When You Meet Your Future Wife, God Will Allow Confusion Because . . .

[@RPHflyer]

Been married 13 years and honestly I felt less confusion than with any other woman when I met her. I just knew.

[@volsdeep9395]

If a girl likes you, you’ll know. If she doesn’t, you’ll be confused.

[@mlmielke]

Many just don't know that someone does. And it isn't anything to do with you'll know, because many just don't. And no, hints do NOT change this.

[@FireFeather214]

@@mlmielke I think the original comment was referring to a relationship or a “courtship” that has already been started, whereas it sounds like you’re referring to the initial getting to know each other phase

[@e_personal]

Apply the same logic. If there actually is a God that wants to have a relationship with you, you do not have to struggle to know it or study hard for it, or leave any confusion. It would not need a pastor, it would not need a thousand year old scrolls which authors cannot be verified.

[@cateyes2103]

​@e_personal God is definitely real. He's there whether you go to church, read the Bible or not. Believing or not is your choice.

[@Sharpswordherald]

@@e_personal you are absolutely right, you don’t need 1000-year-old scrolls, look at the heavens above you, look at the sun in the sky, look at all all the amazing creatures on Earth. That is enough to tell you that there is a God. However, the Bible is there to tell you what God thinks, and what his plans are.

[@truthdrone7066]

There is so much confusion, but behind the overwhelming confusion and mixed signals I feel God's peace that this is the woman for me. I needed this today..Thank you!

[@simbarashekunedzimwe1372]

God bless!

[@ForeverSavedByYeshua7]

Same here I’m confused also… but I trust the Lord

[@RyleeOfCourse]

Keep it up brother. Don’t give up

[@jeremiahbond2810]

I was never confused with my wife. I met her when I was in middle school. I told myself then, "I will marry her", and I didn't think about that for about 16 years. Then one day I prayed deeply for a Godly, Christ blessed woman, and she moved in with that year and we got married. I was confused for those 16 years prior to and have not been confused one time since being married to her. Not once.

[@Dnice-us4eu]

1 Corinthians 14:33 “For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints.” 🎯

[@The4Tifier]

I've personally found that God also allows for confusion to challenge what we think we know. There may be unresolved issues from the past we aren't consciously aware of, or we may hold on to beliefs about ourselves or what marriage is like that aren't actually true. God will allow confusion in these cases to edify ourselves so that we may not only become more like Him, but to better be capable of recognizing and receiving His blessings.

[@mackymoo1329]

Amen.

[@truthhurts7]

Algorithms have a lot to do with the timing of this video, but it has been a topic of interest for the last few weeks. There’s a girl at my church… it’s been confusing lately. We met through serving and there’s always been chemistry. Circumstances didn’t allow it before but things are different now. God-willing she is the one. He knows best!

[@thatdudewelove8498]

God: sorry bruh, imma use her for your character development

[@vladimirdominguez5439]

facts @@thatdudewelove8498

[@black-k8586]

​@@thatdudewelove8498 Loooooool

[@byronp24]

if she lines up with Proverbs 31 from now on you know now and later

[@jossdeiboss]

The Lord made sure I got this video today. Amazing. I am very confused right now and don't know if I should continue seeing my girlfriend or move on. I am quite sure she is a great woman and probably a great wife but for some reason I still don't feel the excitement of wanting to marry her. That is really confusing and I pray everyday the Lord to give me strenght. I see this is part of His plan. So let it be. Even if it brings me a lot of discomfort. I know God is helping me to have better eyes and ears. Thank you Lord.

[@agwformen]

So glad this was a timely video for you!

[@mini_ian]

sammeeeee! i just looked up and said i dont know how you did this, but i needed it, haven't whatched the vid but i want to thank you, and say that God is using your videos! keep them going!

[@marielaticas4543]

Someone close to me felt this way. Please continue to seek God before you break her heart. Sometimes it’s the enemy causing confusion. God is the only one that can bring things back to life when they look grey. I hope this helps you. Wish you and your girlfriend all the best 🙏

[@EMichaelBall]

What about being with her but not marrying her? I personally see no problem with it, especially with how modern divorce laws and courts operate. If she is willing to stay with you indefinitely in an unmarried state, then she is probably a great catch who wants you for you! You two can have everything but the wedding and papers. It’s up to you two.

[@jossdeiboss]

@@EMichaelBall Thank you for your comment. I totally see your point! However, when I say "marriage" I mean in the Biblical way, which is basically asking God to sanctify the union and then make it public to your family, relatives etc. This is the way it used to be! As for the papers and ceremony...I think I will eventually do that one day as well - for practical reasons, i.e. we want to move to another country - but I need to understand the current law and how to have a prenup that is "unbreakable".

[@crcaim]

1st Corinthians 14:33, “For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints.” Confusion is the result of our not being spiritually where we need to be. We need to look at ourselves and see where we are lacking spiritually and pray and study God's inspired scriptures to clear. up confusion.

[@Unborn-Lives-Matter]

Starting when I was about 15 years old, I started a list of qualities I required in a wife. Over the course of the next five years, I fleshed it out until it was as complete as it was going to get. When I met my wife, I started checking off boxes. In a short while, about 4 months, she had checked ALL the boxes, and I scarfed her up ASAP. That was nearly 47 years ago. Yes, we have had our rocky times. Any close relationship will have those. But we have weathered the storms and emerged stronger. She is who God intended for me, period.

[@nerdyengineer7943]

I guess the last box on the list was "willing to marry me".

[@Unborn-Lives-Matter]

@@nerdyengineer7943 BWAHAHAHAHAHA! Yeah, good one! But, no, we both knew. It was all good.

[@c-mac9902]

That’s awesome. I started a list… 25 years ago. Still looking.

[@nerdyengineer7943]

@@c-mac9902 It's alright! We are warned in Scripture that there are drawbacks to marriage, and that you cannot focus as fully on the things of God. So enjoy being single.

[@Lukandon]

I also started a list, though it was being made while having a crush on a girl I found on Twitter who definitely looked as if she was honoring God and following Christ, based on her social media. All the things I had in my head and heart of what I required in a wife were in her. It reached 20. Couldn't think of anything else. Unfortunately, several months later, I realized I couldn't date her since she was in another country and she wasn't interested in chatting online, so unless I'm able to travel there, I won't be dating her. Since that time, I've been looking at a Christian dating app in hopes of finding someone like her here, but she was too unique and I just kept seeing so many women who had issues or I just wasn't attracted to them, so I gave up on that. I'll just leave it to God and wait while focusing on other things.

[@RyleeOfCourse]

I’m guessing God brought this video along to me…came at just the right time. I’ve been getting clear instructions from God about the woman I am to marry. However, the circumstances we are both in make the entire situation seem utterly impossible. I’ve been praying about the confusion I feel while still knowing she’s my wife. The mix of peace and discomfort is weighty, and the attacks from the enemy persist. All that to say, this was very encouraging. God has been very diligently helping my little self along. I hope to one day share our testimony. Blessings brothers.

[@Sony-Fanboy]

This video is really a revelation and an answer to many prayers. Thank you Lord!🙏🏽❤

[@Dnice-us4eu]

1 Corinthians 14:33 “For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints.”

[@GameOnShanny]

I know im not your intended audience but pray for me. I like a guy but i believe hes with someone now and I feel sad. I pray for his future wife but sometimes i wish it were me. Pray for me to accept Gods will.

[@SinZlair]

Some don`t experience confusing at all, like my brother and his girlfriend. Both of them new instantly the first time they say eachother, they told me that. And they have been together for 15 years now. I wish it was that easy for everyone lol.

[@Strive1324L]

Are they getting married?

[@SinZlair]

yeah in 2025, they are not christian btw, only me and my parents are in our family@@Strive1324L

[@agwformen]

Yes, that is not normal. Also, they are unbelievers. The fact they've been together for 15 years and are not married is a sign all is not well in that relationship.

[@SinZlair]

@@agwformen All is very well, they are getting married in 2 years! and they also have child together. I live next to them and almost talk to them everyday, I am very close to my brother, so I would know if things were not ok. Alos just because "usually" it is a sign, does not mean all cases. And I think still God could have brought them together, because I know my mother prays for all of us.

[@PrettyIndependent1]

I think they really need to sit down and seek God as a couple. Get their relationship with Him really strong. Going into marriage you will need the Holy Spirit. It will give you discernment of what moves to make to protect the family, also help assist in mending arguments, among so many other things. My pastor says it gets so much harder when people are married. It’s like the devil will try to temp and attack a couple now that they have Gods blessing. He even mentioned that people who are having sex before marriage, have less sex afterwards because the enemy will tempt you to live in sin, but once you’re married sex is blessed and bonding so he’s going to take that desire away for each other once married. This is why it’s best to have a really unshakable foundation as a couple in Christ before you get married, because the devil will consider people following Gods will as a declaration of war. You will need spiritual power to fight spiritual powers. The testing and trials will come in marriage but if they know how to resist the devil and understand spiritual warfare He will flee. They could spend more years unmarried, than married if they don’t do the spiritual training. A cord of 3 strands is not easily broken. If they have a deep foundation with God they will be ready to brave all the toughest storms.

[@seeker2182]

When I was driving to work I asked God if I should ask out my coworker because she seems to like me. I asked God to give me a sign and immediately on the radio it said her name. But she wasn’t there at work that day 😂😂

[@karinafoster6974]

Take it as a sign and don't give up

[@_Jay_Maker_]

"If you're waiting for baby angels to point out your future wife, you'll always remain single." Speaking from experience, that's not always the case - at least, if we can compare your "angels" to a supernatural encounter through God's plan. God sent me dreams of my future wife. When I encountered her for the first time in the flesh, it was exactly like entering into a new universe. The only "confusion" I encountered was during the time between finally encountering her and finally getting married - because God had to transform me into the man who was meant to be with her. Only God. The only effort I had to put into it was trusting in him and changing my actions, thoughts and life to coincide with his plan for me - not just my wife or my marriage or our relationship, but his _entire_ plan for me. As long as you're following God, everything else is taken care of.

[@ErnestMwamba-j3g]

There is a powerful lesson in this video

[@kechazileonel8141]

I thank you for sharing the word of the Lord

[@blueraventv]

You'll never be able to submit to marriage until you submit to God.

[@TheLastDay-BobReese]

Mark... this is one of your best videos to date! Good job!

[@marielaticas4543]

This goes hand in hand with the song “What He Didn’t Do” by Carly Pearce. ❤️

[@margaritogomez9297]

Thank you my friend I received it with my heart and amen

[@obuudeozo8978]

Excellent presentation 👏

[@davidwilson1114]

There's no confusion....I totally gave up 3 years ago..😕

[@davegriffin9083]

Another great video, thank you.

[@salharo8925]

Lemme help u . Does she bring me peace or chaos. Is she a asset to my life or a liability? You're welcome .

[@norayr3975]

If you're expecting to have peace for the rest of your life, you're in for a rude awakening (especially when you have kids). Also, you're thinking in terms of self-interest. This is not good for marriage. You need to be self-sacrificial and a servant leader of your family. You need to put other people's needs above your own.

[@Southernguitar74]

This is pretty much where I’m at as well. If she does not compliment my life, I have no time for her. Compliment, not complicate. Confusion will make me turn away quicker than anything. I have no time for it. I’d rather stay single.

[@terrytitus5291]

Trying to distinguish that can be hard,so you shouldn't be so prideful in what you say,it isn't that easy!

[@saunderstobin8375]

I was dating her back but am always confused she's sometimes busy .......ahhh till i gave up and started to follow God now

[@forsakenjones4695]

God is not an author of confusion.

[@jameshawthorn9274]

There’s no confusion when you finally accept the most important differences between your options.

[@jimmygove2883]

Good job Mark

[@tommy2chips]

This is very helpful

[@KylianTeam]

can wait of my loving godly wife

[@harryloibl5183]

Thank you and God bless , I’m confused in my relationship😊

[@Dnice-us4eu]

1 Corinthians 14:33 “For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints.”

[@nerumsargon3573]

1 Corinthians 14,33 For God is not the author of confusion but of peace, as in all the churches of the saints. God dosent confuse his children satan is the author of confusion.

[@lilfairycupcake]

best bet is dont be confused enough to get married in the first place.

[@edge-climber8540]

Your first sentence in Your Video Description, which is the Question of the video's point, is confused... You use the word "single" when I believe you meant the word "confused"... "Why would God allow a single Christian man to be *single* when he meets his future wife?" You meant, "to be *confused* when he meets his future wife?" (Proofreader on Duty;-)

[@angloaust1575]

Use own judgement

[@Southernguitar74]

While I agree God may allow some turbulence throughout a lifetime of marriage, He also knows that there are plenty of us out here who are trying to do the right thing, but have been around the dating scene enough and will only tolerate so much confusion. You threw in the boy vs man passage near the end, but that was not written with the sole intended purpose of marriage…This was a tough one for me…I really do believe you have the best intentions, and I’m not saying you are entirely wrong, only these things have not been my experience.

[@dgluhovski]

Thank you Amen

[@ChevyARt15]

I laughed out loud @ 3:39, that is me.

[@gandalfthegamer4067]

James 3:16 "For where envying and strife is there is confusion and every kind of evil work. Every sin that is listed as sin requires a little bit of uncaring selfishness to accomplish, to either God or to your fellow people Matthew 4:17 "For at about that time Jesus began to preach repent the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand." Repent: to change your mind, to change your ways, to believe in Jesus and what he said, to ask for forgiveness. Note: when someone asks for forgiveness at each point in the past they did something wrong they wish they had done the right thing. God wanted to know who thought being a good person matters.

[@mattmclendon8291]

What's the difference between masculinity and the strong man complex?

[@GreatWhiteSquid]

Where there is confusion, there is. It God. God will not allow you to be confused about your wife.

[@CountrySingerWannabe]

On the topic of confusion, I am confused to say the least. Is this applicable only to two people that are actually seeing each other or does apply when a man is just trying to garner attention from a woman he favors.

[@notyourfriendbuddy]

I’m going through the same thing. Praying for you, brother

[@n9wff]

This isn't right. I say this because my wife and I both knew through different avenues. We need to stop looking for a spouse for us and start thinking how we could be good for our future spouse. This takes the flesh out of play. Second, let things come as they may. Third, don't assume. I've seen so many people do this because of the flesh. They get discouraged. Lastly, I believe many get tested. Sometimes you have to let things go so the right things come into place. Marriage is work and sacrifice. If those two ingredients aren't there, selfishness creeps in.

[@notyourfriendbuddy]

@@n9wff Great advice, brother. I definitely needed to hear that. Thank you!

[@tutnod2449]

Most women don't know what they want. That's why there's confusion.

[@craigsmith824]

“God is not the author of confusion” The word tells us above all things to follow peace. If a woman does not bring peace but chaos she is not of God… Your conclusions is almost laughable

[@tredfxman]

At 4:50 you say that God use confusion. In James 1:16-17 we are being thought otherwise! Its the devil who use confusion, not God: 1 John 5;19.

[@robsonrissotrainer]

Don't know who's your God but the one I serve is not the God of confusion, the only onewho brings confusion is the enemy so I will stick with my God

[@matthewpaine6908]

I have some much better advice than this video is providing. ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭6:33‬ But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be provided to you. Don't rush into a relationship, seek God first. If Adam could not handle Eve, neither can you without Gods help.

[@jeromeschulze4500]

If she wants u to be in her life then u should no if not then she don't want u

[@angloaust1575]

Author of peace not of confusion 1cor14v33 Suggest you quote scripture Not your own confusion!

[@edge-climber8540]

What is Your Definition of Real Life? The phrase is used a few times in this video. Most Don't explain what they mean by it, and this video doesn't either... Most, if pressed, would turn to a Definition that any atheist would agree to: those activities outside of seeking the Lord in Prayer, reading & studying Scripture, comparing Scripture with Scripture to get the Best Sense of its meaning and its valid implications and such activities. Scripture reveals that our Real Life is hidden with Christ in God, and this stream of bodily perceived sensations are passing... Just Asking.

[@n9wff]

Your father should teach their boys how to lead. I made this mistake trying to please a fleshly wife and getting into arguments that would make me feel ashamed for not "pleasing her'. This led me away from my children and my son becoming passive. I take responsibility for this. It was the way that the young men would be prepared so when they found a future wife, they would be ready for her and future family. This argument above means "until you find your bride, you cannot lead until them". Nope. The fathers and older men are the teachers for the younger men.

[@biffphuddle6581]

When dealing with women confusion is what they bring to tge table. It is they who need a calming hand thst real men provide.

[@RANDassociatesinc]

Or…..not get married. Much less chaos and much less time wasted.

[@rosegardens9701]

GOD is not the author of confusion, so don't make stuff up

[@r.j.harrison3668]

I needed this

[@BiblicalFlatEarth]

They are all created as Eve was. They are easily beguiled. If there is a HINT of confusion or more accurately- CHAOS- leave the demon behind.

[@threeten310]

none of my business

[@ThankyouUniverse1994]

Lol..

[@matthewstewart5008]

🥴

[@onthelinewithjr1851]

Makes absolutely no sense!

[@malcolmwilliams6624]

This makes no sense and is completely 100% untrue.

[@bekabeka71]

Since I’m practising no fat semen retention, I want to meet a pretty woman a potential wife, so I’m manifesting that as well as getting into the gym improving overall appearance, physical site and spiritual side as well. The benefits are real it’s just all it takes is the confidence and self-esteem

[@C.O.SBurpees]

High five me too!

[@bekabeka71]

@jxlc916 why do you think so

[@bekabeka71]

@jxlc916 I still get rejected from girls on social media, like I get told I’m a good looking guy but I think I’m going to focus on approaching girls face to face rather than wasting time on social media

[@MrGabrielJude]

A lot of confusion today even as how to be an alpha male. Our Lord Jesus Christ IS the Alpha male of the universe, if you model yourself after Him you’ll find being an alpha male isn’t what you thought it was.

[@RobertPool-nz5ss]

Jesus and the Apostle Paul were not married for a good reason they were smart men

[@josephsnisky1851]

Anyone looking to meet a future wife after being through the ringer like many of us certainly is much more than confused.

[@NCOLON7545]

God is not a God of confusion. This is unbiblical!!!

[@tobiasisrael3758]

If you listen to this logic....you are definitely confused about God

[@vedinthorn]

Reason number 1: God doesnt pick a wife for you and lets your do it on your own.

[@DIYWellcraft196]

bro there's no confusion w/ the right wife, period......... confused, bro you got the wrong one, and ,,,,, it's going to cost you everything in the long run....... gtf outta there while you still can, it's a trap lol

[@ChrisSnell-d4m]

* The Bible has been translated SO MANY times, that is has lost its true value, AND INTERPRETATION !!! The wife is NOT a slave any more that you are!!! * God gave us Free Will, and that is why He will NOT interfere.

[@zacharyelliott1705]

Nope. Screw this. I'm reading the Bible myself. The Torah and B'rit Hadashah. I'm done listening. I'm working this out myself. For anyone reading. Just Get off your ASS AND PRAY. LIKE. COME ON. No hate to the video or this creator.

[@wicked_one123]

..but god is only a product of the human imagination...

[@Millennial.christian]

This is totally ridiculous and unbiblical

[@e_personal]

Have you not noticed that anything in this video is perfectly explainable if the so called "God" is not real?

[@Nonya007]

All this talk about wives blah blah blah, unsubscribed

[@TS-fj2lo]

That’s his ministry…godly marriage.

[@user-nc2to9bo1e]

Good riddance ken

[@terrytitus5291]

You single?