Who PAYS in the relationship?!

[@LingandLamb]

Hey guys, thank you for your love and support. Please don’t forget to like, subscribe and share this video. Also, feel free to comment what you think about this topic 💜💜

[@jaecepeda7752]

This is why you guys will have so many more years of happiness to come , bless you both!

[@precioussarbah6186]

It is actually impossible to not like or subscribe to your channel. Love from Ghana. And please try some Ghanaian foods too.

[@daviddada7771]

You guys are so cute

[@MayraGarcia0724]

Love you guys. Love that you keep it real. Many more years of blessings. Much love from Brooklyn NYC and Lagos Nigeria.

[@arsalanahmed2832]

Great video. The next one should be about how to spend quality time with your partner.

[@ultrasonicmind9428]

Her smile when Lamb said she never made him feel less because she was providing, says it all

[@deecee9741]

15:32

[@the12deel]

That line stuck with me also

[@josephsdaughter]

Ling na correct person oh!..I'm glad she's a Nijah gal now ( by extension)...lol..and we deh too proud of her oh

[@dawoduomolola3672]

The look on Ling's face while Lamb talks, is EVERYTHING 😍Dear Ling, on behalf of all your Nigerian inlaws, we love you and appreciate you. Your folks raised you right. You're obviously a great woman 😊

[@darlenelane392]

I agree she is soo sweet n kind n loves him soo much 🙏

[@chinenyeosuji4864]

Thank you my brother. Ling you are a gem.

[@lumkamxesibe4949]

Ling shows by that through actions (body language)and words of affirmation

[@austinjcb1539]

That's what up.

[@lakeishagalloway2983]

What a sweet comment!!

[@ugochukwumadubueze1805]

She did it with so much grace and humility.....that brought a drop of tear to my eyes. Thanks Ling for loving our brother!

[@nolaaleaux]

Definitely!!!

[@defrankmedia7520]

That's where most Nigerian marriages especially in the Eastern area will have hit the rocks but I know most ladies will disagree

[@KPNica284]

I felt the same way. And in Ling and Lamb style, she has to come and say: “Imagine feeding this one” 😂. I love them! ❤️

[@ogdarlin4852]

More love to Ling for loving my bro

[@omolarabangura]

Thanks Ling

[@rebeccaolu1924]

THIS GUY IS QUITE INTELLIGENT AND KNOWLEDGEABLE.

[@treasuresquad]

Ikr

[@hamzakamara9034]

No lie and forgot to add talented.

[@darlenelane392]

Yes he sure is 🙏

[@imjustkidding7908]

Watch his documentary and you will respect him more.. Just search "lamboginy" in youtube..

[@celestesobers8697]

Of course he is.Making us laugh with all his antics with food and accent and his music is not the whole man.

[@MsNairobi]

the reason this relationship works is because there is mutual respect

[@MotherMaryIam999]

My husband and I first date, I paid for our date. He told me from the beginning, you are going to have to pay as well. And that I did. He allowed me to see that there has to be balance. A little before our 6th month anniversary he told me to give him my card because I was financially unstable while working two jobs. He made sure we had everything we needed and desired when he took over. And when we started living on the streets, I had to make it happen for us. From getting us food, clothes, and shelter;I never looked at him less than the God, God created him to be. He provided in ways that paper finances can't. And that's spiritually. He taught me how to live how God see fit, and that is the greatest gift I could ask for. You all are beautiful. I appreciate when true soulmates are together. The spiritual energy shows. Blessings to you two💜💜💜

[@murunwamainganye5297]

Ling is an awesome lady. Hearing how she supported Lamb regardless. I think sometimes we miss out on awesome partners because we judge them on their temporary financial position. Love you guys ❤️

[@TheSamiRae]

I think she supports him because she sees his potential and drive. As men, even if it's not working as much as we'd love it to, atleast do something.

[@jamesojie]

God bless ur heart for this comment

[@jamesojie]

@@TheSamiRae exactly

[@murunwamainganye5297]

@@TheSamiRae True, as long as you see potential and you as a man are also working towards something and not just waiting on your lady

[@kind2423]

I’m sorry, but... looking at potential can get you in a lot of trouble. I say this from personal experience. Don’t blame others who want ready made men

[@ritacontreras7146]

Me and husband known each other since six grade. We both were brought up in the 80’s. I was 16 of age when I got my first apartment with my boyfriend snd daughter. I worked two jobs to pay $150 dollars rent and utilities. My husband didn’t work he couldn’t find a job then. I supported my husband during hard times for my family. I love my boyfriend so much I knew in time he will get a job. One day he had a interview at Nobart Studio in downtown Chicago. He came back home and told me I got the job. We both were so excited. He told me I don’t want you to work anymore stay home and I’ll take of us now. At the age of 22 we both got married and bought our first house Indiana. We became born again Christian’s in 1990’s serving our Lord Jesus. We both stood by each another through our life journey no matter how bad it got. God is with us!! ✝️🙏🏻 We are now in our middle 50’s we are still in love and with God blessings we are living blessed beyond our cup. Don’t give up on your partner or spouse. God will always work situations out. Be patient and walk in faith. Life is a journey. ☺️

[@josephinesobers7422]

A wonderful testimony.Thank you.May God continue to bless you and family.

[@denniskcobi3470]

Thanks alot

[@irene4770]

Aaaaawwwwwww.....thank you for sharing your journey with us...May God bless you both 😁🥰

[@abdulwaarithshoboyede3514]

A very good testimony and most especially bringing God into one’s life, it’s very important, really appreciate this a lot.

[@wWashington-i2j]

🙏🙏

[@zirpa1]

Who ever raised you guys have done good. Love you guys ❤❤😍

[@gbemiodeseye9495]

❤

[@avavialdores5263]

Ling, you and your hubby were placed together by Yahweh you are meant to be many blessings to both of you always.🙏💕

[@dieart192]

Please be real like this forever

[@abdur8772]

I’m getting married tomorrow. This is great advice for starting a new journey. 🇳🇬🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿.

[@naominyiam]

Congratulations

[@promisechuks6445]

Success

[@Adasipriscilia]

Congratulations

[@davidmordi3117]

CONGRATULATIONS!

[@realtalkwithphil]

Congratulations. Please make sure you invest in making your marriage sweet and enjoyable. God bless you.

[@motivations9296]

Its lovely that he treated her so well even though they both started small.. i helped an ex when he was struggling and he treated me like shit even though i cooked, cleaned, washed his clothes and let him stay with me when he had no where and no one. I of course had to walk away i cannot be treated this way. So i commend Lamb for treating Ling with so much love and appreciation.

[@vcofyoutube]

This finna be a series on TV soon. "Keeping it real with Ling and Lamb"✨

[@judithcharles133]

I’d watch 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@deborahland2381]

To be a young couple, they have a lot of wisdom and common sense. This is so refreshing. God Bless them.

[@E.M.jansnow]

Proudly 🇳🇬🇳🇬 (nija)All the way from UKRAINE 🇺🇦🇺🇦. Who wouldn't love this couple. Originality is part thier personality

[@kingsdaughter9336]

Now you are going to make us cry when Lamb said openly that Ling never made him feel less of a human. Ling, thank you for being such a virtuous woman. And Lamb, you are so adorable being an example. I am always fascinated at your level of intelligence. And the synergy between you guys despite the cultural background is unbelievable and heavenly. God keep you guys. Loads of love

[@josephinesobers7422]

Your ex wasn't worth it, you were right to walk away.Hope you're in a better relationship now . Always remember that you are somebody special.

[@iamblessd9945]

Awww.. he literally made me teared up with that. It's great to hear a man acknowledge, appreciate and honor his wife."She did it with such grace and humility."

[@amercy5024]

Two people cannot walk together except they agree. Good work guys😘

[@irene4770]

Spot on !!👍🏽👏🏿

[@maerollison1979]

I enjoyed this chat. Lamb has a lot of wisdom and knowledge.

[@dan9886]

My second comment after watching the video... this was a very great topic. My own experience in support of a point Lamb made as to showing your support in some other ways if you girlfriend or wife is the one bringing in the money, I was studying in Japan and my girlfriend I had met there was the one paying for our apartment at some point, see me cleaning and cooking tirelessly... Did I die? The problem with most guys is EGO, be wise and humble because it helps greatly. No circumstances will last forever, you just need self discipline to cross over.

[@queenabraham7434]

@Dan... God bless you.even crossing into heaven needs lots of work and self discipline 🙏

[@queenabraham7434]

@Dan... God bless you.even crossing into heaven needs lots of work and self discipline 🙏

[@cocobenji6123]

this.

[@thamsanqathusi9671]

I've never listened so attentive to a video like this. Lamb...you made me wanna be a better man, thanks man.

[@realsisters8289]

Very emotional. She did it with such grace and humility

[@mitchelnwaokolo7463]

Please I beg... You guys need to do more videos like this. About marital issues and all.

[@LingandLamb]

Thanks! What are some topics you would like us to talk about 😊

[@jamesojie]

@@LingandLamb pls do more videos on real relationship matters It was the realness for me..I love how u both treat each other

[@arsalanahmed2832]

@@LingandLamb Topic's how to spend quality time with each other. Importance of trust in relationship. What if your partner cheats on you and ask for chance. How to control anger bursts in relationship or marriage that can end everything. 10 essentials for successful marriage/relationship

[@chizawestcarr]

A topic I’d love you to talk about is the challenges you faced in the early days. Cultural, living together, male/female dynamics.

[@Princessfaith_]

@@LingandLamb hi! Some topics I would like to realize is how to manage accounts in marriage, such as how to save, how many savings accounts a couple should have, how you plan for kids in the future& are their x and y amount a couple should have already saved ahead of time before having the first child

[@naijamadenurse]

Wow. I've been on this channel for over 3 hours, watching all the videos. I'm just gonna put on my notification, as well as tell many people to subscribe. this particular topic. Finance in relationship is so important that if it's not talked about before marriage, it could ruin the relationship. I sincerely wish this could be an episode thing. I love you guys. You are the realest. 🇳🇬

[@BajanBoo]

If most relationships had this outlook on life. Most of us would of been in a better place. We sometimes are not patient and we lose in the long run by ending up with nothing good sometimes

[@Really_riel]

Truer words have never been said💯 Even my Nigerian parents have this issues. I feel the youths of these days are more enlighten on issues like this. Thanks for sharing your knowledge with us.

[@danielosayi4818]

You guys are so amazing. The wife has changed literally changed my perception about America-raised woman. The guy is so lucky.

[@b1ueocean]

He is - she’s one in a million - and at this level of amazing we’re no longer talking about “American”, “African”, “Asian”, etc... it’s individual spirit and essence informed by experiences, disposition, conscience, upbringing, values, all manner things far and apart from basic labels...

[@dawnphillips9591]

There are good American woman

[@prettydevoted]

@@b1ueocean Right on! 1,000 likes!! 👌

[@lonigirl8807]

That is why you should get to know people for yourself instead of listening to stereotyping. You will miss out on meeting good people.

[@lorenanerio2353]

15:27 so sweet! You can feel the love and respect you have for one another. My fiancé is Nigerian and I’m Canadian and I love watching your videos

[@larrylenbe8514]

Good one..love is in the air...no matter what color you are or what country you from GOD will transportit easily through air hahah

[@Biggs0690]

15:27 a women loyalty and love is tested when her man has nothing and a man love and loyalty is tested when he have everything ❤️blessings to you guys

[@mercedespearson9004]

Wow I am do mind blown by Lamb’s articulation in expressing himself, intelligent, and wisdom. I don’t know if you are a mentor but if you aren’t you would be a great mentor. You are very informative and transparent.

[@florelaurent4989]

He was mentoring jail and other places

[@salomayahyehuda123]

You’re young , because of your upbringing you are very wise beyond your years . Your thinking is on point, continue to allow God to lead and you will have a very successful marriage. And maybe others will learn by y’all’s example.

[@ayantundeidris207]

I can't just do without you guys in a day I always look forward to catch you guys on KZbin ..hmmm Finance in a relationship

[@evansabraham9171]

Go get a job

[@goodnessnwaneri]

If this isn’t goals, then tell me what is. There’s so much wisdom in this video and I just want to say I love you both. The love is so evident in your videos🥰😍

[@RaeshmaByGrace]

I love the way you guys are using this platform… God bless you guys. May you prosper in every way.

[@amospromiseable]

Wow! Lamb is really deep and truly Nigerian. And Ling is a unique being made for him. Thanks guys!

[@mbishisworldnamibianyoutub3830]

Watching your videos made me change my perception about Nigerian men,Lamb is a real African gentleman and if there’s anything additional that I have learnt from you guys is your love,transparency and most importantly the respect you have for one another

[@isaquilayan_26]

I salute Lamb for his open-mindedness. You both are so mature and can discuss and agree about almost anything. For relationships to work, everything must really be discussed sitting down and nothing must be taken for granted.

[@Asgod7]

Hi guys, in my opinion having a family budget works and a joint account where all monies are paid into and all bills are paid. You can both still have individual accounts that can be funded based on percentages from individual earnings for personal growth or needs.

[@lsimon041]

You two remind me of my relationship so much. I too am married to a Nigerian man who could not work when we first got married, but I could see his willingness and that's all I needed. We now have been married for 5 years and our finances will never be factor because we had this talk too and we both now contribute equally. You two seem so cool, and Ling it would be nice to have someone to chat with that could relate to me about what it's like to be married to a Nigerian. I see so many similarities! Wish you guys all the best! 😘

[@LingandLamb]

💜💜💜🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@angelicajoseph3080]

Tears of joy! How can one be beautiful and kind.

[@jadesoladurotoye783]

What can i say, your bond is a gift to everyone who loves peace and loves family.

[@nicholaskojane3451]

You've just restored my faith in marriage. Thank you

[@dorothymcallister6354]

I see so much love and respect between you two ... More couples should be here ! Wonderful 😊

[@Jay_Ayo]

Wise beyond their years. I agree with everything said in this video. My Wife and I pretty much are like this with some minor adjustments 😊

[@MoEverythang]

I wish there was a love button. Thanks for clearing up the part about not just taking a man with no money, but a man on a mission.

[@olaniyiopeyemi195]

When Ling said "which kain thing be this" I couldn't hold my laughter anymore

[@hikoncept1]

and "this thing sweet o" lol!

[@deborahwilliams1260]

You both fit together perfectly because you allowed the Lord lead you Lamb as soon as you saw Ling you knew she was your wife..! Ling your a virtuous woman I put in the comments proverbs 31 because that’s who you are..! You both are blessed of the Lord..!

[@osascorpomoregie8104]

From Nigeria, good morning, my name is omoregie Osahon and am in love with you guy like crazy. Came across your KZbin videos yesterday night and since then I can’t get enough of you guys it’s been amazing watching you guys and big daddy was also amazing with the thanksgiving turkey video. I love this particular video so much, you guys are real with it and the story of how you met is mind blowing, this is true entertainment mixed with reality. God bless your family.

[@Gigi-14]

I love the way the two of you interact with one another. I do not have a partner for over 20 years, but if I did have one it would be so wonderful to have someone pick up the slack so that I could have the ability and time to pursue my ideas. As a single Mom, I’m always instead just working to pay for all the bills and provision for my son. 😊

[@lucymagwa5238]

You made a very good point. I am South African. And I’ve also seen many successful families lose everything when the husband who was the breadwinner passed away because whilst the husband was alive he didn’t let the wife know how he makes money. What assets and debts he has. What it takes to run his business. Then when he passes away, the wife doesn’t know what’s what. This video is so valuable. Amazing advice guys. With love from the southern most part of Africa.

[@michaelolorunmibe5515]

The truth is that u guys have changed my mentality with respect to inter race marriage. I used to think that nothing in this world would ever make me fall in love with a white lady for some reasons best known to me. You have proven to me that it's all about individual personality, not nationality. Love you guys. "More power to your elbow"

[@Entergalactic]

She is not exactly white more like mixed

[@inhisimage0457]

Her father is Black. Her mother is mixed.

[@lisaross1208]

Yessss... I like how Lamb said, "our money" Now that's the key! Love You Both! Be Blessed! ❤❤

[@phyliciajoykloes]

Another great chat, Ling and Lamb! Being open about finances is a great first step. It definitely helps for both partners to understand the financial situation better and it gives a clearer view into future purchases. I appreciate what you mentioned about putting pressure on a partner. Thank you for sharing your chat!

[@nicolawaugh6728]

🗣True talk Use wisdom in every decision you make Look at the potential/work ethic because where you are today does not determine where you are tomorrow

[@dietriamichelle494]

Great job, beauty relationship from God such an example. I'm an older woman married for a long time. That information was very viral for marriages and relationships. Thanks for sharing!!!

[@nickyjones9105]

“Don’t live your life as if you control your destiny”

[@deborahdaniel5928]

So true

[@bl4092]

That hit me

[@Kaleidescope66]

Yes...just take the journey and adjust your sails!

[@hookcomics]

Man... I love the transparency. May God keep y'all longer than you expected.

[@vmaster4406]

This is 1 of the best conversation I've stop an listen to in a while.. some things are much needed

[@MsNairobi]

respect is huge..women let's ve humble...these are God given roles ..

[@DevinObi]

Your advise is on point!!!! Lamb you remind me of my NIGERIAN DAD always giving good advise!!!!! I can tell you were raised in a good family!! Ling you too give good advise!!! Love yall!!!!

[@victorialangenflder4317]

Such wisdom, every man should be like you, women would be happier. Thanks guys ❤❤❤

[@julianabonsu9614]

This conversation needs a part two. You guys are ministering. God bless you .

[@stephaniearthanasius9622]

"All of a sudden you now have big dreams" WORD!!...love you guys

[@NacoFam]

I love how you guys are open to each other that show a great marriage. I agree with all you said bro, we don't have to do everything to impress the other when is no ok for us..

[@tamelatkdaniels888]

I learn a lot from this couple ❤ their love is so beautiful

[@dilly5973]

Love from The Gambia 🇬🇲🇬🇲 I really love watching your videos..

[@IGBOAMAKAMAIDUGURI1]

Honesty, sincerity, and truthfulness matters in all our dealing, I know my relationship and marriage will be a blessed one, in as much as have been out of relationship since 2019 but I always pray for my marriage

[@guka-akf9356]

I loved when Lamb said, "Imagine me Subjecting you to my own finance - not allowing you to experience your own glory". Finances ruin a lot of relationships because couples don't like to have the talk or they don't have the talk. we think sometimes that by lying and hiding information about how much we earn and our sources of income, we are protecting ourselves - but in reality, we are subjecting our marriage to possible failure. This video is so helpful. this is such a problem with a lot of relationships. Sometimes women have to hide or lie about how much they earn just because they are afraid it will scare off guys - but a MAN should know his worth and such important subject must be discussed and disclosed to enable better planning to build stronger finances in the marriage.

[@susanwebb2337]

It takes a real mature man to love a woman enough to allow her to lead when it is necessary. I have seen relationships soar to great heights because the man never felt insecure about his woman earning more and being able to lead the family to success. I've also seen when men allow their EGOs to rule them and break a strong woman! CRAZY! Hats off to you Lamb (or hat turned) LOL. I am a new subbie - you guys are beautiful! Love when Continents connect (smile)

[@opizzi9818]

If alot of people that does not know anything before watch your videos, he or she will definitely know something... Honestly... You guys are peng together 💙

[@LG-kx8xl]

Very good advice: "love each other from where you are at now"! You're so right!

[@ayantundeidris207]

After work and stress in Lagos I just take out the stress with you guys ..keep me laughing

[@isiaqroqeebopeyemi8563]

Naija🇳🇬🇳🇬 guy's always have sweet mouth. Proudly naija🇳🇬🇳🇬

[@confidenceago8890]

Bro came with the Nigerian mentality..... That's how an educated Nigerian family blossoms. Weldon Lamb and keep being real... Ling is a beautiful and intelligent woman. You're both lucky to yourselves.

[@abdulsesay8122]

I am from Sierra Leone, i have never seen a Nigerian guys honest like you, all you said is reality, most relationships ends up by not giving a try, patients, most women put money or documentation first in there relationship, all i heard you said my brother please stay faithful and hold her tight, she is your real wife

[@sistasoul13]

You guys are awesome. I follow you on IG and was catching up on your vides. This conversation is awesome. We are an older couple and just married this year with 16 years in our bank. We are going through the process to bring him to the states from the Caribbean. We are so open and realistic about our finances. You are so on point. We don't believe in roles, it's a partnership. He loves to cook...I cook because I need to eat...lol.. love your chemistry. Continued peace and blessings to your marriage.

[@MwansaLishomwa]

Just came across this Couple today and what admiration I have. Am an African woman and I have learnt a lot from this video very wise words thank you

[@camelio10]

There was alot of wisdom in this video. I can see why she fell in love with him. Mentality is different to most western men

[@liseouellet7156]

What a beautiful couple you are! I’ve been listening to your chats and you both have inspiring me so much. I am a white Canadian woman and have been dating a Nigerian man online for 11 months now. I am going to Nigeria in a few weeks to meet my future husband, my best friend and the love of my life. Just watching the way you look at each other and the mutual respect is breath taken. I know that there might be challenges along the way but we will face them together. Thank you for sharing your journey.

[@foreverMandolorian]

I love you guys. This is beautiful. This conversation is very necessary if you're going into a serious relationship. Glad you brought this topic up. Can't wait for the day you have a million subscribers. It will happen.

[@LingandLamb]

Thank you so much. We appreciate your kind words and so glad you got something out of this! What other topics would you like to see us discuss?!?

[@obedgoodnews7684]

Hey guys am literally obsessed with you guys...would like to see a get to know us video of you guys.lots of love lovely couple ❤️❤️

[@Princessfaith_]

This video gave me a fresh perspective on marriage and finances

[@hajakamara7031]

Wow.... Congrats too ur new business Ling am so happy 4 you sweedy i love when people work together ♥️♥️♥️🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱

[@patdarn3628]

Thank you Lamb I really appreciated you saying us stay at homes moms have the ability to bring in great opportunities 🙌

[@justineb3670]

I really Love this two people I wish you guy's all the best Love from Sierra Leone ❤❤❤🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱

[@laurasilva3455]

So happy i found u guys!! You're now my FAMILY!😍😍 you both are a breathe of fresh air!!

[@TheAdrienne8585]

What is key in their relationship is they are not selfish. They live for we not I.

[@felixgyamerah5891]

Simply put...honesty saves time. Great piece!!

[@akinkunmilawal5919]

I love the “wetin happen part” , despite the fact that I just stumbled on your channel couple of days ago, there’s this soothing relief I get each time I watch any of your videos...great job guys 💜

[@chineloemmanuel3363]

I love you Ling and Lang, omo Yinka, you be true Naija, you both rock, and bring healing to so many lives. You can go into the ministry coz I see a lot of things you can do together in healing and therapy ministry, think about it. Your wife is a sweetheart 💕

[@davidmordi3117]

Despite their hilarity this couple is making a LOT of sense!!!👍🏿👍🏿

[@arlenefarrell1962]

Love these two people, watching all the way from our little island called Barbados, in the Caribbean. Lamb you are a wise man. I wish many young men heard you before entering a relationship with a woman. You support, love, respect, and never hestitate to let Ling knows and feel like the queen she is. Your humility is priceless.

[@afordford9679]

Bajan style

[@nicholaszulki770]

Very insightful guys. I love the way Ling looks at Lamb in concurrence with what he is saying. I love it!!!! Keep going guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@finetrust623]

WOW! Ling&lamb ..I just watched one of your video in particular ( How u met your wife) and that made me curious to know you better so I started checking your videos ... I never knew you're a musician even Ft Baddo ( Olamide) one of your song . U did concert with prisoners and a speech at UN conferences etc etc... the most touching is one of your song about Kirikiri that was on point . I'm proud of you and kudos to your wife as well been supportive. A Fan from Australia.

[@bernelee]

They are the realest couple I have ever seen on KZbin so far ❤️❤️. I really love the transparency.

[@LingandLamb]

Thank you. We love you and welcome to the Ling and Lamb Fam 🤍

[@davidadeyemi210]

Where in Connecticut are this couple. I loved both of them but, the wife; Ling is such a blessing.

[@fs1125]

Lamb is sooooooooo Nigerian I love it!

[@mariemclean7136]

Their words of wisdom are true. Bad planning affects relationships. Money also plays a big part in marriage and can also destroy it.

[@yuliannegesse6497]

I loved the honesty and this open conversation! Loved how Lamb explained the reason why women should work in the relationship! This is a very good conversation! Thank you for sharing it!

[@olusolapelumi6660]

Man it's so obvious you are gonna live a long life. I hope to be really fortunate