When You Don't Respect Your Husband...

[@AGandLife]

I’m not close to being married, but I always see parts of myself that need work even in the videos about marriage. The Perrys stay relevant. I thank God for you all.

[@kellysmith4343]

I like this short video format. Quick hits of wisdom

[@TXPearl1908]

Me too

[@MelissaLona]

On point as always. I think women undermine men often and unknowingly. Sometimes we think we’re being helpful because we know a better way but we’re really saying, I don’t trust the way you do things, let me take over. Since men prefer an easier route and like Preston said, don’t want to argue, they often give in. That type of behavior tends to weaken the man’s position and whether she know it or not, the woman will begin to lose respect for him as well. I think often times, we as women just have to be ok with our men making mistakes. If we can be ok with it, we can stop undermining every small thing.

[@ezrielax]

wow this was really good. Thank you for sharing your insight!

[@Atypical82]

Amen sis. And just because something may not fit the way a woman would do something, it doesn’t mean it’s a mistake on the man’s part. Amen.

[@keonarandall6610]

This is a very important topic for me, even now. Just recently being divorced, this hits home because we’re still in close contact with each other. I completely lost respect for him when we were married, and I still don’t respect him like that. I’m working on myself though because I can’t afford to allow someone else’s actions to allow me to act out of control. My greatest question is, What do you do when you’ve expressed yourself to your spouse with the concerns that you have, and they respond to you with flipping everything on you? Also, telling you that they don’t care, and you’re not heard at all?

[@ninagrace-lee8323]

I agree but it also depends on the mistake. I felt this way but after talking to many women, there are times when husbands refuse wise counsel or (because of ego) make massive mistakes that cost the family financially or otherwise It’s hard to respect someone who doesn’t seek wisdom but insists they are a leader and should be the sole decision maker all the time. Not saying this is morally right, just practical. Making mistakes (loading the dishwasher badly) is one thing. Colossal failure that results in financial ruin or other serious issues is something else.

[@theleadherlabwithmarsha]

@@ninagrace-lee8323 I agree with you. Some mistakes have more significant consequences than others. It is very difficult when as a wife, you provide your insight and explain why you think something should go one way or the other, it is dismissed and then each time when he neglects what you say, he yields the very outcome you told him would happen. Especially when the negative impact is not just felt by him but consistently affects those around him, he is meant to protect. Dealing with that occasionally is understandable, but continually, it absolutely erodes respect.

[@msaprilj]

I really appreciate how she said to take your questions of why you're not respecting your husband to God and not your friends and family!! I think even in conflict regarding your husband that God is the safest place to get it out.

[@rsg833]

Disrespect is natural…. Love is supernatural 😳😲🙏🏾

[@davidmettler3051]

That definitely came with a shot of caffeine didn't it?!?!!!

[@Marcie_does_it]

I’m not gonna lie. The Lord told me that I’m just plain old nasty. I didn’t know I had such a nasty attitude until I got married.

[@MsWonderfulj]

Me too!!! Omg 😳

[@eveathome]

wow ok Jackie, thanks. way to call me out 😂 man i NEEDED THIS. thank God for you Jackie.

[@Atypical82]

Was waiting on this one…. Glad y’all didn’t skip over it

[@throughfaithandgrace2970]

This is GOOD y’all. Thank you ❤❤❤❤❤

[@BlackHipsterGirl]

Humility and prayer. The Lord will bless you with the peace a that surpasses all understanding when you come to him when you’re frustrated.

[@mireillebernheimer11]

😢

[@ShondaLiner]

How do you have conversations with your husband when everything you say is twisted or he gets “offended” and thinks he isn’t in the wrong but it’s just the wife beating him down with her tongue?

[@fabulousfactory]

Whew great question! Can’t even speak how u feel and he feels like he’s being attacked smh 🤦‍♀️

[@noble604]

The opposite of humility is arrogance... pride. There is so much arrogance in the lack of respect for husbands. So much. May The LORD forgive us of our pride. He hates it. May we walk in His humble love. Amen

[@miriamemabeto2344]

🙏🏾 Amen

[@m24_4]

Very wise words.

[@katianapizarro]

So good! Thank you for the video

[@karondalittlejohn]

3:35 COME ONNNNNN NOWWWWW 👏🏼

[@ImTalithaJohnson]

Go to God FIRST🙌🏾

[@lowkey_babe77]

MESSAGE !!!

[@braywhitjas]

Women I believe have the ability of sharp and manipulative words going back the Eve. The garden. She twisted the words God had said based on feeling and control. We see this in Jezabel. Usurping the man’s headship and being unsubmitted in word, thought, deed, and heart. Only the Holy Spirit can take our tongues and it is a discipline we greatly need to have them submitted to Him. That we would as the Word says listen before we speak. Responding slowly but FIRST listening to the Lords instruction, heeding His voice for wisdom in how to, and MANY time how not to say anything at all🤯🔥

[@karondalittlejohn]

0:20 alright let me get into self-check Mode

[@MorningBirdBlues]

🙏

[@lightscameraalana]

I’m irritated already but I know it’s because I’m wrong

[@Atypical82]

Remember, in Christ we overcome such generational curses as those; the disrespectful mothers and such things as that. Plain and simple, when husbands and wives are not treating each other the way God commands, we have to ask and listen to God on this: Have I truly repented? Have you changed your mind, and turned from your sin, and turned to Christ?

[@thelatifashow2837]

Okay, why is this video less than 5 minutes long? Com'on fam, ya girl needs like at least an hour! I have so many questions and I need help in this area. Can you all revisit this topic? ❤

[@thelatifashow2837]

@@mlw9195 Thank you so much! I discovered that later and watched the entire video. 🙏

[@jeaninerichardson7179]

I'll be there within 12 min.

[@thomaspeterson3355]

good afternoon. Mr. and Miss. Perry can you answer this question. its not related to this topic. lf christ was beaten, hit, serge, slapped and hung. how were no bones broken? 😮 I can only equate it to him being God and human and his supernatural being in effect.

[@SuperDjtoomuch]

I tell my wife, it's a waste of time to argue, when you know you're wrong, and I'm giving you facts on how you are wrong. Just own up to it apologize and let's move on. I'm going to still love you the same. I will love you more fr.

[@LorenaHarper]

I had this conversation recently with my husband but I explained to him its not about the facts, it’s about the reality of the situation. You could say the apple is red, which is a fact but if i don’t like apples idc what color it is & you are missing the point… this probably too simple of an example though lol

[@SuperDjtoomuch]

@@LorenaHarper lol I get it. At the end of the day we are grown and married. We are not enemies. We should be able to work it out easier.

[@LorenaHarper]

@@SuperDjtoomuch yeah but if there’s no understanding of the individual you’re married to then none of the facts matter… ask your wife why she’s resistant to accountability… in a nice way lol …u could lead her to the light 💡

[@SuperDjtoomuch]

@@LorenaHarper 🤣 I have to figure out a nice way

[@patikwakwa]

​@@LorenaHarperWow that is so beautiful "why are you resistant to accountability or apologising" I think if we approached people like this we would get far. It's so simple yet so effective without being abrasive no matter what tone you say it in, it still sounds somewhat gentle

[@karondalittlejohn]

3:06 mmmm

[@doyoumind.atall.stopspying5572]

So many husbands are so unhappy in there marriages