in Alaska and they work just great to hold the heat-in and are thin enough to wear under most any glove or sock! The Bible says 'Fear Not' some 365 times, so would be some great wintertime/anytime reading ... Prayer always works to make 'The Way' safe in trying times.

[@sujathaan7225]

Beautiful cottage.wish you a very happy new year.loved the candles.lots of love from india❤️❤️❤️

[@lakemichigan6598]

Experiencing very cold blizzard conditions here right now so I'm stuck inside too - & probably will be until tomorrow. It's no surprise you have such a beautiful bunny collection. Very nice. I display rustic bird houses & birdless bird cages inside my home. And dinner by candle light is the perfect way to calm oneself down from the day's hub bub, isn't it?

[@manbeardogstar]

Good morning Paola. Smoking the OG kush and watching this makes me feel even better. If you ever need a break from everything, come visit us here in the garden state of New Jersey.

[@michellecostley7878]

The white candles in the snow at night. The very picture of elegance.

[@deeb8733]

I was stunned! What a beautiful idea.

[@sofiazigmund5017]

Beautiful...

[@kathyduncan6460]

Simplicity is truly the key to elegance. Absolutely stunning.

[@liqueweave]

I expected a late Lucia show. Well, maybe it's preparing for 11 months later. ;)

[@anastrawberry8047]

@@liqueweave , me too 😄

[@Airbear211]

Has anyone else noticed how much more confidence she has in her voice? I remember in her old videos, her voice was a bit more timid and shy. *I love both versions* :) but I just wanted to say I really love seeing people gain confidence in any way, this is also comforting to see/hear as I have struggled with shyness. Sending love and warmth in this winter season. -xx ❤️

[@TheCottageFairy]

That means a lot to hear, thank you! ❤️I’ve been trying to practice to speak with more confidence - Best wishes

[@Airbear211]

@@TheCottageFairy it means a lot that you read our comments and even take the time to reply! 🥲

[@LaureninGermany]

@@TheCottageFairy I actually wrote the same and deleted it, in case it was too personal, but you absolutely seem happier and more confident. And it’s beautiful. I am very happy for you.

[@rabmcleod3508]

I was thinking that exact same thing, its been nice to see Paola grow but oh I wish my confidence would change. Regards

[@AllenPykalo]

@@rabmcleod3508 I'm guessing that Paola's confidence grew by challenging her self doubts and doing things that were outside her comfort zone (for example, talking directly to the camera). We could all stand to gain by taking this approach. There's a good book on this topic called Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway by Susan Jeffers

[@vella8650]

I don’t know if this will make sense, but your videos have really helped heal me. The last two years for me have been really really bad and my depression sky rocketed. I was diagnosed with depression a few years back and it was incredibly hard before I got diagnosed. I thought I would just get over it and that it was a phase, but that was not true. Whenever I watched your videos I felt more calm. In 2020 I started implementing more cottage core into my life, and alongside with your videos I felt much more in control and calm with my life. Granted my life continues to be hard and complicated, but you’ve helped me see that there is more to life than the pain; life is vast and just because a lot of it is hard doesn’t mean that every aspect is terrible. This realization, your videos, and the cottage core things I implemented have definitely helped my depression. From me to you, I have to say thank you. Please keep making this videos because you are helping people. God bless you.

[@lynnehorizon5532]

I like “cottage core.”

[@kait4586]

The best video to wake up to.😊

[@oneworldonehome]

"Some people are alone but not taking advantage of it, and others have no time to be alone. They have no opportunity to be alone. Or if they have the opportunity, they are afraid to be alone. They are afraid of themselves. They are afraid of their thoughts, their feelings, their anger, their grief, their confusion. They want to stay at the surface, looking outward, always stimulated, their mind always preoccupied. They do not know how to be with themselves. They do not know how to be with anyone. They do not know how to be with anything. Stimulated, agitated, frustrated, they are in a constant state of flux. And the power and presence of Knowledge that is speaking within them, they cannot hear; they cannot feel. This is tragic, particularly in wealthy nations where people have the opportunity to cultivate their inner life. This missed opportunity is such a tragedy. Put yourself in a poor country, where you live in cramped conditions, you have no personal time and space, crowded everywhere. You can hardly think for yourself. You hardly have a moment alone-driven, oppressed, threatened. So the people in the wealthy nations have freedom from these things to such a large degree, and yet they do not take advantage of their great opportunity." If you guys need reading material during this cold winter time, I warmly recommend reading the teaching entitled *Being Alone* from which the passage above originates, but also many other teachings that accompany it within *The New Message from God*

[@julieann1975]

I couldn't hear myself think if I didn't have my alone time, thanks for sharing this

[@ISpyWithMyLittleEye]

The lighting candles shot at night with the mountains in the background was stunning.

[@abeomaria]

As someone who struggles with social anxiety and public speaking, I think it is very cool that you structure your videos in this way. I love the cinematic, poetic aspect of your videos. The gentle narration of your voice is reassuring, peaceful and affirming. But I also love the face-to-face sit down. It's sort of like breaking the 4th wall and allowing us to see you face on (quite literally). And yet, even in front of a camera, you come across kind, intentional, a bit shy and very loving. Thank you for sharing your art and heart. - Abeo

[@evelyncaban8310]

What a role model to many who need to tone down & feel life once more.

[@lyn2014]

Hello @TheCottageFairy I a'm one of your silent viewers, just wanna say Happy New Year! 🥰

[@katipippin9999]

The children and I drove up from Florida, on impulse, and experienced snow for the first time in our lives this past weekend! Such an amazing experience. ❄️

[@Julia-kq9qo]

I always forget some people have never seen snow! It’s weird ❄️🌨 where I live tomorrow’s our first “storm” 5-8”(and it’s my birthday🎉).

[@Kai77-24]

Enjoy!!

[@k_drive]

that's genuinely so sweet 🥰

[@janedoe09]

Thank you for the smile you brought to my face....lucky kids with such a Wonderful Mom

[@reneezancewoman]

In 2020 it actually snowed on Christmas eve in my part of Georgia, lol. It was bizarre!

[@anonymous78546]

For me, winter is a time of reflection, slowing down and healing. It's these moments that we grow and discover new things about ourselves. Stay warm and stay safe. God bless you.

[@emilymichalisin7178]

You are wise beyond your years. Your insight into feelings, thoughts and emotions shows how intuitive you are. Your art shows how creative you are. Your love of reading shows how eloquent you are. You are a gift to all of us and I thank you.

[@yourbeamofsunshine]

Boring is a state of mind that one allows.

[@missosapir]

Therapeutic voice.awesome videography.beautiful in all aspects.

[@Shelley-Nicole]

You are inspiring me to make my own beeswax candles... I love them.

[@Alligator6002]

I love winter. As a very happy introvert the overcast short days energise me. The cold allows me to wrap up all cosy and warm, where I myself can regulate my own temperature. Summer brings the opposite , I get too hot, too bothered, and the unspoken expectation of having to somehow get out and "Enjoy" the sun, gives me the summertime blues. Of which we know there is no cure for. 🌨️

[@sofitocyn100]

I know this feeling. I hate summer (and love winter) for exactly the same reasons!

[@judyholliday217]

I feel the exact same way. I dread the hot summer weather.

[@dallassukerkin6878]

:smiles in absolute agreement: And just to link one of my favourite songs from my childhood - kzbin.info/www/bejne/f5-aq2p4bZyDq8U

[@Alligator6002]

@@dallassukerkin6878 yeah man!! Here's one of mine...🙏....kzbin.info/www/bejne/gWbNf3eHobB3iJY........ And this one of course....💥....kzbin.info/www/bejne/pWXZep-dacafsJo

[@misskitty4296]

My feeling exactly! I don’t dare tell my friends this 😊

[@JessicaJLandi]

We have an adorable black bunny, too. Oh those bunnies! Just a joy.

[@bndergltd3053]

What helps me get through January and February is knowing that each day has one more minute of daylight than the one before. When there’s not much else to enjoy about those two months, that thought makes me happy.

[@michelletapsell7507]

“Thankfully it is all temporary and natural….” Wise words that can be applied to so many moods. They come and they go and keep life interesting and challenging!

[@janedoe09]

:).....just life in general too~~

[@janebaraldi6949]

The sound of the wind, out in the snow ❄️, magical ❤️

[@terryfeally6633]

I live in a place where we experience all four seasons. While winter isn't particularly my favorite,it does lend itself well to encouraging inside hobbies,interests,good books...but after a week of subzero temps...Bring on Spring!! Haha!

[@malombre]

I live near a river in the most humid region of Italy, we’ve been living inside a deep fog these past few weeks from Christmas till now and it was so depressing, cold, gloomy; even romanticising life wasn’t enough: spending days studying Latin, reading in bed with my cat, watching kdramas, baking, listening to some quiet music, nothing was enough and I was feeling mentally and physically exhausted. Last night it rained a lot and it snowed a bit, the wind took the fog away but it’s hard to recover from this winter blues. Sometimes I think that it’s okay feeling blue, feeling restless, it means that our mind and body are recharging in some strange way. That’s how life is and these feelings won’t last forever (no feelings are finite) and you know, spring will come eventually :) Thanks for the video, it’s lovely to enjoy and share with you. Stay warm everyone ✨

[@Kai77-24]

It sounds beautiful but I bet many days of it could be overwhelming. I take some of my best photos in the fog. Do you have any? Unsplash is a place to share pictures. If you have any I'd love to see them. :) I've yet to post my fog ones yet for some reason.

[@malombre]

@@Kai77-24 you are really kind, thank you for taking the time to read my comment. I agree, pictures taken in the fog are very atmospheric, I have a few but for some reasons I never thought to publish them (I'm not really a social media person, I used to be); I'll give it some thought though, thanks for the suggestion :)

[@malombre]

@GERMAN GIRL IN AMERICA hey! hi to you! Hope you're having a great time in America! :) and come to Italy, it's very pretty (even with fog).

[@reneezancewoman]

I realize what you described has gotten old for you, but it sounds kinda nice

[@malombre]

@@reneezancewoman it is nice and cozy, but when you live it repeatedly it makes you feel restless and bored especially if it's a day when you don't feel good with yourself, and every bad feeling is amplified by the loneliness and the boredom. But now, after that bit of snow, there's a lovely frizzy air, the sun is shining and the sky is clear, it feels good and I feel good :)

[@thesilenceoflife453]

What a talent to make and be so warm and loving. I am impressed. And full of humility.

[@sunielthakker9482]

Thank you so much for this virtual experience, it's a very very nice feeling. I don't have words to thank you. Your video is comforting, so soothing, it gives peace of life 🙏🏻 ❤️👌🏻💐

[@joyanne440]

Winter has just begun. Faith in our good Lord Jesus and nice sunny beaches help too.

[@lisabarnfield1089]

Your videos are so grounding. They are full of love, bliss, peace, hope and inspiration, we all need you in our lives x

[@Cryo837]

Luke has such a peaceful and calm energy.....like you. Soul mates.

[@welcomwelcom9882]

There's a reason u're soon to have 1m subscribers Paola. I've been following u from the beginning and cannot tell u how amazing every one of your videos are. With much love and appreciation.

[@kathleenroberts7972]

I have a candle cupboard in my house. Good scents can change or set a mood. I started making candles when I was 12. Sorry for your seasonal sadness. Just sleep more like the bears and when you wake up it will be spring! (Well before you know it)

[@dakotaovdan]

Living in Florida I never experienced winter blues but sometimes I get sad or feel lonely for no particular reason and I accept those feelings and remind myself how beautiful life is and then they pass usually fairly quickly. Sending warm thoughts from the sunshine state 🌞

[@footballlover9207]

As someone who admits to being quite emotional sometimes, I feel you. Whenever I feel this way, I listen to upbeat classic rock songs, watch funny videos (the Tonight Show with Jimmy Fallon hashtags segment never fails to make me laugh!). I also have a wonderful family who always lift me up and encourage me and tell me that today may be rough, but start thinking of happy things. Hope you are doing well!

[@lisalovelylpa]

A friend of mine lives in Florida , it rains a lot , not so much sunshine she say lol

[@dakotaovdan]

@@lisalovelylpa I love a rainy day, where I live (pinellas county) in the summer their is a shower most days but it’s usually quick and warm and the sun comes back out and we’ve been lucky to not have a direct hit from a major hurricane in our area for 100 years

[@dakotaovdan]

@@footballlover9207 Jimmy puts a smile on my face too! thank you!

[@LittleTut]

Florida, yes the sunshine state 🌞 If I decide to move from my home city, Washington, DC, I would move to Florida, maybe Ft. Lauderdale, south of Florida. Though it's been a little mild, little rainy 4 days, then heavy snow Monday, we don't really get that much snow like NY, RI, VT, upper eastern states. Got about 6" or more haven't had that much snow in about 6, 7 yrs. Stay safe. 😊

[@katja.halonen]

I live in the arctic circle. I think that, at least here, its not the snow or freezing temperatures, its the darkness that causes the winter blues.

[@OurNationalAdventure]

The recharge in the new year is important. Love the mini apple 🥧 pies!

[@OurNationalAdventure]

The roses are so beautiful! What a great idea!

[@OurNationalAdventure]

The candles also turned out great. I remember visiting a monastery where they made all the candles.

[@OurNationalAdventure]

The hand warmer sounds great. Happy 2022 ♡

[@kimberleegullbailey2547]

Your too cute! 💛 I have had candle obsessions throughout my life, so no, your not alone. As I've gotten older, I have less of a desire for snow and long Winters. I'm 54. I love your rabbit and your doggie!!! You and your fiance look so happy together. ❣ That's wonderful!

[@jakehayes1345]

Thank you... watching you craft the candles and then seeing them gently glowing in the snow at night was wonderful and magical... Honestly I am a little embarrassed at how much I look forward to your videos ... they are poetic, sincere and inspiring. they are a gift... I always feel so much better after watching them. From the bottom of my heart... thank you and God bless.

[@GrannyDi276]

How beautiful the candles in the snow with the lovely, peaceful music! Thank you! Lord Jesus bless you & yours Old Grandna👵❤

[@Authorisabellekooreman]

I’ve been having terrible mental health days but your videos always make me feel a bit calmer and less overwhelmed. So thank you for sharing this despite the fact that you don’t feel 100%. It really makes a difference :)

[@inezy6329]

Hi, I'm sorry to know that u r having a hard time..if u don't mind my unsolicited advice, I'd like to suggest u watch PlanD. She is a Korean youtuber who records her average daily life. Watching her has given me my calmness and softness back which I've lost after years of dealing with people who wanted to control n changed my character. I also watch Araland who journals..n I hope u will feel better soon..May God bless you..Amen

[@Authorisabellekooreman]

@@inezy6329 Thank you for the recommendations. I love discovering KZbinrs who help you feel better :) (another favorite of mine is Darling Desi). I’ll definitely have a look at your recommendations. Thank you for caring, and I hope you have a wonderful day.

[@beaulieuonnp593]

@@inezy6329 I may check these out too

[@inezy6329]

@@beaulieuonnp593 👌😊..and I also watch Hamimommy n LCC the carpet cleaning guy which I forgot to mention earlier..Happy watching 🤗

[@malissahyatt2425]

Me too. I have an appointment next week to talk about my anxiety. Been more than I can handle for months. These videos have helped me calm down so many times.

[@AIXITstageleft]

You are a magical person; your husband is a lucky man. Let's not count out your brother! His videography is his thing! He is so GOOD! Bravo brother!

[@monicadelgado2896]

That scene of you sitting in the snow at night with the candles was absolutely magical! Although I could see how cold it was from your breath, you took me away and I actually felt the peacefulness and silence. I hope you capture that picture for yourself so you can look back at all that beauty in your later years. The scene was beautiful and you were beautiful in it.

[@numivis7807]

I‘m from hamburg, Germany and I really wish we would get more snow. We rarely get any snow, instead we have what feels like 6 months of clouds, grey and rain, you never see the sun. I think it’s definitely impacting most people. It’s important to find rituals and make your home nice and cosy and peaceful.

[@annas.7710]

I love how Paola says 'Welcome to my home". It feels so calm and cosy.

[@trishcrr]

There isn't anything that gives me more joy in the winter than a clean house and burning candles! My family takes great joy in teasing me about it! 🤣 I've even been seen burning candles during the summer months, I love them so much!

[@karenstairs8273]

Taking a nap is a blessing

[@tammyfernando6822]

You create just beauty and so effortlessly! I was wowed by your apple tarts. I wish I had jars of goodies in my home! So homely- and you use them all! Amazing!

[@christyyen9265]

Winter always makes me feel lost like everything I enjoy is on hold.

[@SeaTurtle515]

Each season, makes us anticipate the next one and all the wonders it holds. My life rhythms change with each season which provides variety and different creativity. The magical dark days of winter can slow us down in a good way. It allows us to catch up on projects, read, learn a new skill, rest our bodies and spend relaxing times with loved ones. Time to reflect and maybe redirect. When I was young, I’m 66, before I embraced the changing seasons and incorporated their uniqueness into my life, I used to dread the cold; but now I see it as an important part of the life cycle for plants, animals and us. Catch up on your rest, because spring is a busy time! Thank you for your lovely content. The candles in the snow were awesome. 💕🌿☃️🦉

[@marshaharwood8883]

Rest up, we all need to rest more!!! Candles are my favourite!!!

[@denverdubois5835]

The music in this video was particularly lovely. The imagery of the candles in the snow will stick with me for a long time, so beautiful and magical! I'm glad it sounds like you are still working at the bookstore, too. No place cozier on a winter's day than a warm bookstore! I have to sleep with a heating pad for my cold feet--I often turn it on even in summer. I recommend getting one--they usually have multiple settings and turn off in an hour or so, after you've comfortably fallen asleep. My cats love them too, and also the pressure-sensitive ones specifically for pets that only warm up when the pet sits on them. Mr. Darcy might enjoy that?

[@terrilynn8770]

Perfectly normal to feel a let down after Christmas. Get lots of rest a beautiful spring is coming. A lot to look forward to.

[@caoimhenimhuireadhaigh1303]

I love January! It's so important after the festive season to have solitude, a time both to recharge and to reflect. Reflect on the year gone by, but also to do some inner reflection. In saying this, I live with other people, so I'm never truly alone 😂

[@mayesucculents2057]

Hi Paola can you make more videos with fairy stories like the snow fairy video? I loved that video from last year.

[@love_anneliese]

what a beautiful video 🥺💕

[@oxigenarian9763]

Winter is like that. While nature rests from its busy work and the trees are asleep, our spirits need to rest, too. Soon enough, the promise of spring arrives, the quickening of the forest awakened by the sun and warmth of the approaching summer. I used to feel bored by my Colorado winters; I learned to cross country ski and to get out into it. Now, winter is my close and intimate friend; I look forward to it's embrace each year. There is no other time when the mountains are as beautiful as they are in winter. Often times, I would ski into an untouched meadow of fresh snow lit up by the sun, the light turning the snow into a sea of brilliant diamonds. The emotion of this sight would bring uncontainable laughter with it. Explore the woods around you on skis or snowshoes, get far away from the cabin so you can hear the still voice of the forest, the quiet voice of nature herself. There is simply no other time of the year to experience this austere but intense beauty....

[@jennydunlop5572]

Here in my part of Canada we have had an unseasonably mild and drizzly winter…. the grey weather combined with the latest round of Covid restrictions has definitely contributed to winter blues! But I have learned to accept these low seasons of life and start new projects that give me a sense of accomplishment. There is definitely peace to be found in useful tasks! Your videos always inspire me to look for the beauty in simple things🥰

[@Kai77-24]

I think the South, here has more snow than the North. Our son is in MI and getting less than us TN'ers. Peace and joy to you and a quick opening for us all.

[@siobhankerr9423]

Right there with ya.. here in Ontario. Started looming, made some scarves for our children. Stay healthy J. Cheers!

[@Amanda-jd8xs]

I live in the tropics. Seeing candles set in the snow brings me a feeling I cannot find words for 😢💔

[@dorikragh1939]

I love this new format. The chats at the end are such a treat. Thanks for your lovely videos.

[@tyberious8]

Candles do so much! Not only are they aesthetically pleasing, they provide warmth and comfort, and also serve a practical purpose. When my 3 kids were little, we’d go through the candle aisle in Walmart and smell all the different candles. We still do that 🙂.

[@mr2001]

Though my heart won't accept that there could be a reason to leave this magical cottage, my mind knows, that it's possible. ✨ Do feel sad to let go, all the experiences that you shared with us from this cottage will not be forgotten.😊💐 Hope to be with you as long as you let me to be. 💐Looking forward to your wedding dear. Much love.💙

[@irmarios7957]

I just love the beauty of the lit candles in the snow.

[@candacenagle505]

Addressing the cold hands/feet has been a lifelong task for me as well. I find it is worse at higher altitudes. What helps me the most is keeping my core very warm so that my organs don't need to draw blood away from the extremities. I layer clothing on my trunk and try never to let my core get chilled (I am sure you do as well), I drink warm liquids constantly, avoid caffeine, and wear gloves. But the most essential part is keeping the core warm.

[@rockera4u]

Thanks so much for the advice “core very warm “ guess is a little more common that I thought... thanks again!!

[@DH-qz2so]

It could be Reynaud's Syndrome...

[@moneynani]

So funny cause my mom always scared me into thinking the hest escaped through my head and feet. For me I could be as bundled up as ever but if my feet were cold, I'm cold!

[@suzicabingrub6515]

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[@jager896]

@@DH-qz2so raynauds is what I have affects me in the summer as well with the extreme heat and also change in temperature so do not warm up to quickly otherwise it becomes very painful Eileen

[@geordieinca9834]

My husband, years before we met, was living in a 275 sf drafty space and lit a bunch of candles in the bedroom to try to get warm. He had 3 comforters. Thank God he had a smoke alarm because boy did it go off & he woke up with the worst headache due to lack of oxygen. Thank God he was ok, but cold!

[@lamar9331]

You experience what just about everyone goes through in winter, especially when there are such drastic four seasons. Winter allows us to slow down, ands do exactly what your doing, Read, hobbies, bake, a good meal, take a walk, clean and sort out, soft lighting. I love New England weather. I wouldn't live anywhere else.

[@KENTUCKYUSA1]

I cherish your open honesty. You are a breath of clean air, my dear. Much happiness and many blessings!

[@madimacdonald5563]

The serotonin boost was lovely this morning. Thank you for the cozy update and have a wonderful, frosty season.

[@vansf3433]

The right English word for your expression is lonesome , but not lonely

[@deeb8733]

Just found your channel a week ago, I love it! Sent a 5.00 donation. Cannot wait for a postcard from you!!! I live in Wisconsin. I'm somewhat isolated but not to the degree you are! I do love solitude but yes, it has its challenges in winter! I find reassurance listening and watching your artistry; what a magnificent creator🤎 God's peace to you in this day.

[@nancyoffenhiser4916]

Reading to and Dancing with Mr. Darcy... Priceless. ❤️❤️

[@golnarfadee5877]

Not getting any snow or the real feel of the seasons can be a cause of the Winter blue, too! Believe me, as someone who is used to experiencing 4 seasons from childhood(not so extreme winter but definitely snowy enough and tempretures btw 5 c to -5 c ), the climate change and pollution that's made no-snow winters here, I feel like scaping somewhere with snow in the winters!

[@OriginalAcefanatic]

I am obsessed with candles. I have enough candles to light the whole neighborhood! 😳

[@bunny1979]

I love candels it makes me feel wealthy lol but I get the winter blues as well especially after Christmas 💔

[@deeb8733]

Peace to your heart.🕊

[@bunny1979]

@@deeb8733 thank you I need it right now

[@donnaallgaier-lamberti3933]

For 20 years we live in an isolated rural area. This was in Michigan and in the winter the roads are black ice and dangerous. I found that NO ONE would come and visit our area all winter long. We were very isolated. We had to learn to be creative and adjust. We spent a LOT of time snow blowing, taking care of the chickens, walking the dogs etc. but this still left us a lot of time alone. I worked on my art projects, I cooked a lot and did a lot of extra cleaning and organizing. I found that my yoga practice, my hot tub and soaking lavender bath each night really helped me manage this time. I did get used to this extra quiet lifestyle but it took a few years to adjust.

[@tommy..980]

Morning Paola, those apple tarts you made we’re so cool… You’re talents with everything blows me away!!!! Hope you get back to feeling better soon… The Holidays with all the fun and love ones around are fantastic until they all leave and the blues do set in.. I’m sure that’s why you’re so tired too.. Hoping you’ll have a wonderful peaceful Winters nap 💤 take care ☺️

[@kaylajameson841]

Stay warm. Spring is around the corner 🌼🌻🌸🌺

[@LaureninGermany]

It’s funny how your feelings surprise you sometimes… I can relate so well. I think it’s so important to listen, then. And act on what they are telling you, if you can in any way. We‘re always pulling ourselves together, and missing important signs. Your video made me think of the Schubert song “the shepherd on the rock”, who sings of such loneliness and then such joy when the Spring “wants to arrive”. Yet another connection we human souls share, through lands and time. Big hug to you, Paola. I hope this is your last lonely Winter.

[@kimberlyrose5251]

You are so sweet and I absolutely love your energy, so peaceful and I resonate with view of what is beautiful, thank you for sharing

[@FrancescoCaraArt]

Ciao Paola! Aspettavo questo video con impazienza, grazie per condividere con noi la tua saggezza e la tua gentilezza. Ti abbraccio forte !♡

[@judithbutler9695]

You have brought peace as it is a ….tough but beautiful time of year❤️

[@orkosubmarine]

gosh you and your content are so wholesome and welcoming, thank you so much for sharing your life with us

[@Tonggg123]

The candlelight shot at night with the mountains in the background is stunning. I would love to use a backdrop like this again.

[@senbebe3320]

Even though I’m in the Southern Hemisphere (and in a definitely warmer climate 😂) I’ve still felt very off recently and your kind and wise words have helped to inspire me and many others I assume ☺️! Thank you Paola you have no idea how much of a positive impact you have made on my life ❤️ (and other people’s too moment doubt 🥰)

[@ChicReal]

You and your sister are such sweet souls and kindred spirits. I can see why you miss her dearly. Every detail in your daily living is beautiful dear Paola. Stay warm and cozy surrounded with the beautiful ambiance by candlelight. Much love, peace, and blessings. 🥰🙏🏻🥰

[@Lisa_LaCroix]

I just love Paola's video style! I couldn't be more different: in my late 50's, extraverted, chaotic, speedy, and ADHD-like brain. Watching this channel is so calming and inspiring for the beauty of language, images, and insight into such a different human being. At the same time, touched by the ways we are all related and I am noticing how many people seem to be experiencing fatigue and mal-content this past week or two. Thank you for the beauty.

[@gabrielleangelica1977]

Cheer up! You're heading toward a million subscribers...you are NOT alone. 🕯️

[@bethraptis6504]

You are just a refreshing delight, something I NEED in this negative world around me! I found your channel just after Christmas, and I AM HOOKED! You are so beautiful, inside and out. Thank you for sharing your sweet spirit and God given talents. Sending you love and best wishes from my country home South Carolina. PS: I have a candle cupboard in my living room for my collection. Also, I have many old kerosene lamps and lanterns. I just counted 18 on a shelf in my bedroom! I, too, love the softness and romance of candlelight. I'm 65, and I always wish I'd been born in an earlier century.

[@darcyferrigno]

I have started collecting candles (good ones, by small businesses and local artists) and I love it. I use to "save" my best candles instead of burning them. Now, since I get them as gifts for my birthday and xmas and such, I can get excited about burning them when I read or relax.

[@darcyferrigno]

Also, my husband's daughter gets me a candle from Rx, Los Angeles every year. They are soy based, smell divine and burn forever. (as well as a small business)

[@apriljillian]

When you mentioned the difficulty of saying goodbye to your sister, I really felt that! Glad to see your fiancé join you eventually. ❤️ Love the candles in the snow!!!!

[@deniecezinnecker9630]

I think that I appreciate the contemplative music on your videos almost as much as I do what you say. It is obvious that you have a sound grasp of who you are. That is truly a gift--don't lose it!

[@thequietlittleteacup]

I love how your videos tell stories. You don’t just film your everyday life, you act in front of the camera. It gives us a theatrical view into your world. I really love your videos. I wait each week for your videos like it’s tv series! Keep up your wonderful work!

[@julieblessing3]

What I like most about you is creativity, thanks for making these videos

[@evanagib9462]

Love watching u🥰

[@elenacala]

I've lived in tall mountains in what most people consider the boonies, middle of no where during winter. And there IS something magical about it. Maybe it's cause I was there as a kid, but before Christmas you could see in the snow the tiny foot prints of fairies and elves making sure we were good children. There was the beautiful icy starlight, and days spent dreaming of spring, and finding creative ways to stay warm. Each of us would get a small potato wrapped in tin foil as we left for school in the morning to keep our hands warm till we got there and then we had a great snack.

[@MiddleEarthGirl75]

Hi Paola! You probably already know this but upping your vitamin D3 helps a lot against the "winter blues." It's also important for immunity. I'm myself am taking 3000-4000 iu's. I've suffered from anxiety disorder and bouts of depression and have felt it's helped a lot :) Again, thank you for inviting us into your home! With love, from Ontario, Canada 🇨🇦

[@sarahherboth9447]

This is so true, it has also helped me tremendously!

[@marcelaramirez7483]

Your purity connects me to my soul. I await your videos every week ❤️ thank you so much for your work

[@freelife98]

I also love to cook, but I can't cook as delicious as the food you cook. You are wonderful

[@trieulieu1383]

I really want to eat your rustic dishes

[@chautrieu7340]

Lieu! Your cooking is also very good, i love watching your cooking videos

[@trieuhuyuong7220]

You are brave and beautiful

[@alma4328]

I love everything about you

[@nhatantrieu2172]

You work so hard, you deserve all the best

[@ceferinocanibano6284]

Take Care. IT must be difficult to live with so much snow. I'd be very scared to drive under those conditions. Disfruta haciendo fotos. La nieve es preciosa.

[@sweetalyssum338]

I just wanted to pass along a few channels to you Paola (and any other peace loving beings) firstly, Hollene’s Cottage -a sweet person with a calm disposition who loves vintage things second Wild Simplicity -beauty, country living, silent vlog and lastly Dave’s Walks -fella from UK who walks in th most beautiful places taking us along with him and silently so we can hear the nature. Feeding my mind and soul with your videos Paola and other lovely peoples work, good books, nice candles and lots of tea is getting me through the hard times.

[@natthebratster]

I know you addressed your comment to Paola but I wanted to thank you. I checked them out and I do love Wild Simplicity and Dave's Walks. Great recommendations!!!

[@cherylodonnell6050]

Those candles in the snow.....so beautiful!

[@avery348]

You give off such a magical and positive vibe. Making me feel like we do live in a fairytale. A lot of things you say are very relatable to many of us I do think. I also love your artistic baking skills, they always look very whimsy and delicate☺️!!Thanks again Paola!! ♡︎