WHITEFOX BOUTIQUE CLOTHING HAUL & TRY ON | Buying Non Binary Episode 1 (2023)

#genderfluid #whitefoxboutique WHITE FOX BOUTIQUE HAUL
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I'm SO EXCITED about todays video!!! White Fox Boutique is a - somewhat affordable - Australian fashion brand that offers trendy and luxe clothing, including dresses, activewear and swimwear - definitely some Instagram baddie vibes that remind me of the popular instagram boutiques I see on my feed! I asked my friend Arden to pick out items, and in todays video you'll see Whitefox Jeans, Whitefox Dresses, Whitefox Jewelry and more. I'd love to work with White Fox and do another clothing haul and honest review with them, so comment below looks you'd like to see! Would you like to see a White Fox Swim haul, or a dedicated White Fox Active haul? Let me know!!
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[@DementedEvilQueen]

Arden looking into the camera and saying “I know what community you’re from…you cannot hide from me” and Alex’s face was so golden 🤣

[@adelleshoemaker8487]

i really love that alex is using these hauls to give her friends new clothes. i know shes constantly removing things from her personal wardrobe and this allows the cycle to break and give new life to the pretty pastel channel

[@amelias4025]

ik, you see so many creators doing hauls upon hauls of clothes it seems so wasteful, i really love the idea of bringing your friends in! and you get to see so many different styles this way it’s great

[@sosanmia3]

Arden is such a cool name tbh! Also Alex I am living for the white top you have on at the start - living for the low key gender neutral pirate vibes ❤️

[@theresapittman205]

I’m a straight, cis woman staring down the barrel of 51 and have never had a moment of gender dysphoria. What a luxury! But I still love that you chose to do this video and I’m glad I chose to watch it. When I learn the real-life experiences of real people living a different existence than mine, I have more understanding and thus, more compassion for people. So instead of making a classless joke about ‘gender fluids’ and moving on with my very typical life, I feel like I understand gender-fluid better and I can see from the comments, non-binary people want to feel like they’re a valued consumer, like everyone else. Thank you for going there and thank your friend for sharing a very intimate part of themself. They killed it!

[@wardancers4]

I love how you have expanded the content on here and are doing more vids with different body styles and Gender options

[@maeve.0019]

This haul means so much to me as a non-binary person, I’ve never felt more included in your hauls as I felt in this one! I love that you can do this for your friends and help them have more gender affirming clothes! It can change everything to wear something that makes you feel gender euphoria, comfort and feeling the support from the ones you love 💕

[@but_iWantedTo_speakGerman]

A man that calls himself nonbinary is still a man. A woman that call herself nonbinary is still a woman. There is nothing you can do about it. Your hatred for your sex will not change anything.

[@s6ac891]

first off love the name arden, secondly it was so cute alex trying to refrain from opening the parcel, thirdly it was amazing to see arden's confidence/comfort levels growing as the video progressed and they have fantastic taste

[@Mama2ATeam]

They look amazing! I love how you could see their confidence in different outfits and listening to you be their hype man. Everyone needs supportive friends like you guys.

[@BlondeSparkles]

The background sound is really drowning out what you’re pal is saying.

[@ShelbyZealand]

Probably because they're not wearing lav mics. I'm guessing the only mic picking up sound is in the camera.

[@toydose]

As a non-binary person myself, this video makes me so happy!!! I actually sent you a message a while ago asking if you'd do a video on clothing for transgender people so i'm sooooooo excited to see you actually did this! Also i think its very admirable that even if you personally aren't feeling up to doing a clothing haul, you're more than willing to let your friends partake in a personalised haul! Its always great to see more diverse bodies in the youtube fashion-scape and i love how you've always shared your platform on this channel :) I know Alex herself doesnt read the comments as much (or at all?) anymore but if this does get to her I just think it would be wonderful for her to know that I've been a supporter for many years and have gone through so much of the same stuff. especially lately, so to see you still posting but with a more authentically YOU content lately is fantastic. I LOOOVE the bird photog videos. I love seeing your genuine excitement and happiness in videos. I'm so glad you've found a happy place in Tasmania and I can't wait to see what the pretty pastel future holds for you

[@maeve.0019]

I’m also non binary and it means so much how much I see other people commenting things like this, it makes this community feel even safer than it did already

[@marygrace4245]

IDK I am more confused then before I watched this they look like casual women's clothes to me, I am just simply a woman who likes casual clothes.

[@ncorp2668]

If it's not hyper feminine or s*xualized, then it must be non- woman. 🙄

[@lemlem8510]

Literally clothes have no gender, it’s more so feminine, masculine and androgynous but the industry doesn’t understand that. By saying it’s just “women’s clothes” that adds another perspective to genderqueer people like myself that it is now too boyish and girlish so then we feel more uncomfortable and dysphoric in it ( obvi only speaking from experience but this is a common issue and experience)

[@Jayde4551]

You’re a magnet for great friends Alex! Happy to see you happy with great people around you ❤

[@LoPet6225]

Love your videos, Alex, but some new recording equipment might be in order. I have to turn the volume up to max to hear you guys. If/when the video breaks for a commercial. I'll get blasted out. Thank you!

[@carolblum8402]

The flannel button up looks super comfy! I live in oversized tee shirts with flannels layered over them on a daily basis (literally wearing it right now)

[@kathywells6445]

would you consider getting some mics (the kind that you clip to your shirt)? I'm struggling to hear without having the volume so loud that it gives me a headache

[@tashagiles4187]

loved all these outfits i'd wear them all! arden you rock!

[@Dr3Mc3Ninja]

Just looking back over her uploads and realising I missed this video when it was uploaded... I cannot enjoy it the same, now that Alex is gone, but at least it's a "new" video to me.

[@nikigunn]

I like watching your friends' doing hauls because it's fun seeing you so excited for them and it's not just your style but different perspectives. I think that can keep it fresh for you, too. I'm enjoying your new friends too.

[@rozharris6834]

Really cool video as an enby. Arden has so many clothing ideas that I never would've thought of.

[@victoriahayden2961]

This was good fun. Some great choices by Arden! 👏🏻

[@IonIsFalling7217]

Great video! Nice to hear happy birdies, and you seem so incredibly happy! The clothes look like really nice quality. Music could be a little softer so we could hear you and Arden a little better.

[@spooker746]

I'm nonbinary as well, I love this! 🥰

[@Debbee75]

Fab haul/try-on vlog…well done to you and Arden ☺️👏🏼

[@inked_9574]

!!!! yesss enby episodes are all im living for

[@Toriish]

I don't know if i'm non-binary or not, but I never quite knew how to properly dress more masc. This actually really taught me how to look at it in another way. So: fun as always and educational!

[@FadedThreadsAndFeelingDead]

Please use a mic

[@marikotrue3488]

This was an excellent idea for a video. There are so many possibilities for the white top, black dress and the shirt-dress (with the puffy sleeves). That black dress should be part of a mass mailing to everyone with its flexible fit, classic style and neutral color. It is magical! Just keep a few accessories (chains, belt, shoes) and you are good to go...to many places. While White Fox had many possibilities, it might also be fun to try the same "gender fluid" and different body types in a style video using items from a thrift shop.

[@iCJTV1]

White Fox aren't shipping orders at the moment and taking ages to respond to all of their customers. I ordered from them over a month ago and they would only offer me store credit back. Disappointing brand rn sadly.

[@cherrybomb965]

i just stalked their insta and i didnt realize how bad they've gotten! hope alex sees this

[@jrkeys9540]

Awesome love all these looks thank you 💖

[@MsJosiejo32]

The bird tweets are sublime 🥰

[@kymberlidyer7282]

Love the idea of the t shirt dress layered w a crop leather jacket!!!

[@GMSqueaky91]

I used to wear almost this exact clothing style all through school, and I am female. Flashbacks for sure.

[@gabriellenogueira3851]

I’m so excited to watch this ❤ I never see myself represented in videos so this is amazing ily Alex!

[@AussieBlink]

Arden looks AMAZING in that black dress!!!

[@elizereirving6215]

AAAAHHHHH i'm nonbinary and have been watching since the begining and this makes me so happy!!!! totally all my clothing aesthetics and colours too XD I'm also an XL so this also makes me giddy to see things i can fit in! I would love to see them in more videos

[@sarahtrstr712]

ALEX HEY ALL THE WAY FROM US!! Iowa gals rule!!

[@lindatannock]

I'm loving the cream dress with the wide sleeves, and the black dress the best! Tshirt is fab, and the last pair of carpenter trousers the best (although everything looks fantastic on them!) 😍🥰👏🏻💖🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

[@annaloye5219]

Arden, you are lovely and did so well in this video. Hope to see more from you. It would have been better if you weren't frequently interrupted, and items that you were excited about snatched and thrown across the room Don't let others steal your light. Having said that the production is astoundingly awful. Again. sadly.

[@darkraven2116]

This was such a nice video. The way the camera was positioned had purpose, the clothes were taken seriously and it didn't feel like a big joke. Huge improvement over the YesStyle haul. Putting time and care into the filming and editing really pays off!

[@urbctwentyeight]

Love this

[@ilydance601]

THANK YOU WHITE FOX!! 🫶🏾

[@dawncl6205]

My favorite were the outfits with the black dress. I think it really suits them.

[@Pastyninny]

Yass appreciate the nb content

[@randomnerd1015]

Arden is so cool! They look great in every look. Button downs are something that I definitely love when trying to present less femme. So sad I can't really wear baggy pants as I am a very short person who would be so lost in the fabric. I am curious about where they got their chest binder. It is nice to know what brands make good binders. Chest binding can make you feel so good, but it can be harmful if done incorrectly.

[@KelseyShields]

Finally a fashion icon I can relate to!

[@Sammyz0r]

The white crop on Arden looks amazing for a fem look. Fits their body amazingly

[@aurorabarborealis]

This is the fastest I've ever clicked 😄

[@winternight8813]

Arden intro is much appreciated. They seem great and did a great job. White Fox is looking very nice on this Babe! Also the transitions in the fashion show were great. Nice editing! *Clothing doesn't really have a gender." -Arden No Binary Fashon Influencer

[@winternight8813]

*sigh* everyone knows this is fake my dudes. Give up your nonsense and get real jobs.

[@Amelia-kq1ck]

Does anyone have a link to the discord?? Unfortunately the one on the second channel doesn’t work 😞.

[@Cynfuldreams]

I have to say, I love this new editing style and all of the wonderful new content. It feels like we are getting to see your personality and I love it!! Thank you for your inclusivity and kindness!!! Keep being Quirky!!! ❤❤❤❤

[@liverpoollou246]

The cropped blouse looked lovely on...😍

[@wolfandanimefangirl]

Arden is stunning and everything fits them so well! Thank you for doing this video, it honestly means a lot to us who struggle to find the right clothing or feel like we can't wear what we want in fear of being judged or misgendered. Can't wait to see more of this!

[@uribove]

I also put my t-shirts on one leg at a time 😱😱😱🤯🤯

[@SparrowSorrow]

Can’t wait for more uploads! I miss your content.

[@arTIGstry]

"Sugar and Spice" My brain: Ah, yes. The hella cute TikTok drag twins....no? That's not what...okay.

[@angelinaclark7098]

I looooove ponk/altrinitive vibes

[@emilyjay7844]

I never thought I'd see this video from a cisgender creator, im non binary and it brings me so much joy to know youre a accepting person

[@Berryations]

Stop calling ppl by labels they haven’t accepted for themselves! It’s rude! Alex may be okay being called cis but I am not and a lot of ppl aren’t comfortable having to label themselves because other ppl want to paste labels on themselves

[@frog2132]

@@Berryations cis is literally the scientific word for non trans/gender queer people..? Do your research before getting angry about something like a term thats quite literally just the correct term. Its like how trans women are women, you could refer to her as a woman, adding trans or cis infront of it is just saying the person either does or doesnt align with your gender assigned by birth.

[@jeancrochets]

I'm non binary too and it's so wonderful to see content like this (even though I dress almost exclusively femme these days).

[@emilyjay7844]

@@Berryations literally no one called YOU cis, get over yourself

[@ncorp2668]

@@frog2132 Gender is not assigned at birth. Neither is sex. There is nothing scientific about "cis" in the manner you're using it.

[@gloriaash7511]

The thing with identifying fabrics is….. It’s just freaking difficult! There is cotton that is for quilting that will be more stiff and quite thin then there is cotton that is soft and stretchy and cotton that is thick and not stretchy. It’s hard!! 💕 lol

[@clelphick]

Arden when you said about bundling clothes up when its cold and only taking so many clothes up before it gets illigel i thought my sentiments exactly

[@radioserrelind]

Arden makes Hamilton jokes? Arden can sit by me at lunch (though bonus points for the Thrift Shop reference to Alex).

[@eleanornaomigabrielle4105]

I had to convert Australian Dollars into Pounds before I could appreciate how well priced everything was.

[@coffeegirl18]

White Fox makes band style tees? That's basically what I wear for pjs

[@angelinaclark7098]

I love it so much and I love support in LBTG plus I hate that my phone won’t let me more because I support everyone!!!! Everyone should be able to love who they love !!!!!!!!!❤

[@SpideryMaiden]

Anyone else notice Lucy, Caitlyn, Grace, Sam and Michelle all unfollowed her?

[@Mowags1738yeah]

whaaaat

[@alexandlynnward6651]

How can you tell?

[@SpideryMaiden]

@@oatcakes1161 totally! My comments keep deleting on here. 🤔

[@ncorp2668]

I thought it was only Sam and Michelle? Are you sure about the others?

[@SpideryMaiden]

@@ncorp2668 you can check through their profiles or hers. I’m positive

[@verrrginia]

Me: I bet that dress is viscose or rayon. Video: viscose IS rayon Me: 🤯

[@daisywrabbit]

all those zoom ins are quite disorienting. Triggering my vertigo. 😵‍💫💫😵

[@theresapittman205]

Really stunning outfits. ❤ I’d love to see you both in the same outfit.

[@Yourlocalvamp13]

arden is a cutie!

[@adarlingdemondemise]

"I know what Community you're from, you cannot hide from me." I just came out to have a good time and honestly I'm feeling so attacked right now.

[@tessaarmstrong4770]

Take a shot every time she mentions Grace

[@stephw7372]

They quoted Hamilton, i like them :D

[@LittleGoat-dc6sd]

I really like these more personable videos but I do miss the more professional cuts of trying on the clothing that you used to do because it was a bit easier to see the clothing

[@earsybun]

i can barely hear you guys and my volume is all the way up! :(

[@lilly6766]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@mistycady7522]

Omg fuckin love them reminds me of my niece nephew 😊

[@GemmaCard123]

Love the real you, keep being you!

[@shimmerwinter55]

I’m bigender, both a man and a woman, so it’s interesting/refreshing to see a video like this where there’s tips on masc to fem/fem to masc styling on types of items I don’t usually think to look at (mainly, in my case, layering more sheer materials isn’t my forte and now I’m curious about trying that style.) Thank you for the awesome video! EDIT: Just wanted to add -your gender doesn’t dictate what clothes you wear, but easing dysphoria by using the shape/cut of clothing to emphasise and/or hide parts of your body can make a LOT of difference.

[@victoriajeanleslie3116]

I think the word you were looking for is sublimated, for that first shirt

[@monkeymallow]

Yes, more non-binary content

[@ElizabethLizMullin]

So happy to see some more friends getting the free sponsorship clothing hauls. :). Do you think you could bring the mic closer for the next one? It's a little hard to hear you and Arden.

[@Bladblazer420]

I actually identify as gender fluid so im hella interested in this thank you ❤

[@caitlin329]

I'm on the side of 'clothes have no gender' and that people should wear what they like, no matter how they identify. It's hopefully the future of clothing again.

[@bertiesark]

Can you ask Arden if the chest binders would hold a natural H cup? asking as I get tired of being stared at

[@orionstargaze]

H with what band size? Generally binders don't work great for anyone over a DD, but it depends a bit on if you have a large chest on a large torso or small torso

[@bertiesark]

@@orionstargaze 34 band size

[@kristenpaige6382]

I think the tan dress/long tee would pair well with a black corset over top with black leggings and boots

[@brianna1638]

I put my pants on both legs at once ❤

[@angelinaclark7098]

I love LBTS+ EVERYONE

[@rosinamuller9735]

Love the vibe of your Videos lately

[@blumoon3100]

This video is great. I learned that non binary people also use binders. Thank you friend for participating and being able to give more understanding to those of us that are not in the community.

[@missmystery22]

Genuine question for everyone with absolutely nothing behind it other than interested. What does non binary mean if you still wear obvious feminine clothing? How can you exist in the middle of two genders? What’s in your head if you are? Is it a separate gender in your head? Lots of love but I feel like I might get an answer in this supportive comment section!

[@xErinxx]

“Nonbinary” is not a third gender, but an umbrella term for anything that’s not strictly “man” or “woman.” Therefore being nonbinary isn’t ONLY presented through androgyny/gender neutrality, it can be anything you make it because it’s a miscellaneous category. There are nonbinary people who identify as demigirl for example, which means the person feels somewhat like a girl/woman but also somewhat not. Demigirls might choose to present exclusively feminine because that’s what they feel most comfortable with, but that doesn’t erase the partial disconnection they feel with the identity of “woman” and any feelings that make them feel they do not entirely match that binary label. I hope that explains it. Personally I am biologically female but have felt disconnected to being a girl/woman my whole life, to varying degrees at different times. I am a very self-expressive person and feel uncomfortable being viewed as strictly a woman, strictly a man, or strictly in between, and my femininity/masculinity varies a lot. So I identify as genderfluid. However I am really into fashion and makeup, and honestly men’s fashion sucks so feminine fashion + being physically female, I end up just looking like a woman 80% of the time. And I’m usually fine with that, but still prefer gender neutral terminology towards me because again I feel disconnected from simply being a “woman.”

[@xErinxx]

Also note that when I talk about a disconnect to a binary label, I’m talking about feelings of gender dysphoria, discomfort, and/or apathy towards that label being put on you and often an inability to relate to cis people’s relationships with their genders. Your gender identity isn’t only based on how you present, it’s your entire relationship with your gender and how you personally view yourself. It’s hard to explain because it’s both general yet specific, and cis people usually don’t have a strong sense of gender like trans people because they don’t feel the discomfort or strangeness that comes with chronically being misgendered. For example when I was a kid I was frequently labeled a “tom girl” and I absolutely HATED it. I realized later in life the reason it made me so uncomfortable to the point of anger was that I felt that my elements/displays of masculinity were invalidated as just being a somewhat masculine girl, instead of simply a person who could be feminine or masculine. It was that I was presenting masculinely and STILL being forced the label “girl” when I didn’t feel that was accurate to how I saw myself. I felt all that yet I still grew up loving elegant dresses, traditionally feminine roles, and other traits that would normally strongly align me with being a girl. A lot of nonbinary people experience contradictions like that, which is why they aren’t strictly one side

[@nikoward6303]

As an agender nonbinary individual, here are my two cents regarding your questions! "What does non binary mean if you still wear obvious feminine clothing?" Clothing itself doesn't really have "gender" - anything can be feminine if worn a certain way. Same goes for masculine. It all depends on the(/your current) trends, culture, even religion. "How can you exist in the middle of two genders?" As easily as there can be fractions between two numbers. A lot of people are lead to (falsely) believe that there are ONLY two genders. Although it's most COMMON in English speaking countries to be on one end or the other (say, "male" or "female"), there are a lot of people that can never reach (or don't WANT to reach) one of those "ends" - be it because society shuns them for being "not manly/womanly enough", they don't feel like they WANT to be what others want them to be or many other reasons (that can include the previous ones). Even if your gender matches with the sex you were born as (since those are two different things, despite what any adults might've told you while growing up), it doesn't mean that you fit the "mold" that society has for you. Which is why nonbinary is an umbrella term for anyone that isn't strictly a "man" or a "woman" - which includes people that are both, neither, as WELL as between. "What’s in your head if you are?" My brain, what about yours? :) Jokes aside, I doubt there's all that much different between people, unless they are, like. Incredibly hateful towards others. Those people have a hornets nest in their head, I imagine. "Is it a separate gender in your head?" That is an interesting question and everyone will most likely have a different variation of an answer. But from personal experience - not really! I am me, it's just the rest of the world doesn't always get it. But it's okay, because I can be patient, explain, educate and entertain. It can be much better to ask these things (or at least do research), than to just assume something and never confirm/deny it.

[@ncorp2668]

Pro-gender role and s*xist comments incoming in 3...2...1...

[@missmystery22]

@@ncorp2668 oh no I promise not. Just genuinely have questions.

[@e_m_m_a_0122]

Agender here. Very excited to watch this video!

[@robindrever4544]

Sooo happy to see you getting sponsorships and posting excellent and relatable content Alex 😁🥰 I loved all the items. I actually bought the "Out and About" shirt last year in a lovely pale blue. I can totally relate to the fact that their jeans sizing is not very reliable. I bought a stunning pare of wide leg high waisted jeans that have a denim tie at the ankle and have yet to be able to wear them as the waist is too small. Total bummer! But the quality of the denim is absolutely amazing ❤. Arden is such a lovely person! Such a great friend and happy that you have created your own Tassie community. Looking forward to your next video! You're doing a great job Alex! 👏👏Dreaming of one day being able to travel to Tasmania!

[@ResOwOnance]

Video idea: get your friend to style Grace!!

[@Ius8293]

Maybe leaving some passive aggressive comments about your friends in your video isn’t the greatest move. But thank you for resuming to editing, and setting the camera on a tripod, it’s at least watchable now.

[@justsammie27]

Really wanted to watch this one through but struggled to hear it properly and background music didnt help, sorry! Arden seems cool, love the name.

[@natalieayala2083]

Wasn't Sam suppose to come visit her in new Zealand

[@courtneyryder1810]

Argh I love t shirts and flannels, I literally have half a big wardrobe full of flannels and 3 or 4 drawers full and t shirts and a hamper with some more t shirts, I live in oversized t shirts and mens Jersey shorts, mens as theres have soft lining whereas the womens didn't, also they longer and cheaper so win win win 🤣😂

[@glitterfarts7445]

Does anyone know why Alex went private on Instagram? Is she okay 🥺 Alex I hope everything is okay with you 🙏🏻

[@viola3581]

@@lifeofjeannebromley2606 it is

[@duck6100]

@@lifeofjeannebromley2606 it is you just won't notice if you already follow her

[@carolineg1113]

Arden is my new aesthetic

[@Gingersnaappp]

I am confident that Alex is one of the nicest people. Always so complimentary & willing to share her adventures (and platform) with her circle. Love seeing your relationships, always so positive!

[@mettebak751]

I love the background, but there is a bit of an ecco, but other than that love the video❤❤