When Things Don't Go To Plan.

[@PeckmasterK]

I have a BFA in ceramics - the best thing a teacher ever did for us/me was have us make 50 bowls, and then when we presented them for evaluation (before we fired them), he surprised us and had us smash 45+ on the wall. Ceramics is an art form where a lot of things don’t go according to plan, and that first week or two was a great intro to what to expect. As time went on, it became very normal to cut pieces in half to see how well thrown they were, and to not get too invested in each piece because each firing can go an incredible number of directions. I ended up winning juried shows, showing in galleries, and making things I am really proud of, but that first intro into accepting failure/loss/editing was really helpful as a life lesson in art and in general.

[@moussabby]

Dear Dalia, how I love your storytelling! I feel like we (you and us) have moved from DIY Dalia - purely DIY content to DIY Dalia where DIY is a more holistic/all-encompassing concept, a shared experience into actually living life. And isn't life the ultimate DIY? :) Thank you so much for sharing your life experience with us. What you say, especially about not letting external validators define you, your worth or your values resonate so much with me. I cannot express how grateful I am for you.❤

[@Princessmom9]

I love those lights hanging next to your bed. Also, the ceramics that you made were so cute.

[@cassiebrunson1590]

I have been a follower for years, and one of the reasons is bc I relate to you, your issues and struggles. It's the same and I truly enjoyed this vid. I agree with your values so much

[@valeriemoon8729]

You inspire me!! I am way way older than you, but can I just tell you that your videos speak to me and just make me feel like I am not alone in my feelings. I have a wonderful husband and daughter and extended family. There is love all around!! But your content and the things that you talk about go straight to my heart. You are a beautiful young lady and I only pray that I instill the qualities and thoughts that you have in my daughter. So simply Thank you and please keep doing what you are doing!! Much love from Birmingham Alabama!!!

[@MicheleWalkerWebb]

Your words are so true. Dalia touches my soul.

[@valeriemoon8729]

I know she is just so wise beyond her years. She is an old soul and I just adore her!!!

[@lmorgee5]

Your last statement alone is why I subscribed. Besides your talent. I don’t even like being on KZbin much. But I needed some inspiration. I’ve been with out a home for a long time, and my kids let me turn an old shop into an apartment on their property. At 57 and widowed, I need all the help I can get. So thanks. And yeah, it took a long time for me to be okay with who and where I am. Im good. Life is good and when it’s not, that’s okay too.

[@Naamisonbekend2]

I know it's not common in social media to show your not doing great, but I think it's really brave and good that you do. Being great all the time is not realistic at all

[@Balanced_Waters]

So glad you are back! I honestly hardly ever notice when you tubers take a break but I was constantly thinking about your channel. Hope all is well 😊

[@shelleyjames9830]

Great to see you face (and Parth’s too). One day at a time. Love your spirit and your openness to share. 💕

[@lisacamilleri211]

The ceramic pieces are really great. You are wrong about everything you think isn’t right about them (except maybe the cracked handles, which is a bummer), they’re all lovely and nothing looks dirty. The bowl with the hearts may be my favorite piece. As someone who is super hard on themselves, I’ll say to you what I never say to myself: give yourself grace. You are really talented and this was no exception.

[@ashantishurat3496]

Honestly, everything you made looks great. I think you’re being extremely hard on yourself for someone who is extremely new to ceramics. I think you did a amazing job.❤❤😊

[@iyunoluolawuyi]

Indeed, we do owe that to ourselves. I'm learning how to speak my self-love-language. Love you too

[@williammuhammad3214]

That back space is awesome ❤❤❤❤❤

[@JennaMcCallister]

Happy to see you back! It’s all a learning process, and you accomplished something. Every time you see those items, you’ll remember the process and how much you enjoyed making them. 💜

[@timaaa50]

So glad you are ok!

[@BecBurb]

The first dish could be a soap dish or jewelry tray ❤ love it all . Great first pieces!

[@ceciliarugerio8597]

Happy to see you again. I’m glad you’re doing well. I’ve missed your videos. You are such a genuine and kind person and it shows in your videos. You’re videos help recenter my mindset that it’s okay if things don’t go as planned or aren’t where I want them to be. Thank you. Thank you Dalila for all the effort and value you put into making your videos ❤

[@alialmagic]

I am happy you are back and even more happy you took the time away to figure out exactly what you need.😊

[@clarissecarrington]

Dalia! I’m so glad you’re safe and okay! We’re happy you’re back.

[@lorettadiaz698]

I'm so glad to see you again. I wish you the best and I definitely agree with what your deciding to do. Keep positive and love yourself no matter what 🧡

[@samanthaflament5671]

Your videos are such a well needed, relaxing break from the busy, high energy, overwhelmingness of most social media. I always end them feeling soothed, relaxed, motivated, and inspired. I appreciate that more than you could know. Thank you for your content, your vibe, and your authenticity. 💛

[@deborahjohnstone1688]

You have the sweetest hubby!

[@asiaclayed]

I majored in ceramics and I spent sooo much time making things that had all the little issues and then as soon as I thought I had learned all those it was another round of learning! Lol so I always think I learned patience, observation and mindfulness from school.

[@tracemelater]

I love your content so much!!!! It’s not just project after project or thing after thing but real life struggles and thoughts and asking the hard questions to ourselves. Thank you so much for this because I’ve been having a hard time too and this just makes me feel like I’m not alone.

[@nicolerenee7105]

Omg! I’m glad to see you’re doing fine! Welcome back ❤️

[@nieyal.9005]

We get you and we see you Dalia! Thank you for always being authentic❤

[@katrinacool]

We've missed you Dalia! I love how creative you are and the ceramics are amazing. I've gotten away from negative social media and concentrating on me and my family. I'm traveling more, working less and living less stressful. Eating healthier and being more positive. Im not putting things off anymore and I'm not letting negativity into my life. That's why I love your channel- its uplifting and I appreciate your strength and struggles. Im so happy you have found the best things in life are all that matters to you! 😊🥰☺️❤️☀️🌴🦩❤️🥰❤️

[@MicheleWalkerWebb]

So true. I also have gotten away from "influencers" on social media. I was spending to much time watching other's lives. Not living mine. I stopped eating sugar and drinking coffee. I feel better. Good luck to you. Be well 👋

[@XSemperIdem5]

Pottery is a process and you did really well. My ceramics professor used to tell us that we had to work with the clay and never against it. It's not all about the final product, it's about enjoying the process. If you're using any of your vessels for food or drink, just make sure it's high fire clay and glaze. My personal favorites were darker clays because of the earthier tones and the high fire glazes can be so earthy and beautiful. If the cracks by the handles weren't there after the bisque fire, it might just be the glaze that cracked durian the last firing. For the inside of the bowls, try a little bit more glaze in the bottom center because it looks like it's just the clay peeking through.oh yeah, and the vessels will always shrink once fired.

[@cynthiamuffoletto7480]

Yes!! I love your style of work!!

[@pman2916]

Omgosh omgosh! I've never been so happy to see someone on YT before. So relieved to see you both🙏💙

[@sharons8690]

however you feel, and whatever you want, we’ll be here for you. stay happy, stay safe, stay calm. you’re worth it.

[@janbeard494]

This was beautiful. It actually made me cry. I want all those things you mentioned as well. I have struggled so much lately with anxiety and that’s not what I want for my life! Cheers!

[@miamiflorida6965]

Just be yourself and live in gratitude, don't worry about what people think!

[@suemeunier2556]

Missed you. Glad to see you evolving into the lovely young lady that you are. Never ever let someone else define who or what you should be. You are you. Creative, sensitive and talented.

[@emmaconnoley9167]

Soo happy to see you back!! I was waiting all through the video for a I broke my leg etc, I’m glad it never came and you are okay and just living your life 😊

[@karyntruitt573]

I’m glad ur back! I have been checking ur channel to see if u had posted a vid that perhaps i missed. I was like, where is she lol! I hope she’s ok! Then i saw a notification that u uploaded a vid n i was so happy! You do you! I love ur channel and the things you create are inspiring! Please keep creating. You are gifted in so many areas! I love that you share ur gift with others. Thank You!

[@chelisa427]

LOVE this style of video! Keep sharing your wisdom ❤️

[@kaizen_5091]

Love your work Dalia. The way you humanize the DIY experience is wonderfully non-judgmental and brings a sense of excitement to realistically explore and just give it a go. I imagine all DIYers, including myself, have underestimated the amount of experience it takes for an artisan to achieve their beautiful works we aspire to. It can be disappointing, like Dalia shared in this video, but part of the DIYer charm is that we don't let it dissuade us from giving it a go the next time we dream about making something. I've seen on this channel Dalia achieve amazing DIYs and they have not been without their hiccups and learning curves along the way. One of the main reasons I love this channel is because it isn't the fake glossed over version of DIY. Keepin' it real is part of Dalia's charm❣

[@hannahmesters9354]

So happy to see you back! I really love watching your videos, it makes me feel relaxed, warm and creative. It inspires me that you are so honest about things that do not go as planned. It sucks to hear that you had a hard time but I think its brave of you to share it on KZbin! Sending you lots of love from the Netherlands :)

[@loranthiweerakoon2011]

I do a bit of pottery painting myself...love the stuff you made...very creative I should say❤👍

[@renpatman]

You got even me making a comment! So glad you're back 🎉

[@joanipicard408]

I have missed seeing your videos and was very content to see this posted.

[@shoelover526]

I wish you happiness and love in whatever you do

[@linamorin6131]

I missed you and your video's I was hoping that you were doing ok. Happy to see you back😊

[@MicheleWalkerWebb]

Missed you Dalia. Your speak overs really soothe me. I cut my social media also. I need to live my life and stop watching others live theirs. The clay and skating look exciting. Your ending hit my heart. ❤ Seeing you in this new element was fantastic. From the comments everyone seemed to enjoy also. Wishing you well each day. 👋👋

[@arr0991]

Oh my goodness!! So glad you guys are ok!! We were worried about you after not hearing anything from you for a while.

[@L0U1SE]

4 lessons? These are great. You are truly expecting too much too soon. It’s a skill to make beautiful pottery. Skills take time to grow and develop

[@ilovecatsnteanbooks3971]

You are 100% right! We are here to live our life, not someone else’s. We should all learn to be as happy within ourselves as possible. I like how you called it finding contentment, that is how I would truly like to feel, content. I’m so happy you are back, you are a beautiful young lady, inside and out. Sending love to you and Parth from the UK 🥰

[@mumstheword8]

Welcome back!! Yes, happiness comes from within. Do, say, and feel whatever it is you want. Don't mind all the others around you. Most of the time people are unhappy in their own lives and like to spread that misery. U be u and people that love you for who you are will stick around! :) Glad to hear you are in the moment. That is very important.

[@pOtTahiSoUrkiNg]

i'm so glad to see you're doing okay! and well, there's a first to everything, isn't it? all the pieces look very cute tbh even and even though they might have a few flaws, it's your intention with which you took up this project that's all that matters! and now you just made me add pottery to my bucket list :)

[@aCycleofSelfcontrol]

Just found you because of some counters I don't like and I feel like I found someone I can relate to. I love that:') anyways, thanks

[@klk12399]

So good to see you back!

[@greenaround]

Hey Dalia! Hope you doing better. Was hoping u could share the link or brand of the quarter plates. Thanks!

[@busisiwenkwanyana7035]

So happy to see you back

[@adriennealine]

On a very similar journey to contentment. I went back to work after being unemployed for 2 years. The new job was something that I didn’t enjoy, but had years of experience. I found myself in another rut and was so bored and uninspired. I felt so out of place. I think the universe has a way of bringing things to light because I was laid off within 3 months of my start date. I’m now going back to what I started a year ago, which was launching my Etsy shop. I feel anxious, but excited that I get to build the creative life I’ve always wanted. All my fears are coming to the forefront and it’s terrifying! Watching your videos, especially these very insightful videos, gives me a sense of hope and reminds me that nobody is holding me to these standards/timelines but myself. That you can overcome self-doubt and live in a way that is authentic to you. 💕 it’s been a couple months since I’ve watched your videos (very unlike me 😅) and currently binging! As always, thanks for sharing, Dalia! You give me the courage to be braver. 🫶🏼

[@shannonsallows7614]

I just checked your feed yesterday wondering how you are, good to see another video

[@jessiestenerson]

Thanks for sharing you ❤

[@tashapeartwright5089]

Welcome back😊.

[@RemSudowoodo]

Glad and relieved you're okay. As I was watching this video I felt like I was kinda bracing for bad news. Like some of the others said, I noticed your absence and I even checked your IG. But everyone needs a break sometime. I think a lot of us who watched your content regularly love you for you. Social media can both bring us together and also be toxic at times. It's okay to evolve with time and do what feels right to you. ❤

[@nuthinbutlove]

You are so cute and you're such an adorable couple 😊

[@shabbysuse7821]

We do owe ourselves that.

[@shireenjacobs4185]

Glad your back..missed you 😊

[@mtralyson4659]

Heeey. Happy to see you're back 😊

[@sillythu1]

Yay for a new Dalia video! 🎉

[@hexfloo]

I really like your voiceovers

[@krysteneichelberger4301]

The kitchen backsplash, is that a diy wall?

[@patriciaoldfather6377]

What was that cheesy, scrumptious looking casserole at your mom's??? It looks so totally delish! Please share what is is and the recipe! Okay, so I am really hungry now. 😂

[@clairebaron2037]

Oh my God, I missed you! 🥺

[@VocalOne444]

❤

[@AneMoneRaskmark]

I love your videos and your are so pretty to

[@leslievalenciano-lopez8887]

🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️

[@lavenderoh]

I feel like your instructor/s should have prepared you to expect this. Honestly if I had paid for 4 lessons and they didn't even tell me things would shrink or that glazes don't turn out exactly how you'd expect.. I would ask for a refund or at least another 8hrs in there to make new things. And that's not to say I don't like what you made, because I really do think it's all beautiful and can be used in other ways even if not for the intended purpose if you choose. Like the mugs with unstable handles can be a pen jar or something, or even just for decoration.

[@TM-uh5pf]

Love you D

[@lady2607]

Where do you live?

[@jaggedlilthrills]

dood....2 months radio silence from someone who was regularly posting kinda sucks. i know people were worried about you, i even looked up your name + obituary. some may say "you don't owe us anything" but i don't think it would have taken much effort to post an update (even just to say you were taking a break) on your community tab. glad you're okay.

[@DIYDalia]

I’m so sorry to have caused you worry. I know when people I have watched for a long time stop posting for an extend period of time I have also felt worried and that sucks. I wanted to give an update but also something just told me not to. I didn’t want to say something I couldn’t take back. And just taking a break wouldn’t have been accurate for me and how I felt in the midst of it. I wanted to express my truth when I landed on it with clarity and when my gut said ya ok it’s time. And before then it just wasn’t the right time for me. I know it seems simple to give an update but there are intricacies behind the scenes.

[@jaggedlilthrills]

@@DIYDalia I really appreciate the reply, thank you! I'm glad you seem well