5 Ways to Take Care of Your Man with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

[@shantakoa8596]

Thank you. I’m single this is helping to build my knowledge about marriage

[@aviharris6874]

yessss

[@TyKeylaDumas]

Oh my gosh me too!!! That’s amazing! 😊

[@tamaragatling2809]

Same🥰

[@Unique_144]

I second that!

[@ArmstrongFam]

Married Christian man with 3 daughters & I approve this comment 😂❤

[@cynthiareyes5797]

Im Dominican, and I grew up watching my mom and aunts always serving the men first at gatherings and THEN the children. We sat down at the table and were not allowed to start eating till we were all there. And when we finished we couldn’t just leave, we stayed till the adults (male) were done eating and ready to move to another activity. When I came to the US I saw a completely different way of life and as I grew older I adapted to it, identified myself as a “feminist” and hated those customs we were taught… I’m so glad by the grace of God, the Holy Spirit transformed my life and allowed me to see how valuable it was despite the bad times, that I was brought up surrounded by a community of women that although didn’t have Christ, they knew how to honor their husbands. Thank you both, because as I walk with Jesus, I can receive wise counsel from you both And i LOVE that you guys are here in Orlando!

[@amarilles]

I'm Dominican as well, also grew up seeing my dad being served first, we respected his spaces, etc. and I am thankful that I recognize the importance of this.

[@Iwant2besuccessful]

Same here I am also Dominican...born in the USA and adapted many feminist views...now I'm a Christ Follower and am deconstructing my old ways and am learning how to treat and honor my husband....only by God's grace..I'm so thankful

[@patriciad9653]

I'm watching this 7 months later, after a major conflict with my husband of 7 years regarding roles, submission, and respect. I am truly grateful for this as it has made me realize my mistakes and how much I have been a rebellious wife, God has trully blessed me with a good husband 🙏 God bless your union.

[@deborahlewis930]

Tabatha, You are a patient, graceful woman. You are the reason I continue to watch your channel learning all I can.

[@staceyrichardson9976]

She is amazing ! All women need this type of leadership ❤

[@astrocytics]

Thank you! I'm getting married in 6 weeks and I appreciate all that God does through you, Ken and Tabitha. Please pray for a strong and godly marriage for my fiancee Greg and I. God bless you all!

[@godsanointed2341]

Not married yet, but definitely taking notes!!

[@aviharris6874]

me too amazing

[@ireneturner5482]

Same here!!

[@LovingAsChristDoes]

Literally same 😂

[@polinails_1241]

Never thought I’d love a video that challenges me as a wife. Talk about God opening up my heart to hear and allow change to happen. I’m in a place in my life where I am open & willing…. And overall hungry for God to transform me in all the areas of my life. & this wide area is probably the most important! This video has sowed a beautiful seed in me and I can’t wait to put it into practice in my life with my husband. Praise God for Ken & Tabatha 🤍 blessings sent your way!

[@jennifermathews2020]

Hi Ken and Tabitha. I am a single lady of 29 years old, and I feel really blessed to be able to gain such knowledge and wisdom through your podcast. I want to do it right this time around and I truly thank God for the two of you. I pray the Lord continues to strengthen you to do what you do. Thank you and my the Lord bless you and your home❤

[@KD-cm5pn]

I loved every bit of this for my future husband , wherever he is

[@jenellpotts7991]

I’m a a do-er y’all 😀! Bought the massage table as a surprise for Valentine’s Day and massaged my husband for an hour, he was so grateful and so taken a back. I tagged you both in the video on IG😊. Thank you again for all of your valuable advice! 🙏🏾💕

[@thislifewithchrist]

In a healthy committed courtship and this was sooo encouraging and beautiful. even in the body of Christ some of these things aren’t done or acknowledged, but I feel so strongly that loving my husband even in this way is apart of my calling when that time comes. Soooo helpful God bless you guys

[@Raven.Tulips]

This video was absolutely fantastic! I take great pleasure in giving my husband massages. Whether it's just us two or with our little boys, we love embarking on road trips together. He enjoys driving while I soak in the scenery, and afterward, I'm always ready to give him a relaxing massage as a token of appreciation for safely navigating us to our destinations. I’ll need to look into getting a massage table. That was a good idea, Ms. Tabatha! Growing up, I witnessed my mom serving my dad his plate of food first, followed by my brothers and me. This tradition of showing love through serving was passed down from my grandma to my grandpa as well. It brings me joy to continue this gesture for my husband, who always expresses his gratitude with a smile and a warm thank you when I hand him his plate. I’m passionate about cooking and baking so I anticipate hearing their opinions. 😆 It’s always a win to my husband! Even though I work part-time, I strive to make my husband's return home as smooth and effortless as possible even if I’m not there. Each morning, I ensure our boys have their toiletries and pajamas neatly laid out on the bed. As we homeschool our oldest, who is in kindergarten, I have all his schoolwork prepared and organized, ready to tackle the day's lessons. My husband selflessly dedicates himself to our family, never once voicing a complaint. It's my aim to cultivate an atmosphere of peace and love in his life, just as he does for me 🕊️🌸. Embracing a servant's heart towards each other brings about a profound sense of beauty and purity in our marriage. 🙏🏾🌷

[@bintimrembo24]

This is beautiful thank you for sharing. God bless your family

[@Raven.Tulips]

@bintimrembo24 Thank you so much! 🙏🏾🤍

[@patriciadiaz-my7he]

This is amazing advise! My marriage failed because there was no balance in the household. Respect and honor is a major component in a relationship!

[@tarlmabe]

Single and expecting a great Kingdom man. Thank you for these videos.

[@priscillafumadorh7186]

Amen

[@CharCharJars]

Thank you so much for this. As a Christian single woman, I desire a husband that loves to pour into youth & men, because I love pouring into women, youth, etc. Yes I’m enjoying this so much & I believe I need to learn to honor & respect the men in my life, like my brother, dad, etc… it’s been challenging with my brother, but I learned that I can end up treating my partner the same way if I don’t practice this positivity toward all men. Thank you Ken & Tab for such a great service example

[@ocheowoicho6995]

❤❤❤❤u two..pst allow this woman to talk pour out life to us..her disposition on this marriage things is heaven..am watching you right out of Abuja Nigeria

[@PattyDeVille]

Thank you for this. My husband is new to his faith. I have been struggling to start acting differently towards him because now he is seeing things different and acting different. This is going to help me so much. It is giving me new guidelines. I should have been doing them before but it was hard because he was an alcoholic. It made our life very hard. We have been together 20 years. He has been sober for almost a year. It had been so great.

[@greaterishe7197]

I'm rejoicing with you both for his sobriety ❤

[@bintimrembo24]

May God give you grace for this new season so you will not be a stumbling block but his helper. God Bless your family

[@wantonfloe]

Good

[@Lucas_fam]

I just found you guys today and this was so powerful and inclined with my beliefs. Im all the way from South Africa 🇿🇦

[@venerullysse8819]

Hey dad hey mom. I miss you guys everything they are teaching is how they are for real They are the reason I am married today they're the reason I found God. Spirit of faith helped me know who I am.

[@jessicataylor657]

I appreciate how this is both husband and wife talking about their marriage that has lasted a long time and strengthened over the years. The credibility is stronger and more helpful than listening to single people give their takes on marriage 😅 God bless this beautiful union and ministry

[@Ad-Lo]

which single people are these?

[@OurDailyBread913]

Love, love, love this podcast! Thank you both for being obedient to God in this ministry educating couples on how to navigate marriage God’s way! I’m new to the podcast and using these nuggets to prepare me to be the best version of myself as a wife! I’m not at the alter yet, but it’s coming soon ❤. May God continue to bless your ministry and household. Thank y’all so much for the open and honest discussions you share with us! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💕

[@monicarobinson7478]

Married almost 21 years and still learning. Tab had me taking notes lol Thank you both for your ministry❤

[@angeladantignac9570]

Awesome teaching 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾

[@ericaedmonson9492]

This is a blessing. I’m single right now but I’m preparing myself for my future husband.

[@blackcure8744]

I find it crazy that I am a husband but I totally relate to Tabatha because my wife loves being honored, been given space and she absolutely adores being served. I am sure if i can make a Ken's night type of thing she would really love that. thank you for the great content guys.

[@ShienaLene]

I went and bought a massage table after I saw that episode. I don’t even think I waited until it was finished😂. I heard God and didn’t waste anytime 🤣 Thank you Tabatha 🙏🏾

[@myrnac5330]

Thank you. Ken and. Tabatha I learn a lot with your topic Taking care of of your. Man

[@vena2g2006]

This is so good and a helpful reminder for us wives that are married and been married for a length of time. I’ve been married for ten years and I still have to remind myself to keep the fire in the marriage going in spite of the kids, work life, etc. my husband comes first and I have to honor him as such. Every now and again I do ask my husband if there is anything I can improve on and majority of the time, he is pleased but there are times where I did have to pause and work on other areas. Watching this video has given me a different perspective for sure. Side note: I am looking into buying a massage table now 😂❤

[@priscillafumadorh7186]

Good stuff! Thank you Ken and Tabatha

[@shelly-annleslie213]

Omg the wat this man is blushing when Tab said, "I like when you feel like you have the best wife in the world"

[@karalopas57]

I was praying a few hours ago asking God to please give me clarity on how to navigate my relationship better. I was asking for a sign or some kind of guidance into the next steps I can take to progress toward marriage. Not only was your video the first thing that popped up for me but you also called out my comment from a different video! When I heard that I knew for a fact God wanted me to hear this message🙌🏼🙏🏼 thank you guys very much for what you do! This video was made as an answered prayer and I’m so greatful !

[@AaliyahReformed]

Won’t God do it Amen 🙏🏾❤

[@annakorna4002]

I truly appreciate your sincerity in sharing your life. We are also 24 yrs in marriage. Listening to you has being very helpful. Love you both. God bless you.

[@brihtbrat192]

such great tips ! newly married over here :). it's nice to know that i've been doing something right! i love to see my husband cared for and happy in the ways i can do that for him as a wife ! always love watching y'all podcasts. May God bless you both

[@MyFaith2012]

Great tips, can relate, thank you both. Blessings.

[@dawnamazzalorso2734]

Thank you for sharing your hearts. I really believe Holy Spirit lead me to your KZbin page. ♥️

[@robinechevarria5412]

Thank you for this!!!❤ this has truly blessed me and gave me 💡 ideas. My husband and I are going through it and the world is tell me to leave but God is telling me to stay.

[@alzenazachary8744]

Love this : I don't like anyone to become a go-between persons in order to show interest towards someone .

[@cholachambeshi2698]

Love it, I'm of African descent and serving and respecting the men is so huge culturally that it is so expected....might cause women here to do so mechanically and create entitlement. But when done biblically there's a lovely harvest and mutuality...thank you

[@hildatuia3055]

Kingdom examples and experiences are amazing, Proverbs 31 woman is what you are Tabs and so inspiring to women not only in Christ but hey if it leads them into salvation then c'mon lesskkooo. Loving how you bring in the biblical verses to match the the example! Australia needs you guys on TV!

[@phyllishunter9260]

Excellent word ❤

[@upuisaupi340]

I love this so much.. teaching us from a place of love… I learned so much today… especially the part where the wife set a King tone (atmosphere) at home…. There are so many benefits of being a Queen to your manzzz Love all the way from NAMIBIA 🇳🇦 (Africa)

[@beeo8389]

Great stuff! Insightful! Love love it. God bless you both.

[@priscillafumadorh7186]

I love you two❤. Period

[@BJustLivin]

I am not married but I took a bunch of notes for when I do get married. Such a quality and appetizing message. Thanks for sharing.

[@Msarielleaugustin]

Wow what an amazing way to care for your husband! I’m so taken back by how you, Tabatha, treat your husband. It seems like you have such a loving marriage. You’re setting such a great example for us young women who didn’t have the opportunity to see their parents loving each other well. Growing up I watched my mother dishonour my father over and over again and vice versa. Even as a child I saw the effect it had on their well being. After watching this it made me believe in godly love. I hope one day God brings me a husband so I can treat him like the king he is❤️ God I pray that you help me to honour my future husband in this way. This was so beautiful guys, really. Thank you so much for making this video and I’m excited for the next video too!

[@KEYBROWN4LIFE]

I appreciate the tips, I am a widow , I was married for 30 years and 30 days . Widow for three years now and look forward to getting married again and using my experience and the experience provided to us which was very helpful and informative for my future husband.❤❤❤ God’s blessing to you both!!

[@sarahgirlsoaps]

I love how you communicate with each other. How you clarify if you are hearing things correctly from each other and correct how you mean what you said if it wasn’t heard correctly from the other. How you communicate in your home. This is the first episode I’ve watched from you. ( That I remember anyway) Again new, I hear also how you’ve directed your kids to respect when so many parents are exhausted and don’t want to put that time and energy in and kids run the show. If there isn’t an episode on that, that would be great to hear. So many dads get put on the back burner by the entire house.

[@shantaveous2924]

Been with my spouse 10 years and married 7 years in June! So thankful for you two it helps us a bit more knowing where to love each other and how to be a better partner so when we are faced with those hard times we have a bit of training on how to handle it! I send my husband links and he watches as well ❤

[@liramotsohi7282]

Wow, Tabatha you laid it all out👌🔥🔥🔥 this was good! Im taking notes as a single waiting on marriage.

[@racheldunbar290]

I stumbled upon your podcast and it has been a very good one for me.

[@athletetestimonials]

Amazing video! Praise Jesus🙏🏾

[@neatye1]

Tabatha is beautiful! She beams virtue! I aspire to be like her. Am single and waiting on God. I faithfully watch your videos.

[@chastityhyde5614]

Great principles! As a newlywed, I will definitely apply these to my marriage. Blessings ❤

[@leelahwilburn9518]

Thank you guys for being real. I love that you are speaking to the modern day marriage and teaching us how to live the bible out in our daily lives . So glad i found you guys ! ❤

[@najahd15]

2 minutes in and I was hooked and subscribed! I look forward to the wisdom I’ll gain from watching your channel! ☺️

[@yasminbagley909]

Tab, I pray I can get to your level one day. I'm still learning how to be a wife & better serve my husband.

[@sharonmg7071]

Some wives are discouraged by the lack of love from husband. I agree that honor husband is a good thing. So she has to continue honoring him even when she knows that he doesn’t love her. It can be a challenge and laboring.

[@dede_darling]

This is golddd. I got pregnant the same year we got married smh so I’m learning to be a wife and a mom at the same timee. Definitely will be taking these tips ❤

[@racheldennison8839]

I loved sitting in my dad’s and grandpas chair growing up. It smelled like him, it was comforting. I felt close to him there.

[@ebere_worthy3603]

I enjoyed watching this video and I learnt a lot about marriage. Thank you

[@abigailgandhi3289]

I'm not married yet, im sure this is a blessing to married people but me hearing all this before I get married feels like an unfair advantage, like I'm being given answers to a test before the test if that makes sense 😂. What a blessing❤❤ thanks you guys.

[@mercychiokeke9448]

Nice. Love Tabatha's smiles.

[@simplyrickeeta]

Girl, we hear you! 😂 I'm not married, but I have had the massage table saved in my Amazon cart since you first mentioned it. Love your videos!

[@LindaGonzales92159]

Halaluia!! I pray this podcast go all over the world cause that was amazing!!

[@sophster201]

I’m literally writing all this down. You guys are amazing. ❤

[@amakarhoda9147]

I love Tabatha 💞💞 Am learning ❤️🥺🥺

[@detratyler5474]

I am single, but this is amazing content! I am so grateful for the two of you❤❤

[@KatrinaRay-y6n]

I love this. Thank you for practical application.

[@clopez247]

Wow! I am so blessed to ha e found ur channel! I love listening to ur videos! You 2 truly are helping me become a better wife to my husband. I receive ur wonderful advice and with the help of God I will begin to implement good seed into my marriage. I failed once as a wife but this time I will do things right in Jesus' mighty name. 🙏

[@RollanskyDarote]

I always pray for people to be put in my life that will help me grow. And I came back to FL after college and found Alive Church. Y’all are awesome.

[@adelaideadams8819]

This is so real and so informative. When God sends me a husband again, he's going to be treated well 😁. Love this! Keep up the realness and keep on inspiring couples. Adelaide from South Africa.

[@tayritzamolina9881]

Thank you!!!! I absolutely loved this and I love so so much that you are a great representation of a wife that is submissive!!! I grew up in a household where there was a lot of controlling and down calling (from mother side) and I learned from her. However, recently I have been wanting to honor and respect my husband and set all negative opposites to the side. I absolutely love your podcasts and videos!!!

[@davneatracampbell1857]

Tabatha, I've heard you minister this word before but this time I heard it differently 😉. A fast will tune up your ear! 🙌🏽 Thank you big bro & big sis! Blessings!

[@carmen81473]

I absolutely love this! Thank you for this content. In a world that doesn't seem to know what honor is this is so important. I don't think my husband will go for a massage, but other ways to honor him came to mind.❤️

[@TheDOTMagazine]

This is so good. I’m a newlywed but I started the Chateau de Williamson Day Spa for the times when it’s all about him for pampering so he can relax and then I’m listening to this that it’s a major key. #confirmation

[@AngelaBusi190]

I am TeamTabatha all the way. Was married to a Ken for 20 years 4 months 12 days and I can attest to these nuggets! Looking forward to a Boaz to do this again❤

[@gratefulandblessed7194]

I just found your videos, and I feel like they're really helping me prepare to be a wife. I love the dynamic and energy and respect between you two, and the fun. Thank you much.

[@laritatornes734]

Thank you both for these gems! A lot of which you spoke of I currently do Tabitha however I have not been consistent with it. Thanks for waking up 'the Wife that I know God wants me to be'!!!

[@carolwalker1707]

Amen, I’m single but I have been married before. This has confirmed some things about the way I thought. However it has also shown me a few things I can do differently. Thanks for sharing this is great 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾✝️❤️

[@phumlaninela685]

Sooo good 🙌🏽👑

[@alexisstrickland1820]

I’m goin to get a massage table. Thank you for all the great info. 3 years married and looking to make this 4th year the best one yet!🎉

[@dorcasagyeiwaaamoah817]

I’m learning..God bless you two ❤🎉

[@myrnac5330]

Thank you. Ken and. Tabatha I learn a lot with your topic Taking care of of your. Man because this not happen on my first. Marriage and look forward to apply this on my next partner or soulmate

[@ezeadafavour2023]

Thank you very much

[@OrneleyPeters]

Oh my Tab you laid it allllllll out this is so helpful to me I really do appreciate you two 🎉🎉🎉keep them coming 😊blessings

[@dagbajustina5019]

God bless you ken and Tabitha. You Guys are really doing God. So blessed by your teachings

[@angelasparks1077]

Thanks for the wonderful tips. May all marriages be blessed 🙏🏾

[@IAmTaylorOwens]

thank you guys so much for this!! i am currently dating and as a 25 year old i appreciate this! I am dating for marriage and i desire to cultivate a healthy marriage with my spouse when it is time! I am a curse breaker for marriage in my family! THANK YOU 🙌🏾

[@GODswhitebutterfly]

You both are lovely! I love your childlike mannerisms!

[@2mammaR]

I’m going to start doing a “Ken’s” Night for my awesome husband. Thanks for these.

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Have fun!!

[@mtaulton51]

This was fantastic! Thank you so much Tabatha

[@michaelslay6622]

Thank you all for sharing and being transparent!! Mike and I have grown so much from your wisdom! You both are such a blessing!! Love y’all!

[@brandondavis240]

I definitely appreciate you guys podcast as a husband it definitely been helping me out I appreciate you guys

[@kiaunahill1098]

I love you guys. I’m single and I’m listening 🤞🏾. I love black love I love Gods love

[@ruthfrancois8972]

Thank you both for this service ❤

[@888hereandnow]

My mom was a good example for me to follow in serving.I did it naturally when I was married.Unforunately I was married to a very self centered man and he did not reciprocate.

[@mbetubom8539]

Same here,and nothing is working when only one person is trying,i don't wish my kind of marriage for my son or daughters

[@mardec2128]

Just found you guys and I already love you both!!!! Thanks for being obedient to Gods calling.

[@jewishbride5010]

Praise God for giving us practical wisdom how to apply his word in day to day life! I therefore bind myself to know how and act upon doing good to my god-ordained spouse all the days of my life, likewise binding my god-ordained spouse to be good to me all the days of his life, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone treating me unright, binding to hell every lack of treating one another rigtheously in my god-ordained marriage, in accordance with this word and proverbs 31:12, colossians 3:19, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❤!

[@lawrencekasumbalesa1723]

Hey Ken and Tabatha! I admire everything about you as you a couple. I am enjoying and learning alot from your podcasts full of marriage wisdom. Its my prayer to God to have such kind of marriage wisdom like yours. By the way am getting married next year. Therefore Ken and Tabatha pray for my fiancee Siphiwe and I. May God bless you and your family too!!