When Should You Swipe and When Should You Run Away (With Amelia Samson)

[@Brynnthebookworm]

Inherited money from someone you hate doesn't have to be dirty money, or something you have to donate or waste. I'm working on my father's estate that my sister and I will be inheriting from, even though neither of us had talked to him in the past decade. He had no will so we were the default inheritors. In life, he treated money as more important than me, which is a big part of what led to me cutting him off. But in death I get half of what he had left, and I fully intend to use it to improve my own life in ways that he never would have helped me with when he was alive.

[@margodphd]

Absolutely. My uncle was a religious bigot that did fuckload of bad things so I spent all the money he had on charities he'd HATE. Not to redeem him, just to unfuck the fucks he did.

[@bluesunquake]

Glad for you! Hope it isn't too stressful!

[@marcilynn2943]

Good for you and I wish you the best.

[@firstandlastaliv3]

You're right. People can be so so silly.

[@aprettylittlemonster]

Wow the story about her date with the “not religious” youth pastor… horrible. The fact that we as women so often just sit there and listen to that toxic babbling just so we can make it end sooner. We placate them because they can literally be a danger to us, others, and sometimes themselves. Especially when they’re slamming back the alcohol. I know I’ve sat through dates where the dude would literally not shut up about himself and never actually engaged me in conversation. And then he asked me to not interrupt him when I tried to offer my thoughts at one point. Insufferable.

[@heatherh4272]

As a mom in the dating world, I can verify trusting your gut is the key. I havent been on very many actual dates lately, because i know what red flags to watch for before the date happens.

[@MatthewTheWanderer]

Agreed. That's why my biggest red flag are people with kids.

[@andrealazar1556]

The Speech Prof has ears here and I can't believe no one else seems to have mentioned it!🙂 loved this

[@notadev1590]

The ears are paid actors

[@rosey_ie]

Noticing the ears was literally my first thought 😅

[@EBbaby23]

I have a theory on d* pics! So on Reddit a while back, there was some dude who revealed what’s happening while saying something like “men just get hot/turned on from seeing b* just like women do when they see a d*” It explains so much, like they genuinely believe women open them and are like “oh wow, I’m so hot rn” that and I think they’re desperate for attention and don’t know how to get in touch with their feelings.

[@lexwithbub]

It's similar with the topless gym bro profile pics. All I can think is, if that's all you've got to try to impress me, then you're not impressing me. 😂

[@DocKrazy]

Yeah it's like how men rate male attractiveness on what they find attractive about women (see the extensive focus on physical appearance, but sometimes the outright neglect of emotional intelligence and communicative abilities)

[@lillyenovis15]

The irony is that most people I’ve heard an opinion on the topic about, regardless of gender or orientation, agree that feminine figures are more aesthetically appealing than any dick ever. Even gay men love boobs, but most straight women, gay men, bi-/pansexual individuals find dicks to be unattractive visually.

[@reesekarns]

I’ve been asked this question a lot, for some reason, why men send dick pics. Usually it’s just a failure to realize that men and women tend to be different. I don’t think there’s a ton of thought that goes into it, but yeah, they sort of figure well, if a woman sent me photos of her junk, that would be awesome so a woman would probably want to see mine. Sometimes it’s not that innocent. There are men who expose themselves to women against their will as a way of feeling they have some sort of power and control over women. But most of the time it’s just dudes being clueless.

[@hippychick420]

Glad to be here for the annual showing of Bad Advice Wednesdays.

[@TheRealSpeechProf]

I appreciate you being here!

[@poffit]

The blue and pink lighting adds such a nice contrast between the two of you. This is a really lovely video.

[@kim15742]

Unintentional Bisexual Lighting

[@Nerobyrne]

30 minutes of speechprof content? The gods are generous today

[@TheRealSpeechProf]

I appreciate it! New episode every Wednesday from now on.

[@alarcon99]

@@TheRealSpeechProfoh Pooh bear. Don’t make promises you can’t keep. We’ll take what we can get and we’ll like it!

[@TheRealSpeechProf]

@@alarcon99 I already have the first 5 episodes filmed, so you have at least that many 😂

[@alarcon99]

@@TheRealSpeechProf omg! A reply! I can’t stop smiling. Thank you! Also thank you for bringing Amelia to my radar. She’s precious and awesome and I just subscribed.

[@kathydurow6814]

The roommate one: Move out. Then they're not your roomie. Is that good bad advice?

[@gornser]

Exactly my thoughts.

[@thecrabmaestro564]

Also, whenever we talk about mixed age relationships we always prioritise the man in our phrasing. "He's dating young" is almost always said instead of "she's dating older" and works that same in regards to "he's dating older" instead of "she's dating young"

[@Nyledam89]

I love how the bad advice turned into good advice at some point. 😂

[@williamalexander7481]

This was so adorable and I mean that in the best way. You really struggled with giving bad advice. ❤

[@annataymond9529]

Oh my gosh he’s so bad at bad advice 😂you can see the genuineness trying to escape.

[@jhor729]

It's a little traumatising for some women to realiize how easy men's lives are when it comes to not being sexually harassed with dudes sending dick pics

[@satibel]

actual good advice to make friends as an adult: find hobby groups, you'll have something in common to do. keeping friends is the hard part imo, I haven't talked to some friends in many years but I still consider them close friends.

[@tigersfan61979]

Any chance of this also being audio only and on the usual podcasting apps? I'd love to listen to this in the car.

[@TheRealSpeechProf]

It is! It’s on all the big podcast apps and a few smaller ones as well.

[@larah.9568]

I recently learned about the Burned Haystack Dating Method. It helps women and trans people find the "needle in the haystack" by burning (blocking) the haystack to make things easier to find the good people. That's where y'all should be going when you're looking to get back into dating.

[@AliciaZinn]

So fun! 30 mins doesn't feel long enough. I am looking forward to more every week!

[@lillyenovis15]

The suggestion of a charitable donation from inheritance for a hated relative is absolutely fabulous and I love it

[@poffit]

"i'm bored and we were good in bed" - new ariana grande song

[@bugdrawsstuff]

Thank you for this, my day is about to be some much better :3

[@TheRealSpeechProf]

That means so much to me, thank you!

[@poffit]

9:00 the sad chesko sent me. amelia just like, sir.... u r so innocent

[@poffit]

chessko??? 4th wall = broken, mind = blown, heart/mind = investedddd. ok stfu ADHD, im done commenting now

[@TheRealSpeechProf]

😂 happy to have you here!

[@poffit]

gay community in ur areas unsually pretty small, that's why us gays keep in touch with our exes, or we'll have zero friends (sorry for a million comments, im a twitch watcher, it's impossible not to word vomit alover)

[@TheRealSpeechProf]

Haha no I appreciate it. I was considering doing a watch party on here for future releases for this exact reason.

[@poffit]

bangs only!! everyone will know im nonbinary. GREAT advice💪💪💪

[@daniethegirl029]

I love the both of you so much. Please do this again. ❤ I could listen to Amelia tell stories for hours.

[@FireQueenFaeee]

This was a great watch ❤

[@poffit]

theres a dilf manor version out there too, hosted by stormi daniels. im 10000% serious

[@dinosaurs_rule]

This genuinely made my day! Thank you. I love your content :)

[@eeeeee2919]

I LOVE UR PFP

[@dinosaurs_rule]

@@eeeeee2919 thank you so much :)

[@poffit]

omgggggggg, i was waiting for this to drop, happppy frikken pride to meeee. imma go getta snack

[@TheRealSpeechProf]

You are the best!

[@poffit]

@@TheRealSpeechProf and a reply, imma just go, LOSE MY GODDAM MIND rn. fr tho, ty for everything. i live somewhere im not really safe to be me, and your channel gives me what i can't have atm. ty. THANK YOU

[@TheRealSpeechProf]

@@poffit knowing that my channel offers you even a little bit of a respite from that genuinely means so much to me.

[@heysowhatever]

if the older women dating younger men take is genuine, I massively disagree, I get the balancing things out idea in theory but we should be doing a better job of shaming creepy men not empowering the same creepy behaviour by women.

[@unicorn73212]

It depends on the woman if that older woman is really attractive and she doesn't actually look old or creep some guys find it attractive if she holds herself in a respectable way and she wasn't the one that approached him first it also depends on how young the guy is sometimes older women have more boundaries then older men too like I won't accept any guy under 25. If she's hitting on guys that can't even drink yet then yeah that's weird because usually older women don't act that way. Sometimes people lie about older women too and they make it seem like we're still out there hitting the pole at 40. No just a few of us are and there usually crack whores.

[@sdennen]

Does Bumble still have the different options? I had joined in 2018 and there were three: relationships, friendships, and professional networking.

[@LC-sc3en]

The number of people who take "friendship only" tags as a challenge is overwhelming.

[@munchablemoth]

This was so good 😂 ill be listening every Wednesday

[@pinkpunther]

16:51 i use the zig-zag craft scissors

[@satibel]

it's not old man yells at cloud, it's young woman yells at tinder.

[@poffit]

oh halleluja, im in the comment section before all the stinky poopy (insert any word) phobes show up

[@TheRealSpeechProf]

Haha fingers crossed that it stays this way! 😂

[@LL-fw7hi]

This was excellent. Gave me big space ghost C to C vibes weirdly. Keep doing.

[@poffit]

Bumbles one of the feeeeeew of these apps weve actually got in souf africa

[@Nerobyrne]

I don't understand the point of Tinder, the only way to interact is to swipe right or left. I had it for a bit, swiped right on everyone, got no matches and uninstalled.

[@mslindadoll]

Talking to your mother-in-law offering advice: "Thanks for sharing ; I'll give your advice all the weight it merits."

[@fuzzyalba5419]

19:40 With a Broadway musical number

[@elijabutterfly6154]

I love this series already 😂

[@satibel]

usually for lgbt relationships, in my experience we are more open and also more likely to break up on good terms than stay in a bad relationship. like "you want me to fold my socks, that's not gonna work" but still hook up. also there's a lot of weird friends with benefits ish relationships, like playing with a friend who's got a foot fetish and everyone around is hitting her with feet at any occasion.

[@bbdawn9253]

I like my bangs 😂

[@jidduv]

oh no prof. don't put that out into the universe. 9:05

[@poffit]

the lube... nooooooooo

[@SoLongSpaceCat]

Re: the inheritance money: Go all in on buying a house with a family member who's a hoarder... ask me how I know 😂

[@electroracc5225]

I'm trying to launch my own podcast, but I'm really struggling with finding the confidence to make it happen. If you or anybody has tips or encouragement, it would mean a lot. I have a plan for the content and themes. I'm a strong writer, I'm extroverted and have no problem with finding people to interview and discuss the topics I'm covering. I have compassion for anybody and am willing to hear them out, even if I disagree with their perspective. I'm scared of the tech and editing involved. I'm not especially skilled with computers. While I've done a lot of social media marketing I don't trust in my ability to keep myself accountable when what I'm trying to promote is this precious to me. This feels like my calling. It's really important to me. I'm just stumped on how to get past this sense of intimidation. Your work is incredible. You're kind and compassionate in a way which draws people to you, you're open-minded and a great listener, and you're HUMAN and can promote your own content while remaining humble and willing to admit your flaws. Someday, I'm going to do just what you're doing here, and I can't wait to get there. I'm not sure how to start, but this interview is incredible, and I'm excited to produce content like this.

[@marieluise6907]

Thank you so much for the video 🤍

[@Biddybud]

I love to try to use reverse psychology on the advice, but it's still coming out wrong.

[@RivGrapple]

Wait, you make long form videos?

[@critical-goat]

Buzz cuts are so underrated 😊

[@akwardaro9235]

nah, yoy gotta tell her you hate her as if she shoud've allready known

[@SophiaAphrodite]

Fun fact: monetizing puts out 5 minutes of commercials per 5 minutes of content. I can't run it while away so end up not watching.

[@hive_indicator318]

What is the app for straight chubby genx guys? Not asking for the prof. I've been single too long

[@Mente_Fugaz]

Nissaxter habla ingles?

[@LightsHikesAndWanderlove]

How to submit question?

[@MyEyebrowsAreMyEnemy]

Remember the trench coat if you’re looking for friends. Those just seems friendly.

[@DocKrazy]

Hey. People with impeccable sense of style *are* friendly!

[@Summerhaven97]

Some women look amazing with a buzz cut. No joke. Especially if the woman has tiny facial features

[@kittinallen4738]

I remember the "bangs only" trend. Girls, guys.... It was.... Ugh

[@poffit]

for love

[@Ciana2024]

For love😂

[@lexwithbub]

How do I make it work? Viagra helps 😂

[@mmmmmduffbeer]

I can't believe that the TheSpeechProf's audience's gender is so skewed towards women. That makes no sense to me.

[@rosey_ie]

Why doesn’t it make sense to you?

[@mmmmmduffbeer]

​@@rosey_ieIt just doesn't seem like gendered content to me.

[@rosey_ie]

@@mmmmmduffbeer 😂 Are you serious?!

[@mmmmmduffbeer]

​@@rosey_ieYeah, being anti-douchebag and anti-bigot isn't a gendered thing to me.

[@aidensteel8024]

@@rosey_ieI actually kinda expected it to be male skewed because of how much he talks about things that I would consider positive masculinity (being a good father and husband, or being supportive of people when we can never truly relate to their struggle). as someone who fell into toxic masculinity circles when I was younger his content really resonated with me.