Which Guy Would Women Choose? (Would You Rather...)

[@peterpike]

There is a huge difference between what women SAY and what women DO. They almost always SAY the things that make guys go, "Ooh, she's a keeper" but then you watch what she does and go, "I'm fine being single for another few decades."

[@copingmanlet1104]

Peter, I hate to be that guy, but it’s over for you. In fact, it never began.

[@joepic85]

@@copingmanlet1104 no, hes right

[@copingmanlet1104]

@@joepic85 he is right, no doubt but it’s over for him nonetheless.

[@alanframboisier9492]

Exactly… A great example would be what women post on their Instagram stories for example. It’s funny to see them post about morals/values when in reality their actions don’t align at all with what they promote lmao I’ve had a chick posting about “you need to value people who spend time with you because they share a portion of their life with you etc…” Same chick who ghosted me for 4 weeks after what was according to her own words an amazing date 😆

[@joepic85]

Women say onw thing and do another. Its been like that since the beginning of time

[@noamh8452]

A few notes: 1. You have to remember that it's more important to those ladies to not look bad on camera than to give us valuable and honest info (for example, none of them would want us to think their shallow). 2. In most of the presented cases, the real answer will be 'None'. A lot of the girls will assume that their prince is just down the road and will not settle for any lad who is not perfect. But still, thanks Courtney for great content.

[@BobRoss-wm3lc]

They’re liars. As much as I like these videos, you can’t expect these girls to be truthful after they got exposed for being shallow in the other videos

[@damien5748]

@@BobRoss-wm3lc well said....thanks Courtney for exposing these LIARS for who they are for the whole world to see.

[@hawkerhawthorne881]

These videos are a freak show on who is the best in virtue signalling

[@damien5748]

@@hawkerhawthorne881 well said...watch what she DOES abd NOT what she SAYS.

[@noamh8452]

Honestly I don't get why you lot are judging them. You wouldn't say the truth either if u knew that thousands of people will watch & it will stay online forever. I only wrote my comment because I think it's important for the young lads that are watching to understand some basic facts, it wasn't hate.

[@russ9921]

A very senior (female) divorce lawyer once said to me: “The problem I find with so many of my lady clients who start divorce proceedings because the man isn’t around, is that they have no idea how hard a man has to work to earn big money. I tell them ‘You do realise that comes with the territory and that you aren’t going to be as well off financially when you’re divorced, don’t you?’ But they carry on regardless, thinking they’ll get just as much money after they’ve separated (they won’t) and that somehow down the line there’s another guy who’ll be Mr Perfect who gives them both time and the money.”

[@likeomgitsjason]

They know that if they collect enough alimonies from different guys they will still be able to support their lifestyle

[@i_am_funny]

@@likeomgitsjason lmao multiple income streams

[@benjamindover4337]

I know several women who did this exactly. Severely delusional.

[@Pad2Paper]

@@likeomgitsjason There is only so much baggage a relatively successful guy would want to put up with. Besides, marriage is a one-trick pony. In every relationship after the first, men will insist on a prenup and if she leaves, she walks away with nothing.

[@maireboy]

As a 6 figure salary guy in my mid 30's I meet a lot of lovely women who have unfortunately divorced and with a child, who on dating apps have vented their frustrations with me that guys are not considering them an option. I feel for them, but It's a lot to consider for me especially if I have options. Each time I asked them what happened, they said that they found that they didn't have anything anymore in common with their partner. I ask them, were their partners unfaithful, violent, predatorial, etc.. No. 🤷‍♂

[@GaryClutchClark]

"I don't feel like I'll be working past 60." LMAO! I hate to tell you this, but...

[@steveh5641]

I caught this too! Most of them will be single/divorced and working way past 60!

[@drsamsmusicchannel]

@@steveh5641 true that! More realistic in our country....I don't want to work past 80....

[@Zeko854]

In response to one of Erica's answer I just want to say that I am currently 24 and graduated from a top ten public school with a bachelor's degree in health during the pandemic. So, I currently work at a restaurant making less than 30k a year. By definition I am educated but life happens. How much you make is not always an indication of your level of education. And the amount of money I make does not dictate my personality.

[@PaladinKonrad]

You will probably one day excel and make a lot of money later on in your life, but these women don't want to build it with you. They want to swoop in and snatch a man who is already making a lot of money.

[@Zeko854]

@@PaladinKonrad Yea, I went back to school to go into the medical field. I graduate this spring actually. Big boost to my finances definitely. I just wish I could find someone that was interested in me instead of what I can do for them.

[@Zeko854]

@@Raeinok I couldn't Imagine working while getting an engineering degree. Congratulations man!

[@PaladinKonrad]

@@Zeko854 That's awesome news, I'm happy for you, man.

[@Zeko854]

@@PaladinKonrad Thanks man! It's been a long road.

[@HTR92]

She needs to do these in the dark with their voices disguised to get real answers

[@paidavidjohn8892]

No cap

[@MrFuckinglogin]

how do you think that would change their answers?

[@sweaty7683]

@@MrFuckinglogin they are filtering thier answers now

[@Gustavog74]

Women only care about a guy’s looks.

[@abiar2450]

I just saw the title and came to read the comments. I would never watch such bullshit. just judging by the title I know it’s bullshit. What women say and what they do are completely two different things

[@Verdiramo77]

The 5’5” 120k question kinda broke my heart because it almost perfectly describes my situation. Despite being in the 1% of earners for my age group (24) most women who are taller than me won’t even entertain the idea of going on a date. Staying positive, grinding, focusing on bettering myself always. Thanks for the great content as always Courtney!

[@didamnesia3575]

Plenty of short women out there dude. You'll find the one.

[@willblack8575]

dude, you only need to get ONE WOMEN...stop lying to yourself.

[@michaelferrier4915]

Feel your pain brother. Keep pluggin'

[@fischersfritz468]

As a very tall man I can tell you: it doesn't matter. Women will find other reasons to dismiss you

[@anthonyharty1732]

Confidence and humour will get you women, if women won’t choose you because of your height they are shallow anyway.

[@benjamindover4337]

You should really introduce the ladies with their age, income, living arangement and relationship status. If they admit that they are broke and single up front, its going to help them have a more realistic outlook in their expectations.

[@RadiantandDire]

@Courtney Ryan

[@jamesy11111]

THIS.

[@PeterKoebel]

Totally agree. I said something similar in a previous video in this series. Context helps so much. If they plan to be child free makes a big difference in these questions as well.

[@fecardona]

Girl 3 saying “this one’s really hard” when responding to the micropenis question. Had me laughing 😂😂

[@ryanshaw7113]

Her also: "in the long run" lmfao

[@Shadow39X]

I love these videos. They really are subtle reminders of how great it is to be single lol

[@ajtaylor8750]

The first one is the dilemma we're currently facing in the dating market. Most women want a guy making 6 figures, but don't understand he will probably never make real time for her, but it was pretty refreshing hearing most of these women say guy #2 because a guy making under 6 figures but can come home to you everyday and be there for his family is what most guys are today.

[@CourtneyRyan]

That was my reasoning behind this specific question! You’re spot on. Thanks for the great comment per usual 😊

[@ajtaylor8750]

@@CourtneyRyan Of course Courtney. Thank you for the great content as always.

[@kailord2219]

Men who make 6 figures is a minority of the population so many women are delusional and it seems like an American thing, because here in the UK I haven’t really seen this tbh

[@tommygunn6901]

Couple of them didn't sound confident in what they were saying. And I noticed their eyes were wandering too.

[@ng429]

it was a bit if a yellow flag at least to see how long ti took some of them to say guy 2.

[@joeymartinez8529]

I respect these women for getting in front of a camera and answering these questions on a platform that so many people watch and judge. Thank you Courtney.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Thank you for being kind ❤️

[@bucsfan2565]

True Tough ask

[@roosterparrottjuniour]

@@CourtneyRyan where do you take requests for videos

[@Powerarmed]

Yeah, they say what you wanna hear, little fly in the spider's net...

[@muslimmetalman]

@@CourtneyRyan thank YOU for your service lol

[@XMarksTheSpotXxXx]

I just assume any time one of them hesitates for a while before answering they want to choose the less politically correct answer. It's genuinely shocking how many times you can tell one of them is lying to look better than they are. Respect to the women who know what they want and are confident in their answers regardless of what their answers are. It doesn't look bad if they choose the politically incorrect answer if they are being direct and honest. It's the clear dishonesty that's so frustrating to watch

[@anyamiranda9452]

Whenever I'm being honest, males threaten my safety (literally). Both online and sometimes even in real life. So "maybe" more of us would be honest if so many of you would learn to accept rejection or simply the fact that women also have preferences & standards.

[@greyrock9747]

You shouldn't have your safety threatened. That said, men aren't allowed to have preferences or they get shamed. Men have to keep most of our thoughts and feelings to ourselves because we have been conditioned to expect that. As far as safety, I've had two partners who abused me physically, but I knew that if I said anything they would probably accuse me of the same, and I wouldn't be believed. I was afraid one would kill me in my sleep. men are not even allowed to talk about their safety because we know that women are viewed as more moral and believable. We are far more likely to be murdered walking down the street, and the fact that it will statistically be a man who kills us does not make us any less dead. Safety isn't a thing men ever really experience. Nor women. None of us feel safe.

[@XMarksTheSpotXxXx]

@@anyamiranda9452 Well It's terrible that there are people who are so quick to threaten you when you turn them down. It just another example of how as a society both men and women have a massive issue with pride and controlling their own egos. My comment though was directed at these specific individuals within the specific context of this video, not women as a whole. t find it interesting that yout say "you" when speaking about men as a general category of person. There are good men and bad men. Everyone is an individual. Women don't have influence over individual women just as men don't have influence over an individual man. There are shitty people and good people. In another comment I suggested having the women answer anonymously to get a more honest answer. I think that would solve everyones critiques while mantaining the womens anonymity and safety (if they feel unsafe)

[@arnaldomadera791]

They are women from the 90% ... this is NOT a surprise the answer from the "ladies".

[@Snowkone81]

I think most of their answers are genuine when asked in this setting, but the questions are paired down to force them to make a decision and defend. I'm sure everything matters to some degree, but it does make for great content. Love the content and the ladies views as always!

[@danielvaldes949]

Thank you so much for these videos Courtney. I am a 22 year old single guy and these videos are so beneficial and help guide me in the right direction. Your content is so healthy and truthful. Again thanks

[@JohnPaul-jn1fo]

these girls have learned their lessons from past videos, they know what to say when the camera is pointing at them.

[@luketimewalker]

They also got new hairdos & more stylish clothing...

[@miltonmerlo4103]

**WHAT WOMEN REALLY WANT** 1) Looks (Face > Height > Body) 2) Dominant personality (70%) and submissive personality (30%) 3) Status/Money (this is mostly for older women 25+, young women will care little or nothing)

[@damien5748]

Exactly.these women are full of shit..they dont know what they want.

[@damien5748]

Okay. So its okay to be overweight but its not okay to be overweight .. and then its okay to be overweight if he makes 100k .....thank you Courtney for exposing these women and their bullshit for the whole world to see.

[@crazyahhkmed]

If number 3 is high enough the rest usually won't matter to them. It all comes down to lifestyle.

[@corndogS29]

@@crazyahhkmed Sounds like a path to Beta Bucks to me

[@jonyD143]

​@@crazyahhkmed Yeah but keeping a woman is a different ball game compared to getting a woman. Have you not heard on what happened to Jeff Bezos, Elon Musk, Tom Brady? Even chads be getting divorced. The only way you win is if you get lucky or you date WAY the fuck down. This market is smash and pass dominant so take advantage boys. These females are gas lit and running around with their heads cut off spouting the "I don't need no man" nonsense. Hypergamy is on steroids with apps like instagram and tinder, they are suffering from major Alpha widow syndrome from their high body count and the government subsidizes their behavior. This is sad times. Not impossible but much harder. Watch Rollo Tomassi, he explains all this really well.

[@tythesithari4356]

"Get cheated on or never leave Cleveland." Damn Courtney you're trying to make them suffer for some of those past answers this time around.

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂😂😂😂

[@corbeaunoir8319]

If she asks guys these questions id easily let them cheat twice a year if i could get 2 europe trips out of it. Id even film for her! Ive spent a lot of time abroad but cant currently afford it.

[@DT1One]

Girl with curly hair, glasses and red/white plaid; you are a gem! There is hope out there. None of your answers were self centered/offensive.

[@ShetlandTec]

I love Stella so much! She's straightforward and humble, the perfect companion ❤️

[@DivineFrag]

The results to that first question are wild. Hypergamy basically pushed men to strive to 6-figures, had to trade off work-life balance to get to the 6-figures, but now that you have the 6-figures, they'd rather have Average Andy after all since he isn't at work all the time... I'm objectively getting tired of women lmao

[@sunshoe-l5r]

Stay strong. Another 10 years and we’ll have sexy robo wives from Japan waiting for us at home every day.

[@nonchalant_kyle6522]

They all capping In reality theyll all go for the first guy and then cheat on him and the excuses will "he never had time for me"

[@mtd963]

Thats why you just rent them

[@roolyfe]

No woman wants to build with a man to get the 💰! Most American woman are 304s!

[@devonforsure260]

Making six figures isn't all that it's cracked out to be nowaday. It's very average at best

[@captainsparkles20202]

The fact that these women took so long to decide whether they want to be with someone who lives lavishly and will cheat TWICE or someone who is financially humble and is f*king LOYAL blows my goddamn mind.

[@sunshoe-l5r]

Don’t bother censoring the fuck word. Fuck KZbin.

[@kelupthegnome2871]

Why dose it blow your mind. They were considering now vs. 10 years from now. In the here and now they want the lavish lifestyle, but in 10 years plus they will want the loyal guy. Especially is they don't age well in the next 10 and their oprions dry up.

[@gabrielgiron4273]

I KNOW RIGHT. I saw the girl Avi really mulling it over and I was like "are you being serious right now". Sad bc she would be the type of girl I would go for in real life, but seems like they really like the Chad's and Tyrone's. Shame, really. That "treat women gently" like your mother told you expired some years ago

[@danielsaavedra8520]

Twice is not that much for such a long relationship, and they know it's just twice.

[@kelupthegnome2871]

@@danielsaavedra8520 maybe, but it stated he will cheat twice. Not that he would have a one-night stand twice. Also I don't remember them saying it would be a long relationship. The fact there was a limit put on his cheating kind of skews the question. It should have just been left at 'he will cheat on you'

[@kevincorso9757]

as much fun their charisma brings to the screen, this would be more interesting if done anonymously, imo. i also like the follow-up questions courtney asks about their own experiences because it gives some insight as to why they might feel the way they do :]

[@kunumercy1798]

If you don't mind me asking are you single ready to mingle

[@greatgyatso5429]

“I don’t care about appearance or money” Imagine telling an obvious lie, giving it some serious thought, and then lying again in spectacular fashion 🤥

[@tomreviews9668]

Salary-wise, these girls have high expectations saying that a guy making ONLY $35k is low? Most of the population earn around 35k, or less (often a lot less!). Anyone earning much more than this much be senior management and fairly affluent by definition.

[@crash7098]

Stella changed her answer from the previous episode. The Question about the 5’5” guy making 100k a year, compared to a 6’ guy making 30k a year, Stella answers the tall guy in this episode, and the shorter guy in the previous episode a month or so ago.

[@carloshour8263]

She changed her mind with her appearance lol

[@crash7098]

@@carloshour8263 makes sense. Ha

[@stephens2663]

Wow good call guy…. Lmao

[@fecardona]

Hormonal changes

[@crash7098]

@Farneticator! I doubt she’s shedding skin. More like a chameleon, changing its colors for the environment.

[@michaeljjt1976]

In regards to question 2: I'm 45 and very fit. I have a friend who is 40 and overweight. It's more than just appearance. I have tons more energy, I'm very active, have no health problems. He is always complaining how tired he is, how hard things are, how he can't stop certain bad habits (eating like crap, smoking); this is about lifestyle and health. Not everyone who is fit will have a really healthy lifestyle, but it's more likely

[@dh9224]

True thanks for adding that I have a friend too that her bf is overweight and he smokes doesn't leave the house much and as a result is insecure So agree, it's more than just the weight He's in his late 20s to early 30s

[@jaxonwoods8181]

Courtney I’m glad you brought Stella back, she seemed like the most down to earth from the last group. Some of these responses are disheartening, but I’d rather hear reality than walk with blinders on.

[@dogbarbill]

Yeah, Stella changed her appearance, and she's much more attractive now.

[@accord_aero_r]

@@dogbarbill Looks like she's trying to look like Taylor Swift.

[@Staticjumper]

Always thought provoking, Courtney! I spent the majority of my adult life in Germany where the interaction between men and women is far more pragmatic and realistic than in the US. We (my Russian wife and I) have been happily married for over 15 years, have 4 kids and yet I still learn from your videos. Lesson number one is that I'm so grateful to not be single in the US. Lesson number two, I married FAR out of my league.

[@oscarperez5539]

When you say far out of your league, do you mean she's more attractive than you or you're more attractive than her?

[@Staticjumper]

​@@oscarperez5539​ not just more attractive than I am but smarter, kinder, etc. It's kind of a "beauty and the beast" situation. But in my experience, this is fairly common in European and Slavic relationships. I know a few couples where they look mismatched but then when you get to know them you see that he is an astoundingly good guy.

[@ellobopoderososdl4596]

@@Staticjumper even Slavic relationships like in the Balkans area????

[@Staticjumper]

I've only met one woman from the Balkans (specifically Bosnia) ​@@ellobopoderososdl4596​ but we weren't close so I can't speak to that culture. From what I've seen in Germany, Poland, Ukraine and Russia is that we men, in general, are not doing well and in some cultures failing badly. It seems that as you go east from western Europe the situation rapidly deteriorates. I like Courtney's term of "high value" man. As you go east that goes from "high" value to any value. Eastern Europe has always been a partonomic society where men are in charge but at the same time, because of culture and economics, quality men are in short supply. Its entirely normal for a Polish or Russian man to be single, 35 years old and living with his parents in a small apartment. These men are expecting to marry a woman who will provide for them like their mother does. And in those cultures if a woman is 30 years old and not yet married, people just assume that something is wrong with her. I know I'm rambling but I haven't much time and could go on for several pages but bottom line is that with some exceptions, we as men are failing.

[@ellobopoderososdl4596]

@@Staticjumper because I have heard that Eastern European women including the Balkan women are way better than the western women and I have seen it as well. There are more family oriented. And i enjoyed your rambling because I am learning new things here LOL.

[@bohabbibab5858]

This experiment is two degrees of separation from the truth of the answer to the question. One degree is between what woman do and what the think they will do. The second is between what women think they will do and what they say they will do. The title should be "what will woman say they will do ....".

[@JackGordon86]

The height thing is more of an indicator of insecurity for the girls than for the guys. "I couldn't be with someone smaller than me because reasons." (The girls). Yeah, wouldn't want to compromise your dignity. I'm 179cm, I happen to have a thing for girls taller than me and sure I've had a fair share of rejections that were likely based on the fact that I was shorter than them. But in the end the tall girls I have been dating didn't really care once they got to know me -- and I know for a fact that one of them was very concerned about her being taller but then she discovered how much she liked me so it wasn't even an issue any more. I adore tall girls. The only thing their height does to my confidence is elevate it.

[@luketimewalker]

I like your vibe!

[@29yyears]

Im 185 and still its not enough for them. So frustrated.

[@Chrontard]

@@29yyears haha yea im 184 cm and they always complain about something else, youre too skinny, youre too buff blablabhal

[@29yyears]

@@Chrontard It Doesn't matter. it leads to nowhere. I wish i was a woman. It is easir life and you are never lonely. Society always care about woman.

[@MrFuckinglogin]

so when they like taller guys it's insecurity, but when YOU like taller girls it's fine

[@CobraCommander92]

The politics one reminded me of a girl I was talking to on Tinder last week. She would not let up asking me political questions one the FIRST day of talking. I gave some core values, but it's like she wanted an essay on what all my thoughts were. I said that this would be a better in person convo, I hate debating politics/religion over text. She said she did not feel comfortable meeting until knowing my political beliefs. Like damn... I am completely fine with dating someone with different beliefs than me, as long as the core values or thoughts are there and she doesn't try to change me to fit her beliefs. I unfortunately think most people at this time don't think of core values past Red vs Blue.

[@michaeljjt1976]

If a girl brings up politics to me on even a first date, I'm done with them. First dates are supposed to be fun, flirty. If a person needs to deep dive that badly into serious issues that early, that tells me the relationship is going to be bogged down with a lot of BS I don't want to deal with

[@CobraCommander92]

@@michaeljjt1976 Funny thing is, I told her the same thing. I wanted to keep it light and fun. She just responded with "Well, I'm a serious person". Lmao, okay. Unmatched shortly after that . Good luck sister!

[@keithgraham9547]

@@CobraCommander92 Dude. Rule #1, don't date a feminist. Don't explain, don't say goodbye. Just walk immediately. Rule #2, never date a girl who is liberal. Overwhelming odds she is mentally ill. See the published research. Just walk away . Rule #3, never date a single mom. And so on. She wanted to know your politics because she's a feminist. If you are a liberal guy, it means she can boss you because she knows you're dickless if you say oh, yeah, me too! She has "issues ." You can't fix them. The meds will never get dialed in. Just walk.

[@timocruz510]

lol run. Funny thing is she's probably pretty extreme in her beliefs, which I've found isn't great no matter what end of the political spectrum you're on.

[@michaeljjt1976]

@@CobraCommander92 My one rule for myself and for the date is "Don't bore each other" ----if we're going through the news cycle (politics included), this tells me there is no chemistry, no banter, and it's not leading anywhere. I have better things i could be doing with my time.

[@DapperArtImagery]

Question 1) What's the point of a relationship/situationship if they have no time for you Question 2) Wanting a fit guy isn't shallow. Some folks want a partner who can keep up with them on a physical level. Traveling, sex, life style routine, sports, etc

[@cl8wnm5n]

Question 2 is shallow in looks and money but it’s not as bad if you also keep yourself up

[@danomite8423]

I'm a new subscriber and I've seen about 10 of your videos so far. I really like this format where you get the opinions of different women. Great content! Keep it up!

[@darsh813]

I am also loving your content.Great work😇

[@YesPlease1]

The correct answer is "Zero baggage or perceived faults allowed. And I'll pass on every guy long term who's not 100% the way I want. If I'm in a shorter term thing I'll have one foot out the door mentally, constantly open to someone 'better' ."

[@ganeshraomd]

Courtney: Flip the script once and ask a variety of MEN what they’re looking for. I’ll be the first to volunteer for the panel!

[@manasseh7]

My thoughts exactly

[@jaysibiri]

6:30 now we know that’s BS. They SAY they’ll take the 4 but in reality they won’t. They’ll take the 8 because that’s the one they’re attracted to and will “try to fix him”. You can’t take what they’re saying seriously, because they’ll only saying the “correct” answers to virtue signal.

[@abrahamflores2566]

My wife and I disagree on politics but our values align. Political beliefs are just different solutions to the same problem we all want to solve. Never had a fight with her and our marriage is amazing.

[@wendys9587]

What is your opinion on issues like abortion or immigration? And what is hers?

[@abrahamflores2566]

@@wendys9587 when I say we disagree on politics it doesn't mean we are on extreme ends of the spectrum. For abortion she is prochoice and leave it at. For me I am 51% prochoice 49% pro life, I acknowledge that abortion shouldn't be used as a way to get rid of consequences of bad actions so I lean more on the shaming of bad decisions. For immigration we both want safe borders but she doesn't like the idea of a wall, I am actually an immigrant from Mexico and support a wall. Figure that one out lol

[@peterkottke2570]

Much more problematic are those who live inside either the liberal or conservative "echo chambers" where the are constantly immersing themselves in media that validates their political beliefs and causes considerable friction if their partners don't share those beliefs.

[@katemiller7874]

Exactly most people don’t discuss this all day long.

[@brandondollar2657]

Courtney really pressed the girls who tried to wiggle out of the tough ones I really appreciated that

[@Pikawarps]

"if hes making 35k.. thats not much" literally national average for people my age. at least she was honest enough to admit she was jaded about money

[@Pikawarps]

Oh look, Courtney is big enough to have spam bots :D that’s how you know you’ve made it on KZbin (lol)

[@tko_5]

These are my favorite videos Courtney. I will be down in the comments trying to help out with my life experiences. Stay strong men and continue to grow. Thank you Courtney. 🙏🏾

[@CourtneyRyan]

You’re awesome. Thank you ❤️

[@googpix540]

I don't intend to trash women but let's face it these women are making their choices based on what they know you want to hear. They are concerned about their image. If you met all of these women in a video. Then if you asked all of the same questions and then had them answer them on paper but they were not identified by the woman providing the answer you would get totally different results. The answers would be a lut more shallow

[@MrFuckinglogin]

how exactly do you think their answers would be skewed? Both answers force ladies to be shallow. It's not like she is "deep" if she chooses a tall guy over a money guy lol

[@googpix540]

@@MrFuckinglogin look at the choices again. One is clearly a gold digger choice and one is not. They always chose the non gold digger choice. Without specific identification of the woman their choices would be very different.

[@Gustavog74]

Women only care about a guy’s looks.

[@googpix540]

@@Gustavog74 I would actually attribute that quality more to men. Women care about income, aggressive attitude and looks.

[@Gustavog74]

@@googpix540Women are just as primitive as men. Men are just honest about it. They only want good looking guys.

[@JacobKilner]

The whole "making 40k a year is warning sign" thing really got under my skin. What if they're neurodivergent (ADHD, autism, etc) or in a career that is personally fulfilling to them (like in the arts), but not making a huge deal of money as a result? I just feel like trying to make character judgements based off someone salary alone is such an unfair standard, especially when you consider that that idea of getting a relationship based around money in the first place seems extremely unhealthy. The idea that someone could otherwise be a 10/10, but if they aren't making an arbitrary amount of money, they're a no-go zone, it really does speak volumes. Definitely needs to be more conversations around that subject.

[@CourtneyRyan]

I totally agree. I didn’t comment much there because I shot another video with them after this one that was solely about money / average male income so I didn’t want to give anything away or sway their answers. Stay tuned!

[@motorbreath22]

It's what they want want bruh, don't get mad at them for having preferences, you have your own. You can't get mad at a snake for biting you, it's its nature

[@josheberhardt4030]

Yeah tbh that got to me too, I literally don't even personally know someone making over 40k a year at least where I live. The whole video feels very dystopian and makes class/caste very apparent in modern day. We really are living in different worlds

[@michaelferrier4915]

These videos are great! Two suggestions. Answer the questions yourself and do a segment like this with men.

[@trentc1098]

@@CourtneyRyan thank you for standing up for us men, it really is refreshing to see a woman do this that is genuine

[@gamepro94z]

Rejects short guys then gives a shout out to the short kings lmao.

[@danielschmidt1353]

Nice work Courtney! Your questions are getting better and better. This was probably my favorite video of yours so far. I hope you do a part 2 and really highlight more real life scenario's. One example would you date a 3-4 vs a 8-9 knowing that the 3-4 will stay with you and the 8-9 will most likely leave to enjoy the single life cause he has more options.

[@asana_awakening]

Wtf does everyone have against guys that make 50k..? 😂 I’ll just say my husband makes 50k, so do I and we love our life 🤷🏻‍♀️ just celebrated our 5 year wedding anniversary. Ps. If you’re wondering why I watch these videos because I’m fascinated with psychology and I also love Courtney’s take on things.

[@MikeyP109]

It's not everyone. It's women on camera trying not to look too bad.

[@Gustavog74]

It’s not about the money. It’s about the guy’s looks.

[@mikeoxlong3676]

you have two incomes so a man making 50k is fine for you. Women who don't want a man who makes 50k are women who don't want to work. They want to sit on their ass all day and have a man pay the bills.

[@VideoGameRoom32]

I've dated women on both side of politics. We had complete opposite views. I let her know we don't really talk about it. It seemed to work out. We should respect each others views.

[@WailfulSeeker82]

I tried that approach with my ex. We were polar opposites on certain issues but I made it a point to not bring them up unless it was nessacary and I was ok with her views and beliefs. She came to absolutely resent me over them and made it a point to always argue about it in the end

[@Courtney-Alice-Gargani]

I rather be with the man earning 50k. There are some men who are really bad at managing money. He can make more money but spends it all. I know men who make less money and has more money left over. The man who makes more money buys the fancy car, watches, suits, etc.

[@xabun]

no offense, but any girl sayin id pick 50k instead of 200k is just lying .. you know it, i know it, theyk now it ...

[@notfastjustfurious1554]

Hi Courtney. I found your channel a few days ago and I really appreciate what you are doing. It is enlightening and gives good insight for guys that are struggling to understand women. Personally your channel have given me some great insight to the differences between the sexes and why things sometimes can be difficult. Maybe even more important your work has given me an even stronger reason to stay single (I am too old to start anything new anyhow). The amount of toxic, shallow women in this world is beyond belief. Woman claim equal rights, equal this, equal that but when they are put against the wall about how they select a boyfriend/husband it is obvious that all that stuff goes out he window.

[@Andyboylettuce]

I'll be honest..since I stopped Watching these types of videos I've felt better about myself and am more confident. I really encourage you guys if you feel like this content isn't working for you STOP watching it! Foucs on other aspects of life and with growth you will become more confident in yourself! Also I know Courtney is just trying to help people. But it doesn't work for everyone.

[@stephanechouinard5867]

Take it like a man. Get on your horse and kick some ass. These women are just stating their opinions. Nothing to lose your shit over. Try reading stoic values then come back

[@GOPGOP-bk2yy]

I watch it for the laughs. These wha-men are delusional! They want the Chads & Tyrones but they want the money too.

[@jacobandrews2696]

A friend of mine is 5'5 and he has no issues. Only thing is, all the girls that wanna date him are over 5'11. Usually hes dating in the 6-6'3 range (not unheard of in northern europe) ya just gotta find your market

[@luketimewalker]

whoa

[@brianm3160]

I also love tall women

[@Realmotion2000]

It’s because USA girls are a completely different breed bro They a different breed A lot of USA girls are toxic because of social media and hip hop U got to be from the USA to know that. It’s millions of toxic women running around in this country USA girls are difficult compared to out of country women

[@jacobandrews2696]

@@TheNaturalHealthBlogger ive never met a chick that cared about penis size tbh. Yeah sure it can be a drag if you have a 1 inch stump of thunder but thats what you have hands and a tongue for. Dont look at porn, thats not real

[@jacobandrews2696]

@@TheNaturalHealthBlogger that sucks man, but it sounds like you just need to be more careful with the type of girls youre sleeping with. Im also about average myself and havent had any complaints

[@mr.dewrie8552]

I'm 5'5 and hearing most of their answers is a "hard to swallow pill", most men are judged based on their height, we are judged based on the things we cannot control. A person's value cannot be determined by certain measurements. Even having a high salary can't beat a 6 ft guy.

[@Gustavog74]

Unfortunately, women only care about a guy’s physical looks.

[@bagitall8957]

Height is not really a problem in india, pak and other south east asian countries... It's jst there in europe and america who were sold this society destroying idea of being 6ft alpha man... Thank God i don't belong to that messed up society

[@Gustavog74]

@@bagitall8957 Do you think women would prefer a taller mate where your from?

[@bagitall8957]

@@Gustavog74 there's is a difference btw a taller mate n a standard 6 ft requiremnt, m from pakistan, 24 n 5,7 had plenty of girls approach me but i didn't even know that this height issue was even a thing until i found these vids from usa specifically

[@bagitall8957]

@@Gustavog74 Girls from our region do prefer guys that are taller than them not necessarily 6ft n above😆 plus there is no dating culture or any dating apps allowed in our country which is a blessing to us... I c the damage done to thier society by these b.s apps

[@haywood4299]

Wonderful video that shows why you should never to listen to anything women say when it comes to what kind of guy they want. I love how so many of them instantly to go the "well that can change" meaning they can change the guy. This whole channel is ironically a master class on why men should never get dating advice from women.

[@katemiller7874]

People grow and change through the years. That’s normal

[@tyjohnson1550]

OMG Court that was Amazing! Loved all the ladies in this video. They all had great responses and were all attractive in their own beautiful way. ❤

[@chrisolson84]

The only problem I have with this question is that it implies that guys making 50k/year have a bunch of time. Leaving first thing in the morning and not getting home until 7-8 at night is normal, regardless of how much money you make, its called having a full-time job. And if you're making 6 figures then there's a good chance you're gone for whole days, even weeks at a time, depending on what you do.

[@chrisolson84]

@@dominick6131 Already mentioned that it depends what you do. I hope reading comprehension isn't part of your profession.

[@joshclark2109]

@@dominick6131 yeah those are top 5% guys

[@Kirbystare1992]

If you balance it out they typically not always but typically have more time than the 200k guy.

[@arnaldomadera791]

They are women from the 90% ... that logic is TOO MUCH for them.

[@tomwoggle9411]

The questions should have been rephrased: "If you were asked on KZbin what guy you'd rather pick, how would you answer to make yourself look best in the eyes of all the viewers?"

[@laemert09]

The 1 girl seems pretty honest the blonde girl, she was straight up what she wanted I respect that the others girls seem to hold back.

[@HisRoyalJaznness]

I sooo respect the blonde in the pink polo with the glasses on her head cuz she didn't try to fake the "right" answer once😆! Whether I would have a chance or not I appreciate the honesty.

[@buffman6947]

Great questions! You could tell by how every girl had to do their mental calculus before making a decision. I do feel bad for guys under 5’7. It’s already hard to get a good girl period, but the height makes it exponentially more difficult.

[@zoulzopan]

I am 5'5 and I feel even worse for the guy with the micro penis. I honestly don't know how they deal with it.

[@n1c704]

The toxic one…..rolls credits 😂 Edit: Ok now that I’ve watched the video, I’ve been closer to guy number one. The thing a lot of women don’t realize is the high salary guy in the most benevolent sense means they have to work a lot….it does help if the woman choosing the first one brings mental health stability to the table to balance the guy out.

[@truthordaryll5765]

The emotionally available and core value question was interesting. Because I ended up marrying the 8 who's core values didn't match mine. I like being intellectually challenged and learning new things. Or looking at things from a different perspective. People nowadays call it drama but it's not drama if there's a conclusion to an argument. If you're with someone that agrees with you on everything you don't learn anything new. You're in an echo chamber and become stuck in your ways. Progress, whether it be intellectual, emotional or physical, comes with uncomfortable pushback from what you would view as the opposing position.

[@BanesBasement]

Being open to discussion, conversation, and coming together despite disagreements is a match of core values though...

[@Michael_the_Drunkard]

Or you just like men that are handsome enough to not let you care.

[@AfriqueNY]

I agree. But that's a unicorn nowadays. And i might add that it gets old real quick .

[@Bluemgwes]

Stella seems like a very grounded woman and THAT is super attractive above all the superficial stuff being discussed. Right on!

[@richardw3347]

This was the best female group interview video you've done. The questions were funny.

[@daviddoan9447]

After the "honeymoon phase," you will definitely need similar values and ethics, etc. That infatuation fades. @Courtney Ryan that paid for everything and travel anywhere vs. the loyal guy but no travels is one for the books. Shout out to you for this awesome question.

[@Jotaro5181]

Notice how these girls salary requirements for a guy change when height is brought up, being overweight, or when the guy is a workaholic.

[@tommygunn6901]

All I have to say is this batch of girls way better than the first batch you've interviewed. The first batch were clueless. However, there are 2 of these girls who don't sound confident in theor answers. They both kept moving their eyes in all sorts of directions. Be confident in what you're saying and doing

[@CourtneyRyan]

🙌🏼 thanks for the feedback Tommy. Appreciate you!

[@tommygunn6901]

@@CourtneyRyan always!

[@karel4845]

Im glad Stella is still here because she was the bright one in the previous batch

[@tommygunn6901]

@@karel4845 she was okay, but still a bit naive, not as bad as the last batch. They need therapy or get a dog and cat and die alone. I said it

[@laturista1000]

Tommy you naive. Pay attention to a woman's actions. Words change like the wind. A woman will say different things depending on how she "feels" and depending on the audience and who is behind the camera. Actions my friend. Her actions are the truth and her dating history.

[@Jime0326]

Thank you, Courtney. These types of videos are insightful.

[@LeSam.]

Courtney, thanks for these videos they are fun to watch and I appreciate the aim of your channel. I would just like to say that I think sometimes these hypotheticals aren't rly reflective cuz a lot of times people will go for the super attractive person that has bad personality over the average looking guy with a great personality. In the abstract, you can say that you would rather date the latter, but in the real world, a lot of those guys dont get the chance to even show their personality. Not complaining or tryna hate on your content, just providing another perspective.

[@002mjr]

These women are lying on question #1. They would take 200k. They don’t want to look bad on camera.

[@anony88]

For 100k guy who's overweight, I would say that weight can be changed much easier than going from 50k to 100k in salary. Weight loss is still extremely hard for some people's body depending on genetics and etc, but it is almost always possible and doable. It takes less time to lose weight than it does to get a new college degree and 5 more years of professional experience to earn that 100k.

[@Gustavog74]

Women only care about a guy’s looks.

[@dashingtherouxthesnow4017]

Side note, I LOVE everyone's outfits here, especially Erica and Stella's. They all look wonderful.

[@KJS988]

Simp

[@ericacarlberg5516]

Thank you!

[@jaxonwoods8181]

@@ericacarlberg5516 awesome that you respond to comments! How did you think of this interview?

[@ericacarlberg5516]

@@jaxonwoods8181 it was fun to film and very thought provoking :) Thank you for watching!

[@wraith9112]

Just watched your video on these ladies and tinder. I have to say, that video made me realize if I'm ever single again I'll never waste my time on a dating app. Also, A man can be educated and not making a lot of money for a wide range of reasons that are outside of their control. I have two degrees and lost my job last year. Now I'm working for less than 30k to make ends meet but I'm actively job hunting for something closer to what I was making.

[@MarylandGuy-ey3st]

Moral of the story: Women don’t know what they want. Watch what they do not what they say

[@jfranco_official]

all a guy wants... is she cute, is she cool, is she feminine? that's it

[@BadMotivator66]

and kind, modest and loyal

[@trolleymouse]

"Living adult human female who treats me like an important person in her life."

[@stevenjacks9966]

Lol. Seriously. Just stop. What women say and what women do are very different things.

[@bigdave5946]

I love watching them squirm answering the questions I think a heard a few I wouldn’t date either of them a few times . And honestly that maybe the most honest answer of all of them , because most modern women won’t except a man that doesn’t check off most of theirs wants on their list . I’m looking forward to more of this type of content . If we could only them up to a lie detector to se which answers are truthful.🤣 Some times they lie to protect themselves from looking bad in public point of view which is some what understandable. Over all good job Courtney

[@ellobopoderososdl4596]

Oohh lie detector test!!! I like that one. Especially when it comes to things like member size

[@flexkitten]

I loved this video and I really enjoyed seeing the responses! There were a few where I thought to myself “sheesh I don’t want either , I’d rather fly solo!” But it also made me think about women’s expectations vs men’s. Courtney, I love your videos!

[@TheJereld]

Picking a man or a woman is the same as what kind of car you like verses what you want. If you want a Lambo you got to pay the toll but you now have to be extra with it. Someone wants to honk at it, key your car, steal your car, get pulled over because it's nice. Stress comes with 10's but they are very nice. Now, if you're on a budget or don't reach beyond your means, and just a little insecure. You can always get a 2004 Mazda. It will get you around, it's cheap, no one wants it, and to be honest it breaks down a lot (code for cheats). But a lot of people get cars they can't afford, just like people date people they don't match with. The funny part is 5's always want 10's and cupid don't shoot that way. But when dating app says "We have a 5 match for you" you don't like it. Which says a lot about oneself. But you can always pick being delusional too. I seen plenty of couples thinking their partner is a Lambo and the person is clearly driving a Mazda with a donut wheel. And the best car insurance is a prenup.

[@isaywhatiwanttosay2025-4eva]

Avi and Mercia's hair is gorgeous.

[@BrianOTSR1]

Although I understand the premise with the scenarios you put forth - when it comes to questions regarding money, I’m somewhat surprised because the suggested low salaries imply an incredibly low cost of living. I live in an area where 90k per year means you likely have roommates, live at home, no ability to save, etc. Perhaps giving an average cost of living would help the audience understand the responses a bit more.

[@peterkottke2570]

I believe I heard Cleveland which would be significantly less than say New York or Los Angeles.

[@JacobSmith-rh2sr]

When are you going to interview guys so girls know what the hell we are thinking instead of making judgments that all we care about is sleeping with them, followed by a reaction video from them

[@CourtneyRyan]

It’s on my list!

[@dominick6131]

If she interviewed guys and mentioned weight it would be labeled as fat shaming, even though there is nothing wrong with caring about weight

[@JacobSmith-rh2sr]

@@dominick6131 you're probably right though

[@okayman2057]

I'm 5'5. Just gotta realize that for us short dude. We cannot change our height. But we can change our appearance, intelligence, and wealth. I think I've only dated 2 girl who was like 3" taller than me. * Think us short dudes just have to have VERY THICK SKIN. The dark times in my adolscents definitely help build a strong internal locus of control. Just gotta push through. If they care that much about height, they aint for you. So dont bother triying to make it work. Focus on yourself.

[@HalfAsianDerp]

This is so hilarious to watch, I can't stop laughing watching them trying to answer without seeming shallow. Had to come back and edit this, I am legit in tears at this last question. Courtney this was cruel, you should label this video comedy instead of self-help, goddamn

[@Gustavog74]

Women only care about a guy’s looks.

[@HalfAsianDerp]

@@Gustavog74 not only, but as a tall, average looking dude, I can't lie. My experiences with women have not been the same as my less fortunate peers :/

[@Gustavog74]

@@HalfAsianDerp Agreed. Women only care about looks. They all admitted that in the video. Just be extremely good looking and tall.

[@HalfAsianDerp]

@@Gustavog74 again not only. I'll put it like this, it gets you in the door, and they'll be more likely to stay. But your personality, values, and ability to provide will really make the difference. Noone wants a vapid narcassist male or female

[@Gustavog74]

@@HalfAsianDerp Your right. It’s good to be physically attractive and ethical in a relationship. But if your extremely good looking you don’t have to try hard to maintain her attention.

[@santiagofavela9843]

I'm 5'3 tall, I've always thought that with time I would be more appreciated from women, as they get older they start to value other things and not mainly physical appearance, but I keep listening (in social media, but also out of social media in my daily life) that height is still very important for people, especially for women. It doesn't matter the age, I'm 25 years old and women around my age or even older (in their 30's) prefer a tall guy than a short one like me (this video confirms it). I think I have to get used to being alone.

[@nandorsantho7115]

There's alot of short girls out the,your the king,keep the faith

[@Argetlam17]

Some just want a guy to be taller than them, you will find one.

[@chickenpotpie2008]

They’re not worth it. Focus on yourself.

[@cesar90x45]

Get in shape and go for money. In your 30s, get your assets, finance and work in good order. Believe me, they will come to you. At that time, be wise and red pill. Clear about your Intentions and Ruthless. S3X before sharing Resources. They will realize that you are not playing games.

[@dedasalmeida9047]

Bro just take your time, get your priorities set straight and live your life ... Or go to a different country...either way just go where you wanted

[@nelsonlikeshxc8505]

The lady in the brown dress is an absolute gem. Everything she said, and how she held herself during the questions, is wonderful. ❤️

[@kamyartj]

Ugh I love these “would you rather” videos. You can tell the girls struggle between honesty and how they’d look on camera :} but lots of respect for answering these! Your questions are brilliant! The micro penis question cracked me up. Also if you ever need guys for answering these I’m 100% game :}

[@Gustavog74]

Women only care about a guy’s physical looks.

[@Gustavog74]

@Aces Not at all. Women have their own careers and savings these days. They rarely have access to extremely physically attractive and tall men.

[@aussiebatler]

The girl with the black and white top, I love your outlook on what you like in a guy, guys need more ladies like. you out there!

[@Revenant2010]

Most of them don’t realize that a $100k or even $160k salary is not really living the high life.

[@colinmckendrick9803]

Stella is probably the only pure straight shooter that actually knows what she wants and doesn’t sugar coat answers

[@MakeFathersGreat]

Courtney. You should interview some older ladies too. What would they tell their younger selves or their single selves? What qualities are more important now? A lot of the answers from these young ladies sound theoretical and not based on real life experience

[@dogbarbill]

Being on the downhill side of 65, this is all just entertainment (and eye candy) for me. Not only am I not in the dating game anymore (never really was actually), I'm not even on the sidelines. I'm way up in the top row of the cheap seats in the nosebleed section. Stella has changed her appearance, and she is more attractive now.

[@luketimewalker]

One of the most gorgeous women I've known is 62... ofc she's really not the average 62-y-o woman but still I see on your page you're surrounded with women so why not

[@dogbarbill]

@@luketimewalker "Surrounded?" This all happened because it was my high school class of 1972 celebrating our 50 year reunion. I was a part of it, and had shot video of part of our last reunion in 2017. A couple of committee members requested that I specifically be there for the purpose of shooting photos and video of the weekend events. The overwhelming number of women you see, especially in the Ladies Luncheon, are married and a number of them came from long distances across the country. The ones who said hello to me had seen so many of my photos I had posted on our class facebook page well as my own page. One or two have lost their husbands from health issues over the years, but they're not interested in another relationship. And btw, we're practically all 68 y/o at this point.

[@luketimewalker]

@@dogbarbill fair enough. It ain't over till it's over tho

[@dogbarbill]

@@luketimewalker true

[@JohnSmith-kn4zd]

i like the switchups you did after the original questions, and the reactions. lol

[@Ineedfwns]

“I don’t really care about appearance and the money doesn’t really matter to me either” HAHAHAHHAAHHAHAHA

[@ramizshould]

Thank you Courtney Ryan and the ladies for your feedback very much appreciated it though you know.🙂🙂🙂👍👍👍

[@rono33]

Courtney I love this segment I’ll have to go look and find your other one and I hope you do more. And the selection of women was great, they each had their own reasons and they all thought before answering rather than just thoughtless answers. Great group, great questions.

[@rsnickster363]

If these women are going to be this picky they should at least be higher than mid.

[@GentlRebel]

Regarding the 3 vs 10 - wow. Ladies, take the 3! When you reach my age (53) you will have a MUCH better life and future with a provider. I had a 10. I was the breadwinner and he was all too happy to spend my/our money making sure other women knew how great he was, if you know what I’m saying. Now I have a provider. Life is great - all aspects of it. 😉

[@DreadLordCthulhu]

Gab is the best and always makes me giggle. Her personality is just awesome.

[@denisships2861]

Seems to me that the girls are starting to feel the pressure of the popularity of your videos and multi content creators that use them influencing the tone and context of the answers. We like it raw

[@denisships2861]

I loved Avi answers , it can vary according ro people but I love specially at this stage they are in of mid-20's to incentivate guys to work hard and intelligent their way up