Which Black Hairstyle Attracts Certain Guys in Dating

[@Uapqv336xzuqk]

Not the Motown’s!! 😂

[@csbjuice]

🤣🤣

[@mdavis7056]

😅😂😂

[@oldssierra]

why was he so right though (from a girl with a blonde pixie)? 😅

[@FTYC2022]

I cackled 😂😂😂

[@thecrystallockett]

Soon as I saw this comment he said it. I CACKLED 😅

[@krazyeclectic]

He is so right about natural hair attracting white guys.

[@ComicGurl_Joli]

Yes! I have locs, and the white dudes are on it. Surprisingly, I have a few Arab dudes in my DMs as well..lol

[@BilliBBrittany]

Well, natural messy bun...this my category😂

[@todrapayne]

Yep. My husband LOVES my natural hair.

[@organicniki6]

It’s amazing and sad. I was telling my daughter how much white men seem to adore our natural hair, but from my experience black men want nothing to do with it.

[@nosyrosy1]

I didn't know this. Very interesting...🤔

[@jjphillips6292]

I dont get approached...i think my energy say"im tired dint bither me"😂😂😂😂

[@dday3322]

😂😂❤❤❤❤

[@AitanaStar]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Revolutionary-Tee]

Same!

[@tati0201]

Same 😅

[@lipsiekins845]

I have a frohawk and same, please leave me alone

[@charea]

I almost never straighten my hair now and I’m here to confirm my natural hair attracts EXACTLY what you said.

[@Cannotpleaseeveryone]

Why is this so accurate? Also locs attract “black and white nerds” too - guys that like anime, Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, etc

[@MCL46]

I’d love to date a nerd that knows what he loves, does what he does well, and has outgrown needing or never needed to fit in.

[@DaPhlyymamee]

This is true!

[@Xtraterrestrial8112]

Whew, that's a relief! 😅

[@MiSSTiquE]

Yes this is true. And I also am a nerd and love nerds.

[@lejamesbron5880]

​@MCL46 There's so many of us! Why is it so hard for us to find each other? I guess it's because we're not that big online

[@patrice6139]

I'm dating an Asian man, and when we 1st met, I was wearing crochet braids. And he liked my braids but as time wore on, he wanted to see my natural hair. I'm wearing a mini afro, and he can't get enough of it. I've also received lots of compliments from white people with my afro. It's crickets when it's black people.

[@laramila98]

Yeah they just hating that's all

[@christines1821]

It’s always crickets with black peoples when natural type 4 hair is worn oh well ain’t gonna stop me 😂

[@ebonyapplepy3906]

Regarding your last line, that's bcz self hate is a hell of a drug.

[@bbkix]

I always make sure to compliment other black people, especially women, as much as possible! I do wonder if you get fewer compliments from black people because we're more accustomed to seeing that texture.

[@pollymat991]

So braids attract Asian?

[@JerriJohnson-c7q]

I was about to call BS until he called me out!! 4C natural rockin my kinky curls and BEEN married to my WHITE British husband for 25 years on August 28th, 2024, and he HATES for me to straighten my hair! He loves my Natural look. Ole boy said “White, White, White!” Hilarious

[@shaunacooper822]

Ditto. Can’t keep his hands out of it. This is so my story! ❤

[@KhosyKay]

This is the comment I've been looking for! I've got my eyes on a British man 😂❤

[@Banfilas-hair-skin-diary]

Great one there. Funny how the white guys love our Afro hair and the black love the weaves and the wigs😂

[@DinaOser-h2v]

@Banfilashairdiary and don't forget the White girls. By the way White man wouldn't have.

[@DinaOser-h2v]

@@Banfilas-hair-skin-diary and the White gurls

[@eclecticswag2544]

OMG. I wear. A short blonde twa. And i wear chunky chuck Taylor's, sometimes. Whyte men follow me around the stores, out the stores, wait by my car until I come out the store. Lol. Everyone assumes I date outside my race. I didn't, but I'm gonna start now. Eat where you are fed.

[@paylaterrenovators421]

What's twa somebody help me

[@shanayekh9345]

@@eclecticswag2544 “eat where you are fed” 💯

[@vlee7217]

​@@paylaterrenovators421 teeny weeny afro lol short afro

[@allways8782]

Be careful if they waiting for you by your car, could be stranger danger. 😬

[@paylaterrenovators421]

Thank you ​@@vlee7217

[@ItsQuila280]

I switch my hair style every month.. I guess that’s why I attract all kinds of people lol 😢

[@michellesmith8928]

Hahaha same!

[@Happy2haveHaters]

😂 right, I do also

[@spirituallysoaringhigh6089]

Me2

[@DrRaeLoveCoach]

Me too! Once a week, throughout the week 🤦🏽‍♀️🤣 during the week 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@ItsQuila280]

Glad to know I’m not alone!!!!

[@FTYC2022]

He is spot on! 4a-4b twist out/ Wash 'n' Go girlie here. Approached by all ages of Whyte, Latino, Italian, and older well established blk men 😂

[@aundreanaphiffer3572]

Italians are white

[@KariIsSoVery]

@@FTYC2022 Same. lol

[@FTYC2022]

@@aundreanaphiffer3572yes, if you are speaking SPECIFICALLY about race in America, I'm not. I tossed a specific ethnicity into my comment because Italians move differently than the "average American whyte person", but thank you for your contribution to the topic.

[@imansessentials1506]

Me too. I always get well established men approaching😂

[@ebloveee8389]

They don’t come my way lol. Which is good for them as I’m not attracted to white men.

[@rememorydevotee]

1:54 “WHITE… WHITE… WHITE” is wild 😅

[@TheNewHope2010]

He ain't lying. That's my hair type and I attract white men like nobody's business! 🤣

[@rickilake4838]

Thank goodness my hair style is what attracts wh men !

[@joi6833]

He ain’t lying. When I was loose natural, type 4 hair white boys approached me the most.

[@Bklyn112]

White men don't mind a stiff straight wig parted down the middle either.🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@BearingMySeoul]

I can confirm this has been a fact since at least the 1990s! Only white men appreciate the magic that is an afro!

[@shadowGoddess1111]

They way you rapid fired that whole 2 mins 😂😂😂❤

[@lemoncholyme]

😂 I'm gonna cancel my order for that bob wig! In my 20s I wore wavy mid lenth weaves/ wigs. This explains ALOT!

[@SheenaBerry-g5c]

😂

[@kenjerkenjer9576]

😂😂😂😂😂girl cancel submissive men are into that but if you are wearing it for yourself then go

[@Tishanb]

😂😂

[@zeehunter6533]

😂😂

[@paylaterrenovators421]

Getting rid of a bob forever

[@DoubleA-ou7pj]

😂😂😂😂

[@VirgosGroove3]

I’m trying to grow out my bob now lol

[@Butterflii37]

😂😂

[@blueorgin]

RIGHT! Me and my bob wig have been like this 🤞 since the pandemic which is when I started wearing wigs. But now that I’ve grown my hair out I’m like feeling like a wash n go or press.

[@AnyasHeart]

😂😂😂

[@artlover625]

The way I laughed at this video. I've had alot of different hairstyles and you were spot on.

[@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade]

Never heard of your channel BUT as someone who grew up in salons/beauty schools (my parents owned them for over 30 years) and an amateur self proclaimed “sociologist” your review is spot on!!! Subscribed💞

[@angeljohnson234]

No wonder why I keep getting approached by black men. I will be changing my hairstyle today.

[@LifinwithLiyah]

I screamed🤣🤣

[@FoAl-h2b]

Interesting how wigs and weaves only attract black men

[@Me-xoxoz]

😂😂😂

[@miriamjohn1822]

🤣🤣🤣

[@stacieharris]

@@angeljohnson234 🤣🤣🤣

[@lovelykimberly484]

My experience: When I wore my natural type 4 hair, I mostly got compliments from women. When I wore long wigs and a silk press, I attracted black guys. When I lightened my hair (blonde) I attracted Latino and white men. Now I wear protective braid styles in blonde colors and I attract white and black. I notice men like color in hair

[@PHlophe]

Kimberley, but who can resist that bright smile

[@Braidsbyzoie]

Have you ever had a bob? If so who did it attract? Asking for a friend 👀

[@lovelykimberly484]

@@Braidsbyzoie haha I did wear a bob, but it was so long ago. I can’t recall who was checking for me then

[@lovelykimberly484]

@@PHlophe thank you! 🥰

[@yagga8885]

This is accurate

[@phoenixrose6608]

😂 This was like a Horoscope reading for Hair, i love it🤩. Im gonna think about what i want to attract & then do my hair 😉 (gimme a few months & I'll come back with an update lol).

[@mokahgirl5165]

Perfect analogy, horoscope reading for hair. Any updates on your experiment?

[@ginadeniseallen2919]

​@@mokahgirl5165 I'm here for the experiment update as well!.Not sure why this makes me happy

[@cynthiafarris1051]

@@phoenixrose6608 You better, I'm totally curious about this experiment. Look forward to the update.

[@kanonymously]

Anwar PLEASE I loved this!!! Part two part two please 😂

[@iceprincess13]

pixie cut here & I attract a lot of Asian & white men. black men don't even step to me 😭

[@EnlightenedGoldenBeauty]

I want to try that style but you have to have the head shape and neck for it

[@SnapBack206]

@@EnlightenedGoldenBeauty mostly the confidence is what you need

[@SnapBack206]

@@EnlightenedGoldenBeauty and a good stylist

[@josetteskinner4200]

@@EnlightenedGoldenBeautyfaaaaacts!!! My neck isn’t long enough and my shoulders are too broad 😂

[@lorealdrayton6164]

true, i find that black men dont like the pixie cut.

[@Sasha-K]

I mostly wear slicked back type 4 hair in a low bun. I don’t get approached 🤣

[@no.6377]

Maybe you're in the wrong environment? I seem to attract _much_ (😭) older , well off men when I wear my hair like that 😂That's actually my go to style, it's so cute and simple!

[@Libertydream7]

​@@no.6377I agree. That attracts older divorced or married men looking for a side chick 🤢 When I have my hair down, make up, nails done I do not get approached, it's very blissful.

[@claudineb8494]

Me either! I wear the same style and was thinking the same thing. I personally love the style because it is clean, classy, and easily transitions to urban chic, but damn...when I saw nnnnooobody approaches! LOL! Hell, I'll even consider other world options at this point because I feel like this one just ain't for me.😂

[@frequencyreached]

The secretary bun screams I didn’t put any effort into my appearance. Depending on how it’s done of course.

[@LowSlungBadBitch]

I feel like that’s such a common hairstyle it’s kind of boring. I wore it from elementary to middle school. A wash and go or a fro is better

[@paylaterrenovators421]

Clutching my invisible pearls!!!!! 😂😂😂😂 Im a natural 3

[@mac9683]

Same type 3 over here and what he said is very true

[@samanthaenfiedjian7354]

@@mac9683 same…ex husband is Latino and current husband is financially well to do Armenian man. 😂🤣😭

[@Kjstyles4317]

“The lesbians are checking for you” lmaoooo😭😭

[@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade]

So true!! One of my best friends from high loved 1b roots/613 blonde… and then in college she came out as BI🙃

[@Becauseimher]

Just cause you have locs ? I have locs no les checking for me

[@christinet6336]

Silk press, here... and yes, most of the men I've dated over the years have been very conservative. I'm politically progressive but conservative in dress and behavior usually (from New England -- lol -- most of us are like that up there).

[@marlenejennifer3514]

Silk press from CT here 😂 and yes the men that are attracted to me are conservative and I prefer it that way

[@VCD512]

It’s makes sense. Add the smooth pixie. I attracted a cross between ultra conservative to just plain stuck up!

[@Empress1014_]

He ain’t lyin’, loced girlie here and yes it’s White and Hoteps 😭. I’m 46, but always get approached by guys in their 20’s and 30’s. I need to just cut my locs and get a crunchy wig 🥴

[@FTYC2022]

You want blk guys to approach you?

[@Becauseimher]

@@FTYC2022yes 👍🏽

[@fatimah230]

@@FTYC2022 the crunchy wig attracts rich white guys lol a bussdown attracts black guys. Idk if you’ve seen the “hard wig soft life” trend haha

[@StephJ0seph]

What are Hoteps?

[@yesitsthattime]

​@StephJ0seph the black power men. Broke and angry

[@dapawta]

Anwaaaar! You really said, "That Bob is attracting the guys who can't get Kill Bill off their minds" 😂

[@patricemosley9537]

I was NOT expecting this to be this accurate 😂

[@toyacoker87]

I agree 💯! I done it all. I'm sticking to braids and natural hair. That is what I see looking

[@sjtalksandlife]

Everytime I put on my wig, I turn black mens heads. My natural hair is short and grey..but they claim they dont like weaves and wigs..😁🙄

[@evespower1]

Preach!!!!

[@Nyame-bn9fh]

​@alistarz6623 why yall blaming black men for centuries of conditioning? In the media, long wigs and weaves dominate beauty standards, so when we tell you we Don't like them and you still wear them we accept it.

[@carenwhite7954]

This man!!! Spot on with every style I've worn: relaxed, pixie/undercut, braids, braids with color, RED HAIR, and now natural

[@Vickiluv]

Same!

[@khartoniapratt2792]

I have locs for almost 20 years super long. Hotep Men have no money and talking 50/ 50. I avoid Hotep Men like the plague. These Men have multiple children.

[@UnpopularOpinion3000]

😂😂😂 woke & broke, eh?

[@KeiSpeaksLife]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@jones2277]

They like submissive providers

[@AConundrumPodcast]

Nail on the head 🎯 & they like to cheat with what they claim they don’t like (wigs, make-up, rich girl aesthetic)…

[@SnapBack206]

@@UnpopularOpinion3000😂😂

[@AugustaWilliamsJr]

I have to agree gotten grief over my natural hair with black men

[@Kay_ivery]

I don’t see no lies…😂😂 I literally thought of all my friends with the hairstyles mentioned and you accurately described each one of their men.

[@shanayekh9345]

Damn looks like I’m not dating a black man unless he’s biracial then because lace fronts, bust downs, and weaves are just not my thing 🤷🏾‍♀️. I’m a natural girly through and through - braids, curls, and twists for life.

[@HoneyLee33]

Saaame here lol! Now that I'm in VA, I definitely get a lot more looks from white men than I did with relaxers and weave.

[@Newlovelygirl1]

Honey them white men love a straight jet black hair. Everything to them is exotic lol

[@6ftNaturalBeauty]

My hair is naturally curly, in the 3 range, I have never nor will I ever wear a bus down. I attract all types of men from 20 on up, minus thugs… thuggies complement me then keep it moving. I think it definitely has way more to do with the person’s over all aesthetic than their hairstyle. This is just my personal experience and observation.

[@ceesaqueen]

​@6ftNaturalBeauty I agree, some women switch up their hair often and still don't get approached by anyone. it depends on if you're pretty enough for them to want to approach, not so much the hairstyle.

[@nolacreola]

I don’t wear wigs at all. Mainly my 3c-4a natural wash n go. Mini twists with no hair added. Most black men don’t even look my way

[@katrinaenjoylife8868]

On point - Every time I wear my shoulder length 4c hair in an afro I notice white guys doing double takes and or smiling. When my hair is pressed the brothers step up, big time. Same person - different hair style. We are so lost. SMH

[@boxtradums0073]

Big curls signal fun and confidence to whyte men. A larger than life personality and bold.

[@katrinaenjoylife8868]

@@boxtradums0073 hmmm 🤔

[@jessicapyrope]

My experience with people attracted to me (Dating/asking me out/Flirting) : When my hair was relaxed - 1 Cuban male - 1 Mexican female - 1 Jamaican male - 1 African American male - 1 Native American female - 5 White males When my hair was all natural type 4 - 1 Argentinian male - 2 African American males - 2 White males - 3 Jamaican males

[@mynameisKiki95]

Argentinian men? Lol they like us 😳

[@lisamartin8952]

What is a Hotep?

[@Penelope416]

How the hell do you keep track of all of this?

[@adolescentbird]

​@@Penelope416 maybe she has a diary 💀😭

[@Penelope416]

@@adolescentbird Who is really keeping track of stuff like this? Different types of races AND the ethnicities of men who pursued her, depending on her hair style? I could see if she had a general idea of some hairstyles that different men might've approached her for, but this is too specific. Just remember that people can make up stories online.

[@TennisBarbie119]

Surprised you didn’t mention the hard wig soft life 😂

[@LiteraryLady]

“What is it the braids” 🤣

[@zeehunter6533]

😂😂 exactly it’s the braids ❤

[@rickimcfarland2269]

I typically wear a silk press and it’s waist length. I attract professional men of all races 😂 they be checking me out

[@PHlophe]

one drop of water and Pfoooffff !!!!!

[@Nokss_20]

​@@PHlopheumona

[@PHlophe]

@@Nokss_20 Iqiniso ! lol!

[@Sacredlineagelight]

I have an honey blonde Afro Mohawk and I’ve been getting the son, daddy and granddaddy checking for me. It’s hilarious☝🏾❤️

[@shuris_vibranium]

Locs here... Neither of those options sound appealing, unfortunately. Not attracted to YT men, and in my experience the "Hoteps" are problematic. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Softboizach34]

I love black women with locks I'm not hotep at all I'm the tall dark and clean cut type

[@csbjuice]

😂 good luck to you! 🍀🍀

[@shuris_vibranium]

@@Softboizach34 You're also a self-proclaimed conservative. That would be an immediate disqualification in my book. But I'm sure some women are into that..

[@DrMommyB]

Honey blonde/brown loc bob...so that explains the confusion I suppose

[@csbjuice]

@@DrMommyB - 🤭☺

[@lennellwaltonboxer]

Why is this so accurate? I’m a natural red head and now I wanna cry.

[@amanisawari]

Don’t worry girl he’s talking about that red weave

[@jaeraee3437]

I was waiting for the comment. I needed something different so I changed to red. I will be changing soon. I'm so sorry girly. 😞

[@M-wi5tw]

Well I am loc'ed and all I know is I get lots of love from White, black, asian men! I always get compliments about my hair and how beautiful it is.

[@T.H-v4h]

Kinky straight with leave out everybody checking for me lol.

[@rickimcfarland2269]

Agreed. I was thinking how he didn’t mention this look but it’s a low key winner.

[@TennisBarbie119]

Indeed! Best kept secret. Black men are obsessed and think it’s real and every race of men likes it too lol. I got too addicted and had to take a break but it’ll be back!

[@Altanisxo]

Yessss

[@spiritspoken2174]

any ali seller recs? thanks

[@rutho.6282]

I did this but full wig and laid to the 9s and it worked too well 😂😂😂

[@csand4620]

Box braids girly with relaxed hair normally. I’ve noticed protective styles, long wavy hair, and wash n’ go’s are absolutely catnip for non black men. When I wear my hair pulled back I’m a non existent ghost, but when I threw some box braids in…every man in a five mile radius comes running to say hello. Plus I’ve also noticed my fairy god brother that men with Porsches and other high end super cars can’t keep their eyes off of me. The more expensive the car the more likely they are to try and talk to me and I don’t mean the howling and screaming nonsense, but I literally had a man in a 911 stop in the middle of the road and talk to me about the weather and how I liked our neighborhood while I was on my power walk one day. What are your thoughts on that? I always jokingly say I’m a super car man’s catnip, but now I’m seriously noticing this happens all the time.

[@Ababycakes]

I don’t know but aside from Hispanic men, very high status men are much more likely to hit on me than any other men, regardless of race.

[@SM-ey9uk]

They like hair that resembles other races' hair. Box braids gives the long straight hair vibe in a different way, same with waves etc.

[@SM-ey9uk]

They like hair that resembles other races' hair. Box braids gives the long straight hair vibe in a different way, same with waves etc.

[@csand4620]

No it doesn’t. They like 4a thru 4c as well which I can full heartedly attest to. It has nothing to do with resembling other races hair. Don’t believe the hype of men not liking black or brown features or attributes because in the real world that is not the case. I’m sorry if anyone ever told or made you feel that way because your crown is beautiful anyway you want to wear it.

[@makemagic9324]

Do you wear all black box braids? Or some highlights or brown braids?

[@cloudlesscliche9508]

AHHHH?!!!! I was wondering why I was getting AGGRESSIVELY hit on by Arab and Latino men?! I mean I don’t mind but I have a loose curly extensions and they are coming in flocks 💀💀💀 you are too good

[@BearingMySeoul]

Yes honey. I had a shoulderlength wig with blondish brown highlights and my Iraqi uber driver gave me his whole personal biography. Like sir, I celebrate you recently getting your citizenship and having man skills but I really just want to get to my location on time. 😂

[@cloudlesscliche9508]

@@BearingMySeoul Ohhh my goodness 😂😂😂 I had one that was like “I want to invite you and your boyfriend to my home country” 😂😂

[@BearingMySeoul]

@@cloudlesscliche9508 HA! That's wild. He probably fully intended to steal you from him since they surely don't respect ANYTHING but marriage! 😆

[@chelle967]

I love arab men i need to get out more to find them

[@marizess3841]

As a lesbian I woud check on women with colour in their braids and white white blond😅. Thank u mentioning us in statistics! I know this channel is for straight women, but its always interesting to watch!

[@makemagic9324]

Beautiful I’m from San Francisco, CA. I am open to be checked up on, support, and connect with all kinds gay, Straight, and BI with a good heart and soul is #1.

[@Ceares]

Yet another reason I should have realized I was bi years before I did, lol.

[@madamed1108]

Not me adjusting my birthday hair options 🫣

[@saranmayo1376]

😂

[@titanimagalasi5139]

Color in your Braids sent me to the ICU😂😂

[@shebalewis1778]

😂😂😂😂

[@titanimagalasi5139]

​@@shebalewis1778we out here sending the wrong signals😂

[@csbjuice]

Dang, I *just* cut off my damaged hair…we went with a bob to play it off and because that’s en vogue right now. I thought it was so cute, def keeper for a minute…Not after this video. Thanks for the tea, Anwar! 🧡

[@GAshoneybear]

I've always found this to be true. I live in a pretty diverse area. I feel my curly wig flatters me the most, and rich older white men approach me all the time. When I got my hair braided or in its natural state, white and Asian men approached me. Black men approach me when I have beach waves or straight hair.

[@chinweokoye9949]

Curly 3. You are spot on! But also rich black guys...and just recently wealthy Argentinian which is latin like you said and a random wealthy Asian.

[@PHlophe]

Chichi , na waooo , They think you are singer Sade that's why. Now all you need is a British accent and you'll move further in the ranks

[@chinweokoye9949]

@@PHlophe 🤣😍

[@Chee235]

@@PHlophe my thoughts also 😂 😂 🇳🇬

[@TriceMDona]

I have lower-back length locs and am so tired of the Hoteps I'm thinking about big chopping to transition to a twa.

[@sORrYiMLaTe_wHAtdiDiMisS]

Try the Bob 😂🤣

[@TriceMDona]

​@@sORrYiMLaTe_wHAtdiDiMisS 🤣

[@TrippyHippy8694]

What's a hotep?

[@Mona_Lisa8181]

Girl deadass. I feel like I finally found my favorite style but the hotep thing is getting out of controlll 😩 go listen to ‘No Scrubs’ if you wanna know what a hotep is lol same thing just hiding behind “woke” language and facts.

[@samsam-ko3fp]

@@TrippyHippy8694 A dreadlock wearing brokey broke wokey woke lazy fake social justice activist that wear African clothes and also believes that they are Egyptian royalty. That should sum it up

[@spicesmiles]

I squeal randomly watching your channel! 😄 Feels like fun, compassionate, sincere guidance all wrapped into one.

[@mdavis7056]

🚫 to Motown/Older Soul Brothers...no Sir!!!!😂😂😂

[@lynette5877]

I just took my hair out of braids and did a cute flexi rod set, and these white men have been swarming like flies! “Love the hair” 😂

[@KariIsSoVery]

The Motowns. I love it!

[@girlboss2427]

Ew! Hell nah!

[@KariIsSoVery]

@@girlboss2427 It's funny! 🤣

[@jocelynf4209]

This breakdown was top tier & accurate👏🏾😂

[@CRYPTICB3AUTY]

When I had long sisterlocks I attracted all kinds of men. Black, White, Latino, Arab, Asian and everything in between. Now that I’ve cut my sisterlocks and started over with short starter locks I rarely attract anyone. In my experience most men equate beauty with long hair.

[@notesfromatherapist]

When I wear my natural hair (4c), I get looks from white men. When I wear my curly headband wig, I get looks from white and brown men. When I wear my straight V-part, I get looks from all men (even the Black guys😂). Keep in mind I said, Looks lol… I rarely get approached nowadays. I’m 6 feet tall so I stand out.

[@ItsMyOpinion-sd2iz]

They're intimidated by us tall women. I've had numerous men say out loud,.I intimidate them, I'm 5'7.

[@notesfromatherapist]

@@ItsMyOpinion-sd2izI agree! I do believe the right man won’t be intimidated. Those men need confidence. I have hope🙏🏾

[@ItsMyOpinion-sd2iz]

@@notesfromatherapist men and their fragile egos smh

[@earthangel8399]

It's true pixie cuts and finger waves attract old guys and white dudes... bc alot of moms and older women rock it so they associate it with maturity... and sorry to say conservative guys like long hair bc they're into gender roles so they see it as more feminine ... it's all very old fashioned thinking

[@EbuniMisses]

I was thinking along these lines too.

[@Ami-ml7gp]

You are exactly right! I am married, and my husband is white (I have locs). I have had natural hair for about 16 years and noticed once I stopped straightening my hair, I got NO attention from black guys. The white, Indian, and Hispanic guys were always trying to conversate, especially once I got locs. And yes, my locs also get lots of unwanted attention from "those guys" who like to yell, "Hey Shawty," from down the block 😂.

[@yagga8885]

“Conversate?” 😂

[@Ami-ml7gp]

​@@yagga8885You know the guys who want to try and "talk" at the worst possible times. 😂

[@sheshedshenanigans]

@@Ami-ml7gpconverse

[@MsNG82]

I mean when I had the weave everyone approached me but then again I was in Miami. Now I’m all natural 4c and it’s mostly white, some latinos, one Asian, and black men have vanished 😂 When I was younger I had braids but was in a white school so its biased, they were all white. I would add that weight is a huge factor to take into. The skinnier the more white, medium gets more latinos and bigger gets me more black guys.

[@healthgurl_taca]

I think also where you’re at plays a role, when I’m out running errands, I always get checked out with locs. But work is a total different story, I wear long ombré plaits and they look.

[@kittymuk5493]

Bish, I've never subscribed so fast. This was a very good laugh and mood boost

[@MindfulMoments1444]

Anwar, you are too much, I love it!!

[@corinnee.5657]

You forgot about the bald headed and the Lupita 4C haircut 😂 but all the other cuts mentioned are accurate 👍🏽

[@jones2277]

White white white

[@KaiKailuv]

@@jones2277YUP

[@katrinamckinley1344]

I wear braids all the time. You're right! Plus I attract men in their 30s too. 😅

[@PHlophe]

i never would have guessed. you've got a whole Yte woman name.

[@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade]

@PHlophe, you must be super young if Katrina is a white name to you🥴😐🙃 or either I’m just super old😂 because that’s a common black name. Most people go by “Trina” when their name is Katrina🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Zenalliecat]

I’m silk pressed natural usually and I want white conservative guys. Sometimes I attract them but other times I attract black guys. I’d rather not attract the black guys. Personal preference due to experience

[@christines1821]

As a black women I’m with you I don’t want to attract black men so me wearing my natural type 4 hair works for me 😂. Every other race don’t have an issue even with shrinkage except black men and that’s ok.

[@ranip7644]

Agreed. I don't want black men either.

[@Jessmess112]

Damnit man!! So accurate. I wear red hair a lot because it looks good on my skin. I'm changing that asap

[@britneydaniels6294]

I’ve literally had ALL of these hair styles over the years and can say this is 100% accurate. 😂

[@sudan723]

what about high ponytail and buns.

[@PHlophe]

Naw, those are giving Candace owenes cocky or department store gal

[@tkanon]

This man be sooo right!! 😂

[@AriesLaZuriUhuru]

I switch it up. I never know who is checking for me. I had a guy chatting me up while I was wearing a bonnet. 😂

[@nirvanaheights]

box braids year round 😂 seems I have options

[@_marie2536]

This is such an accurate assessment based on my experience. I was natural before it was cool and in my teens - mid twenties all my boyfriends were white. I wore wigs occasionally but they Always matched my natural texture. Black guys did not check for me at all. 😂 After I started gaining weight that changed everything.

[@Ababycakes]

I wear a little of everything named depending on my mood, and I’ve been hit on by Hispanic men more than any other race for most of my adult life. For some reason they’re always head over heels for me. I’ve yet to figure out why.

[@Ali.electra]

Arab/Latino men really do love curly hair! They have told me they preferred my hair curly. I attract mostly white, asian & latinos! I usually wear my hair curly or in dark braids(:

[@ReychelH]

Thank you Fairy God Brother. New Subscriber here. I’m trying to attract Brad, Chad, & all the pale Lads with my T.W.A. 😊

[@laramila98]

Right

[@WapajeaWalksOnWater]

I keep my hair covered, because I'm only into Muslims and Pan African brothers, with clean diets, cultivated minds. But my daughter has 3b hair, and she told me that Black guys always want her to flat iron it, and Anglo, Asian, Arabs, and Latinos are in love with her natural honey blond curls. You are spot on.

[@Sashiology]

I'm cryyyyin! Because why does this seem to make sooo much sense 🤔 😂😂😂

[@chloethemessenger]

He is not lying. I feel like I just got a prophetic word based on my hair style. This was good. I needed that laugh 😂 The Brad and the Chad’s SENT ME ✈️🤣

[@Ms.July29]

I'm a 4c wash 'n go Girl. I have zero black men approach me, and I don't feel ready to date a different race. Why is it such a struggle to let go of the dream of marrying someone who looks like me 😢

[@ladybird491]

Black will not ask you out if you don't have a shiny 4c fresh two strand twist, cause the self hate is strong so move on from expecting them to want you and find someone who loves you no matter their race.

[@KaiKailuv]

@@ladybird491exactly this. The self hate run DEEP in our men. I say open your horizons and want somebody who wants you

[@ndaniels7356]

No worries, eventually the right man will come along. I would not date outside of my race. Pray about it ❤️

[@ajh.4131]

It’s been heavily ingrained in you growing up if I had to guess. Plus, your environment is a huge factor too. If you want to date within your race, fine. If you want to date out, fine. It’s probably easier to just focus on dating someone who you’re actually compatible with more than anything else. Best of luck! 😊

[@Fringedjewels]

You accept you. Firstly. Brava! Many of us were not brought up, or are not self-accepting enough, to truly do so. I love that this has been changing. However, many black men often seek white or white-adjacent-looking women. Finding a genuine one that is also not into the placeholder, then come-up switch as they grow professionally is not easy.

[@lynxx73]

HILARIOUS!! Great rundown!

[@annanicole7642]

This should go viral 😮

[@landalavette]

No lies told.. I've rocked the pixie cut, 3c curls, braids with color and u are so correct!

[@ntombihadebe4822]

Can you do one about make up ,what type of make up attracs which men

[@Zaida-d4v]

I got long locs. Yes the white boys and hoteps love it. It’s crazy how accurate you are.

[@chicalertng]

Hi, please what is hoteps 🫣?

[@Zaida-d4v]

@@chicalertng It’s hard to succinctly describe them. I would suggest googling “hotep” or “black Hebrew Israelites”. It’s an AA subculture attempt to redefine our roots in America. My issue with them both is the misogynoir.

[@Mona_Lisa8181]

@@chicalertngI have locs smh the earthy dudes that study everything about food, plants, black activists, etc but have no common sense and are hoes. They say “Grand Rising”, call you “Queen”. They’re everywhere in Atlanta lol I gotta move

[@90ejb]

​@@chicalertng "pro black" dudes with no jobs 😂

[@chicalertng]

@@90ejb oh hell 😭😭😀😀thank you 🙏🏽

[@radguurl]

Damn, I'm straight but love color in my braids and twists (currently have 613 blond twists with lavender sprinkled throughout)...and yeah, I get Brad and Chris corporate f-boys who want to "experiment" and women being nicer to me, so I guess they're lesbians? 😅 I'm installing some more natural colore twists in a blend of dark brown colors 2 and 4 next time. Let's see who I get with that 😂

[@poetrygirl5309]

I appreciate the breakdown Anwar. It was very interesting! I believe that at the end of the day whoever you attract is based on your energy and your vibration. Your hairstyle is your accent.

[@Butterflii37]

Dang! I have 1B/30 braids 😫 I don’t want to give anyone the wrong idea. The braids definitely attract the younger guys to me too!

[@TennisBarbie119]

Color in the braids attracting the same sex is more about koolaid colors. 1B/27 or 1B/30 is normal and can attract anyone.

[@craven_angel3105]

This is so on point. I've had a variety of these looks, and that's who approached me at the time. The funny thing is that when i dyed my locs red, they warmed to honey blond by the end of the following summer. Different crew approached each time.

[@PeanutButtaCookie1193]

Sticking to braids and being natural. I like Russian, Hispanic and foreign non bm.❤

[@UnpopularOpinion3000]

🤔 curious about Russian men...hmm..

[@chelle967]

Oooooo yes Russians❤

[@PeanutButtaCookie1193]

@@chelle967 i heard Russian men are extremely masculine and dominant.

[@samanthaenfiedjian7354]

@@PeanutButtaCookie1193 They ARE!😭

[@FolasadeXO]

I’m engaged but this channel is amazing. He was on point, per usual

[@carinatkins6669]

Yesssssssssss… I do wear braids from time to time… but majority of the time I am a wash and go.. I live in Colorado and he is correct. And I love my short white king.

[@ericegeorge3008]

I have 4c hair. I wear all natural hairstyles. I get approached mainly by Africans (including Ethiopians and Egyptians) Latinos Black and Caribbeans. Rarely do i ever get approached by white men.

[@ebo7310]

Same never been approached by a white guy.

[@evespower1]

I’m thinking y’all live on the west coast… ?

[@kittennoire8427]

I wear weaves closer to my natural hair texture and I tend to attract successful men of every race..

[@chefcc9026]

Oh absolutely correct... right now natural Afro white men keep smiling at me

[@JG_SmileSOBright]

Short natural type 3/4 and it's ALWAYS White, Latino, Arab, and older Black men. I've always been natural, but when I wore it straight most of the time...all Black Men!